@@AB-hc8cg She has no where mentioned she 'gets taken care of' , only that her husband is the 'main source of financial income'. Also she has given various other reasons for which she considered staying but you very conveniently ignored them and just drew your own biased conclusion from her words.
It needs a special kind of fucked up person to keep two families for 17 years. With no slip ups, guilt or remorse? Honestly, I‘d be afraid he‘d kill me in my sleep.
Yep. I was married to a minister and when I found out he was living a double life I realized how disturbing that was. I worried he would kill me. I honestly believe he tried.
what's so fucked up about it? If a man can happily keep up with two families without issues, that takes talent. He obviously loved both of the families. Men are biologically wired to have many partners.
My ex tried to do this to me. We'd been together for 3 years, he cheated on me after year 2, got her pregnant and then played family with her until I found out after the baby was 3 months old. He used my car and phone to meet up with her. He also left her while she was in labor to go on a date with me. He wanted to get me pregnant at the same time, thankfully it didn't happen. He's an absolute monster.
Well... your ex Is a propper morron. The people that do this things, like OP's husband they have it down to a science. Everything Is precise. They don't mix and they have the perfecto excuse. Usually they are also business owners so they can use the business as an all purpose excuse.
This is completely crazy! The fact that this man put these two women through that omg! Also, the strength that the wife has! I hope she found a way to tell her kids in a way that wasn’t too hard for her! /:
@Yvonne Torres Context clues make it pretty obvious she means a spinning, swirling, turbulent hole in the other woman’s family. A whirlpool is a vortex, if you get caught in one, you don’t fill it up… you drown.
My grandma found out my grandpa had another family when she took my mom to the ER & they pulled up insurance & there were additional dependents on it 😬
Same. My grandmother found out he had a whole other family. It’s crazy men nowadays can’t even be a father to one family then back in the day men had 2/4 different families with children
Has his fiancé met his family ( mom/dad siblings if he has any ) because what would they think or do they know? 17 years is a very long time to be in the dark to all of this. This is crazy. I’m so glad she’s divorcing him and I hope the other woman moves along as well.
How do you explain not meeting his family? Did his family support this? Did he lie and say they had all passed (if he did karma will get him double!) What a truly evil and hurtful, selfish male-not gonna call him a man.
Honestly, I would be scared to confront him without a median or a witness of some kind. Men who could lie like that don’t usually take it very well when they are exposed. I’d be afraid that he would hurt my children and I to keep the façade up to his other family
What I wanna know is what his excuses were every holiday eg Christmas? How do you lie your way out of that year after year....Or the birth of his other kids? Was he there for that?. How stressful! This man deserves the heart attack he's got coming for him.
Something similar just happened to me. Im n my late 30's, but have been with the same man since i was 14. We have 2 kids, one starting college n a few weeks, and one starting high-school. Hes always worked away cause we live n a small town with no jobs anywhere close. We were fortunate enough to make enough money so I could b a stay at home mom. Well 3 years ago he took a job n the Virgin Islands and he missed us and came home when he could, except the last 6 mths he was there he started acting different. Even from a distance i could tell after being with him for 23 years. While there, he turned 40 and lost a ton of weight and changed his diet which was already strange when we would see him. Turns out he was living with a 20 yr old girl he had fallen in love with. He came home, i told him i was suspicious, so he says were not working out we should move on amicably. Then after all these years of being a good father, he emptied our bank account and left while i was school clothes shopping with the kids last August. We were all dumbfounded! Now he barely gives me child support and doesnt talk to the kids but once every 2 months! Talk about a midlife crisis... So were moving to the city this weekend where i found a job making decent enough money to actually pay my bills. If it wasnt for my sister halfway supporting us, we'd b homeless...
He left us an an apartment and a car i couldn't afford and weve lost everything pretty much. An older lady who was a family fruend let us move in with her to split the bills but she dued of cancer a month later... so just been a crazy year all together. He refuses to answer my calls or texts about school clothes or dental visits... cant wait to go to court finally so my kids can get what they deserve.
@@tealablu3759 It was a shock to his whole family.. and me! But I think being away from the ppl u love and care about for so long made him make stupid decisions... ive come to the conclusion hes probably always been a cheater, i just had no clue, he just fell n love then played house on an island where he worked n the day and partied at night and real life didnt seem fun after that.
