IS HE ON THE DL?

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    Miss Faye shares insights on the Down Low Man, and what you need to know about him. Black men “on the down low” have been considered prime agents of HIV transmission in the Black community.

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  • @hemademecry
    @hemademecry 9 месяцев назад +74

    My white husband is no different. What is going on in the world these days? A woman cannot believe in anyone. My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. I cant function most days. These videos have helped me a lot today.

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 9 месяцев назад

      Sexual perversion and lawlessness. People turning they’re backs on God and leaning to they’re own understanding. Which is them getting deceived by all kinds of evil (dark spirits). Just like there are DL men, so are women. What the devil cannot create, he twists.

    • @latoshaadams3828
      @latoshaadams3828 4 месяца назад +7

      Right smh

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 2 месяца назад +3

      I feel the same way these days.

    • @JohnSmith-rv6nf
      @JohnSmith-rv6nf 2 месяца назад

      It’s called Male Bonding.

    • @daphanewarren322
      @daphanewarren322 2 месяца назад

      Thank GOD we did not grow up in Sodom the real place in the BIBLE. AMEN

  • @crystalbqueen4341
    @crystalbqueen4341 Год назад +221

    This woman is saving women thousand's of dollars in THERAPY!!!!!!!!!

    • @micheleparker3780
      @micheleparker3780 Год назад +17

      ...if they LISTEN.

    • @selfesteem3447
      @selfesteem3447 Год назад +16

      And venereal diseases. I knew a woman named Melissa who had AIDS and she told me that when she got AIDS her husband admitted that he had been on the down low. It talked about here in this video that it's in the black community, well Melissa and her husband were black.
      That being said, my father was a white man and he was so download he might as well have been gay. My father was a psychopath and a narcissist including a Machiavellian.

    • @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786
      @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786 Год назад +8

      If people will trust that they don’t know better. This could save your life!
      Con artist!

    • @toniwilson3827
      @toniwilson3827 Год назад +8

      Yes she is , a true blessing at that 🙏❤️🌹

    • @brendamoosa2636
      @brendamoosa2636 Год назад +3

      She is the best, I can't imagine a day without her angelic voice, WELCOME 🎉❤, I focus more with my work and also being productive and getting notes as much as I could, she is amazing ❤️

  • @alexiusscott9880
    @alexiusscott9880 Год назад +69

    This is disgusting. It makes me want to stay single forever.

  • @yvonne2965
    @yvonne2965 Год назад +102

    Ms Fey telling all of us what our mothers should have told us about..Crazy

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад +1

      The mothers, grandmothers were brainwashed by patriarchy. The truth was hidden and they were literally terrorized into submission.
      The patriarchy has robotized women. Robotization means you follow the will, emotions, thoughts & orders of another. It is observed in concentration camps, DV relationships, prison, slavery, etc.
      - Trauma & Recovery (Herman, 2015)

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Год назад +8

      Boomer moms don't know

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 Год назад +3

      @@kathleenking47we here talking about those who have up 40´s here

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 8 месяцев назад +2

      My mother was taught to be naive and innocent ( mormons) lol

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 8 месяцев назад

      I've always wondered...why do males have a g spot in bumbum

  • @mahoganylove5757
    @mahoganylove5757 Год назад +179

    Sad reality this is real and really terrible. Men should be shamed to drag women into this filth unwillingly. 😤

    • @zinedinezidane4771
      @zinedinezidane4771 Год назад

      Just a question. Is it filth because he sleeping with other men?

    • @mahoganylove5757
      @mahoganylove5757 Год назад +1

      Filth meaning he is keeping it a secret...never allowing the unknowing party a chance to say yah or nay. Shit do you if you want to ram or let someone else ram you in the butt...do you. 💯

    • @zinedinezidane4771
      @zinedinezidane4771 Год назад +8

      @@mahoganylove5757 I get that lol

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Год назад

      They don’t care will use u up and give you deadly Aids 💔🚨👹

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 8 месяцев назад

      They have objectified us as props to compete with each other...they are competing for who can fool his women the best

  • @momosoulfulworldasmr
    @momosoulfulworldasmr 7 месяцев назад +41

    I’m in a sexless marriage with a man and I just found out that he has been on gay/trans escort sites. He deceived me and had a baby with me. I am so disgusted with him. He never showed no sign until recently but the fact that he has been avoiding sex explains it ALL now. Glad I found out now than later. I’m ready to exit my way with my baby and divorce this monster.

    • @Jean-g4d4g
      @Jean-g4d4g 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes 👍. It's scary as hell. D.L Men never admit they are Gay. Churchy and Gay

    • @JohnSmith-rv6nf
      @JohnSmith-rv6nf 4 месяца назад

      Homosexuality is a form of birth control.

    • @JohnSmith-rv6nf
      @JohnSmith-rv6nf 2 месяца назад

      @@momosoulfulworldasmr Homosexuality is a form of birth control and male bonding. Don’t take it personally.

    • @winifredparks255
      @winifredparks255 17 дней назад +1

      And that is a blessing that he wasn’t having sex with you but my prayers are going out to you. I will get out.

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Год назад +198

    Be careful ladies...better 2 be single n celibate n safe!

