Difference between Korean and Foreigner Girlfriend (true or false?)
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TRUST.....that's the key word
Just curious to find out how long this lasts if they drink or get high when going out. Lolol. Sometimes people cheat, only takes a few minutes and can easily hide it. Recreational sex happens. No
need to bother a person while they're out with opp. sex. A matter of time. Friends also become lovers every day. This from an older woman who has seen it all. You can't defy human nature,no matter how you define it or what rules you make. imo
Yup Trust and Faith and confidence that whatever will be will be
Right?! Lol. When the one said 'no, no, what if some other guy tries to mess with her. You have to protect your girl". My brain filled in the word 'trust' for 'protect'😆
@@foggylegg6362 Drunk actions are sober thoughts. If my partner cheats on me, that's on them for not wanting to keep me bad enough.
Personally, I don't see one night stands and whatever as bad as emotional cheating. As long as they aren't lying to my face. Go out, have fun, if you find someone better than me, then it's her or me. Their loss.
@@foggylegg6362 That's bullshit. Not everyone is a cheater. A cheater will always cheat regardless of whether or not their partner puts them on a leash. If they're really the one for you, then they shouldn't break your trust.
Smart guy thinking he should consider her going out the same way he does. Just for fun, not for looking for someone better.
It seems like he doesn’t want too though, probably cultural differences
@@mahi93162 I think he is more open minded than you’re giving him credit for even though he’s conflicted because of the cultural difference.
@@Windprinceinfiresmani think the crimes against women is not taken that seriously by Korean police so obviously women had to be careful unlike in America.
It’s pretty common that girls r sexually harassed daily in work environment.
I really like this open mindset but I still fear of going to clubs.
@@bekcha4170 I know that but in Korea,misogyny is still somewhat present & women can’t wear what they like.
Wthhh are you sayinggg?!! You clearly are a man & that thinks with stereotypes. It’s ridiculous ppl like you🙄
If she trusts you enough to not question your judgement, you should trust her enough to not question hers. It's nice to at least see that he's so open to listening to her new perspectives and to hear him say he also tries to give her the freedom she gives him even though it's hard for him.
He's worrying about the men who might linger around her, and not the other way around. She might not entertain other men but men could force themselves into her and I think that's what he worries about
I don't think it's about trust, you don't text and call people just because you're doubting them, they can easily lie in texts and even in vidoe calls, so it's not like it proves anything, it just differemces in show different cultures express that they care about a person.
@@xiaoxiao3260 texting all night long while I'm out with my friends is not cute, and it definitely shows insecurity.
@@iam-jk2fi if she's not alone and is with other friends there's no reason for you to worry.
@@shhhimnothere.2878 you can't be so sure about that. There are women who still get in trouble even though they're with their friends
He totally highlights the trust shown
How appreciative the small kind gestures made are
Man this is so cool hearing this man's perspective! He was so honest and open! Loved to see a man open to new ideas and relationships!
Especially a Korean man...
Yeeeeesss🙌🏽🙌🏽 his response is so pure. 🥺❤️
well I'm pretty sure it's scripted, but ok lol
This is exactly how we view dating in the US. The way South Koreans describe the dating scene has always to me sounded scary and insecure.
To be fair, if my girl is going out with her friends to party, I am ok with that but I want to know where she's going and when she is supposed to be back home, and if they're drinking who's the driver.
So in case anything happens I could be there, and to check she got home safe.
It isn't a matter of trust but of safety, I see it as my responsibility to look after her and make sure she's safe.
That is very normal for most Asian girls, not just the South Koreans.
There is no "right way" or "wrong way"...
What works for you might not work for other couples and vice versa..
So you do whatever works for you
@roseche YES!
@@noam8314and that’s fine. Communication is important for safety. But that doesn’t mean we need to be texting and calling the whole time. Giving space and time to unwind shows that you can trust your other half. And a text or two to make sure everything is fine is a perfectly good thing.
You need to trust her to take care of herself. She will ask for her when needed. Hovering over her or expecting to get a report in very tiresome and can get old.
