How Stuttering Affects My Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • ive been getting a bunch of emails asking how stuttering affects my relationships, so here’s that! let me know what else to talk about!

Комментарии • 74

  • @roy1701d
    @roy1701d 5 лет назад +12

    My stutter was a LOT like yours, when I was younger (I'm 51 now; it's taken me decades, but I've tamed my stutter quite a bit). As someone who feels your pain, frustration, and isolation, I just wanna give you a great big platonic commiserating hug.
    PS You'll find that certain someone, probably when you least expect it. Knowing how empathetic stutterers tend to be, I'm sure you have lots to offer. Hang in there! And keep making these vids. 🙂

  • @DeathAtARaveOfficial
    @DeathAtARaveOfficial 5 лет назад +17

    Our minds are too fast for words. Love u, girl. . Love all of us stutterers.

  • @sissam1722
    @sissam1722 5 лет назад +34

    Honey, it hurt so much when you said, you're probably gonna be single for the rest of your life😓I think...I'm almost pretty sure, you're gonna find your person for life😋
    Stay strong💪

  • @phillish2258
    @phillish2258 5 лет назад +14

    Im 20 and i stutter myself. The reason why I’m here is that I never really thought about searching for this topic on RUclips to see how others do. I can relate to everything in this video, including the way she speaks or handles the stuttering. Much love from Germany 🙆🏼‍♂️

    • @LifeWithAngee
      @LifeWithAngee 5 лет назад

      Phillish 🤩🤩🤩🤩 we are rock

    • @amvs-dxd2592
      @amvs-dxd2592 5 лет назад +1

      I never thought about searching this stuff up until recently too so I'm in the same boat

    • @gavincunningham6422
      @gavincunningham6422 4 года назад

      ❤❤

  • @paigeelizabeth331
    @paigeelizabeth331 5 лет назад +2

    I'm so happy to see other stutterers, especially women, be honest and open about what it means to stutter and how it can affect relationships. Absolutely love this and you!

  • @acornjohn2004
    @acornjohn2004 5 лет назад +12

    Only an imperfection makes a girl perfect! And you are perfect beauty!

  • @adamhughes7701
    @adamhughes7701 4 года назад +1

    Just thought i wud put in my 2 cents worth. I guarantee you will meet the right guy, no doubt in my mind. I have been a stutterer since age 9 and i have been with my current partner for 7 yrs. Genuine good ppl will always overlook a stutter. You are gorgeous and u seem like a really nice person. Wish you all the best from Sydney Australia

  • @al-besher7276
    @al-besher7276 5 лет назад +16

    7:20, That's not true at all, I am a male stutterer and I would absolutely love to go out with you if I got the chance to :)

  • @LifeWithAngee
    @LifeWithAngee 5 лет назад +4

    I have embarrassing moments in all my relationships especially dating but I never let it get the best of me....you will find someone that will accept you

  • @gavincunningham6422
    @gavincunningham6422 4 года назад

    Hey! I'm 19 and I've got a stutter. You are VERY brave! to post this! I've just subscribed because I wanna see more of your bravery.
    You aren't alone ❤❤❤
    Much love!!!

  • @cursedgarage740
    @cursedgarage740 4 года назад

    I know how you feel I stutter myself. I can relate so much. Even I dont have the courage to make a video of myself talking. You're honestly amazing.

  • @kennethlacroix5957
    @kennethlacroix5957 5 лет назад

    AWESOME VIDEOS PEOPLE WILL NEVER KNOW THE PAIN OF BEING A STUTTERER LIKE US WATCHING THESE AND OTHER VIDEO ABOUT STUTTERING MAKE ME FEEL OK ABOUT MINE I USED TO BE SAD I DIDN'T KNOW ANYBODY WHO STUTTERED LIKE ME BUT WATCHING THESE VIDS MAKES ME FEEL LIKE LIKE I'M NOT ALONE ANYMORE THANK YOU

  • @TNUni167
    @TNUni167 5 лет назад

    I love this video. You are so brave. Keep up the good work. Also respect the fact that you didnt edit this video and cut out certain parts where you stuttered the most.

  • @mandeeplohan6891
    @mandeeplohan6891 5 лет назад

    You are not alone dear. You will get someone special who will understand you. God made you beautiful like a supermodel. Always think about your strengths that you have forget the weaknesses .

