Single Father vs Single Mother | “Who Has It Harder?” Rules of Dating w/ kids, Co-Parenting

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

Комментарии • 118

  • @gregorydavis8699
    @gregorydavis8699 3 дня назад +34

    I thought they was just two single parents who didn't know each other he shouldve got two complete strangers.

  • @MarcheKAJ
    @MarcheKAJ 3 дня назад +12

    Love this type of conversation, we need more.

  • @ershannon0
    @ershannon0 3 дня назад +13

    Once dude found out they had been married, he should have called someone else. Because if theyre BOTH on here as single parents, then NEITHER of them are single parents! This is almost 2 hours of 2 people that dont seem to know what single parents are. They are CO-PARENTING.

  • @AceGMie
    @AceGMie 3 дня назад +26

    Salute To The Single Mothers Who Make It Happen No Matter What! As A Full Time Single Father I Understand It’s Not Easy

    • @Shekinahs_Sohl_Tarot
      @Shekinahs_Sohl_Tarot 3 дня назад +3

      Salute to you as well💯🖤🤍❤

    • @christopherlewis2194
      @christopherlewis2194 2 дня назад +1

      The crazy thing is they only salute you when you salute them they never salute you first

  • @Jraw6g
    @Jraw6g День назад +2

    Child support on a supporting father is pure evil.

  • @ByronAllen-h8n
    @ByronAllen-h8n 3 дня назад +7

    Respect to the bro for being completely active in his yng seeds life and young black men and boys salute

  • @IssacAintPlayin
    @IssacAintPlayin 3 дня назад +11

    Salute to the single fathers that make it happen no matter what !!!..As a full time father I understand these mamas got it easy & will restrict parenting time & keep the kids away from the men by 92% in our community,…I’ve had to be super man to 5 kids & play mama too so salute the fathers !….Yall gotta do better moms !

    • @MarcheKAJ
      @MarcheKAJ 3 дня назад +2

      It’s toxic to think that altogether Moms in general don’t want the fathers in the children’s lives. While there are toxic parents, a lot of deadbeats (men and women) would rather run the streets (having fun), meanwhile the other actual parent is forced to do it all alone. The parent left doing it all will suffer a bit through trying to do everything, but the children are the ones left truly suffering longing for the other parent to show up for the smallest occasions. It really sucks when you have to practically beg someone to do their part.

    • @antoniomccoy9451
      @antoniomccoy9451 День назад

      The facts are in GENERAL it’s the mothers that are bitter vindictive and keeping the children away from their fathers the truth it’s the mothers that are demonizing the fathers to and around the children truth is it’s the mothers that are using the children for leverage revenge and resources. TELL THE TRUTH!!

  • @backfromthefuture3230
    @backfromthefuture3230 2 дня назад +3

    Everytime they ask him a question she speaks with him. When they ask her a question he allows her to answer. Can anybody see how this dynamic is portraying itself?

  • @addaijudahisrael5705
    @addaijudahisrael5705 День назад +1

    I would love to see them back together

  • @rickyrutland912
    @rickyrutland912 День назад

    Great interview 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @tierralaird1746
    @tierralaird1746 День назад +3

    GIRL BE FOR REAL 😏 . You don’t date because you holding on to hope for that man . He seems happy tho some people are better off friends 🤷🏽‍♀️ .

  • @Cqsreacts
    @Cqsreacts 3 дня назад +7

    She still got hurt to heal and more work to do in therapy....Have to learn to take accountability

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад +4

    2:26 10 years y'all was not supposed to break up. That's crazy

  • @gdot5438
    @gdot5438 3 дня назад +6

    I see y’all are following Charleston whites advice 👏

    • @purplebirdm1258
      @purplebirdm1258 3 дня назад +1

      Aye fr😂😂 Charleston ate the whole team up. Good to see they listen

  • @KeionneGuidry
    @KeionneGuidry 3 дня назад +3

    I liked this conversation as well.

