Ua neej tiam no niam pog tsi nyiaj mas lwj siab tshaj plawg,yog lwm tiam muaj tiag nco Ntsoov mus thov ntawv zoo los kom tau tsev neeg nyiamyug thiaj Tau lub neej kaj siab os ib tsoom mentxhais aw...koj tug txiv txawj tivthaiv koj kawg koj thiaj nyob taug os vivncaus.zoo siab nrog koj os
Sim neej no es cas ib txhia neeg li nej nim muaj2 hmoo es tau tus txiv hlub2 nej os, cov neeg tsis muaj hmoo li yus no es nim nkim tag yus ib tiam los ua neej nrog txoj kev tu siab txij li hnub yus ncaim yus niam yus txiv mus ua neej lawm es cas nim tsis tsim nyog los ua ib sim neeg li nawb mog es nrog koj zoo siab es thov kom neb tsuas muaj lub neej zoo li neb mus xwb os.
Awww.... You are so lucky. Don't think about the past okay.... Some of us aren't as lucky like you... Your husband love you so much.... You both did great and he is right you wait and are there for hime not his mom....👍
cov niam pog phem li no mas phim cov niag poj ruam ua tub sab thiab cov ruam tsab ntse nthe niam pog txhua hnub hmo thiaj li yog niam pog tus favorite 😚😝😝😝
What I have learned from people who are hateful to others is that I don’t ever want to be like them and treat others badly. My in laws disliked me for over two decades and if it wasn’t for my husband protecting and loving me, I would not be here either. So yes there are good men out there.
My mother in law was the exact same way. Very cruel, very manipulative and tried to break my husband and I up so many times. But, I didn’t cry nor did I shut up when my mother in law try to slander me. I always spoke up and argued back. I am kind and thoughtful but don’t try to slander me or I will eat you up! Learn to stand up for yourselves.
This story tears me up because her husband love and backed her up 110% and protected her from this evil mother in law. I just wish some of us are as lucky as this wife. You are very lucky, sister. 😊
I feel this pain. It’s been 28 years for me. Thank god for the husband who loves me tremendously otherwise I don’t know what I would’ve done. I’m glad for you ❤️
Neon Lite mine is 24 years but it gotten so bad my husband moved her out to live by herself now. Now she have to take care of her living expenses and she’s very stressing about it. She pay nothing when she live with us not even a roll of toilet paper or dish wash soap.
Nyob zoo niam luas kv xa thov kj pog kv muab kv lub neej coj log haig ib zaj neej neeg tiam sig kv laj laj sua ntwav es thov kj txaig kv tom fe es kv kwa lug tuaj xwb kv lub fev yog Mai thi vu
Tus niampog pojdab li ko ces yuav tsum yuav 1 tug nyab heev2 phem tshaj plaws kom nws tsa tsis tau ntsej muag li. Peb cov txiv kom uv lawv tsev neeg, tabsis lawv yuav uv tsis taus peb niam/txiv cem tsim txom li lawv ua rau peb.
The best thing is that the old lady finally came to her senses and apologized to her daughter in law for her wrongs...there's mother on law like mine who thinks she is always right and perfect and can do no wrongs...NEVER apologize.
Ua cas koj yuav tau ib tug txiv siab zoo tag 💖 npaum li no os me koj niam aw. Mloog koj zaj story tag ces muaj siab ua neeg me ntsis os mloog ib co hais ces ntshav siab tshaj li xwb os
zaj neej neeg ko ma hais yog kiag li kuv lub neej kiag cov niam pog phem Li ko ma cia txhob yuav nyab rau tub e nws nrog tub thiaj tsi poob nyiaj yuav nyab xwb o
Why does it feel so similar. 😢 mother n laws just think of as if it was your daughter in the same shoes would you happy for your daughter. If you won’t do it to your own child don’t do it to someone else’s child.
Some people don't like it when its all good. You need to bitch at them before they can treat you well. And this guy is pretty good at defending his wife against his mom. 👍
Wow this story is familiar with my own. The only difference is your in laws will say it to your face and my in laws does it behind my back. My husband is like yours where he does protect me. It got so bad that we did move to another state but unfortunately they still don’t like me or our child. I heard your story and I cried because I can’t ever imagine being so evil to my own daughter in law. As a Nyab for a Hmong family the only thing you want is for them to love you, love their son, and love their grandkids. Unfortunately for me that has not happened. I’m glad to hear that your mother in law eventually saw what she did was wrong and made amends with you. It’s been 17 years and I don’t think that will ever happen for me. Let’s pls change this cycle for our own kids and just love them and their spouse. Thank you for sharing your story.
