I'm 51 and found Shera recently! So glad I did. If only someone like her had been around when I started dating... Would have saved me years and years of heartache and wasted time...
Do ya notice pick me’s love bragging about what they can do for a man vs what a man can do for them. It’s like they love going up and beyond for the same men who would leave them at the drop of the dime for the chick he has to move mountains for.
nkreseknowledge Lol maybe it’s me but bragging on what you can do for a man just attracts users, manipulators and of course duties. Women now a days don’t make men work for much. Just giving away the goods hoping he’ll pick her when he really wants to get his funds together and pick the high class chick.
It is also the reason why men get bored and cheat. I am talking in this way because I noticed that most of the men who tried to approach me on social media are married to Pickme women. Once I ask them why they want to cheat or leave their wives, the answer is always the same: she works but she let herself go, she is lazy with her appearance, we don't get along well (meaning that they don't have sex at all) I am fed up. Bottom line: they want 50/50 pickmeishas to get help at building them but as time goes by they get bored especially if the woman loses her looks and sexual interest due to stress and overwork. So going 50/50 with any man is pointless.
Every man knows there is a billion women in this world....looks wise we all know that none of you actually standout....there is someone always younger y'all forget that
@@mrmillennium2697 there’s also a million men and men will always approach and offer things even if they are 80 years old in a wheelchair 🦼 or married to 3 hours
MajesticMerisa It is a proverb , it's in the book of Ashera Chapter 2:7 If thou art an old man with a picketh me , thou art not a pimp sayeth the Lordt .
Hi, I've seen some of your older videos and I'm so intrigued that I've subscribed and now watch you regularly. (It was one of those situations where you just "fell" on my streams/just came across you) You are funny, you are authentic (most important) So I keep watching and I've learned more about you-- you're a Pisces (I am too) and you're in Houston (I'm in San Antonio but my family is in Houston) ---long story short, I understand you, I agree with you, I feel connected with you. My story is quite different than yours but you bring me coaching, clarity, amusement and understanding for where I am in my life and, Shera, I am Grateful for you. Keep doing what you're mission is---don't doubt. You keep going. I've seen you evolve and strengthen and I LOVE it. BE YOU. You will keep empowering others if so. Much love to you and THANK YOU
They go for the high class, expensive women the same reason they spend on the expensive watch, car, grass fed steak, pricey bottle of champagne, the expensive tailored suit, etc, etc, etc. Its so basic to understand, yet again, men have no clue what a man is anymore. They have internal conflict going on. They are confused as hell and are taking it out on women. Its called a trophy wife for a reason. She is the cherry on top of your success. She runs the house while you are working. She multiplies every single thing a man presents her with. Guys these days have no clue! Don’t they see that the most successful men in the world always have a wife? Morons! Accomplished men at the firm, company etc are sizing single men up at the conferences like, “Dude, where’s your wife? You haven’t gotten anyone yet? HAHA!” It’s next level accomplishment for real men.
I know a professional Man well off business man who is a senior now still taking care of his wife even in her sickness. He has grown children and grandchildren. This man is on the DL for the course of their marriage . He and his colleagues have a private club for men like him who can't afford too lose the life they built. This was a white guy I thought he is deceitful, when he spoke about his wife health challenges and all he does for her he genuinely care about her over the marriage journey taking care of her and his family he said no ones known his truth in his family ect. The social group meeting of different type of people straight, gay,Bisexual,transgender I am learning so much about people experiences and no judgements zone conversations. I know personally another married blk man who is a hidden Bi sexual Business man $$$$$$ figures. Business Trips lodging in High end hotels or Resorts. He also has the beautiful wife and family, College alumnus leadership role in his fraternity. All I am trying too convey that everything isn't Golden. What does it profit a man too gain the whole world and lose their soul. Yes, choose your mate carefully do not be unequally yoked. Bible Scripture states. Lead not too your own understanding but acknowledge him in all thy ways and he shall direct your path. I depise liars in this narcissistic world that we live in. A man that finds a wife is a good thing. An Godly wife woman of faith is the backbone of the family in my oppinion. Everyone will not be rich and that is a fact.
My own sister told me that my husband would be better off with an ugly woman who works as hard or harder than he does, rather than stay married to my gorgeous self who is ALWAYS asking for more. I just LAUGHED! Ha! I told her I will give him a divorce today if he wants a Barbara the Builder. I have told him the same; he told me to stop playing and let’s go ride by these $700k houses like the one we are about to build, and we will go shopping afterwards 😆😆😆 I really love you Shera girl you speak nothing but FACTS! 💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm glad you laughed. It tells me that you are secure and you are in your feminine energy.
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I was a never a pick me. But I did go through a Bob the builder stage. I was told I was wrong to play with men's feelings for money and it would come back on me blah, blah, blah. And back in the day that independent woman bs was big. I wasn't really into the independent thing if I'm with a dude but I thought 50/50 was fair. They don't respect you with that bs and all you're doing is giving them extra money to cheat with. That's why they holler you need to bring something to the table. They say that because when they get tired of looking at you. They can wine and dine the next fool. I learned that I was right all along about men and stopped listening to ppl when it comes to that.
Yep, same I believed all the bob the builder chicks around me... luckily I dropped all those friends/family and surrounding myself with women who think more like me, the mental level up is just as necessary as physical
These videos hit way harder after my spiritual awakening. Lol. I rem I showed these videos to my OLD pick me friends two years ago and they all hated on you. They’re STILL stagnant and I’m leveled up and thriving. The game of life is crazy.
Men must maintain that ability to keep the woman respecting him. If she loses it, by paying bills and is not provided for, it's over. Respect gone. End of relationship.
Precisely. I was a shameless pick-me. Paid for everything. And now, I have absolutely zero respect for him. How can I respect a grown-ass man who depends on me??? I can't and I won't.
Yes respect is so much to do with attraction and romance. U don't wanna feel like his mum cause I think a mother's teaching their young children sons would feel a whole different way lol.
There's bare men providing for their families for decades, yet they are disrespected or they get chewed out by their wives in the divorce court because "she's not happy" and it's Chad/Tyrone that'll make her happy. The jig is up.
@@calmcalm6203 none of y'all respect your targets from the way you talk about them, and I'm sure in due time those men would realise too, you see them as fool's to fleece and manipulate, I just hope it don't get you hurt and y'all can save well(as Ashera teaches y'all). Peace.
My mom is a bob the builder and yes she looks like she's taking care of my dad. I'm a Gold digger and my mom shames me for it, lmao If she had access to this knowledge when she was my age, she wouldn't be living this life.
