I'm glad I married a husband that understands me. If there's something I'm not able to do, he does it. If there's something he's unable to do, I do it. I don't feel like cooking, he cooks. We help each other do chores in the house. We are each others backbone.
Many women need to think like this woman! Its time hmong woman are opening their eyes and become smarter. We are not slaves for our in laws. We have so much potential but we allow ourselves to fall behind in life bc we want to put our husband first. We need to focus on ourselves. We don’t need a husband, want just want a husband. At the end, no one will be there for you but yourself. Not even your family or his family. We need to be the change, fellow hmong wives.
Everything said in this video is very true and I agree with everything. Its embarrassing that dudes act this way when they dont realize they have a wonderful wife. Insecurity from anyone is not attractive and only leads to unwanted attention. You are smart and have logic when dealing with your ex- husband's family. When you're with someone you feel entitled to them which isn't what you wanted so you chose to stay friends with your childhood friend. Good story.
I’m glad you made the right decision for you despite unsupportive parents. You know what’s best for you and you’re the one living this life with him! Thanks for sharing your story.
Tus muam aw...., tiam 21 no cov txiv zoo li koj tus ces yog cov tuag lawm tiamsis zoo li lub plawv tseem ua pa xwb. Tsis yog tag ntsho txiv neej hmoob os.
I truly love this story... its true about our Hmong men. They need to change their ways of thinking about their wife and how society has changed. Cherries and honor and respect their wife... everyone is equal in the us....
Kuv lub neej kuv yeej pom li tus niam tsev no hais kuv thiaj txiav txim siab nyob li nws nyob tsis yuav txiv ntxiv.. tsis muaj tus txiv nyob kaj siab lug...
Kuv mloog koj mas koj hais yeej yog thiab zoo tab sis koj qhov coj yuav tau pauv yog koj coj li koj ces ua siab nyob ib leeg zoo dua txhob mus cob lwm tus li koj nej cov xib fwb lub qe yeej muaj ntsis tsws lwj
Kuv pab tu siab rau peb poj niam Hmoob, yuav txog thaum twg nej mam hlub nej tus kheej. Txoj kev pauv yuav tsis yog los ntawm cov txiv neej Hmoob, yuav yog tshwm sim los ntawm peb cov poj niam. Tau 40 lawm kuv tseem tsis tau pom tias peb Hmoob txiv neej xam pom tias txij nkawm yog equally partner and 50/50 to create a happy family
Don't fear marriage because of a bad past experinece. Not everyone is the same. Not all men or women are the same. You have to understand that you have to continue living life at your best.
tu siab ntau rau koj, ncaj cov txiv siab tsis zoo xwb. ncaj li peb cov siab zoo no poj niam tseem thov hauj lwm ua es kom tus txiv ho so me ntsi es cia tus niam ua ib nrab thiab
You’re truly empowering! Wish I could be as courageous like you. Everything you said about Hmong men are DEFINITELY true; degrading, disrespectful, deceitful and selfish.
Tus me viv ncaug, tsi yog koj txw os, koj yeej hais yog kawg, thiab yuav kom peb cov ntxhais tsi txhob raug tsim txom los ntawm cov txiv uas coj li koj hais ko mas peb yuav tsum txhob sau nqi ntxhais lawm, yog sib yuav ces ob tog sib pab txhawb kom tas rooj tshoob xwb. Thiaj raug Hmoob lo lus tias kuv tsa kuv tub yim, koj tsa koj ntxhais neej thiab, qhov no txiv neej thiaj tsi muab xav tias lawv poob nyiaj muas txoj sia yog lawv li lawv yuav tsuj los tau thiab yuav tsum ua qhev nkag kaws kom pauj lawv cov nyiaj yuav li tus tsiaj. 😭😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩
Not all men are the same. Same thing for women. There are some well respected people out there and all you need to do is do your research on the person of interest. People cannot hide their darkness forever so 1-2 years is good enough to know who they really are. If you really choose to live on your own then it is all good. We men are searching for good partners as well but I must admit that it is not easy either. Good luck folks!
