Desi Parents Under the Influence
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- Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2021
- There is a 100% chance that your parents are under the influence... of their relatives. There is no cure. There is no help. This is just your life.
Forget the Kama Sutra. Introducing the Drama Sutra: • Indian Parents Give Me...
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Mom 1 - Mona Sishodia
Girl - Nikita Chaudhry
Mom 2 - Anita Dharapuram
Boy - Hari Sivaskandan
Father - Satish Ullal
Uncle - Shay Ali
Aunty - Ashna Sharan 
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Absolutely
As an Indian.....this could not be more relatable 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ikr it's sad at the same time🤧🦍
As a Sri Lankan ... I agree!!!
@@ChaoticCobra 🤣🤣
As a Moroccan , I can relate too
@@nisrinekasmi286 AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
"When I come home and I see biscuits laid on the table I don't feel safe anymore"
- spoken like a true sister😭
Can't relate more 😭
especially parle G 😭
So relatable 😂😂
Especially chai 😝
@@mikesmith7620 true
Asian Parents/ Specifically Indian Parents are a whole different species which is absolutely a challenge to understand them exactly... Mutual Feeling Lilly 😅😅😂😂
A Like from you Lilly🥰 ❤
Made my day 😌😌
for real though
Yeah. ... similar situation here also
Also sri lankans 😏😅
Too me their programed to be hardheaded n not listen/change
“This is what happens when brown parents are under the influence …. Of relatives” THIS 😭
Their minds change instantly!
@@LillySingh tell me about it. It’s scary sometimes fam 💀
One time i asked my mom what was going on and I promise the lady acted like nothing had happened, like bam instant amnesia!
@@aamnah1743 Wtf is scary about it, if it's seems sacry to you than world will be horror movie to you
@@deveshyadav6283 I didn’t say it was scary can u read… jokeman 😭😭
“I haven’t spoken to my wife in years. I didn’t want to interrupt her.”
🏆🏆😭😂
"Do u suffer from parents who suddenly change their mind"
Asian parents: yes? What were u asking again
😂😂😂
I feel like this is all parents
its crazy that no one talks about this...most of the childhood trauma is caused by all this i don't remember the last time i did something on my free will. i am constantly terrified of getting yelled at for doing something i wanted to do. i have changed my whole lifestyle just to satisfy my dad and constantly sacrifice my own needs and choices
What will people think? My favorite line!
Same 😔
Than Something is still fooling you about your needs and choices.
Get aware.
yes me too. indian parents are abusive. now we know
“When I come home and I see biscuits laid on the table, I dont know if I am safe anymore”.. 🤣🤣🤣 I am dead.
So relatable
Was just looking for this comment!!
It's the 'Slightly confused, About to Panick, but Holding it together" face that brought me here! 😂
Why is her videos always so accurate , like does she conduct a survey before creating it ? 😭😭
Just real stories bb
A little to real Lilly... 😐
@@sungu23 lmao it’s not even that bad ur doing too much
As a brown girl , I can totally relate .
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Me tooooooo
This is absolutely my life. My mother was so progressive when I was growing up but she is now under the influence.
Egg Cheese Sandwich... Do give it a try 😇
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"What will people say?" is my second most hated phrase, right behind, "you should..." Thanks for the memories, mom. 🤬
same
I hate this...indian people are so invested on what other people think about them
@@HarjitKaur-xn5cw true lol. A week ago i heard my mom in the kitchen say on phone,” if his(mine) grandpa(who lives in another city) dies due to thieves coming in his home and killing him, what will people say? That we(my parents) were not with him” lol this is a true legit story no scam.
As a person who got just engaged with someone I love, call it "love marriage" as Indian parents say it, I am still not allowed to go out with him because of "log kya kahenge?!"
First of all, shouldn't there be love in all the marriages?
Secondly, when you choose to marry someone you love, why is it always looked down upon? And why you have to give reasons "they wanted to do it, so we just accepted it".. well parents should do accept it willingly and wholeheartedly...
This is just so strange. It is very hard to fathom all this.
Agreeing. Parenting in certain cultures believe everything in their "Kids" life must be according the parents decision Afterall society believes parents decision is the best and most ideal for Kids.
