Good Men Chasing Bad Girls
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I see a lot of guys trying to save the wrong women. Don't do that becasue it's not your problem and don't be stupid.
Exactly.
Man you so right ... them head doctors get me every time! I mean she can be The Bad girl but if she can make me bust in her mouth I gotta talk myself out of marrying her!!
Their sex game is 9000.
Never try to be a “Captain Save-A-Hoe”. She don’t wanna be saved
Truth.
Lawson S. Ain't that the truth
I learned this lesson at 20 years old. I am 26 now. I dated a woman who was 23 when I was 20. She had a cute face, nice, luscious curly hair, and a nice body and seemed outgoing and fun, but she turned out to be mean, rude, and had drug issues and would just use me and take advantage of me, because I was still green back then. She ended up going to prison for help having a future boyfriend killed. Fortunately that was not me. She ended up dying from a brain tumor while in prison. This happened in the DMV and made national news and Tommy Sotomayor talked about it. She did not look good in her mugshot, as she was using drugs for sometime, but she was model looking, when I was with her. It was also this actress from the movie Trippin from back in the day who looked great in 1999-2000 but chronic drug use had her looks go away fast.
That's how it happens.
"Her basic nature always comes out." Couldn't have said it better myself.
Yep.
Guilty as charged😁. In my younger days I had a thing for that type of woman.
They got phat asses.
I can honestly say that I'm not the type of guy that gets far with the bad girl. Tbh I'm glad that I never got fat with them and never dated them. Either they walk away or I walk preventing myself from being hurt. I can honestly say that I learned to watch for the signs of a woman who is interested but moreso to focus on good women.
You're a wise man.
Definitely true?💯🙏 Opposition Attracts but a wise man know what’s good and what’s not .. Be smart but never a fool 💯💯 I learned that from Rom during an old video💯
Truth.
Overtly bad and sexual women have never been attractive to me. These women are more teases and time wasters in my personal experience. I have always had better experiences with feminine "good girls'' who *seemed* to have less sex appeal but were more uninhibited behind closed doors.
Good women are definitely in the same situation in reverse sometimes . I guess its the excitement on both sides.
In my personal experience, I've never witness guys chasing bad girls, I have seen good men, pursing physical ATTRACTIVE women, that might have a lame attitude. I've never heard men say, "oh she's too nice, I cant be with her, she's doesn't bring drama to my life" etc...I've seen women getting with some lame ass dudes, no looks, but he had a certain, danger mystery to them
Andre Eli same here.
cortez smith whenever I hear women say men chase "bad girls" most of the time it a a ugly girl argument. Some women complain about men chasing attractive women and want to attach (good looking women=bad girl) and that's not the case. ANY woman, short, tall, long short hair, kinda slim, kinda thick dark, brown, light skin can be sexy as fuck IF she puts EFFORT into themselves. Men don't ask for much like women do.
Andre Eli exactly. women ask for fucking superheroes
A car wreck is a car wreck. I had to learn that the hard way.😰
Truth.
If you only get one thing out of this whole podcast listen from 9:00-10:00 mark. I had a brief battle with insanity in terms of chasing bad women. Thank God my mother not only saw it but she was honest enough to tell me about myself so thankfully I never got caught up.
Other women see it before we do.
Michael Sanders It happens. Hopefully everything turned out for the best for all sides.
That's it right there. Who a person is will inevitably surface. They might try to be on good behavior to try to gain your trust, but signs of who they really are will be apparent if you pay attention.
I had a big grin on my face when I saw the title. Good video as always!
I rather have a boring good woman then an exciting bad one. Sucks that it's too many bad girls out here single than good woman
Good women get snatched up quick.
I personally subscribe to the faith of The Israelites.. that being said in order for the woman to change she will have to encounter a road to Damascus experience.[ I cannot change her personal] I've wasted many hours and sleepless nights arguing/ debating with women trying to get them to change a habit that's detrimental to the relationship[all bc I was thinking with my ROD]..I'm pushing 40 and I've had these experiences in my 20s in early 30s.. what I've learned this far is that I have to see consistent progress and the necessary changes for the relationship to grow... Peace brothers
That's what's up.