He's been able to live the life on his terms; and when that didn't work out, he lived another - again on his terms. All she has is him. When he kids leave to live their own lives, all she has is a lie. I would cripple him financially. I would collect evidence, and then I would take it all. If he had a pot to piss in, I'd take that too.
I'm super curious how long she was going to remain his fiancée. You can only pretend you're going to marry someone for so long. Or can you have marriages in different states and that's not technically polygamy?
One of my old highschool friend's rich dad had another secret family and another girlfriend on the side. I was shocked but it completely made sense as soon as I heard about it. Being married to/with one person is already a lot how can you have secret families &/or secret S.O's?!
My great grandfather had families in different countries (we have found one but there is almost definitely one other). It wasn't until recently when two of his grandchildren from the different families got talking in a taxi about their family history and started to notice a lot of similarities! Luckily they are lovely and a welcome addition 😊
Wait, so it was a chance encounter between two of the grandchildren in a taxi that revealed this and connected you all? That is absolutely wild! So many people are learning family secrets through genetic testing but to stumble upon the other family by chance, two generations later- wow!
@@TziporaRaphaella Crazy right? It would have all been revealed through genetic testing eventually but the fact that it was a chance encounter instead ended up being super lucky as some of his kids were still alive and so we were able to meet that older generation before they passed away!
@@jazmincortez1054 ur right but I know there are some states that the partner has the right to assests if they were a life/long term partner. I don't remember the legal term but it exists. N she could have child support too that's definitely a possibility. But it was a smart move that she is financially independent from him. I feel bad for the 1st wife that isn't but again she is married to him so she is guaranteed some type of assets.
I’ve always wondered how tf people manage to financially support TWO families. A lot of people can’t even support one family on a single income. Just shows the gap I guess.
My best friend had a similar situation to this story. She has a half brother that is the same age as her younger brother. Her dad is still dating the other woman. Her mother divorced him. Its been a while since it happened but you can still see the affects on all her siblings. Her dad even acts like they have issues for not giving the other woman the time of day. Men can be disgusting.
I'm just stuck thinking about that second family. There were two births that either he went to "work" for, or missed. So many birthdays or anniversaries to be in attendance for or not, on both sides. I can't even imagine the manipulation and hiding this man has to go through.
Makes me sick to think that he probably calculated the whole thing also. Like maybe persuading one of the wives to try and have kids at a certain time for everything to be right and fit his disgusting little two family plan.
In my opinion i would not stay, 17 years is so long! If shes worried financially depending on the state if she asks for divorce due to adultery she will at least get some lump sum for, im so glad shes choosing a divorce!
This happened to my mom's best friend's sister. He had two sets of kids, bought those kids identical cars, bought the wives identical cars. When it all came out the other woman stayed with him.
I’m way too nosy to not see these things. Smh God bless her heart. That amount of time of being with someone can tear you up! Imagine the trust issues for her future 😩
When it’s right to take him for all he is worth, those are all her feelings that’s normal You go throw a lot of feelings That’s thought process is wild . That’s why people need to take time to think And not just react
This guy isn't as loving and providing as she says he is. I don't care what she says and even though we don't know him personally, this is completely manipulative and people who can do that really don't truly love others. I'm glad this woman is divorcing him. My uncle would go on "mission trips" to the Philippines every year for over a decade and ended up having a family there👀
Im a little more shocked hes able to juggle being the financial source running two branches for both families and is a good dad and apparently husband to both families like how you have that kind of energy haha
The thing with these kind of second family cheating situations is it always comes out and the longer it lasts the more complex it becomes the wider the circle of people who will be hurt by what you have done. Even if it doesn’t come out until your dead people who once had warm loving feelings towards you will now have to deal with their memory of you being forever tarnished.
I'm only a few minutes into the video but I hope she realises that she's not the one tearing the family apart, he did by cheating on her and having a second family.
Immediately after finding that out I wouldn’t be able to act normal for 17 SECONDS, let alone the 17 YEARS he’s been living a split life! This is UN. REAL.
The story about the woman knowing the husband cheats because he comes home with presents, reminds me of an old Danish movie from 1967 where one of the women gets so happy because the husband honked the horn when he came home and didn't have flowers with him..... so disgusting!
Same reason I don’t like presents like flowers or chocolates for no reason It gives me chills. My father did this after every fight with my mom. He’s a great dad but omg and awful partner
It’s not very hard to fool a loving heart. Marriage and love are about trust, so a decent partner won’t snoop, but rather be cheated on than stoop to such a level.
