It takes courage to share, it takes courage to accept what’s happened and it will take great courage to move forward. Know this, the person that did this does not have any of your qualities and will never have courage to accept they need to reflect and change their behaviour - then think to yourself who really comes out well from this scenario. Your stronger than you know Toby and we’re all here to listen and help where we can x
Oh Becky, thank you. You're absolutely right, let's hope that they can also heal and find a way to move forward without hurting others. Thank you so much again xxx
I admit I cried this broke my heart Mikey must have been beside himself Thank goodness you are safe now and ok Your kindness of heart and spirit this person could only ever dream of
Oh Lisa, now your response is making me well up! Thank you so much for being here and so supportive. Mikey and I are feeling so much better this week and ready to move forward ❤
Oh no! Please don’t feel guilty, you should be able to live, drink as you wish, you didn’t do anything wrong! Please don’t let this dull your sparkle for too long; I love watching your videos and it really does break my heart that people can do this and the worry your loved ones must have gone through! I’m sure you’ve already agreed with Mikey that you’ll stick together from now on when you are out n about 😢 stay strong and thank you for sharing this event! ❤
You're very right. Every day that I'm processing things more and moving on I realise that I shouldn't change a thing. Thank you so much for commenting xxx
As a mum and a nana , this is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for what happened to you and this is not ok ! Sending virtual hugs to you and you will need to take time to process and heal at your own pace. Take care and I hope you will feel better soon x
So glad that you are okay Toby. Such an awful thing to happen but you are in no way to blame for the actions of whoever did this. Sending hugs, take care 💗💗💗💗
I’m so sorry that this happened to you Toby. You are the sweetest person and my heart goes out to you. Karma will get whoever did this to you. Stay strong sweetheart. ❤
Dear Toby I am so sad that this happened to you . Please don't blame yourself for having a drink and enjoying yourself! You should be able to walk the streets safely! Sadly these days this is not possible for many reasons , but there is absolutely no excuse for these people and what they did to you. I wish you strength in your recovery, and I hope that you will once again be able to have fun . You have been so brave sharing this ... Big hugs to you Mikey Ziggy and Stormy ❤
Hi Julie, you're absolutely right - I know that it's silly to feel that way, which I'm now realising. I really appreciate your kindness and love and support. xxx
You beautiful human. That was brave and honest. So sorry that happened to you. Wishing you all the best and hoping you are able to feel better when you are ready ❤️❤️❤️
So glad to hear that you're doing better. Sorry to hear what happened. I was totally shocked. Just be careful, both of you. There are crazy people out there!
Just sending you so much love. What courage you have for talking about what must have been so difficult to experience and to try to process. Please know that you bear absolutely no responsibility for what happened to you whether drinking or not. Sending you thoughts and prayers for a peaceful processing of this x
❤ Thank you so much for this message. Every time I'm reading 'it's not my fault', I genuinely feel better. I think sometimes it's just something you really need to be told. xx
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I 😢don’t understand one person hurting another, and can only try to imagine how traumatic and horrifying this has been for you (and Mikey) I wish for you, healing and strength. There is always something to be learned from every experience, and maybe the lesson here is to let you know that you are cared for and loved and supported from those close to you and from those that follow you. Sending you hugs, from a grandma in Canada.