Maurice Lindsey there you go and believe me my young brother there's some women out there going to have that life-changing experience
Eddie Winslow and Superhead ring a bell?? Lol
Exactly.
supa dupa .. that's sad, I got kinda acquainted with Karrine years ago in LA
I like that you mentioned "being realistic" at the end. I admit that I'm a dog but part of me being a dog is because I've been realistic when it comes to women. A woman should earn your commitment
Exactly.
Be aware of satan's girl. Don't be loose around bad people.
...and once we leave em alone the rest will fall right into place with common understanding and then relationships will become better. The only thing is how long will it take?
Things might change sooner than we realize.
4:40 project pat - don't save her.
The hood sermon that I live by.
Reminds me of that story on Reggie Bush about 18 months ago getting his side chick pregnant. And she was a KNOWN GROUPIE who tried to get knocked up by Alonzo Mourning.
He should've known better. That chick probably seduced him and teased him until he couldn't take it any more. That lust is a monster if you don't keep it under control....
Athletes especially need to to watch themselves.
Also as guys. We got to do better at declining sex.
said no man EVER! lol
She Socratic Stoic not me. I decline ratchet tomestome chances sex at all times
smart man!
GamerGee I say no to that bad pussy quick the older you get you just don't have time for that anymore
I can believe that. I've been trying to get with my former boss for 10 months now. He's seriously playing hard to get. I am making progress though. He's 54 years old. He's making me work too hard for the di$k
Bad girls only get you into trouble in the not so fun kind of ways. I mean, it starts out fun and then as you get close it goes downhill like the Dow Jones Average lol
LOL
Don't go for Shahneequah, got it 👍
I used to do this
One of the chapters in my life that I struggled with because she was a "bad girl" struck in a pretty girl body or a "pretty girl" with bad girl tendencies....Dam! she had some good cake.....smh
LOL
For some reason listening 2 this brings 2 mind the Russell Wilson and Ciara situation.. this brother said "God told me it is my duty 2 lead her right and protect her" #foolish.. and Rom you know some of these Pastors, Bishops and Priests the only pimps out here that have non-profit organizations and can't be arrested 4 laying down there PIMPIN'
I started to mention Russell. It never ends well.
Favored One .. NO HATE sweetheart, I just believe she is a great example of hypergamy on display.. and to a greater extent Russell Wilson is a good example of the kind of brother Rom is describing in this video.. to be honest I'd date her, I just wouldn't marry her.. especially with the mind-set he had when they were getting acquainted and besides based on her actions I would say she is still in love with her 1st childs father.. but I guess she's just looking forward to the ( Future ) #LMAO
preach brotha!!!
#standing ovation
Favored One exactly. They think we are one dimensional and can't grow.
Favored One .. 1st of all.. I do believe women can move on if a relationship for some reason does not work and I believe that most grown men would agree with me, however to say that Russell Wilson is an upgrade from Future for Ciara.. I think U would have to be Ciara or know her very well in order to determine or say what an upgrade is for her!
I personally don't know if Russell Wilson is an upgrade, ( financially only ) I'm not even sure if he is an upgrade in terms of social status above Future) what I do know is he was a gullible option because if you look into the men she's dated in the past, give me 1 example of a guy she's been with that in any way is like Russell Wilson and just being a woman yourself, maybe you have children.. maybe you don't but you can't tell me that it's impossible for you to still be in love with an EX-man you used to be with, just because you perceive your new man to be better suited for you.
Awe the proverbial "Drama Queen" if we're being candid most men fall willing "victims" to her. We want what we can't have knowing intuitively she's a "man eater" in the end it's about the conquest I suppose her pheromones plays a role also thus why men keep going back. Choosing someone based on core values is more practical as opposed to idealistic notions after all life is not a "pretty women" movie you play with fire you get burned. Cause and effect they go hand in hand better safe than sorry.
"Core Values." Thanks fam you inspired a video.
You're welcome!
The crazy ones got the best act right 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks uncle Rom! Need to hear this! Not messing with a bad woman in that since but a bad woman meaning not a good fit for me however I seen the potential and apparently I can't let it go mentally .crazy ..it all work out thanks
You're welcome.