Thanks to you just got $500 worth off shopping after our dinner date. He enjoyed seeing all of my outfits and he wanted me to get them all. I added more bikinis and things. Idk why it took this long to say what I want. Men have no problem insisting on getting in between our legs. I want to shop. Period. Thank you Shera. I was blessing you as he was cashing out. I’m so thankful. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Knowledge is power! I'm 22 so before i started watching her videos. I was a pick-me, I would cook, clean, give away my money, and pay for dates. With not much in return. I let the "caring", "consideration", and “love” get too far. I was so masculine and proud of it😂 but after this past month of binge watching everything I broke up with my dusty! I always knew there was something off he was a dusty/too Feminine of a man that wanted me to build with him even tho I’m more established than him🫤 and he’s 28.
Yuck! No girl you deserve to be spoiled and taken care of like a princess, Women and men are built differently, You can have your own business and side hustle.But you shouldn't be slaving away like men or continuously giving to them, it literally deteriorates our health much faster than men and we end up aging and dying sooner. Cheers to the soft life💅🏽✨
I never know I was a pickmish but not anymore after learing her videos help me understand I don't gotta be with these broke wanna be slack lack and no ambitious type of mind.
I am in my late 40s and I always looked at my mom like a gold digger. She worked for several years straight and got laid off. That was it. Meanwhile my father stressed to me to be independent. I am an only child and I didn’t realize how spoiled I was. I never wanted a man for money. Now! I have seen the light! Hallelujah! and Amen SheRa! 😂😂😂😂I was so wrong. It’s too late for me, but I’m good. I’ll never be used again. Pick me no more!!!
My step mom is 13 years younger than my dad, and put the down payment for the house. And she tried to make me feel bad for wanting a man with money. These pickmishas get so aggressive
All good, but 1:41:22 Megan clearly "bagged" Harry, because she acted like she didn't need him...she wasn't intimidated, she acted like she was the prize, not him. She joked with him a lot, kept him on his toes.
You told that lady right sis. A child will love you more than any man and my kids gave me purpose at times when I felt like life was dark and I was unhappy.
My X mother in law was a barbra the builder and I was so harshly judged by her for choosing to stay at home with my kids. I would see her time and time again get mistreated by her husband and on top of that she had so many reconstructive shoulder and knee surgeries from her job. He would cheat on her and would always diminish her contribution to the household. I was like why would I want to follow your advise? Needless to say I am not in that family anymore.
20 minutes in and I'm so glad I got to find this. It now makes sense bc the real thing is you "help a guy come up" and later he leaves you for another woman. This psychology makes sense now. Ladies we need to raise our standards. There's no pride walking around all beat up and tired bc you are busy building people!
u r not gonna believe but this 50 50 guy had 1 tooth missing and he was tellin me how its 2018 and he wants a woman pursue him lmfao i told him to fix that missing tooth lmfao
I love this video. You sound like my grandma and her sister. I make money but dont want to be Boss Chick...I want a man that makes way more than me so my money seem little to him...then he can take care of me.
The natural order of things is that men give and women take. Because Pick Mes give too much and will accept anything, there is no clear structure in the relationship and the guy has no direction as to what he should do. With nothing to do, he receives insufficient mental stimulation and becomes bored as his daylight hours have no meaning. Over time, this creates resentment. If a woman digs gold, then what she wants is clear, and he can go find it, provide it, and receive positive feedback and a sense of accomplishment. Positive stimulation, if you will. Pick Mes provide negative or neutral stimulation only, as everything is muddled in neutral and cloudy emotions. It's passionless. I've tried to tell other women this, but they just call me crazy. Going 50/50 will cost you tenfold.
NO don’t blame this on women lmao. If a man is an alpha HE WILL NATURALLY BE ONE AND WILL NOT BE ANY OTHER WAY EVEN IF THE WOMAN PUSHES HIM TO BE A BETA HE JUST WONT BE
Men love gold diggers because men have evolved to be protectors and providers. A man's sex drive depends on his women demanding more than sex from him. (Note this is a man telling you this).
Lol...im enjoying this entire process . I get up every day looking better and feeling better ! For me im just looking to date more worthy men who will spoil me . Just leveling up alone makes your life better ! Keep motivating Ashera 😚 Thank you ! Thank goodness you stay at home and don't work a traditional job . We wouldn't get these video's 😢😢😢😭😭😭 haha !
33:15 to 34:15 a pick me favorite qoute "Im not about to be competing against other women for no man....." if he's a Dusty you're right to feel like you don't have to compete for him.but if he's not a Dusty..... LEVEL UP OR GET LOOKED OVER!!!
I don’t think that labels make you. You are a beautiful woman and could wear something from Target and make it it look good. I myself have everything from low end to high end...most people can’t even tell the low end items I wear.
@@chamomiletea906 just turned 24, and let me tell you, my self esteem and knowing my worth went hiiigh up ! ⬆️⬆️⬆️ Been leveling up ever since. I haven't been dating for a while as I have been more focused on school & achieving personal goals, but all of her tips have definitely saved me. All of this made me extremely selective about the people I allow in my circle, wouldn't give 1 second of my time to any dusty or anyone that's trying to play around and waste my time. Met many high caliber men in the process
@@emnasomrani4140 Wow that's so impressive, I'm so happy for you!!! Shera is a true gift. Wishing you lots of happiness, health and success on your journey!
It’s funny how I’m 25 now and I definitely understand. I was highkey a pickme but only in my first relationship, splitting 50/50 on certain stuff. That man was cheap even though I knew he had more than others in savings and he was in his last year of studying engineering. The bum didn’t even ever give me a decent bouquet of flowers. I refuse to date only black men, men without degrees and/or doesn’t own businesses. Bums and cheapos and even insecure ugly men (because let’s be honest, ugly and medium ugly men aren’t always the answer) give you scraps and try to plant seeds of insecurity in you. Rich men are generous when it comes to worthy women.
Gurl I was sound asleep as I had left your video on. Don't you know I woke up out of my sleep hearing you say your Mom's mantra "don't you bring no babies home". I woke up laughing in my sleep! I have a list of favorite videos of yours, I just have to keep adding them on you so good!
34:10 Shera is hitting the nail on the head!!! If anyone remembers the old Showtime series: The Tudors Henry the VIII's 5th wife ; Catherine Howard was around 17 when they married. Jonathon Rhys-Myers who played Henry said " Catherine Howard was the Tudor equivalent to a Red Ferrari" All the men in the court wanted her! Kanye West said the same thing about Kim. He believes he has the prettiest women in the game! He is able to go around other men and stick his chest out a little bit, because she brings him status!! Shera is telling the TRUTH!! When that man comes up; he WILL be w/the woman the next man CAN'T HAVE !!
