He Won't Call Me
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- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- He Won't Call Me
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I pulled back, blocked, (deleted, changed my number, and moved house. THAT is how much I DO NOT play mind games.
I didn’t pull back to make him pursue or chase me 😐 I pulled back because I was DONE. How about that.
I just want to add: I’m not cold. I told him about his actions letting me know how he feels about me. He knew I was clocking his inconsistencies BUT nothing ever changed.
It hurt to leave, but it crushed me to stay.
*I left as a LAST resort to protect my heart.*
That’s good since he didn’t give a damn.
He did because he found me and tried to come back. Maybe yours didn’t. 😂 don’t hate
That Part!
@@Gemmarose9012😂😂😂
That's it❤
Agree with all of it! When a man wants you even the shy man is going to pursue you. It’s facts!
Facts
Yeah my mommy use to say that if a man really wants you he will come and get you cause real masculine men understand Bees loves flowers
True, unfortunately my ex was the type to get turned off if I said something when she pulled back. It turned her on that I wasn’t attached. Super toxic… I don’t suggest pulling back. Its pretty manipulative
Your mommy is right
True
Are you a flower though?
@@doncorleon9we are lilies in the field!!!
I pulled back, and dodged the bullet. Life is too short to be sitting waiting on hope. Life your best life people, tomorrow isn't promised.
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Same here.... after the breakup I found out so many things and I literally dodged a huge bullet
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ANYONE WILL TREAT YOU LIKE THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU, IT'S UP TO
YOU TO PAY ATTENTION.😊😊😊
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Yes interrupt the pattern!! Definitely agree when he's expecting me to show up. Checkmate
My grandmother told me the cat dont chase the dog, if a man wants you he'll chase you!
If you chase a cat it runs away. The kitty cat always comes back to the barn.
We dnt chase we attract
Bingo
You're on point. We're not even talking. So we're done.
I asked a man to call me..he called once. We fell apart and I let it happen bc you can't fix something by yourself.
Wisdom. Thx
What is his side of the story… what is your role in a relationship
@@tomare6479 I find that a lot of men do that these days if they can’t move fast with you physically which turns out to be a blessing for them to move on quickly if that’s all he wanted and the woman wants a real relationship
What???
How long were you 2gether?
If he won’t call me, I won’t call him. Simple. I don’t understand or do the games. I wouldn’t subject a man to this type of behavior. I wouldn’t accept it either. I communicate. If that’s not reciprocated, we’re not compatible. I move on.
This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships. If you want to know if you’re in a one sided relationship with ANYONE, pull back and see what happens. If it’s business as usual they don’t give a damn about you. It applies to “family” as well.
Exactly 🎯💯💯👍
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Hmmm, that 's truè~♡
Applies to family and friends
We are not having sex all night and we won't be having sex all night unless we get married.😅🎉❤
Exactly!!!!!
😂 Tell 'em Sister.
Period
Amen!!! That right there!!!!!
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Actions Speaks Louder Then Words ❤
Always
I knew my husband-to-be wanted me because he showed up on my doorstep the day after we met and fell for each other at a party the night before. I buzzed him in and he never left. That’s what happens when a man wants you…and you want him.
Or thats what happens when a man needs a new place to stay 😂😂😂
@@ebonyeverything2751
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@@ebonyeverything2751 Funny. Maybe that’s your experience or only know those kinds of dead-beat men. I never did. In my case my husband had his own home, and we were in love for twenty-five years. I hope you find a great love. It helps reduce the cynicism.
@@ebonyeverything2751RIGHT! 💯
Listen to Coach ladies because he is on point with this.
Amen and Amen same here 🙌 🙏 👏 😌 ❤ 😢😢😢
Definitely, coach is on point! I agree 💯
Exactly
Just Move On and find a good guy who loves you the way you are ❤
And who loves you unconditionally no matter what stage in your life you are in, not just the good times
That is good information. I blocked him and never looked back because i haven't heard from him on a regular basis in about two and a half months then he'll send me a text very nice and sweet text twice a month just to keep me around but that didn't work, i walked out blocked him and never looked back.
Good you got way too much going for your life then to put up with that.
