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Koreans are pretty shy. I met few of them in Canada and I had to say a pickup line or something else to show an interest. At the same time, I totally understand the differences between our culture. Knowing those differences might be easier to understand each other.
When women make equal pay (at least in the USA), then they can pay for the date... unless the woman asks the man... that being said, a date doesn't have to be expensive as long as there's a connection & mutual respect. Be creative!
Thank you for having me David… and yes because i stream i am so accustomed to facing the camera while speaking. Next time ill just be in David’s face the whole time.
I just loved your input on David's show, so I subscribed to your channel.I only subscribed to people who give out educational advise or talk talk sense👌
It's okay, I find it hard to make eye contact with people. People are too quick to judge or think something is weird because they expect us all to be the same. I think you did well
That’s so funny that Korean guys think us foreigners are easy. But I actually think Korean boys are easy. It just takes someone having a different hair color for them to pull their pants down
His voice is very pleasant. IDK if its the mic but it sounds really good. I think he did look at least once, but maybe the reason he tried his best NOT to look is because someone told him "look at the camera", and he just did as told. ;)
sometimes people with social anxeity do that too. but that is me just speculating. It can also b. e related to how he processes his thoughts. but he is looking at the camera sometimes so i dunno
20:08 no offense but this is the mature and adult response. Sometimes you need to just ask for what you want. People talk about Koreans being more conservative but a woman relying on signals and nonverbal communication is pretty conservative too. In the same way men miss out on women for failing to ask them out, women are gonna miss out on men because they think he should just "get" the signal.
True. Why are they expecting he makes the move every time and even saying « I lost interest » like what? That’s weird🥴 they are extremely shy from my experience they don’t speak feelings as much and for those people that’s different from sex. So if they commit to see you 6 -7 times they have an interest
David is so sweet lol I like that gentle, respectful, Christian boy vibe. Never change David lol Also I agree with Sean. When the guy pays there is some type of exchange (not like a hook up, but just more input in other areas).
My Vietnamese American friend visited Korea for a month. A good looking guy too. A Russian gal saw him at a bar and they started talking…as soon as he told her that he wasn’t Korean, she friend zoned him.😂
@@grownsimba8120 maybe, just maybe some kindergarten friends (like loong time pals)? but then I do not see why not to bring a boyfriend if he wants to hangout...
They will say everything that a Korean man does is a red flag. I don't know their personal beliefs but the way this show was going is just for the sake of trashing Korean men.
I met my Korean boyfriend in kind of unconventional way...I'm super introverted so I hate going to clubs lol...and I'm not someone who can handle casual sexual/romantic relationships because I'm sensitive and get emotionally attached easily (know thyself). I joined a pen pal app, found him as a language exchange partner, and we were able to grow a friendship while writing each other long-form letters for a few months before realizing we had romantic feelings for each other. We started sending each other snail-mail letters and packages. 6 months later he was able to come visit me in the U.S. for the first time, and I'm planning to come visit Korea in a month! Learning about him and his life, growing closer over a longer period of time, and falling in love has been the most rewarding experience of my life. There are ways you can put yourself "out there" while avoiding the hellscape that is modern-day dating/hookup apps and skeevy people and f*ckboys at clubs!
I've been trying to find something like that. pen pals would be great. I'm not really for the romantic part, but I remember when we had pen pals back in school. it was fun. what did you use?
some topic ideas: -relationships with korean parents, their expectations, how they feel about non-traditional careers -finances in kr, how people view saving/investing/getting loans, how do ppl pay for college/grad school, how ppl can afford houses/weddings, how the stock market is set up -how foreigners establish new businesses in kr -k-drama vs. reality -college life e.g. traditions, dorm life, getting into grad school vs. undergrad
I met my Korean bf on tinder a year ago. The difference might be that he's from the countryside and had never dated a foreigner. This to me gives him some kind of innocence that you won't find in those guys in Hongdae. I don't live in Seoul and neither does my bf and I made a point of only messaging guys in KOREAN. The problem is when you use English your pool of potential suitors is a lot smaller and a lot of these guys who are good at English and good looking are well aware of these facts and so they can play with foreign girls. SO my advice would be to stay away from the obvious "good at English, well acquainted with the foreign community" guys. I visited Hongdae at night recently (for the first and probably last time) and saw a whole group of foreign girls standing around this one Korean guy... would you do this in your country? Think about it! this is how you give men egos girls!
On point, as always! With respect to foreign women being considered easy, as a Latina myself, I found the stereotypes other countries have on foreigners, specially certain nationalities, very problematic whenever I go abroad. I guess the best would be for people just to understand that each person is different and you should get to know the person before making any assumptions… that’s what I try to do at least.
I totally understand why women ask Sean for relationship advice. He is polite, soft spoken and trying to be honest. Of course he is calculate his answers and created this good boy image deliberately.
Great episode David, thank you 🙏 Loved seeing Sonia again, she was my favourite on Ramyeon and Chill. Anna was awesome, and Sean was fantastic too - I really liked the vibe. Looking forward to the next episode - you are almost at 10k!!
is Sean's physical behavior due to him being a twitch streamer? i'm fascinated by the fact that he barely turns his head to acknowledge the other panelists whenever they speak and he almost never makes eye contact. he's just talking to the camera and it's kind of off-putting considering there are other humans next to him...
I think he is just a shy person cuz even when he have coloration with other bloggers he is also a bit closed and doesn’t show that much emotions and he started his career few month ago so I think we just have to give him some time.
@@PhilCherry3 in my experience, I have been judged a lot for my appearance, because everyone says that I look like a bitch with a crown on my head, but in my youth I am completely different. That's why I don't judge people by the cover.
It's so sick that in Korea dating is perceived as an investment. My Korean friend has been single for years because he said he can't afford dating until he finds a job and is financially stable.
