என்னை பொறுத்த வரைக்கும் இதற்கான சரியான முக்கியமான ஒரு காரணம் புகுந்த வீட்டில் உள்ளவர்கள் காட்டும் பாரபட்சம் யாரிடம் அதிகம் பணம் பதவி சா வந்த உடனே ஒருவேளை உயர்த்தி பேசி ஒரு பிரிவினை ஏற்படுத்துவது பெரியவர்களும் அந்த வீட்டை சார்ந்தவர்களும் தான் என்று நான் நினைக்கிறேன் என்னுடைய அனுபவத்தை சொன்னது
ஒரு காலத்தில்.. ஒருத்தருக்கு ஒருத்தர் உதவிக்கி, வருமானத்துக்கு(பசி,பஞ்சத்துக்கு), ஆள் பலத்துக்கு,பயத்துக்கு, தகவல் தெடர்புக்கு,இப்டி பல விசயங்களுக்கு கூட்டுக்குடும்பம் சிறந்தது. அப்போது தான் இப்டி பிரச்சனைகள் வந்தது. இன்று காலம் மாறி விட்டது , ஆணோ,பெண்ணோ சொந்த காலில் நிக்க வேண்டும். 🙏
Yes doctor - irrespective of age, gender, relationship roles - dominant personalities do all this over less dominant personalities. Otherwise, one family member who has acceptance from majority family members has the power. The family member who has least acceptance is taken advantage of usually...
True doctor. Adult anaalum.. Decision making la ellarum interfere seyranga... Parents will be elderly to the children throughout the entire life.. But some day, this child becomes an adult and the parents and society must leave them free to make their own choices of life. Family perspective mismatch agura yendha vishayamum usually seyya vida maatranga...
Omg very true. Relatable topic.yrs have passed. I think i have become wise not wounded . Before i could become wise made mistakes in raising my children.
Idhula middle marumagal nilamai romba kastam😂,aadhuvum sonthathila marriage pannamna soli ya mudichivittuvanga. Disclaimer -This is purely my own experience 😢
Mam, in my case it is vice versa, I m the eldest daughter in law in my house, but I never treated as a respectful manner even didn't do any thing for me, myself alone took care my children and do some favour for my in law family, even my delivery nothing they hav done, but once my brother in law got married they treated her very respectful and allow her to go for job, do everything for her, comparatively I treated very badly, she is from North and also studied well and but they didn't allow me to go for, she is always looks at me very bad and showing attitude towards me but she and all expect that I alone do all the household work in the name of PERIYA MARUMAGAL 😢
Oru family la - sila vishangalil joint decision making rights ellarukkum kodukkanum... Individual decisions avanga yedutha aduthavangalukku badippu illai... Ellarum involve agura birthday party, veetla celebration na... Ellaraiyum involve senju pesanum... Old generation ku sila vishayam theriyum by experience.. New generation execution la fantastic ah irupanga... Family tour porom.. Yendha place pogalaam... Yarukku enga poga asai iruku? Idhukkellam expertise thevai illai... Experience thevai illai... So ippadi seyyama.. Naan mudivu seyra decision dhan final... Right from pickle brand to big decisions of family nu oruthar kitta power pochuna.. Mathavangala dummy akkitu ull manasila happy aguranga (MIL madhiri pengal) veliya idhellam indha (bad attitude) la dhan idha ivanga senjanganu.. Yendha court ponalum prove seyyave mudiyadhu.. But idha anubavikira victim ku mattum idhu theliva unarum... Making someone powerless in family... But idha nasooka seyvanga... Idha oru issue ah.. Sollava mudiyadha padikku... Ketta.. Naan thappana viewpoint la pakuren - negative person nu solliduvanga... Kadavul ennikkum keezha vandhu.. Nee sari.. Nee thavaru nu solla maatraru... Oru angel kooda erangi vara maatudhu.. But life la - idha repeated ah handle panni... Energy drain dhan agudhu... It can be never proved. Kindly share ur views in future posts doctor..
Pengal - en life la naan patha varaikkum ennena seyrangana... Prime person in the family andha oru person ah irukka continuous ah certain behaviour family kulla maintain seyranga. Andha community kulla appealing acceptance yendha qualities ah irukira madhiri kamichu.. Ellar kittayum irundhu eppadiyachum approval vangiduranga.. So indha image vangittu apparam ivanga enna logical mistakes senjaalum.. Ivanga already vechirukka image.. Ivangala kapathi kodukudhu... Case-dependant or situation case analysis seyyamale... Image vechu thappichukiranga doctor.
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Hi Madam, தயவு செய்து, இந்த RUclips chanal மூலம் எங்களுக்கு (ஆண்) தேவையான திறன்களை கற்றுத் தாருங்கள்.
என்னை பொறுத்த வரைக்கும் இதற்கான சரியான முக்கியமான ஒரு காரணம் புகுந்த வீட்டில் உள்ளவர்கள் காட்டும் பாரபட்சம் யாரிடம் அதிகம் பணம் பதவி சா வந்த உடனே ஒருவேளை உயர்த்தி பேசி ஒரு பிரிவினை ஏற்படுத்துவது பெரியவர்களும் அந்த வீட்டை சார்ந்தவர்களும் தான் என்று நான் நினைக்கிறேன் என்னுடைய அனுபவத்தை சொன்னது
என் வாழ்வில் நடந்தது.
True
Mam you are very beautiful with complete knowledge and maturity.