I don't either - I could never, and am glad you're the same. That makes us better than those that would do something like that. Thank you so much for being here and commenting xx
You are so brave and I admire you so much coming on here and sharing this and making people aware. This is disgusting what happened to you! Stay strong much love xx
Oh my goodness...xx I am just so pleased that you have come through a horrible and terrible experience....and you are home safe ...with Mikey and you're fur family x. Take care of yourselves...😊❤
So brave to share what happened Toby, I’m so sorry it did, makes me sad to hear what you went through & angry that a person/people behave this way to others. Stay strong, I’m glad you are surrounded with such good people, doggies & you move on from this ❤, sending very best wishes & a hug x
Thank you so much for saying so Julie. I really did feel it was important to share things properly. Thank you so much for watching and sharing such kind words xxx
It’s just terrible so sad this has happened to you Toby. Hope they catch who ever did this to you. Wishing you lots of love. You take care of yourself. ❤️
My heart breaks for you, to not feel safe ❤️ Look after yourself and remember these people do this because they are broken people who hate themselves and want everyone to feel the same. You are a lovely, beautiful human being who deserves your lovely life. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your horrible experience I can see how difficult it was for you to express what happened hope you get stronger and stronger every day you are very courageous sending love to you both x
A very similar thing happened to me in London a few years ago, and basically my drink got spiked, as I only had one drink which I purchased myself, and luckily a friend i was meeting in the same pub, but was late, saw me walking down a road near the pub, and took me home, but I was robbed of my phone and purse, money keys etc, very frightening, I had No recollection of leaving the pub. Very sad times we live in. Sending A Huge Hug. Toby. You are surrounded by People that Love and care for you.x
I'm so sorry to hear that Sarah. It's really scary, isn't it? The feeling of being violated and vulnerable. I'm sending love to you too, as know how difficult it can be to recover from these things, even years on!
Thank you for your courage for talking about this. Hopefully this helps you heal. Take care of yourself and remember you are loved by so many who will always support you ❤
Bless you the fact you are sharing this here means you will heal and process it better. It may take time to trust in certain situations when out and about. But, just remind yourself your ok and allow yourself to feel your emotions no matter it’s ok to feel up and overwhelmed with the experience. Keep saying to yourself I’m ok this will not hold me back. Take Care x
I am so sorry that this happened to you. For me, I had just come out and told my friend that I would walk and catch a bus to get home when I was attacked from behind. I ended in hospital overnight and it took a few weeks for me to tell my parents what had happened. You are lucky to have the support of your husband. Iam so areful when I go out anywhere and also I go with a group of friends.
No one deserves this. So very sorry that you had to experience such violence and hate. You are stronger by sharing so that you can move on with your happy, giving life. Thoughts and prayers your way!
Wish I could give you a hug 😢 It’s awful that you had to go through that. Sounds extremely traumatic so take the time that you need to heal 🙏 Have loved your peaceful home vibes ever since I found your page on ig. The peace you exude through your content really shows and I can’t believe those horrible people disturbed that peace 😤
What a despicable thing for someone to do to you, I hope the person/people are caught on CCTV and are swiftly dealt with. You keep being wonderful and tbh I am such a homebody like you and love my little town. Sucks when these things happen when you venture out of your comfort zone and sort of makes you just want to stay local for safety and security
How awful for this to happen to you Toby ! what a vile person who did this and I hope karma strikes them back. Stay strong and lots of cuddles from Mikey and your fur babies .
Toby I am very saddened to hear what has happened to you, please don't put any blame on yourself, you are the better person in all of this.Sadly you were in the wrong place at the wrong time. Take time to recover, I'm very proud of you for speaking about it and making others aware...well done.We all love you and Mikey and your fur babies.... take care, try not to dwell on this for too long otherwise the person who did this has won xxx
How brave of you to share this. Why would you apologise for getting upset? Silly sausage💗. We all cry when we are hurting. Sending you much love and a huge hugzzz 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Honey, you just made me cry. Damn it I’m sorry that we live in a world where this can happen to someone as obviously sweet as you are. I’m just glad that you have Mikey and your dogs there to get you through. All the best to you.
😿 Oh Tobias ! You’re super strong for sharing exactly what happened and yes, please don’t bring it up again. You don’t deserve to relive that trauma anymore !
I’m so sorry this happened to you Toby. It is not fair & it is NOT your fault. People can be disgusting and mean and cruel and nasty. Sending all my love xxx
I am so sorry this happened to you. I had something similar happen a long time ago. I was hurt enough to have to go to the emergency room. It took me a long time to mentally get over it. I don't know if this would help you but for me it helped a lot. I went back to where it happened. For some reason I was really afraid of that place and I know that was illogical. So I went there alone. And seeing that it was a normal everyday place that nothing unusual was happening brought me partial closure. I don't know if that would work for others but it did help me.