"I am a conservative, Christian, virgin boy, so obviously I don't have sex". Congrats, dear David, for having the courage to reveal this publicly. In West you could be laughed at if you say publicly something like this... I am also a Christian woman, I am in my 30s, I am European, I am highly educated (Ph.D.) and I am virgin. There is nothing wrong with that, it is about personal values. My boyfriend accepts it and agrees with it. And I have a lot of friends (both males and females) who are virgins in their 20s and 30s or who got married as virgins (not all of them are religious people).
considering I'm as atheist as they come (and from pretty much the least religious country in the world) and a lesbian, this comment surprisingly resonates with me a lot. I've only had one sexual partner, have always prioritized education (working as a university lecturer since I was 20) and am nearly 30 now. I think it's bizarre that not wanting to sleep around with every other person and innately feeling like that would be immoral, gross and wrong for you personally is only associated with being religious. morals exist independently from religions and aren't necessarily based on patriarchal prejudices against women etc. I just think it is sexist and unfair of hetero men to expect chastity of women if they don't follow the same rules. it is insane to me that virginity is considered more shameful these days than changing bedmates like socks. personally, I wouldn't want to date a woman who's had many partners, especially male ones. it doesn't mean I'm "sl*tshaming" anyone, I just know that we aren't compatible in terms of values, relationship ideals, how serious we are about dating, and of course sexuality. not wanting to date someone incompatible isn't prejudice, it's common sense. I have tried being more open-minded and dated the serial dater types of women and they've always led me on and betrayed me so not making that mistake again. similarly, I don't expect someone who wants a partner with p0rn star level experience to date me either. it's just about compatibility after all.
I'm pretty sure he was being sarcastic because I have watched him on both Kelsey's channel and DKDK tv and on both channels he has talked about sleeping with multiple women, some even on the first date.....
great episode. love how all the panelists have different views and bring up interesting points and perspectives. but Sean come on not everyone has a face as beautiful as yours😂
wow I am feeling so uncomfortable right now... its been 7 minutes in the video and Sean seems quite agressive towards the rest? like saying its gonna be thw whole show Sonja talking...i dont know if thats his humour but I am having a really hard time to watch this right now
There are some western people that do their dates the way David does. There are those who do take it slow. They wait till the second or third date before they even hold hands. There are many places in America that have their dating, the same way that David was explaining his.
David: “I’m a conservative Christian virgin. So I don’t have sex.” Sean: “I think that’s beautiful.” Me: Oh that homeboy (Sean) gets LAID! He just drips with sensuality lol
I think that korean guy think foreign girls are easy because, in the opinion of the guys, they are so much easier to impress. In the west, girls sometimes do judge people based on their income and everything, but it's considered shallow and taboo. I think korean guys feel like they have to work SO HARD to impress korean women. So by comparison "western girls are easy" .
I think it is really not okay to blame it on Korean girls. The fact is in general men find foreign women easy wherever you go. Because they think it’d be without any strings attached, any responsibility and even without any potential future. Just like Sonja said.
@@dodbdbsofooomdomm I'm not blaming the girls (korean or foreign). I'm blaming the guys for not correctly interpretting the behaviors of people from other cultures. In fact, I think these misinterpretations are dangerous.
Good mix of personalities with your guests on this episode. I feel like there was some kind of "elephant" in the room but I have no idea what it was. Maybe I am looking to much into that aspect of the this episode but I enjoyed the topics and a bit more about what the perceptions are. ;)
I love these girls the way they think and their attitude. I really like Sonja since Ramyun and Chill. Anna is the type of girl I want to friends with too! And that guy should be Radio DJ of MBC! his voice is smooth🫠
Lolz, Koreans get into relationships quickly to have sex and then break up few weeks later. That's what Koreans told me. And no, we don't have month long situationships in Europe. We have either relationships or situationsships and both parties are clear on what it is or one party pretending sth to the other to get sex. I guess all of these are pretty international.
That's my thought Koreans just date fast to have sex but some how make it seem like the way they go about it is conservative and prue and it's like no just be honest you just want sex.
Ok, in Europe you can date for 6 months without becoming an official couple, but in those 6 months you would probably get to hold hands, kiss, and if people are open do even more or go all the way. I know couples that got into a relationship very fast and some that were dating/ platonic for 4 months... before anything happened.
You can't generalize a whole dating culture to a whole continent with different counntries with very different cultures. It's not the case at all for my country
@@sekaitherborn3618 That is why I did not generalize at all, I said "In Europe, you can do this", but I saw fast dating and slow dating as well. So I was saying exactly that there is not only one way, it depends on people and what they prefer.
@@shamkand Well, you could also say that for Latin America, the US, Canada and some places in Maghreb too, but those places have a huge diversity in dating sultures. I am generaly against making statements for a whole continent since generalizes too much or end up being a void statement. But yeah, I get it, maybe you wanted to talk about the diversity of situations.
@@sekaitherborn3618 I only said Europe because I only lived in multiple countries in Europe and I don't know about America (I did not experience it). They were saying that in Korea there is a "Korean type of dating" that people know about and asked if there is something similar in other places, so I wanted to say in Europe I did not notice a thing that everyone is doing and is specific only to a country. I noticed that depending on the person it can go both ways.
@@shamkand Yes, but it is not specific to Europe, to me it is too broad of a statement to really mean something. Don't worry, I understood what you meant, I was talking about a preference of mine in terms of cultural commentary.
Sean is so composed and his arguments are on point! He has to come back! As a French woman I relate to Anna so much hahaha! Conclusion : just don't go to Hongdae!
I really like this channel and the panels have been great. I know people think Sean is acting weird but he was spitting facts most if not all of the time especially about the desperation that can be found sometimes at the club. Guys can be real thirsty, like desert thirsty. Keep the great videos going.
I really don't get that "if you don't have money don't date" thing. I'm not looking for a sponser when I date I'm looking for someone to share my life with. the fact that in order to date you need to prove you can pay for it is just sad. and no it is not "realistic" it's just sad
I agree. It makes me sad whenever people say this. Like yeah, it's great if the guy pays for your date. But, as long as he's honest, sincere, and tries to provide within his means (not limited to financially), money shouldn't be a requirement to date or have a relationship.
I spent 4 hours hangout with this guy. He was a friend of my friend. Before meeting we spoke for 2 months occasionally and one day he invited me for dinner. He paid for it. Then I took him to a Cafe for coffee and dessert I paid for it. I told him I had a great time and told him upfront that we shouldn't meet again. We have different vision and views about life so I don't want to waste his time and my time. A week later he asked me out again to try a new restaurant but I declined the offer.