  • @BikerMouse80
    @BikerMouse80 5 лет назад +20

    Some guys look beyond a stutter ;)
    Mine did 👍

  • @noobmasteryuckfou6223
    @noobmasteryuckfou6223 5 лет назад +1

    I stutter too and im smart guy with a good life confidence helps i understand what you guys are living in im a good looking guy and i have a hard time getting a relationship keep your head up it doesn’t define you much love and respect for you guys you guys are not alone.. and you my dear you are drop dead gorgeous i would take you out on a date anytime be strong 😘

  • @mikemaur3431
    @mikemaur3431 4 года назад

    Hi, Love isnt just loving your positives or abilities its beyond that, loving your negatives and being greatest support and loving you for just what you are is Love...
    I live in Melbourne, Australia...
    Be glad to meet up with you if can.
    I used to stutter since 4 i have overcome my stuttering....
    Would love to share my story..
    Keep well and stay positive ;)

  • @achen3685
    @achen3685 5 лет назад +1

    When it comes to that relationship, I think there is someone out there. Sure, there are many "frogs" types of people, but finding the one who really understands, supports / understands and loves you for who you are is rare. Patience is what it takes, you have a close friend who is there in every situation you say. But finding a partner, you will see, from what I can understand you seem genuine and nice person.

  • @Asubayah39
    @Asubayah39 5 лет назад +1

    New subscriber (actually thought I subscribed awhile ago but I guess not). It's great to see another video. You have a lot of courage to post these videos and the more you do, the better you will get I know it. I agree with what you said: For the most part people are understanding of our stuttering but there are those rude people who make us jaded towards all people. At least that's what it seems to be in my case. The best you can do is put yourself out there. If people don't like it, it's their fault.
    Anyway as for topics to discuss: I would like to hear what thoughts go through your mind (if any) when you are stuttering? Are you judgmental of yourself or just notice those thoughts are there and don't pay any mind to them? The mind is something I have been exploring in relation to my stuttering, so it'd be interesting to hear your thoughts on the subject. Keep up the great work, Cherry!

  • @silog8181
    @silog8181 5 лет назад +3

    U r very brave. I stutter too n this made me cry cus if you can do this video u can do anything.

    • @rawana7med
      @rawana7med 5 лет назад

      @stuttering. Liberation how 😭💔

  • @pfgch2001
    @pfgch2001 5 лет назад +1

    You are so beautiful and intelligent Cherry, i can't understand why your stuttering should affect your relationships. Keep strong and forget stupid persons who don't have the patience to hear you. Your stuttering don't affect your charm.

  • @aa0517748
    @aa0517748 4 года назад +1

    It’s hard.
    I have the same issue.
    It’s getting worst as I get older. 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @santaclaus179
    @santaclaus179 4 года назад

    my whole life I was stuttering , some days not so very bad and really it did not affect my life so much , I was working with international companies as executive and can speak 5 languages ( I am from Belgium but live now in Mexico ) and also never had problems with girls , they all did understand my problem , now I am 72 years old and retired , but still am working with several companies, still sometimes I have problems speaking but are not giving anymore attention to this , greetings from Mexico robert , yes I have to recognize that in my youth it did affect seriously my attitude to other people , but at 20 yrs old I stopped making me worried about it and until when I reached 45 yrs it ended slowly .

  • @basswillane7156
    @basswillane7156 4 года назад

    Don’t people’s stop from being yourself 💯

  • @lindseyh21
    @lindseyh21 5 лет назад

    You should totally do a ‘best friend’ video!!

  • @pestolerogames2644
    @pestolerogames2644 5 лет назад +4

    Talk about reading and show us how you read

  • @8.4.8.2
    @8.4.8.2 5 лет назад +1

    You are beautiful, inside and outside!

  • @stevesaff3559
    @stevesaff3559 5 лет назад +3

    Reading!!!!!
    Better yet: 🌟🌟Livestream!!🌟🌟

  • @michaelowies7084
    @michaelowies7084 4 года назад

    It Broked my heart 💔 sorry but I'm trying to raise my awareness by looking at different perspectives but I guess we all go through the same stuff

  • @aaaron1881
    @aaaron1881 2 года назад

    How did you deal with bullying when you were younger?

  • @dh8460
    @dh8460 5 лет назад +1

    Love your videos keep up good work

  • @nspector
    @nspector 5 лет назад +1

    Hi! At 4:52 was that you writing Ws for "world"?? It looked kind of like that, but I'm not sure. Were you aware of doing that if so?

  • @vladimircornak4400
    @vladimircornak4400 3 месяца назад

    Single for rest of the life?
    You must be joking
    You're beautiful human being and that you suffer from stutter you're not alone.I do suffer from stutter too and I learnt to live life with it.
    I have very good coach and my stutter is 40% less better since I am doing my daily exercises.Get in touch with me

  • @inspirationalVideoChannel
    @inspirationalVideoChannel 4 года назад +1

    I have self cured my Stammering by 95% by doing some breathing exercises
    Plz advise if need some tips

  • @jenni3913
    @jenni3913 5 лет назад +1

    Awesome video 😊❤️

  • @MaryPhamCandy
    @MaryPhamCandy 5 лет назад +2

    You are beautiful!

