Why IT’S DIFFICULT for the
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Insight on why it’s so difficult for the narcissist to make it without you.
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It is difficult for the Narcissist to make it without you because they need your help and support because they are always struggling. When you were in their life they took you for granted because they thought you would always stick around. They turned everyone against you and made you out to be a horrible person who treated them wrong so they could protect their false image of a good person. They played a superior role.
EXACTLY 💯
Well said!
Wow this is so true!!
Absolutely true
I love this comment.
Yup we are treated like trash but we are treasure!!!
What other way is the Devil supposed to treat you? That's who they are!
babyj3535 remember this our precious sister ! Our warrior Queen from heaven ❤️ OUR 5 SENSES ARE NOT 🗑 🗑 🚮 TRASH CANS... we don't want to SEE that trash!! we don't want to SMELL that trash! We don't want to HEAR that trash! We don't want to TOUCH that trash! and we definitely don't want to TASTE that trash!! STAY STRONG 💪 ✨️ STAY SAFE 💪 ✨️ STAY HARD 💪 ✨️ NO CONTACT IS REQUIRED!! EARTH ANGEL 😇 YOU CAME DOWN FROM HEAVEN LIKE RAIN!! SEE YOU SOON!! GOD BLESS YOU AND OUR FAMILY TOO 🙏 ❤️
Sad truth
You ain’t speaking nothing but the TRUTH sis!
Once we leave that bird 🦅 never go back! GOD has something better for us waiting on the other side 🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾
Father Gods going to exceed our dreams Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏🏾
My nex got stuck with someone just like him😂 I heard she tries to sleep with all his friends😂 Karma is real. Our discard is the nightmare that plays over and over again in his head. He thought my energy was replaceable! Now he’s stuck with the low vibing energy he’s been putting out. Goodluck to him✌️🙏
Same thing mines did, he got stuck with 2 see my Narc had 3 women at the same time, right when I discovered the lady whom which was older than me I backed up and just watched it play out he ended up getting a baby on her that new supply she bipolar and got low to floor self esteem and that baby mama is bipolar and she blast him and the new supply of social media… I escaped a death wish, He got a lot going on, I’m so Thankful I got away…lol He showed his natural butt now he stuck and she is too 18 years of child support 800.00 a month child support 😂🤣🤣🤣 Only thing his 14 year old daughter loves me and I love her, I had too let her go to save myself Whewww 🙈🙈
lol
@@loumm960 oh man. I’m so sorry for the daughter and you for having to let her go too. This is spiritual warfare!! The only way to win with these narcs is to withdraw from the games! Let them reap what they sow! God shielded us! Amen🙏
@@mama_maylee absolutely God protects us and removes us so the law of reciprocity can have it’s way…He living in hell everyday and he got just what he deserved a nest with 2 birds🤣😜
@@mama_maylee I blocked my ex children dad, but the kids always brings the phone somebody wants to talk to you and we end up taking so now it's block & delete
You always make perfect sense... The greatest lesson that I've learned after being raised by a Narcissist Mother, and then married to a Narcissist husband is not everyone that I lose is a loss. And, their rejection is a blessing, and God's protection.
Aaaàmen
LOSING THE DEVIL IS THE BIGGEST GAIN!
@@Jamie-lb7eh Amen Sister...
Myself also
Yes!
The Narc hit me up on social media from a new page because I blocked his others..He informed me that he had a mini stroke lost his job 2 of his dogs died and he need a caregiver..I told him call the other chick and blocked him.GOD IS GOOD AMEN.Mean while I divested moved to iowa with my 3 kids we are happy in our new condo I start my new cna job literally tomorrow..Your page and lives help me push forward because I was in a bad place when we first broke up..BUT IM BOYS TO MEN SINGING VOICE..IM DOING JUST FINE 🎶🎶❤TRUELY
This was so cruel but so pleasing to my soul at the same time…the new supply is never around when they need something
"There ain't no sunshine when she's gone "
Omg n he played this song all the time !confirmation
I was told my ex Narc completely broke down and cried and destabilized. He told me to get my broke down car off his property and when I did it was lights out for him! He was raging and breaking down in front of all his family members at a party. Now they are confused because of the smear campaign and now he is trying to hoover at the same time.