It’s a matter of taste when it comes to whether all korean men and women are good looking. Right now as Sonja says there’s a lot of photoshopping and surgeries so you do not get what you see. It’s fake unfortunately. Good talk.
Sean is so stiff and he isn’t showing relaxed chemistry with the ladies, no single eye contact like David showes😂 it’s funny and weird! Seems he must be shy 🙈
Yeah but why it seems he has some ego there? Like he' s judging the girls answers / responses. And he seems so like " don t give that much f what they are saying " kinda of vibe. Is just shyness ? dunno
I’m discovering your podcast and I subscribed right away! I love this type of videos. I’m following Sean streams on Twitch and it feels weird to see him almost shy haha Also, thank you Ana for representing France so well!
I agree with Sean on paying for the first date, but the reason behind it the girls mentioned has been debunked many a times because it doesn't make no sense, especially in the USA. Also, there are a lot reasons why men are calling him a simp. There have been a lot of incidents where women are using men for foodie calls, which is an actual term where women will only accept a date for a free meal. Also, have girls going on a dating spree and encouraging other women to do it, where they go on a date with multiple guys or one guy a day for a month. Why would any guy want to spend their money and time with a woman who is not focused on getting to know him where she has her mind on the other guys she will be dating after this one. Even though not all women are like that, but it is safer to split the bill or go on a low effort first date like coffee.
Most guys find it easier to approach women that gives those kinds of signals because we know you are attracted to us, rather than girls that don't. Less chance of being rejected and more of having a good conversation to get to know each other.
I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!! I feel like there are so still so many misconceptions and assumptions about dating, love life, and romance in korea and this episode was just the tip of the iceberg! We definitely need a part 2!!! ❤❤❤
The Korean wave has affected me in a good and bad way...good in that it showing the world that the nerdy quiet asian guy trope is not the only thing people will think of when talking about asian guys but also bad because it created a craze where girls will date asian guys but only if you're Korean...take me for example...I don't have the "stereotypical asian guy look" because im 6'1 and i have an ambiguous asian look where people cant actually tell what kind of asian i am..but when they ask, i tell them im not korean but Vietnamese American and you could literally see the light in their eyes slowly disappear and their interest start to wane...its like these girls are looking at us like breeds of dogs and apparently im not the right kind of breed for them. 🤷
7:45 so the girl didn't get the clue that the bf at the time didn't want her to hang out with other guys. 1 how is that a red flag, that's a boundary albeit the guy didn't state it explicitly but its pretty obvious he doesn't like it. Yet you still did it anyways.... Makes sense why he lost interest.
I totally disagree with "if you don't have money don't date". Please. Just go have a discussion on a park or do things that don't need to be expensive. Even a meal should not be a must.
Lol. Uhm why is Sean looking directly at the camera and licking his lips😅. I'm so distracted. What is he trying to communicate to us? Great show, as always
As a woman, I dont agree with that "guy should pay becouse we spend more money in looking prettyer" . If a woman wants to waste money in make up, clothes and hairstyle, it should not be man's reason to pay for first dates. No one's asking you to do it... Man do also find non make up and over dessed gils pretty. So if you are in the need to do all those things to feel confident in your datings, its about your inner ishues and decitions, not man's ishues, they have its owns. I personaly waste money in clothes and other carying things so i can feel and look pretty in my eyes.. but not looking for others acceptance or likeling.. Just for me liking myself, and feeling confortable with my style and in consequence... atracting man as i shine. And by the way, no girl can know hoy much money a guy is wasting in clothes, shoes, gym, food, hairstyle or even makeup to look atracttive. I'm not saying girls should pay.. or man should.. I'm just gving my opinion on that coment "we waste more money getting ready for the dates so man should pay". Saludos! Gracias por compartir vuestras conversaciones con todos!
The amount of people in the comments who though that David was serious about being a virgin is concerning. It's such an old joke😅... I guess a lot of audience is super new and never seen DKDK news and other stuff.
I think it's only fair that both the guy and girl split the bill on the first date since they are both invested in getting to know each other. To me, the idea that women shouldn't have to pay because we spend more time & money getting dressed screams entitlement because 1. Aren't we doing this voluntarily? 2. We shouldn't assume (especially in this day and age!) that men don't care about their appearance just as much as (or more than) we do. Terms like chivalry have such strong connotations; imo it's better to expect basic courtesy from the other person. This is just another perspective :) These KPC podcasts have been great, David! 🙌
Appreciate your breakdown regarding the idea that the man should pay simply because the woman "puts in more effort to get ready.". I couldn't wrap my head around how she was justifying that.
Hongdae is for young boys, young guys are the worst choice. No women that Is looking for a man would go for a young dude. Older men are the best. Older men are better. I only like much older men.
Another great episode! Keep up the great work David! You shine as the leader of the pizza club 😁 Where did Sean get the name Gregory from still wondering 😂 Hi Ana and my girl Sonja, love how you tell it like it is 😂
I,m 71 years old and I disagree with Ana and Soña in my time the guys always paid. I didn’t ever paid for them and didn’t have to sleep with them. I respect girls now who are so liberal, but I don’t agree with them, I’m a romantic person I can’t go from one man to another. I dated a lot of guys but they respected me and I respected them and we had an amazing time together. Yes we kissed and hugged but no going to bed with them. And I’m from Texas. I like men and women to respect themselves that’s part of loving themselves. This is my opinion and I respect your opinion. For me Ana I let them pay for everything and I will not feel uncomfortable. I live in The USA and the guys always pay everything, I never had to pay for anything. I do things the old way and it brings lots more happiness.
paying for someones meal has nothing to do with romance in my opinion 😅 back in the day it might have been okay for the guy to settle the bill since the socio economic standards were different between women and men. but nowadays how's it fair that the guy always has to pay eventhough both parties earn their own money? feminism and equality goes both ways. men also need to be freed from such unreasonable expectations.
Watched several of your videos now, loving your show... and as others mentioned, the vibe for this panel was awesome. Balanced and chill! I love Sean's very thoughtful and considerate attitude too from the male perspective. Both women were lovely! What Ana said about the time and cost women invest in the dates, yessss!
