包辦婚姻=沒有幸福🙅🏾♂️?? 自由戀愛VS長輩安排❗到底是強逼還是自願😱訪問我的印度父母👩🏽❤️👨🏿
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- 話說爹哋媽咪結咗婚已經有33年啦🥰，之前都有同大家分享過佢哋係包辦婚姻🤪！但係冇分享過其實佢哋對呢件事有咩睇法🙈？ 今次各自問佢哋，睇吓佢哋點答啦。
Can’t believe my parents have been married for 33 years! 🥰🥰I have mentioned before that they got arranged marriage 🙈, but I never shared how they felt about it…🫠I decided to interrogate them separately and honestly I was shocked. 😳
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好感動，33年前已經會情人節送花比一個素未謀面既女仔，你爸爸真係好好，好識浪漫💕！
睇得出你爸爸好和順，好好人，點解唔係最後擺你父母年輕時嘅相睇下，咁就完美❤
徳莉媽媽的家庭一定是頗為顯赫，我有位老師也是印度女性，她說在印度的女性能受教育必定是富有人家。
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只能講你爸爸媽媽屋企本來就有錢，有相對開放的思想，又無生存壓力
所以我都好珍惜父母比我嘅嘢🥰🥰
Daddy個樣同 KU一樣係一臉正氣，Mami就有氣質大方，perfect match呀。
😂😂❤
如果包辦婚姻主要睇雙方家長有冇比較深入了解對方既人品同家庭背景等等，身邊有長輩既婚姻都係靠佢哋父母親友介紹冇咩相處就結婚，可以話幾求其下，結果當然好多係孽緣😢。
正等於現代自由戀愛都會冇咩了解但就結婚一樣，睇得出片中媽媽家境比較唔錯，唔會好似農村咁因為唔想養個女就求其算，完全唔會問新娘意見，有啲男人一眼望上去又猥瑣又恐怖仲要過人世，如果有得望吓個樣問肯唔肯嫁都心甘情願啲
🙏🙏 感謝莉莉嘅父、母接受今次嘅訪問，🙏 祝福莉莉嘅腳傷早日康復，🙏🙏腳傷休息緊都仲拍片，實在太辛苦莉莉喇‧
睇完條片之後，我唔敢肯定，究竟包辦婚禮 (對於現代人所稱嘅盲婚啞嫁) 好啲，定自由戀愛好啲；而 Uncle & Aunt (即係莉莉嘅父母) 理論上屬於先結婚後拍拖嘅嗰種感情狀況‧不過對於 Aunt 呢一代嘅印度女人，冇機會讀更加多嘅書 (即大學程度再以上嘅學歷) 做事業女強人，就有啲戥 Aunt 可惜，好在上天庇佑 Aunt ，賜咗一個唔錯嘅婚姻及家庭關係畀佢‧
😁😁假如 Aunt 遲啲先結婚，真係有機會做事業女強人， Aunt 有可能係 BBC 記者，或者跨國大企業嘅中、高層管理人員‧🙏🙏 麻煩莉莉將呢一句向 Aunt 代為轉達‧
呢種婚姻其實都有好處
你家人幫你揀，某程度上會揀一啲環境差唔多既人，大家眼界差唔多，交流上都易啲，同埋咁多家人參與，對方有咩衰野有咩問題都會睇到/有可能聽聞到，對對方家庭有一啲基本既認識，呢啲係婚姻上係有長遠嘅影響
莉莉你是我看的印度人中最開心快樂的·經常笑容滿面．希望你能保持著為看你的人輸出正能量！
其實daddy mommy 都好和善 mommy 行出黎仲好educated 既氣質
Dad is such a realist, she speaks English and she’s been to the world,but he’s smart he wasn’t just into looks, he wanted to find someone he can talk to, he sounds like a Chinese grandpa too don’t talk too much
真係高質節目!!!
其實好多屋企安排嘅印度婚姻都係好成功～ 我左右屋嘅鄰居都係印度人，兩個家庭都非常好... 個男人係超級友善... 兩公婆好sweet~
其實安排嘅婚姻慳時間慳心思... 都幾好～
自由戀愛又要自己去識，又要拍拖，甩拖又要由頭嚟過... 浪費好多時間～ 😆
但係應該大部份人都會選擇自由戀愛🤣
Your dad is so funny & super nice. It would be fun to have his own blog.
Super happy that you have an amazing, loving, supportive and caring parents ❤
Haha if he has his own channel, he won’t appear in my channel anymore 😅
其實那一代人本身就對婚姻忠誠，相信家人的選擇亦不過是多一個渠道讓兩人認識，會為家庭負責的人就是會為家庭負責。即使其他方式相遇還是會結婚嘅。
I really like this ideas, although arrange marriage is Not everybody cup of tea. But it is much safer than using dating websites. Because the background checked by the parents or relatives.
好有趣的題目，又可以見識其他國家文化。支持你繼續拍yt👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
幸運的一對❤
好有趣！Lily你多啲訪問你爸爸媽媽，等我們可以了解下他們的趣事
Love your parents and this interview!
Question for your parents: were they ever worried they might not get along with each other or the other's family since they had never really spent any time together before getting married?
I think they didn’t have a choice at that time to think this way, they had to make it work 😢 but I am so glad they did 😂❤
你daddy好靚仔有型！叫佢出多啲鏡啦😆
新德爸爸好靚仔
祝你一家人家庭幸福 健康快樂
祝你daddy and mami 永遠幸福快樂😊
Interesting!! Wish you and your family happy as always!