We all way hear about mother in-law complaint about nyab Hmong are bad evil never like her daughter in-law. Why we don't hear about the mother in-law said nice things about nyab Hmong. Those mother in-law deserved to have her son go marry different race women. I see some of daughter in-law from different race. The mother in-law just shut her mouth. She can not communicating with her daughter in-law no problems. If she talk to much she will be out of the house by nyab . But Hmong mother in-law have nyab Hmong she treat her nyab like slavery. Some of mother like her she need go to senior living by herself.
Tus niam tsev aws koj nyob lub teb chaw American twg es hos tsis tshiab hos kuv tuaj teb chaw no tau 40 xyoo no lawm kuv kuj tuaj thaum kuv tseem me22 thiab tab sis lub teb chaw ua kuv nyob rau American no yeej huv22 thiab tshiab22 ib txwm as
Kitty Lis you won her love cause she’s getting old, weak, and powerless she needed your care and love. She just pretended to love I see a lot of mil do that to their Nyab including my own grandma.
Tus niam tsev no zoo li nws tseem tsi tau kawm nws qhov kev ua nyab lis txog Hnub no li. Stop complaining about your in law. One day you will become one. Your version better be good or else you replace your in law’s shoes.
A few handful are good MILs. I'm glad your husband loves you. When I was 16yo/married, my MIL would say my husband learns wisdom from inside his bedroom walls and not worldly knowledge. I enjoy playing dumb, but then I use the words they use and it's like they got stabbed with a knife.
Tus niampog no yog hmoob Hmoob ib txawm yeej muaj Dabneeg tias Hmoob tus poj niam no mas siab phem tiag2 li no nawb niajhnub no mas txhua2 tus pojniam hmoob tseev yuav tuaj nyob lub tebchaws meskas Vammeej npaumno los hu ua tus pojniam hmoob no mas yeej phem siab tiag2 li nawb hais lus lino mas tsis yog ntxub pojniam hmoob nawb tabsis tsis paub tias tus pojniam hmoob no thiaj pheej muaj siab nyoos tiag2 li na txawmtias tus pojniam tuskheej kheej kiag los nws yeej tsis paub tias nws raug tusdab siab nyoos es rhuav tus txivneej hmoob no lubneej neej na. Yog li koj tus ua yog tus pojniam kiav yeej tus dab ces kuj dhau ces nws tias pojniam zoo2 tabsis yog cov tsawg xwb nawb
Niam tais yawm txiv mi nyuam coob laj laj yug mov ces txhom vauv. Niam pog txiv yawg tau yug mov ces ntxub. Hmoob parents (og) are hypocrites and schemers. They preach, blame, they point fingers, but take no responsibility and never admit any wrong.
I can identify fully with this story. My MIL was like that and worse but my husband was always on my side 100 percent - like yours. But I never allowed her to talk over or down to me because I had to take her everywhere and do things for her and I defended myself to let her know I wasn’t putting up with her crap! Without a loving, supportive spouse, being a daughter in law is difficult.
Cas tseem muaj tej tug niam pog siab yuav phem tshaj dab ntxwg nyoog lawm! Tus niam pog no tsim nyog hlub los hlub, tsis tsim nyog los tsis tas hlub lub ntuj yeej tsis npam vim koj ua zoo txaus rau nws lawm. Tus niam pog no yog tau nws tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv los ua Nyab ntshe nws tsis tau kev nyob lawm. Ntxim ntxub tiag thov kom peb cov poj niam Hmoob tsis txhob coj li tus niam pog poj dab no. Koj tus niam pog tsis hlub koj tus txiv nws thiaj ua phem phem rau koj kom koj nyob tsis taus nrog koj tus txiv thiab tsis txhawb nws tus tub. Koj twb yog tus poj niam koj tus txiv xaiv lawm nws yuav tau zoo siab nrog nws tus tub. Zoo kawg uas koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj koj thiaj nyob taus. Thov kom neb sib sib hlub mus txog hnub laus mog. Your husband is a keeper. He’s your protector.❤️💕
I feel your pain and stresses, I am in the same boat too. We are the only son like you too. I deal with mine for 24 years and it gotten so bad that my husband finally decided to moved her out to live by herself since November 2019. However, your ending your mil changed her thinking about you. Mine still the same way no change.
you're one of the lucky hmong women. most of Hmong cov txiv tsev es siab tsis zoo li ko li os.
Thank you to the good supporting spouses! Your kids will turn out phenomenal because of what you've endured.