I like how David is confident of his identity as conservative Christian!✨ and I like how others respected that. I am also conservative women and it’s not like I am not romantic or don’t like guys, but I don’t want to date for fun and only want to have a serious relationship that leads to marriage 🌸 so if I date I don’t want fast skinship , I want to take things slow☺️ so I really understand David’s view of relationships and it’s very beautiful ✨
Unfortunately here in my country,Angola, most men I knew think like this. If you try to pay or manage to pay your bill, they lose interest. But if you accept that he pays you are a prostitu... Because of this view of the men I will ask the waiter for separate bills.
For me is the one that makes the invitation pays. It feels wrong to make an invite let the other pay. I like to pay as well or more like reciprocate and treat people. I think the relathionship should be dynamic.
This is true but also kind of circular. In dating it's still expected that the vast majority of the time a guy will be the one asking first, so you can't really use that as a justification because it ends up just being the same as "men should pay because they're men". The other justifications actually relate to gender e.g. women's investment in looking good. Or the fact that men tend to earn more on average.
Again a great show, great guests, thank you David 🎉🎉🎉 Also western RS are not typically fast,not all of them, very many follow the 3 steps rule intuitively withoutt knowing its a rule in other countries, I guess if you are serious you automatically wont rush.., in my opinion it's not about culture, its about life attitude , I have been in a very long marriage with a foreign man and cultural stuff has never been a problem...we both never felt that we have to make any kind of sacrifices..maybe I am alone with my opinion about clubbing, but still I don't do clubbing when I am in a relationship and to be very honest I would not be amused if my man would do it either, I go with my man if I want to dance in a club....so in my case I looked for a likeminded man and by that ,this kind of "problems " don't even come up...But again it has nothing to do with culture, its about: do peeps really match, do they vibe, do they have similar values,similar life approach? Belive me if that fits, race,culture whatever will not play a role.. hope everyone finds his/hers right and best match, sometimes it's just takes a little longer...If you have good intentions and live decently it will come...please do absolutely part 2,3 4,5
Your correct. Essentially do your VALUES align. Part of the reason why there are issues is because people place heavy weighting on sex, attractions don’t chemistry in the beginning, but these things fade and then your only left with values afterwards!
@@RedDevilStudio Exactly, the martix is a superficial one, peeps are so brainwashed and chaise the wrong stuff believing hard that it is the right stuff..
I'm danish and have children older and younger than them. I will admit that i was a worried when they said that they whanted to go and try live in asia(they have not yet) but i think as a mother i allmost only took the bad stuff from the media. My children are raised very openminded so i am afraid they could get hurt for that But this video made me realize that i my not be that openminded myself.
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Sean look likes he would date himself
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I love Sean on this podcast! His voice is so nice❤ and he has such good points! We want him back another time.
Love the podcast and guests, and the premise of the show as a whole. Different people with different opinions. The show will definitely keep growing!
Koreans are pretty shy. I met few of them in Canada and I had to say a pickup line or something else to show an interest. At the same time, I totally understand the differences between our culture. Knowing those differences might be easier to understand each other.
When I dated my husband - he always paid - this is how we dated in the U.S. Not sure now as I have been married for 20 years.
Sean - If you are reading this, pls know that you have got a great voice man. Do think about dubbing or something like that.💯😁
When women make equal pay (at least in the USA), then they can pay for the date... unless the woman asks the man... that being said, a date doesn't have to be expensive as long as there's a connection & mutual respect. Be creative!
Thank you for having me David… and yes because i stream i am so accustomed to facing the camera while speaking. Next time ill just be in David’s face the whole time.
🤣🤣🤣 thank you for coming Sean
Kkkkk but you did good 😅😊
I just loved your input on David's show, so I subscribed to your channel.I only subscribed to people who give out educational advise or talk talk sense👌
but you did good ❤ i just thought it was because of the headphones like you were trying to hear the others clearly that's why you're so focused 😂
It's okay, I find it hard to make eye contact with people. People are too quick to judge or think something is weird because they expect us all to be the same. I think you did well
That’s so funny that Korean guys think us foreigners are easy. But I actually think Korean boys are easy. It just takes someone having a different hair color for them to pull their pants down
Men are easy in general yes.
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Lol men are easy period
Because they’re wanting that to begin with…lol…those women are exactly doing what those Korean boys want
Hahahaahhahaahahhaahahhahahaha 😂
I love how Sean NEVER looked at the others faces. Thats so funny. Moreover I really like listening to his voice, it sounds so pleasant.
Yeah, I picked up on that very quickly. I don’t know why it bothered me.
Bothered me too. Why didn’t look at them?
yeah it came off arrogant to me especially when hhe started speaking idk why but the vibe i got from him was just off
His voice is very pleasant. IDK if its the mic but it sounds really good.
I think he did look at least once, but maybe the reason he tried his best NOT to look is because someone told him "look at the camera", and he just did as told. ;)
sometimes people with social anxeity do that too. but that is me just speculating. It can also b. e related to how he processes his thoughts. but he is looking at the camera sometimes so i dunno
20:08 no offense but this is the mature and adult response. Sometimes you need to just ask for what you want. People talk about Koreans being more conservative but a woman relying on signals and nonverbal communication is pretty conservative too. In the same way men miss out on women for failing to ask them out, women are gonna miss out on men because they think he should just "get" the signal.
I felt some of the comments were a bit back and forth too. It's too all assuming when there's diversity of thought and mostly under rep of introverts
True. Why are they expecting he makes the move every time and even saying « I lost interest » like what? That’s weird🥴 they are extremely shy from my experience they don’t speak feelings as much and for those people that’s different from sex. So if they commit to see you 6 -7 times they have an interest
Sean's voice is so pleasant to listen to omg... He sounds so composed and intelligent when he speaks 😩
David is so sweet lol I like that gentle, respectful, Christian boy vibe. Never change David lol Also I agree with Sean. When the guy pays there is some type of exchange (not like a hook up, but just more input in other areas).
Sean could literally do audiobooks with his voice. 😩😭
I agree with David No meeting guys on social media it’s very dangerous.