My first reaction was talk to the other partner and get her on the same page so you can confront him in the lie-better to provide a united front to find the truth.
literaly know a family like this. the mom LOOKED THE OTHER WAY and pretends it is not happening. Everyone knows... including the kids... and pretends otherwise. The dad... brings his infant from his other family around and "baby-sits a friend's kid" when he is mad at the mom to torture her. Mom will occasionally snap and calmly talk about killing him to his face. the eldest daughter of family 1's best friend is a dog who was likely a puppy given to a child from family 2 and taken away by the Dad as a punishment (the dog has family 2s info on their microchip). It is wild and I am so thankful my friend moved out bc those parents act like an family from an ID show where one of the. snaps and murders the whole family then themselves
From what I know double lives prone people are associated with personality disorders, so from that perspective his mind needs this and he adapts to get what he wanted.
Are these two women not calling him in the evening or in the night? No video calls or chats? No goodnight to the other kids before sleeping? How does that happen?
Well, a friend of mine had this thing with his parents, and it was known. His father had two lives, in different countries, and after like 20 years they are together exclusively.
That’s a con man with a complete double life. 😢 I bet if the wife told the right people about this story, a writer would have a book published, and a producer would have a lifetime movie made on this story. Terrible. I can’t imagine.
I know you have kids and it is harder to travel but she never went to visit him at his other branch in 17 yrs?! I mean no excuse for cheating but that's crazy to me that he gave no clues?? I agree there had to be slip ups and she just ignored it. That's wild. Also this other family... did they never meet his parents or siblings?
I’m in this situation.You think you know someone after 10 yrs. I found out 3 wks after I had our son he had a girlfriend for over a year and she was pregnant too. He begged to work it out. We did counseling ect and I stayed at my moms house with the baby. Meanwhile he moved her and her kids and their new baby into (OUR) house. All my and my sons stuff was still there. She slept on my bed, their affair baby slept in my sons crib and played with his toys. I went there one day and found out. She was wearing MY shirt. It was surreal. It was like she took over my life and he replaced me and our son so seemlessly. All while still claiming to love us and want us to be a family. To this day he still says he wants us back, mind you, still lives with AP and doesn’t pay child support. Some people are just heartless. His excuse is, he feels like two different people, so he wasn’t unfaithful to me because it was his “other” personality doing this. Wtf!??? If you met him you would never think he was the type capable of anything like this. Very mild mannered, funny, likeable guy. All our friends/ family were shocked. He devastated my life.
speaking from experience, financial dependency is the worst. THE WORST. so many of us are raised with things like "we are your family" "this money that i am earning is both of ours" "what do you need i can buy you that" "why would you get yourself tired when i can bring home the money we need" "you don't need to work because we have the means" and so much other shit from partners or parents. We grow up thinking that okay, they bring in the money and i handle the house and we work ourselves to death trying to manage studies or kids with all the chores to the point we even lose our social life. But we love them and of course in a relationship both parties can have different roles and this is our role... but then the rose colored glasses come off and we realize we were never actually appreciated for anything that we did and were nothing more than a free maid. but it is almost always too late. no money, no friend to rely on, a lot of the times our degrees are small or outdated for us to get a job not to mention trying to reintegrate into the social situations that revolve an office.... to this day i have not been able to understand if it was a cultural issue, or if my parents raised me like this knowingly so they can abuse me even more... or was i an absolute idiot for believing their words... funnily enough when i look at it now... they always had enough money to stop me from working but never enough to get a maid or any kind of house help
That man has two kids with this woman. Was he there for the birth of those kids? They’ve been together 17 years. No wedding plans? All of this is sooo suspicious and the other woman must’ve had some feelings about his absence. She was raising those babies without him half the time from the get go. How did she make her life work? Did either of these women have access to his bank account(s)? What about his cell phone? Was he constantly changing his Lock Screen photo to a pic with his family of the week? I have so many questions.
I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if the second family accepts it. My dads father had a whole other family and the other woman was fully aware and the children are fully aware and even have beef with my dad’s siblings for not forgiving their dad for having a whole other family (that’s not the only reason they despise him btw)🙄
homeboy might have a 2nd family but he isnt going to have one life soon.. so he had older children (teens) with the engagement ring woman but married her and she has young babies? so who is actually the other woman? so she must have no idea about how his money is spent. unless he is having 2 separate accounts.