I am so sorry that happened to you. Sad to say I understand exactly how you feel because I had the exact same thing happen to me. It leaves you feeling so broken and confused and scared. I hope they caught the evil person that did this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Mikey that you recover and heal ❤
I am very shocked that the police didn’t pick you up and assess the situation fully. Toby, thanks for sharing and being a little bit drunk in no way made you culpable- in fact being more relaxed may have saved you as you weren’t tense when that dreadful event occurred. Just to say, I know all of your followers wish you well in your recovery. It will take time to feel completely yourself as your confidence understandably will have been knocked. Sending hugs. xx
Mikey actually said the same, that being a little drunk likely helped with regard to me not being AS emotionally impacted as otherwise I might have. Thank you so much xx
Dear Toby, I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope that whoever committed this crime is caught and punished for it. When we are attacked in any way whether it is mentally or physically, we can break further and/ or overcome by becoming stronger. May you become stronger. ~ Love, from Berlin, Patricia
Hello Patricia, thank you so much for commenting. Thank you so much for saying this too. You're absolutely right, everything makes us stronger doesn't it? x
What a terrible thing that happened, try not to let it get to you too much,you have a wonderful life with Mikey and your 2 doggies ,it’s gonna be hard but try and move on,you have a lot of love around you from some of us you don’t really knowxx
Oh Toby...bless you😢 It no doubt took a great deal of courage and emotional strength to come on and talk about what happened to you. There is no way in the world that you should feel any sort of guilt. You were with Mikey enjoying yourselves at an event so why shouldn't you have a few drinks? The despicable moron that did this to you should be carrying all of the guilt.....I am sure karma will happen. You take your time and work through this as you feel you can. As well as the love and support of Mikey and your family, you have all the support of your on line followers too! Take care, rest and recoup. Lots of love xxx
Thank you so much for being so kind and supportive, as always. And for saying such kind things. It really means so much, and you're right. Thank you and love to you xxx
There are a lot of bad people out there, especially in London. This is a learning curve for you. Order a taxi from the hotel. A big hug to you, please look after yourself, we need you. ❤
Hi Toby, focus on your mental well-being and recovery. You don’t have to feel obliged to give us an explanation for what happened 😢 Your health is more important ❤ Take care and sending hugs and love.
Only just come across this Toby,This attack says more about the people that did this,than you!!sending hugs!I feel so angry!!own your power Toby and move forward.I hope that you have by now ❤️Chrissy
Oh Toby I’m so sorry you’ve been subjected to this awful person. What a git. Look after yourself & Micky it must have been horrible for him to see you like that. Stay strong . You are a far better person than he is. He is just a coward.
Toby, never blame yourself for what happened to you in London. This barbaric behaviour is absolutely disgusting and a sad reflection of the sometimes cruel society we live in. It is happening all over the UK, not just in London. There can be nothing worse than one human attacking another. People have had life changing experiences from being attacked and I am so glad you only experienced bruising but you will experience being emotional as a result. It will also affect you whilst out and about doing everyday things. It is to be expected. Seek professional help if you think you need to. I appreciate you being honest and explaining what happened. I wish I could just wrap my arms around you and give you the biggest hug possible but unfortunately can only offer a virtual hug. XXX
Thank you so much. I've already had a therapy session to discuss everything properly to begin to digest how I'm feeling, and luckily feel like I'm getting my confidence back already. Sending lots of love to you, and gratitude for you being so very kind and supportive of me xxx
Oh Toby I’m so sad for you that this has happened. It’s makes me sad and angry that there are still such hateful ppl in this world. And of course cowardly ppl. Sharing this will help you heal and you are so brave, way braver than those #%}###😡. You are entitled to have a drink and you are entitled to do as you wish and live your life in anyway you wish. This is about them, not you! Sending you much love ❤
Thank you so much for commenting and being so sweet Becca. You're absolutely right that there are still cowardly, aggressive people in the world. Let's hope they're the minority though! Love to you xx
So awful that this happened to you Toby… it must have taken a lot of courage to post this and I really hope it has helped you to process what happened and move on ❤ I think you are amazing!
