HAPPY MONDAY EVERYONE... or whatever day it is when you're watching this :p Just a heads up, im 12 and cant use a computer so theres about 4 minutes of blank footage at the end of this video that I looked over. I cut if off in the youtube editor but it might take some time to reflect for you guys. So if youre wondering why theres a sea of nothingness at the end, THATS WHY xD LET ME KNOW what your self care routine looks like down in the comments. I wanna know how yall be relaxing and shit hehe
Girl, I'm sitting here before my class starts eating a salad and listening to your video...I feel luxurious af and I've started my self care journey now ☺
Love you Victoria! 😊 Anytime im struggling with my social anxiety or depression I always watch your videos because they help me zone out and forget everything thats on my mind. So thank you!
Yaaaaas we love a self-care queen. No matter how hard I try I can't convince myself to believe in anything beyond the physical world, however I have found chakra meditations to be helpful for the same reason! Basically taking an organized inventory of how each part of my life is doing, sometimes I surprise myself with what I bury down and sometimes I'm frustrated by things I have to continue dealing with but at least it doesn't feel overwhelming. I do the same thing, smooth myself up, do some boujee skin-care and then check in 🙌
I loved this so much. I’d never ever been able to relate to those stereotypical bath bomb self-care routine videos. I never felt like I fit in with that or like that kind of thing made me feel like actual self-care. But wow, this fit in perfectly with the things I do that feel like self-care along with learning some new things from you that I know will help. Ughh I love you so much. Thank you, thank you, thank you. ♥️
This may sound weird and knit picky but I remember you talking about your hair once and how it doesn't grow in like most women's hair. And I always believed that to be true until this video (I just studied your hair for awhile). Your hair actually reminds me a lot of my hair before. Always frizzy and puffy with that icky wave that doesn't look right unless straightened or curled with a curling iron. Turns out the reason why my hair always looked that way is because i have curly hair (not kinky tight curls but Idk white girl curls) and when I'd brush my hair it'd brush the curl right out and it'd look puffy. I'm not sure what your hair routine is but what I do is I brush my hair before my shower to get rid of the knots, and after that I try to leave my hair alone once dry. I might brush it wet (which can cause breakage because wet hair is fragile) but that's about it because I want it to do its thing. Also in order to reduce friz try drying your hair with a t-shirt instead of a towel, it works. Another thing I occasionally do is I flip my hair upside down and run a little bit of conditionar to the ends and toss it around a bit. The reason why I'm talking a lot about after the shower is because with wet hair you can control the shape of your hair afterwards. I have long hair which weighs down the curls (so I layer it to make them sit nicer) so my hair doesn't curl up right away once wet. It only looks that way when it's starting to dry (again I don't have kinky hair curls) so I dont speed up the process with a hair dryer. I let it naturally dry. My last tips are I don't brush my hair unless on day 3, I leave it alone for the most part. I put conditionars or shea butter on the ends to define the curls if they get a bit shabby because of lack of brushing. If this doesnt work, what I used to do to give my hair shape is I'd brush it when wet (obviously after you've brushed it before the shower because you want to get rid of the knots before, brushing it the second time is only helping it lay flat) and then I'd either put it in a pony tail and twist my whole pony tail into a tube, staring from the top to bottom. Or I would divide my hair into two sections and twist both of them that way (that way I dont need a hairtie). You basically twist it every so often if it starts to get loose, all the way til dry. Then you unravel the tubular twist, you should have shaped curls. Last tip, if you brush your hair only brush from the ends up. Don't start from the top. I barely touch my scalp ever. I dont say this to be mean or weird. I just know what it's like to have poofy, frizzy hair that doesnt lays right. Hope this helps. Oh I mainly only shampoo my roots (that's the part that's greasy, I will do all my hair if it's dirty or whatever) and I only put conditonar only on my tips (because lord knows they need moisture!).
Self care is something I'm trying to work on. I think sometimes I pass off being lazy as self care, when really I'm making things worse for myself by not being productive and not taking my health into consideration. I need to try and figure out what's best for my mental health and my physical health combined. One day I'll get there!
yes, one day you will! it definitely takes time and people find out what works for them at all different stages of life. just take your time and have fun with it :D
I'm having myself a self care month right now. I have a legit enormous jacuzzi bathtub full of dirty clothes because I just keep putting it off I'm gonna do it!
I found your channel a few weeks ago because someone mentioned you being a good RUclipsr in the comments of another video, and boy am I happy that I found you! I don’t follow very many people and I subbed instantly after the first video I watched, and... Your videos legit help me fall asleep. I have panic disorder and it’s hard to fall asleep sometimes, but when I play a video next to my ear while sleeping, girl I fall right asleep! Thank you for being you!