This chat had me Dying laughing..You're so funny Shera..But hey thanks to you. Now at 46 No MORE DUSTIES...I leveled up...I learned alot from you and never saw it from your point of view..Now I am much happier girl...
There was a guy I was dealing with a while back he just recently finished law school and I told him until he can take care of me. We will not be together or even see each other. I bet my top dollar when he gets his money right after a few cases he’s going to leave the pickmesha that’s been helping him & find his way right back to me 🤣💚
Last summer we went to dinner and I dressed really nice so he did too, and the waitress found him on Instagram (from his credit card) and asked him on a date🤣 that was when I realized I’m destined to be a trophy wife. Bc baby before this no one even looked at you.
Now, this is a an analogy I came up with ladies and gentlemen. In the Garden of Eden, God told the man, Adam, take care of the garden. Which meant God wanted Adam to work. Now God saw that Adam was not working as hard and smart as he was suppose to, which is, he was not using all the talent God gave him. So God said there is no one here who is suitable enough to boost Adam's confidence, therefore I will make him someone suitable for him. God took a rib from Adam, and formed the woman. Now the rib to which God Almighty took was a kind of rib that whenever is in action, it boost the confidence of a man. So the moment God brought the woman to Adam, the bible specifically for the first time wrote down every word Adam said because those words were not just words they were creativity, spiritual and enlightenment. Adam named all the animals and everything on earth he gave name to it, but nowhere was his words written as the moment he saw the woman. And she didn't have to do anything to get such accolades and praise, her presence alone opened a part of the man's mind that made him to use his words creatively, when at first he was just naming but now he did not have to put a label on the woman, he had to describe what he was seeing before his eyes. He did not care that he had lost a rib. My point being, a woman is not suppose to lift a finger for the man to be successful, our presence alone should be enough to enable the man to go out there and bring home all the good things he can find by working smarter. And all the believers shall say AMEN!!!!
My recent ex-hubby learned the hard way, and I never had a job really 🤣 He decided to divorce me after 25 yrs, I dared him with my active leveling-up flashing in his stubborn face - alimony is a beautiful life 💅🏾
Loyal is sold to the world, though NEVER respected 🤷🏽♀️ So when expensive hoes dominate, the world falls apart - per God’s point 🤷🏽♀️ Gold digging ratchet hoes SAVE the world ever time 🕊
Ok, it was ok listening to you while I was mall walking and people seeing me laugh. But I was laughing out loud listening to u at the gym. People musta thought I was laughing at them. :) Everything u say is so true!
Shera has done it Again!! I nodded and agreed the whole time, then added to my favorites 😜 Especially on why James chose her and the part about how a lot of women are needy n need validation when u can get that from yourself, your kids etc.... That’s winning. But this topic tho omg I just had this convo with a guy who is trying to date me since I would notice certain things that turned me off so I was going to pass him to 1 of my pick me friends. Showed him her picture and profile and said how great of a catch she is, how much better/more perfect of a match she is for him... chile he only came on to me STONGER SMH !! I said um no she is for you. Trust me. He kept saying but “I can see You with me”. I was confused like but why you see what I’m used to. U know we won’t work. Long story short Shera broke it down for me. This vid found me right on time. Sorry so long guys. I just heart me some Shera!! She’s so dope n real with it. Reminds me of a nba wife bestie I have.
My last ex knew some Heavy hitters in our metropolitan area. The husband was very powerful, during the times we spent with this couple the husband never asked what I did. The wife cut those eyes and asked what did i do! I couldn't figure out why her hubby was in the paper with the Governor & she literally baby sat people kids for "hobby "🤔 when they came to visit us she would jump to clean, while I kicked back and drank wine. 😂 Now my ex was white. They we're too ( just fyi) she had dog hair all over her clothes& I was always dressed to impress. My ex was showing me off to them. The husband liked me. She was super jelli! Lol
I love you!!! You’re hilarious and I can tell you have a sweet good heart. I’m learning so much from you and it’s made my life richer and for the most part has repelled the dusties/ men who aren’t the ones I’m targeting and has helped me meet more ideal men. I’m glad. I don’t feel like I have to run ragged proving myself and paying for what a man needs who isn’t doing anything for me. Thank you.
I discover your channel and I love it ! I have a similar mindset. In my country (France) women really have a pick me culture it's 1000 time worse than USA
I’m from Europe and when I go there for vacation I still act trophy and guys give me everything. They KNOW, just local girls don’t expect anything of them.
I know à pick me and I want to forward this to her but it would hurt her prob, she pays the rent n bills bcs she doesn't trust him w money , she paid to have his teeth done,she has tried to leave him several times.. she is in control but has no peace, working nine to 5, watching him,raising a child. I don't know what his role is exactly
I live in Canada, Toronto, all these pick me chicks, I saw the light years ago, i dont want ta be no bob the builder. I went through it. Its just i hot my incone streams, i dont work, im workin on this guy, he acts like he wants me to work...im like nah, bye, hes we need to talk bout tha future, what do you see? Im like me gettin what I want, raisin my kids, and being happy. I really think imma bout ta get him how i need it. Its all these other pick mes hating like they wanna run me outta etobicoke because they so mad i sint workin and im lookin sexy doin what i want, only a few chicks are positioning themselves to copy me. Now Im fillin in some more blanks forc myself from yourc teaching so thank you, its so refreshing i love tha ho esty and the strategy, your a real master of youre destiny.
Ive been sugaring and husting since 18. Learned so much on my own and made a lot but there is always more to learn and more wisdom to gain! Girl!! You opened up a whole new level to this!!!!! THANK YOU! xoxoxxo much love from NYC Edit: When do you boradcast live? Would love to join the convo and see your vids asap :D Besos
Yes you have absolutely answered all those women who are to controlling over there men an demanding while Belitting them bragging they go half or they done that (let a .an shine )
This is so informative & well articulated. I am absorbing this beautiful wisdom you teaching here.. It's time for me to start living life to it's fullest. Thank you so much SheRa. Blessings to you & your beautiful family.
This is straight up talk. How do I know because I was a pick me. Made my husband a millionaire at 30 and multimillionaire by 40. What happened? He frauded all our assets and found himself a gold digger. 28yrs of.marriage I got a phone call from him when he moved left with her. It's not going to end well for her though because she controls him and takes credit for his success.