    • @crystalm.5755
      @crystalm.5755 Год назад +14

      Yup

    • @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
      @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Год назад +12

      EXACTLY

    • @lavender123u
      @lavender123u Год назад +8

      Facts. I was dealing with a guy 3 years ago.never knew he was engaged. He gave me hpv and horrible nasty uti. He admitted he has sex issues. Very sneaky. I believe he was messing with both sides.

    • @airons1895
      @airons1895 Год назад +20

      I'm living the single life footloose and fancy free for 6 years and counting! I'm in love with me because I'm the only one I can trust! 🥰

    • @lifeyunique
      @lifeyunique Год назад +3

      Very blessed and favored also

  • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
    @allaboardthegravytrain5987 11 месяцев назад +21

    It’s weird when they profess so much love for you and one argument and it’s like they don’t remember you at all

    • @shirleyguinyard8183
      @shirleyguinyard8183 10 месяцев назад +2

      This is how my Narcissist Husband treated me we could have sex one night and the next night he treats me like he never knew me he even told me that I don't deserve him he hates my guts.

    • @CarolineOwens-s1h
      @CarolineOwens-s1h 5 месяцев назад

      @@shirleyguinyard8183this !

  • @marym9585
    @marym9585 Год назад +98

    This explains so much about my ex and our sex life. Let me say I am lucky not to have hiv! Thank you

    • @laurieclark2456
      @laurieclark2456 Год назад +4

      He’s maybe in the internet. Looking at sex blowing your money. And guess what. It messes w there minds. Period.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Год назад

      Its also a reason, I don't like men with pierced ears..and braids
      They look like a 🚩

    • @bhilaire1bj
      @bhilaire1bj Год назад

      How did you leave without causing commotion?

  • @marym9585
    @marym9585 Год назад +59

    This is not just a black problem .White men are like this too.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад +1

      Wïte menz taught/ra4ped men of the world thru colonization (r4ape & pillage) everywhere the British empire & American empire goes the male gay population explodes....they've subjecting men to this for hundreds of years since the Greeks & Romans.
      And the 1st place they add gayness is to spiritual, magik, occult, secret society and witchcraft. They want to hijack spirituality & use it to infect people to follow their ways & make people submit, even men.

    • @kTorres007
      @kTorres007 Год назад +15

      Mexican men too. I'm Almost sure of it now

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 Год назад

      All cultures are like this on every level not just black or white men. Women have to be very careful jumping in bed with a man you know nothing about. He can be very slick and persuading. But watch out and ask the Lord to give you an eye and a discerning spirit to know who you are dealing with. It is too dangerous out here because aids HIV is still out there though we don't hear about it as much these days. Yet it is still rampant. So care about yourself ladies you have value.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 Год назад

      @@kTorres007 Many men regardless of race and culture are doing these filthy things and bringing that stuff back to their wives and girlfriends. Very sad but no man whatever he is will do these things to himself because he doesn't care about himself or anyone else. DL is just what it is "down low." This applies to all men in every race.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 Год назад +7

      Totally!

  • @DeBellanadi
    @DeBellanadi Год назад +45

    There should be a federal law and prison time for this …. Deception
    And jeopardizing citizens health

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 6 месяцев назад

      We don't need federal law.
      We need education.
      Then people could decide what they want to do.
      If they had a law for everything somebody didn't like, everyone would be locked up.

    • @truthbetold-withdanielle
      @truthbetold-withdanielle 4 месяца назад +2

      Yes!! Attempted Murder

  • @airforce1324
    @airforce1324 10 месяцев назад +20

    They’ll even pretend like their boyfriends are their cousins or relatives. And if you’re new to the family, you don’t know that’s not his blood relative.

  • @elkee4730
    @elkee4730 Год назад +52

    This is one of the reasons why the Black community is in the terrible predicament it is in. It is as if Black men have given up their manhood. I am glad to hear Ms. Faye, speak on the topic of DL men. It is terrible seeing young men wearing sagging pants but, every time a see Black men over thirty wearing their pants sagging there is no hope for them. Again Ms. Faye, you have shared with us what you have learned from living.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Год назад +5

      Look at their hair,🕷 and still piercing ears?
      Sagging pants was always a 🚩
      However I didn't see THAT until the 90s

    • @CreativePower.
      @CreativePower. Год назад

      There are gay, dl, Trans in allllll communities. Who do you think is pushing the gay propaganda amongst the celebrities and into the blk community thru music 🤔...the gate keepers who so happen to be jews and Caucasians. They are the ones with they gay demonic swinger parties.

  • @chosen1121
    @chosen1121 Год назад +70

    This is making me feel nauseous.... Because I know it's true.

    • @igordova6246
      @igordova6246 Год назад +5

      Day of the dark soul it will pass breathe

  • @LandandHomesHawaii
    @LandandHomesHawaii Год назад +16

    Yes I totally felt "he didnt REALLY want to be around me" Yet he kept me on his arm and in front of his dick friends to make his dick friends jealous. Ms Faye I didnt want to SEE it. Didnt want to believe it.