Congratulations on your engagement
It's because your parents feel embarrassed so they give excuses. especially if your parents have friends/relatives with more 'obedient' children they imagine them feeling smug and laughing at their expanse, the whole 'log kya kahenge' happens because parents like to boast about their children (imagine you carefully made plans and boasted about your precious pet cat and wanted to find another cat of good breed for it but it went and mated with a random tomcat - it's that kind of feeling). and when you say 'love marriage,' to their generation it gives the impression that their child went off by herself, boldly, shamelessly, rashly, and selected her own spouse without asking their elders' advice or opinion, without considering anything like economic/religious/family status or background... this boldness was inconceivable to them in the past, do you remember in olden days how these people felt shy in just speaking aloud their wife/husband's name directly? my parents still don't call each other by name! Also, there should be love in all marriages but normally in arranged marriages love develops after marriage, which is nothing to scoff at, but traditionally it is seen in a better light (because virginity loss or 'bastards' are still taboo issues in many places and connected with loss of honour). I hope this helps you understand where they're coming from. I think the 'log kya kahenge' in your case most likely comes from your parents worrying what impression your in laws will have about you and how they might treat you based on that. Best wishes for the wedding!!
@@Silverraine1 dude what kind of stuff u r watching nowadays?...
This should not be the right way to explain some topic😁
Simple! Just introduce your lover to your parents, if they like him then congratulations.
If not than forget him, yo parents better know you then yourself.
It's 90 percent chance they will agree, if you haven't choosen your body or money lover
For the side effect of hallucinations I thought she was going to talk about always being compared to fake facts about cousins and family friends 😂
👑👑👑👑😭😭😭😭
The biscuits laid on table is straightttt up FACTSSSSS like when relatives call or anyone comes i just its another episode😶🙂😂😂
I love how even your parents know that they’re friends are toxic but still listen to them 😌
"When I see biscuits on the table....I don't feel safe anymore, " 🤣🤣🤣 it was the serious commercial voice for me 😆
Indian parents are suffering from CROS (Considering Relatives Opinion Syndrome)
I can relate to this. My mom starts acting like her Mom after they come in for the holidays and NOT in a good way.
ok but whoever did the voiceover did a phenomenal job, they sound like a
professional commercial narrator
Dear Lilly, lately you've been highlighting serious issues; I hope you know what a good work you are doing. Wish I could award you with some kind of trophy but I've only Love and respect for you to offer. Proud of you.
My daughter said I did this. I would try to shame her in front of relatives. I'm guilty. 😥As a grandmother now, hopefully I won't do it to my granddaughter.
but why did you do it?
😂😂😂 literally??!! 😅😅😂😂😂
@@Silverraine1 Because most parents do. Talk to me when you’ve raised a kid to adulthood and see what mistakes you make. It’s easy to say stuff when all you’ve raised is a doll, a cat or a dog.
@@raisarahman5406 How to tell me your not a parent without saying your a parent.
@@iwanttobelieve5970 But I haven't even said anything to you, I only asked you a question out of curiosity, why are you upset? And its been 2 months!
Why do I relate 100 percent to this. Desi parents man😂 no cure
It is just your life
I love that the term Desi is really catching on, I myself love using it 😌
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"My dad used to believe in covid, then he got an article on whatsapp" girl i...
Its literally what my father did
And then he came to conclusion that covid is a conspiracy Indian govt is doin for personal interests 💀💀💀. Felt like i should leave medical school.
sameeee
"When I come home and see biscuits laid on the table I no longer feel safe"😂 haven't related soo much to anything like this
"When i come homes, & i see biscuits on the table...i don't feel safe anymore" -Lilly Singh, 2021
Low-key: thats how I feel, when i step foot outside of my room with a short skirt like the girl in the video or short shorts on or anything other than a long, past-the-ankles skirt or pants, i can like feel my grandma watching me! With. every. step. i. take. 🙄 & u just know its 5-10 seconds, until "U don't have anything longer 2 wear?" or "Ur wearing THAT??", etc. I feel u, Lilly! (also love ur hair always!)
Helping other is the greatest act of humanity, your one click can make me smile☺️☺️🌹🥀🌹🥀 ......
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Lilly's expression in the thumbnail is really interesting
*Can we all agree that when She uploads our days get better! 💖*
No
yes
Dehlia-Kay Dyer NO.
Well it's obvious so didn't have to comment this
yes yes she does
Omg this is the analysis I needed in my lifeee
This looks so good just from the thumbnail:)
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1:26 HAHA THE BISCUITS GET ME EVERYTIME
I love how she put Parle G
✨imagine getting a serious diagnosis and your doctor goes “There is no cure….it just be like that”😂😂😂✨
They do
That was so relatable.. my mom was a cool mom .. she used to say that you should live your life as you like before thinking of marriage.. my relatives step in .. damn she forced me into an arrange marriage at the age of 23 😔
Are you happily married?
@@fathimafarahna2633 He was abusive and toxic. I am going through a divorce after 8years of marriage. No alimony and no child support, only freedom. My mom realised her mistake and has been very supportive through the entire process.