The wife's youngest is graduating (I assume HS) so I think she was just reminiscing on the fact that she raised their babies while he was secretly out with this other family. Wife and Husband have been together way longer than the engaged woman.
Found out over Xmas my now ex has a baby born recently I didn’t no about after he constantly accused me of cheating as im van driver work with mostly men. Turns out he was deflecting. It stings cause we had 5 yrs of infertility. But I now see that a the greater powers protecting me from his abusive toxic alcoholic ass. So painful but every day I try more to keep going. 😢 for anyone from uk I had a real life Eastenders Xmas
Worst part feel like I wasted 5 yrs of my 30s now I’m pushing 40 a baby is likely to be less n less likely. Not only that but jerk ran my car into the ground an I can’t afford to replace it so just keep footing to bill to repair. An he gets to run off happy new family which his family have now learnt of the baby posting pics of welcome to the family. Stings like hell. Blocked every damn one of them now to protect my space
I’m thinking he had an affair early on with the woman he’s not married to and he probably got her pregnant resulting in him being to scared to cut her off or tell his wife
That kind of stories let me know woman cant be economically dependents and if you found out put your emotions down and make a plan for your get out. If you need to decompress plan a friends trip and use every once of your strength to play the best act of your life. But don’t act base on tour emotions to later have ur ex partner use their power to abuse of ur rights
After I got over the shock, I would've sent him a friend request...
Omg yes 🙌🏾
I’d send the fiancé a request 😂
And the fiancé too yup!😭💀 Make sure all family pictures/ wedding pictures front and center 💀 watch this
Yup
🤣 savage. I love it 😂
can we talk about the fact Justin has not 1 not 2 but 3 different drinks LMAOOO
This is my life. One water for hydration, one coffee for caffeine, and one drinky for fun 😊
@@briannahatcher9422 facts only
Gotta keep the taste buds guessing.
This is so sad. Her thinking that maybe she should stay with him anyways. Breaks my heart
Of course she does, she gets taken care of and probably has a nice life
@@AB-hc8cg And you know all about her life now, don't you?
@@rain01250 she mentioned it in the video? Pay attention
@@AB-hc8cg She has no where mentioned she 'gets taken care of' , only that her husband is the 'main source of financial income'. Also she has given various other reasons for which she considered staying but you very conveniently ignored them and just drew your own biased conclusion from her words.
@@rain01250 that tells you everything you need to know, someday you’ll learn
It needs a special kind of fucked up person to keep two families for 17 years. With no slip ups, guilt or remorse? Honestly, I‘d be afraid he‘d kill me in my sleep.
Yup. This.
Yep. I was married to a minister and when I found out he was living a double life I realized how disturbing that was. I worried he would kill me. I honestly believe he tried.
what's so fucked up about it? If a man can happily keep up with two families without issues, that takes talent. He obviously loved both of the families. Men are biologically wired to have many partners.
My ex tried to do this to me. We'd been together for 3 years, he cheated on me after year 2, got her pregnant and then played family with her until I found out after the baby was 3 months old. He used my car and phone to meet up with her. He also left her while she was in labor to go on a date with me. He wanted to get me pregnant at the same time, thankfully it didn't happen. He's an absolute monster.
Well... your ex Is a propper morron. The people that do this things, like OP's husband they have it down to a science. Everything Is precise. They don't mix and they have the perfecto excuse. Usually they are also business owners so they can use the business as an all purpose excuse.
What is wrong with people! Cheaters are just a different breed like holy crap that crazy
So glad he’s an ex 😬
This is completely crazy! The fact that this man put these two women through that omg! Also, the strength that the wife has! I hope she found a way to tell her kids in a way that wasn’t too hard for her! /:
“I would be tearing a hole in my family and hers”… girl no! He did!
@Yvonne Torres Context clues make it pretty obvious she means a spinning, swirling, turbulent hole in the other woman’s family. A whirlpool is a vortex, if you get caught in one, you don’t fill it up… you drown.
My grandma found out my grandpa had another family when she took my mom to the ER & they pulled up insurance & there were additional dependents on it 😬
That is one heck of a way to find out!
Same. My grandmother found out he had a whole other family. It’s crazy men nowadays can’t even be a father to one family then back in the day men had 2/4 different families with children
Has his fiancé met his family ( mom/dad siblings if he has any ) because what would they think or do they know? 17 years is a very long time to be in the dark to all of this. This is crazy. I’m so glad she’s divorcing him and I hope the other woman moves along as well.