#NarcFree
#ClanofCrows
The devil was really busy in that bird sis and I’m glad you got away!
God is so good for saving us 🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾
Get away from that Devil!
You deserve BETTER!
These people are delusional 🙄 🤦 😒 💀
Dam clown 🤡🤡🤡
All this is truth. I know he will never find another me. A person like me comes once in a lifetime.
When he discarded me, he admitted that he was confused and had so much on his mind. I didn’t understand that, since he was the one who left.
He even said, “I hope she treats her next man better than she treated me.” What the what? He’s a foolish man.
But come to find out, he told my sister he should have stayed in his marriage and been miserable. How the heck is he miserable when he had everything ?
That’s a WHOLE BIRD! I SAID IT. 😆
i agree once a lifetime
Delusional
You are right she told me she can't live without me i don't want her no more iam doing good without her when I was with her I stayed stressed sick anxiety why would you wanna go back to that plus stayed broke now I keep money in my pocket
right
Yes, the narc squared up on me, ready to fight! I told him to get out. Then he had the nerve to say, "How did we get here?" Wtf??? 😂 He still lives with his mom. Any relationship lands him back at his mom's house. Even she moved and hid from him once he got married years ago.
🤣🤣🤣
Super empaths. "We can see you DEVIL! -> Narcissists.
I know for a fact that this is true.
The ex narc literally said " I can't live without you " and still calls from private numbers.
Three months free - he has a new supply and I’ve finally found MYSELF again and a level of peace I’ve not had in years. Thanks f he hoovers this time it’ll be easy to keep NC. My life is better.
It’s nothing my ex narc can say or do to make me go back to him
Same here. He abandoned me while I was three months pregnant. Said he didn’t want a baby. We go to child support court next week and I get a feeling he will be changing his tune.
@@jammiewitherspoon1111 wow I pray everything works in your favor…you got this!!
THESE ARE DEMONS!!! THEY HATE GOD 24/7 AND ME. I LOVE GOD SO MUCH. I NEVER IMAGINED HOW SOMETHING OUT OF A WOMAN Z WOMB CAN BE SO EVIL.
AINT that something like you said Sis we gave our best all for them to turn around and give their worst
🤦🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️😈💯
🤣This is straight up GOSPEL TRUTH🔥Pray for our “enemies”, but train for this battle bc it’s real ya’ll. NO ONE OWNS YOU BUT THE MOST HIGH LIVING GOD!! He fights our battles and while we rest, He readies our hands for spiritual war (Psalms 18)!! ❤️🔥🕊️🔥🔥🔥🕊️❤️🔥
Pray for the tormented soul that the demonic is deceiving though…you never know, sometimes they see the power of God and actually turn to Him….however, God will send them other believers - they don’t need access to you. But for those that have made agreements with the darkness, all I can say is avoid such people. Straight up flee them and avoid them - avoid certain familiar spirits PERIODT!!
Hello sister Telsha, you are a 100% right about everything you said. Before I listen to your message I hit that like button because I know you are going to bring the Truth I'm going through this now. I have learned a lot from you and I am so grateful to God for bringing me to this tribe!
I want more ppl hit the Like button & Share !
This Lady is A Blessing !!
Let's keep them # up!!!
This hit home! Exactly what I needed to hear today as he will not let up that I am trash and worth nothing (despite several hoovers to be his friend which I reject) I was thinking I was treated the worst in the entire world.... Thank you so much for helping turn that table. Makes sense. Love you lady 😘😘🌹🙏
i got the friend request too but refused it.. wrong one too bad he didn't get the memo.. I'm nice but i don't play games with this back and forth everyone from his family to my Narciss tic family about to see
@@teresagarcia2313 if we are such trash and treated them so bad, then it makes no sense to ask us to be friends. If it weren't for these videos I might have been so desperate for some kind of closure/contact that I was deprived of in the discard and accepted those breadcrumbs for control. So thankful for these videos 🙏❤️
@@teresagarcia2313 wowww friend request😳desperate
It's a AMAZING the things you say 😵💫🔥
You definitely know this is spiritual🧐
Everything you said is 1000000% SPOT ON💯🔥
Lord I know my ex Narc is struggling! I had to realize that the Narc did nothing but take! I just pray for their deliverance, because knowing that they are headed for the pits smh is sad BUT it’s their choice. I bet I start thinking logically versus emotionally.