Yog xav qhov koj hai kos ces yeej tsi ntsawg txiv neej li os. Qhov yuav ces kom tebchaw saib tau yus xwb os ntuj aws xav txog qhov cem yus thiab nyiam noj ib hnub 3 pluag ces xav tsa chij li koj hai xwb
Peb cov hmoob ces phem li ntawd mas leej twg nrauj los yeej tias tham tau hluas nraug, hos peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces coj niag cwj pwm tsis pab poj niam li ntawd es niam no peb cov ntxhais hmoob thiaj khiav mus yuav lwm haiv neeg tas li ntag vim kwm haiv neeg lawv yeej pab poj niam dua peb cov txiv neej hmoob.
Marriage is a beautiful thing that God created for us. If you get married and your spouse changes and you don’t get along then it’s you yourself that is not right. Don’t blame it on the title of marriage. Two should become one. I can say that to be with someone and be having sex with them and not be married means the guy doesn’t love or respect you enough to marry you and instead is just using you.
You nailed it. We women can live without men for longer periods or forever but men can't live without us women. The sad thing is even that they still can't treat their wife with respect and dignity maybe it's the dowry that they paid when they married us. LOL! How about us women start paying for them or give us for free and see how the situation is. Anyway glad you are happy in your situation but remember it's better to be loved than never been loved at all so I hope eventually you will find the love you waiting for.
tu me viv ncau koj yeej yog ib tu neeg ntse kawg koj cov lu koj hai ko yeej muaj tseeb yeej tsi muaj ib lo yuam kev hlo li kuv lo yeej xav ib yam li koj hai ko thiab peb yug lo ua hmoob ce zoo rau cov txiv neej xwb tsi zoo rau peb cov poj niam hlo li
cas nej cov pojniam pom meskas hlub nej li cas lawv xav siv nej xwb peb txiv hmoob xav siv nej peb twb paub hlub thiab ne pojniam hmoob txhob ruam os lawv xav tsoob nej ces lam ua li hlub2 koj xwb
Peb cov ntxhais hmoob raug qhuab qhia kom coj tus cwj pwm uas mus yuav txiv lawm ces laus, tsis zoo, mag muag, thiab tag nqi. Vim li ntawd lawv thiaj muab lawv tus kheej li self-image mus lo rau lawv tus txiv. Lawv thiaj xav tias yog lawv tus txiv muaj npe ces lawv tau ua niam muaj npe es lawv thiaj khwv nkag kaws seb puas muaj lub npe. We need to teach our sons & daughters differently, that they are their own individual with their own God’s given value and purpose in life to pursue and to become, if we want to end this cycle of wickedness in our community. Poj niam hmoob coob tus yeej taug txoj kev no. lawv tau taug vim yog lawv cia thiab lawv kam taug. Lawv tsis pom lawv muaj nqis, lawv tsis xav tias lawv muaj peev xwm, lawv tsis muaj ciaj cia (boundaries), lawv tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab tias txaus (no definiteness), lawv siv qhov tias uv thiab kav liam los qhib qhov rooj rau lawv tus txiv tsuj caij lawv. Vim tib qho tias muaj npe ces yog lub neej zoo, txawm tias tom tsev yuav kub nyhiab lwj kas.
You are so right, sister, we, women work too hard and men doesn't seem and appreciate us women! We, women are better off without them, men. Stay by yourself and with your children is better.
Txiv neej hmoob ces 99.9% yeej nyob qhaib tes taw nws qhov hauj lwm ces yog tom company nkaus xwb.....poj niam ces hauj lwm company hauv tsev yog poj niam tas nrho
hais rau nej cov poj niam hmoob kav tsij muab nej cov txiv nrauj es los ua poj nrauj nawb ..ua poj nrauj mas lom zem thiab tsis khwv li os cov viv ncaus nrauj nej cov txiv es los peb ua poj nrauj nawb
Good for u sister. I like your mentality. If u don't desperately need a man, then more power to u. Good luck and best wishes to u. U are a very strong woman with strong mentality and beliefs. U don't need a man.
