INTROVERT DIARIES: Feeling sad on your birthday and low key celebrations

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 38

  • @sincerelyclary6232
    @sincerelyclary6232 Месяц назад +6

    Happy belated birthday! I completely understand how you feel about the anxiety of replying to birthday messages and the disappointment when you don't receive them. Such a double edged sword. Love the vlogs! Willo's little pit pats in the background are too cute!

  • @brookewhelen3560
    @brookewhelen3560 Месяц назад +2

    Happy Belated Birthday Devon. I am totally the same as you with birthdays. I get so sad and have such a mixture of emotions. You're not alone.

  • @Hollyannlsu07
    @Hollyannlsu07 Месяц назад

    Thank you for always being so vulnerable in your videos - can completely relate to how you feel on your birthday. I’m an only child, and my closet friend and mom live far away. I have local friends but most don’t even know when my birthday is because I never want to bring it up. I always do something special for myself though! Hope yours was fantastic! ❤

  • @elpiloto100
    @elpiloto100 Месяц назад +1

    Happy birthday Devon! The way you feel about birthdays reminds me of the song Confetti by Charlotte Cardin that us introverts would find relatable:
    Always been loud in a quiet way
    I always feel alone in a crowded place
    ...
    I get sad on my birthday
    I wanna talk back in the worst way
    ...

  • @oliviajones3637
    @oliviajones3637 Месяц назад +2

    Happy Belated birthday and love that you're being vulnerable with us on your birthday. We often try to portray ourselves having fun and such (social media wise) but it's not always the case on everyone's birthday. Thank you for being you.

  • @jordanreed4901
    @jordanreed4901 Месяц назад +1

    Happy Birthday!!! Sending you lots of cozy fall vibes!! I get kind of sad around my birthday too - I think that's normal as we get older. It's a time when you can't help but do a lot of reflection about life in general - and that can get heavy at times!!
    I'm sorry you're dealing with annoying acne - I had horrible acne as a teenager and tried everything from doxycycline to birth control. The one thing that helped was Accutane. It's an intense drug, but man did it clear up my acne like nothing ever has before! (Also, sometimes intense chemical peels and facials can irritate acne more than help it.) Hope that helps!! You're beautiful inside and out. Your being vulnerable on this platform is so SO brave!!!💓

  • @sandrabreacleon_girl
    @sandrabreacleon_girl Месяц назад +1

    Happy belated birthday
    I completely understand what you're feeling, about bday messages, long celebrations, wanting to celebrate but also kinda wanting it to be a normal day... I've been overlaping vacation - yearly traveling abroad with my bday date for the past 4 years and avoid celebrations altogether. My friends used to throw me a little surprise party but it can get a little overwhelming. Now I even try not to check my phone until the next day.

  • @shivani8974
    @shivani8974 Месяц назад +2

    Happy Birthday, Devon!! you're one of my favorite content creators, I absolutely love your vlogs!! Hope you had a wonderful day celebrating!

  • @brookevandevelder6239
    @brookevandevelder6239 Месяц назад

    Happy birthday! I watch your content religiously on YT and TT. I turn 34 in October and I will be feeling the exact same. All the little annoyances you don’t give a second thought about suddenly feel like a personal assault on top of the celebratory expectations you have but don’t want to have? So dumb. Your birthday cake turned out so cute! I’m inspired to try making a fall/birthday one now.

  • @aprilnyenkamp8604
    @aprilnyenkamp8604 Месяц назад +1

    Aww sending you a big hug Devon! Happy belated birthday! Thank you for discussing the mixed feelings around birthdays. I feel like no one talks about this but you are not alone in feeling this way. ❤

  • @maddymc777
    @maddymc777 Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday!!!! Thank you for always helping make your fellow introverts lives a bit easier 🩷

  • @vivianchan7441
    @vivianchan7441 Месяц назад

    Happy birthday Devon! So many things that you talked about in the birthday video resonate with me. Proactively asking friends to celebrate birthday with me feels weird to me too. Making lone decisions sometimes can feel going nowhere. These feelings are shared. You are loved and you are making us all feel heard and seen. You are a natural and gift to this world 🎉

  • @CriswithaC
    @CriswithaC Месяц назад

    Happy belated Birthday! I’m a Virgo too ❤ and I also get sad around my birthday lol a lot of anxiety leading up to it and a bit of depression once it’s over. Wishing you the best year!