Powerful topic.
Yo Rom! Check out a film called ' Eyes from Eden'. The story reflects exactly what you talkin about. You gona love it. All u good guys need to watch it also.
Thanks for the recommendation.
i saw it just now. Luci is hot! i like her
Comeeddyy! Bobby Hemmit talked about that secret desire in men for a good "#0£"
That is so true rom
Real talk Uncle Rom! I gotta ask if you're going to do a video on the background of the royal wedding. I seen your video on "That Donald Glover Thing" on some sisters being upset with his lady friend not being black. But some of these same Women were cheering for Megan getting married Saturday?!?!...
I will mention it briefly in an upcoming video.
Haha!
Phase 1: Good men are, because they've never been caught!
Phase 2: Good men are, making the best out of all opportunities!
Hahaha!!! Fairytales don’t work in this reality.
Truth.
uncle Rom meant : to pimp. . . lol
LOL
I made this exact mistake recently. Then again, I figured out I was wasting my time and money on my own and then I dropped her recently as well, so that's good. But uncle Rom came through and confirmed my suspicions again!
That's what I do.
"Nice ankles" lol
Thanks unc. Timely upload
Thank you.
It’s best to learn this at a young age & be wise enough not to repeat. Nothing worse than an Old Fool. !
Real talk.
That was me, i recently stopped chasing broads cuz i only pick scum, im waiting on a broad to scoop me now 🤷🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Would a "good guy" dating or wifing a dancer/stripper fall into this category?? Or not all strippers are "bad"? Lol
supa dupa LOL Save ya heart fam. Maybe not all are bad but keep it real...what man wants a woman who makes money grinding on dicks?
Definitely. Strippers are best suited for Player types.
mostly all strippers just want love, haven't you heard?
This is a great topic man 🔥🔥🔥
Thanks.
Great video, I don't seem to attract the ratchet type of women, I believe I am a repellent by me working most of the time, and doing my art thing on the side. The flip side on the coin is the women I'm trying to talk to whom are in the arts or highly educated, it's the same effect as the ratchet type women in the hood. Correct me if I'm wrong, if am overlooked something or is it the other way around being overlooked, perhaps both? Thanks for your wisdom Uncle Rom!
It's hard to say without knowing more. Just keep doing your thing though.
“I’m sorry I said pimps, I don’t wanna disrespect pimps.” LOL taking shots, I love it!!!!
LMAO!
Real talk fam! I agree with you 199%. Why, because I've personally witnessed and saw my cousins plural, go through that big time. Like you've said, the guys can be religious, good sense of humor provider, all those good things and it's still not enough! That's why I deal with those kind of women accordingly! Me personally, I don't prefer dealing with those kind women unless she just have raw sex sppeal and she's a pretty cool person inspite of her flaws but it's so rare, even then, I'll still won't be on no falling in love shit because of her background. Most women are not going to compromise with you for their behavior, I damn sure don't expect them to! I know for fact from what I've seen my few cousins go through and experience fron infidelity and toxic incidents. If you're smart and not just thinking with the head between your legs and using the main head, you'll create a serious problem for yourself especially if you had kids by her! You have to use wisdom like we talk about all the time because my relatives were told by other relatives how to deal with these women but they didn't listen, they were hooked on her good feeling vagina. It's a serious regret even my relatives moved on with their lives but you're steal somewhat stuck so brothers really have to be smart and be careful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We gotta keep our eyes open at all times.
I’ll catch up been sick this week bro
Get better fam.
Joe Cool feel better
Even though we may have a definition of a ratchet/thot/hoe etc, it would be interesting if you did a video of your definition/characteristics of this type of woman.
I'll ponder that.
9:05 I tell guys. Get your bucket list out when you're young. Do NOT wife your fetishes. Also if you smashing chicks. You gotta take emotions out of it.
Truth.
