1. Smile (show openness & that you're happy) 2. Maintain your gaze (create and maintain eye contact with him; modify this to your personality) 3. Compliment him (compliment him on things that men like to get complimented on e.g strength, performance, physique, intelligent, being a protector etc-but don't over-compliment) 4. Laugh at his jokes 5. Consider your tone of voice (modify it to fit a flirtatious mood) 6. Give him your undivided attention (especially in group setting... keep his gaze etc) 7. Give light touches (be careful with the touches) 8. Don't stay in the conversation too long (keep it short and cute- leave a little mystery) 9. Over text, send him a cute picture that reminds you of him or an inside joke (not a sexual one) Be yourself, ask him questions, be open to receiving the flirtatious energy, ask God for help, He's always open to help with ANYTHING. 😊
Dr. Daff, you’re a Godsend. You’re seriously like the bff or the sister I never had. I’m innately introverted and needed these tips to literally learn how to flirt! I grew up conservative Christian and flirting was seen as taboo! This video completely helps shift my paradigm.
This video came at the perfect time in my life, someone likes me and I like him but I am scared and it's difficult because I know that I am self-sabotaging and I have praying about it. Unsure of what to do and then this video pops up, I would say that God has answered my prayer through you ❤.
As an INTJ woman flirting is CRINGE to me and it seems unnatural bc I'm SO logical & I have pretty dry humor. I feel like it's fake and for me, I show my interest in other ways. I'm interested to watch this video to see if there is something for me that feels NATURAL for me.
Wow I feel so seen by this comment. As a fellow INTJ I had a hard time speaking to a guy in a way that is not stale and argumentative. I would just say that practice makes perfect! Truly, If it feels fake and like a game then... that's just your INTJ mind trying to figure out the logic behind it. But FLIRTING can be logical! It just should come off that way. SO even though it may sound counterintuitive for me I just embraced the game of it all Smiling, touching his hand, enjoying staring into his soul to see his reaction... all of those things boosts my confidence because I feel like I've unlocked how to make a man really mesmerized. I have been told by many men that they don't want to let me go because I'm such a warm and inviting sensual aura. And now its so natural to me. But i don't flirt in a overly girly and fake way just the way that IS natural to my body. So yeah, that's my best advice sis!
@@edenbercier7511 omg thanks! This really helps. I've worked on my cold/ interrogative nature and make an effort to smile/engage more on dates. It's really just the touchy/overly flirty things that haven't worked for me. I think men like my mysterious nature, so I'll play into that more. I can do a really cute wink but I've never actually USED it in real life - maybe I'll try that on my next date 😬. Somebody needs to teach practical flirting tips for INTJs 😂
Ohhh makes sense. You really let him do the talking. You can ask questions and let him talk until you feel comfortable to start weighing in. It also helps you to see what kind of person he is and if he's interested in you at all or literally only talks about himself. I'll make content on this for you 💋💋
Thank you so much Dr. Daf. I am definitely that shy girl you described. I’ve never felt I had a flirtatious bone in my body nor have I felt desirable. I recently prayed to God to help me feel more confident and beautiful. And He answered! A handsome young man noticed me and smiled my way and then days later your amazing video was released. Your messages mean the world to me. I am so grateful for your content. Please keep making videos and sharing your gifts, inspiring women to be all that God created them to be. 💗
Thank you. I really love your points. I love flirting! It is like a game for me. ❤ I want to improve more it to get better results. This video is very helpful
This was a very pleasurable video to watch and quite informative. Thank you Dr Daf! What I have a 'problem' with as I've been told by a few men is that I have a very piercing gaze. When you did the 'look down and look back up' example I was like.... uhhhh yeah that feels very unnatural for me. Actually feels like I'm trying too hard 🤣When I converse, I've been taught to look someone in the eye because it shows honesty and interest. Now don't get me wrong I don't GLARE goodness no😂, but I look intently at the person I'm conversing with if that makes sense. Guess I have some practicing to do. Time for a heart to heart with the Holy Spirit! Thanks once again!🥰
Thank you so much darling 🩷 Yes that gaze sounds intense. But the look up and down is more for the initial point of getting his attention. In an actual conversation you would want to look him in the eye. But if your gaze is a bit too intense you can try balancing that out by doing more smiling as he is speaking. You're so welcome honey 🩷 God will help you!✨✨
I think I initiated with my husband 15 years ago. But being shy, when it came time to say bye, i was just going to walk away; and he grabbed my hand. So, we both kinda initiated. I have been the masculine in the relationship all these years. It needs to stop. I'm letting him take over. I also do that shy gaze with him. After all these years I still get shy around him.