  • @marcusbburleson
    @marcusbburleson День назад +1

    If I was buddy girlfriend I'd be feeling some type of way like i didn't know you were going on the show to get y'all back together

  • @shakalaka7335
    @shakalaka7335 3 дня назад +3

    To listen to these people it makes me cry to hear this is too common about the maturity having these babies! There are so many women who have babies only for control with absolutely no maturity level or want for the baby and that is what hurts! The children are the only ones hurting! And me!

    • @gregorydavis8699
      @gregorydavis8699 3 дня назад

      The world doesn't want people with common sense if everybody understood how the world work lots of people would be out of business.

  • @POWER2DAGODZ
    @POWER2DAGODZ 2 дня назад +1

    Plenty Much Love To Single Fathers & Mothers... Try To Keep The Team Together Tho

  • @ByronAllen-h8n
    @ByronAllen-h8n 3 дня назад +3

    This conversation has everything and its not for those who cant relate or identify you have to be thick skinned and be able to accept accountability with maturity grown folks sht

  • @AmapianoVault
    @AmapianoVault 2 дня назад +2

    Great episode

  • @t.l.7730
    @t.l.7730 3 дня назад +3

    This team needs a woman to interview as well- it needs balance. The main interviewer is definitely throwing his testosterone.

  • @Therealajaybrown
    @Therealajaybrown День назад

    I’m single father of 3, never been married. I have custody of all 3 kids. I think they should did this differently

  • @bobizzlebaby
    @bobizzlebaby 3 дня назад +2

    Bro niggas go through this shit everyday frfr sad I been going through it for 18yr same situation no bullshit but ain't nun we can do and Bm know that. Just put it in God's hands

  • @Gfamila
    @Gfamila 3 дня назад +6

    We listen, we don't judge

    • @runonsentence
      @runonsentence 3 дня назад

      So as an adult how do you make important decisions ?

    • @MarcheKAJ
      @MarcheKAJ 3 дня назад

      @@runonsentencemaybe he observes, listens, and makes a sound decision. Not needing the input of other folks to make decisions as an adult is reachable.

    • @runonsentence
      @runonsentence 2 дня назад

      @MarcheKAJ exactly...a "decision" is a judgement.

    • @MarcheKAJ
      @MarcheKAJ 2 дня назад

      @@runonsentence😂😂😂 okay! You win

    • @runonsentence
      @runonsentence 2 дня назад

      @@MarcheKAJ DON'T JUDGE ME !

  • @shakalaka7335
    @shakalaka7335 3 дня назад +2

    It’s not easy for either. But it is an unequal opportunity issue. Women have always had to work harder and less pay

    • @keeray5507
      @keeray5507 2 дня назад

      women are given help that the government won’t give the man its struggles on both sides

  • @londobellace
    @londobellace 2 дня назад

    This was dope. Positive role models for young black people and the fruits of growth and therapy.

  • @Youngboi8169
    @Youngboi8169 2 дня назад +3

    It’s a lot that he’s not saying about her…

  • @craigtyree6547
    @craigtyree6547 3 дня назад +8

    Naw this ain’t it…

  • @MamiAnnas-b5p
    @MamiAnnas-b5p 11 часов назад

    Their problem is she wants to be the Dominant man in the relationship and he is not a Beta

  • @dee_jay78
    @dee_jay78 День назад +1

    1:31:51 is a whole bar!!!!!

  • @dukeyoungsworkout513
    @dukeyoungsworkout513 10 часов назад

    Sucks when you tell the truth how women can be emotionally unstable and you have to come with something positive so they don't start acting out. Like dam yall can't never take an L.

  • @stevengray9193
    @stevengray9193 2 дня назад +1

    Awesome show about facts....because it's wasn't all about one side and it proves that parenting works both ways and wasn't all about money and it proves that education of parenting is more important 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Thoughtful8
    @Thoughtful8 3 дня назад +2

    Most single fathers have it harder than single moms du to single fathers having to go work and 9 times out of 10 single fathers are not getting child support.
    Single mother s on the other hand most of them will use their body's to get financial assistance pluss their getting child support and they will go to the government and tell the government that their kid has a disability or is phycologically challenged. The government gives single mother more Leeway especially in the court system...go ask the brothers in NY