GamerGee well said and I agree with you 100%
💩I Agree with this video 100%!! I’m 24 years of age in 2018! A few months ago my ex girlfriend was pregnant when I was with her and RANDOMLY she breaker up with me and randomly became distant for a couple months and she became bitter. She never did that before she was pregnant. She was all of a sudden coming in the house late after midnight and she would lie saying she was at her first born son grandmother house which I didn’t believe because her 5 year old son was with me at the time . I damn near was taken care of him. And she had a video being in a bed on Snapchat with another guy who I never met and everyone women and men would tell me to get a dna test after them seeing the video. Then a random girl contacted me and said that my ex who I was currently with at the time was sleeping with one of her exes which I knew who he was instantly when she said the name. So she became cold hearted and threatened me when I would bring a dna test up and she didn’t want to give me my coats from her house and my broken laptop but I can always buy new stuff so fuck it. She probably gave it away anyway. And she fucked like 9 niggas that I know and 2 of them were my cousins. And this was before we broken up in the past but my dumb ass was stupid as hell. BUT NOW IDGAF ABOUT ANY BITCH IM JUST CHASING MY DREAMS NOW!!!!
Learn from that experience fam.
Lol - I just passed out "Good girl without ratchet up sex appeal" - sound like the inverse for women of a tall, dark and handsome guy with no swag,
LOL
Nah rom you meant what you said "he got a whole congregation to pimp out" lmao
LOL
I know this is off the topic.....but can someone please explain to me what is "Black love" and "Black girl magic"?
I have to get back to you on that.
We'll men need to choose better as well. Our acceptance of rachet behavior encourages it.
Video is right on. My question is this though. What would be the difference in trying to "save one" vs healing one. They both seem to have a lot of red flags.
In no way am I debating or challenging. I'm just curious. Or would that have to imply use our best judgement?.
Only Jesus saves, and therapists heals.
That's funny... There an older woman named Shaniqua who go to out Church congregation. And I could already tell by her background alone that she fit that description... #facts
What's up Big Rom, generally our mother's groom us parshely. on how to treat girls to youngladys mom have always said don't be to hard on her exspeically if mom like her I even was told give her a chance and I didn't do it because mom was looking at how the younglady acted around mom but I went by what I personally experienced with her one on one kick and missed she always thought that big butt and that smile but behind all that was pure evilness mom didn't know but my sister's did
Sounds like you're talking about me Ron. Had three evil women pull some shit on me last week. And in my past. And a few it wasn't even sexual I just had feelings or liked the wrong person. But the women from last week are exactly like the ones in this video. I'm 25 and have a full life ahead of me and a lot to gain and loose. College educated, banker but attract the wrong time of women.
Look within to see what they are seeing so you can change the paradigm.
Rom Wills So I should probably leave women alone shouldn't I Ron? I'm ask cause I never was taught the game and how to play it. I don't have any kids, decent job, a little bit of money, and want to own a business.
8:33 lmao pastors are the biggest pimps
Don't insult pimps like that.
Rom Wills lol my bad
did you look at my video on my Extras channel cus i made a video about this same topic 2 days ago?! hmmmm?? you biting Rom?!! ahahaha! im j/k. great minds think alike. it's good to have more stuff about the same things so we can instill things with these dimwits out here to get the bigger picture. great video as always ROM!
Oh wow. I need to check that out. Yeah the more men who speak on these things the better.
here it is. ruclips.net/video/uQv2GMcSoc4/видео.html
This reminds me of my early 20's. I can truly say this (because i know brotha ARC mention this in one of his videos). I was one of those few men that was actually wanted a relationship (not a platonic) and not just a booty call just to get pussy while getting called for it. I will agree with you brotha rom. You have some of bad girl does seems to go after the good men (trust me i know). If you men are not careful these women will make a good man turn evil.
Men need to know that.
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Guilty as charged!! In general, good girls have an average sex game. That's another way that they have a hard time keeping a man.
I'm not here to teach a women some dope sex game. She has to have it already or I will get bored.
I definitely don't do the save a hole thing either. I'm only going in the public with a lady.
On the flip side though. I did have a thing with a stripper who had a weak sex game too.
I feel you.
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Uncle Rom, can you do a video on how to identify born again virgins?
They'll tell you as you are trying to take off her clothes.
Always assume until they prove otherwise
First!