My Vietnamese American friend visited Korea for a month. A good looking guy too. A Russian gal saw him at a bar and they started talking…as soon as he told her that he wasn’t Korean, she friend zoned him.😂
vietnamese american are smart sweet caring and work hard for their goals and girlfriends and family
@@virginiaperez-baez2445 agree…too bad he wasn’t Korean though. The foreign women in Korea are seeking Korean men only. 😂
Good god, how pathetic
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a boyfriend not wanting you to go to the movies alone with another guy is not a red flag...
I was thinking the same !
I think it depends on the situation, I can imagine situations in which that's a reasonable want
@@essennagerryin which situations do you from your point of view think it wouldn't be odd?
@@grownsimba8120 maybe, just maybe some kindergarten friends (like loong time pals)? but then I do not see why not to bring a boyfriend if he wants to hangout...
They will say everything that a Korean man does is a red flag. I don't know their personal beliefs but the way this show was going is just for the sake of trashing Korean men.
I met my Korean boyfriend in kind of unconventional way...I'm super introverted so I hate going to clubs lol...and I'm not someone who can handle casual sexual/romantic relationships because I'm sensitive and get emotionally attached easily (know thyself). I joined a pen pal app, found him as a language exchange partner, and we were able to grow a friendship while writing each other long-form letters for a few months before realizing we had romantic feelings for each other. We started sending each other snail-mail letters and packages. 6 months later he was able to come visit me in the U.S. for the first time, and I'm planning to come visit Korea in a month! Learning about him and his life, growing closer over a longer period of time, and falling in love has been the most rewarding experience of my life.
There are ways you can put yourself "out there" while avoiding the hellscape that is modern-day dating/hookup apps and skeevy people and f*ckboys at clubs!
That's lovely...what was the site
I would like to know the name of the site too please!
I've been trying to find something like that. pen pals would be great. I'm not really for the romantic part, but I remember when we had pen pals back in school. it was fun. what did you use?
Oh poor you…wish you the best tho but be ready just incase
Oh what was the app?? I’m trying to improve my French and would love to have a pen pal!
some topic ideas:
-relationships with korean parents, their expectations, how they feel about non-traditional careers
-finances in kr, how people view saving/investing/getting loans, how do ppl pay for college/grad school, how ppl can afford houses/weddings, how the stock market is set up
-how foreigners establish new businesses in kr
-k-drama vs. reality
-college life e.g. traditions, dorm life, getting into grad school vs. undergrad
I like Sean. First time to see him and he is such a team player in a conversation. He listens and understands quality in discussion.
But he will never look you in the eye during these deep conversations 😂
@@inquisitvem6723 because he was so into the conversation you know😄
I met my Korean bf on tinder a year ago. The difference might be that he's from the countryside and had never dated a foreigner. This to me gives him some kind of innocence that you won't find in those guys in Hongdae. I don't live in Seoul and neither does my bf and I made a point of only messaging guys in KOREAN. The problem is when you use English your pool of potential suitors is a lot smaller and a lot of these guys who are good at English and good looking are well aware of these facts and so they can play with foreign girls. SO my advice would be to stay away from the obvious "good at English, well acquainted with the foreign community" guys. I visited Hongdae at night recently (for the first and probably last time) and saw a whole group of foreign girls standing around this one Korean guy... would you do this in your country? Think about it! this is how you give men egos girls!
Anna and Sean has such potential to be regulars on this :D
Anna seems to be into Sean 😅
@@raquelfigueroa5539 how?
Complementing him every chance she gets. Nothing wrong with that though.
Bro wtf, anna has a boyfriend already lol.
On point, as always! With respect to foreign women being considered easy, as a Latina myself, I found the stereotypes other countries have on foreigners, specially certain nationalities, very problematic whenever I go abroad. I guess the best would be for people just to understand that each person is different and you should get to know the person before making any assumptions… that’s what I try to do at least.
I totally understand why women ask Sean for relationship advice. He is polite, soft spoken and trying to be honest. Of course he is calculate his answers and created this good boy image deliberately.
polite and soft spoken? i am watching a different video
He seem to be the serious type, which is good for long term relation I suppose.
@@loveyourself6986 You're obviously watching a different video. He is VERY polite, and his voice is soothing and gentle.
Sean is a vibe... He's giving off a serious, reserved, chill vibe, yet also kind and good listening.
Great episode David, thank you 🙏 Loved seeing Sonia again, she was my favourite on Ramyeon and Chill. Anna was awesome, and Sean was fantastic too - I really liked the vibe. Looking forward to the next episode - you are almost at 10k!!
is Sean's physical behavior due to him being a twitch streamer? i'm fascinated by the fact that he barely turns his head to acknowledge the other panelists whenever they speak and he almost never makes eye contact. he's just talking to the camera and it's kind of off-putting considering there are other humans next to him...
Maybe but I also act this way naturally so maybe that’s just his personality.🤷🏻♀️
I think he is just a shy person cuz even when he have coloration with other bloggers he is also a bit closed and doesn’t show that much emotions and he started his career few month ago so I think we just have to give him some time.
He’s shy + twitch personality too.
Sean comes across as a person who’s pretending to be some kind of wise guru. It’s so pretentious!🙄
@@PhilCherry3 in my experience, I have been judged a lot for my appearance, because everyone says that I look like a bitch with a crown on my head, but in my youth I am completely different. That's why I don't judge people by the cover.
It's so sick that in Korea dating is perceived as an investment. My Korean friend has been single for years because he said he can't afford dating until he finds a job and is financially stable.
"I am a conservative, Christian, virgin boy, so obviously I don't have sex". Congrats, dear David, for having the courage to reveal this publicly. In West you could be laughed at if you say publicly something like this...
I am also a Christian woman, I am in my 30s, I am European, I am highly educated (Ph.D.) and I am virgin. There is nothing wrong with that, it is about personal values. My boyfriend accepts it and agrees with it. And I have a lot of friends (both males and females) who are virgins in their 20s and 30s or who got married as virgins (not all of them are religious people).
Respect❤
That statement was a flex and I loved it.. I wish I can also say that but I am no longer a virgin.