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 8 месяцев назад +7

    Miss Faye you are the therapist l am 70 years of age and l totally agree

  • @London1111
    @London1111 Год назад +35

    I’m staying abstinent it’s a great stress reliever

  • @twinkiecrunch6344
    @twinkiecrunch6344 Год назад +106

    Thank you Miss Faye for this wonderful channel. After 30+ found out my man was on the DL. I don't feel so alone seeing other women understand but it does still hurt a lot

    • @Designs_Decor63
      @Designs_Decor63 Год назад +12

      Are you OK today

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Год назад +13

      Im sorry I live in SC Bible belt they are everywhere 💔🤬💥

    • @catherinepatton8699
      @catherinepatton8699 6 месяцев назад +1

      Miss Faye,
      I am 88 years old lived my life doing what l know to do and many decisions l made without total information.
      You my dear are helping thousands of women.
      I listened to you, your wisdom, education your pearls of wisdom are amazing.
      I support you your channel your experience sharing your experience is amazing.
      I never got insight to my decisions, until l started to listen to you now so many questions l had have been cleared up l feel stronger, safer due to your input.
      Thank you

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 Год назад +96

    Even more disconcerting is they have no problem wasting the other persons time and emotions and of course their resources too propping up a fraud.

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 Год назад

      My x's niece called him a fraud in front of me! He also has a "friend" in Florida that he blew me off for! Lol. DL man!

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Год назад +1

      Narcissists

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Год назад

      It's a nasty choice!! Gotta keep them n Prayer!!

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Год назад +1

      TY much...Most I already know..U confirmed it!!! Thank God for descipline of the body!!!👍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💚⚘

  • @timothygenaw2199
    @timothygenaw2199 Год назад +82

    Mam, this is true. Closeted bisexual men are everywhere. I don't judge people for their nature if they are committed good people, but nobody should cheat with a male or female when they are married to a person. If someone shows other signs of being a deceitful, two faced, fake, selfish, or controlling person...then be careful. Use protection until you can leave the situation.

    • @loislane3972
      @loislane3972 Год назад

      ​@Belltown Daisy Real.Ta!k.
      They are nothing but gay a freaking homosexual.

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 4 месяца назад +1

      Faccccctsss

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 Год назад +117

    (29:15) You are certainly helping me and I'm a 48-year-old black female, divorced with three children under age of 19. I just found your Channel today. It's all a blessing. I hope you continue with this for as long as you can. 💐

    • @eugenecharrington
      @eugenecharrington Год назад

      Like u said Faye the Black church is full of
      liars, hustlers, child molesters and cheaters,
      the best relion is no religion.

  • @denisenoles3159
    @denisenoles3159 Год назад +53

    A former health provider told me she caught her husband in their house in the basement doing this dude who he always said was his close friend from way back. smh

  • @salomewilson9032
    @salomewilson9032 Год назад +40

    Parents are too eager to leave their children with a boyfriend they've only known for a short time. Leave their children with a coach, music instructor, martial arts instructor, and neighbors. And I would look at young boys who like to babysit too
    What young boys want to babysit all the time. And your new coworker always volunteers to watch your kids. And watch out for the husband's and boyfriends of your girlfriends, too. Trust no one you don't know, cousins, brothers, or uncles.

  • @sunshinehope4012
    @sunshinehope4012 Год назад +30

    This was my experience exactly. His aura was always off. He never appeared happy, nor with me. Thank God I was wise enough to figure this out. Thanks for this confirmation Ms Faye, you are so on point.

    • @LandandHomesHawaii
      @LandandHomesHawaii Год назад +5

      Sorry you had to go thru that. Finally caught my ex dogging another man and I swear I knew that siomething was "off" with him. He liked to pretend he was the "bottom" and I dould never figure that shyt out. When I caught him in bed with his friend, I have never been the same.

    • @Nortongroove
      @Nortongroove Год назад +1

      You need to immediately go get a serum std panel drawn. This is beyond sin to expose an innocent partner to the dangers of this filthy behavior. I’m truly sorry you have had to endure this. He should be sued for emotional torment.

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 6 месяцев назад

      So many times, they were sexually abused in childhood.
      They don't need to be sued. They need help and education.

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 6 месяцев назад

      And yes, you need to get checked out for SDI.
      If you don't have the money for this, there are many free clinics.
      Because the health care clinics want to put a stop for spreading STIs.

  • @Justine-gp5tn
    @Justine-gp5tn 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is a hard talk to listen to but its very important to hear this.

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 Год назад +44

    I asked my man friend was he gay, he didn't say yes or no, so that leaves me to believe he is Gay!!

  • @astrology4u
    @astrology4u Год назад +46

    Not only does he like a good looking woman for a great cover, the DL man will also date women outside of his race because women within his race, will and can blow his cover more easily. It’s not easy hiding for long from your own kind.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад

      They also don't see the very pretty women as people more like dolls to show off as a status symbol (how dehumanizing for a woman) and use as a secks toy.
      That's why women with DL men get a lot of plastic surgery and look plastic.
      That's why women shouldn't envy looks on woman cause it is only used as a commodity by men to traffick or use as a Stepford Wife for a DL.

