As the child of the parent from main china, my personal tip for you when u get child is, let him learn chinese and english before indonesia (especially when he get into international school) let him learn the indonesia slowly as he grows because the language is easier to learn when speaking to his peers. This is my early age issue when i got used to indonesian language first and cannot balance the chinese and english lol. my younger brother who get learn chinese first get the mastery of both language faster
Proud of your language or your skin colour would lead your country Indonesia going nowhere...😱 Many tribes in AFRICA were so proud of their languages and cultures that they killed each other over the differences... Indonesia was a weakling, and still had so many weaknesses which had Indonesia to be colonized by that tiny little country in Europe called Dutch for 350 years... 😱
I used to have many friends from china, as we work together here in Bali in the wedding industry. The first time arrived from china, they always look and act very seriously. It was really hard to communicate. but after a few month, they got more chilled and open. we understand this might just a cultural shock. your thought about living in china compare to Indonesia are more less similar to what they said. and those my friends were always want it to comeback to Bali wkwkw.
CHINESE women are very very very very very very very very very smart, don't be fooled by their smile 😊😁 just imagine they were American women, ya, American women!
great...please enjoy live in indonesia....the happiness doesnt depend oh how much money do you get or how much properties can you buy....but many other things to reach the happiness...togetherness, family bond, travelling to the beautiful indonesian nature, to taste the delicious indonesian foods are few of them...
I love your honesty and this is an eye opening. People can think whatever they like and shouldn't be oppressed by their opinion if they have different opinions. I respect you. Anyway you're beautiful! 😍✨❤
What a beautiful humble smart lady. Glad to know you sister Piao. Thank you for sharing your personal view about Indonesia and China. Enjoy your stay in Indonesia. May the Almighty always bless you and your family with happiness and contentment. Love to hear your talk in English, Mandarin too even though I cannot speak Mandarin.
You're doing good sis. Whatever your choices. No one can defend and work for your happiness than yourself. As long as you and family happy, healthy n prosperous. None should tell you otherwise...
I'm chinese indonesia and I definitely wanted to live in Shanghai and my mom said yep it's competitive though for me living in indonesia it is to relaxed and the people are more chill or calm. Though if the people are to slow like this it will never be a modern moving country. Indonesians especially the natives should work hard so this country can prosper more
My friend worked for 6 months in Shanghai as a part of company transfer program. Since he is just a temporary worker there (live there for company project), the work-life balance is still good and the pressure is not high. He said, it will be different if you truly work and live there, the pressure is the same like working in first tier city in Japan or South Korea. People are not forced to work 996 in his case, but the worker initiatives is so high that put peer pressure into another level.
@@bebekkurus yes it is definitely true though if you are east Asian I think it would be normal and seen fine as especially we east asians have tiger moms and are always reminded to be the best. For me my American friends see me as crazy but if I get decent scores such as 99 majority of east asians will say. Damn I should've done better. It's true peer competitiveness is very high that's what makes us motivated to work harder because everyone around us is
@@αιη-τ5φ its not just they are being competitive, it also made them tricky and toxic.. so if you are not that kind of person, better avoiding working in places like hk or sg. Trust me, most competitions end ugly as people will do everything just in order to survive...
@@jeffreysuharto747 though it will make you determined and their are other ways it can impact your life. You make your country proud by working as your country grows their are more need for people in your country. If you live in Indonesia the culture is too laid back that Is why white people take advantage of our currency and the people
@@αιη-τ5φ assuming that you are already a smart and hardworking person, determination is not enough. On top of that, you need also certain skills like cheating, lying, kissing ass, backstabbing, etc. Actually in indonesia you can also find several toxic places like that, but they are not as extreme as those in hk or sg....
listening to you tell stories with a smile throughout the video makes me smile and laugh too😂😂. I don't get tired of listening to you tell stories even though what you say can have pros and cons but I really appreciate your opinion. Very happy to have found your channel. I really admire mainland China for a long time I really love all cultures and the spirit of people in all fields. I try to apply your spirit in my life because it definitely gives a strong impetus for me to move forward. However, many of my friends think I am too much and don't love my country. their opinion is the same as yours I also feel suffocated and doubt myself but now I just ignore what I shouldn't keep and focus on what I love. Hearing you talk so relaxed and friendly makes me feel like I hear a new friend introducing their culture to me who crazy with your culture. I love your culture .谢谢piao姐, nice to meet you and welcome to Indonesia 🙏。加油🔥
Great video! Keep up the good work! I am now learning Chinese because it has a lot of potential. Wo zai xuexi hanyu. I hope you feel at home in Indonesia. Saya bertemu banyak teman-teman Chinese dari mainland di game PUBG mobile. Mereka ramah-ramah dan enak diajak ngobrol. Beda banget sama gambaran tentang orang China yang selama ini saya dengar atau baca di internet.
Indonesian are generally chill, maybe little bit too much. We can't say it's better, because however, we need to plan our life. Nice video, you should dig deeper about china-indonesia relation. Indonesian cuisine, for example, are highly influenced by chinese food.