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I came to the comments looking for this 🙄 like the way the other guys were amening that LAME excuse for not extending the same trust you get was ridiculous
right? these guys need to remember that their girlfriend took care of themselves just fine when she was single, before she met you 😂 we're grown women
@@SmileSoSmall😊
@@honor9458 😂😂😂
Exactly that's true, they just use protection as an excuse to control and just to justify their lame and trustlessness
"Shows me a whole new world 😉😉😉 NO, not like that..." Yessir, exactly like that... but also food and english 😂
Was searching for this comment lol😂 can't be the only one who thought that😅
He definitely meant it in both ways 😂😂 he said it with a smirk at first!
Oh, she has definitely opened him up to new horizons. 😂😂
Exactly she learned him something, another populair video on tiktok, a Belgium lady explaines everything, she is quite experienced .With Korean guys , Japanese, and even Chinese .
I like how he snaps his fingers! 😂
As a female from the US I get what you are all saying but also make sure you express your worry for her if there are guys around her you are uncomfortable with. But trust is a big deal to most women I feel and that proves it when you come home after a late night with no problems arise.
She trust him. And she knows he'll tell her anyway what he/they did. And it's gonna be good cause it'll be another way to deepen your relationship and communicate more. Also giving her that same opportunity to have fun is good. She'll appreciate him more for it cause she knows he trusts her too.
You can see how happy he is and it’s adorable.
When he said how when he does the slightest nice thing and she appreciates it and it in turn makes him so happy, that was such a nice and cute thing to say. Wishing them the best😭❤️
We probably shouldn’t generalize like this bc everyone is an individual BUT it’s true that there are some cultural differences that are undeniable and typically they’re going to influence the relationship.
Exactly. Bro's talking like he didn't bring all his cultural differences to the relationship.
It's whether we can accept and work with and around them. There are certain cultures I would really clash with due to my own values and morals but others it's more differences which are fine as long as it's not forced on me both can be respected and live together
He just lucky he met the good ones. And the good ones could be anyone, not based from what country the person are. Foreigner or your local citizen.
What he is discussing is the cultural differences. In Korea that is the dating scene...texting and calling both from both sex. I have read a lot of breakups because the girls did not texted or called enough so her boyfriend thought she did not loved him enough.... He cannot get used to it.
@@loufe2102 all you said or what he said in the video is happening all around the world. There's a lot of people with the korean gf character out there in the other countries. Likewise, there's also a lot of people with character like his foreign gf in his country. He just got no luck finding them before he met the foreign gf.
What i wrote in the original comment is not out of content right. It's just another POV.
@@puspitaDThere is a lot of people like that, but in Korea it’s much more prevalent. It’s a part of their culture, if you’re in relationship you shouldn’t interact with opposite sex. That’s the norm, in the West that’s considered toxic and is not a norm by any means. So yes, this behavior happens in other places but nowhere near the extent of SK. At least not in Europe (also eastern) and western countries. So there’s a cultural difference for sure
@@bekcha4170 understood. You xplain it elaborately and nicely. The other person sounds like she/he can't understand/accept my blunt POV (like that person think i don't understand the context) in my original comment so i need to talk more.
살짝 틀린 부분은 "관심없어"가 아니라, 그 만큼 믿어주시는것일걸요
This is how it should be !
I don't think most if the differences are Korean vs Foreign, but rather trust and personality. There are definitely people in all places who will do either of those things he talked about.
Agreed
You’re partially right, but it’s true that Korean dating is really intense about keeping tabs on your S.O. Like texting frequently or like he said, being wary of the other going out or being close with people of the opposite gender. It is a legitimate cultural difference
If she has a problem, she’ll text.
If you have to text your man all night, you don’t trust them. It’s not cute. I’d hate it if I hate to do that. So stressful to have to worry.
If they cheat, they cheat… move on.
yeah, constantly texting will not stop something from happening. if you don't trust someone, why are you with them. why are you wasting your time with someone you can't even have basic trust in.
yeah, constantly texting isn't going to keep someone from cheating, if they cheated they were going to do that anyway, why would you want to be with someone you felt you constantly needed to keep tabs on?
Who would have thought of trust in a relationship as a new thing? 🤔
I just hope they won't take that trust and throw it to the riff by cheating on her. She seems so kind and well tempered, lets keep her happy!
Trust is definitely key, but I also think to not put yourself in a position to be mistaken as single when you are not.
Why tho? If others think you’re single - so what. Still doesn’t mean they’ll make a move and if they do u can just tell then you have a boyfriend. It’s that simple isn’t it?