Happened to me several years ago in similar circumstances, so completely understand! Am sure in my case it was targeted. Mental issues carried on for a very long time, so take time. Get help if needed.
Just came across this now, months later. So sorry it happened to you. Just three questions, were your attackers caught? Did the Uber driver help? Did the Police get your phone back?( you show 'your' phone in the video)
So very sorry to hear about this, Toby. Please don’t apologise for being emotional about this traumatic experience. Unfortunately incidents like this are a reflection of what London has become. Sending you much love & a speedy recovery from your injuries.
SO........S O R R Y........THAT HAPPEN TO 'YOU' ......D I S C E R N M E N T....IS VERY MUCH NEEEDED ....THESE DAYS ... 'YOU ALSO NEED TO DEAL WITH THE COMPANIES DELIVERY DRIVER THAT ASSAULTED YOU AS WELL...TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF................ "The Dream And The Journey Are ' One'.
It takes courage to share, it takes courage to accept what’s happened and it will take great courage to move forward. Know this, the person that did this does not have any of your qualities and will never have courage to accept they need to reflect and change their behaviour - then think to yourself who really comes out well from this scenario. Your stronger than you know Toby and we’re all here to listen and help where we can x
Oh Becky, thank you. You're absolutely right, let's hope that they can also heal and find a way to move forward without hurting others. Thank you so much again xxx
I admit I cried this broke my heart
Mikey must have been beside himself
Thank goodness you are safe now and ok
Your kindness of heart and spirit this person could only ever dream of
Oh Lisa, now your response is making me well up! Thank you so much for being here and so supportive. Mikey and I are feeling so much better this week and ready to move forward ❤
Thank you Toby for being so strong in making the decision to share this. I wish you well🧡
Thank you so much for commenting and sharing kind words ❤
“ I was drinking but it doesn’t mean I was asking for it “. Absolutely touched me. It takes courage to share this with us. Thank you.
Oh no! Please don’t feel guilty, you should be able to live, drink as you wish, you didn’t do anything wrong! Please don’t let this dull your sparkle for too long; I love watching your videos and it really does break my heart that people can do this and the worry your loved ones must have gone through! I’m sure you’ve already agreed with Mikey that you’ll stick together from now on when you are out n about 😢 stay strong and thank you for sharing this event! ❤
You're very right. Every day that I'm processing things more and moving on I realise that I shouldn't change a thing. Thank you so much for commenting xxx
As a mum and a nana , this is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for what happened to you and this is not ok ! Sending virtual hugs to you and you will need to take time to process and heal at your own pace. Take care and I hope you will feel better soon x
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As a son, thank you so much. I really appreciate your kindness and support ❤
So glad that you are okay Toby. Such an awful thing to happen but you are in no way to blame for the actions of whoever did this. Sending hugs, take care 💗💗💗💗
Thank you so much for saying so. It really has been a rocky week or so, but feeling much better today. Thank you xx
I’m so sorry that this happened to you Toby. You are the sweetest person and my heart goes out to you. Karma will get whoever did this to you. Stay strong sweetheart. ❤
I'm definitely not, but you're so kind to say so. I hope they can learn and get out of a situation where they feel they have reason to hurt others xx
Dear Toby I am so sad that this happened to you . Please don't blame yourself for having a drink and enjoying yourself! You should be able to walk the streets safely! Sadly these days this is not possible for many reasons , but there is absolutely no excuse for these people and what they did to you. I wish you strength in your recovery, and I hope that you will once again be able to have fun . You have been so brave sharing this ... Big hugs to you Mikey Ziggy and Stormy ❤
Hi Julie, you're absolutely right - I know that it's silly to feel that way, which I'm now realising. I really appreciate your kindness and love and support. xxx
You beautiful human. That was brave and honest. So sorry that happened to you. Wishing you all the best and hoping you are able to feel better when you are ready ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Marie ❤
Big hugs. Thank you for your bravery in sharing and I wish you peace and healing.