Well, it's great to hear a different point of view about both Indonesia and China from you, 姐。 Actually, in my opinion, Indonesian social media atmosphere (at least, in my circle/from what I see), is not that different with China's social media. I mean, we also have those kind of people.. 😅 You know, I always wondering about China tbh. I'm intrigued to go there for studying but not for living because as you said before, it's just.. Too expensive and the fast-paced environment is not quite suitable for me 😅 Well, great video overall, waiting for your next video ❤
@Muammar Kadafi Ya ada benarnya sih, aku pun juga terkadang lebih suka mengamati isi kolom komentar. Soalnya ya, memang ada yang suka komentar maaf, 'bodoh' seperti itu 😅 Memang sih, terkadang kita terhibur juga sama komentar yang 'membagongkan' begitu, tapi di sisi lain, jujur, aku merasa miris kadang-kadang hehe 😅
@@gabriellemichaella3361 yah,,, tergantung ekonomi kotanya, jakarta relative fast paced. tapi pastinya solo jauh lebih santai kan. :) cina juga sama . kalau shenzen ,shanghai sebagai kota internasional dengan gdp di atas singapore dan hk ya pasti fast paced dibanding jakarta.tapi ada tapinya... mereka tak terjebak kemacetan berjam jam cuma buat transportasi ke kantor. piaooo karena bukan orang kantoran tak merasakan kemacetan jam ngantor di jakarta
Every society has their pros and cons Social media is toxic in general Work-life balance depends on a lot of factors like the type of industry/profession you are in, type of city, etc. Peer pressure is always there where there is competitions Your life, your choice, be wherever you want to be.
Until the 90s, Indonesia public university was very cheap. At my uni, it's just about, believe it or not, $30, for one semester! So many of friends with less fortunate economic condition could get good education, as long as you can passed the super competitive entrance test.
kalau gak salah UGM ITB UI sebelum 2003 cuma 300-500rb/ semester. 2003 sudah ada biaya sks diluar SPP jadi sekitar 1,5-2jt per semester. dan sejak dimulai sistem UKT 10thn lalu jadi belasan juta/semester.
I'm glad to hear from the original Chinese about the living situation in 1 tiers city in China, I guess the pressure was 996 for the workers but they said 1 tiers city in China living cost was expensive anyway. You sound like you're already falling in love not just for your husband but his country as well, that's a good thing.
@Yonky Lim It said history repeat itself or Chairman Mao is just another copycat of what Qin Shi Huang doing back in Qin Dynasty era...buried scholars alive, burning books of Confusius, ruling with an iron hand but his vision & mission...you know. For me, Mainlanders personal live is non of my business, A matter a fact I'm happy, now they are NOT "starve yourself to death, comrade", anymore...And I'm also sick to see religious drunk people in my country. Nothing is perfect in this life, like ying & yang, there's a little black dot in white side and a little white dot in black side. So...no matter how bad motherland was... we still carried the Han DNA. "I'd swallow bitter pills rather than to spit out the ugliness but the wind brought back the spit to my face". At least I've tried.
The 996 work culture has been outlawed by the Chinese supreme court for close to a year now. It's weird seeing people keep repeating the same talking points over and over again when it comes to China. By the way, with all due respect to the person who made this video we're commenting on, she hasn't lived in China for years now, so you have to take that into consideration when taking in her observations about her own homeland.
It is the same in all highly populated 1st tier east asian cities. sz,tokyo,sh,seoul and so on. People work hard every day because it is highly competitive . That being said, I believe that China third tier cities are way more relaxed than sz or sh. Western european cities are more relaxed because of less people density and good social and welfare benefits. People don't worry much if they get laid off or sick because government will support them with benefits. US people are more ambitious than their western european counter parts because they can not rely much on benefits from government.
I live in Shanghai for 8 years, wife is local Shanghainese too, Now we live in Bali my hometown, International School really expensive in Shanghai, luckily my company paid the tuition fees.
hati-hati bu. sentimen anti china juga ada di indonesia karena politik dan lainnya. mengharapkan kehidupan yang indah tanpa pemahaman tentang lingkungan setempat tidak akan membuat hidup anda indah. Selalu Waspada Dimanapun berada.
You've arrived here at the right moment 👍 congrats, it would have been different scenario before 1998. Well, things were changed from worst to a better situation, but we should be remain alerted, as situation might have become worse, if the fundemantalist party regain their power, taking over government and might end up hell like in Afghanistan.
Orang Indonesia itu unik, karena kalau di telisik, tidak semuanya menyukai kemewahan, bahkan ada daerah yang bahkan menolak pembangunn gedung2 tinggi, ada yang tidak mau membangun jalan yang besar2, meskipun sebenarnya mampu.ada juga yang tidak mau tinggal di apartmen, lebih memilih tinggal di perkampungan dan banyak alasan lain sebenarnya
Hi sister pieces of piao what's up and how's your day and happy weekend for you and stay to be healthy always and nice to meet you i hope this channel is growing well thanks
Proses adaptasi Piao yang begitu cepat, Indonesia tempat menghargai apa yang kita punya bukan apa yang kita harapkan, tempat kita menikmati tumbuh kembangnya anak kita, tempat kita menikmati keseharian kita, menikmati alam bersama keluarga bukan dengan senior dan rekan kerja kita, open minded. Nikmatnya Indonesia dengan keberagaman pemikiran dr hater ataupun lover dan grey area. Indonesia tempat manusia tersenyum dengan keseharian yang kita punya
one thing I respect on Chinese education is their emphasis on Mathematics. Their math standard is truly the highest among Asian countries. The chinese treated math is something like their own bible where young children as young as 4 started to master the basic skill of add and subtract. By middle school they already master calculus . of the advantage their English language education holds the biggest disadvantage. Im not sure if this is their learning method by simply memorizing rather than understanding is good or not but for me their method of teaching English is wrong. English cannot be memorized, it need to be made a habit by always practice it either in writing or conversation. There is no use to keep on memorize when English is a fluid subject. It changes all the time.