@@leac.s.2334that’s what I’m saying. The most atrocious behavior also comes from people who don’t back down after finding out you’re taken. Plus, how do you even know if someone is single or not before talking to them. People assume I’m single all the time because I’m not conventionally attractive when my boyfriend and I are going on 4 years and currently live together.
To text non stop is a bit of red flag, it's like you need to know every move she does every person she talks to, she is orderd to take pictures of who she's with and so on....that shows that there is no trust in her from the man. Same at work, school or at home...glued to the phone all the time, what kind of life is that
You cant control people. All you can do is trust, if your partner messes up its their own problem and non of yours. So let them have their individual life outside of relationship, but also verbalize if some of their friends give off bad vibes or if it makes you jealous, healthy communication will help if ever some problem arises.
I love this ♥️
I wouldn't want to be with someone who i have to babysit to make sure they stay with me, that sounds both exhausting and like a bad relationship. I need to trust someone to be able to go out and not just jump onto someone else. If they can't not do that, they aren't for me.
Being protective to me is something else entirely. Checking in once or twice to make sure they're safe feels protective to me.
He was so excited and happy to talk about it 🥹🥹
Foreigners tend to be more generous, understanding, kind, unselfish, and open-minded, as they are increasingly inclined to openly share in public.👏👏👏
Foreigners like in the whole world apart from one country?
This type of backhanded (self) compliment seems ignorant, narrow minded, shallow, disrespectful and rude af. But I guess that's just how All Foreigners are ??? 🤷🏻♀️
Mmmm sounds like the women are haha 😅 he does a slightly kind thing and his GF is so appreciative, that means her prior partner were not so kind.
@@JC-bs5pd Or maybe they were and she thanked them just the same. I'm a 'please' and 'thank you' type of woman, from the smallest task to the greatest. That's how I was raised.
I refute to be in a relationship plague with anxiety is not worth it. If you cannot trust what is the purpose of being together be alone that way you don’t make other ppl miserable with your trust issues. Stop suffocating your partner. I’ll be piss if im constantly having check their text every minute gosh why are ppl so insecure
This is great to watch.
This is so interesting!! Love that you’ve captured this convo.
When I learned about dating culture in Korea I was so confused and scared lol they seem to be very very controlling, toxic and manipulative but the worst part is that it's percived as normal
Foreigners cheat too. But GENERALLY we will be up front about ending a relationship if we need to. And having trust between partners in this type of situation is usually valued and hopefully reciprocated.
I love this for him ❤❤❤❤
In general, this is true. Greater trust, less clinginess.
The Glee music in the background makes this so much better 😂
trust, respect, and appreciation that goes both ways. that's the key.
A true love must have this four things if it is true love, is trust,respect,care, appreciate
It depends from which country they’re from😅 but yes I can speak for a big part of Europe that trust is a very big factor in a healthy relationship and is expected on both sides
listen...if u call me more than once while i'm out with my girlies...i"m breaking it off. lmaoo. I don't even talk to guys, wtf r u worried about. "What if another guy is after her, we gotta protect our girl" Sir, you're on the phone. As much as u call, u can't physically pass through the line and save me from anything
also, I understand the sentiment if they're genuinely worried because they realize guys are pushy and even dangerous when you reject them but... I can't really be sure they're that aware of women's struggles. They could also just feel that way because of pride. Like they technically own her and it's a part of their pride to "scare" off guys who are encroaching onto what they consider "theirs".
Also, don't constantly text or call your partner while they're at work unless you want to get them fired. You'll survive until mealtime or end of work day.
I have never been in a Relationship but if you get to know me I’m introverted but if I get comfortable I will talk non stop 😅 and I always smile and are like a sunshine I am also really LOYAL.
Some people are more jealous or don't trust their partners
That's a problem with them, not with their partner.
Mutual trust is a must. That's what creates security in a relationship. I feel like the only time the scale begins to tip into that direction of questioning and behavior is when one of the partners is either actively displaying single behaviors OR has been in a prior situation where they experienced that and have trust issues
It a case by case and culture by culture.