Thank you so much Helen. It really means a lot xx
So glad to hear that you're doing better. Sorry to hear what happened. I was totally shocked. Just be careful, both of you. There are crazy people out there!
doing so much better now! thank you so much xx
So brave to openly share what happened and I’m sure this will help others who’ve been through similar x
thank you so much xx
Just sending you so much love. What courage you have for talking about what must have been so difficult to experience and to try to process. Please know that you bear absolutely no responsibility for what happened to you whether drinking or not. Sending you thoughts and prayers for a peaceful processing of this x
❤ Thank you so much for this message. Every time I'm reading 'it's not my fault', I genuinely feel better. I think sometimes it's just something you really need to be told. xx
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I 😢don’t understand one person hurting another, and can only try to imagine how traumatic and horrifying this has been for you (and Mikey)
I wish for you, healing and strength.
There is always something to be learned from every experience, and maybe the lesson here is to let you know that you are cared for and loved and supported from those close to you and from those that follow you. Sending you hugs, from a grandma in Canada.
I don't either - I could never, and am glad you're the same. That makes us better than those that would do something like that. Thank you so much for being here and commenting xx
You are so brave and I admire you so much coming on here and sharing this and making people aware. This is disgusting what happened to you! Stay strong much love xx
thank you for being here! xx
Oh my goodness...xx I am just so pleased that you have come through a horrible and terrible experience....and you are home safe ...with Mikey and you're fur family x. Take care of yourselves...😊❤
Thank you so much June - you're so very kind xxx
@@Tobyshome you're welcome xx take care x
So brave to share what happened Toby, I’m so sorry it did, makes me sad to hear what you went through & angry that a person/people behave this way to others. Stay strong, I’m glad you are surrounded with such good people, doggies & you move on from this ❤, sending very best wishes & a hug x
Thank you so much for saying so Julie. I really did feel it was important to share things properly. Thank you so much for watching and sharing such kind words xxx
It’s just terrible so sad this has happened to you Toby. Hope they catch who ever did this to you.
Wishing you lots of love. You take care of yourself. ❤️
thank you so much xx
My heart breaks for you, to not feel safe ❤️ Look after yourself and remember these people do this because they are broken people who hate themselves and want everyone to feel the same. You are a lovely, beautiful human being who deserves your lovely life. ❤️
Thank you Jennifer, that really does mean a lot. Sending love x
Sending lots of love ❤️ So sorry this happened to you,,Huge hugs to you and Mikey 🥰🥰
Thank you Julie ❤❤❤
Im so sorry this happened to you. It’s such a horrible feeling of violation. Glad you are recovering well and weren’t hurt too badly!
I think that's the worst thing. Thank. you so much xx
Toby I am so sorry. You are so brave for sharing this 🥺 Sending you the biggest hug! You are amazing 🩷
Oh Chess, thank you so much. That really means a lot to me and thank you for being so kind. Lots of love to you!
Thank you for your courage and the emotional intelligence it takes to share. No one can take that.
Thank you so much. ❤
Thank you for sharing your horrible experience I can see how difficult it was for you to express what happened hope you get stronger and stronger every day you are very courageous sending love to you both x
Thank you very much for watching and sharing your kindness with me Ann, it means a lot xx
I am so sorry to hear about what happened but know how much it is appreciated. Thinking about you and Mikey.