    • @glidkomer
      @glidkomer Год назад +3

      👉🎯

  • @ceraroberts2691
    @ceraroberts2691 Год назад +126

    She is telling the truth about everything! I worked as an officer in a state prison for my career. Both men and women's facilities. The issues here are not just in the prison system. I have run into three of these guys in a vary small town in Utah. One guy was trying to get with me. Because of everything I learned in prison I called the guy out. He was dumbfounded that I knew what he was doing. I told him I'm nobody's beard! At the end of the day, he treated me way different because he knew how much power I held.
    It's still funny to me that all three of these guys run together. Birds of a feather flock together......

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 Год назад +19

      Yes. There are officers on the d.l. too they do things like stalk innocent women probably because they're jealous.

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st Год назад +12

      What are the signs you notice? I’d like to know how to best avoid these types of men

    • @yolandajames7206
      @yolandajames7206 Год назад +7

      @@taraarrington2285 wow....perfect description of what was going on here lol stalking an "innocent" woman...as they definitely were

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 Год назад +1

      @@yolandajames7206 yes. They're probably jealous being in the closet and all. Probably want your man or something.

    • @yolandajames7206
      @yolandajames7206 Год назад +9

      @@taraarrington2285 yes... I believe they were trying to harm me because, they were secretly dealing with him & his confused self is "still in love with me" they were gang stalking me out of nowhere for no reason, even wanted me to self harm or commit suicide for no reason, behind this individual....smh people are sick in the head & ridiculous, evil as well.

  • @shrekanorthern2457
    @shrekanorthern2457 Год назад +69

    She’s not lying about none of this it’s so true I’ve just got out of an relationship like this it’s so hurtful to hear 👂🏾 from someone else that all this was going on and I paid no attention 😢

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Год назад +1

      I believe it hard to detect for most person, all lesbians not easy to detect either they all don't dress as a butch/ like a man, I bet 50-75% of women have been with a man that have engaged with the same sex🙄🤷🏾‍♀️😢

    • @peacelove5511
      @peacelove5511 Год назад +4

      So true and the man I was with act as if he hated gay men calling them bountyboys because he was from Jamaica and said there they will kill you for that when all along he was on the DL. Most of the time the woman have to either look extremely good, have great success and just be pretty and dumb because they do need someone to throw off others. My guy would rent out rooms in his house, I started noticing the type of men he would rent too and take all type of stuff off of them. I didn’t even notice at first how excited he became around men especially very good looking me he was like a fast girl a whole different type of energy. I want even mention things he tried to request in bad an tried to lie and say he never tried these things just wanted to see what the hype was. I could go on and on but I end now. Thank you I hope people will share this and the other one you did on the D L man.

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd Год назад +53

    Thank you Miss Faye,
    I've always had all friends of all sex, shape and color but as I've become older and been dissapointed at how perverted people are I have to be more alone. You speak as though you would have been the big sister I didn't have. Everyone I meet just wants sex; gay, bi, single, married couples. What on earth is wrong with them ?. I'll just stay alone...God loves me and a true friend gave me a prayer book for Christmas.

  • @KCruz7
    @KCruz7 Год назад +73

    Ma’am you are sharing pearls of wisdom. Thank you sooo sooo much ., you are an earth Angel ❤

  • @lbrow4
    @lbrow4 2 месяца назад +5

    "I applaud you, Madam, for your wisdom. You embody the traditional matriarch that has been lost in our community. You are the new 'Big Mama,' filling a void for many."

  • @iamaleo247
    @iamaleo247 Год назад +25

    Ms. Faye….. You are truly in your calling with these messages. You hit it on the nail EVERY ONE of your videos! I truly hope women out there are listening.
    Wisest words ever spoken. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. God bless you!🙏🏽♥️

  • @sagittariusblack2879
    @sagittariusblack2879 Год назад +75

    Miss Faye I want to let you know something. I’ve encountered 3 DL men that eat plenty of 🐱 so sometimes even if he does do that it doesn’t mean he still doesn’t prefer another man.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Год назад +1

      They are prostitutes they want food money shelter it’s disgusting 🤮

    • @sagittariusblack2879
      @sagittariusblack2879 Год назад +15

      @@lovewhitey2027 It’s so weird! They present themselves as being financially secure and like they can do for you. Then, somehow flip the script…..like, huh?

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Год назад

      @@sagittariusblack2879 all con men 🚨🚨🤬

    • @selnun2707
      @selnun2707 Год назад +3

      That is true hunty!!