@@Sheherhis right 👍🏾🙌🏾❤️
@@Sheherhis then I found out from his mom he's married smh
@@nicolemartin-pz1wl Wow, you dodged a bullet. And a waste of your precious time, a married man is a guaranteed lost.Get on with your goals, let the right one for you find you doing something that makes your heart happy.💯
24 hours…. A man has 24 hours… ain’t nobody away from their phone over a couple hours. Can’t reach out….????? I can’t talk to him…. Leave me alone!
Educate the people 💯💯💯
I love it when men tell women things that help women, and when women tell men things that help men. There are flaws on both sides, but, this kind of communication is repairing.🙂👍
That’s it that all!
Nothing worth repairing when broken. Smh
True. When he fails I will keep moving. No one has time for games!
If you are asking “Does he still love me?” After not calling for six months, you have your answer. “Did you try calling him? Maybe he’s ill, or maybe he died.” “Oh, no, I can’t do that.” You have your answer. When a man wants you he will encourage you to call him any time you want or need him.
Real Talk
You right just pull back if it meant to be it will come back correctly better than before don’t go back and forth if there’s no changing wait on the lord he’ll send you some one who loves you for you and who appreciate you Amen 🙏🏼❤
I don't understand why women put up these child-like behaviors and/or insecure men in a relationship. Game playing is what immature people do, trying to look smart like they are in charge or in control, many manipulate their person in thinking it's their way or the highway. Changing and interrupting these patterns are necessary for successful relationships. In today's society, we need to communicate our needs and wants. Stop with all these excuses 😤
Im not ok with games. It's ridiculous. If I like you I say it. If I want to see you I say it. Because a person will show you who they are. No tests needed..it is childish and wastes time. My opinion.
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Exactly 🎯💯💯 I agree with you 💯👍
You pulling back for a reaction is not immature and childish?
We teach people how to treat us give a person an inch they will take a mile. Notice the red flags and act accordingly
👏🏽👏🏽Absolutely! Step back, watch and take notes. Actions speak louder than words
I was texting every day. Good morning good night when are we hanging out. One day I stopped texting heard nothing. It's been weeks now. I stopped talking to him. I just feel so shame and hurt that's how I was in his mind. NOthing
Never text a dude “good morning or good night,” you don’t know that’s his role? You’re only supposed to reciprocate.
Better you realise on time and him go
Yessss so true,I been waiting on him to call or reach out so he gave me his answer
You're right. He's the leader so I follow the lead. You pull back so do I. You keep it coming and I do too
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stay in your femininity xoxo so true
Yep yes. Keep it moving. Upsetting, but no your boundaries and your worth. Someone will be there for you and recognize who you are. On to the next one.😅😅😂😂
Chicago love.
He's telling the truth.
It’s true I pull back just to see if this guy still interested n me and it worked ! He ask was I mad at him,I told him no for what , he said that he called me but I didn’t pick up we both work for the same company. But it made me happy that I know he’s still interested. So let’s see
Girl, Dnt fall for that mess , He's playing a undercover narcissistic game with you. You done showed him your weakness, fell right into his trap, now he got you..😲😅
He don’t have me ! God has me and we’re just good friends, that never been any but respect for each other . Trust I know narcissistic from just 5 minutes and … ..nvm
@@sheilalamar2819Exactly!! He likes you and you have his attention. And you're right God got you.
@@innocentlife2346u sound bitter. She didn't give enough info for u to assume all of that.
@@sheilalamar2819why are you pulling back from someone is just a friend it seems like you’re the problem
I FEEL 💯💯💯💯 THAT ALOT OF MEN ARE AWARD WINNING ACTORS BIG TIME SO MANY WOMEN WHO T MEN ON DATING SITES HAVE BEEN 💯 DECEIVED HAVE
Pulling back is a quick way out of my life I don't have time for childesh games. Show up consitanty or go away. You'll know I'm happy to be with you if I consitanty make time and put in effort
You missed it! Like, completely missed it! He said pull back if the man does it first which is good advice.
Every relationship has a pattern!
Oh but God bless Me and Restore Me Amen Hallelujah But God
America needs this
Ladies, I hear something Long time a go. Don't ever let a man tell you twice he don't want you.. That from Tommy Chapter nine verse fourteen..LOL
Practicing this right now, best advise. This is proven true, interrupt the pattern 💓
I don't understand these women that see that the man not interested in them and they can't seem to get it.
