Mae Quotes Poet Philip Larkin, "They f*ck you up, your mum and dad..." (Ted Lasso)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
  • This Be The Verse by Philip Larkin
    They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
    They may not mean to, but they do.
    They fill you with the faults they had
    And add some extra, just for you.
    But they were fucked up in their turn
    By fools in old-style hats and coats,
    Who half the time were soppy-stern
    And half at one another’s throats.
    Man hands on misery to man.
    It deepens like a coastal shelf.
    Get out as early as you can,
    And don’t have any kids yourself.
    Ted Lasso 3x11: Mom City

Комментарии • 27

  • @philiptom2799
    @philiptom2799 Год назад +144

    It feels like every character in Ted Lasso has something to contribute, a moment to shine.

  • @royalewithcheese7
    @royalewithcheese7 Год назад +55

    "Man hands on misery to man,
    It deepens like a coastal shelf."
    Damn, that part goes hard

  • @CraigPage85
    @CraigPage85 Год назад +92

    Mae might be my favorite character on the show. She was always a scene stealer for me and then when she delivered this poem, it really solidified her place in the pantheon of background characters.

    • @karrihart1
      @karrihart1 Год назад +8

      I would so watch a Cheers-esque spinoff about her and the patrons in her pub.

    • @CraigPage85
      @CraigPage85 Год назад

      @@karrihart1 10/10, would watch

  • @thatmattmcd
    @thatmattmcd Год назад +26

    This moment spun me around. Philip Larkin, out of nowhere. I hadn’t heard this since I was a student, and I’m retrospect I couldn’t imagine another character delivering it. Just a beautiful moment in an extraordinary show.

  • @danabrousseau6579
    @danabrousseau6579 Год назад +12

    Just love Larkin’s poetry and this one trips so delightfully off her tongue.

  • @2ndedit135
    @2ndedit135 Год назад +20

    Beat me to it! This is one of my favorite scenes from the entire show. What a beautiful poem, I had never heard it before.

  • @radiogreenduck
    @radiogreenduck 2 месяца назад +1

    To a greater extent than we all care to realise, that poem is 100% true. If you don't believe it, you are born by an immaculate conception.

  • @sonofliberty1
    @sonofliberty1 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for posting this with the correct attribution. Profound poem. ❤

  • @221BSam
    @221BSam Год назад +11

    Thank-you so much for posting this!

  • @originaozz
    @originaozz Год назад +4

    Thank you! I was looking for this specific scene. The poem is weirdly even more fitting to Beau is Afraid that I have just seen.😅

  • @CaitSithDubh
    @CaitSithDubh Год назад +8

    Gives me flashbacks to Higher English class. Only poem I really remember from Larkin. Probably because of the rude words.

    • @wittyblonde6728
      @wittyblonde6728 Год назад +1

      @allymcleod87 Same here! I learned the poem in college and I was quickly able to point out what it was. It is burned in my brain from the shock of my professor saying profane language.

  • @gilestilling9636
    @gilestilling9636 Год назад +6

    Thanks for posting this Tina - watched this episode last night and it brought a tear to my eye. Also reminded me that it's Whitsun Weddings time!

  • @jenlovesbooks
    @jenlovesbooks Год назад +11

    This is fantastic.

  • @sabyasamaddar2804
    @sabyasamaddar2804 Год назад +1

    Mae is adorable ❤

  • @crakesandbarrels
    @crakesandbarrels Год назад +6

    “Ah fahk off!” - Logan Roy

  • @ulisesmagana4413
    @ulisesmagana4413 Год назад +17

    I still confuse about this poem. What’s the explanation for it?

    • @pataylor7164
      @pataylor7164 Год назад +57

      That a lot of the issues people experience as individuals were handed down to them from their parents, and their parents parents, and so on and so forth. The misery of humanity ever deepening and layering from one generation to the next like sand deposits on a coastal shelf. The only way to not add to it is to “get out” (die) without having kids.
      In essence it’s to explain away the faults of ourselves as the accumulation of the faults of our ancestors. If everyone is to blame for our issues, then nobody is. It’s a message about breaking the cycle. Ted worries as a father that he’s doing to his son what his father did to him and in doing so, adding to the cycle.

    • @chrissherlock1748
      @chrissherlock1748 Год назад +2

      Ask your mum and dad.

    • @nigelhosier4729
      @nigelhosier4729 Год назад +14

      For me personally Larkins poem is also empathetic to the challenges of being an adult! No matter how hard we try as parents our children will inherit both good and flawed elements from their parents, echoing back each generation through time - people generally just trying their best at life in sometimes very difficult circumstances - thats all we can do, try our best and have some empathy for others.

    • @hatjodelka
      @hatjodelka Год назад +4

      It's called 'This Be The Verse' by Philip Larkin. It's one of the most famous and best-loved 20th century English poems. It's even got its own Wikipedia page. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/This_Be_The_Verse

    • @Carcosahead
      @Carcosahead Год назад +1

      ​@@hatjodelkaI was looking for this comment, thank you❤

  • @francus7227
    @francus7227 9 месяцев назад +1

    I stayed too long. Well, at least I didn't procreate.

  • @Susn-h8f
    @Susn-h8f 2 месяца назад

    No ex boyfriends f****d me up,