Mmm is posible his family will pardon him after some time
How do you explain not meeting his family? Did his family support this? Did he lie and say they had all passed (if he did karma will get him double!) What a truly evil and hurtful, selfish male-not gonna call him a man.
Maybe he lied about his family and said he was in the foster care system or he has never had a good relationship with them
im glad that the two women didn’t blame each other for what the man did
Honestly, I would be scared to confront him without a median or a witness of some kind. Men who could lie like that don’t usually take it very well when they are exposed. I’d be afraid that he would hurt my children and I to keep the façade up to his other family
What I wanna know is what his excuses were every holiday eg Christmas? How do you lie your way out of that year after year....Or the birth of his other kids? Was he there for that?. How stressful! This man deserves the heart attack he's got coming for him.
Maybe the other family is Jewish?
They said that he was with her on Christmas but in Albuquerque on New Years ‘working’
Something similar just happened to me. Im n my late 30's, but have been with the same man since i was 14. We have 2 kids, one starting college n a few weeks, and one starting high-school. Hes always worked away cause we live n a small town with no jobs anywhere close. We were fortunate enough to make enough money so I could b a stay at home mom. Well 3 years ago he took a job n the Virgin Islands and he missed us and came home when he could, except the last 6 mths he was there he started acting different. Even from a distance i could tell after being with him for 23 years. While there, he turned 40 and lost a ton of weight and changed his diet which was already strange when we would see him. Turns out he was living with a 20 yr old girl he had fallen in love with. He came home, i told him i was suspicious, so he says were not working out we should move on amicably. Then after all these years of being a good father, he emptied our bank account and left while i was school clothes shopping with the kids last August. We were all dumbfounded! Now he barely gives me child support and doesnt talk to the kids but once every 2 months! Talk about a midlife crisis... So were moving to the city this weekend where i found a job making decent enough money to actually pay my bills. If it wasnt for my sister halfway supporting us, we'd b homeless...
He left us an an apartment and a car i couldn't afford and weve lost everything pretty much. An older lady who was a family fruend let us move in with her to split the bills but she dued of cancer a month later... so just been a crazy year all together. He refuses to answer my calls or texts about school clothes or dental visits... cant wait to go to court finally so my kids can get what they deserve.
😔 that's horrible.. hopefully everything works out. What an ah..
@@roshie187 Thank u, me too! Lol
What the hell?? What an awful human being!!! How could he abandon you and the kids like that????
@@tealablu3759 It was a shock to his whole family.. and me! But I think being away from the ppl u love and care about for so long made him make stupid decisions... ive come to the conclusion hes probably always been a cheater, i just had no clue, he just fell n love then played house on an island where he worked n the day and partied at night and real life didnt seem fun after that.
He's been able to live the life on his terms; and when that didn't work out, he lived another - again on his terms. All she has is him. When he kids leave to live their own lives, all she has is a lie. I would cripple him financially. I would collect evidence, and then I would take it all. If he had a pot to piss in, I'd take that too.
It's always about money with you women
@@Error-my2cr I make a shitload. It's about revenge.
@@moonbunny2997 what exactly is a shitload?
@@Error-my2cr I think it's equivalent to a buttload.
@@Error-my2cr you're on the internet. On a Google owned platform. I think you can figure it out.
What was he going to do when he retired? Keep going on weekly trips? Move one family closer to the other? I so want to know what he was think.
I'm super curious how long she was going to remain his fiancée. You can only pretend you're going to marry someone for so long. Or can you have marriages in different states and that's not technically polygamy?
@@carmeltabby Nope Polygamy is illegal in all 50 states. I dont how he got away with it.
One of my old highschool friend's rich dad had another secret family and another girlfriend on the side. I was shocked but it completely made sense as soon as I heard about it. Being married to/with one person is already a lot how can you have secret families &/or secret S.O's?!
My great grandfather had families in different countries (we have found one but there is almost definitely one other). It wasn't until recently when two of his grandchildren from the different families got talking in a taxi about their family history and started to notice a lot of similarities! Luckily they are lovely and a welcome addition 😊
Wait, so it was a chance encounter between two of the grandchildren in a taxi that revealed this and connected you all? That is absolutely wild! So many people are learning family secrets through genetic testing but to stumble upon the other family by chance, two generations later- wow!
@@TziporaRaphaella Crazy right? It would have all been revealed through genetic testing eventually but the fact that it was a chance encounter instead ended up being super lucky as some of his kids were still alive and so we were able to meet that older generation before they passed away!