Trust. Me and my man had a long distance relationship for two years because of my work. I lived in Norway and he in Finland, 1000 km between us. We have been together over 25 yrs and have three kids now ❤
Trust is a two way street. People will always call on the past when they don't understand the present so are ill prepared for the future. I met my husband at 15 he was 16. I trust him with everything and vice versa and we have now been married since we were 21 and I am now 57. He is my best friend. Lies are one think but cheating is a completely different action. Not only have you insulted her but yourself and no one says that. For a woman to be cheated on it is the single most painful thing to have to go through because she didn't know why and what went wrong. Men suffer from it to but not like a woman. It physically hurts that the man you love could do that. Break up it hurts but not as much as cheating.
It's all about being open minded and making the other feel what u feel.
Acceptance ❤
I think ever relationship is different in its ways of trust that works for them and it's nice that this works for them
He's so smitten with her it's adorable!!
So true. Trust is a whole different level.
Honestly, S. Korea && people were so nice when I was there. Wish I could go back.🇺🇸😭 miss you🇰🇷💜
Sweet, honest conversation. No badmouthing
Yes trust and not making each other feel insecure is required for a healthy relationship
I love how happy he seems 😂😂😂
Trust and Respect. He looks so happy about his foreign girlfriend. That is good to hear. I find Korean guys very attractive lately. I have never dated one. They seem such a sweet heart and fun to be around.
Without trust,relationships becoming toxic!Trust and appreciation goes hand to hand and makes relationships lasting longer
He’s so cute!!! I love that he’s getting a good experience.
Its called trust and communication. I've dated Korean guys since the 1980s some that were born here in the States and some from Korea, the ones born in Korea are so amszed at how things are done here, but then they try to get nickle-slick and try to take advantage of everything 😅.
Exactly. Jealousy from one person in the relationship causes the other person to start behaving the same when the tables are turned.
In a relationship trust ,respect ,communication,honesty all work together from one know him and herself one can have their space at time as we could say in my country there's a time and place for everything just say like how this guy be honest in his feelings by sharing ❤
You guys are so precious! 🫶🏻
SHOUTOUT TO ALL WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD!!! ❤
Soooo nice hearing appreciation for what different women from different cultures/countries bring to the table 💯🥰💯
And the fact that he's very forthcoming, positive and upfront to the other men is refreshing (and considering cancel-culture, it's courageous too😁👍)
I love this so much! When people speak in their native language you hear and see so much of their personality and you see so many things are universal 😂
Oookkk don't text & call like it's important 😅😅😅
If I were in this situation (which I am), I'm the type of person who will check on you and make sure you are ok. If you are at work or hanging with friends and I don't receive a call or a text from you, I will call or text you. That's not stalker behavior. It's because I'm concerned.
If a person has trust issues or has been in that situation where the other person has cheated and said they were going one place but end up at the other 304s house, then yea, best believe I'm calling you to see where you at. 🤔
i think it’s weird to be obsessive like that. if you’re that worried about your partner cheating that you have to call and message them every other hour when they’re not by your side then there’s obviously a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
Yep! You'd be surprised how chill we can be...honestly the whole him doing sweet stuff and her loving it is huge. A loymt of us are used to men not being kind in our lives
That's why there is a saying in my country that encourages travelling and seeing the world so our minds broaden instead of staying narrow within the confines of our own people and culture. I'm glad we are more open to other races and have more tolerance to accept the good changes that comes with them. Our people love food so everyone can become instant friends just by talking about food and sharing recipes.❤
Wholsome. His conviction that he's found a great girl is palpable! You can hear appreciation in his voice... Beautiful ❤
It's just trust. Any woman can do the texting and calling when she's been hurt before. But when you show her she can trust you... You get a wonderful woman 💜
It's all about trust.
Yeah most got no problem DATING foreigners BUT few will MARRY a foreigner (shrug)
I feel like if you keep on texting and constantly everything it's like pretty much saying you expect them to cheat on you and always thinking with somebody hit on them well at the end of the day you think that one guy who hits on your girlfriend they're going to leave you forever you should trust that they're not going to just run off with some guy over you your relationship is more valuable then that. I don't want to be in a relationship that is only surface based . I feel like the energy I give to that relationship should be the energy I receive so if you feel like you're not getting the same energy and commitment then why be with that person.