Block her then forever n return anything of hers don't play mind games... bums just want emergency back up plans. They are not God's ideal. Forward ⏩
Because some want to confuse the woman. If you are not interested in the woman they need to say something
@@cynthiareynolds1941 yes but we are supposed to have discernment and not be trusting of everyone. We have to read between the lines. When people say things at work you don't take everybody at face value so don't do it in your dating life. Get to know people and you can always learn when they're lying or when they're not being completely upfront
So what if you don't see your date daily, what If it's distance between the two. Sometimes, not trusting can hurt the relationship because of your past experiences.
@@trenastewart2599 If it is just distance, there's nothing wrong with that. You should be talking on the phone everyday though.
This is profound, and I'm going to take this nugget and keep it moving.
Thanks Coach.
I try to mirror the behavior. No call, no text and don't even check up on me. Obviously, this dude didn't care. I try to teach him by not mirroring him. I'm walking away for good. Ain't no man is too busy to contact a woman that he says he likes and loves. Fake love! Bye, JG!!!
I pulled back because I'm done with the bullshit, I know my worth ,and he is not worth my energy 🤔💪
Took my energy and pulled it all the way back. Maybe it wasn’t the nicest way, but he went into the same patterns and when I called him out on it he instantly projected at me “ you never cared” so lame and cowardly. Since I have not heard anything from him. So obviously I don’t need to be his option when it is convenient. I’m worth more than waiting on his lame low vibrational reaction. Energy vampire. Put on your mr nice guy mask for someone else. Don’t need your drama 🎭 anymore.
Thank you for keeping it 💯. Real talk. Gotcha. God bless you for sharing this information. 😊❤
You are so welcome
Especially the ones who only communicate with Emoji’s or GIF’S all the time.
It’s nothing cute or personal about it.
I alway hear in my Spirit, Be Still.
I think he's move on and I should to. But lord this hurt.
Joy comes in the morning… Thank God for this moment. Prepare yourself for someone who wants you. Not for the person who wants to confuse use and play with your Soul. Break this soul tie in the name of Jesus!!!
@@septemberterry6469 thank you
Rejection is God's protection! Don't even worry about it!🙏🏽💜😁
You will be fine - keep yourself busy - one day you’ll wake up and he won’t be the first thing on you’re mind ❤❤
This is exactly what I did before hearing or watching this. Thank you for the confirmation.
So true!!
This new dating is exhausting I give it yes this is so on point but get in a real grown relationship this sounds like men are kids not men
I NEVER LOOKED BACK! HIS LOSS, MY GAIN!
He may have thought the same thing.
EXACTLY!! 💯 💯 💯 💯 Zero time for games, life is too short! 😊
These are just games.
1. No sex unless you're married.
2. Don't play games in a marriage.
Amen!!
Marriage doesn't guarantee anything. An agreement, even a marriage one, is only as good as the person making it. It's a roll of the dice in any relationship. So marriage doesn't secure a deal. I have seen too many abused, unhappy married people out there.
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@sandrakearney1265 MARRIAGE is not just a LEGALITY it is a REQUIREMENT by OUR CREATOR, it is in the Bible, our INSTRUCTION MANUAL (Romans 15:4)🔻
" For all things that were written beforehand were written for our instruction".... THERE'S MORE TO IT LOOK IT UP!
@sandrakearney1265 I am one of them. Vet ALL manner of men. Narc abusive husband is white and a player. Divorcing due to DV and adultery, greediness, covert, after six months. Was used as a scapegoat triangulated against old supply and new supply. He had ill intentions marrying me and shattered my self esteem when I found out. He pretended to want it but neglected and emotionally abused throughout the relationship. Used me for reviving his dying songwriting music career as a come up (Ike and Tina). He discarded me for new supply, he raged at me to "get the fk out of MY house ( apartment). He wasn't shit to begin with and he knew he was unworthy of me. I pumped him up when he was secretive jealous of me and I didn't know it. Brain fog drained is real. Was unhappy during my time with him. I thought he was the one but impostor. Happy to be free soon, so I can heal and live a better life. He is dealing with residual bad karma from pastrelationships and heaping more due to abusing, bullying, exploiting, disgraceing, controlling, cheating a spiritual divine earth angel who he needed to help his life but not what he wanted which was trash. I came from where I lost everything and moved to a new state and lost again dealing with him😢. Rebuilding my life after he upheaveled it. Be careful . I honored my vows...he didnt 😢.