  • @aliciareneeakablueeyes1483
    @aliciareneeakablueeyes1483 Год назад +10

    I Really appreciate your channel. I live in New Orleans where in 2023 HIV is #2 in the entire country.. I also saw a very popular Gay DJ here in New Orleans say that he hosted for the holidays on one evening 5 different Gay events and he said there were mostly HETEROSEXUAL men at each event more so than the Gay men.. Ill never forget him saying "New Orleans, Whats REALLY going on???"... Big Sigh & Smh thanks so much for this video post. Ladies Stay safe out there

  • @Naijella86
    @Naijella86 Год назад +31

    I’m a black woman in England and I date white men exclusively and let me tell you something - the DL is a problem with them as well. The only thing I would say is a little better is that they’re a lot more open about their homosexual encounters. But for the grace of God have I not got intimately involved with two men that have previously had sex with other men. Talk about playing Russian roulette with your life; luckily for me they both told me of their previous encounters and I got rid of them before I ever even share a kiss with them.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад +9

      Well you know the saying about English men all being gay (& their gender segregated schooling which has been coed only recently at comprehensives)....and wherever the British empire went the colonized men became massively gay too.
      I would argue the same with the American empire.
      USA = empire by denial/deception. - Immerwahr

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 Год назад +5

      @@testtest2609 I can’t imagine ever taking a partner seriously as a man that had, had sex with another man

    • @dfuk66
      @dfuk66 Год назад

      The truth is white men are more open about it.... black men hide. Also white men have less diseases than these black men. Look at the stats. Keep dating white men only they are clean

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 9 месяцев назад +6

      Dude here. I’m not involving, but I’ve had my encounters with DL women. And let me tell you, that mess hurt you and humiliates you. Before I date any women, I got to know if they have any attractions towards other girls or if they had an experience. The four girls I talked to in my life: one didn’t, another hasn’t either, I don’t know about the third, and the forth one told me she used to be attracted to girls but never went further. People be thinking this crap is funny, no there are people who get hurt or killed by doing things like this. I just wish people be honest

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 4 месяца назад

      ​@@devionewilkins8903 Faccccctsss you are so right you are so right I personally know
      I have females invites me out with their girlfriend etc
      There they was feminine the girlfriend was a masculine Stud
      Soon as her stud girlfriend walk me to the door she turned feminine and started coming on to me and tried to make out with me I pushed it back like no no
      Etc smh

  • @natashalampkin366
    @natashalampkin366 9 месяцев назад +16

    I was dating a guy that was Dl now my health is on the line . Please pray for me Miss Faye. This guy was so sick in the head yet I ignored the signs

    • @Rmdon444
      @Rmdon444 4 месяца назад +1

      I pray you heal. Love and light to you

  • @mymiracle79
    @mymiracle79 Год назад +37

    You are straight no chaser. I like that.

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean Год назад +26

    They get more pleasure sneaking around. Its a kink. Thank you 😊 💓 It's so funny you are burning trash 🗑 🤣Thats perfect for the topic 👌 🙌🏽

  • @KCruz7
    @KCruz7 Год назад +42

    Thank you for being direct and transparent. Love and respect you for that . 🌺💕

  • @judithjames4890
    @judithjames4890 Год назад +21

    Thank you Miss Faye, I just subscribed to you because, you say what I have been thinking. I have been told that I am old fashioned because I won't allow myself to be used. I stand on my own two feet. I am 64 years old and it's been hard being celibate. But, again, I needed to hear someone say don't give up your power. I feel alone because most women I know give away everything.

  • @jenaharris1763
    @jenaharris1763 Год назад +31

    I know this is not a very recent video but still crucial info to consider as it relates to the dl man. J.L. King is an African American author who describes it best in his books about living a secret life on the dl while married with a family until his wife caught him having sex with a man. Thanks Miss Faye for sharing the insight in this video.

  • @spiritualintuitions1125
    @spiritualintuitions1125 5 месяцев назад +12

    It’s not just the alcohol, it’s the drugs too that will allow evil spirits into your space.

  • @Justine-gp5tn
    @Justine-gp5tn 7 месяцев назад +13

    Get a private investigator to check them out.

  • @audreyfreeman7961
    @audreyfreeman7961 Год назад +17

    Hi Miss Faye,
    I enjoy all your videos. This is what our young women need as well as the older women. Bless You!!!

  • @barbarahawkins4721
    @barbarahawkins4721 Год назад +14

    SO TRUE!! I LOOK FOR RED FLAGS ALL THE TIME, NOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN OLDER AND WISER! THANK YOU AGAIN!!

  • @monicabrown6601
    @monicabrown6601 Год назад +46

    And you will never know them just the part they want you to see

    • @crystalm.5755
      @crystalm.5755 Год назад +11

      So true... run and never look back

    • @joannegresser5858
      @joannegresser5858 Год назад +4

      Exactly 💯

    • @thundercat6709
      @thundercat6709 Год назад +2

      Truth!

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 2 месяца назад +2

      That's the hardest part of all.
      They keep the shadow side hidden whilst they're presenting a completely different version of themselves to you.

  • @starettaelliott1679
    @starettaelliott1679 Год назад +20

    These men don't wanna get to know you or they don't want you to know them

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Год назад +45

    Threw out a covert narcissist a few years back n think he may have been on the dl...thank God I tested negative 4 all stds!!! Women better be careful about stds n stis n aids n herpes! You never know what your man is up to n don't forget about massage parlors!!!

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Год назад +7

      The narcissist I was with I gat a feeling he was going Both ways! He wanted attention soo bad he wiil
      Take it from anyone and always wanted the back door 🚪as well!!!!

    • @kamiwellman8056
      @kamiwellman8056 Год назад

      What's a massage parlors???

    • @bettyespy2683
      @bettyespy2683 Год назад +1

      Ms Fay thank you for the truth AMEN!!