The husband such a good husband 😭😭 If only some husband are like this 😡
Ua neej tiam no niam pog tsi nyiaj mas lwj siab tshaj plawg,yog lwm tiam muaj tiag nco Ntsoov mus thov ntawv zoo los kom tau tsev neeg nyiamyug thiaj Tau lub neej kaj siab os ib tsoom mentxhais aw...koj tug txiv txawj tivthaiv koj kawg koj thiaj nyob taug os vivncaus.zoo siab nrog koj os
Sim neej no es cas ib txhia neeg li nej nim muaj2 hmoo es tau tus txiv hlub2 nej os, cov neeg tsis muaj hmoo li yus no es nim nkim tag yus ib tiam los ua neej nrog txoj kev tu siab txij li hnub yus ncaim yus niam yus txiv mus ua neej lawm es cas nim tsis tsim nyog los ua ib sim neeg li nawb mog es nrog koj zoo siab es thov kom neb tsuas muaj lub neej zoo li neb mus xwb os.
Awww.... You are so lucky. Don't think about the past okay.... Some of us aren't as lucky like you... Your husband love you so much.... You both did great and he is right you wait and are there for hime not his mom....👍
😊 thank you
cov niam pog phem li no mas phim cov niag poj ruam ua tub sab thiab cov ruam tsab ntse nthe niam pog txhua hnub hmo thiaj li yog niam pog tus favorite 😚😝😝😝
Niam pog txau ntshai tiag li o. Zoo qhov Kuv tsis muaj
What I have learned from people who are hateful to others is that I don’t ever want to be like them and treat others badly. My in laws disliked me for over two decades and if it wasn’t for my husband protecting and loving me, I would not be here either. So yes there are good men out there.
Yog kawg yeej muab ib cov poj dab li koj tus os
My mother in law was the exact same way. Very cruel, very manipulative and tried to break my husband and I up so many times. But, I didn’t cry nor did I shut up when my mother in law try to slander me. I always spoke up and argued back. I am kind and thoughtful but don’t try to slander me or I will eat you up! Learn to stand up for yourselves.
This story tears me up because her husband love and backed her up 110% and protected her from this evil mother in law. I just wish some of us are as lucky as this wife. You are very lucky, sister. 😊
Very sad but with a happy ending. There's not much husband out there like him. Good story.
Good story. So glad your husband got your back.
Nrog koj zoo siab koj yog tus neeg muaj hmoo tshaj
Tus sister aw....nrog koj tu siab uas koj tau 1 tug niag niam pog siab phem2 li ko, tab sis kav tsij zoo tias koj tau tus txiv siab zoo2 hlub2 koj kawg kav tsij hlub koj tus me txiv nawb mog koj twb tsis yog yuav niag niam pog koj yuav nws tus tub xwb.
Aww what a good love ❤️ story.. I’m happy your husband follow through with his marriage vows til today. May you guys continue to have more happy days
Ua Neeg ce tsua ntxhaw tu Txiv zoo li no xb o
I hate mother inlaw like your mother inlaw...I'm very glad that I'm really blessed to have a wonderful mother inlaw...
I feel this pain. It’s been 28 years for me. Thank god for the husband who loves me tremendously otherwise I don’t know what I would’ve done. I’m glad for you ❤️
Neon Lite mine is 24 years but it gotten so bad my husband moved her out to live by herself now. Now she have to take care of her living expenses and she’s very stressing about it. She pay nothing when she live with us not even a roll of toilet paper or dish wash soap.
Nyob zoo niam luas kv xa thov kj pog kv muab kv lub neej coj log haig ib zaj neej neeg tiam sig kv laj laj sua ntwav es thov kj txaig kv tom fe es kv kwa lug tuaj xwb kv lub fev yog Mai thi vu
Tus niampog pojdab li ko ces yuav tsum yuav 1 tug nyab heev2 phem tshaj plaws kom nws tsa tsis tau ntsej muag li. Peb cov txiv kom uv lawv tsev neeg, tabsis lawv yuav uv tsis taus peb niam/txiv cem tsim txom li lawv ua rau peb.
Tej txhia niam pog mas phim cov nyab tsiv tsaim kom tsim ti txha xwb os.
The best thing is that the old lady finally came to her senses and apologized to her daughter in law for her wrongs...there's mother on law like mine who thinks she is always right and perfect and can do no wrongs...NEVER apologize.
Yog mus tau tsev neeg tsis nyiam. Yus ces yeej nyuaj kuv los twb ntsib ib yam thiab tab sis tsis pom qab yuav ua li cas li os cov phooj ywg
You have a good husband who loves and protect you from his family. Cherish the love and have a good life.
Such a good Hmoob man. Happy for you.