  • @rubylovesmakeuphalloween
    @rubylovesmakeuphalloween 2 года назад

    New subbie!! I have a youtube channel too, this is exciting! Just came across your channel 😊 I stutter too

  • @reactionqueenboss2001
    @reactionqueenboss2001 9 месяцев назад

    Yup me too!!!!!

  • @ga3farali649
    @ga3farali649 5 лет назад +1

    Stuttering has 100%negativity I have no idea what's the benefit from it ,just it let people look at us with pity:(

  • @rawana7med
    @rawana7med 5 лет назад +1

    did u using starfish project?

  • @loushackelford728
    @loushackelford728 5 лет назад

    With my Stuttering I have dislikes people do or say to me. I have 6 what are the top dislikes, and I want to know what your top dislikes what people say and do? Maybe you can make a video about what not to say or do to a stutter. Your comment of maybe being single the rest of your life, I use to think that. I have been married to a wonderful and caring woman for 25 years. Their is someone who is deserving of a wonderful person as yourself

  • @nspector
    @nspector 5 лет назад +1

    Also, but Pringles aren't single! They're all packed into each other, or........maybe spooning. :o

  • @rihabhs1876
    @rihabhs1876 5 лет назад

    You are brave and beautiful 💕💕💕💕💕 i stutter too

  • @सुनैंनाजैंन
    @सुनैंनाजैंन 5 лет назад +2

    U r very beautiful
    Love from India 🇮🇳

  • @AhmondSiglerCEO
    @AhmondSiglerCEO 2 года назад

    Hello my name Ahmond I’m from royal oak Michigan single man 29 years old I’m a model/actor/rapper and I have been stuttering all my life so I no what u are going thru.

  • @terrytarver690
    @terrytarver690 4 года назад

    I don't stutter and I'm certain I'm shallow enough to look right past it girl... Lol... You'll be fine.

  • @santaclaus179
    @santaclaus179 4 года назад

    fi you have real friends as I had, then you feel great being with them, yes I understand that it is better to avoid nasty people , kisses robert

  • @violetka1197
    @violetka1197 5 лет назад

    cherry you are so beatiful.............no matter for this thing..

  • @AhmondSiglerCEO
    @AhmondSiglerCEO 2 года назад

    👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @merriettagirl
    @merriettagirl 5 лет назад +1

    LOL Happy Halloween!!!!

  • @jablonmusic4570
    @jablonmusic4570 5 лет назад

    You have my admiration and keep working on yourself. I stammered and stammered since I was 4. I went upstream of my fear and did what I was most afraid of, namely speaking, stuttering and speech. I started a few years ago as a moderator, DJ, actor on both television and theater. It works, it wants to articulate and practice a lot. Already in the video I see that breathe badly, neotviras correctly mouth at words. Articulation and breathing training is important and the brain is reprogrammed. If you are interested in learning something, join our facebook group called MCV Motivation Fear Stutters facebook.com/groups/796290930516415/ Good luck. Your DJ Bjali

  • @alifnajmi1997
    @alifnajmi1997 5 лет назад

    I want to know if you Stuttering more than ever if you Read a book

  • @santaclaus179
    @santaclaus179 3 года назад

    dont see any reason why you are saying that you will be single for the rest of yr life, stuttering does not to do anything with love , when I was young I had a lot of girlfriend and not a singe one of them told me that I had a problem , so keep motivated . a real man does not take into care that you have a problem a real man looks at other things , beauty , personality , kindness, etc etc

  • @christinaanderson642
    @christinaanderson642 2 года назад

    I'll be your friend

  • @jeffwikenczy7796
    @jeffwikenczy7796 5 лет назад +1

    Video ideas? I notice most of your videos are about stuttering. Just make “regular” videos: makeup tutorials, shopping hauls, product reviews, stuff you want to talk about, just whatever. Your stutter can be your gimmick, so to speak, it doesn’t have to define you or your channel. Keep that in mind and good luck.

  • @sank2870
    @sank2870 5 лет назад

    Awesome

  • @fd-hj1wl
    @fd-hj1wl 5 лет назад

    U strong 💪

  • @messedup6360
    @messedup6360 5 лет назад

    You are so beautiful ;) we stuttering tribe need to find a land and settle there. It fucking hurts :(

  • @jaykumawat6074
    @jaykumawat6074 5 лет назад

    So beautiful you sound 😎 keep't up

  • @henryteye7005
    @henryteye7005 3 года назад

    New subscriber here..

  • @justsayin5110
    @justsayin5110 5 лет назад +1

    Tbh i see stuttering is an advantage to girls. It makes them cute. I stutter myself and I’m not afraid of it like I used to. Im just too old for this shit lol