ஒரு காலத்தில்.. ஒருத்தருக்கு ஒருத்தர் உதவிக்கி, வருமானத்துக்கு(பசி,பஞ்சத்துக்கு), ஆள் பலத்துக்கு,பயத்துக்கு, தகவல் தெடர்புக்கு,இப்டி பல விசயங்களுக்கு கூட்டுக்குடும்பம் சிறந்தது. அப்போது தான் இப்டி பிரச்சனைகள் வந்தது.
இன்று காலம் மாறி விட்டது , ஆணோ,பெண்ணோ சொந்த காலில் நிக்க வேண்டும். 🙏
Just wow, your explanation 😮😮😮
Yes doctor - irrespective of age, gender, relationship roles - dominant personalities do all this over less dominant personalities. Otherwise, one family member who has acceptance from majority family members has the power. The family member who has least acceptance is taken advantage of usually...
Very nice talk mam.... ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Excellent! Addressing powder game between woman in family. 👌🏻
Shalini mam mam...
Really genius person 🙏
Super mam🎉
True doctor. Adult anaalum.. Decision making la ellarum interfere seyranga... Parents will be elderly to the children throughout the entire life.. But some day, this child becomes an adult and the parents and society must leave them free to make their own choices of life. Family perspective mismatch agura yendha vishayamum usually seyya vida maatranga...
Omg very true. Relatable topic.yrs have passed. I think i have become wise not wounded . Before i could become wise made mistakes in raising my children.
Thank you ❤❤
வீடு பிள்ளைகள் நிருவகிப்பது சம்மந்தமாக பெண்களின் ரோல் என்ன சொல்லுங்க
Madam nathathanar nga en madam romba imsa pandrang
Money gives respect... nothing else
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Idhula middle marumagal nilamai romba kastam😂,aadhuvum sonthathila marriage pannamna soli ya mudichivittuvanga.
Disclaimer -This is purely my own experience 😢
I hope my husband sees this video until the end😅. Namma send panna kandippa pakka mattanga
எங்க வீடுல பெரிய மருமகள்னு பண்ற அநியாயம் கடவுள் இருக்குராற
Mam, in my case it is vice versa, I m the eldest daughter in law in my house, but I never treated as a respectful manner even didn't do any thing for me, myself alone took care my children and do some favour for my in law family, even my delivery nothing they hav done, but once my brother in law got married they treated her very respectful and allow her to go for job, do everything for her, comparatively I treated very badly, she is from North and also studied well and but they didn't allow me to go for, she is always looks at me very bad and showing attitude towards me but she and all expect that I alone do all the household work in the name of PERIYA MARUMAGAL 😢
Oru family la - sila vishangalil joint decision making rights ellarukkum kodukkanum... Individual decisions avanga yedutha aduthavangalukku badippu illai... Ellarum involve agura birthday party, veetla celebration na... Ellaraiyum involve senju pesanum... Old generation ku sila vishayam theriyum by experience.. New generation execution la fantastic ah irupanga... Family tour porom.. Yendha place pogalaam... Yarukku enga poga asai iruku? Idhukkellam expertise thevai illai... Experience thevai illai... So ippadi seyyama.. Naan mudivu seyra decision dhan final... Right from pickle brand to big decisions of family nu oruthar kitta power pochuna.. Mathavangala dummy akkitu ull manasila happy aguranga (MIL madhiri pengal) veliya idhellam indha (bad attitude) la dhan idha ivanga senjanganu.. Yendha court ponalum prove seyyave mudiyadhu.. But idha anubavikira victim ku mattum idhu theliva unarum... Making someone powerless in family... But idha nasooka seyvanga... Idha oru issue ah.. Sollava mudiyadha padikku... Ketta.. Naan thappana viewpoint la pakuren - negative person nu solliduvanga... Kadavul ennikkum keezha vandhu.. Nee sari.. Nee thavaru nu solla maatraru... Oru angel kooda erangi vara maatudhu.. But life la - idha repeated ah handle panni... Energy drain dhan agudhu... It can be never proved. Kindly share ur views in future posts doctor..
உண்மைய பேசச் சொன்னா கமெண்ட்டை அழிக்கிறாங்கப்பா 😅
4:13😢😢😢
Bowing down to you Dr.
A GENIUS BRAIN in layman's term.
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Pengal - en life la naan patha varaikkum ennena seyrangana... Prime person in the family andha oru person ah irukka continuous ah certain behaviour family kulla maintain seyranga. Andha community kulla appealing acceptance yendha qualities ah irukira madhiri kamichu.. Ellar kittayum irundhu eppadiyachum approval vangiduranga.. So indha image vangittu apparam ivanga enna logical mistakes senjaalum.. Ivanga already vechirukka image.. Ivangala kapathi kodukudhu... Case-dependant or situation case analysis seyyamale... Image vechu thappichukiranga doctor.
True
in this video only intrivewer laughing
VJ sir oda experience 😂
20 வருஷத்துக்கு முன்னாடி பேச வேண்டிய பேச்சி இப்போ எல்லாம் தனி குடித்தனம் இப்போ எதுக்கு இது
Unga v2la nadakala ngra karanathukaga yaraiyume idhu pathi pesa venam nu soldradhu enna nayayam...
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Ponnuga sanda vaayala mudinchirum aangal sanda potta ratham pakkama vida mattanuga vaai erukunu yethathu ularatha boomer shalini...
Unaku thairiyam eruntha ponnugala kalyam pannatha nu advice pannu...unala mudiyathu yena ne oru pasu thol porthiya boomer puli....
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