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Год назад +1

      True those diseases can be spread by either gender, Lesbians or Straight women or men, who's bed hopping engaging with multiple people or one tainted person can set it off to plenty and it don't have to be the DL's 🤷🏾‍♀️😢

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Год назад +1

      @@kamiwellman8056 People like to call massage parlors uncover prostitution rings, but every massage parlor not about illicit sex entertainment, like everybody in church is not holy🙄 once people start labeling they don't know where to stop, until somebody stick a label on them, 🙄🤷🏾‍♀️😢 do you get it, understand?

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean Год назад +23

    I had a man 35 years my senior approach me and courted me like he wanted to be my fiance, he also introduced us to the temple like that. He lived with a man and never spent the night after being in my house and wanting sex the entire time. Well at about the one and half year mark another person took over him and he no longer wanted to touch me. I always had nightmares of running and not being able to get to my destination , sweating and stressed. That was God tell me what he enjoyed doing to me , sabotage. At the end he had his roommate call me and say we broke up! So sometimes you are a cover for them. He would provoke fights and use my reaction to justify what he tells everyone else. It is spiritual warfare. Thank you again for this therapy ❤️ 🙏

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl Год назад +51

    My mother used to tell me, that a man is gonna be a man. And as I got older I understood exactly, what she was talking abt.
    My mother always talked to me, and I'm very grateful to her for that. In her day, no one talked them abt sex. But she didn't raise me like that. If I had a question, she was always ready to answer it. God bless her.

  • @dcaleb149
    @dcaleb149 Год назад +14

    A lot of men are living the DL life for the MONEY! It's scary out here. 🙏🏽

  • @Designs_Decor63
    @Designs_Decor63 Год назад +16

    You hit the nail on the head, lust is where most relationships started, so true I speak with my daughter's about their ❤️ language.

  • @Sarah-st6vf
    @Sarah-st6vf Год назад +38

    i love your energy, message and wisdom. so lucky to have found this channel

  • @Theloversconjure
    @Theloversconjure Год назад +15

    The minute I have to question that about someone is the minute they are done dealing with me lol. No more feminine damsel in distress men. ❤

  • @chandrareid8622
    @chandrareid8622 Год назад +13

    May God judgement expose the lies that down low men like to keep hidden.

  • @ritapeek314
    @ritapeek314 Год назад +19

    Thank you Miss Fay for educating women about this

  • @cynthiafreeman2995
    @cynthiafreeman2995 Год назад +31

    If you suspect it HE IS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 Год назад +9

      Yup, trust your instinct!
      Growing up in a dysfunctional family or society, we are programmed and brainwashed to ignore pain, fear and discomfort.
      Your feelings are right.

  • @RaylenePrice
    @RaylenePrice Год назад +16

    I’m sick of that treatment they buy you a meal and think you will give them sex because they spent money on you, NOPE!!! I’m not going to be a booty call 🚫🚫🚫 - Raylene Price

  • @mizzobjectiveone3819
    @mizzobjectiveone3819 Год назад +9

    I used to be all about the church. I dated a preacher. He was a bodybuilder. He was a golden gloves boxer and looked like, the Rock. He was also a senior design engineer, so I thought I picked the perfect person. That is until I finally met his "buddy" Clinton, when I decided to go to the gym with him. I thought Clinton would be big, stocky, and masculine like him. Instead, Clinton was an aerobics instructor. It was over when I looked in there and saw him flitting around with the other women. He was the first and last black man, I ever dated.

  • @waterfalls2724
    @waterfalls2724 Год назад +17

    I loved watching this video. Lady you are a blessing to many women out here and you are very wise and know what you're talking about. I like how you teaching the young and older women.

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 Год назад +41

    True I knew a narcissists who was raped as a 5 year old repeatedly by clergy from 5 to 9 when he understood it was wrong but it was to late for him hes a horrible person now

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 Год назад +13

      Too much trauma at too young of an age. However, through God all things are possible ❤🙏

    • @witnessforjesus6492
      @witnessforjesus6492 Год назад +2

      Did they go to prison?😢

  • @1honeychild
    @1honeychild Год назад +13

    They going to hell period. Pray for discernment.

  • @AmandaNBS
    @AmandaNBS Год назад +33

    Would you classify all DL men as narcissist? I would.

    • @igordova6246
      @igordova6246 Год назад +8

      Another bingo

    • @missta1820
      @missta1820 Год назад +10

      The DL man I was tangled up with was a Narcissist and hard drug user.

    • @London1111
      @London1111 Год назад +14

      Yup it’s no way possible they can be happy when they gotta hide who they are

  • @calicowest
    @calicowest Год назад +23

    Also the culture of jail and prison bring males into fold of homosexuality, and lack true male relationship with their fathers.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад

      It actually started at colonialization & slàv3ry....the gay male population explodes after colonialization by white men especially British & American white men.
      The sagging pants thing go back to slãv3ry. They also forced slav3s into incest...in fact same was done in Vietnam with America's Phoenix Program and now the war in Congo which America is behind using Rwanada as well as proxy.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Год назад

      Goerge Washington attended a gay S&M party in England called Hellfire club. Skull and Bones in Yale is also using gay hazing in coffins. This country was created and run by patriarchal gay white men. They use secks to trauma bond & terrorize men too... especially in the military.