Wow. You are the woman, who wrote on another Dr's video that you apply her techniques and it makes your man treat you differently, so I guess that really works! Good job, girl!🌹
Thanks for your yes. I love how God is using you. ❤ too much to write but I want you to know your videos have helped me embrace the woman God created me to be 💕
Hi sweetie by looking your personal best as much as you can and letting the man do the chasing after you in conversation. I can do content to help you with this 🩷 This could also be a deeply rooted issue if you feel this only with men. Have you watch my series "Fiercely Feminine"?
Nice video. Thank you. As Christian women we cannot have sex outside of the marriage bed. ( sex is only for the. honeymoon night after the marriage covenant is made to God)
So i met this man i really liked 😅. It was so hard talking to him. I gathered courage and asked him about what he had in his hands (a phone). Before he could say a word, i looked him deep in his eyes nd he got the message. 😅😊 The point is that i wanted his attention nd not the answer. 😊
How do you flirt to get your husband’s attention when he’s a workaholic and nothing works to get him to want you until he gets what he desires from work?
What if the guy you're into seems to not like being touched in any way. Makes you feel like you're cheap???? I know how to flirt,I see movies and videos and read stuff. But m shy, an introvert and socially awkward. Infact i used to be a tomboy until i stumbled on what of your videos. So all these feminine stuff is kinda haaard for me. What should I do.
Hi honey if he doesn't like to be touched don't touch him. You can still flirt by laughing, smiling, being interested in him and doing whatever comes naturally to you. You don't need to pretend or act. Just be intentional about being genuinely into him and it will show. 🤍✨
Hi Dr. Daf! Could you explain how to maintain friendships with men? I don’t know how to do that without sending the wrong message if I’m not interested OR how to just be friends when I am (I deny the opportunity from them). I feel like I may be ruining my chances at love by denying being friends first.
1. Smile (show openness & that you're happy)
2. Maintain your gaze (create and maintain eye contact with him; modify this to your personality)
3. Compliment him (compliment him on things that men like to get complimented on e.g strength, performance, physique, intelligent, being a protector etc-but don't over-compliment)
4. Laugh at his jokes
5. Consider your tone of voice (modify it to fit a flirtatious mood)
6. Give him your undivided attention (especially in group setting... keep his gaze etc)
7. Give light touches (be careful with the touches)
8. Don't stay in the conversation too long (keep it short and cute- leave a little mystery)
9. Over text, send him a cute picture that reminds you of him or an inside joke (not a sexual one)
Be yourself, ask him questions, be open to receiving the flirtatious energy, ask God for help, He's always open to help with ANYTHING. 😊
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Dr. Daff, you’re a Godsend. You’re seriously like the bff or the sister I never had. I’m innately introverted and needed these tips to literally learn how to flirt! I grew up conservative Christian and flirting was seen as taboo! This video completely helps shift my paradigm.
I'm so happy to hear that babe!💋 Sooooo touched to be your big sis. So much love to you 💕
Are you no longer a conservative Christian
This video came at the perfect time in my life, someone likes me and I like him but I am scared and it's difficult because I know that I am self-sabotaging and I have praying about it. Unsure of what to do and then this video pops up, I would say that God has answered my prayer through you ❤.
Uuh Michelle you look gorgeous. I love it when you switch it up
lol thank you boo 💋
As an INTJ woman flirting is CRINGE to me and it seems unnatural bc I'm SO logical & I have pretty dry humor. I feel like it's fake and for me, I show my interest in other ways. I'm interested to watch this video to see if there is something for me that feels NATURAL for me.