Ua cas koj yuav tau ib tug txiv siab zoo tag 💖 npaum li no os me koj niam aw. Mloog koj zaj story tag ces muaj siab ua neeg me ntsis os mloog ib co hais ces ntshav siab tshaj li xwb os
Kuv pab koj zoo siab hais tias koj yus Niam pog ris siab lawm.
Hos peb ib cov Niam pog ces, xyog thaum twg mam li paus ris siab os.
Ua ua, tej thaum zoo li yus yuav paim kas-laws ua ntej lawm. 🤪
So happy for this couple! May you both live long and stay strong. You have a very good husband there. He's a keeper!
You are sooooooo blessed to have such a great loving husband! May God continue to bless you and your family and you guys continue to love each other!
Koj tham neej neeg dab neeg sab sij hawm.tau zoo kawg os muam kuv pab txhawb nqa rau koj lawm.es txhawb kuv thiab os ua tsaug.
You’re so lucky to have such a good husband that protects you from any corners.
Koj mas muaj hmoo kawg tau tus txiv hlub koj tuaj koj tog txhua2 yam tsis zoo li peb cov uas raug niam pog tsim
Koj yog neeg musj hmoo thiab nyiaj taus kev txom nyem thaum kawg thiaj tau gho zoo os
True love los ntawm koj tus txiv, yog kuv ces ntshe twb hlawb niam pog lawb tus txiv lawm lauj
zaj neej neeg ko ma hais yog kiag li kuv lub neej kiag cov niam pog phem Li ko ma cia txhob yuav nyab rau tub e nws nrog tub thiaj tsi poob nyiaj yuav nyab xwb o
thov qhuav kj tus txiv zoo
Niag tsov tom laus phem li nws lwm hnub koj tsi hlub los yeej tsi npam li mog nws twb ua qhov tsi zoo qhia yus lawm ne.
Some Niam poj are don't know how to shut up. Very frustrating for all the hmoob Nyab exist this life time.
You are lucky to have a good and loving Husband, he a real gentleman. I wish you guys love ❤️ each other forever okay sister.
Why does it feel so similar. 😢 mother n laws just think of as if it was your daughter in the same shoes would you happy for your daughter. If you won’t do it to your own child don’t do it to someone else’s child.
You are so lucky that your husband is so nice and always defend you.
Some people don't like it when its all good. You need to bitch at them before they can treat you well. And this guy is pretty good at defending his wife against his mom. 👍
So happy your husband on your side and protect you from your mother in law and she have changed the way she treated you long time
Muaj ib txhia neeg yeej phem tiag2, yeej xwb tim ntxub thiab tsim lwm tus cuag li niam hlob niam yau , thaum kawg ces rov txaj muag
Such a sweet, lovely story!
Wow this story is familiar with my own. The only difference is your in laws will say it to your face and my in laws does it behind my back. My husband is like yours where he does protect me. It got so bad that we did move to another state but unfortunately they still don’t like me or our child. I heard your story and I cried because I can’t ever imagine being so evil to my own daughter in law. As a Nyab for a Hmong family the only thing you want is for them to love you, love their son, and love their grandkids. Unfortunately for me that has not happened. I’m glad to hear that your mother in law eventually saw what she did was wrong and made amends with you. It’s been 17 years and I don’t think that will ever happen for me. Let’s pls change this cycle for our own kids and just love them and their spouse. Thank you for sharing your story.
Sab maim no kiag lawm los tseem muaj tej tug niam pog phem npaum no thiab lo hmoob awd, peb cov laus yeej tseem pauv tsis tau tiag2 li
We all way hear about mother in-law complaint about nyab Hmong are bad evil never like her daughter in-law. Why we don't hear about the mother in-law said nice things about nyab Hmong.
Those mother in-law deserved to have her son go marry different race women. I see some of daughter in-law from different race. The mother in-law just shut her mouth. She can not communicating with her daughter in-law no problems. If she talk to much she will be out of the house by nyab . But Hmong mother in-law have nyab Hmong she treat her nyab like slavery. Some of mother like her she need go to senior living by herself.
Tus niam pog no thiab kuv tus niag niam pog ces yog tib tug. Yog leej twg tsis tau ntsib cov monster in law zoo li no ces thov tsis txhob rawm tuag.
Thov xa koj tu fev rau kuv pua tau niam lau
Zoo siab you got a husband that loves you and sides with you.
Tus niam tsev aws koj nyob lub teb chaw American twg es hos tsis tshiab hos kuv tuaj teb chaw no tau 40 xyoo no lawm kuv kuj tuaj thaum kuv tseem me22 thiab tab sis lub teb chaw ua kuv nyob rau American no yeej huv22 thiab tshiab22 ib txwm as
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡-the MIL...ehehe you won her love, just like I won my mother in laws love for a little while before she left this world.