Kuv yog ib tug tibneeg los kuv twb paub nej cov pojnrauj txoj kev xav lawm es nej thiaj li nyob taus lub neej zoo li ko, hos ntawm peb txivneej Hmoob mas tsawg2 tus thiaj li nyob taus lub neej li nej cov pojnrauj, yog peb tsis muaj tus pojniam ces peb zoo li 1 niag txiv dev lojleeb es peb thiaj li yuav tsum nrhiav kom muaj tus pojniam los nrog yus ua 1 lub neej.
My job requires a lot of OT. I'm blessed to have a spouse that trusts me. Sister, I pray you find your soulmate. Life will be so much more peaceful-er.
Lub neej dhuav siab tsis kaj siab ces yog vim tau tus neeg hais lus tsis sib totaub xwb mas koj kuv rau ib sab khau xwb os yus mus tsis tau qhov twg li vim txoj kev txiv siab me xwb mas
Ua cas nej cov txawj ntse es pheej npav sib nrauj tag li xwb nas nej cov hluas nim no cas yuav coj txawv ua luaj li ua Tsis ib tug qauv rau tej niam tej txiv zoo siab li nab
Love this woman’s way of thinking! I wish I am as courageous as her. I agree with everything she said about how Hmong men treat women like slaves and they are still very ungrateful. It’s better to just have a friend by your side than a husband that acts like a child. It’s already hard enough to take care of our kids, we don’t need to deal with a bigger baby.
Txiv neej txhua tus yeej muaj qhov doubt rau nws tus poj niam tsam tham hluas nraug nyob hauv nkawv lub neej daily. Yog nws tus poj niam tau ua rau nws poob siab tsem tsawv txog qhov nws muaj doubt ntawv lawm ces nws yeej document rau hauv nws siab zais ntshis. Thaum qhov zais ntshis ntawv tshwm sim tuaj lawm ces tus txiv yuav tsum nog txim rau tus niam ntag. Nyob rau case no ces tus poj niam yeej tau ua rau tus txiv tsis ntseeg nws. Yog nws tau tus txiv ntse dua nws ces nws thiaj xav hwm vim nws tsis compatible rau leej twg li.
Kuv agree nrog koj kuv tsis paub tias ua cas peb cov poj niam es tej tug niag twb vau doj vau de lawm los tseem mus yuav txiv thiab kuv tsis to taub cov poj niam no li ua cas yuav xav yuav txiv ua luaj
Me tus, it's ok. We have to do our best with the cards life has dealt us. U were born in a condition that was beyond ur control. Dont regret life too much. Your life is what YOU make of it! YOU have control of your future, live to the fullest. Let the past go. You can make your own memories in tour life as time goes by. Take the lessons u have been through n make better, wiser decisions, that's it. Good luck!
poj niam hmoob aw txhob qhuas2 txiv mes kas nawb,txiv mes kas qhov zoo ces yog nws tus mub tog plis loj2 xwb tab sis phem tshaj txiv hmoob nawb qhov nej tus txiv hmoob tsis hlub nej los nej yeej tsis zoo tas2 rau nej tus txiv thiab nawb
Cas peb cov poj niam hmoob es cov hai li koj es yusv tsawg ua luaj li kuv xav tias yog peb txhua tus poj niam tsis txhob ntshaw2 txiv li koj es peb twb raug tua pov tseg os
Tus viv ncaus txhua txhua lo lus koj hais mas yog tag nrho, txawm yus twb ua 2 txoj hauj lwm los thaum los txog tsev tseem tau los ua noj, tu vaj tsev txhua yam tseem yog yus tag.
I'm glad I married a husband that understands me. If there's something I'm not able to do, he does it. If there's something he's unable to do, I do it. I don't feel like cooking, he cooks. We help each other do chores in the house. We are each others backbone.
Many women need to think like this woman! Its time hmong woman are opening their eyes and become smarter. We are not slaves for our in laws. We have so much potential but we allow ourselves to fall behind in life bc we want to put our husband first. We need to focus on ourselves. We don’t need a husband, want just want a husband. At the end, no one will be there for you but yourself. Not even your family or his family. We need to be the change, fellow hmong wives.