A very similar thing happened to me in London a few years ago, and basically my drink got spiked, as I only had one drink which I purchased myself, and luckily a friend i was meeting in the same pub, but was late, saw me walking down a road near the pub, and took me home, but I was robbed of my phone and purse, money keys etc, very frightening, I had No recollection of leaving the pub. Very sad times we live in. Sending A Huge Hug. Toby. You are surrounded by People that Love and care for you.x
I'm so sorry to hear that Sarah. It's really scary, isn't it? The feeling of being violated and vulnerable. I'm sending love to you too, as know how difficult it can be to recover from these things, even years on!
Thank you for sharing this so bravely! Wishing you love and healing. ❤
thanks so much xx
Thank you for your courage for talking about this. Hopefully this helps you heal. Take care of yourself and remember you are loved by so many who will always support you ❤
❤❤ That means the absolute world. Thank you ❤
Bless you the fact you are sharing this here means you will heal and process it better. It may take time to trust in certain situations when out and about. But, just remind yourself your ok and allow yourself to feel your emotions no matter it’s ok to feel up and overwhelmed with the experience.
Keep saying to yourself I’m ok this will not hold me back. Take Care x
thank you so much, I am doing so much better! have a lovely evening xx
I am so sorry that this happened to you. For me, I had just come out and told my friend that I would walk and catch a bus to get home when I was attacked from behind. I ended in hospital overnight and it took a few weeks for me to tell my parents what had happened. You are lucky to have the support of your husband. Iam so areful when I go out anywhere and also I go with a group of friends.
No one deserves this. So very sorry that you had to experience such violence and hate. You are stronger by sharing so that you can move on with your happy, giving life. Thoughts and prayers your way!
Thank you so much John, that really does mean a lot to me. Thank you so much for saying so!
Wish I could give you a hug 😢 It’s awful that you had to go through that. Sounds extremely traumatic so take the time that you need to heal 🙏 Have loved your peaceful home vibes ever since I found your page on ig. The peace you exude through your content really shows and I can’t believe those horrible people disturbed that peace 😤
Thank you so much Esther - that really is so kind and means the world to me ❤
Sending lots of love Toby😘 you are a brave soul, never feel guilty, YOU did nothing wrong ❤️
Thank you so much Karen, I truly appreciate that so so much xxx
What a despicable thing for someone to do to you, I hope the person/people are caught on CCTV and are swiftly dealt with. You keep being wonderful and tbh I am such a homebody like you and love my little town. Sucks when these things happen when you venture out of your comfort zone and sort of makes you just want to stay local for safety and security
Hello Danny ❤ Thank you so much for commenting and saying so. I really appreciate it xx
Sending so much love Toby! You are so strong for sharing your story and I’m just so sorry it happened! X
Thank you so much George - it really means the world xx
How awful for this to happen to you Toby ! what a vile person who did this and I hope karma strikes them back. Stay strong and lots of cuddles from Mikey and your fur babies .
Thank you Jackie, that really does mean a lot to me. xx
So so sorry you have had to endure this, hopefully in time the memory of this will fade but well done for putting this out there. Take good care...x
Thank you os much for watching and sharing such a kind comment. It means a lot to have your support. x
@@Tobyshome ❤️x
Toby I am very saddened to hear what has happened to you, please don't put any blame on yourself, you are the better person in all of this.Sadly you were in the wrong place at the wrong time. Take time to recover, I'm very proud of you for speaking about it and making others aware...well done.We all love you and Mikey and your fur babies.... take care, try not to dwell on this for too long otherwise the person who did this has won xxx
Thank you so much Julie - that really does mean so much to me and I really appreciate you watching xxx
How brave of you to share this. Why would you apologise for getting upset? Silly sausage💗. We all cry when we are hurting. Sending you much love and a huge hugzzz 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
❤ Thank you so much. I don't know, honestly, I think I don't want to make anyone else feel negative by me getting emotional! xx
Honey, you just made me cry. Damn it I’m sorry that we live in a world where this can happen to someone as obviously sweet as you are. I’m just glad that you have Mikey and your dogs there to get you through. All the best to you.
That’s very kind, thank you xx
😿 Oh Tobias ! You’re super strong for sharing exactly what happened and yes, please don’t bring it up again. You don’t deserve to relive that trauma anymore !