The best outcome is she divorce him and takes half of what he has and the 2nd woman so he's left with nothing. What he did was NOT OK.
What could the second women take if she’s not married to him? Besides custody of their children.
@@jazmincortez1054 ur right but I know there are some states that the partner has the right to assests if they were a life/long term partner. I don't remember the legal term but it exists. N she could have child support too that's definitely a possibility. But it was a smart move that she is financially independent from him. I feel bad for the 1st wife that isn't but again she is married to him so she is guaranteed some type of assets.
@@kimberlygonzalez3384 the term is known as, “common law marriage”.
@@kimberlygonzalez3384 common law wife probably doesn't apply because he is legally married.
I’ve always wondered how tf people manage to financially support TWO families. A lot of people can’t even support one family on a single income. Just shows the gap I guess.
My best friend had a similar situation to this story. She has a half brother that is the same age as her younger brother. Her dad is still dating the other woman. Her mother divorced him. Its been a while since it happened but you can still see the affects on all her siblings. Her dad even acts like they have issues for not giving the other woman the time of day. Men can be disgusting.
At the very least, her kids are grown. They are old enough to understand and move forward.
I'm just stuck thinking about that second family. There were two births that either he went to "work" for, or missed. So many birthdays or anniversaries to be in attendance for or not, on both sides. I can't even imagine the manipulation and hiding this man has to go through.
Makes me sick to think that he probably calculated the whole thing also. Like maybe persuading one of the wives to try and have kids at a certain time for everything to be right and fit his disgusting little two family plan.
I literally just got out of work from a looong day and needed a new episode. Thanks Morgan!
She said 'he calls every few hours to check up
My mind-why did he hire a hit man? Why is he making sure she is home?
Am i alone in this?
I'm in Albuquerque and I'm curious as to who he is.
Narrow it down to who has insurance firms in the are that are Also dispersed in the US
@@SuperLarebel you know how to source the real tea 🫖🫖🫖☕☕☕
In my opinion i would not stay, 17 years is so long! If shes worried financially depending on the state if she asks for divorce due to adultery she will at least get some lump sum for, im so glad shes choosing a divorce!
How can this man afford two families?!
Right! I’m struggling just to keep one afloat!!! This man has enough money for both!!!
He’s rich RICH lol
This happened to my mom's best friend's sister. He had two sets of kids, bought those kids identical cars, bought the wives identical cars. When it all came out the other woman stayed with him.
😭🤣
I’m way too nosy to not see these things. Smh God bless her heart. That amount of time of being with someone can tear you up! Imagine the trust issues for her future 😩
When it’s right to take him for all he is worth, those are all her feelings that’s normal You go throw a lot of feelings That’s thought process is wild . That’s why people need to take time to think And not just react
Just found out this is happening to me, so I came back to this episode to listen to the advice again 😭 FML
As hard as it might be go NO CONTACT with him
Omg I'm sorry ❤️..r u OK
Leave him.
So sorry, hope you are okay ❤
They were engaged? What did he plan to do when he went to get a marriage license and he was already married? Is it only state wide?
This guy isn't as loving and providing as she says he is. I don't care what she says and even though we don't know him personally, this is completely manipulative and people who can do that really don't truly love others. I'm glad this woman is divorcing him. My uncle would go on "mission trips" to the Philippines every year for over a decade and ended up having a family there👀
Im a little more shocked hes able to juggle being the financial source running two branches for both families and is a good dad and apparently husband to both families like how you have that kind of energy haha
The thing with these kind of second family cheating situations is it always comes out and the longer it lasts the more complex it becomes the wider the circle of people who will be hurt by what you have done. Even if it doesn’t come out until your dead people who once had warm loving feelings towards you will now have to deal with their memory of you being forever tarnished.
My stepsister’s FIL had affairs and his wife knew. He was orthopedic surgeon and there was no way she was going to divorce a rich doctor.
I'm only a few minutes into the video but I hope she realises that she's not the one tearing the family apart, he did by cheating on her and having a second family.
Immediately after finding that out I wouldn’t be able to act normal for 17 SECONDS, let alone the 17 YEARS he’s been living a split life! This is UN. REAL.
Have a great week all!
There is no pretending after finding that out. Right?! Poor dear.
The story about the woman knowing the husband cheats because he comes home with presents, reminds me of an old Danish movie from 1967 where one of the women gets so happy because the husband honked the horn when he came home and didn't have flowers with him..... so disgusting!