Big respect😮
I'm a muslim over 30 and I've never dated nor had any sexual relationships with men and I was amazed by what you said!
considering I'm as atheist as they come (and from pretty much the least religious country in the world) and a lesbian, this comment surprisingly resonates with me a lot. I've only had one sexual partner, have always prioritized education (working as a university lecturer since I was 20) and am nearly 30 now. I think it's bizarre that not wanting to sleep around with every other person and innately feeling like that would be immoral, gross and wrong for you personally is only associated with being religious. morals exist independently from religions and aren't necessarily based on patriarchal prejudices against women etc. I just think it is sexist and unfair of hetero men to expect chastity of women if they don't follow the same rules. it is insane to me that virginity is considered more shameful these days than changing bedmates like socks.
personally, I wouldn't want to date a woman who's had many partners, especially male ones. it doesn't mean I'm "sl*tshaming" anyone, I just know that we aren't compatible in terms of values, relationship ideals, how serious we are about dating, and of course sexuality. not wanting to date someone incompatible isn't prejudice, it's common sense. I have tried being more open-minded and dated the serial dater types of women and they've always led me on and betrayed me so not making that mistake again. similarly, I don't expect someone who wants a partner with p0rn star level experience to date me either. it's just about compatibility after all.
I'm pretty sure he was being sarcastic because I have watched him on both Kelsey's channel and DKDK tv and on both channels he has talked about sleeping with multiple women, some even on the first date.....
I’m in Korea right now, staying in Hongdae and I just got here a couple of days ago and already feel this vibe from the guys here😅
David I respect you for being a virgin. Such a breath of fresh air
He‘s joking.. I’ve been watching other videos of him on different channels
great episode. love how all the panelists have different views and bring up interesting points and perspectives. but Sean come on not everyone has a face as beautiful as yours😂
Can we have a part 2? This is such an interesting topic
wow I am feeling so uncomfortable right now... its been 7 minutes in the video and Sean seems quite agressive towards the rest? like saying its gonna be thw whole show Sonja talking...i dont know if thats his humour but I am having a really hard time to watch this right now
There are some western people that do their dates the way David does. There are those who do take it slow. They wait till the second or third date before they even hold hands. There are many places in America that have their dating, the same way that David was explaining his.
I need to turn this ep off because of Sean's vibe.
David: “I’m a conservative Christian virgin. So I don’t have sex.”
Sean: “I think that’s beautiful.”
Me: Oh that homeboy (Sean) gets LAID!
He just drips with sensuality lol
I think that korean guy think foreign girls are easy because, in the opinion of the guys, they are so much easier to impress. In the west, girls sometimes do judge people based on their income and everything, but it's considered shallow and taboo. I think korean guys feel like they have to work SO HARD to impress korean women. So by comparison "western girls are easy" .
I think it is really not okay to blame it on Korean girls. The fact is in general men find foreign women easy wherever you go. Because they think it’d be without any strings attached, any responsibility and even without any potential future. Just like Sonja said.
@@dodbdbsofooomdomm I'm not blaming the girls (korean or foreign). I'm blaming the guys for not correctly interpretting the behaviors of people from other cultures.
In fact, I think these misinterpretations are dangerous.
Good mix of personalities with your guests on this episode. I feel like there was some kind of "elephant" in the room but I have no idea what it was. Maybe I am looking to much into that aspect of the this episode but
I enjoyed the topics and a bit more about what the perceptions are. ;)
This panel vibes REALLY well! Hope to see everyone back 💜💖
Honestly, as far as the first date and who pays, I feel like who ever invites the other should pay. If the girl asks the guy, she should pay.
This is basically a roundabout way to say men should pay since men still do the vast majority of asking.
I love these girls the way they think and their attitude. I really like Sonja since Ramyun and Chill. Anna is the type of girl I want to friends with too! And that guy should be Radio DJ of MBC! his voice is smooth🫠
Would love to have another episode with Sean! I feel like he's a bit reserved and didn't get as much of a chance to speak!
I love this topic. I really like the stories of the cast . 😍 More dating topics in the future please. 🥰
Lolz, Koreans get into relationships quickly to have sex and then break up few weeks later. That's what Koreans told me. And no, we don't have month long situationships in Europe. We have either relationships or situationsships and both parties are clear on what it is or one party pretending sth to the other to get sex. I guess all of these are pretty international.
That's my thought Koreans just date fast to have sex but some how make it seem like the way they go about it is conservative and prue and it's like no just be honest you just want sex.
Ok, in Europe you can date for 6 months without becoming an official couple, but in those 6 months you would probably get to hold hands, kiss, and if people are open do even more or go all the way.
I know couples that got into a relationship very fast and some that were dating/ platonic for 4 months... before anything happened.
You can't generalize a whole dating culture to a whole continent with different counntries with very different cultures. It's not the case at all for my country
@@sekaitherborn3618 That is why I did not generalize at all, I said "In Europe, you can do this", but I saw fast dating and slow dating as well. So I was saying exactly that there is not only one way, it depends on people and what they prefer.
@@shamkand Well, you could also say that for Latin America, the US, Canada and some places in Maghreb too, but those places have a huge diversity in dating sultures. I am generaly against making statements for a whole continent since generalizes too much or end up being a void statement. But yeah, I get it, maybe you wanted to talk about the diversity of situations.
@@sekaitherborn3618 I only said Europe because I only lived in multiple countries in Europe and I don't know about America (I did not experience it).
They were saying that in Korea there is a "Korean type of dating" that people know about and asked if there is something similar in other places, so I wanted to say in Europe I did not notice a thing that everyone is doing and is specific only to a country. I noticed that depending on the person it can go both ways.
@@shamkand Yes, but it is not specific to Europe, to me it is too broad of a statement to really mean something. Don't worry, I understood what you meant, I was talking about a preference of mine in terms of cultural commentary.
Thank you again for the invitation David :) had an amazing time debating with you guys
Sean is so composed and his arguments are on point! He has to come back! As a French woman I relate to Anna so much hahaha! Conclusion : just don't go to Hongdae!
I really like this channel and the panels have been great. I know people think Sean is acting weird but he was spitting facts most if not all of the time especially about the desperation that can be found sometimes at the club. Guys can be real thirsty, like desert thirsty. Keep the great videos going.