They can and do mistake a borderline female for the perfect new grade A supply.. This is where things get wild 😳😂.
Narc Free Praise God This Bird Was Cheating On Me With His Scarecrow Neighbor Which He Made His Main Boo She Looks Horrible I Then Got Offended But I Remembered Sis Tea Video That They Do That On Purpose They Are Each Other's Karma Am Glad To Be Free From That Hot Mess Never Looking Back
Hit the Like Button Lady Tea!!! You taught me my value 2yrs ago. His family did know he was garbage. I GHOSTED them All. I Dont care what happened to that fool, I said No and meant it.
yeh the family knew and tried to get rid of him, but it probably backfired on them idk and don't car
I have had a driving force in me since 2021and the urgency that Christ is returning. I urge everyone to prepare to do you!! Excess baggage will drag you down.
This was such a powerful message. All of them are and have been a true blessing. I’m so grateful for you and your continuous words of encouragement. 🥰😘
Thanks Ms. Telsha ❤️ You are speaking the Truth, once you know who they are, leave... don't ever look back.💯💯
I'm so done I'll never take him back never
That word LEAVE is so powerful.
I really appreciate your drive to educate us on this Topic.
Sista Tea, God made you a POWER HOUSE
When it comes to your knowledge about these backward walking graphs🦒 with combat boots👢👢 and wobbly legs. Yesss I said it!! 😁 I'm loving how your videos just keep getting better and better
All Glory to the Most High God, in Jesus Mighty name Amen
too funny sister
@@teresagarcia2313 😂
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good to hear from you today. Thank you for a great thought invoking insightful message!
You inspire me so much, glad to be a pert of your community. God pushed me to your page and you know you stuff about narcissist. I love the comments on gerraffs or rinos , lol you’re on point100. %
They grew with your light and the ego got big thinking they can do this thing called life without you …. O boy were they wrong now they try to find the same replacement or want you back but it’s hard cuz duhhhh it’s hard for everybody good people are rare!
Ready for a good word Sis Telsha!❤❤❤❤
That's why she bust his window out on the driver side ... I wonder what happened there he died rest in peace that was after I discarded him for 50 days🌷🙏🏿🌷
Thank You for speaking the truth!Love ya sister!
He even said to me once, “Why is it so hard for me to get over you?” I don’t know if that has something to do with it? He doesn’t love me because he is a narcissist!
Great video! Even though I’ve not been aware of her feelings, I know she had “grade A” supply for fifteen years. My boundary is “no contact”, and truthfully, I just want to hear that she repented before she expires.
I'm know what you are saying everything in your story is like mine except the relationship time (14 years total but 12 years of addiction ship false marriage ) and gender
@@teresagarcia2313 A false marriage same thing happened to me
SISSSSSTER !!!!! Praise to you !!!!!!! this Video was IT!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU !!!!! THANKS !!!!!!!
This message is spot on. Demonic entity.
That’s Exactly what Happened 😂
The Discard Was A Big Smile In Your Face!! Loudly I’m Married!!!But We Can Still Be Friends 😮The Disrespect, And You Just Tried To Downplay Me, Your Wife Must Be Sitting With You 😂😂😂😂😂
He became elusive and i discarded that Narc. He claimed to have been so mistreated during his life. But turn around and try to cheat on me. Im so much happier and peaceful. 😊TGBTG
The back burner isn’t there for that. My ex married his mistress and she is the right one!!!! Oh yes he is reaping and sowing. She put all these happy couple pictures on Facebook, it is a circus. A family member visited and stepped on a slice of pizza 🍕 on the living room floor. I use to hire a housekeeper, he complained all the time so I know what his mind is going through.