❤ Thank you so much. That really means the world - moving onwards and upwards!xx
I’m so sorry this happened to you Toby. It is not fair & it is NOT your fault. People can be disgusting and mean and cruel and nasty. Sending all my love xxx
Thank you so much Kat - you're so lovely. Lots of love xxx
I am so sorry this happened to you. I had something similar happen a long time ago. I was hurt enough to have to go to the emergency room. It took me a long time to mentally get over it. I don't know if this would help you but for me it helped a lot. I went back to where it happened. For some reason I was really afraid of that place and I know that was illogical. So I went there alone. And seeing that it was a normal everyday place that nothing unusual was happening brought me partial closure. I don't know if that would work for others but it did help me.
I'm so sorry this happened to you, thank you so much xx
I am so saddened to hear about this. Sending you virtual hugs.
Thank you very much for the well wishes, a week on and I'm feeling much better!
Thank you for sharing this, hope it's now solved :(
This senseless violence is NOT ok
You are worth more than gold. Stay safe while staying true to yourself ❤
❤ This means to much to me, thank you ❤
thank you for sharing an awful experience - so VERY sad that this happened to you. sending huge love xx
Thank you so much Jane xx
I am so sorry that happened to you. Sad to say I understand exactly how you feel because I had the exact same thing happen to me. It leaves you feeling so broken and confused and scared. I hope they caught the evil person that did this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Mikey that you recover and heal ❤
I'm so sorry it happened to you too! xx
So sorry this happened to you ❤ Sending love and light x
❤ thank you so much xx
I am very shocked that the police didn’t pick you up and assess the situation fully. Toby, thanks for sharing and being a little bit drunk in no way made you culpable- in fact being more relaxed may have saved you as you weren’t tense when that dreadful event occurred. Just to say, I know all of your followers wish you well in your recovery. It will take time to feel completely yourself as your confidence understandably will have been knocked. Sending hugs. xx
Mikey actually said the same, that being a little drunk likely helped with regard to me not being AS emotionally impacted as otherwise I might have. Thank you so much xx
@@Tobyshome I agree. Keep on keeping on. x
Dear Toby, I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope that whoever committed this crime is caught and punished for it. When we are attacked in any way whether it is mentally or physically, we can break further and/ or overcome by becoming stronger. May you become stronger. ~ Love, from Berlin, Patricia
Hello Patricia, thank you so much for commenting. Thank you so much for saying this too. You're absolutely right, everything makes us stronger doesn't it? x
What a terrible thing that happened, try not to let it get to you too much,you have a wonderful life with Mikey and your 2 doggies ,it’s gonna be hard but try and move on,you have a lot of love around you from some of us you don’t really knowxx
You're absolutely right - trying our best to move on and focus on moving forward ❤
Oh Toby...bless you😢 It no doubt took a great deal of courage and emotional strength to come on and talk about what happened to you. There is no way in the world that you should feel any sort of guilt. You were with Mikey enjoying yourselves at an event so why shouldn't you have a few drinks? The despicable moron that did this to you should be carrying all of the guilt.....I am sure karma will happen. You take your time and work through this as you feel you can. As well as the love and support of Mikey and your family, you have all the support of your on line followers too! Take care, rest and recoup. Lots of love xxx
Thank you so much for being so kind and supportive, as always. And for saying such kind things. It really means so much, and you're right. Thank you and love to you xxx
Sending so much love Toby. So brave for sharing ❤ xxx
Thank you so much Charlotte - sending love to you xx
🫂🥺💔sending soothing hugs Toby!
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There are a lot of bad people out there, especially in London. This is a learning curve for you. Order a taxi from the hotel. A big hug to you, please look after yourself, we need you. ❤
Hi Toby, focus on your mental well-being and recovery. You don’t have to feel obliged to give us an explanation for what happened 😢 Your health is more important ❤ Take care and sending hugs and love.