Public opinion is as polarised in Indonesia as in China. You probably just haven't been exposed to our social media. It's the norm everywhere, so I tend to avoid social media these days. My instagram feed is just cats and cute pets. I especially abhor newsfeed about politics just because of how toxic they are. I may be burying my head in the sand but I feel it's a worthy trade-off of a healthy psyche and I can focus more on earning money and enriching my life.
Yup she is currently on her “honeymoon” period in Indonesia. Hasn’t gone through very deep into the real society and its serious problems especially God forbid if she happens to deal with our trashy police and law enforcement. Enjoy ur honeymoon period Piao. I am already fed up with this country’s government and police.
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Ya mirip2 pengalaman si Sacha Stevenson. Di Canada/China, harus kerja keras kalo ga mau hidup sengsara. Di Indonesia, biar nyantai (bukan males) masih bisa menikmati hidup yg seadanya aj. Work-life balance di Jakarta sebenernya cukup susah utk standar org sini, tapi mgkn perkara enteng buat standar org China yg dipaksa workaholic sejak kecil di negara asalnya.
Efek persaingan empat arah di asia timur sih, korea selatan jepang china ini mempunyai kesamaan standar hidup,krn pemerintahan 3 negara tersebut berlomba dalam segala bidang dan berpengaruh terhadap rakyatnya..untuk korea utara di bagian militer nya aja yang bisa bersaing dengan 3 negara tersebut..
Very Interesting point of view, and its make me as Indonesian people can get an alternatif opinion about social economical condition in my country from diferent angle.
@@αιη-τ5φ I think the right government's policies could make Indonesia become a developed country. Scandinavian countries are quite laid-back but they have high income per household and they have the best social security system in the world. We need to be open about political system and are willing to change it as needs arise.
suami sangat beruntung memiliki istri kamu, Kamu cantik dan pintar. saya suka negara Cina Tiongkok yang maju, hebat, orang yang disiplin, dan bekerja keras
I find that the Indonesian Chinese are fluent in the Indonesian language than we Malaysian Chinese are on our fluency in the Malay language. Indo-Chinese are not fluent in Chinese and always speak Indonesian, it seems they are more assimilated in Indonesia but unfortunately they are always been reminded of their Chinese ethnicity with racial violence inflicted upon them every now and then and event like the Ahok crisis. Similarly in Malaysia, we are constantly being reminded that we are Chinese as evident in every government and private sector forms where there is a section to indicate our race by ticking the Chinese box category. Malaysia also has the never ending affirmative policy where they are named Bumiputra and we as Non-Bumiputra with:- 1. Bigger quota allocated for Bumiputera in Public University enrollment (as much as 90%) 2. At least 30% jobs allotment in public listed companies and more than 90% in government link corporations. 3. Mandatory discount of 7-10% to be given to Bumi to buy house from new development project. 4. There are also many restriction on Non Bumi to get license to operate taxi, petrol station, bus transportation company, banks and finance firms and many more. Therefore we are made not to be inclusive or accepted as fully Malaysian.
@@bldomain I am Indonesian of Chinese descent. In my opinion, Indonesia and Malaysia are still racist towards ethnic Chinese, but Malaysia's racism level is stronger than Indonesia. If you say Chinese Indonesians are better assimilated then I say it's not pure assimilation... but forced assimilation during the era of President Suharto, all things related to Chinese culture and language were prohibited in public. There is no official school that teaches Mandarin in Indonesia, so this language has become forgotten. It is quite difficult to find young people of Chinese descent who can speak Mandarin unless they are self-taught, taught or take Mandarin courses. Racism against Chinese Malaysia by Bumiputera is stronger because Chinese Malaysia does not want to speak Malay and be exclusive. This caused the Bumiputera to feel angry. Hey... we can mingle with the natives but don't have to sacrifice our native culture as chinese. Indonesia chinese are treated better here, there is no significant discrimination in public services or rights as citizens. however discrimination occurs in government policies that prioritize native peoples as the basis for policy making
@@homework3558 The Malays have also to blame for Chinese Malaysian seemingly "unassimilated" exclusive nature. The Malay language we learned in school are so different from the everyday spoken Malay - it is entirely a different language. I myself find it very difficult to communicate effectively with them especially those with heavy accent from Kedah and Kelantan. It does not help when the "educated" ones alway wanted to speak to us in English when they know we can speak English. It is like they are trying to practise their English on us. The exclusivity of their Ketuanan Melayu also played a part to separate the Chinese from freely mingling with them. There are hardly any Chinese in the public sector, GLC, police, army etc as such there is not much integration amongst us. This apply too socially as they are very particular on halal food and observing Islamic matters which alienate the Chinese. I don't believe that racisms against the Chinese stems mainly from the inability of the Chinese to communicate in Malay. The main reason is economic inequality and rising political power of the Chinese (albeit for a short time only). The zeal of their affirmative policy which reinforced the political motivation of Malay politicians to be seen as fighting for the Malays and protecting them from the economic encroachment of the Chinese by containing them has contributed to the systematic institutionalized racism against the Chinese.