    • @MarcheKAJ
      @MarcheKAJ 2 дня назад

      Deadbeats don’t pay child support. They make time for new relationships. Single mothers don’t have it easy

  • @Biggkash
    @Biggkash 3 дня назад +7

    This channel getting weird

  • @shiftautomotive854
    @shiftautomotive854 3 дня назад +2

    they could’ve made it work look like she still wants him we gotta do better and not have too many bms 🙄

    • @oleeshanorris5343
      @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад

      We all got to start doing what's best for the kids first damn our adult feelings

  • @kathleenspringstead4122
    @kathleenspringstead4122 3 дня назад +5

    IDK about no one else but I don't think that every woman is born gay😅😊😂

    • @gdot5438
      @gdot5438 3 дня назад

      Not every woman but a large amount are . I’ve messed with a lot of married straight women in my younger days. women are naturally more sexually fluid than men by nature that is literally a fact

  • @Zaybreeze
    @Zaybreeze День назад

    Single mom clearly lol. I’m a guy but come on. Most women literally don’t care at all if a man has MULTIPLE kids.

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад +3

    I hates to bust the bubble but i dont know who tf they are. So i dont they that famous. 21:16

  • @twhite522
    @twhite522 День назад

    Be careful who you have kids with everything ain't about money,and or looks.

  • @courtneymcclain8123
    @courtneymcclain8123 2 дня назад

    I see this channel going under real soon

  • @christopherlewis2194
    @christopherlewis2194 2 дня назад

    These 304z be on deadline love

  • @davidmichaels2394
    @davidmichaels2394 День назад

    They divorced cuz she won’t stfu just talking all outta term smh

  • @antoniomccoy9451
    @antoniomccoy9451 День назад

    Somebody had a 304 phase

  • @kendallarmand7192
    @kendallarmand7192 День назад

    man she dont know how to chill out she over talking dude etc either he made her that way or he said just enough to get the job done sheessh. It be crazy how folks can jump in and out of relationships say their family orieinted but lack conflict resolution skills which is heavily needed in family. ITS A MJOR RED FLAG WHEN A MAN/WOMEN SAY MY KIDS COME FIRST....WHAT!!! YOUR SPOUSE COMES FIRST IN A TRUE FAMILY DYNAMICS BECAUSE IF YOU AND THAT WOMEN NOT TAPPED IN THEN THEM KIDS MENTAL NOT PRIORITIZED HENCE YOUR ACTIONS PUT THEM LAST REGARDLESS WHAT YOU SAY. HOW THE BOYFRIEND GOT MORE PULL TO INCONVIENCE YOU AND THE KIDS SCHOOL SITUATION SMH DUMBSTER FIRE. its crazy she pumpin her chest about that boy success but that is fault all men should show up with the ball in motion but man nvm. at the end of the day they need to go head go to marriage counseling and bring back that blended family and let the pass be the past they got enough kids at this point they ready made for each other they doing their bf/gf a disservice. AY PEEP GAME WHEN HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT WANTING TO BE MARRIED HER ENERGY CHANGED LIKE SHE STILL GOT FEELINGS FOR HIM BUT SHE DONT WANNA GET HURT. MAN SHE PLAYING THAT VULNERABLE CARD JUST SAY YOU WANTED TO LICK CARPET SEE IF IT WAS WORTH IT LOL. NOT THE I NEED TO FIND OUT MY HAPPY LINE.....MAN DID YOU SEEK COUNSELING OR NOT TAYLOR

  • @koolTV365
    @koolTV365 2 дня назад +1

    Bro she still waiting for u to come back

    • @Kay234-pz7zd
      @Kay234-pz7zd 2 дня назад +1

      She got a lot of work to do and understanding of self and forgiveness before it seems like he will even be comfortable to spin that block. She loves him but she it will be running into the same problems as before if she doesn’t learn to listen and heal correctly

    • @oleeshanorris5343
      @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад

      They need to get back together before they mess them boys minds up.

    • @christopherlewis2194
      @christopherlewis2194 2 дня назад

      ​@@oleeshanorris5343she's abusive he needs to run

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад

    Please please put y'all family back together before you mess them sons up for life.