I was Grade A+++!
GOOD AFTERNOON MRS TELSHA 💖💖 U NAILED IT QUEEN ON SO MANY LEVELS... U ARE RIGHT ABOUT ONE THING THEY WILL NEVER FIND ANOTHER ME.. ITS ONLY ONE LEANDRA HERRING.. NOW CASH THAT ON THE NEW SUPPLY 😂😂LOVE YOU QUEEN ❤️❤️
GOOD AFTERNOON TO YOU OUR WARRIOR SISTER LEANDRA HERRING!! ❤️ 💙 FIRST OF ALL! ALL MY WARMTH!! ALL MY LOVE!! YOU ARE A BIG PIECE TO THE PUZZLE OF MY HEART!!❤️ 💙 AND YOUR ABSOLUTELY 💯 RIGHT THERE IS ONLY ONE LEANDRA HERRING AND SHE IS OUR WARRIOR SISTER ❤️ 💙 OF QUEEN TEA'S FAMILY!! SOOOOOOOO POWERFUL YOU ARE AND SOOOOOOOO BLESSED ARE WE WITH YOUR PRESENCE AND STRENGTH!! 🙌 😇 🙏 GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 🙏 💖 LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😘 ❤️ AND STAY STRONG 💪 ❤️ STAY HARD 💪 ✨️ STAY SAFE 💪 ✨️ SEE YOU SOON!!
@@timothysparrey8688 AWW I LOVE Y'ALL TOO YALL ARE MY HEART AND SOUL THE BEST IS YET TO COME ❤️❤️ YOU ARE MY FAMILY ❤️❤️ YALL WHAT KEEPS ME PUSHING FORWARD.. I THINK GOD FOR YALL WE ARE KINGS AND QUEENS NEVER FORGET WHO YOU ARE 💖💖 FAMILY LEANDRA JUST GETTING STARTED MY PAIN IS MY PEACE ❤️❤️ LOVE YALL ❤️❤️🔥💯
So true. My ex narc would discard me and then text me 1-2 days later saying that he don’t know if he made the right decision to let me go.
Yep my narc said he will never leave me. They have a love hate relationship with you.
VERRRRRRY TRUE MESSAGE! THANK YOU SIS TELSHA ! MAY GOD BLESS YOU 🙌🙏❤💖
That's YOUR POWER!
Gr8 work Telsha, everyday and especially on Thursday nights !!!!!!
What an outstanding job ***
❤❤❤
Catching playback🙌🏾💞
Nothing but truth from Telsha!!!!!
You are speaking facts- The N-ex told me I was his sunshine & that his life and happiness is soooo different without me. No positivity to balance out their internal negativity without the Grade A supply. 🆗
Telsha always bringing it 💯 ❤❤❤
indeed it's true.
like a grasshopper 🦗 we are the ants great message praise the lord Jesus
thank you for the message Queen T
Happy Sunday Everyone ✋🙌
His family was so hapoy that i helped him during and after his major surgery. I was told that he wont discuss me at all, gets upset and irate. Good riddance. 😊😂TGBTG
Lies all the time
It can be difficult when you have children with them
Amen Sis...praise God we are blessed y free in Jesus🧡🕯🙏🏼🕊
" The family members knows that narcissist is a whole Pigeon. They Know, They Know........"😂😂😂. I love that part
Yes yes yes I pulled that plug🔌🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🐦🤥🥺
Girl u are spot on girl. Iv been with mine for 20yrs.
It makes sense I always knew the narcissist got me pregnant on purpose which he denied
Much love and respect 💯💯💯💯💯💯💥💯💯💯💯💯
thank you you made a difference in my life
Oh my goodness Lady Telsha 😍. You drove right up to my door with this One. The only difference is this is what is going on with a Narccistic relative who released that they lost full control over my life in 2019, and I'm not referring to my ex-Narc husband either!!! (I meant realized), not (released).And may I add you are right on again about the phone calls I keep getting on my land-line phone.