@@bldomain That's right ... racism is a weapon of the Malaysian government to make policies that only benefit the bumiputera and discriminate against the ethnic chinese. Malaysia is not ashamed to openly discriminate against ethnic Chinese. In Indonesia, discrimination against ethnic Chinese can be ridiculed and hostile because not all natives agree with discriminatory behavior against ethnic Chinese and another factor is the domination of the Indonesian economy by a handful of conglomerates of Chinese descent. Of course, Indonesia does not want to damage the good relationship with the conglomerate because they are the biggest tax contributor for Indonesia. Indonesia also has a law that can imprison the perpetrators of hate speech for 6 months in prison. I think this is why hate speech such as insults to ethnic Chinese is drastically reduced. Malaysia should emulate Indonesia in this regard. Does malaysia have the will to stop hate speech? that's the problem.
As the child of the parent from main china, my personal tip for you when u get child is, let him learn chinese and english before indonesia (especially when he get into international school) let him learn the indonesia slowly as he grows because the language is easier to learn when speaking to his peers. This is my early age issue when i got used to indonesian language first and cannot balance the chinese and english lol. my younger brother who get learn chinese first get the mastery of both language faster
Agree.
Absolutely
But Indonesian are too proud of their language and nationalist.
yes, totally agree
Proud of your language or your skin colour would lead your country Indonesia going nowhere...😱
Many tribes in AFRICA were so proud of their languages and cultures that they killed each other over the differences...
Indonesia was a weakling, and still had so many weaknesses which had Indonesia to be colonized by that tiny little country in Europe called Dutch for 350 years... 😱
I used to have many friends from china, as we work together here in Bali in the wedding industry. The first time arrived from china, they always look and act very seriously. It was really hard to communicate. but after a few month, they got more chilled and open. we understand this might just a cultural shock. your thought about living in china compare to Indonesia are more less similar to what they said. and those my friends were always want it to comeback to Bali wkwkw.
You've becoming more like an Indonesian because you smiled continuously during the whole video 👍
She was happy! Makan ama kopi nya cukup 😂 thats life
one hundred percent correct u smile
Her smile is so honest. Balance and enjoying life in Indonesia.
CHINESE women are very very very very very very very very very smart, don't be fooled by their smile 😊😁 just imagine they were American women, ya, American women!
Yes you are
Great video. I love it... balanced, sensible and clear personal view on your motivation and reasons to move to Indonesia.
great...please enjoy live in indonesia....the happiness doesnt depend oh how much money do you get or how much properties can you buy....but many other things to reach the happiness...togetherness, family bond, travelling to the beautiful indonesian nature, to taste the delicious indonesian foods are few of them...
I love your honesty and this is an eye opening. People can think whatever they like and shouldn't be oppressed by their opinion if they have different opinions. I respect you. Anyway you're beautiful! 😍✨❤
What a beautiful humble smart lady. Glad to know you sister Piao. Thank you for sharing your personal view about Indonesia and China. Enjoy your stay in Indonesia. May the Almighty always bless you and your family with happiness and contentment. Love to hear your talk in English, Mandarin too even though I cannot speak Mandarin.
You're doing good sis. Whatever your choices. No one can defend and work for your happiness than yourself. As long as you and family happy, healthy n prosperous. None should tell you otherwise...
我也有中国朋友... 从广东来的... 现在他的孩子 正在 中国 上大学.... 很多 印尼 华人 很喜欢 他们的孩子 回去中国 学习... 他们 心理 永远有中国🇨🇳🇮🇩👍
I'm chinese indonesia and I definitely wanted to live in Shanghai and my mom said yep it's competitive though for me living in indonesia it is to relaxed and the people are more chill or calm. Though if the people are to slow like this it will never be a modern moving country. Indonesians especially the natives should work hard so this country can prosper more
My friend worked for 6 months in Shanghai as a part of company transfer program. Since he is just a temporary worker there (live there for company project), the work-life balance is still good and the pressure is not high. He said, it will be different if you truly work and live there, the pressure is the same like working in first tier city in Japan or South Korea. People are not forced to work 996 in his case, but the worker initiatives is so high that put peer pressure into another level.
@@bebekkurus yes it is definitely true though if you are east Asian I think it would be normal and seen fine as especially we east asians have tiger moms and are always reminded to be the best. For me my American friends see me as crazy but if I get decent scores such as 99 majority of east asians will say. Damn I should've done better. It's true peer competitiveness is very high that's what makes us motivated to work harder because everyone around us is
@@αιη-τ5φ its not just they are being competitive, it also made them tricky and toxic.. so if you are not that kind of person, better avoiding working in places like hk or sg. Trust me, most competitions end ugly as people will do everything just in order to survive...