David, I'm loving your Korea Pizza Club! And this episode was lots of fun, and informative. Everyone on your panel was really smart and honest.
I really don't get that "if you don't have money don't date" thing. I'm not looking for a sponser when I date I'm looking for someone to share my life with. the fact that in order to date you need to prove you can pay for it is just sad. and no it is not "realistic" it's just sad
I agree. It makes me sad whenever people say this. Like yeah, it's great if the guy pays for your date. But, as long as he's honest, sincere, and tries to provide within his means (not limited to financially), money shouldn't be a requirement to date or have a relationship.
I spent 4 hours hangout with this guy. He was a friend of my friend. Before meeting we spoke for 2 months occasionally and one day he invited me for dinner. He paid for it. Then I took him to a Cafe for coffee and dessert I paid for it.
I told him I had a great time and told him upfront that we shouldn't meet again. We have different vision and views about life so I don't want to waste his time and my time. A week later he asked me out again to try a new restaurant but I declined the offer.
Have any latino friends to do the podcast? Peace
It’s a matter of taste when it comes to whether all korean men and women are good looking. Right now as Sonja says there’s a lot of photoshopping and surgeries so you do not get what you see. It’s fake unfortunately. Good talk.
Is it me or sean looks stiff as hell 😂😂
The girl on the left is so annoying. She always tries to correct people on their opinions. "Loud and wrong" is the expression.
I did not realize it. She only says that she disagrees with some points. It's okay to disagree.
Sean is so stiff and he isn’t showing relaxed chemistry with the ladies, no single eye contact like David showes😂 it’s funny and weird! Seems he must be shy 🙈
Yeah but why it seems he has some ego there? Like he' s judging the girls answers / responses. And he seems so like " don t give that much f what they are saying " kinda of vibe. Is just shyness ? dunno
My boy sean! Mr ethereal!
Just here handing out wisdom nuggets 😊😊 y’all are fantastic. Great stuff
Why is that guy just staring straight ahead… reminds me of myself maybe he has trauma
Is it just me or did Sean seem a little on edge towards sonja?
Sean killing it 💯 ASIAN BATMAN!
Lol Sean why so serious….
I’m discovering your podcast and I subscribed right away! I love this type of videos. I’m following Sean streams on Twitch and it feels weird to see him almost shy haha Also, thank you Ana for representing France so well!
I agree with Sean on paying for the first date, but the reason behind it the girls mentioned has been debunked many a times because it doesn't make no sense, especially in the USA. Also, there are a lot reasons why men are calling him a simp. There have been a lot of incidents where women are using men for foodie calls, which is an actual term where women will only accept a date for a free meal. Also, have girls going on a dating spree and encouraging other women to do it, where they go on a date with multiple guys or one guy a day for a month. Why would any guy want to spend their money and time with a woman who is not focused on getting to know him where she has her mind on the other guys she will be dating after this one. Even though not all women are like that, but it is safer to split the bill or go on a low effort first date like coffee.
Most guys find it easier to approach women that gives those kinds of signals because we know you are attracted to us, rather than girls that don't. Less chance of being rejected and more of having a good conversation to get to know each other.
Why would you go to the movies with a guy if you had a bf? If it was a group thing, then ok. Is that necessary?
8:00. Why would this woman think that a man not wanting you to go to the movies with another man is a red flag? Actually, she is the red flag.
I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!! I feel like there are so still so many misconceptions and assumptions about dating, love life, and romance in korea and this episode was just the tip of the iceberg! We definitely need a part 2!!! ❤❤❤
The Korean wave has affected me in a good and bad way...good in that it showing the world that the nerdy quiet asian guy trope is not the only thing people will think of when talking about asian guys but also bad because it created a craze where girls will date asian guys but only if you're Korean...take me for example...I don't have the "stereotypical asian guy look" because im 6'1 and i have an ambiguous asian look where people cant actually tell what kind of asian i am..but when they ask, i tell them im not korean but Vietnamese American and you could literally see the light in their eyes slowly disappear and their interest start to wane...its like these girls are looking at us like breeds of dogs and apparently im not the right kind of breed for them. 🤷
7:45 so the girl didn't get the clue that the bf at the time didn't want her to hang out with other guys. 1 how is that a red flag, that's a boundary albeit the guy didn't state it explicitly but its pretty obvious he doesn't like it. Yet you still did it anyways.... Makes sense why he lost interest.
Same for me!
Will she be okay with him hanging out alonw with a girl? I mean how is that supposed to be a red flag?
Absolutely communication is key in any relationship/ friendship in any dating situation
I totally disagree with "if you don't have money don't date". Please. Just go have a discussion on a park or do things that don't need to be expensive. Even a meal should not be a must.
Asian Batman is the best and yaya !
Lol. Uhm why is Sean looking directly at the camera and licking his lips😅. I'm so distracted. What is he trying to communicate to us?
Great show, as always
Sean is the best
As a woman, I dont agree with that "guy should pay becouse we spend more money in looking prettyer" .
If a woman wants to waste money in make up, clothes and hairstyle, it should not be man's reason to pay for first dates.
No one's asking you to do it... Man do also find non make up and over dessed gils pretty. So if you are in the need to do all those things to feel confident in your datings, its about your inner ishues and decitions, not man's ishues, they have its owns.
I personaly waste money in clothes and other carying things so i can feel and look pretty in my eyes.. but not looking for others acceptance or likeling.. Just for me liking myself, and feeling confortable with my style and in consequence... atracting man as i shine.
And by the way, no girl can know hoy much money a guy is wasting in clothes, shoes, gym, food, hairstyle or even makeup to look atracttive.
I'm not saying girls should pay.. or man should.. I'm just gving my opinion on that coment "we waste more money getting ready for the dates so man should pay".
Saludos! Gracias por compartir vuestras conversaciones con todos!
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You did great!!!! ❤❤
communication is key in every friendship, relationship
The amount of people in the comments who though that David was serious about being a virgin is concerning. It's such an old joke😅... I guess a lot of audience is super new and never seen DKDK news and other stuff.