Omg! You are awesome! I'm learning so much! It's late in the game for me I'm 50 but oh well better late than never. Any tips for us 50 plus who look young for their age?
Yeah, a friend is spending Xmas alone because the baddie wife of three years wants to spend time with her family a few states away and he will be left at the house without his son for over a month! Yep, he is complaining about it but happy to be married to a baddie!
And Atlanta,and Louisiana,and Memphis,and the whole world....lol...You must never travel...Or do you have different men in each city?If not shut up...A fools mouth is his or her destruction...God bless u sis
Ummm.. Where were you looking?? On the South side of Chicago?? U might wanna travel around the city and the burbs cause i know PLENTY of qualified men hunty!! I'm married to one. As a matter of fact, he was raised on the South side but he leveled up after college....ijs
You are amazing in the way that you give us lessons. I just wish that the videos were shorter but, besides that, you are doing good work! I love the way you break it down for all of us.
♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥🔥 code I live by,never let the right hand know what the left is doing, let em' do all the talking, notice something you don't like, keep a tab and start planning, I'm still a work in progress. But deep down, I know what I want.
My step mom told me that rich men cheat, I said all men cheat, I’ll take my chances with a rich one
Lmao period
Indeed 👸💋❣❣
Right. I won't say all men cheat but you can have a rich man that treats you nice or a poor man that treats you nice. Get a rich man.
Damn, lol 👏🏾
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I was a very cute pick-me and only got abuse and neglect from everyone until i found Shera at 50 ! Dust repellant works wonders !
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Michelle Compton 50? What you doing with your life
Dust repellant 😂😂😂👍
I'm 51 and found Shera recently! So glad I did. If only someone like her had been around when I started dating... Would have saved me years and years of heartache and wasted time...
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Do ya notice pick me’s love bragging about what they can do for a man vs what a man can do for them. It’s like they love going up and beyond for the same men who would leave them at the drop of the dime for the chick he has to move mountains for.
Ms Jackson so true! They are so bothered because they know deep down it's the truth. Otherwise they wouldn't be here stalking this woman.
Yes, it's so pathetic! They really think that shit is normal.
Belizean Bad&Bruja lmao pretty much!
nkreseknowledge Lol maybe it’s me but bragging on what you can do for a man just attracts users, manipulators and of course duties. Women now a days don’t make men work for much. Just giving away the goods hoping he’ll pick her when he really wants to get his funds together and pick the high class chick.
Yes...I used to think that way lol 😂 Never too late to change !
Its a red flag when a man says “Let’s build together”. That means he was too weak to make it on his own.
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And he has nothin to offer you 🤣🤣
Ew build together lol?
Exactly. I met a 43 year old man with 3 kids telling me he wants us to build together. In my mind im thinking shouldnt you have built already
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Real men take pride in caring for their family 😘
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That is a true comment!
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pick mes accept whatever a man gives. and it makes them confortable. a "gold digger" makes him uncomfortable and he has to better himself to keep up
I used to do this because I was taught to be grateful for what I was given.... What a waste of my years 😑
It is also the reason why men get bored and cheat. I am talking in this way because I noticed that most of the men who tried to approach me on social media are married to Pickme women. Once I ask them why they want to cheat or leave their wives, the answer is always the same: she works but she let herself go, she is lazy with her appearance, we don't get along well (meaning that they don't have sex at all) I am fed up. Bottom line: they want 50/50 pickmeishas to get help at building them but as time goes by they get bored especially if the woman loses her looks and sexual interest due to stress and overwork. So going 50/50 with any man is pointless.
Every man knows there is a billion women in this world....looks wise we all know that none of you actually standout....there is someone always younger y'all forget that
keep up? lolgold giggers are a concept.... they don't exist in real life
@@mrmillennium2697 there’s also a million men and men will always approach and offer things even if they are 80 years old in a wheelchair 🦼 or married to 3 hours
Skincare is so important
I’m a gay man .. and all your advice works on these so call alpha males
Yes! Me too, I'm a gay guy whose the "woman" in relationships and this works on the masculine gay guys
G G yes baby. You have to be the feminine one and you will attract the masculine ones 😘
foxylady246 LMAO
foxylady246 Really?! That goes without saying. 😂
DAMN! 😳
"After a certain age you ain't a pimp no more, you're just a loser." That should be a Proverb 😂😂
Love you Shera💕
MajesticMerisa It is a proverb , it's in the book of Ashera Chapter 2:7 If thou art an old man with a picketh me , thou art not a pimp sayeth the Lordt .
BLISSFUL ABUNDANCE: LOL!
Hi, I've seen some of your older videos and I'm so intrigued that I've subscribed and now watch you regularly. (It was one of those situations where you just "fell" on my streams/just came across you) You are funny, you are authentic (most important) So I keep watching and I've learned more about you-- you're a Pisces (I am too) and you're in Houston (I'm in San Antonio but my family is in Houston) ---long story short, I understand you, I agree with you, I feel connected with you. My story is quite different than yours but you bring me coaching, clarity, amusement and understanding for where I am in my life and, Shera, I am Grateful for you. Keep doing what you're mission is---don't doubt. You keep going. I've seen you evolve and strengthen and I LOVE it. BE YOU. You will keep empowering others if so. Much love to you and THANK YOU
They go for the high class, expensive women the same reason they spend on the expensive watch, car, grass fed steak, pricey bottle of champagne, the expensive tailored suit, etc, etc, etc. Its so basic to understand, yet again, men have no clue what a man is anymore. They have internal conflict going on. They are confused as hell and are taking it out on women. Its called a trophy wife for a reason. She is the cherry on top of your success. She runs the house while you are working. She multiplies every single thing a man presents her with. Guys these days have no clue! Don’t they see that the most successful men in the world always have a wife? Morons! Accomplished men at the firm, company etc are sizing single men up at the conferences like, “Dude, where’s your wife? You haven’t gotten anyone yet? HAHA!” It’s next level accomplishment for real men.
omg yasssssss
Vanessa I've screen shot your comment it is gold I will forever keep it and quote it at dusties
Yes
Vanessa: you’re right. I’ve made the same observation .
I know a professional Man well off business man who is a senior now still taking care of his wife even in her sickness. He has grown children and grandchildren.
This man is on the DL for the course of their marriage . He and his colleagues have a private club for men like him who can't afford too lose the life they built. This was a white guy I thought he is deceitful, when he spoke about his wife health challenges and all he does for her he genuinely care about her over the marriage journey taking care of her and his family he said no ones known his truth in his family ect.