Everything said in this video is very true and I agree with everything. Its embarrassing that dudes act this way when they dont realize they have a wonderful wife. Insecurity from anyone is not attractive and only leads to unwanted attention. You are smart and have logic when dealing with your ex- husband's family. When you're with someone you feel entitled to them which isn't what you wanted so you chose to stay friends with your childhood friend. Good story.
You have some good valid points. I also agree on some but not all. But your opinion, your life, you make the best of it.
I’m glad you made the right decision for you despite unsupportive parents. You know what’s best for you and you’re the one living this life with him! Thanks for sharing your story.
Yog lawm o me ntxhais peb cov txiv neej hmoob yeej g peb cov poj niam li g xav yuav txiv neej li lawm o
Everything you said was well said and I agree with. EVERYTHING!
Tus muam aw...., tiam 21 no cov txiv zoo li koj tus ces yog cov tuag lawm tiamsis zoo li lub plawv tseem ua pa xwb. Tsis yog tag ntsho txiv neej hmoob os.
Tus viv ncaus aw peb cov niam tsev ces rau ib nkawm khau xwb yeej mob22 ko taw kawg li. Txhiav txim siab li koj yog ib qhov zoo kawg
Koj hais yog kawg os viv ncaus thiab kuv zoo siab heev ua kuv tus txiv ho noj yooj2 yim li koj hais xwb.
I truly love this story... its true about our Hmong men. They need to change their ways of thinking about their wife and how society has changed. Cherries and honor and respect their wife... everyone is equal in the us....
Yog lawm os, muaj peb ib cov poj niam siv lub dag lub zog ntau li ntau los tsis muaj neeg hlub yus li os.....
Kuv lub neej kuv yeej pom li tus niam tsev no hais kuv thiaj txiav txim siab nyob li nws nyob tsis yuav txiv ntxiv.. tsis muaj tus txiv nyob kaj siab lug...
Txhob tu siab os, cov txiv tsev siab zoo thiab hlub poj niam tseem muaj ntau os, vim kuv tus twb tsis yog niam hluas nkauj txiv hluas nraug,tav sis nws siab zoo thiab hlub kuv tshaj tus qub os.
Kuv mloog koj mas koj hais yeej yog thiab zoo tab sis koj qhov coj yuav tau pauv yog koj coj li koj ces ua siab nyob ib leeg zoo dua txhob mus cob lwm tus li koj nej cov xib fwb lub qe yeej muaj ntsis tsws lwj
Peb ua neej nyob thaum koj tau ib tug txiv siab phem li no mas tu siab nyuaj siab chim siab tshaj plaws li yog leej twg ntsib thiaj paub mog
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws os sister aw. Cov pojniam hmoob coob2 khwv heev rau lawv tus txiv tabsis lawv tus txiv twb tsis hlub thiab pab lawv. Los cov niag niam tsev no txaus2 siab ua lawm ces pab tsis tau lawv vim lawv twb tsis hlub lawv.
Kuv pab tu siab rau peb poj niam Hmoob, yuav txog thaum twg nej mam hlub nej tus kheej. Txoj kev pauv yuav tsis yog los ntawm cov txiv neej Hmoob, yuav yog tshwm sim los ntawm peb cov poj niam. Tau 40 lawm kuv tseem tsis tau pom tias peb Hmoob txiv neej xam pom tias txij nkawm yog equally partner and 50/50 to create a happy family
Yog kawg Kuv ntshais2 tsam tau cov nraug nrab ua kaus yus xwb kuv thiaj nyob ib leeg rau siab npaj lub neej single xwb
Don't fear marriage because of a bad past experinece. Not everyone is the same. Not all men or women are the same. You have to understand that you have to continue living life at your best.