And btw...just found u from Christina Randall's channel..u were in the comments so I checked u out when someone said they loved u....so glad i did. Your amazing!!!! Ty for being real and not so fake and perfect like every other RUclipsr..its so refreshing to see a real RUclipsr these days!!
This is such a fabulous and helpful video. Great tips! I've been finding things that help me feel grounded and at peace with myself, and I try to use them every day or so to keep me in a holistically balanced state where I feel like the best version of myself. I find hot showers /baths, meditation, masturbation, oil pastel and charcoal pencil art (so tactile), spending time outside and in the woods, breathing exercises (I needed to learn to exhale fully and now I can, it helps relax me so much), dancing, singing, smoking weed, and doing my makeup, and so many other things make me feel fabulous. Embrace your inner kid for sure! 💜🥰
10K subs on Instagram! Congratulations Miss Wiggins :) I love the things you said about gratitude -that's very important for me too. It really helps to put things into a good and healthy perspective. There are so many things we tend to take for granted, but which so many people have to live without.
I feel like we would be such good friends, and I feel like we relate so much. On so many things. That's why I love the people I sub to, I feel like I could actually be friends with them & that definitely includes you. It's like a kin-spirit situation. Thank you for being so real & being you. 😘❤
" you will be surprised at the things a worrier can worry about..it can be Alot"....yesssss sister. Ugh. Always been a worry wart. I hate it. I relate more than you know.
you make me feel alive! thank you for being so kind and encouraging, it reminds me (and lots of others) its ok to be that way with ourselves and makes the world so much better
Omg. I'm not the only one that gets that grounding moment at the strangest of times. At first it feels so fricken weird, like , year how did I get here???. Awsome. Thanks. 😊
I thought I was the ONLY one lol.... except add on watching cliche Romantic comedy movies that I make fun of bt its part of my secret "go to routine" when I feel like everything is closing in on me.... hate to admit it bt I cried during Lion King Lmfao (was during one of my break ups & thought I'd never be able to go on....I was a bit dramatic as a young teen) Anyways, cheesecake is a staple in any occasion. Celebrating, mental health moments or just bored....cheesecake makes it all better.
My mom did the same thing!! If I woke up and just felt like not going to school..she would let me. I didnt abuse it..so she let me! I will always be thankful to her for that.
When I was a kid my parents made me go to school even when I felt like I was dying. My children know that if they come to me and tell me that they need a day to stay home and chill then they can have it. Why send your child to school when they're not going to learn anything when they're in that state? Let them have a day to recalibrate.
We love a little sister Jenny moment! Meditation truly helps, don't worry to be weird saying it does! Keep it up and prolapsulations for the 10K! Much love bussycats
I needed this Victoria!! I was lying on the couch in my pyjamas, bleeding from my uterus and feeling sorry for myself. now I'm sitting up, stretching, I took my multivitamins, put on hot water for a shower and I'm gonna get my last essay done for college!! THANK U BITCH 💖
😂💕 A recent new follower here. I was fully expecting a joke video but what i got was probably the most through, down to earth and practical video ive ever seen on self care. Loved it! Im off to masturbate now. Bye!
my personal self care is getting as high as i possibly can edit: I posted this before I heard that you also smoke tons of weed when you need self care! weed queens
Just my why the fuck dont u have millions of subs comment... I no I dont leave this comment as much as I use to but dont worry boothang I've been watching every video, I'm usually just a silent watcher.. but I no how much u have wanted that 10k on Instagram so congrats babygurl. I dont have any social media, RUclips is all I got otherwise u would have 10,001 on Instagram lol.
I'm a hardcore right wing libertarian and I fucking love you and your videos. You're a wonderful human being. My self care typically just involves exercising, masturbating, cleaning my house and eating edibles lmao
My hemorrhoids are snatched and throbbing.
thank god im not the only one
HAPPY MONDAY EVERYONE... or whatever day it is when you're watching this :p Just a heads up, im 12 and cant use a computer so theres about 4 minutes of blank footage at the end of this video that I looked over. I cut if off in the youtube editor but it might take some time to reflect for you guys. So if youre wondering why theres a sea of nothingness at the end, THATS WHY xD
LET ME KNOW what your self care routine looks like down in the comments. I wanna know how yall be relaxing and shit hehe
Victoria Wiggins I miss the “I’m a mess” 😂😞😭
You always make me smile and laugh! Girl you are the BEST!! Mad love!💜
Girl, I'm sitting here before my class starts eating a salad and listening to your video...I feel luxurious af and I've started my self care journey now ☺
omg sounds like u r living it up im kinda jealous
Love you Victoria! 😊 Anytime im struggling with my social anxiety or depression I always watch your videos because they help me zone out and forget everything thats on my mind. So thank you!