The social group meeting of different type of people straight, gay,Bisexual,transgender I am learning so much about people experiences and no judgements zone conversations.
I know personally another married blk man who is a hidden Bi sexual Business man $$$$$$ figures.
Business Trips lodging in High end hotels or Resorts. He also has the beautiful wife and family, College alumnus leadership role in his fraternity.
All I am trying too convey that everything isn't Golden.
What does it profit a man too gain the whole world and lose their soul.
Yes, choose your mate carefully do not be unequally yoked.
Bible Scripture states.
Lead not too your own understanding but acknowledge him in all thy ways and he shall direct your path.
I depise liars in this narcissistic world that we live in.
A man that finds a wife is a good thing.
An Godly wife woman of faith is the backbone of the family in my oppinion.
Everyone will not be rich and that is a fact.
Your weightloss is inspiring.
Men want a status symbol and if you’re paying you’re NOT. 💥💥💥
My own sister told me that my husband would be better off with an ugly woman who works as hard or harder than he does, rather than stay married to my gorgeous self who is ALWAYS asking for more. I just LAUGHED! Ha!
I told her I will give him a divorce today if he wants a Barbara the Builder. I have told him the same; he told me to stop playing and let’s go ride by these $700k houses like the one we are about to build, and we will go shopping afterwards 😆😆😆 I really love you Shera girl you speak nothing but FACTS! 💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
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your sister is JEALOUS you are living life girl
I'm glad you laughed. It tells me that you are secure and you are in your feminine energy.
I was a never a pick me. But I did go through a Bob the builder stage. I was told I was wrong to play with men's feelings for money and it would come back on me blah, blah, blah. And back in the day that independent woman bs was big. I wasn't really into the independent thing if I'm with a dude but I thought 50/50 was fair. They don't respect you with that bs and all you're doing is giving them extra money to cheat with. That's why they holler you need to bring something to the table. They say that because when they get tired of looking at you. They can wine and dine the next fool. I learned that I was right all along about men and stopped listening to ppl when it comes to that.
Facts
All you're doing is giving them $$$ to cheat! Exactly!!
Yep, same I believed all the bob the builder chicks around me... luckily I dropped all those friends/family and surrounding myself with women who think more like me, the mental level up is just as necessary as physical
These videos hit way harder after my spiritual awakening. Lol. I rem I showed these videos to my OLD pick me friends two years ago and they all hated on you. They’re STILL stagnant and I’m leveled up and thriving. The game of life is crazy.
I feel this❤
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Crazy fr!!
Men must maintain that ability to keep the woman respecting him.
If she loses it, by paying bills and is not provided for, it's over. Respect gone. End of relationship.
Precisely. I was a shameless pick-me. Paid for everything. And now, I have absolutely zero respect for him. How can I respect a grown-ass man who depends on me??? I can't and I won't.
Yes respect is so much to do with attraction and romance.
U don't wanna feel like his mum cause I think a mother's teaching their young children sons would feel a whole different way lol.
There's bare men providing for their families for decades, yet they are disrespected or they get chewed out by their wives in the divorce court because "she's not happy" and it's Chad/Tyrone that'll make her happy. The jig is up.
@@calmcalm6203 none of y'all respect your targets from the way you talk about them, and I'm sure in due time those men would realise too, you see them as fool's to fleece and manipulate, I just hope it don't get you hurt and y'all can save well(as Ashera teaches y'all). Peace.
So happy I found your channel. You saved me from ruining my life
SAMEEEE
Same here
Sameeee
@@DD_MENEN hiiii!! Love your tiktok girl ❤️
Same
I play this video on loud speaker for my 11 year old to hear. Planting some seeds.
It definitely works. My teenaged son has picked up subliminals from me listening to SheRa and my level up.
You're a good parent! 👍👍
Lol right my 6 ur old daughter already knows people are supposed to treat her with respect and manners
Thats horrible. Teaching your kid how to be a beggar.
@@LadyAngela678 no, it's teaching your kids to have high standards and not settle for mediocre.
My mom is a bob the builder and yes she looks like she's taking care of my dad.
I'm a Gold digger and my mom shames me for it, lmao
If she had access to this knowledge when she was my age, she wouldn't be living this life.
Same.
I like gold diggers but never meet one just saying
Emna Somrani Yes my mum is just like this!
Alex Fullwood because you dont have gold
well then, your mom sounds dum-dum. sorry to say XD
Thanks to you just got $500 worth off shopping after our dinner date. He enjoyed seeing all of my outfits and he wanted me to get them all. I added more bikinis and things. Idk why it took this long to say what I want. Men have no problem insisting on getting in between our legs. I want to shop. Period. Thank you Shera. I was blessing you as he was cashing out. I’m so thankful. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What could u be buying for $500..worth of shopping...
@@lc-il6wrwhat do you mean ? Is it à small amont of money for you ?
Knowledge is power! I'm 22 so before i started watching her videos. I was a pick-me, I would cook, clean, give away my money, and pay for dates. With not much in return. I let the "caring", "consideration", and “love” get too far. I was so masculine and proud of it😂 but after this past month of binge watching everything I broke up with my dusty! I always knew there was something off he was a dusty/too Feminine of a man that wanted me to build with him even tho I’m more established than him🫤 and he’s 28.
Yuck! No girl you deserve to be spoiled and taken care of like a princess, Women and men are built differently, You can have your own business and side hustle.But you shouldn't be slaving away like men or continuously giving to them, it literally deteriorates our health much faster than men and we end up aging and dying sooner. Cheers to the soft life💅🏽✨
I'm currently a pic-misha and I'm learning to break free. Leveling up 💅🏾✨
I never know I was a pickmish but not anymore after learing her videos help me understand I don't gotta be with these broke wanna be slack lack and no ambitious type of mind.
I am in my late 40s and I always looked at my mom like a gold digger. She worked for several years straight and got laid off. That was it. Meanwhile my father stressed to me to be independent. I am an only child and I didn’t realize how spoiled I was. I never wanted a man for money. Now! I have seen the light! Hallelujah! and Amen SheRa! 😂😂😂😂I was so wrong. It’s too late for me, but I’m good. I’ll never be used again. Pick me no more!!!
It’s never too late. My friends cute moms still bag providers in their 50s. Just take care of yourself and get back out there.
That's a word!!!! When a woman works she WILL tell her story and tell how much she did!!!!
I.e instagram 🤣🤣 all of them shouting from the rooftop 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My step mom is 13 years younger than my dad, and put the down payment for the house. And she tried to make me feel bad for wanting a man with money. These pickmishas get so aggressive
I am so sorry hun🌺😞 At least now you know, what to avoid
All good, but 1:41:22 Megan clearly "bagged" Harry, because she acted like she didn't need him...she wasn't intimidated, she acted like she was the prize, not him. She joked with him a lot, kept him on his toes.