Kj zaj neej neeg cas yuav zoo kiag li kv lub neej thiab os tus niam hluas aw tsi muaj nws mas yus kaj siab tshaj li os
Totally agree! Hmong men should appreciate their wife more. That's what I'm been telling my husband but nope... he's 101% MPT(oldgies) from 1975
Koj zaj dab neeg Ntxawm ko zoo kawg thiab tab kuv mloog mas zoo li koj toob nkeeg dhau lawm
Ua tsaug koj hais yog lawm
tu siab ntau rau koj, ncaj cov txiv siab tsis zoo xwb. ncaj li peb cov siab zoo no poj niam tseem thov hauj lwm ua es kom tus txiv ho so me ntsi es cia tus niam ua ib nrab thiab
I am agree with you 💃💃👌👌
You’re truly empowering! Wish I could be as courageous like you. Everything you said about Hmong men are DEFINITELY true; degrading, disrespectful, deceitful and selfish.
Amen
Tus niam tsev no mas hais yog kawg. Nraug peb cov niam tsev kawg.
Tus me viv ncaug, tsi yog koj txw os, koj yeej hais yog kawg, thiab yuav kom peb cov ntxhais tsi txhob raug tsim txom los ntawm cov txiv uas coj li koj hais ko mas peb yuav tsum txhob sau nqi ntxhais lawm, yog sib yuav ces ob tog sib pab txhawb kom tas rooj tshoob xwb. Thiaj raug Hmoob lo lus tias kuv tsa kuv tub yim, koj tsa koj ntxhais neej thiab, qhov no txiv neej thiaj tsi muab xav tias lawv poob nyiaj muas txoj sia yog lawv li lawv yuav tsuj los tau thiab yuav tsum ua qhev nkag kaws kom pauj lawv cov nyiaj yuav li tus tsiaj. 😭😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩
Not all men are the same. Same thing for women. There are some well respected people out there and all you need to do is do your research on the person of interest. People cannot hide their darkness forever so 1-2 years is good enough to know who they really are. If you really choose to live on your own then it is all good. We men are searching for good partners as well but I must admit that it is not easy either. Good luck folks!
Yog xav qhov koj hai kos ces yeej tsi ntsawg txiv neej li os. Qhov yuav ces kom tebchaw saib tau yus xwb os ntuj aws xav txog qhov cem yus thiab nyiam noj ib hnub 3 pluag ces xav tsa chij li koj hai xwb
Peb cov hmoob ces phem li ntawd mas leej twg nrauj los yeej tias tham tau hluas nraug, hos peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces coj niag cwj pwm tsis pab poj niam li ntawd es niam no peb cov ntxhais hmoob thiaj khiav mus yuav lwm haiv neeg tas li ntag vim kwm haiv neeg lawv yeej pab poj niam dua peb cov txiv neej hmoob.
Kuv yeej ntseeg koj me2 koj tseem yuav txog qhov koj xav tau txiv neej mog kev ua neeg thaum hluas kuv xav ib yam li koj tiam sis thaum laus lawm koj mam xav tau txiv me muam .
Zoo ib yam nkaug .
I would rather stay bf and gf too. U are on point when it comes to hmong men and as a wife. U are more valuable when u are just the gf not as a wife
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻zoo tshaj plaws kuv rhiv qhuas koj! Txhua yam koj teev yeej muaj tseeb txog peb cov txiv neej hmoob thiab kev teev tiam lawv os!! Tsis yuav txiv los zoo mas rau siab khwv nyiaj mus vacation xwb sister aws kuv mas tseem make mistakes yuav txiv dua os..
There are great Hmong men out there. Stop generalizing our Hmong men.
Malee Vue yes there are, but only a small percentage. The majority think they are king.
@@MissPeachie Hmong women are not perfect either. please get that through head
Marriage is a beautiful thing that God created for us. If you get married and your spouse changes and you don’t get along then it’s you yourself that is not right. Don’t blame it on the title of marriage. Two should become one. I can say that to be with someone and be having sex with them and not be married means the guy doesn’t love or respect you enough to marry you and instead is just using you.
Nyob zoo os viv ncaus zoo siab tau tuaj koom koj os
Totally agreed with everything u said sister.