So early i got the 360p treatment
that will be $360 pls i accept cashiers check
FLWM?! Yes please! l need that in my life!
my self care is shaving, doing my nails, doing my hair n makeup, and eating sweets lol.
ooo what kind of sweets I like ice cream and death hehe
Yaaaaas we love a self-care queen. No matter how hard I try I can't convince myself to believe in anything beyond the physical world, however I have found chakra meditations to be helpful for the same reason! Basically taking an organized inventory of how each part of my life is doing, sometimes I surprise myself with what I bury down and sometimes I'm frustrated by things I have to continue dealing with but at least it doesn't feel overwhelming. I do the same thing, smooth myself up, do some boujee skin-care and then check in 🙌
FLWM PLEASE!!!
god I was hoping no one would ask so I wouldnt have to fold it
I loved this so much. I’d never ever been able to relate to those stereotypical bath bomb self-care routine videos. I never felt like I fit in with that or like that kind of thing made me feel like actual self-care. But wow, this fit in perfectly with the things I do that feel like self-care along with learning some new things from you that I know will help.
Ughh I love you so much.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. ♥️
You look like Kristen Stewart characterized as Bella from Twilight but like I actually like you ✨
I was your 9,999th Instagram follower and I'm pretty proud of that
Flwm? Fold Laundry with me?😂😂😂 I needed this so much. I was just thinking of my home situation and it made me so stressed
This may sound weird and knit picky but I remember you talking about your hair once and how it doesn't grow in like most women's hair. And I always believed that to be true until this video (I just studied your hair for awhile). Your hair actually reminds me a lot of my hair before. Always frizzy and puffy with that icky wave that doesn't look right unless straightened or curled with a curling iron. Turns out the reason why my hair always looked that way is because i have curly hair (not kinky tight curls but Idk white girl curls) and when I'd brush my hair it'd brush the curl right out and it'd look puffy. I'm not sure what your hair routine is but what I do is I brush my hair before my shower to get rid of the knots, and after that I try to leave my hair alone once dry. I might brush it wet (which can cause breakage because wet hair is fragile) but that's about it because I want it to do its thing. Also in order to reduce friz try drying your hair with a t-shirt instead of a towel, it works. Another thing I occasionally do is I flip my hair upside down and run a little bit of conditionar to the ends and toss it around a bit. The reason why I'm talking a lot about after the shower is because with wet hair you can control the shape of your hair afterwards. I have long hair which weighs down the curls (so I layer it to make them sit nicer) so my hair doesn't curl up right away once wet. It only looks that way when it's starting to dry (again I don't have kinky hair curls) so I dont speed up the process with a hair dryer. I let it naturally dry. My last tips are I don't brush my hair unless on day 3, I leave it alone for the most part. I put conditionars or shea butter on the ends to define the curls if they get a bit shabby because of lack of brushing.
If this doesnt work, what I used to do to give my hair shape is I'd brush it when wet (obviously after you've brushed it before the shower because you want to get rid of the knots before, brushing it the second time is only helping it lay flat) and then I'd either put it in a pony tail and twist my whole pony tail into a tube, staring from the top to bottom. Or I would divide my hair into two sections and twist both of them that way (that way I dont need a hairtie). You basically twist it every so often if it starts to get loose, all the way til dry. Then you unravel the tubular twist, you should have shaped curls.
Last tip, if you brush your hair only brush from the ends up. Don't start from the top. I barely touch my scalp ever.
I dont say this to be mean or weird. I just know what it's like to have poofy, frizzy hair that doesnt lays right. Hope this helps. Oh I mainly only shampoo my roots (that's the part that's greasy, I will do all my hair if it's dirty or whatever) and I only put conditonar only on my tips (because lord knows they need moisture!).
Self care is something I'm trying to work on. I think sometimes I pass off being lazy as self care, when really I'm making things worse for myself by not being productive and not taking my health into consideration. I need to try and figure out what's best for my mental health and my physical health combined. One day I'll get there!
yes, one day you will! it definitely takes time and people find out what works for them at all different stages of life. just take your time and have fun with it :D
This hairstyle gives me anime hentai waifu realness and I’m so here for it
I'm having myself a self care month right now. I have a legit enormous jacuzzi bathtub full of dirty clothes because I just keep putting it off
I'm gonna do it!
Øath Ghost hey at least you have a jacuzzi bathtub
Wait...you wash your clothes with a jacuzzi??