Im sooo exited for this my first live with her
I love your videos, Lilly! I finally made it to a premiere! And the best part is that I got to see your amazing video! You are the best!
Hilarious and kind of tragic at the same time. The “what will the people think” part really got me 👏🏼😂
"It just be like that." In that dude's voice sounds so real lol
Well, I'm lucky cuz my parents are influenced by none other than themselves
This is 100% true 😭 Now I get hard anxiety every time I meet a relative or we have them over...I avoid family gathering at all costs 😰
yes, same, it's so stressful! worse because i have poor EQ which means I cannot read other people's emotions when i'm face to face with them.
I love that you did this video, ... my parents were like this growing up. Now, they dont care because a home and retirement is the goal they are looking forward to. I also love that you use your Psychology Degree knowledge to base this video upon!
I’m amazed, tgis is SO GOOD! The tone, editing, script, THE PARENTS
I laughed and felt it, even though I don’t sufer from this
Jeez, Lilly keeps getting better, awesome talent and work
Happens in Latino households too! All brown families I believe. 😂🙏🏽
This is literally what is happening right now Lilly … i have been crying everyday since the past 2 weeks … as a dental school going student my parents didn’t care about how I was performing and all of a sudden they are … they are putting so much pressure … I just want to run away … this video ending up making me feel so miserable… I am secretly going to therapy too … I am scared if I tell them what they may say … thank you for being our stories to the world … I love you so much … you are my idol 🥺🥺❤️
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if you never had this type of problem before then you need to talk to your parents as soon as possible and get it over with, what's the worst that can happen? what are you afraid of? will they force you to stop studying? or make you choose a different field? would that be really so terrible? they love you and worry about you and want you to be successful, they don't want something bad to happen to you, if they paid for your education maybe they're also feeling financial pressure themselves, they might also need reassurance that you're trying your best, rehearse with the therapist first, and you don't need to tell them about the therapy, just talk about your feelings to them, not talking it out will just make you more and more miserable...
Hey Silver Raine sorry for my late reply .. thank you so much for your amazing words … I have just expressed myself about how I felt about going to dental school with my parents… turns out they don’t care and they were like ya well you have already joined and you can do whatever you want after it is done … I know it doesn’t sound like any progress but to me it was a huge step … I ended up feeling braver … thank you for encouraging me to take this step . Even though the outcome wasn’t great I somehow feel braver . Thank you 🥺❤️
I swear, this is pretty much a core root for any type of family dysfunction, Lilly. No matter how far we get in life, the parents are always going to be set in their ways. And, you're absolutely right. There's no cure for that, there's no changing that. That moment of "What will people think?" is the one I felt the hardest. All of the times I've had that sent in my direction tied to gossip and comparison to others. Geesh. Mad funny video and definitely a relatable topic you gave with this one, Lilly
Parle G biscuits on table !!!!! Was everything 😆😆😁😁😁
Lilly is a genius. She does an impressive job by taking such a simple yet impactful thing and making it fun to watch. I mean yes I totally relate to this and yes this is incurable. If you are Indian you know it. 😂🤣🤣🤣
I have never found a video with sad emotional BG music so hilarious before!!!!! Only Lilly!
This is the most insanely beautiful thing I've watched in a long time.. Hilarious!!!! SO relatable! 😄😄
THIS is the true purpose of comedy. No one does it like you Lilly. Love you so much. 💜
Just the title is so relateable
This was 100% relatable. It's suffocating. My whole life I have been living like this and I don't know until when. It's heartbreaking to see my family behaving like this, I love them so much but it's killing me inside.
Two words, "Move Out". Trust me physical distance is your/our only hope. I think suffocating is the perfect word you used to describe how it feels like, it was the same for me. I've felt so much alive since I moved out. Until then, try minimizing interaction to the bare minimum and survive somehow. Good luck :)
@@Pumpkiwi47 I think running away is my only choice. Because no one will allow me to move out before marriage. It's a bad thing according to them. I can't believe I used to think my family was different and they will never act like this.
@@maniprabha172 No matter how progressive they seem to be, they are still conservative at some level. I know the marriage thing, idk how old you are but if you're young enough to study and get another degree, that could be a good excuse to move out. You could go to another city for a master's degree, or abroad even. I did that, they never say no to education haha, so you can use that to move out.
It's sad that they think we need a man to move out. But trust me, you have to rebel. Worst case, they would "disown" you, not speak to you etc but all of that won't matter in a couple of years. You'll have your own life, your own family maybe and they won't have such an impact on your life anymore as they have today. They seem to be the center of your world right now but soon, they won't be.
I mean that's what they did to their own parents didn't they? I bet they don't listen to your grandparents always, they're not as important anymore. Same for us.