You nailed it. We women can live without men for longer periods or forever but men can't live without us women. The sad thing is even that they still can't treat their wife with respect and dignity maybe it's the dowry that they paid when they married us. LOL! How about us women start paying for them or give us for free and see how the situation is. Anyway glad you are happy in your situation but remember it's better to be loved than never been loved at all so I hope eventually you will find the love you waiting for.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas liam liam ntshe cov ruam thiaj ntseeg koj xwb naw......
tu me viv ncau koj yeej yog ib tu neeg ntse kawg koj cov lu koj hai ko yeej muaj tseeb yeej tsi muaj ib lo yuam kev hlo li kuv lo yeej xav ib yam li koj hai ko thiab peb yug lo ua hmoob ce zoo rau cov txiv neej xwb tsi zoo rau peb cov poj niam hlo li
Txiv neej tag nrho tsis zoo ib yam os
Hais tau thwj tshaj plaws
tus niam hluas aw ...ua cas kuv mloog koj cov neej neeg es yog cov txiv neej uas siab2 phem xwb na ...li os.....kuv nrog lawv mob siab heev
cas nej cov pojniam pom meskas hlub nej li cas lawv xav siv nej xwb peb txiv hmoob xav siv nej peb twb paub hlub thiab ne pojniam hmoob txhob ruam os lawv xav tsoob nej ces lam ua li hlub2 koj xwb
Txiv neej hmoob tsi zoo xwb Xwg yeej muaj cov txiv pab2 cov poj niam thiab yeej muaj ib cov poj niam tsi pab thiab tsi hlub tus txiv thiab. Ntawm kuv lub neej wb sib sau tau 33 lub xyoo hais ua noj sib pab hais ua haujlwm yuav tsum sib ntseeg kuv yuav tsum caj rau koj2 yuav tsum caj rau kuv xwb. Vim nyob teb melika ob leeg yuav tsum sib pab khub thiaj nrog luag muaj noj muaj hau.
Wow 👏 cas yuav yog kiag li kuv xav thiab lau tus viv ncaus aw
Yog lis koj hais lawm me muam peb txiv neeg hmoob yeem tsis paub hlub nej poj niam hmoob yog lis ntawm thov caw nej mus yuav lwm hai neej naws mog nej xav mus yuav lwm hai neeg los yeem tsis zoo lis thiab vim xav zoo ces ua zoo xwb ...
Nyob cov neeg neej no mas feem coob yog cov poj niam hmoob zoo los ceeb cov txiv xwb yog lis ntawm nej poj niam hmoob xav tias nej zoo no lo....yog lis ntawm caw nej mus yuav lwm hai neeg xwb mas thov tsis txhov yu+v hmoob lawm os mog .
Cas yuav zoo kiag li kuv tus thiab os dhuav tiag2 li os
I love your sister story ,sad 😭😭💔💔😭😭💔💔😭😭
Tus txiv neej ua pheej lias Tia's tus poj niam tham hluas Nraug mad cas yuav dhuav siab ua luaj li o hmoob e..
nowadays that’s what Hmong women’s wants. Believe me any Hmong men’s and women’s behave this way will end up divorced. It’s your choice, good luck.
Omg 😱 I freaken agreed with this lady... and it’s worst when your in laws lives with you too... I’m soo done with this Hmong life...
good luck when you become in-law
Peb cov ntxhais hmoob raug qhuab qhia kom coj tus cwj pwm uas mus yuav txiv lawm ces laus, tsis zoo, mag muag, thiab tag nqi. Vim li ntawd lawv thiaj muab lawv tus kheej li self-image mus lo rau lawv tus txiv. Lawv thiaj xav tias yog lawv tus txiv muaj npe ces lawv tau ua niam muaj npe es lawv thiaj khwv nkag kaws seb puas muaj lub npe.
We need to teach our sons & daughters differently, that they are their own individual with their own God’s given value and purpose in life to pursue and to become, if we want to end this cycle of wickedness in our community.
Poj niam hmoob coob tus yeej taug txoj kev no. lawv tau taug vim yog lawv cia thiab lawv kam taug. Lawv tsis pom lawv muaj nqis, lawv tsis xav tias lawv muaj peev xwm, lawv tsis muaj ciaj cia
(boundaries), lawv tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab tias txaus (no definiteness), lawv siv qhov tias uv thiab kav liam los qhib qhov rooj rau lawv tus txiv tsuj caij lawv. Vim tib qho tias muaj npe ces yog lub neej zoo, txawm tias tom tsev yuav kub nyhiab lwj kas.