  • @Just_Jess2479
    @Just_Jess2479 Месяц назад

    I so get what you're saying. I'll be 45 next month and it's only me and now my older brother ( have family but I'm not their priority). I can't even remember my birthdays as a kid though, they were never big productions or anything. Just a few school friends that I saw every day, cake, ice cream and very few presents. Now as an adult, I do everything myself from buying my own gifts to baking my own cake and I like it that way. I love that you went bowling. I used to go with my dad all the time. I haven't been in forever. Birthdays become "normal" days once you're like 60 I think...lol but you can always decide what YOU want to do, if you want a normal day birthday then have one...lol Your outfit (especially the shoes) is giving 90's 90210 college vibes and I love it!!!! I'm the same way about "being the center of attention" especially on holidays and birthdays...I've always been a better gift giver than receiver so I'm also the one who would rather be at home with my animals than around family. I'm so glad you had a great birthday week.

  • @JenLyman
    @JenLyman Месяц назад +1

    That Starbucks employee is the real MVP for making the drink “cheaper” after you said you wanted cold foam 🙌🏻

  • @DiazOJess
    @DiazOJess Месяц назад +1

    Love your vlogs, & I feel you on the birthday feelings. I personally don’t like being celebrated and I don’t know why. I truly rather it be like any other day or just something as simple as relaxing at home.

  • @tiff7725
    @tiff7725 Месяц назад +1

    Happy Belated Birthday! I related to all your feelings around birthdays as an introverted adult.. its a true mixture of all the feels🫠😅

  • @Carlet76
    @Carlet76 Месяц назад

    Happy birthday! I def relate to not wanting to be the center of attention, but also wanting to do things for my bday and feeling weird about organizing plans with friends.

  • @odetteperez310
    @odetteperez310 Месяц назад +1

    Happy belated birthday!! 🎉 wow, how you described your emotions surrounding your birthday…I could relate to that so much! I feel most of those things, but I could be okay with receiving bday gifts all month long lol. Thank you for sharing your emotions and being so vulnerable for your viewers. You validate how other introverts feel and I thank you for that!

  • @alicediligianis
    @alicediligianis Месяц назад

    Happy Belated Birthday!❤🎉

  • @stephaniecrawford4902
    @stephaniecrawford4902 4 дня назад

    Saying “I feel like I need to cry or something” on your birthday is so relatable

  • @nenjak1335
    @nenjak1335 Месяц назад

    Dude the first few minutes hit me so hard. 😢

  • @liltieutieu
    @liltieutieu Месяц назад

    My birthday is a day after yours and I also feel exactly the way you do. As a single, introverted girly, I always want to celebrate but also find it kind of awkward to initiate it. But the past few birthdays I’ve just been planning a trip somewhere, either by myself or with one other person to celebrate. That way I’m not alone on my birthday wondering if anyone would want to spend it with me.

  • @Jlburgart
    @Jlburgart Месяц назад

    Happy Belated Birthday!
    I feel you on the weird birthday feelings. It always feels like there are so many expectations to have the best day ever, and more often than not, it’s just like any other day. (which I prefer!) I guess I’d just rather be loved all year long, and not make a bigger deal of it on one day. 😅

  • @Lisa-yo1vl
    @Lisa-yo1vl Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday 🎉

  • @fissinho
    @fissinho Месяц назад

    Happy Birthday! You look stunning as always! Thank you for sharing your feelings

  • @Moooniek
    @Moooniek Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday! I feel the same on my birthday. There's so much pressure to have an amazing day. At least it is only once a year! I love your vlogs!!

  • @jmarie698
    @jmarie698 Месяц назад

    The birthday feels are sooo relatable. I'm turning 33 on Friday too and already dreading it lol. I always feel exactly like you described, it is so strange. Happy belated birthday though!!

  • @sarahelizabeth5381
    @sarahelizabeth5381 Месяц назад

    Happy Birthday!
    33 has been one of my best years so far ❤

  • @rachaelwells9029
    @rachaelwells9029 Месяц назад

    Happy Belated Birthday 🎉🎉

  • @charles_miner
    @charles_miner Месяц назад

    happy birfday Devon :)
    thx for hanging out w us

  • @airjohnpro
    @airjohnpro Месяц назад

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!🎊🎁🎂🎉

  • @SarahSchneider2
    @SarahSchneider2 Месяц назад

    Happy belated birthday. I spent my birthday both this year and last year alone. Got to celebrate on a different date this year at least so that was fun.

  • @SALI2213
    @SALI2213 Месяц назад

    Happy Birthday!!!

  • @RuebenNomura
    @RuebenNomura Месяц назад

    Afternoon from Hawaii that was a good introvert and happy birthday have fun

  • @fatimaguerra6615
    @fatimaguerra6615 Месяц назад

    My birthday was last monday!! The 9th! Do we have the same bday!? Happy Belated! ❤️‍🩹 birthdays are always a bit weird for us all

    • @247webgirl
      @247webgirl Месяц назад

      Hers is the 16th, but happy belated birthday to you both!!

  • @melanieparulan1780
    @melanieparulan1780 Месяц назад

    Bye Willo 👋