Wow I feel so seen by this comment. As a fellow INTJ I had a hard time speaking to a guy in a way that is not stale and argumentative. I would just say that practice makes perfect! Truly, If it feels fake and like a game then... that's just your INTJ mind trying to figure out the logic behind it. But FLIRTING can be logical! It just should come off that way. SO even though it may sound counterintuitive for me I just embraced the game of it all Smiling, touching his hand, enjoying staring into his soul to see his reaction... all of those things boosts my confidence because I feel like I've unlocked how to make a man really mesmerized. I have been told by many men that they don't want to let me go because I'm such a warm and inviting sensual aura. And now its so natural to me. But i don't flirt in a overly girly and fake way just the way that IS natural to my body. So yeah, that's my best advice sis!
@@edenbercier7511 omg thanks! This really helps. I've worked on my cold/ interrogative nature and make an effort to smile/engage more on dates. It's really just the touchy/overly flirty things that haven't worked for me. I think men like my mysterious nature, so I'll play into that more. I can do a really cute wink but I've never actually USED it in real life - maybe I'll try that on my next date 😬. Somebody needs to teach practical flirting tips for INTJs 😂
I feel like I’m super friendly to everyone so it comes off as flirting sometimes! lol I’m working on it
You look gorgeous! I love this lip shade on you
Thank you! I got the flirt, I just don’t have confidence in my communication. I don’t know what to talk about once I get his attention.
Ohhh makes sense. You really let him do the talking. You can ask questions and let him talk until you feel comfortable to start weighing in. It also helps you to see what kind of person he is and if he's interested in you at all or literally only talks about himself. I'll make content on this for you 💋💋
@@drmichelledafplease do. Thank you
Thank you so much Dr Daf. ❤
Your smile is gorgeous 😍
Aww thank you honey 🩷
Yaay.. i needed this. I plan to start going out solo to be found. When I am I need to know how to flirt❤
That's awesome! 🩷🩷💋
Thank you so much Dr. Daf. I am definitely that shy girl you described. I’ve never felt I had a flirtatious bone in my body nor have I felt desirable. I recently prayed to God to help me feel more confident and beautiful. And He answered! A handsome young man noticed me and smiled my way and then days later your amazing video was released. Your messages mean the world to me. I am so grateful for your content. Please keep making videos and sharing your gifts, inspiring women to be all that God created them to be. 💗
Beautiful username
Your skin looks phenomenal! You’re glowing. Thank you for this helpful content 💗
Thank you babe 💕 and thanks for watching ✨✨
Watching this video for some newer tips for my fiancé! 😉😆☺️
I love your videos so, so much! I always look forward to them!
Wow this red lip is gorgeous
I need this❤ Please continue with more!
I'm happy to hear that babe 🩷 will do!
Thank you, for this video. There are quite a few of us who have not been taught how to do the simple things. So this is very much appreciated.
Thanks so very kindly 😍🙌God Bless sister 💕💕
And also how to kind of keep up flirting or interest without chasing
Congrats on your 300k subies my love❤🎉🎉🎉
WOW!!! This video was absolutely AMAZING!!! THIS WAS SUCH A BLESSING TO ME!! God bless you Dr. Daff ♥
I'm so happy to hear that sweetie 💕
Love this! Definitely insightful as I want to be more feminine! 💖
Thank you. I really love your points. I love flirting! It is like a game for me. ❤ I want to improve more it to get better results. This video is very helpful
This was a very pleasurable video to watch and quite informative. Thank you Dr Daf! What I have a 'problem' with as I've been told by a few men is that I have a very piercing gaze. When you did the 'look down and look back up' example I was like.... uhhhh yeah that feels very unnatural for me. Actually feels like I'm trying too hard 🤣When I converse, I've been taught to look someone in the eye because it shows honesty and interest. Now don't get me wrong I don't GLARE goodness no😂, but I look intently at the person I'm conversing with if that makes sense. Guess I have some practicing to do. Time for a heart to heart with the Holy Spirit! Thanks once again!🥰
Thank you so much darling 🩷 Yes that gaze sounds intense. But the look up and down is more for the initial point of getting his attention. In an actual conversation you would want to look him in the eye. But if your gaze is a bit too intense you can try balancing that out by doing more smiling as he is speaking. You're so welcome honey 🩷 God will help you!✨✨
Appreciate the response, stay blessed Doc@@drmichelledaf
Dr Daf aww this is amazing - just loved it - feel so much more empowered
That's fantastic! I'm so happy to hear that love!🩷 Thank you for watching ✨✨
I think I initiated with my husband 15 years ago. But being shy, when it came time to say bye, i was just going to walk away; and he grabbed my hand. So, we both kinda initiated. I have been the masculine in the relationship all these years. It needs to stop. I'm letting him take over.