@@jeffreysuharto747 though it will make you determined and their are other ways it can impact your life. You make your country proud by working as your country grows their are more need for people in your country. If you live in Indonesia the culture is too laid back that Is why white people take advantage of our currency and the people
@@αιη-τ5φ assuming that you are already a smart and hardworking person, determination is not enough. On top of that, you need also certain skills like cheating, lying, kissing ass, backstabbing, etc. Actually in indonesia you can also find several toxic places like that, but they are not as extreme as those in hk or sg....
listening to you tell stories with a smile throughout the video makes me smile and laugh too😂😂. I don't get tired of listening to you tell stories even though what you say can have pros and cons but I really appreciate your opinion. Very happy to have found your channel. I really admire mainland China for a long time I really love all cultures and the spirit of people in all fields. I try to apply your spirit in my life because it definitely gives a strong impetus for me to move forward. However, many of my friends think I am too much and don't love my country. their opinion is the same as yours I also feel suffocated and doubt myself but now I just ignore what I shouldn't keep and focus on what I love. Hearing you talk so relaxed and friendly makes me feel like I hear a new friend introducing their culture to me who crazy with your culture. I love your culture .谢谢piao姐, nice to meet you and welcome to Indonesia 🙏。加油🔥
Great video! Keep up the good work! I am now learning Chinese because it has a lot of potential. Wo zai xuexi hanyu. I hope you feel at home in Indonesia. Saya bertemu banyak teman-teman Chinese dari mainland di game PUBG mobile. Mereka ramah-ramah dan enak diajak ngobrol. Beda banget sama gambaran tentang orang China yang selama ini saya dengar atau baca di internet.
Indonesian are generally chill, maybe little bit too much. We can't say it's better, because however, we need to plan our life.
Nice video, you should dig deeper about china-indonesia relation. Indonesian cuisine, for example, are highly influenced by chinese food.
You’re doing great! Keep going. Love your videos.
Well, it's great to hear a different point of view about both Indonesia and China from you, 姐。 Actually, in my opinion, Indonesian social media atmosphere (at least, in my circle/from what I see), is not that different with China's social media. I mean, we also have those kind of people.. 😅
You know, I always wondering about China tbh. I'm intrigued to go there for studying but not for living because as you said before, it's just.. Too expensive and the fast-paced environment is not quite suitable for me 😅
Well, great video overall, waiting for your next video ❤
@Muammar Kadafi Ya ada benarnya sih, aku pun juga terkadang lebih suka mengamati isi kolom komentar. Soalnya ya, memang ada yang suka komentar maaf, 'bodoh' seperti itu 😅 Memang sih, terkadang kita terhibur juga sama komentar yang 'membagongkan' begitu, tapi di sisi lain, jujur, aku merasa miris kadang-kadang hehe 😅
Expensive/fast-paced depends on the tier of the city. There are many city tiers in China; tier 1, new tier 1, tier 2-5, take your pick.
@@liongkienfai104 Ah I see, it looks like I still have to learn about China... So many things I don't know. Anyway, thanks for telling me this ^^
@@gabriellemichaella3361 yah,,, tergantung ekonomi kotanya, jakarta relative fast paced. tapi pastinya solo jauh lebih santai kan. :) cina juga sama . kalau shenzen ,shanghai sebagai kota internasional dengan gdp di atas singapore dan hk ya pasti fast paced dibanding jakarta.tapi ada tapinya... mereka tak terjebak kemacetan berjam jam cuma buat transportasi ke kantor. piaooo karena bukan orang kantoran tak merasakan kemacetan jam ngantor di jakarta
Mahal murah dan fast pacednya tergantung kotanya ,kota lapis 1 , 2 , 3,4 ,5 ? Jakarta mungkin harganya seimbang dgn kota tier 2 atau 3 di cina.
Thanks for sharing.....I can see you are an interesting lady with unique perspectives ...pretty cool
谢谢你！看了你的视频很有启发！我也是中国人现在正在和印尼男生在一起正在考虑要不要过去🥰
多来印尼转转生活一阵子，评估一下和自己的需求和期待符不符合，祝好。
I love your channel! I hope you’re happy here
Every society has their pros and cons
Social media is toxic in general
Work-life balance depends on a lot of factors like the type of industry/profession you are in, type of city, etc.
Peer pressure is always there where there is competitions
Your life, your choice, be wherever you want to be.
Tq karena kenalkan indonesia?semuga kita bisa rukun dalam apa jua hubungan miss.👍👍👍
Sy suka statement anda Krn suka tantangan dan kreatif..... Selamat datang. As Indonesian people i sub your vid
Rezeki sudah ada yg ngatur. That's Enough for Indonesian People.
Dunia sementara, akhirat selamanya.
Taat ibadah, Mendahulukan adab dan bermoral.
Can you talk more about life in China? 😃 like the culture, competitiveness, gender and many more or the work culture
I practice my English listening skill by watching your video
Thanks A Piao for making these videos, I really enjoy watching them
Glad you like them!
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Until the 90s, Indonesia public university was very cheap. At my uni, it's just about, believe it or not, $30, for one semester!