The last part got me, like we are gratefull for a lot of things even the smallest as it should be...😢
A new perspective: she had your phone setting on Share My Map. She knows where you are at all times. That’s how smart we foreign girls are.❤😮
Thanks!
That last part... 🔥🔥🔥
The excitement on his face is priceless 😊
아, 난 이걸 정말 듣고 싶어요! 이건 정말 멋져요. 😊
i like how appreciative he is for his gf who gives him space and he thinks of giving her same space.. trust is most important thing guys.
My husband and I have been together for... 25 years since the day we started dating. All you need is “trust” and never betray it because you won’t be able to fix it.
Not all Non-Korean girls are so confident.
yeah I would say it's most that aren't this way tbh. maybe depending on age, younger people are more prone because of lack of experience. this difference is really just dependent on trust. if the person you're with trusts you, they will be relaxed and they won't worry constantly about you being unfaithful.
That type of relationship is goals! NEEEEED. ❤
Protecting is different than messing up their mood. Be protective but not obsessive
But also, what's the point in trying to protect someone in that way when they're out. That won't do anything, instead, make sure she will be equipped to deal with a situation if something happens, and just remind her every time before she goes out that you see it as your pride to be the one she calls when something goes wrong. That way, she won't feel like she's burdening you if she's in an uncomfortable situation. If you want to be useful in that way, that's all you can do without being overbearing. If you're more worried about people trying to flirt than her genuine safety, then you're just going to have to improve your own trust, because her's is clearly on a good level.
Trust. Thats really something. If u cant trust enough and cant keep that trust without breaking it. Then u should never be in a realtionship.
The vibe I get from this is Just himself talking with his self-conscious, 😂
*Starts singing A Whole New World Disney Song* 🌏✨🫶🏻
His mannerisms and the way he speaks are so attractive
I don’t know if it’s trust or if a huge chunk of us born overseas have reached a point where it’s like 🤷🏾♀️ if they’re going to Cheat their going to cheat it doesn’t matter if I text,call or show up. Let them mess up by themselves & we’ll see if I’m single now. No point in stressing ourselves out.
It’s suffocating to be in that type of relationship. Been there! I hate texting so I just call my husband about our plans for later. He does the same too. We checked on each other from time to time thats all. Then talk about our day when we see each other.
Relax. Its not a cultural difference but rather a temperament difference. You will find all in each culture.
That’s only because foreign women are less aware of the dating culture in Korea. Korean women just know better. Korean dating culture is not very monogamous. Cheating among K men is very widely accepted. So I don’t blame his ex girlfriend for being insecure. It’s just how it is.
Question: what song is this in the background, it sounds soothing!
If another guy starts messing with her, you'd better pray she trusts you enough to call you
Because trust and respect often inspire your partner to show them in turn
Also it says a lot that (idk... Is she american, there are a lot of other countries where this is true as well but I'm going to speak on behalf of Americans even though his girlfriend might not be American) men where I live are by and large such do nothing adult children who need to be cared for by their girlfriends and wives that this man is shocked that doing even the smallest kind or thoughtful thing inspires such great admiration and joy from his partner. We just don't expect it at this point we expect it to be really low effort like flowers and chocolate, but with no thought put into what kind of chocolate and what kind of flowers either. And like that's going all out for them. And for people who are going to say "Not all men" at me, OBVIOUSLY. BUT IT'S ENOUGH MEN.
I also like the idea that this Korean man gets a foreign girlfriend and becomes woke. Korean culture has a lot of very stifling ideas especially when it comes to gender equality, let alone anything to do with gender or sexual identity. I've literally seen people make a stink about Stars reading a feminist book or wearing a shirt with a feminist slogan, as if that is a bad word. So I just love the idea of like this foreign girlfriend coming in I just absolutely expanding this man's mind beyond the barriers of thought that he's even been allowed to explore😂
My Korean boyfriend is exactly like this, he does one kind thing and I go crazy and also the cultural differences between Korea and Dominican Republic are extremely different, which says a lot about
Why I think he is happy for bare minimum and also she needs to raise the bare kind gestures are mandatory. But one rule for me is if u dating there is no more clubbing with out each other, everyone knows what happen then. The rest about hanging out with people is fine
the non stop calling and texting while your partner is out is psychotic behavior regardless of the nationality 💀
I hope misogyny lessens in Korea or Japan. 😬