I also do that shy gaze with him. After all these years I still get shy around him.
Wow. You are the woman, who wrote on another Dr's video that you apply her techniques and it makes your man treat you differently, so I guess that really works! Good job, girl!🌹
@@janny.pwhats the video?
Playing with my hair a bit is one of my favs when conversing
Loved this video!
Dr Daf you look so much BEAUTIFUL in this video 😍
Your skin is glowing and gorgeous! What type of lotion/oil do you have on your chest and arm area? I absolutely need some
You look so clean❤
Thank you this video was so helpful! 💗
You're so welcome babe! Happy to hear that 💕
Love you so much. Love the video. I agree with everything u said
Love you too babe 💕 Thank you for watching ✨✨✨
the anointing! the Value, I was searching for comfort and was led here, we are blessed, thank you so much dr daf ❤️🔥👑😍
Thanks for your yes. I love how God is using you. ❤ too much to write but I want you to know your videos have helped me embrace the woman God created me to be 💕
I agree!!! She is amazing!♥🙏
Thank you so much Dr. Daf.. loved this video. Love you ❤️
Omg the first thing i thought was we need a hair tutorial lol
Thank you Dr Daf, valuable advice indeed
You're so welcome love 🩷 Happy it helped ✨
Loved this
Thank you for watching love 🤍✨
When I hear your voice..it is sooo soothing..thank you🥰..especially with all the vitriol on these YT streets😏…🥰🌺🙏🏽
At my 40, I’ve always being told I’m such a flirt even by women😢..
note: being pretty, fit , smile and kind always work wonders!! ❤
Thank you for this video Dr micheal really helpful tips🤗❤😊
You're so welcome love!
Looking forward to this one 😊
I like touching, and I know I am flirtatious. Thank you for the tips.
How do you overcome feeling ugly and “aggressive” when interacting with men?
Hi sweetie by looking your personal best as much as you can and letting the man do the chasing after you in conversation. I can do content to help you with this 🩷 This could also be a deeply rooted issue if you feel this only with men. Have you watch my series "Fiercely Feminine"?
Nice video. Thank you. As Christian women we cannot have sex outside of the marriage bed. ( sex is only for the. honeymoon night after the marriage covenant is made to God)
Okay Dr.Daf 😅I love this.
Yes!! I needed this 😊 because I don’t think I’m good at it. So I don’t even try.
Oh no! Just like everything else it takes practice but the more you do it the more it becomes second nature. 🩷🎉
Thank God men flirt with me lol. I don’t have to do anything
You are so lovely. I Just found you and love your content❤
So i met this man i really liked 😅. It was so hard talking to him. I gathered courage and asked him about what he had in his hands (a phone). Before he could say a word, i looked him deep in his eyes nd he got the message. 😅😊 The point is that i wanted his attention nd not the answer. 😊
LOL clever!
Song ? I love the background music
How do you flirt to get your husband’s attention when he’s a workaholic and nothing works to get him to want you until he gets what he desires from work?
What if the guy you're into seems to not like being touched in any way. Makes you feel like you're cheap????
I know how to flirt,I see movies and videos and read stuff. But m shy, an introvert and socially awkward. Infact i used to be a tomboy until i stumbled on what of your videos.
So all these feminine stuff is kinda haaard for me.
What should I do.
Hi honey if he doesn't like to be touched don't touch him. You can still flirt by laughing, smiling, being interested in him and doing whatever comes naturally to you. You don't need to pretend or act. Just be intentional about being genuinely into him and it will show. 🤍✨
I've realised i unconsciously modify my voice in a filrty manner in unnecessarily situations 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
LOL!!! It's not just you babe
I love it!! Can you share advice on how to flirt with your husband? 🥰
You look amazing here!
Pilates???
Thanks sweetie! No, I wish... still trying to master that lol
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Hi Dr. Daf! Could you explain how to maintain friendships with men? I don’t know how to do that without sending the wrong message if I’m not interested OR how to just be friends when I am (I deny the opportunity from them). I feel like I may be ruining my chances at love by denying being friends first.
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