Wow. Telsha. Great video and great class 👀 ❤🙏 Thank you so much 🙏
All the emotions we feel: anger, betrayal, whatever it may be - all comes from us discovering we were withh a mentally ill person. It's very awkward and honestly embarrassing. We don't really know how to process that information. At least not upfront. But it's life. People make mistakes. we learn and grow and become greater people.
My nex frequently told me he continually felt inadequate in multiple areas…and I’d counter that with truth of who The Most High says he is… I gave and gave and gave and was called not genuine when I called out the absence of his reciprocity.
now I’m gone from him permanently.
I threw pearls to swine and nex tore me up! Repaid good with evil.
I let God and myself down. Almighty clean my heart!
Beautiful confirmation ⚘️
The last minute of this video is soooo strong! Thank you for this!
WOMAN!!!! This helped me! You just described my ex. He lives with a women in another city in less than 90 days. Yet trying to Hoover me! Thank you for this video
I offered character and stability, humour, kindness, and intellectual stimulation. I also showed mighty strength when I walked out that door after witnessing a 'psychotic break' that shocked me - goodbye Narcissist.
I tried with you and found it could not work, now you you must make it work for you.
Chow.
His side of the family wanted to know where I came from where he met me. They ask me what I found in him?
EXCELLENT MESSAGE!!!🙏🙏❤️❤️
Exactly - great words & message..
They act like it was nothing on social media..spoke to the narcs mom and she said he said it’s “weird now”
My friends mother was gossiping to her granddaughter’s about me, I was buying gifts 🎁 purchasing gifts, desserts for the mother, I had no idea that woman had a black balling me. My friend was super nice to me, but she was apart of the campaign too. I finally got away.
Thank you i needed to hear this i always watch you keep schooling us Ms Trica
There is only one of you grade A you are uniquely made
I'm 👏 hitting 👏 the 👏 like 👏 button, 👏 because 👏 you 👏 are👏 1000% 👏 RIGHT!!! 🎯 💯
Yes, Yes, Yes… so much truth. Thank you girl❤
Hello ❤️ Telsha! GOD BLESS, I LOVE THESE LITTLE CAR VIDEOS!! LOL
I love your light! You bring an instant joy to sad things. ❤Stay safe
Yes yes glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Blocked, Block
And Have Never Peeped Back 😂😂 Keep Them Doors and Windows Closed
Don’t, Worry About Them Bums Everyone Gets Their Day 🤲🏽May Not Be When We Want 😂But Please Believe, Every Dog Has It Day ‼️🤷🏽♀️ in due time 👀
Thank you blessing ❤🙏🙏🙏🔥my God keep blessing you
Great enlightenment, thanks ❤️✌🏾🙏🏽
Amen, Sister
You are not Lying
Thumbs up like already cause I'se "rocks with my gurl," Ms. Telsha! Missed most recent Thursday Night Lers Get Deep Session. Replay I'm sure is 💯🔥!
You are 110pct T. the brother was like where did you meet? He was very shocked..
We are not on social media. Only think we have is email, text & phone. We don't have the same friends. My family is 5 hours away never met her..I met her family. One brother told me "Now that your family, etc." MY ex made & sent me a video stating Mom Loves You & says You're a Keeper! I took care of Mom when she would visit.
Mom told me a few times I need to take you home with me. She saw how well I treated & took care of her daughter, who BTW suffers from Bi Polar and low self esteem!
Only we have in common is 2 grocery stores we both shop at. I look for vehicle in the lot b4 I park & shop.
So I'm not worried about a smear campaign.
One of the best examples in this topic is Amber Heard- Johnny Depp. The smear campaign against Johnny was ridiculously too much because stupid Amber is so bitter about what she lost. Narcissists are really stupid creatures, they don't think because of their stupid impulse.
Hello hello 👋
100% Facts, Shonuff!!
Thank you❤️❤️❤️