PS. And we’re just good friends that are interested in one another and never had sex! I like that . Good friends first
It depends on how often someone doses this! Everyone has a breaking point! Stop plays if you plan on keeping your partner!
If he does not want u he will not marry you. I know Coach was using the example of sex Friday as an example etc. If he gets the milk for free, why buy the cow. The cow is not being valued.
They will marry you and still not want you but what they can get from you. Marriage is overrated. Men are academy award winning fakers.
This is why men can't stand me
Seems relationships are all about games. Some of us are tired
True!!
Recently subscribed and don't regret it ❤ What can you say about husbands who don't listen and can't be quiet when you're trying to say what they're doing is hurting you, yet he always has something to say about when you make a mistake? And no, he was not like this before we got married. (He hid a lot of things from me like physical abuse)
Stop talking change up your patterns..AN MOST DEFINITELY PRAY.. whenever my husband dont listen I stop talking.. HANDLE IT MR KNOW IT ALL.. ❤️❤️❤️
@@faithsimmons8609 I second your advice❤❤
Physical abuse or any abuse is a deal breaker.
NOT worth staying!!!
Start planning your escape. Leave QUIETLY.
That husband is a flaming narcissist! It will only get worse!!! Take care of you!
@@momwilliams5138 that's what I was thinking. Anytime I try to say how I feel, he says he rejects or it's not true. He has so much to say about me and what I'm doing wrong, but can't take it when I start speaking on what he's doing. So now, I'm frustrated and beginning to hate this marriage.
You back off and then block if they repeat
Spot on coach
Exactly, they are clear..
Best advice ever. Apply to all your relationships.
Thanks Coach. God bless you for sharing this message. I affirm and claim this message. 😊❤
There's no point in this advice if you are dealing with a mature grown honest man
I AM SORRY I DIDN'T GET TO FINISH MY COMMENT 😂 BUT IWILL HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE BETTER DAYS ARE 💯💯💯💯💯 COMING GOD BLESS 🙏 MY SISTAS AND BROTHERS❤❤❤❤ THANK YOU COACH AMEN
I told my friend this the other day. You are so on point
Right, Exactly ❤❤❤Thank you
You are absolutely 💯 💯 right! I did that, and it worked to a tee!!!
Yeah I’ve been fighting the denial of his behavior hoping things would change but he’s showing me what he wants. I want different than him so I’m short changing myself. I’m tired of being sick to my stomach and depressed crying. I don’t let him know how upset I am because things will only be different if he wanted them different. I have communicated what I want but it goes in one ear and out the other. Makes me feel I’m not worthy or special or loved.
Preach my brother 🙏❤
Preach 🙌
Oh ! Cool I love your advice it’s just so hard to step back, desire to manipulate always naturally comes up into a women’s heart.
Thanks Sir.
Absolutely..
This isn’t easy to hear but it’s necessary
Amen Thank you for this message
Thank you.
You're welcome!
If he don't call. KEEP OT MOVINGGGGGG😊
Ur right … I’m a runner and track star ⭐️ . Then the phn calls starts coming and the good morning text but I’m already over it so I have absolutely no problem with this at all.
Real truth ❤❤❤❤❤
Absolutely, I totally agree
Real talk action communication value key speak louder then.words
Yes just accept the fact & move on
I pulled back, and he took a bunch of pills and passed out. Taken to the hospital, locked up in a mental health facility 72 hrs, tried to come back into my life. NOT!!
Totally agree ❤💯
Yup!!!
Good morning so true
Good morning
I totally agree and do want right he going to show up and he going to do what he needs to do to satisfy that woman and keep the relationship straight❤❤❤❤
Dont confuse inconsistency with ackowledging red flags...boundary breakers.
If he doesn't call back that's fine. Whatever.
Thanks Dr. KEN
Listen to coach ladies because he is on point with this Anen
So wise❤ thank you!
This is just straight facts
Women dont get it twisted. If he messed up and you pull back and he doesnt chase you, then he's no good. But if you messed up and pull back, dont expect a real man to chase you. You need to be accountable.
I've done it works. ❤
This is soo true facts 💯
YEP...HE WO T CALL OR TEXT....IM DONE ...I CHOOSE ME!!!!...SEE YAAAAA😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Oh coach!! Thanks for another gem!
Amen.
Interesting!