Why Good Men Run From You | This Scares Them Away

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

Комментарии • 69

  • @taliastafford7407
    @taliastafford7407 2 дня назад +42

    I’m married and still watch because you offer a lot of great advice no matter what someone’s relationship status is. I’m in the process of changing and I can see the difference in my relationship! Thank you🙏

    • @ItsBiancaTatum
      @ItsBiancaTatum День назад +5

      I love that!! You’re committed to continuous growth. 🎉

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад +6

      I'm so glad you're seeing a difference! 🙏

  • @gwendolinemabaso28
    @gwendolinemabaso28 День назад +13

    At this point I will stop speaking to my therapist because you are so good, thank you for sharing such an eye opening insight with us. I’m applying everything to my relationship.

  • @ItsBiancaTatum
    @ItsBiancaTatum День назад +10

    “You’re going to be doing the work to be in a relationship with a man where you’re OVER-FUNCTIONING” - My past mistakes that I’ve worked hard to change 🙌🏾 grateful for your content… its been part of my journey ❤

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад +1

      I'm so glad to hear it's helping you! 💖

  • @kcsunshine7408
    @kcsunshine7408 7 часов назад +1

    You are absolutely right Malcolm.

  • @reginamcclay6701
    @reginamcclay6701 8 часов назад +2

    YOU ARE A VERY WISE YIUNG MAN. IM GOING TO DEFINITELY BE FOLLOWING . THANK YOU

  • @mllange30
    @mllange30 6 часов назад +1

    First time listener. Valuable information.

  • @Msblakbuttaphly
    @Msblakbuttaphly День назад +4

    You complexion is amazing Sir

  • @Mable4841
    @Mable4841 2 дня назад +7

    Yes I believe in my husband reach out to me. Husband like it when he takes the lead and it makes me smile and feel protected as well. You are on point. This started in our dating 35 years ago. And followed into our marriage.

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад

      It's wonderful to hear this is something you've seen work in your marriage! ❤️

  • @debbierochad15
    @debbierochad15 2 дня назад +14

    Loved your relationship advice..
    Makes sense ❤

  • @The_Love_Clinic
    @The_Love_Clinic День назад +8

    Weeew Chile! This video is right on time cause I be pushin em out tha do! 😂

  • @marisortiz273
    @marisortiz273 День назад +2

    This advice is gold! Please make a video for how hyper independent women can reconnect to their feminine energy. Single mom of two here.

  • @teeavery4365
    @teeavery4365 День назад +1

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @Melissa-tk3ng
    @Melissa-tk3ng День назад +3

    This is so good! ❤

  • @quita1234
    @quita1234 День назад

    Thank you. I'm going to that right now.❤🙏

  • @GGMonroe143
    @GGMonroe143 10 часов назад

    This was good!

  • @terijordan6354
    @terijordan6354 День назад

    Thanks MJ❤❤

  • @Audrey_3
    @Audrey_3 2 дня назад +9

    New subscriber here! Love the content on your channel 🤍🌿You are so beautiful, graceful, and really give great advice for us who are seeking a masculine man💋

  • @Paris4London
    @Paris4London День назад +3

    Mj how do you show attraction to a man without coming off as if it's too much. If a gentleman does not tell me that he is interested, then I miss the signals. I just think that a guy is being nice. However, I have been told that it means a guy is interested. I'm nice to everyone, but that does not mean that I am interested. Please do a video on this. Thank you.

  • @Jo_Sobeautiful
    @Jo_Sobeautiful 2 дня назад +14

    @MJHarrisSpeaks hello can you do a video on how to save your relationship after coming off to masculine please I need your help !!

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад +4

      I’m adding that to my list! 😉

    • @Jo_Sobeautiful
      @Jo_Sobeautiful День назад +2

      Thanks MJ ❤ you’re the best ! Can’t wait you’ve helped me so much love your videos

  • @JRLM-e8m
    @JRLM-e8m 18 часов назад

    Hey MJ, this was excellent advice! You look so nice in your shirt best friend ❤

  • @jaberrabora4757
    @jaberrabora4757 2 дня назад +3

    Thanks ❤❤

  • @Kristina-cl6ug
    @Kristina-cl6ug День назад +3

    Thank you, MJ Harris for your great videos! They are always helpful. I found myself a great man, can you make a video on how to keep him? I don’t like to play games however I know masculine men still need to chase. I don’t want to suffocate him with my emotions by constantly telling him how I fell even though he tells me constantly how he feels. Should I continue to match his energy? I’m new to dating, I was married to a bad man for 20 years; I took time after the divorce to work on myself and with videos like yours, I started to prioritize myself. Thank you ❤