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 4 месяца назад

      Faccccctsss

  • @vivianperdue4329
    @vivianperdue4329 Год назад +9

    My gay friend tell me this all the time and shows me pictures of the DL MENS he sleep with ..I always tell my friend if he show me someone I know I'm calling his wife and telling ...this makes me angry just pick a side why you got to be on the DL dam 😢😢

  • @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786
    @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786 Год назад +7

    Straight talk MissFaye 🎉

  • @jacquelinem.2948
    @jacquelinem.2948 Год назад +7

    Yes, dating is getting to know someone. Don’t rush. Long story short, If there’s something detrimental that you spot then you break up with him, though he may get angry. When that happens, block him. No second thoughts!

  • @yvettemiles2659
    @yvettemiles2659 Год назад +8

    Hello Faye how are you, I went to
    the gym last week to cancel my
    membership. The parking lot was
    full but hardly any people in the
    gym. This must be the new bath
    house!!!

  • @akuddawahu9247
    @akuddawahu9247 Год назад +15

    And here I was thinking your grilling something delicious 😂

  • @lotusflower3154
    @lotusflower3154 Год назад +13

    I’m 45 I divorced at 42 my husband was undercover with a coworker
    And I help him build his career and he treated me like shit after and during the divorce process

  • @juanitasanchezramos9310
    @juanitasanchezramos9310 Год назад +9

    A few yesrs ago a Police seargant recently retired had a heart attack at their family vacation home.. to the wifes surprise he was with his male lover.. the man died.

  • @gerrielynncolleeno8032
    @gerrielynncolleeno8032 Год назад +7

    Thank you Faye. You definitely clear up my understanding that DL is created. Who is affected and the history of how it came into existence and the history of D.L.. Thank You for the knowledge . You are the bond.

  • @lindatiff43
    @lindatiff43 Год назад +16

    Keep up the good work. This is one lady who is real and logical and knows nonsense when it comes her way. Helping these young ladies out here. Very critical detailed thought process and the little things she is saying are as important. Most of these videos don't talk about this honestly to keep from blowing their cover. Thank you! Burning trash now that is clever

  • @truthbetold4178
    @truthbetold4178 Год назад +6

    👏👏👏... LOVE the forthright manner in which you express the truth about the situation on your absolutely beautiful property. Thank you, Miss Faye~ ❣️🙏🏾

  • @daigle2007
    @daigle2007 Год назад +9

    Ladies these are FACTS 💯

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 Год назад +21

    End times. It's affecting all age groups now from what i can tell. Esp when the medical industrial complex encourages boys to change their gender in grade school.
    And how many cashiers have i come across with a full beard + a full set of acrylic nails ????? Confusing times.

    • @shea1219
      @shea1219 Год назад +4

      Something is wrong .... I'm in Toronto, I have never seen this. I do know we have our fair share of DL men here as well. It's so weird.

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 Год назад +1

      😂😂

  • @Assata_X_The_Writer
    @Assata_X_The_Writer Год назад +20

    They are found in your local Parks ... in the parking lots, and in the woods. I walk my dogs in the parks daily ... and the men meet-ups are plentiful.

    • @Alex-no5eq
      @Alex-no5eq Год назад +8

      So true. You are not naive as so other women when it comes to men desiring other men.

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 Год назад +10

      Thats true! My x told me he used to walk his dog years ago through this walking path in the grass and trees and it's a gay hook up place! I said n you kept going there to walk your dog? It all makes sense!

  • @Ada.Tallie
    @Ada.Tallie Год назад +13

    Ms. Fay you talking true facts.

  • @suefleming
    @suefleming Год назад +17

    I was sucked into many many bisexual parties with men and women.
    And yes it was my fault too.
    My experience with bisexual men is that there are So many of them out there.
    I would say 80 to 90% of them are tops.
    Maybe not as many bottoms but.... Bisexuality in men is very very very COMMON....

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 9 месяцев назад +2

      Makes you think back about all those “gay jokes” with your friends. Some of them seem TOO into their jokes and the tone of voice. It felt like they had some truth to what they were saying. Some of them will even go far as play around and jump on each other. One dude did it for too long and we had to stop him. I have nothing against lgbt people. But that spirit they have is very predatory and conniving.

  • @heal_to_evolve
    @heal_to_evolve Год назад +8

    Nothing good comes from deceiving someone. Karma is real; I knew from my choices in the past that I knew better. Why, as a man, take up time and space to hide your shame in a woman's life.

  • @whitneysmith5446
    @whitneysmith5446 7 месяцев назад +2

    ‘It’s hurting us women and we don’t have to put up with it.’ Yes, amen, sister

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 Год назад +7

    Had “a dl “fiancé ( a Marine)who beat me so I ran backhome to parents! Thank u thank u thank u big sis !

  • @roberttolliver6335
    @roberttolliver6335 Год назад +5

    Thank you for telling truths that others won't

  • @Molokaipo
    @Molokaipo Год назад +14

    Brand new subscriber here - love your content - you're like the best favorite aunty - keep on keeping it real!