She balanced it I think
All "royal" marriages are arranged. It ain't that deep.
@@October3074 exactly
October....that’s true. They plan it all out
@Kalu V Megan and Harry are distant cousins. Do your research. Their marriage was arranged just like all the "royals.
You told that lady right sis. A child will love you more than any man and my kids gave me purpose at times when I felt like life was dark and I was unhappy.
Yes, same!
feminime women attract masculine men. masculine women attract feminime men.
Exactly!!!!
A feminine woman has to kno her worth alot or else she woild attract a toxic man
My X mother in law was a barbra the builder and I was so harshly judged by her for choosing to stay at home with my kids. I would see her time and time again get mistreated by her husband and on top of that she had so many reconstructive shoulder and knee surgeries from her job. He would cheat on her and would always diminish her contribution to the household. I was like why would I want to follow your advise? Needless to say I am not in that family anymore.
20 minutes in and I'm so glad I got to find this. It now makes sense bc the real thing is you "help a guy come up" and later he leaves you for another woman. This psychology makes sense now. Ladies we need to raise our standards. There's no pride walking around all beat up and tired bc you are busy building people!
Also take care of your teeth
Akhela Guiseppi-Noel say it again!
You take care of yours
i dont get it u talking about sheras teeth😯
@@entrepreneurking8162 for that non black man
u r not gonna believe but this 50 50 guy had 1 tooth missing and he was tellin me how its 2018 and he wants a woman pursue him lmfao i told him to fix that missing tooth lmfao
I love this video. You sound like my grandma and her sister. I make money but dont want to be Boss Chick...I want a man that makes way more than me so my money seem little to him...then he can take care of me.
yes, “my money seem little to him” indeed we should not be over-earning our partners
same
Yes being taken care of to feel like a princess 💓
The natural order of things is that men give and women take. Because Pick Mes give too much and will accept anything, there is no clear structure in the relationship and the guy has no direction as to what he should do. With nothing to do, he receives insufficient mental stimulation and becomes bored as his daylight hours have no meaning. Over time, this creates resentment. If a woman digs gold, then what she wants is clear, and he can go find it, provide it, and receive positive feedback and a sense of accomplishment. Positive stimulation, if you will. Pick Mes provide negative or neutral stimulation only, as everything is muddled in neutral and cloudy emotions. It's passionless. I've tried to tell other women this, but they just call me crazy. Going 50/50 will cost you tenfold.
One of the best explanations I’ve read.
@@gratefullypositive5143 Agreed.
NO don’t blame this on women lmao. If a man is an alpha HE WILL NATURALLY BE ONE AND WILL NOT BE ANY OTHER WAY EVEN IF THE WOMAN PUSHES HIM TO BE A BETA HE JUST WONT BE
Men love gold diggers because men have evolved to be protectors and providers. A man's sex drive depends on his women demanding more than sex from him. (Note this is a man telling you this).
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It's crazy how powerful a woman's beauty is
Thank you for this priceless advice
💯👌🏾
Hmm true, guys will give other women everything if you don't ask...
Lol...im enjoying this entire process . I get up every day looking better and feeling better ! For me im just looking to date more worthy men who will spoil me . Just leveling up alone makes your life better ! Keep motivating Ashera 😚 Thank you ! Thank goodness you stay at home and don't work a traditional job . We wouldn't get these video's 😢😢😢😭😭😭 haha !
1:30 19:06 32:15 : gold digger
8:27 24:16 27:35 : men
10:40 : priorities
12:08 16:10 41:16 : 🎁💅
22:49 : pick me chick
26:30 40:20 : housewife
37:00 : independent woman
41:33 : polygamy
43:12 47:00 : tricks 😂
44:00 : backup 💰
46:44 : kids with old men
I dont think anyone told you thank you for this. but thank you.
Thanks so much
Thank you
Doing the Lord’s work with the Goddess Shera!
Thanks a bunch!!
33:15 to 34:15 a pick me favorite qoute "Im not about to be competing against other women for no man....." if he's a Dusty you're right to feel like you don't have to compete for him.but if he's not a Dusty..... LEVEL UP OR GET LOOKED OVER!!!
RightA
You are so friggin' sassy and it's hilarious-- love the sound effects of contempt!
Men get in their feelings when their woman earns more.
This is funny! I have to screen shot this!🤣
They so do. When my mum got a job, my father started to get sulky and to pout and didn't like her any more. Dusties are super emotional.
They think they’ll be ok with it...til it actually happens...
@@brianb7059 you’re a brokie, that why you dream your woman makes more lol 😂
Nd jealous
All of what Shera is saying is TRUE my man is in I.T and he thanked me for wanting to be better and do more.
i am 63 and i wish i heard you when i was younger.
I don’t think that labels make you. You are a beautiful woman and could wear something from Target and make it it look good. I myself have everything from low end to high end...most people can’t even tell the low end items I wear.
Brown Diamond I like it all as well I just can’t do leggings as a regular item
If you shop at Target you a broke bitch
hustlermindset, Michelle Obama and Beyoncé shop at Target. You cannot be serious.
@@entrepreneurking8162 Dusty alert, lol!!!...
@@healed2011 they do not shop at no damn target you asshole they shop at Saks fifth Ave
The gems in the first half an hour ALONE is absolutely insane. Nothing but fax, no printa 🗣
I gave too much in my relationship now I’m distancing myself and talk to a dudes on the side who gives and doesn’t take
Love this sleek look Shera, us Pisces know how to look good !!
Three lovely blessings Facts Pisces here 3/6
You are a riot! You make anything interesting!
I am getting a notebook just for all these tips..
IamKarryanne my girl💕
This is exactly what i did
I'm 21, broke up with a dusty and now building my life
@@emnasomrani4140 How has it been going? I'm 20 and curious if you're succeeding 💎
@@chamomiletea906 just turned 24, and let me tell you, my self esteem and knowing my worth went hiiigh up ! ⬆️⬆️⬆️ Been leveling up ever since. I haven't been dating for a while as I have been more focused on school & achieving personal goals, but all of her tips have definitely saved me. All of this made me extremely selective about the people I allow in my circle, wouldn't give 1 second of my time to any dusty or anyone that's trying to play around and waste my time. Met many high caliber men in the process
@@emnasomrani4140 Wow that's so impressive, I'm so happy for you!!! Shera is a true gift. Wishing you lots of happiness, health and success on your journey!