  • @katrinatate7235
    @katrinatate7235 День назад

    Hey MJ❤ I’m here to take notes. This is some good stuff! 👏🏾👏🏾💕 Thank you MJ😊

  • @monavanderwaal4723
    @monavanderwaal4723 9 часов назад

    what if you guys got in an argument and you “deprived” him and you told him you just weren’t feeling in the mood? how do i return from that? we’re still together and everything but i feel bad and regret doing that even if it was one time

  • @debrapatterson4157
    @debrapatterson4157 День назад

    Thank you. 😊💜🙏

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад

      You're welcome! I'm so glad you found it helpful! 😊💜

  • @rositafay38
    @rositafay38 День назад +2

    Nice video great advice

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад

      Thank you so much! I'm glad you found it helpful. 💕😊

  • @MJHarrisSpeaks
    @MJHarrisSpeaks  2 дня назад +11

    What scares good men away?

  • @violettademoney2749
    @violettademoney2749 День назад

    ❤ Why was he saying to me that I was not speaking to him enough and was not offering to even cook for him? We were 7 months in the relationship.

  • @TheSabrina1493
    @TheSabrina1493 9 часов назад

    Tbanks

  • @JaylenePryorReads
    @JaylenePryorReads День назад +1

    Your skin is glistening

  • @nycqueenisme
    @nycqueenisme 11 часов назад +1

    💯⭐️🔥💣

  • @kimredmond7500
    @kimredmond7500 День назад

    Hi MJ hope all is well with you. I can resonate with your thoughts. I unwarinely "converted" a guy from fem energy to man energy after a number of years(15) of being in relation with him! He still brags about it and appreciate that teaching until this day! It was my pleasure! However, I won't do it again.

  • @Butterflyheart7
    @Butterflyheart7 День назад

    This is very good advice and I love your videos

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  День назад

      Thank you! I'm so glad you're finding them helpful. 💕

  • @sarafreeman576
    @sarafreeman576 9 часов назад

    Hi there MJ, you have the BEST advice! thank you for making these videos!!
    is it considered a red flag if my man has said “I want my girl to be needy” ??

    • @kcsunshine7408
      @kcsunshine7408 7 часов назад

      Sometimes. Could mean he is a narcissist. But he could be tryna express exactly what MJ is speaking about here. Look for other red orbgrem flags and trust your intuition.

  • @thecaramelsanta1259
    @thecaramelsanta1259 14 часов назад

    Okaaayyyy Malcom!! Dang, I’ll let him😊, you’re right, period.

  • @ozoforrita7023
    @ozoforrita7023 День назад

    New subscriber here
    I'm glad to have come across your video

  • @elleakenya
    @elleakenya День назад

    I relate with point one

  • @graceharris9658
    @graceharris9658 День назад

    Thanku. For. Sharing. This. Great. Advice

  • @msfreckles5982
    @msfreckles5982 День назад

    Trust me hes 💯 correct.

  • @lorrainelarsen9646
    @lorrainelarsen9646 2 дня назад +7

    MJ, can you do a segment regarding if a man shows interest in you want to hang out travel go on dates but you ask do you see yourself in a long-term relationship and they respond they don’t know what does that actually mean?

    • @victoriaenglish1533
      @victoriaenglish1533 День назад +5

      Baby it means he's not ready or you're not the one. He likes hanging out with you, maybe even the intimacy if use are going there. But you are not "the one" so to speak. Men know what they want. If hes making you question yourself or the situation it's a no from him. It's ok though just have fun and don't take things serious ❤️

  • @her_UntoldThoughts
    @her_UntoldThoughts День назад +1

    Im in a nightmare 😢my marriage has been a trouble we dont get along my man has to much of ego 😢😢😢

    • @artlover3120
      @artlover3120 День назад +2

      Learn how to deal with his ego as Mj said.. If he's a narcissist then that's a totally different story.. But men generally have a big ego and you need to learn how to play along

  • @KevinTheStrawberry
    @KevinTheStrawberry День назад

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @mfonisoudofia8862
    @mfonisoudofia8862 День назад +1

    You look darker than usual MJ. Changed your skincare routine? Great advice though!

  • @JessicaAnotii
    @JessicaAnotii 22 часа назад

    Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, l've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why l am saying this here.

    • @MarilynChen-j1k
      @MarilynChen-j1k 21 час назад

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 21 час назад

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @MarilynChen-j1k
      @MarilynChen-j1k 21 час назад

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @kcsunshine7408
      @kcsunshine7408 7 часов назад

      You need to break the soul tie. You should also accept you were a placeholder after 5 years no ring. Imagine something disgusting like eating vomit covered in maggots then allow your mind to see an image of your ex. Keep flashing both images together and rewire your brain.

  • @mfonisoudofia8862
    @mfonisoudofia8862 День назад

    You look darker than usual MJ. Changed your skincare routine? Great advice though!