So many of friends with less fortunate economic condition could get good education, as long as you can passed the super competitive entrance test.
kalau gak salah UGM ITB UI sebelum 2003 cuma 300-500rb/ semester. 2003 sudah ada biaya sks diluar SPP jadi sekitar 1,5-2jt per semester. dan sejak dimulai sistem UKT 10thn lalu jadi belasan juta/semester.
Asbun. Ga bisa disamakan biaya kuliah skrg dan th90an berdasarkan nominal uang. Ngawur.
You should compare to other countries. We are still cheap.
Tetap semangat kak dan sabar.... Jangan lupa bahagia juga... Karna hidup satu kali...
I'm glad to hear from the original Chinese about the living situation in 1 tiers city in China, I guess the pressure was 996 for the workers but they said 1 tiers city in China living cost was expensive anyway. You sound like you're already falling in love not just for your husband but his country as well, that's a good thing.
@Yonky Lim It said history repeat itself or Chairman Mao is just another copycat of what Qin Shi Huang doing back in Qin Dynasty era...buried scholars alive, burning books of Confusius, ruling with an iron hand but his vision & mission...you know.
For me, Mainlanders personal live is non of my business, A matter a fact I'm happy, now they are NOT "starve yourself to death, comrade", anymore...And I'm also sick to see religious drunk people in my country.
Nothing is perfect in this life, like ying & yang, there's a little black dot in white side and a little white dot in black side. So...no matter how bad motherland was... we still carried the Han DNA. "I'd swallow bitter pills rather than to spit out the ugliness but the wind brought back the spit to my face". At least I've tried.
nice propaganda u got there my fren
The 996 work culture has been outlawed by the Chinese supreme court for close to a year now. It's weird seeing people keep repeating the same talking points over and over again when it comes to China. By the way, with all due respect to the person who made this video we're commenting on, she hasn't lived in China for years now, so you have to take that into consideration when taking in her observations about her own homeland.
as an Indonesian citizen..
I don't want to join at this comment session..
but I just want to tell you all "don't forget to smile" okay? 👻
No pain no gain as the result
Your english is awesome.
Welcome aboard to Luvly Indonesian family, no world is prefect but can make it perfect with your life and passion...we respect
It is the same in all highly populated 1st tier east asian cities. sz,tokyo,sh,seoul and so on. People work hard every day because it is highly competitive . That being said, I believe that China third tier cities are way more relaxed than sz or sh.
Western european cities are more relaxed because of less people density and good social and welfare benefits. People don't worry much if they get laid off or sick because government will support them with benefits.
US people are more ambitious than their western european counter parts because they can not rely much on benefits from government.
I agree every letter you typed here.
I like how you still smiled and laughed though you were talking about stressful topics
Nice I'd loved your explanation. Just do it what your love sist 👍
Love from Pakistan, good to see you
terima kasih atas penjelasan jujur dan panjang, benar semua kembali pada pilihan cara hidup yang bagaimana
Klo banyak duit, indonesia adalah surga... Santai terusss... Selow menikmati hidup dg byk bersyukur
your smile and laugh are so contagious....senyun2 sendiri liat video anda
Thanks for share knowledge experience and you are beautiful
我喜欢您的态度， 您是很浪漫的，然后也是勇敢去印尼。Ada pepatah dari Sumatera Barat yg berbunyi "di mana bumi dipijak, disitu langit dijunjung".
thank you for your wonderful video, personally, I think it would be better if the volume of BGM could be smaller
Helo Vera bagus untuk tetap terhub dengan Piao ya....
You are a very smart woman. I wish you luck in Indonesia, you made the right move.
You are so funny, I like watching you giggle after few words.. welcome to Indoensia, hope you fits in and enjoy the life styles
Semoga rumah tangga kalian awet sampe kakek nenek, until death do apart. Semoga betah dan nyaman tinggal di Indonesia
I like this channel. I apreciate your honesty
Beautiful...salam dari Indonesia Sulawesi Barat
One word, just WOW. After i see this video, i immediately subscribed your channel, i have big interest in mandarin language 🤩
I live in Shanghai for 8 years, wife is local Shanghainese too, Now we live in Bali my hometown, International School really expensive in Shanghai, luckily my company paid the tuition fees.
Yu ken xplen rily wel, aiem auto sub (you can explain really well, I'm automatically subscribe)
hati-hati bu. sentimen anti china juga ada di indonesia karena politik dan lainnya.
mengharapkan kehidupan yang indah tanpa pemahaman tentang lingkungan setempat tidak akan membuat hidup anda indah.
Selalu Waspada Dimanapun berada.
Cuma disoomed gak ad kerjaan
Good thinking and expression. Experiences are good teachers
Hello,happy to move here.
hope you like it...love your content ☺️
I love the way you express your honesty Miss.. 🙏
you like smiling..a friendly girl.. I live in INdonesia...You can move here..a good country also..
Just found your channel. I really like the way you talk. Always smilling. Semangat bikin videonya Ci Piao!
Nice to your honesty...
Indonesia is piece of heaven, so you don't need to work hard, just enjoy your life, santuyyy...
so mindblowing, the balance, yes, in this country you can make cup of coffee while scrolling social media everytime you want it 🤣🤣
I am Indonesian ❤❤❤🇨🇳
Love your content!