  • @LEENANUNAKI
    @LEENANUNAKI День назад

    They are not single parents the are co parenting

  • @Thoughtful8
    @Thoughtful8 3 дня назад

    I'm not saying all single mother s do this but the majority of them do

  • @EricaDeculit
    @EricaDeculit Час назад

    Ok, give her 5 minutes

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад +1

    0:28 wasn't mature rnough

  • @Binkothinko
    @Binkothinko 2 дня назад

    I agree 100 percent

  • @TS-jo6tj
    @TS-jo6tj 3 дня назад +5

    She immature

  • @suga722
    @suga722 3 дня назад +2

    This interviewer is ….

  • @homeofkiffen
    @homeofkiffen День назад

    dumb ahh video man!!! yall went from mark cuban to this ????? SMH
    wut kinda man would even compete wit a woman on who has it harder?? we as men gotta do better thats some real suck shid

  • @michaeljoseph662
    @michaeljoseph662 2 дня назад

    whats her name?

  • @Blink-n6h
    @Blink-n6h 2 дня назад

    This is all cap! These are not single parents. They are co-parenting. Get the fluk outta here with this 🙄. He in a whole relationship. And these two were married and are now divorced. Get some true single parents on here.... Thunbs all the way down 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾 for this nonsense

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад

    59:33 this interviewer is bais.

    • @christopherlewis2194
      @christopherlewis2194 2 дня назад

      Bias is how it's spelled and I guess because he ain't kissing females behind then he's wrong

  • @kingmotley504
    @kingmotley504 День назад

    🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ Shìt sad

  • @lecarisd2783
    @lecarisd2783 2 дня назад

    Who are these people?

  • @laquitatucker9957
    @laquitatucker9957 2 дня назад

    😢

  • @TheComicCrew
    @TheComicCrew 3 дня назад +1

    wtf kinda show is this?!?! Man Charleston white was right about yall channel. This shit sad

  • @SanTina-uu2bz
    @SanTina-uu2bz 3 дня назад

    🫶

  • @OfficialD-CHISE
    @OfficialD-CHISE 3 дня назад

    I thought this podcast was about real life celebrity celebration for legendary actors n pioneers of the entertainment industry #LOW VIBRATIONAL ENERGY UNSUBSCRIBED!

  • @colbyjackimprints1699
    @colbyjackimprints1699 3 дня назад +4

    The question should be… what kid turns out a better member in society… is it the single mom, or the single dad ?

    • @Esoteric42
      @Esoteric42 3 дня назад +2

      Nature/ nurture

    • @tiffanyrena
      @tiffanyrena 3 дня назад +2

      Studies done. Shows single father same as two parent household

    • @gdot5438
      @gdot5438 3 дня назад +1

      @@tiffanyrenayou need to look up real statistics. It shows the same results what and what that is the real statistics a child coming from a single parent home is more likely to make horrible decisions and up in prison that goes for single mother or father 😂. Higher chance of the kid to grow up and be a nice citizen coming from a two parent home .

    • @tiffanyrena
      @tiffanyrena 3 дня назад

      @ the statistics show that 70% of inmates came from single parent households most of which were single mothers. What are you talking about?

    • @Esoteric42
      @Esoteric42 3 дня назад +1

      @ where were these statistics taken as they don’t account for every American person or the entire population of America- so I was just curious

  • @chrissimmons1422
    @chrissimmons1422 День назад

    This was a goodie one. We need another one with strangers 🫡🫡🫡

  • @tierralaird1746
    @tierralaird1746 День назад +1

    GIRL BE FOR REAL 😏 . You don’t date because you holding on to hope for that man . He seems happy tho some people are better off friends 🤷🏽‍♀️ .

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 2 дня назад

    Please please put y'all family back together before you mess them sons up for life.

  • @tierralaird1746
    @tierralaird1746 День назад +1

    GIRL BE FOR REAL 😏 . You don’t date because you holding on to hope for that man . He seems happy tho some people are better off friends 🤷🏽‍♀️ .