Same reason I don’t like presents like flowers or chocolates for no reason It gives me chills. My father did this after every fight with my mom. He’s a great dad but omg and awful partner
If it must be tolerated, at least get jewels as gifts. Smh.
It’s not very hard to fool a loving heart. Marriage and love are about trust, so a decent partner won’t snoop, but rather be cheated on than stoop to such a level.
17 years!!!!!
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My first reaction was talk to the other partner and get her on the same page so you can confront him in the lie-better to provide a united front to find the truth.
literaly know a family like this. the mom LOOKED THE OTHER WAY and pretends it is not happening. Everyone knows... including the kids... and pretends otherwise. The dad... brings his infant from his other family around and "baby-sits a friend's kid" when he is mad at the mom to torture her. Mom will occasionally snap and calmly talk about killing him to his face. the eldest daughter of family 1's best friend is a dog who was likely a puppy given to a child from family 2 and taken away by the Dad as a punishment (the dog has family 2s info on their microchip).
It is wild and I am so thankful my friend moved out bc those parents act like an family from an ID show where one of the. snaps and murders the whole family then themselves
15:12 it’s always a family member, or something. Including dog 😂
Justin having 3 drinks in front of him is so funny, beverage girly behavior
imagine being the other kids. they have their dad's fake last name.
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10:01 Morgan are u sure ur not just remembering an episode u watched of friends cuz that happened to joey’s mom lmao 😂
haha no its a story from the episode out tomorrow with Victoria Paris!! Its an interesting one!!
@@TwoHotTakes fair lol 😂
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From what I know double lives prone people are associated with personality disorders, so from that perspective his mind needs this and he adapts to get what he wanted.
I bet he planned on telling her "I'll take care of it all."
I think he may have two phones to avoid suspicions or slipups
Are these two women not calling him in the evening or in the night? No video calls or chats? No goodnight to the other kids before sleeping? How does that happen?
Well, a friend of mine had this thing with his parents, and it was known. His father had two lives, in different countries, and after like 20 years they are together exclusively.
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So true when there's will there is a way... I'm happy she decided to divorce. It's so sad to just look away. So many lives crumbled because of him
My dad was a kid in this situation. It truly sucks.
Do you have the link to the reddit story? I like reading and seeing comments and updates.
How can he even AFFORD 2 families??? That aside....what a p.o.s!!! Soooo selfish and narcissistic thing to do!!
wonder what his excuse would have been once he retired 😳
1st story, the girlfriend probably knows all about the first family.
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That’s a con man with a complete double life. 😢 I bet if the wife told the right people about this story, a writer would have a book published, and a producer would have a lifetime movie made on this story. Terrible. I can’t imagine.
I know you have kids and it is harder to travel but she never went to visit him at his other branch in 17 yrs?! I mean no excuse for cheating but that's crazy to me that he gave no clues?? I agree there had to be slip ups and she just ignored it. That's wild. Also this other family... did they never meet his parents or siblings?
“Who the hell is Rachel?!”
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“Make him think you love him, take his money, then you dip on niggas”
this husband sounds like a sociopath
TAKE HIS MONEYYY💅🏾🖐🏾✨😁😂
I’m in this situation.You think you know someone after 10 yrs. I found out 3 wks after I had our son he had a girlfriend for over a year and she was pregnant too. He begged to work it out. We did counseling ect and I stayed at my moms house with the baby. Meanwhile he moved her and her kids and their new baby into (OUR) house. All my and my sons stuff was still there. She slept on my bed, their affair baby slept in my sons crib and played with his toys. I went there one day and found out. She was wearing MY shirt. It was surreal. It was like she took over my life and he replaced me and our son so seemlessly. All while still claiming to love us and want us to be a family. To this day he still says he wants us back, mind you, still lives with AP and doesn’t pay child support. Some people are just heartless. His excuse is, he feels like two different people, so he wasn’t unfaithful to me because it was his “other” personality doing this. Wtf!??? If you met him you would never think he was the type capable of anything like this. Very mild mannered, funny, likeable guy. All our friends/ family were shocked. He devastated my life.