You've arrived here at the right moment 👍 congrats, it would have been different scenario before 1998. Well, things were changed from worst to a better situation, but we should be remain alerted, as situation might have become worse, if the fundemantalist party regain their power, taking over government and might end up hell like in Afghanistan.
Orang Indonesia itu unik, karena kalau di telisik, tidak semuanya menyukai kemewahan, bahkan ada daerah yang bahkan menolak pembangunn gedung2 tinggi, ada yang tidak mau membangun jalan yang besar2, meskipun sebenarnya mampu.ada juga yang tidak mau tinggal di apartmen, lebih memilih tinggal di perkampungan dan banyak alasan lain sebenarnya
*Which is more beautiful country; Indonesia or China??*
Welcome to Indonesia..👍
Hi sister pieces of piao what's up and how's your day and happy weekend for you and stay to be healthy always and nice to meet you i hope this channel is growing well thanks
I guess you are an Indonesia, indeed. Because you have a lot of smile. Keep spread your smile because smile is a charity for you and for another.👍🏼
Proses adaptasi Piao yang begitu cepat, Indonesia tempat menghargai apa yang kita punya bukan apa yang kita harapkan, tempat kita menikmati tumbuh kembangnya anak kita, tempat kita menikmati keseharian kita, menikmati alam bersama keluarga bukan dengan senior dan rekan kerja kita, open minded.
Nikmatnya Indonesia dengan keberagaman pemikiran dr hater ataupun lover dan grey area.
Indonesia tempat manusia tersenyum dengan keseharian yang kita punya
one thing I respect on Chinese education is their emphasis on Mathematics. Their math standard is truly the highest among Asian countries. The chinese treated math is something like their own bible where young children as young as 4 started to master the basic skill of add and subtract. By middle school they already master calculus . of the advantage their English language education holds the biggest disadvantage. Im not sure if this is their learning method by simply memorizing rather than understanding is good or not but for me their method of teaching English is wrong. English cannot be memorized, it need to be made a habit by always practice it either in writing or conversation. There is no use to keep on memorize when English is a fluid subject. It changes all the time.
Public opinion is as polarised in Indonesia as in China. You probably just haven't been exposed to our social media. It's the norm everywhere, so I tend to avoid social media these days. My instagram feed is just cats and cute pets. I especially abhor newsfeed about politics just because of how toxic they are. I may be burying my head in the sand but I feel it's a worthy trade-off of a healthy psyche and I can focus more on earning money and enriching my life.
Yup she is currently on her “honeymoon” period in Indonesia. Hasn’t gone through very deep into the real society and its serious problems especially God forbid if she happens to deal with our trashy police and law enforcement. Enjoy ur honeymoon period Piao. I am already fed up with this country’s government and police.
Most welcome in Indonesia 🙏
Wahh cocok nih mix dengan orang Indonesia asli termasuk saya, hehe.. Perpaduan menarik. Maaf ga bisa bahasa Inggris. Dan ga seneng translate.
What your favourite Indonesian food?
欣賞妳的正向思維方式。
I enjoy life more than money.. so for me i miss Indonesian life better than what i have now in eu.
wise advice, lowering your BGM volume, sometimes I can't focus when you're talking because of the music :)
Hi..i'm new subriced🙋♀its happy can find your youtube channel🙏you're awesome lady👍humble n your smiles always😁looks you're kind lady🙏wish you and you family healtly n happiness always🙏🙏
Thank you， you are so sweet and kind. ❤️
Semangat bahasa Indonesia nya dan semoga tambah ramai
I love your honesty 🤝🙏
Video yang bagus sering-sering upload kak
Ya mirip2 pengalaman si Sacha Stevenson. Di Canada/China, harus kerja keras kalo ga mau hidup sengsara. Di Indonesia, biar nyantai (bukan males) masih bisa menikmati hidup yg seadanya aj. Work-life balance di Jakarta sebenernya cukup susah utk standar org sini, tapi mgkn perkara enteng buat standar org China yg dipaksa workaholic sejak kecil di negara asalnya.
Your English is pretty good. Did you learn in international school or studied abroad or just pure talent?
Quick check, do you know the word " Macan " or in malay is Makan ?
dikit2 ketawa, kayanya bahagia banget di sokin ya mbak
谷歌的算法真的强，能给我推这个。。在油管上从没看过印尼相关的东西，倒是WhatsApp上有个经常聊天的印尼华人。。
Hai cece saya subcriber baru.semoga sukses youtube nya.
Efek persaingan empat arah di asia timur sih, korea selatan jepang china ini mempunyai kesamaan standar hidup,krn pemerintahan 3 negara tersebut berlomba dalam segala bidang dan berpengaruh terhadap rakyatnya..untuk korea utara di bagian militer nya aja yang bisa bersaing dengan 3 negara tersebut..
the poin is if u wanna chill come to indo... lets ngopi2 and nongkrong everyday
Very Interesting point of view, and its make me as Indonesian people can get an alternatif opinion about social economical condition in my country from diferent angle.
As indian I love Chinese people.. they r very kind ...