  • @itsyourintelligence3445
    @itsyourintelligence3445 Год назад +4

    I like your realness and honesty. Seriously

  • @justrashanda3662
    @justrashanda3662 Год назад +17

    Love your videos new subscriber I grew up in the lgbt community my family created Chicago house dance so to speak I’m straight but everything you said Chile 😩😂😂😂 was spot ON!

  • @JT-lt5gr
    @JT-lt5gr Год назад +5

    OMG, Miss Faye! I've just noticed your fence! Jeez, mine is a 6' privacy fence. Yours must be 10'!

  • @sharon3108
    @sharon3108 Год назад +15

    Words of wisdom . I am sorry for those who came to learn thats who they married. There is no life with them, only existence... and a miserable one at that most of the time :/

  • @DoingMe686
    @DoingMe686 Год назад +11

    As real as this topic is, it makes a woman not even want to be bothered with them. If I EVER found out my husband was on the DL, that would be a total deal breaker. I have a heart disease and those meds don’t mix with my heart meds and it would be a death sentence for me.

  • @dennisjohnson3774
    @dennisjohnson3774 Год назад +5

    When a man has pants hanging below his butt that's called "SAGGING"😮

  • @SonjaJohnson-yc4kn
    @SonjaJohnson-yc4kn Год назад +2

    You have said a mouth full Miss Faye. Thank you !!!😅😅😅

  • @ninav7322
    @ninav7322 Год назад +9

    Ms Faye so Happy to have found your channel, I appreciate the sharing of your non- judgemental words of Wisdom & Truth...

  • @HandmadeItalianLeather
    @HandmadeItalianLeather Год назад +4

    “His old ass..” FAACCTTSS

  • @annarobinson2736
    @annarobinson2736 Год назад +5

    That was a goood.... goood videos Miss Faye.
    All you are speaking is true with good details- on every point! Yet I do want to distinguish that I am a born again believer, disciple of Jesus Christ which is different from being a religious or a church goer. It is a true in dwelling of God's spirit that opens your soul to understand spiritually, I do go to church, on purpose and in purpose - and for good reason, there is strength, healing and deliverance in the church, the study of the Bible-the Word of God makes you wise not perfect! "Woke"!
    Yet there are those that come out of tradition and others with their evil spirits to prey on others. I can say yes to so much you say bc I'm over 50 formerly married to a minister and work for the Court System.
    Miss Faye you are exposing and encouraging! Enjoying your content is real and helful!

  • @TheCarolsarratt
    @TheCarolsarratt 7 месяцев назад +6

    Some men will try out anything and it's sad

  • @andreavictory1334
    @andreavictory1334 Год назад +11

    You telling the gospel truth dear sister 🙏💯🎯🥰

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 Год назад +11

    My Ex tricked me. I was young and not experience but it finally came out after 22 years of marriage. Actually my Ex was perverted in other things but believe he cheated on me with men and other younger females. After awhile he started hating me and ignoring me despite 2 children. I got the vibes and he let me know by the bruises on his butt and going on 2 week vacation with a gay man at his job. I was a cover up and did not realize it till years later . When I realized it I filed for divorce. He did get married again to a female older doctor who travels all the time so he is now in the perfect marriage.
    I think the bisexuals are in all races. So women accept it for mates. Luckily I never got a disease! I
    I look back on signs were there...he had no male friends and refused to get to know other couples when married, very neat and obsessed wiht home decor, and very picky about many things. Also during divorce my Ex hubby took my 2 teen kids to movie about homosexual lifestyle. I was SO upset!! Also I think my family brothers knew but just ignored me and did not say anything at all. A bisexual male is worse than a man who runs after just ladies. I just read Will Smith the actor is gay now too. It seems to be more of a lifestyle in Hollywood

    • @azrafanoos1631
      @azrafanoos1631 Год назад +1

      How are dl men worse than the ones running after other ladies?

    • @PaulSmith-yd9ow
      @PaulSmith-yd9ow Год назад

      ​@@azrafanoos1631I know right lol😅

  • @debrawalker8112
    @debrawalker8112 Год назад +12

    I thank you so much for taking time to share these experiences with us and I believe that what you’re saying is true because people can’t talk about things like that unless they experienced it thank you cause I am now a single woman out here. Haven’t got it back into the Dayton game as of yet been married to my husband for 32 years. He passed seven years ago. I am sorry that he got sick and left me but I’m so scared to get back out here. I don’t know what to do but thank you for these sessions because they are helping me, as I stated previously you doing a great work I just don’t believe in the universe granting or helping me I believe in God and Jesus that’s all thank you though for all that you do to help women

    • @kweemykooffee8058
      @kweemykooffee8058 Год назад

    • @sandycheeks1580
      @sandycheeks1580 Год назад +5

      🎉Stay widowed & drama free 💆🏽‍♀️❤. These men are dangerous manipulators! Surround yourself with a community of ladies who enjoy the same hobbies as you. Self preservation doll. 🙅🏽‍♀️💆🏽‍♀️

  • @vickiecastille6941
    @vickiecastille6941 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for talking on the churches. You talk the truth I respect that in you.