You are so right, sister, we, women work too hard and men doesn't seem and appreciate us women! We, women are better off without them, men. Stay by yourself and with your children is better.
Txiv neej hmoob ces 99.9% yeej nyob qhaib tes taw nws qhov hauj lwm ces yog tom company nkaus xwb.....poj niam ces hauj lwm company hauv tsev yog poj niam tas nrho
Cov txiv neej coj lino vim nws yog ibtug txiv neej qhov chaw txiv neej zoo tsis txaus ces nws ( complexer)
Insecure husband and wife is always the worst. Their disappointment in education, wealth and life always bring negativity to the relationship.
hais rau nej cov poj niam hmoob kav tsij muab nej cov txiv nrauj es los ua poj nrauj nawb ..ua poj nrauj mas lom zem thiab tsis khwv li os cov viv ncaus nrauj nej cov txiv es los peb ua poj nrauj nawb
I totally feel this woman. I’m not going to air my dirty laundry but I’m just saying... I understand. Her story is not my story but it’s close.
Cov lus zoo heev....
Yog kawg li tus niam tsev no hais.
Amen 🙏
Zaj dab neeg no zoo ib yam li kuv thiab os tus vivncaus
Mloog mad ntxim koj yog ib tug neeg ua thaj loj2 thiaj tsis tau txiv hawm koj na
Me muam aw kuv los ntxub cov neeg ua Liam li koj hais kos thiab os
Tus sis aw cov txiv neej zoo tseem muaj ntau os, tsis tau yog time rau koj pom tus zoo xwb. This is 21st century hmong man change alot .
Yog lawm os xum nyob li no xwb os
Yog hais tias yus tsis muaj lub siab tham hluas nraug thiab tsis tau tham es nws tsis ntseeg yus es pheej liam yus , yog yus tsis tau ua yeej tsis khov yus tabsis nws txhob lamben yus thiab muab yus liam ua kev sib cev nawb
I solely agree with you regarding Hmong married lifestyles!
Zaj no mas hais tau zoo tshaj tib co lus tseem2 ceeb xwb tiag lawv
Good for u sister. I like your mentality. If u don't desperately need a man, then more power to u. Good luck and best wishes to u. U are a very strong woman with strong mentality and beliefs. U don't need a man.
Kuv yog ib tug tibneeg los kuv twb paub nej cov pojnrauj txoj kev xav lawm es nej thiaj li nyob taus lub neej zoo li ko, hos ntawm peb txivneej Hmoob mas tsawg2 tus thiaj li nyob taus lub neej li nej cov pojnrauj, yog peb tsis muaj tus pojniam ces peb zoo li 1 niag txiv dev lojleeb es peb thiaj li yuav tsum nrhiav kom muaj tus pojniam los nrog yus ua 1 lub neej.
My job requires a lot of OT. I'm blessed to have a spouse that trusts me. Sister, I pray you find your soulmate. Life will be so much more peaceful-er.
tus pojniam no yuav tau hloov yog nws coj li no ces tsi muaj txiv neej yuav li os nws nkeeg dhau lawm os
Lub neej dhuav siab tsis kaj siab ces yog vim tau tus neeg hais lus tsis sib totaub xwb mas koj kuv rau ib sab khau xwb os yus mus tsis tau qhov twg li vim txoj kev txiv siab me xwb mas
I agree with you 100% sister.
Koj thiab koj tus hluas nraug neb yog neeg liam koj thiaj thau ua poj nrauj. Koj tus hluas nraug thiaj tau ua yawg nrauj. Tsis yog koj tsis xav yuav txiv thiam sis tsis muaj txiv neej xaiv koj thia nyiam koj xwb.Thaum twg koj muaj hnub nyoog dhau 45 xyoo lawm ces koj mam xav txog yav dhau los. cov zoo nkauj tsaj koj muaj coob tsis txob ntxias kom koj tus niam laus ua poj nrauj li koj. Koj yog 1 tug poj nrauj liam txwv.