Hai thanks for your video,nice conten.where are you from?are from south or nort?where county do you from? Ni lao jia zai na li ?
China, central China, Hunan Province.
Learn Indonesia little by little 🙏
Peace, Love and Gaul...
Indonesia santuy, best country for life
It's not due to people being to lazy and chill this is why it will stay a 3 tier country
@@αιη-τ5φ I think the right government's policies could make Indonesia become a developed country. Scandinavian countries are quite laid-back but they have high income per household and they have the best social security system in the world. We need to be open about political system and are willing to change it as needs arise.
suami sangat beruntung memiliki istri kamu, Kamu cantik dan pintar. saya suka negara Cina Tiongkok yang maju, hebat, orang yang disiplin, dan bekerja keras
what is your view of chinese descent in indonesia... do you think of them as indonesian or chinese regardless of their nationality.
I find that the Indonesian Chinese are fluent in the Indonesian language than we Malaysian Chinese are on our fluency in the Malay language. Indo-Chinese are not fluent in Chinese and always speak Indonesian, it seems they are more assimilated in Indonesia but unfortunately they are always been reminded of their Chinese ethnicity with racial violence inflicted upon them every now and then and event like the Ahok crisis.
Similarly in Malaysia, we are constantly being reminded that we are Chinese as evident in every government and private sector forms where there is a section to indicate our race by ticking the Chinese box category. Malaysia also has the never ending affirmative policy where they are named Bumiputra and we as Non-Bumiputra with:-
1. Bigger quota allocated for Bumiputera in Public University enrollment (as much as 90%)
2. At least 30% jobs allotment in public listed companies and more than 90% in government link corporations.
3. Mandatory discount of 7-10% to be given to Bumi to buy house from new development project.
4. There are also many restriction on Non Bumi to get license to operate taxi, petrol station, bus transportation company, banks and finance firms and many more.
Therefore we are made not to be inclusive or accepted as fully Malaysian.
@@bldomain I am Indonesian of Chinese descent. In my opinion, Indonesia and Malaysia are still racist towards ethnic Chinese, but Malaysia's racism level is stronger than Indonesia.
If you say Chinese Indonesians are better assimilated then I say it's not pure assimilation... but forced assimilation during the era of President Suharto, all things related to Chinese culture and language were prohibited in public. There is no official school that teaches Mandarin in Indonesia, so this language has become forgotten. It is quite difficult to find young people of Chinese descent who can speak Mandarin unless they are self-taught, taught or take Mandarin courses.
Racism against Chinese Malaysia by Bumiputera is stronger because Chinese Malaysia does not want to speak Malay and be exclusive. This caused the Bumiputera to feel angry. Hey... we can mingle with the natives but don't have to sacrifice our native culture as chinese.
Indonesia chinese are treated better here, there is no significant discrimination in public services or rights as citizens. however discrimination occurs in government policies that prioritize native peoples as the basis for policy making
@@homework3558
The Malays have also to blame for Chinese Malaysian seemingly "unassimilated" exclusive nature. The Malay language we learned in school are so different from the everyday spoken Malay - it is entirely a different language. I myself find it very difficult to communicate effectively with them especially those with heavy accent from Kedah and Kelantan. It does not help when the "educated" ones alway wanted to speak to us in English when they know we can speak English. It is like they are trying to practise their English on us.
The exclusivity of their Ketuanan Melayu also played a part to separate the Chinese from freely mingling with them. There are hardly any Chinese in the public sector, GLC, police, army etc as such there is not much integration amongst us. This apply too socially as they are very particular on halal food and observing Islamic matters which alienate the Chinese.
I don't believe that racisms against the Chinese stems mainly from the inability of the Chinese to communicate in Malay. The main reason is economic inequality and rising political power of the Chinese (albeit for a short time only). The zeal of their affirmative policy which reinforced the political motivation of Malay politicians to be seen as fighting for the Malays and protecting them from the economic encroachment of the Chinese by containing them has contributed to the systematic institutionalized racism against the Chinese.
@@bldomain
That's right ... racism is a weapon of the Malaysian government to make policies that only benefit the bumiputera and discriminate against the ethnic chinese.
Malaysia is not ashamed to openly discriminate against ethnic Chinese. In Indonesia, discrimination against ethnic Chinese can be ridiculed and hostile because not all natives agree with discriminatory behavior against ethnic Chinese and another factor is the domination of the Indonesian economy by a handful of conglomerates of Chinese descent. Of course, Indonesia does not want to damage the good relationship with the conglomerate because they are the biggest tax contributor for Indonesia.
Indonesia also has a law that can imprison the perpetrators of hate speech for 6 months in prison. I think this is why hate speech such as insults to ethnic Chinese is drastically reduced. Malaysia should emulate Indonesia in this regard. Does malaysia have the will to stop hate speech? that's the problem.
Your Husban is Great..to keep stay in Indoonesia..
Support you 👍🏻
Hay cici cindo yg cantik dimana pun kamu berada selalu sehat dehat ya.🙏
Your mindset is so mature while you are so young.
😁😁❤️❤️Thank you but I am 30.😭 relatively young.
@@halo_vera in Indonesia 30 year old is young..
Your good choice. Gbu