Thank you so much for saying so ❤ love and hugs to you too!
Only just come across this Toby,This attack says more about the people that did this,than you!!sending hugs!I feel so angry!!own your power Toby and move forward.I hope that you have by now ❤️Chrissy
Oh Toby I’m so sorry you’ve been subjected to this awful person. What a git. Look after yourself & Micky it must have been horrible for him to see you like that. Stay strong . You are a far better person than he is. He is just a coward.
Thank you Tracy, feeling much better and ready to move on now! Thank you x
Toby, never blame yourself for what happened to you in London. This barbaric behaviour is absolutely disgusting and a sad reflection of the sometimes cruel society we live in. It is happening all over the UK, not just in London. There can be nothing worse than one human attacking another. People have had life changing experiences from being attacked and I am so glad you only experienced bruising but you will experience being emotional as a result. It will also affect you whilst out and about doing everyday things. It is to be expected. Seek professional help if you think you need to. I appreciate you being honest and explaining what happened. I wish I could just wrap my arms around you and give you the biggest hug possible but unfortunately can only offer a virtual hug. XXX
Thank you so much. I've already had a therapy session to discuss everything properly to begin to digest how I'm feeling, and luckily feel like I'm getting my confidence back already. Sending lots of love to you, and gratitude for you being so very kind and supportive of me xxx
Oh Toby I’m so sad for you that this has happened. It’s makes me sad and angry that there are still such hateful ppl in this world. And of course cowardly ppl. Sharing this will help you heal and you are so brave, way braver than those #%}###😡. You are entitled to have a drink and you are entitled to do as you wish and live your life in anyway you wish. This is about them, not you! Sending you much love ❤
Thank you so much for commenting and being so sweet Becca. You're absolutely right that there are still cowardly, aggressive people in the world. Let's hope they're the minority though! Love to you xx
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How awful Toby, thinking of you and sending lots of love, take care xxx
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So awful that this happened to you Toby… it must have taken a lot of courage to post this and I really hope it has helped you to process what happened and move on ❤ I think you are amazing!
Ah Maria, thank you so much. That's really kind of you. Love you lots!
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Talking is healing although upsetting... its good to get it out ❤
You're so right. Thank you so much xx
So sorry that this happened to you 😢
Happened to me several years ago in similar circumstances, so completely understand! Am sure in my case it was targeted. Mental issues carried on for a very long time, so take time. Get help if needed.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm speaking with professionals and so really hope that helps long term x
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Thank you Cathy ❤
how horrible! So sorry you had to experience this.
Thank you very much xx
Being mugged can cause severe anxiety and ptsd, I hope you are okay, xx
Thank you Pippa xx
Just came across this now, months later. So sorry it happened to you. Just three questions, were your attackers caught? Did the Uber driver help? Did the Police get your phone back?( you show 'your' phone in the video)
So very sorry to hear about this, Toby. Please don’t apologise for being emotional about this traumatic experience. Unfortunately incidents like this are a reflection of what London has become. Sending you much love & a speedy recovery from your injuries.
Thank you so much. It seems to be worse than ever? Thank you for the kindness xx
Sorry this happen to you Toby. Mind yourself ❤
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You are such a nice person!
I try to be kind - thank you for being the same!
Don’t get sad, get mad. Make a little voodoo doll and then stick pins in it. You’ll be right. Chin up! X
Haha, literally love this reply... SO good x
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So sorry ::(
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There will be CCTV to help catch the perpetrators
Fingers crossed!
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SO........S O R R Y........THAT HAPPEN TO 'YOU' ......D I S C E R N M E N T....IS VERY MUCH NEEEDED ....THESE DAYS ... 'YOU ALSO NEED TO DEAL WITH THE COMPANIES DELIVERY DRIVER THAT ASSAULTED YOU AS WELL...TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF................ "The Dream And The Journey Are ' One'.
🤎 Very glad to see that you're feeling better, Toby. 🤎
Thank you so much! xx
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