Kitty Lis you won her love cause she’s getting old, weak, and powerless she needed your care and love. She just pretended to love I see a lot of mil do that to their Nyab including my own grandma.
Cov niam pog zoo li no muaj tsawg2 os 😂
Tus niam tsev no zoo li nws tseem tsi tau kawm nws qhov kev ua nyab lis txog Hnub no li. Stop complaining about your in law. One day you will become one. Your version better be good or else you replace your in law’s shoes.
Niag niam pog ko mas zoo muab cuam rau tom nursing home kawg...
Somebody help thus mil! Please please please! I can't stand mil like this! I REALLY CAN'T!!!! UGH!!!!
Cov niam pog no mas cas yuav txawj ntse cem nyab ua luaj nes
A few handful are good MILs. I'm glad your husband loves you. When I was 16yo/married, my MIL would say my husband learns wisdom from inside his bedroom walls and not worldly knowledge. I enjoy playing dumb, but then I use the words they use and it's like they got stabbed with a knife.
Tus niampog no yog hmoob Hmoob ib txawm yeej muaj Dabneeg tias Hmoob tus poj niam no mas siab phem tiag2 li no nawb niajhnub no mas txhua2 tus pojniam hmoob tseev yuav tuaj nyob lub tebchaws meskas Vammeej npaumno los hu ua tus pojniam hmoob no mas yeej phem siab tiag2 li nawb hais lus lino mas tsis yog ntxub pojniam hmoob nawb tabsis tsis paub tias tus pojniam hmoob no thiaj pheej muaj siab nyoos tiag2 li na txawmtias tus pojniam tuskheej kheej kiag los nws yeej tsis paub tias nws raug tusdab siab nyoos es rhuav tus txivneej hmoob no lubneej neej na. Yog li koj tus ua yog tus pojniam kiav yeej tus dab ces kuj dhau ces nws tias pojniam zoo2 tabsis yog cov tsawg xwb nawb
Niam tais yawm txiv mi nyuam coob laj laj yug mov ces txhom vauv.
Niam pog txiv yawg tau yug mov ces ntxub.
Hmoob parents (og) are hypocrites and schemers. They preach, blame, they point fingers, but take no responsibility and never admit any wrong.
I can identify fully with this story. My MIL was like that and worse but my husband was always on my side 100 percent - like yours. But I never allowed her to talk over or down to me because I had to take her everywhere and do things for her and I defended myself to let her know I wasn’t putting up with her crap! Without a loving, supportive spouse, being a daughter in law is difficult.
Oh lord!!!!
Kuv xav puas tus niam Pog no yog li twg cas yuas phem ua luaj na
Cas tseem muaj tej tug niam pog siab yuav phem tshaj dab ntxwg nyoog lawm! Tus niam pog no tsim nyog hlub los hlub, tsis tsim nyog los tsis tas hlub lub ntuj yeej tsis npam vim koj ua zoo txaus rau nws lawm. Tus niam pog no yog tau nws tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv los ua Nyab ntshe nws tsis tau kev nyob lawm. Ntxim ntxub tiag thov kom peb cov poj niam Hmoob tsis txhob coj li tus niam pog poj dab no. Koj tus niam pog tsis hlub koj tus txiv nws thiaj ua phem phem rau koj kom koj nyob tsis taus nrog koj tus txiv thiab tsis txhawb nws tus tub. Koj twb yog tus poj niam koj tus txiv xaiv lawm nws yuav tau zoo siab nrog nws tus tub.
Zoo kawg uas koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj koj thiaj nyob taus. Thov kom neb sib sib hlub mus txog hnub laus mog.
Your husband is a keeper. He’s your protector.❤️💕
Some of these Hmong mother in laws need a good slap across the face!!
I feel your pain and stresses, I am in the same boat too. We are the only son like you too. I deal with mine for 24 years and it gotten so bad that my husband finally decided to moved her out to live by herself since November 2019. However, your ending your mil changed her thinking about you. Mine still the same way no change.
It's the son's fault. The son has no balls and let his parents punish his wife.
This mother in law is no good. Does not deserve a good daughter in law. Unbelievable such a complainer nothing satisfies her 😑
Cov niam pog zoo li koj tus no mas zoo muab pub cov nyab nyaum2 xwb os.
You young kids, I don’t understand how you would ever think of getting married or dating at that age.
Why are some girls so easy?? Lol 😂 🤷♀️🤦♀️
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poor girl!!!! u shldnt let her step all over u like that!!!!
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