Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated.
OMG! Why do people put up with gaslighting? Uninvite her & your parents & hire a babysitter with whatever you were supposed to spend on their meals & drinks!
shes supposed to pay for a babysiter for her SISTERS KIDS!? i agree that she should have uninvited her parents but she didnt have to pay for a babysitter thats just being a door matt and it will make lisa feel entitled to walk all over op and will just make the cycle continue
The Children belong to your Sister, it is her job as a Mother to look after her Children and not yours. If she can't look after her Children, then she shouldn't have had to get pregnant. She is obliged to save Money for her Children. If your Parents agree with your Sister, then they should spend Money on her Children and babysit. Your Wedding, your Rules.
Older sis is jealous, which is why she constantly tries to sabotage OPs life. Dates, friend hangouts and even job opportunities were ruined/cancelled, because sister hates seeing OP happy....
It is OK I can think of one person you can cut Out of the wedding your sister then she can babysit her own kids and she won’t need the spa day for the stress of going to your wedding
Probably an AI story. A lot of them do this of every so often mentioning that they posted on reddit and that people always showed them support and everyone else shared their stories. And they do this in multiple updates throughout the post.
Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated. And Facebook is nobody’s judge and jury. Who cares?
"Wait, she got away from us - how do you write an apology letter?" "We've never apologized for anything - why do you think I know what one looks like? Use the word 'sorry' in it, I guess?"
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Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated.
“Please pay mommy for her spa day.” is wild. Sister really trying everything. Even used her kids.
OMG! Why do people put up with gaslighting? Uninvite her & your parents & hire a babysitter with whatever you were supposed to spend on their meals & drinks!
shes supposed to pay for a babysiter for her SISTERS KIDS!? i agree that she should have uninvited her parents but she didnt have to pay for a babysitter thats just being a door matt and it will make lisa feel entitled to walk all over op and will just make the cycle continue
Go no contact with your family at least for a few years
It took to long for the security and venue staff to get rid of Lisa and her brats. They had already been informed about her and her tactics.
No kids,no Lisa, no parents???? All that money you're saving......YAY!!!!!
The word NO is a sentence in and of itself. If Lisa and the parents are trying to ruin OP's wedding, bann them from the venue.
The Children belong to your Sister, it is her job as a Mother to look after her Children and not yours. If she can't look after her Children, then she shouldn't have had to get pregnant. She is obliged to save Money for her Children. If your Parents agree with your Sister, then they should spend Money on her Children and babysit. Your Wedding, your Rules.
Lisa needs to get a job. Clearly she has a lot of time to cause trouble.
Just say 'I'm so sad you guys won't come, maybe another time' and go NC
Older sis is jealous, which is why she constantly tries to sabotage OPs life. Dates, friend hangouts and even job opportunities were ruined/cancelled, because sister hates seeing OP happy....
Just block them..and don’t invite them to your wedding. And get law enforcements if they come to your wedding
NTA if your mother won't take her side then ask her if it was the other way around would your mother make your sister do what she's asking for.
It is OK I can think of one person you can cut Out of the wedding your sister then she can babysit her own kids and she won’t need the spa day for the stress of going to your wedding
It's always family causing the stress
Tell your parents to hire someone to watch her kids...
This story feels like OP is posting on reddit about a post she already made on reddit and is just doing a recap of it.
Probably an AI story. A lot of them do this of every so often mentioning that they posted on reddit and that people always showed them support and everyone else shared their stories. And they do this in multiple updates throughout the post.
Tell Lisa NO, I’m not babysitting on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. And NO, I’m not hiring a babysitter for you on my wedding day, and don’t ask again. If anybody chooses not to come, that is your choice and I’ll miss you. Let them all know you won’t be manipulated. And Facebook is nobody’s judge and jury. Who cares?
There are people who don’t accept the word NO for me no end of discussion & walk away
Typical with toxic people. They always manipulate family. You'll be surprised at the things my family stressed me out with, my sil and my mother.
0:54 if u from short i think
I would gave told the patents to watch them .
You know what? U should cut the guest list short. Get Lisa and ur parents off the list. They don’t deserve to come
I dont understand why people allow others to use them and they have a problem saying NO and stick to set boundaries
Very nasty of your family ruining your wedding
"Wait, she got away from us - how do you write an apology letter?" "We've never apologized for anything - why do you think I know what one looks like? Use the word 'sorry' in it, I guess?"
Tell lisa since she can afford a spa day for herself shen afford a babysitter too
0:49 shorts people
Op would not be in this mess if she would just go no contact with her family and she shouldn't be surprised if her husband leave her
This didn happen.
The tempo is to fast