I think it's only fair that both the guy and girl split the bill on the first date since they are both invested in getting to know each other. To me, the idea that women shouldn't have to pay because we spend more time & money getting dressed screams entitlement because 1. Aren't we doing this voluntarily? 2. We shouldn't assume (especially in this day and age!) that men don't care about their appearance just as much as (or more than) we do.
Terms like chivalry have such strong connotations; imo it's better to expect basic courtesy from the other person. This is just another perspective :)
These KPC podcasts have been great, David! 🙌
Appreciate your breakdown regarding the idea that the man should pay simply because the woman "puts in more effort to get ready.".
I couldn't wrap my head around how she was justifying that.
Hongdae is for young boys, young guys are the worst choice. No women that Is looking for a man would go for a young dude. Older men are the best. Older men are better. I only like much older men.
Another great episode! Keep up the great work David! You shine as the leader of the pizza club 😁 Where did Sean get the name Gregory from still wondering 😂 Hi Ana and my girl Sonja, love how you tell it like it is 😂
I,m 71 years old and I disagree with Ana and Soña in my time the guys always paid. I didn’t ever paid for them and didn’t have to sleep with them. I respect girls now who are so liberal, but I don’t agree with them, I’m a romantic person I can’t go from one man to another. I dated a lot of guys but they respected me and I respected them and we had an amazing time together. Yes we kissed and hugged but no going to bed with them. And I’m from Texas. I like men and women to respect themselves that’s part of loving themselves. This is my opinion and I respect your opinion. For me Ana I let them pay for everything and I will not feel uncomfortable. I live in The USA and the guys always pay everything, I never had to pay for anything. I do things the old way and it brings lots more happiness.
paying for someones meal has nothing to do with romance in my opinion 😅
back in the day it might have been okay for the guy to settle the bill since the socio economic standards were different between women and men. but nowadays how's it fair that the guy always has to pay eventhough both parties earn their own money? feminism and equality goes both ways. men also need to be freed from such unreasonable expectations.
I agree with you and I'm gen z. The old fashion way is better, letting the man pay is better
@@moonnamu96 Really? Most men I know lose interest in women who pay them something or try to pay them something.
I was reading Ana's handle and was like "Oh her name is Itsana, it's sooo pretty 😍" and then I realized that "it's ana" after I read sean's 🤦♀️
Watched several of your videos now, loving your show... and as others mentioned, the vibe for this panel was awesome. Balanced and chill! I love Sean's very thoughtful and considerate attitude too from the male perspective. Both women were lovely! What Ana said about the time and cost women invest in the dates, yessss!
I like how David is confident of his identity as conservative Christian!✨ and I like how others respected that. I am also conservative women and it’s not like I am not romantic or don’t like guys, but I don’t want to date for fun and only want to have a serious relationship that leads to marriage 🌸 so if I date I don’t want fast skinship , I want to take things slow☺️ so I really understand David’s view of relationships and it’s very beautiful ✨
Some guys who pay for the date also expect sex, so the gals might have the wrong thinking here.
But that doesn't mean you have to give him sex.
@@chrystianaw8256 I hear ya, but I’m just saying the Korean guys seem to think that
Unfortunately here in my country,Angola, most men I knew think like this.
If you try to pay or manage to pay your bill, they lose interest. But if you accept that he pays you are a prostitu...
Because of this view of the men I will ask the waiter for separate bills.
I’m Bolivian and did not expect that shoutout haha 😅
Why would you go on a date to watch a movie with an other guy than your boyfriend?? At least bring your boyfriend with you!
ngl this channel deserves wayyyyyy more subscribers...rooting for the Pizza Club to reach atleast 100k!!!
The only 2 normal acting ppl here is david and anna lol
Very insightful episode again. Sad to hear guys take advantage of the popularity of K-pop so they can get foreigners to like them
For me is the one that makes the invitation pays. It feels wrong to make an invite let the other pay. I like to pay as well or more like reciprocate and treat people. I think the relathionship should be dynamic.
This is true but also kind of circular. In dating it's still expected that the vast majority of the time a guy will be the one asking first, so you can't really use that as a justification because it ends up just being the same as "men should pay because they're men".
The other justifications actually relate to gender e.g. women's investment in looking good. Or the fact that men tend to earn more on average.
I agree….
What if it’s often the same one who invite ?
+ sometimes it’s not an invitation but a proposition to go out..
Really? Most men I know lose interest in women who pay them something or try to pay them something.
@@vichgold384 they say why?
Again a great show, great guests, thank you David 🎉🎉🎉 Also western RS are not typically fast,not all of them, very many follow the 3 steps rule intuitively withoutt knowing its a rule in other countries, I guess if you are serious you automatically wont rush.., in my opinion it's not about culture, its about life attitude , I have been in a very long marriage with a foreign man and cultural stuff has never been a problem...we both never felt that we have to make any kind of sacrifices..maybe I am alone with my opinion about clubbing, but still I don't do clubbing when I am in a relationship and to be very honest I would not be amused if my man would do it either, I go with my man if I want to dance in a club....so in my case I looked for a likeminded man and by that ,this kind of "problems " don't even come up...But again it has nothing to do with culture, its about: do peeps really match, do they vibe, do they have similar values,similar life approach? Belive me if that fits, race,culture whatever will not play a role.. hope everyone finds his/hers right and best match, sometimes it's just takes a little longer...If you have good intentions and live decently it will come...please do absolutely part 2,3 4,5
Your correct. Essentially do your VALUES align. Part of the reason why there are issues is because people place heavy weighting on sex, attractions don’t chemistry in the beginning, but these things fade and then your only left with values afterwards!
@@RedDevilStudio Exactly, the martix is a superficial one, peeps are so brainwashed and chaise the wrong stuff believing hard that it is the right stuff..
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SEAN THE BEST EVER YAYAYAYA🦇🦇🦇🦇
Sonia was cut off from the video at least half of the time. Please correct that in the future.
I'm danish and have children older and younger than them. I will admit that i was a worried when they said that they whanted to go and try live in asia(they have not yet) but i think as a mother i allmost only took the bad stuff from the media. My children are raised very openminded so i am afraid they could get hurt for that
But this video made me realize that i my not be that openminded myself.
This is a rare trait. I am proud you can see this in yourself.
Sean did a great job I love the way he speak ❤