Ua cas nej cov txawj ntse es pheej npav sib nrauj tag li xwb nas nej cov hluas nim no cas yuav coj txawv ua luaj li ua Tsis ib tug qauv rau tej niam tej txiv zoo siab li nab
Agreed with this story!
disagree since her parents and her sisters are not choose her side instead chose her husband side cuz she selfish.
Love this woman’s way of thinking! I wish I am as courageous as her. I agree with everything she said about how Hmong men treat women like slaves and they are still very ungrateful. It’s better to just have a friend by your side than a husband that acts like a child. It’s already hard enough to take care of our kids, we don’t need to deal with a bigger baby.
Nej cov niam tsev tsis txhob ntshaws ntshaws meej mom es khwv ciaj khwv tuag os. Khwv khwv khwv khwv yus mob laug tag yus niag txiv dev khiav mus caum hluas nkauj! Nyob txuag yus tus kheej thiab mas!
kua yog 1 tus txiv tsev. kuv twb xav, fwm, ua, thiaj coj li tus niam tsev ntawd xav thiab ntsaw los twb g tau qhov zoo. lub sij hawm no tseem yog lub sij hawm caij tsuj cov poj niam. feem coob cov neej zoo yog cov ntau dua.
Yes, Hmong men need to learn and adapt America culture and help their wives around the house too.
Txiv neej txhua tus yeej muaj qhov doubt rau nws tus poj niam tsam tham hluas nraug nyob hauv nkawv lub neej daily. Yog nws tus poj niam tau ua rau nws poob siab tsem tsawv txog qhov nws muaj doubt ntawv lawm ces nws yeej document rau hauv nws siab zais ntshis. Thaum qhov zais ntshis ntawv tshwm sim tuaj lawm ces tus txiv yuav tsum nog txim rau tus niam ntag. Nyob rau case no ces tus poj niam yeej tau ua rau tus txiv tsis ntseeg nws. Yog nws tau tus txiv ntse dua nws ces nws thiaj xav hwm vim nws tsis compatible rau leej twg li.
I AGREE WITH YOU SISTER AW
Kuv agree nrog koj kuv tsis paub tias ua cas peb cov poj niam es tej tug niag twb vau doj vau de lawm los tseem mus yuav txiv thiab kuv tsis to taub cov poj niam no li ua cas yuav xav yuav txiv ua luaj
Me tus, it's ok. We have to do our best with the cards life has dealt us. U were born in a condition that was beyond ur control. Dont regret life too much. Your life is what YOU make of it! YOU have control of your future, live to the fullest. Let the past go. You can make your own memories in tour life as time goes by. Take the lessons u have been through n make better, wiser decisions, that's it. Good luck!
Cov niag txiv zoo li ko mas nyuaj siab tshaj plaws li os. They're so selfish and toxic.
Nej tej txiv uacas pheej to pojniam UA mov rau yus noj nas.
Yes, my mindset is the same way now...I don't owe any man anything...
Xav kom kuv muaj txoj hmoov zoo tau ib tug zoo Los yog tau tus Paub xav li koj xwb
poj niam hmoob aw txhob qhuas2 txiv mes kas nawb,txiv mes kas qhov zoo ces yog nws tus mub tog plis loj2 xwb tab sis phem tshaj txiv hmoob nawb qhov nej tus txiv hmoob tsis hlub nej los nej yeej tsis zoo tas2 rau nej tus txiv thiab nawb
Cas tseem muaj 2 tug mes nyuam thiab nes...zoo li koj mas tsi phim muaj mes nyuam hmoob nas .....
Cas peb cov poj niam hmoob es cov hai li koj es yusv tsawg ua luaj li kuv xav tias yog peb txhua tus poj niam tsis txhob ntshaw2 txiv li koj es peb twb raug tua pov tseg os
Better be friend only.
Tus viv ncaus txhua txhua lo lus koj hais mas yog tag nrho, txawm yus twb ua 2 txoj hauj lwm los thaum los txog tsev tseem tau los ua noj, tu vaj tsev txhua yam tseem yog yus tag.
txiv hmoob ma g hwm.pojniam lio