So sorry to hear that 😢❤
She needs to lawyer up and then confront him…
speaking from experience, financial dependency is the worst. THE WORST.
so many of us are raised with things like "we are your family" "this money that i am earning is both of ours" "what do you need i can buy you that" "why would you get yourself tired when i can bring home the money we need" "you don't need to work because we have the means" and so much other shit from partners or parents. We grow up thinking that okay, they bring in the money and i handle the house and we work ourselves to death trying to manage studies or kids with all the chores to the point we even lose our social life. But we love them and of course in a relationship both parties can have different roles and this is our role... but then the rose colored glasses come off and we realize we were never actually appreciated for anything that we did and were nothing more than a free maid. but it is almost always too late. no money, no friend to rely on, a lot of the times our degrees are small or outdated for us to get a job not to mention trying to reintegrate into the social situations that revolve an office....
to this day i have not been able to understand if it was a cultural issue, or if my parents raised me like this knowingly so they can abuse me even more... or was i an absolute idiot for believing their words... funnily enough when i look at it now... they always had enough money to stop me from working but never enough to get a maid or any kind of house help
That man has two kids with this woman. Was he there for the birth of those kids? They’ve been together 17 years. No wedding plans? All of this is sooo suspicious and the other woman must’ve had some feelings about his absence. She was raising those babies without him half the time from the get go. How did she make her life work? Did either of these women have access to his bank account(s)? What about his cell phone? Was he constantly changing his Lock Screen photo to a pic with his family of the week? I have so many questions.
My mom goes down the list before she gets to my name. I do it too to my kids.
She doesn’t want to ruin his second family?? She needs to be so forreal rn!
I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if the second family accepts it. My dads father had a whole other family and the other woman was fully aware and the children are fully aware and even have beef with my dad’s siblings for not forgiving their dad for having a whole other family (that’s not the only reason they despise him btw)🙄
What did that guy do to be able to afford two families as the main financial source
Wait, is this a re upload? 😳 or am I having a glitch in the matrix. I sware I heard this already.
He is just sorry he got caught. Imagine if she didn't try to make a Facebook account? This charade would have gone unnoticed.
Omg. My heart dropped.
15:15 I’m right here. 😂
I only accidentally call my kids each other’s names at times but not random ones.
You look just like Sabrina Carpenter to me🤭
This reminds me of the movie Being Frank.
The other woman knows. Good for them. The fact someone can do that is sad
Hi can I get the reddit link.
homeboy might have a 2nd family but he isnt going to have one life soon.. so he had older children (teens) with the engagement ring woman but married her and she has young babies? so who is actually the other woman? so she must have no idea about how his money is spent. unless he is having 2 separate accounts.
The wife's youngest is graduating (I assume HS) so I think she was just reminiscing on the fact that she raised their babies while he was secretly out with this other family. Wife and Husband have been together way longer than the engaged woman.
I live in Albuquerque 👀👀👀
I’m a petty bush I’d friend the fiancé on fb 🤣
I doubt this is the case and the wife wouldn't know but how odd would it be if he had a twin brother
He could’ve had his kids similar names with the same nicknames ya know incase he slipped up.
I feel like that other woman knows
The audacity men have 😭
Found out over Xmas my now ex has a baby born recently I didn’t no about after he constantly accused me of cheating as im van driver work with mostly men. Turns out he was deflecting. It stings cause we had 5 yrs of infertility. But I now see that a the greater powers protecting me from his abusive toxic alcoholic ass. So painful but every day I try more to keep going. 😢 for anyone from uk I had a real life Eastenders Xmas
Worst part feel like I wasted 5 yrs of my 30s now I’m pushing 40 a baby is likely to be less n less likely. Not only that but jerk ran my car into the ground an I can’t afford to replace it so just keep footing to bill to repair. An he gets to run off happy new family which his family have now learnt of the baby posting pics of welcome to the family. Stings like hell. Blocked every damn one of them now to protect my space
I’m thinking he had an affair early on with the woman he’s not married to and he probably got her pregnant resulting in him being to scared to cut her off or tell his wife
I hate cheaters
Nah he would have to be under the ground at this point
Wait who was the first wife and who is the other woman?
That kind of stories let me know woman cant be economically dependents and if you found out put your emotions down and make a plan for your get out. If you need to decompress plan a friends trip and use every once of your strength to play the best act of your life. But don’t act base on tour emotions to later have ur ex partner use their power to abuse of ur rights
Didn’t this story get posted already?
Feeling the same!
@@brendaguzman1775 actually a lot of their content is being reuploaded. How strange.
WHY MY CITY omg no joke live here in the land of entrapment alb/albuquerque believe me not the greatest o spots