@@ShatteredDiscoBall no my laundry basket isn't big enough for all my clothes
Who wouldn’t like the bussy queen? No subscriber remorse from me and I’ve been around here for a hot minute now 😂 all hail Queen Victoria 👸 👑 😂😂😂
omg im glad u havent had any remorse because I sure have LMAO
Victoria Wiggins oh honey I’ve had plenty of remorse, just not about you 😂 💕💕💕
My fave thing you do is your outro when you tell everyone you love them, I can FEEL it, we're friends, and my heart is warm and happy.
I want a flwm!!!!!
god dammit another person is asking for this video. Now I really have to fold the laundry ugh im so pissed
@@VictoriaWiggins I agree!!!
I found your channel a few weeks ago because someone mentioned you being a good RUclipsr in the comments of another video, and boy am I happy that I found you! I don’t follow very many people and I subbed instantly after the first video I watched, and...
Your videos legit help me fall asleep. I have panic disorder and it’s hard to fall asleep sometimes, but when I play a video next to my ear while sleeping, girl I fall right asleep! Thank you for being you!
And btw...just found u from Christina Randall's channel..u were in the comments so I checked u out when someone said they loved u....so glad i did. Your amazing!!!! Ty for being real and not so fake and perfect like every other RUclipsr..its so refreshing to see a real RUclipsr these days!!
I'm so happy that you're happy and healthy 😊
im so happy that youre so happy that im happy and healthy!
She's amazing at giving advice ♡
This is such a fabulous and helpful video. Great tips! I've been finding things that help me feel grounded and at peace with myself, and I try to use them every day or so to keep me in a holistically balanced state where I feel like the best version of myself. I find hot showers /baths, meditation, masturbation, oil pastel and charcoal pencil art (so tactile), spending time outside and in the woods, breathing exercises (I needed to learn to exhale fully and now I can, it helps relax me so much), dancing, singing, smoking weed, and doing my makeup, and so many other things make me feel fabulous. Embrace your inner kid for sure! 💜🥰
I've been awake for 19 hours and I'm here to watch this
omg sounds like me when im having an episode LMAO
ur a queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i’m obsessed with you’re videos
10K subs on Instagram! Congratulations Miss Wiggins :) I love the things you said about gratitude -that's very important for me too. It really helps to put things into a good and healthy perspective. There are so many things we tend to take for granted, but which so many people have to live without.
*SCREAMS* CONGRATS ON 10K MOTHER BUSS!!
You are definitly my favorite youtuber
the mew mew is SO CUTE luv u !!!!!!
I feel like we would be such good friends, and I feel like we relate so much. On so many things. That's why I love the people I sub to, I feel like I could actually be friends with them & that definitely includes you. It's like a kin-spirit situation. Thank you for being so real & being you. 😘❤
" you will be surprised at the things a worrier can worry about..it can be Alot"....yesssss sister. Ugh. Always been a worry wart. I hate it. I relate more than you know.
Folding day!!! Love chillin with you watching you fold laundry, listening to your thoughts! 💜
your hair looks so pretty like this! we luv the pins!!
I'm really into this video. Watching you is actually something I do when I'm taking that few hours every couple of days to ground myself. 💖💖💖
We love a hairclip queen and these videos are the best aswell as sketches
you make me feel alive! thank you for being so kind and encouraging, it reminds me (and lots of others) its ok to be that way with ourselves and makes the world so much better
"You may have found yourself tuning out immediately as I said it".
I actually did tune out and had to rewind to remember what you said
WE NEED FLWMs from u!
Love you queen your content just keeps getting better 💓
Omg. I'm not the only one that gets that grounding moment at the strangest of times. At first it feels so fricken weird, like , year how did I get here???. Awsome. Thanks. 😊
I loved this vid, ive been in a slump and this gave me motivation to keep trecking on and be a productive lady :))love ur vids
My self care is eating cheese and crying. I feel like that’s really bad.
Omg same 😂
Taylor iconic queen 🤩
I thought I was the ONLY one lol.... except add on watching cliche Romantic comedy movies that I make fun of bt its part of my secret "go to routine" when I feel like everything is closing in on me.... hate to admit it bt I cried during Lion King Lmfao (was during one of my break ups & thought I'd never be able to go on....I was a bit dramatic as a young teen) Anyways, cheesecake is a staple in any occasion. Celebrating, mental health moments or just bored....cheesecake makes it all better.
Kryssii who doesn’t cry during lion king? A monster. That’s who. 😂 not dramatic at all, I cried during toy story 3 too 😂☠️😂
@@MummaQuan Touche.... come to think of it I find at least one moment in every Disney/Pixar etc. movie that I purge a few tears too. Lol.