I am engaged now to a man and I have a life here, I'll soon have my own family and I'll see my parents maybe once in 2-3 years (I live abroad), so that's nothing compared to being with them 24*7. Think about this future! That's what's going to happen and it's natural. It's a huge relief trust me. I am okay with meeting them sometimes but can't live with them anymore.
@@Pumpkiwi47 thank you very much for the hope. I'm 21 now and planning to do my masters. I hope I will be able to see that day soon.
This video is so so brutally relatable. So awesome
This is the best one yet lily!
Until I watched this, I thought I have been suffering this alone. But thanks to you Lilly, I now know this desi parents syndrome is not a localised disease, as you too might have faced it living far off from India 😅 . We are in the same boat sister...
Love to Scarbrow💜
The tittle attract suffering ppl
This is BRILLIANT!!
THE BEST VIDEO YOU HAVE MADE IN A WHILE... AMAZINGGGG😂😂💯❤
Oh Lily you hit me hard with this one, as an Arab person this is my everyday life although I barely speak to any of these relatives or care about them.
Same here. I wish I was born and raised with just one culture to deal with and not two opposites that clash 😣
Can't wait!!! 🥳
Brilliant master piece😁😁
So insightful and yet knocked down laughing.
This is too accurate it hurts!!!
As an Indian that, "What will people thing is so so relateable." And that PARLE-G 😂😂
Congratulations 👏.
Your really up your game with this one, idk if I'm into your work anymore, But the spirit of Not Giving Up I have seen in you, that's what is inspiring
This is so creative and well done!!!
She is a true super women ❤️❤️
So awkward when Lilly isn't playing as her mom :P
THAT'S THE MOST GENIUS TAKE ON "THE PEOPLE" ......HATS OFF !!❤️❤️
I can't stress on this anymore that you did lily. woo that was great! I happen to experience this everyday .
I can totally relate. Everytime we visit my maternal uncle's house (which is hella patriarchal and no one believes in women rights), my mom changes so drastically and asks me to act according to their "family rules". It's frustrating. BTW love your videos so much Lilly loads of love for you 💗💗❤️
Hi Lil, a great fan of u n ur humour gal, u rock. U are a brilliant actor.
Just a request, pls make more videos dressed up as ur dad and uncle. Ur uncle is lit!!!
And make videos like the game night one. Maybe also one with dad try to flirt with a younger gal or something.
This is not what I was expecting from the title. But I loved it😂😂
We love ❤️ you Lilly!!! Thank you for showing the hard truth in such a humorous way.
Can't wait!!! I wanna watch it now!! 𓆩😄𓆪
Omg so true! last week my parents told me i couldnt go out after 9. I hv been going for my best friend for months. Our community has lights, cameras and guards everywhere, it is a closed community and people are always outside. Yet it isnt safe, nothing happened i just cant go out anymore. My mom was talking to her brother before she told me this.
I loved this, Lilly! 💕
Oh yesss most relatable content till date Lilly 💗
May everyone has a blessed days ahead
yes, I'm suffering 😫
This is genius, absolutely genius.
Omg Lilly your content justs keep getting better. This was hilarious
Finally someone came up with this issue and raised voice against it, We're proud of you lilly. I really think that these kinda parents are behind why some children lie and some even go through serious diseases like depression
I feel so bad for Lilly
She’s trying. She’s trying so hard to please her viewers with good content but all that’s happening is she’s losing followers and somehow getting more haters.
Lilly, if you see this, I love you and I see your progress. You are doing amazing. Keep going. ❤️
This is BRILLIANT. well done LILLLLY❤❤❤
Egg Cheese Sandwich... Do give it a try 😇
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I have never wanted to high five you more, it's like this video is my cousin I relate with it so hard. Thank you Lilly and the team
"I came out to my dad years ago and now he's asking when im gonna have a wife" lamo😂
Back then my relatives would have hour long gossip session about everyone's life's, now they just stalk people on social media and gossip on whatsapp all day.
Mən ingiliscə başa düşmürəm amma Lily çox xoşuma gəlir çünki o subtitrsiz gözəldir videonun nə demək olduğunu başa düşürəm 😂😂
Your amazing lilly 💗 100% relatable.
This video was so much needed. At least you can forward indirectly. 😝
''In every day, there are 1,440 minutes That means we have 1,440 daily opportunities to make a positive impact,,
So sad 😞 so glad someone is talking about it!
This is tooo good 🤣 we need more videos like this 😂😂😂
Hello everyone
Hello person in coat and hat
“Congrats to everyone who is early and found this comment”🌟
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"This is your life until the end of time". Comedy genius 🤣💕
OMG Lilly this gave me chills for some reason you’re so amazing😁😁😁