莉莉爸爸係好男人 👍世一
莉莉講到眼濕濕...
you are very blessed 🙏 I am so happy to see you have a very sweet intimate family relationship
An arranged marriage is actually a good idea. First of all it takes the pressure and expense out of dating. At least 6 out of the 6 people involved will be happy. 😍
Good video mate take care
Wow your cantonese is excellent. 👍 ❤ watchin u.😊 luv at 1st sight, that is soo sweet,
Love watching your RUclips ! It’s interesting & covered with happy contents. ❤ 15:59
Very interesting. This family is so full of love.
Daddy可以娶到高學歷白富美既原因，除咗門當戶對之外， 一定重有靚仔呢個強項🤭
Thanks for sharing - love this video
覺得新德莉莉的父母親很可愛！！🤣🤣🤣🤣
好似第一次聽爸爸講咁多廣東話。以前既婚姻，好似而家見工請人咁
In Indian, still so many people would choose arranged marriage rather than love marriage.
Even they had love marriage, if he could choose again would choose arranged marriage.
Perhaps it's because the bride will live with the whole family, not only with the groom, if choose by family, would have less conflict when living together?
is it how it work ?
Happy family👏👏
Very indepth interview
其實相睇（btw 未聽過包辦婚姻依個字.....台灣話？）呢個system以前喺香港都好流行架啦
香港叫咩㗎？😮😊
@@Newdellily相睇，或者叫相親
Daddy so handsome and gentle.
Mommy so elegant. Sweet family🎉
get well soon
想問下印度人結婚，會唔會以前中國人咁要夾下‘’八字‘’？印度好似都有佢自己一套占卜學問
我之前有拍過一條關於印度風水嘅片，可以睇返～♥️
@@Newdellily 😃今次同上次印度風水嗰集唔同，今次我哋幾位網民 (包括本人) ，都好奇想知，印度人結婚 (當然家底好啲嗰個階層嘅印度人) ，會唔會睇男、女二人嘅出生日子，睇兩個人嘅性格、喜好等各方面因素夾唔夾‧
@@Newdellily 😃😃 想滙報吓畀莉莉同KU您哋兩位聽，我尋晚食過您哋之前推介過嘅，重慶大廈廉價南印度咖喱‧
首先，因為唔係Set lunch而係晚餐，所以咖喱雞飯係唔包飲品 (瑪沙拉茶) ‧咖喱雞飯本身有4格配菜，右邊數起頭兩格配菜唔辣啱食(係豆類同椰菜絲之類)，但左邊頭兩格配菜就好辣，嗰浸辣味喺口腔喥，係隔好耐時間先至散緊一半‧咖喱方面屬半小辣狀態，都算食得到嘅；而唔落糖嘅瑪沙拉茶係好飲，亦係只有無糖，先飲到佢嘅原味(唔肯定係咪香茅味)‧
至於印度甜品，原本點印式紅花雪糕，但尋晚店員話冇，所以就轉叫最鐘意同食開嘅鮮奶芝士球‧☹☹不過就同以往食過嘅鮮奶芝士球係兩回事，可能南北印度飲食唔同，佢哋嘅鮮奶芝士球，實質係糖水白甜波‧依家諗返起飲嘅瑪沙拉茶，以往飲嘅係薑味，但尋晚呢間嘅瑪沙拉茶似係香茅味，😋香茅味都係好飲嘅‧
埋單計數之後(原總數97蚊)，因為老闆娘好好人，畀25蚊Discount我，所以都係收我75蚊，唔係套餐形式都唔駛100蚊‧但依家諗返起，唔知係咪因為我叫少飯 (喺出面食飯食唔到成人份量，通常叫少飯‧)，所以就平畀我‧
新德嫣咪識聽中文嗎？
好叻廣東話
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😅😅🙋♂ 唔好意思，漏咗一條問題未問.......咁 Aunt 依家出街，係著開傳統印度女裝？ 定係時裝？ Aunt 住喺香港咁多年，幾時著時裝，幾時著印度裝，應該有得自己揀嗱啩？.......
媽咪而家出街都係着牛仔褲加上身，但係去親戚屋企會著傳統衫❤😊
@@Newdellily
🧨🧨🧧🧧😁😁新德莉莉恭喜發財，恭祝新德莉莉一家，身體健康，龍年進步，同時亦祝福新德莉莉嘅Channel ，喺來年內容豐富，發掘更多關於印度文化嘅事 Share 畀我哋網民‧😄😄👍👍👍在港嘅印度女性有自主權去揀自己喺咩時間，咩場合著衫，我都戥妳哋高興 (😅😅利申：我自問唔算係女權主義嘅忠實Fans )‧
雖然我哋唔係印度人，但喺擴闊國際視野層面，全球一體化嘅時代(包括互聯網、社交媒體嘅世代)，國與國之間嘅文化交流，相比起1980及1990年年代多咗同深入咗‧能夠認識印度以及外國人嘅文化，係一種福氣🪅🪅‧💪💪💪💪💪💪莉莉加油😃😃
啊 片頭無左印度神燈
點到即止was well
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🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
有没有Caste issue?
佢哋同一個caste所以冇問題😅😊
你daddy speak 🗣️ fluent Cantonese
你爸妈这个在我认知里算是相亲结婚，不算是包办婚姻，因为你的外公还是有让你妈妈做选择的，他还是希望自己的女儿幸福的，因为我看网络上还有的包办婚姻是女生是到结婚那刻才知道自己要结婚了
😂囡 我幫你安排左相親
我有KU啦🤣🤣🤣
想知會唔會跟種姓嚟結婚🧐
都會😊😊
點解你父母生兩個BB咁少？
其實唔少，我啲親戚全部都係兩個至三個😅
你媽咪有冇話過你唔識煮野食😂😂😂又或者佢都覺得都冇問題😂
有問題都冇辦法😛😛😛😛
呀！！！！！我中意睇呢D八掛片啊
印度女性係未唔存在嫁唔出的？
之前一定要嫁得出，但係而家就唔同啦😊