It’s funny how I’m 25 now and I definitely understand. I was highkey a pickme but only in my first relationship, splitting 50/50 on certain stuff. That man was cheap even though I knew he had more than others in savings and he was in his last year of studying engineering. The bum didn’t even ever give me a decent bouquet of flowers. I refuse to date only black men, men without degrees and/or doesn’t own businesses. Bums and cheapos and even insecure ugly men (because let’s be honest, ugly and medium ugly men aren’t always the answer) give you scraps and try to plant seeds of insecurity in you. Rich men are generous when it comes to worthy women.
I like you, Shera. Your my kind of lady, and I just subbed. Thank you, and mad respect for what you do to empower women.
Even better as a lawyer I say " I am a lawyer by trade but now I stay home full time with the kids and I have a nanny to help out". BOOM!
This channel is my favorite guilty pleasure. Thanks for the hours and hours of entertainment, education and empowerment! ❤️
Gurl I was sound asleep as I had left your video on. Don't you know I woke up out of my sleep hearing you say your Mom's mantra "don't you bring no babies home". I woke up laughing in my sleep!
I have a list of favorite videos of yours, I just have to keep adding them on you so good!
34:10 Shera is hitting the nail on the head!!! If anyone remembers the old Showtime series: The Tudors Henry the VIII's 5th wife ; Catherine Howard was around 17 when they married. Jonathon Rhys-Myers who played Henry said " Catherine Howard was the Tudor equivalent to a Red Ferrari" All the men in the court wanted her!
Kanye West said the same thing about Kim. He believes he has the prettiest women in the game! He is able to go around other men and stick his chest out a little bit, because she brings him status!!
Shera is telling the TRUTH!! When that man comes up; he WILL be w/the woman the next man CAN'T HAVE !!
@@nansitey2389 😂😂😂
@@nansitey2389 AGREED!!!!
Nd Kim left
I get hated cuz I feel the say you do, everyones like oh you should work, im like no im a stay at home mom.
They’re jealous! I’m jealous! Lol but not hating! Good for you!
I’ve been listening to your RUclips videos religiously like two a day and this is hands-down my favorite one I’m literally getting goosebumps.
Ashera started this whole level up, relationship coach ish... Giving this queen her flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
"I am taken care of...full ride" love that response to pick me chicks👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This chat had me Dying laughing..You're so funny Shera..But hey thanks to you. Now at 46 No MORE DUSTIES...I leveled up...I learned alot from you and never saw it from your point of view..Now I am much happier girl...
Rachel.(AkA Pebbles) Better late than never gurl! 🥰
Wow I love this woman, and her message can save the new generation
Watching this while I’m on the treadmill - shera helping us reach our highest form
1.) When you are 50/50 your not wife.
2.) You have to be creative
3.) The list goes on.... watched till the end ❤️
She stating real facts!!!! 💯 Reasons why Travis left billionaire Kylie.
And why cardi b is having trouble keeping her man away from other women.
No its bc hes born sheep year shes an ox those are enemies in chinese astrology
@TheArielrbthey ain’t together
@UnpredictableAriYour comment didn’t age well cuz Cardi is on FB live yelling at us bout sumn her man did.
There was a guy I was dealing with a while back he just recently finished law school and I told him until he can take care of me. We will not be together or even see each other. I bet my top dollar when he gets his money right after a few cases he’s going to leave the pickmesha that’s been helping him & find his way right back to me 🤣💚
Last summer we went to dinner and I dressed really nice so he did too, and the waitress found him on Instagram (from his credit card) and asked him on a date🤣 that was when I realized I’m destined to be a trophy wife. Bc baby before this no one even looked at you.
Im about to tell this lawyer the same thing loo
"What if the rich man's sex is bad". Lmao, I swear you got your work cut out for you these women know nothing about priorities.
Get another man for sex and spoils too... dont get caught ever
Fake it 😅
The poor mans sex is bad
High maitance for high maitance equal exchange
Found Shera at 23 thank you, Asha C and Love your Natural I’m so glad I learned this now
Update on your level up?
Now, this is a an analogy I came up with ladies and gentlemen. In the Garden of Eden, God told the man, Adam, take care of the garden. Which meant God wanted Adam to work. Now God saw that Adam was not working as hard and smart as he was suppose to, which is, he was not using all the talent God gave him. So God said there is no one here who is suitable enough to boost Adam's confidence, therefore I will make him someone suitable for him. God took a rib from Adam, and formed the woman. Now the rib to which God Almighty took was a kind of rib that whenever is in action, it boost the confidence of a man. So the moment God brought the woman to Adam, the bible specifically for the first time wrote down every word Adam said because those words were not just words they were creativity, spiritual and enlightenment. Adam named all the animals and everything on earth he gave name to it, but nowhere was his words written as the moment he saw the woman. And she didn't have to do anything to get such accolades and praise, her presence alone opened a part of the man's mind that made him to use his words creatively, when at first he was just naming but now he did not have to put a label on the woman, he had to describe what he was seeing before his eyes. He did not care that he had lost a rib. My point being, a woman is not suppose to lift a finger for the man to be successful, our presence alone should be enough to enable the man to go out there and bring home all the good things he can find by working smarter. And all the believers shall say AMEN!!!!
Very Joy Tasty exactly
Amen
Perfect explanation!
That is beautiful ! Ru follower of Jesus ?
All of your tricks work like magic n m happy I got ya videos.. thank you !! U r helping all women ❤️❤️
omg yasssss
This video is nothing but straight truth! If you look good, he looks good!
Your priorities are to stay beautiful and desirable
I don’t practice religion anymore I practice Sheraseven
I think we call it here Sheraism.
Nooooo! Not idol worship
I see no lies where told here
You are so pretty! Ashanti vibes! She is one of my favorites.
I am a Glam mother I stay in the gym single enjoying your instructions!
Yasss girl! Me as well.
As a man, definitely learning a lot from your videos. 🧐. Thank you and much love.
My recent ex-hubby learned the hard way, and I never had a job really 🤣
He decided to divorce me after 25 yrs, I dared him with my active leveling-up flashing in his stubborn face - alimony is a beautiful life 💅🏾
Loyal is sold to the world, though NEVER respected 🤷🏽♀️
So when expensive hoes dominate, the world falls apart - per God’s point 🤷🏽♀️
Gold digging ratchet hoes SAVE the world ever time 🕊
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you go girl
"I'm going to attack you on the East side at 2:30 see you there 🤣🤣" I swear...I use to be like This, telling all my business..smdh
Ok, it was ok listening to you while I was mall walking and people seeing me laugh. But I was laughing out loud listening to u at the gym. People musta thought I was laughing at them. :) Everything u say is so true!