Yesssss I loved your FLWM video 😊
the two little hair clips are so cute!💘
Absolutely loved the music at the end ✨
I have a self-care hour where I watch Netflix and eat ice cream on a Saturday night. Feels great until I finish the ice cream.
The comment section on Victorias vids is Soo loving and cute ❤️
My mom did the same thing!! If I woke up and just felt like not going to school..she would let me. I didnt abuse it..so she let me! I will always be thankful to her for that.
Love you bby! I'm so glad you hit your 10,000 on insta!
Congrats on 10k!!!
Omg I love you so much you are the only good youtuber
my ap spanish exam is tomorrow but this is more important :]
This inspired me to do those three things I've been putting off since last week.
When I was a kid my parents made me go to school even when I felt like I was dying. My children know that if they come to me and tell me that they need a day to stay home and chill then they can have it. Why send your child to school when they're not going to learn anything when they're in that state? Let them have a day to recalibrate.
favorite youtuber
I seriously just can't with you! I introduced you to my sister and she loved you as soon as she watched just one of your vids. 😍
Does sleeping long periods of time count as self care? If so, I've been doing it since i was born ✊😤👌🔥💯
We love a little sister Jenny moment! Meditation truly helps, don't worry to be weird saying it does! Keep it up and prolapsulations for the 10K! Much love bussycats
I love you Victoria!!! 💖💖💖
i lub u!!!!!!!
miss thing that outro left me on edge
taking a self care day brb
WE NEED MERCH MOM ILL BUY ALL OF IT I STG
We NEED a smoke sesh with Victoria! Fuck yeah!
I’m soo happy to get back home from a hookup to a new vid from the queen of fish 😩
Thank you for the guide!
I needed this Victoria!! I was lying on the couch in my pyjamas, bleeding from my uterus and feeling sorry for myself. now I'm sitting up, stretching, I took my multivitamins, put on hot water for a shower and I'm gonna get my last essay done for college!! THANK U BITCH 💖
😂💕 A recent new follower here. I was fully expecting a joke video but what i got was probably the most through, down to earth and practical video ive ever seen on self care. Loved it! Im off to masturbate now. Bye!
tag urself i’m the four minutes and ten seconds of black screen and music at the end of the vid. love u buss mom ❤️
I also love to start the day with taking care of something I have been avoiding. I feel a rush knowing I wont be stressing about it anymore.
Yes to the FLWM 😩😩😩😩❤️
Ur hair looks good like that!
I thought this might be a silly vid but Is actually really helpful, thanks 😉❤
Only channel I have the bell notification on for 💕
Ok, but your parents sound amazing!
my personal self care is getting as high as i possibly can
edit: I posted this before I heard that you also smoke tons of weed when you need self care! weed queens
Just my why the fuck dont u have millions of subs comment... I no I dont leave this comment as much as I use to but dont worry boothang I've been watching every video, I'm usually just a silent watcher.. but I no how much u have wanted that 10k on Instagram so congrats babygurl. I dont have any social media, RUclips is all I got otherwise u would have 10,001 on Instagram lol.
You’re my favorite!! BERNIE 2020!!! I love you honey you just continue to make me love you even more!
i love ur new intro lol
Love my bussqueen💕
Loved this
My self care rutine consists on having a day without any work and just play League or whatever, and just relax without thinking about my job :D
We love a Bernie bussy queen 🙌
Ring-a-ling-a-zing-zing!!
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🛎
I click for the intros 👌🖤🐱
This is my new routine
#1 RUclipsR
LOVE YOU SO MUCH
FLWM= fold laundry dry with me
I'm a hardcore right wing libertarian and I fucking love you and your videos. You're a wonderful human being. My self care typically just involves exercising, masturbating, cleaning my house and eating edibles lmao
Fav youtuber
jenna marbles
@@VictoriaWiggins HAHA NO I MEANT YOURE MY FAV
Yass so glad instagram told me before the notification did
I want more FMLWMs! :)
You should change your name from Victoria Wiggins to Anti-Depressant. Love every video.
Also swipe up fuck yes u go girl
Good Bernie plug__ meow meow meow!! Love it when you do that it makes me smile!!!
I'm not Bussy enough to know, whats FLWM?
Fold Laundry With Me
FLWM - Fold Laundry With Me
I been watching your videos and I love you so much!
I thought I was a bussycat but I haven't commented so now I am commenting!
Am I a bussycat now 😀
Please do a rewind video '4 years later: He still doesn't know I am trans'