Lol 😂
I’m sitting at happy hour listening to this in my AirPod cracking tf uppppp 😂😂
I love your videos. #Trurh. Women are in denial about what you say and I was in denial until a year ago. Bless you, for sharing.
Shera has done it Again!! I nodded and agreed the whole time, then added to my favorites 😜
Especially on why James chose her and the part about how a lot of women are needy n need validation when u can get that from yourself, your kids etc.... That’s winning.
But this topic tho omg I just had this convo with a guy who is trying to date me since I would notice certain things that turned me off so I was going to pass him to 1 of my pick me friends. Showed him her picture and profile and said how great of a catch she is, how much better/more perfect of a match she is for him... chile he only came on to me STONGER SMH !! I said um no she is for you. Trust me. He kept saying but “I can see You with me”. I was confused like but why you see what I’m used to. U know we won’t work. Long story short Shera broke it down for me. This vid found me right on time. Sorry so long guys. I just heart me some Shera!! She’s so dope n real with it. Reminds me of a nba wife bestie I have.
My last ex knew some Heavy hitters in our metropolitan area. The husband was very powerful, during the times we spent with this couple the husband never asked what I did. The wife cut those eyes and asked what did i do! I couldn't figure out why her hubby was in the paper with the Governor & she literally baby sat people kids for "hobby "🤔 when they came to visit us she would jump to clean, while I kicked back and drank wine. 😂 Now my ex was white. They we're too ( just fyi) she had dog hair all over her clothes& I was always dressed to impress. My ex was showing me off to them. The husband liked me. She was super jelli! Lol
Relationships are a cat and mouse game am good
Dasani605 yes indeed🙄
I love you!!! You’re hilarious and I can tell you have a sweet good heart.
I’m learning so much from you and it’s made my life richer and for the most part has repelled the dusties/ men who aren’t the ones I’m targeting and has helped me meet more ideal men. I’m glad. I don’t feel like I have to run ragged proving myself and paying for what a man needs who isn’t doing anything for me.
Thank you.
I discover your channel and I love it ! I have a similar mindset. In my country (France) women really have a pick me culture it's 1000 time worse than USA
West southern europe in general.
I’m from Europe and when I go there for vacation I still act trophy and guys give me everything. They KNOW, just local girls don’t expect anything of them.
I know à pick me and I want to forward this to her but it would hurt her prob, she pays the rent n bills bcs she doesn't trust him w money , she paid to have his teeth done,she has tried to leave him several times.. she is in control but has no peace, working nine to 5, watching him,raising a child. I don't know what his role is exactly
I live in Canada, Toronto, all these pick me chicks, I saw the light years ago, i dont want ta be no bob the builder. I went through it. Its just i hot my incone streams, i dont work, im workin on this guy, he acts like he wants me to work...im like nah, bye, hes we need to talk bout tha future, what do you see? Im like me gettin what I want, raisin my kids, and being happy. I really think imma bout ta get him how i need it. Its all these other pick mes hating like they wanna run me outta etobicoke because they so mad i sint workin and im lookin sexy doin what i want, only a few chicks are positioning themselves to copy me. Now Im fillin in some more blanks forc myself from yourc teaching so thank you, its so refreshing i love tha ho esty and the strategy, your a real master of youre destiny.
Ive been sugaring and husting since 18. Learned so much on my own and made a lot but there is always more to learn and more wisdom to gain! Girl!! You opened up a whole new level to this!!!!! THANK YOU! xoxoxxo much love from NYC
Edit: When do you boradcast live? Would love to join the convo and see your vids asap :D Besos
Alexis Maria hey I live in nyc too! I'm 21 and I'm starting to learn how to sugar. Happy sugaring to you!
Akpo Ukpong haha Msg me!
yaaaaaaaasssssssssssssssssssssssss
Alexis Maria I’m in NY too 23 soon to start sugaring
@IslandBeauty you broke too bitch that's why you're here 🤣🤣🤣...
Yes you have absolutely answered all those women who are to controlling over there men an demanding while Belitting them bragging they go half or they done that (let a .an shine )
you've lost weight since 2017 and you look amazing!!!! also love the wigs
This is so informative & well articulated. I am absorbing this beautiful wisdom you teaching here.. It's time for me to start living life to it's fullest. Thank you so much SheRa. Blessings to you & your beautiful family.
Watching all your old videos from around this time. Shera your energy during this era is a Mood for 2021⚡
This is straight up talk. How do I know because I was a pick me. Made my husband a millionaire at 30 and multimillionaire by 40. What happened? He frauded all our assets and found himself a gold digger. 28yrs of.marriage I got a phone call from him when he moved left with her. It's not going to end well for her though because she controls him and takes credit for his success.
Sounds like she smart his lost and yours dummy. Get his money too
That's exactly why it's going to work out for her.
Pogo what are the signs that uve noticed before he started looking for another woman? Like was he coming late or
I loved it ;..) ‘ I am not a man I’m a wife !’
Omg! You are awesome! I'm learning so much! It's late in the game for me I'm 50 but oh well better late than never. Any tips for us 50 plus who look young for their age?
Yeah, a friend is spending Xmas alone because the baddie wife of three years wants to spend time with her family a few states away and he will be left at the house without his son for over a month!
Yep, he is complaining about it but happy to be married to a baddie!
You are definitely describing Houston, and Chicago men.
Houston is a complete shthole....looks like mexico
And Atlanta,and Louisiana,and Memphis,and the whole world....lol...You must never travel...Or do you have different men in each city?If not shut up...A fools mouth is his or her destruction...God bless u sis
You might have been in the ghetto area of Houston but Houston is not a shithole
Ummm..
Where were you looking?? On the South side of Chicago?? U might wanna travel around the city and the burbs cause i know PLENTY of qualified men hunty!! I'm married to one. As a matter of fact, he was raised on the South side but he leveled up after college....ijs
You are amazing in the way that you give us lessons. I just wish that the videos were shorter but, besides that, you are doing good work! I love the way you break it down for all of us.
Love you 😍 You done changed my life. Thank You💋
Baby, that long hair is IT. 🔥🔥 Yasss.
I love your southern accent ❤️
♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥🔥 code I live by,never let the right hand know what the left is doing, let em' do all the talking, notice something you don't like, keep a tab and start planning, I'm still a work in progress. But deep down,
I know what I want.