Start Here! (see my Amazon cleaning tools amzn.to/3uSQ0B9. + "500 Ways" diamondgirl.me/ebook.) 1. Let go of rules & labels - love yourself! 2. You are Valuable - You are LOVED 3. Motivation with Mono-Tasks 4. Know What Feels Good or Bad (Your Weaknesses) 5. Put on Music, Use a Timer, Commercials 6. What trips up your progress? (More on focus later in the video too 12:40 .) 7. Have a reward planned when you complete! 8. Make it fun - have a pretend "show" you host on cleaning 9. Division of Labor - getting his help 10. Use "I feel" statements 11. How can you make your life easier? Think about it! 12. What ARE you good at cleaning? Why?
this is an amazing post for a number of reasons. first, it allows to differentiate what is fem energy and mas energy around the house, it provides a clear strategy on how to discuss this issue with your partner, and it gives very practical advice on how to do this better when you do nor feel like, or simply cant as when you are depressed or ill. most important, it makes you realize that you can ve imperfect anf its ok. Fem energy is not about been perfect, but is about been kind and warm, and it has to start with yourself. great video!
I just want to take some time to say thank you for transforming my life. I am not happily married. I got your ebooks and honestly, game changer. Thank you
Hi Adrienne, I have been watching your videos for a long time, and have all of your programs and ebook. I wanted to ask you about around the 13:06 mark, when you say "No. If you don't mind, just throw it in the sink". I was just curious because this sounds like a departure from your usual FE advice about feeling statements and getting into your body- it sounded very masculine energy. I may be wrong, or I may just be hearing it differently, but it was just something that struck me a little bit as being different to your usual advice and tone and just wanted to ask your take on it.
Yes it was for sure. It was a boundary of sorts, because often sidetracked and I end up doing some bulk of the work. So occasionally, I do put on my boy pants, especially when you’re working I redirect him with some good logic. remember, there’s a time to be in your masculine energy, but it’s not all of the time.👌🏼🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your explanation, but I'm still a little confused, if you don't mind me pressing a little further for clarity. I may have gotten the advice confused, but I would have thought in this case, where you are doing the bulk of the work while he is distracted, your advice would have been to do the work that you would normally do and leave his 'part' of it- like waiting it out, or outgirling him, or trusting him to pick up where he left off. This is completely personal obv, and I don't know the details of the situation, but hosing down a vomit filled rag does sound like a job that would require immediate attention (at least to me), so maybe the example didn't sit right with me 😅 in addition to how the desire/boundary was communicated. Another moment in this video that struck me as being different to what you normally teach is your script "this doesn't feel fair"- this sounded more like the FS loopholes you've mentioned in previous videos vs an actual feeling of the body.
Me and my boyfriend were having some rifts since months we have been together for almost 2 years. He is very sarcastic but sometimes im just not in the mood..impulsively i said i csnt be with you and he brokeup with me. Its been a week. I apologised made him understand but he isnt willing to meet me or patchup. What do i do?
I think you really spoke your truth. He can dish it but not receive it. Now he’s punishing you. Don’t pursue him. You’ve apologized and if he’s so good at picking you he can certainly understand when the tables turn. Also - do you really want a sarcastic man? If not, keep your options open. Men have a way of coming back around. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools I am so sorry you’re going through this.
Great job! I’m usually tired afterwards, too, and I always feel a little excited and exhilarated to have everything so clean. If you’re exhausted, is a good chance you might want to look at the things are making you feel happy and satisfied, and things are draining. Maybe you can sort those differently on the same day.
Hello A- I pay attention to what you teach us , I have been following you for a few Year’s, I bought the ABC’s course in 2022 , but it was so lengthy i didn’t complete it ..I get a lot from your Videos you do here on You tube . ❤ Thank you for your hard work..
Start Here! (see my Amazon cleaning tools amzn.to/3uSQ0B9. + "500 Ways" diamondgirl.me/ebook.)
1. Let go of rules & labels - love yourself!
2. You are Valuable - You are LOVED
3. Motivation with Mono-Tasks
4. Know What Feels Good or Bad (Your Weaknesses)
5. Put on Music, Use a Timer, Commercials
6. What trips up your progress? (More on focus later in the video too 12:40 .)
7. Have a reward planned when you complete!
8. Make it fun - have a pretend "show" you host on cleaning
9. Division of Labor - getting his help
10. Use "I feel" statements
11. How can you make your life easier? Think about it!
12. What ARE you good at cleaning? Why?
Good video. Housecleaning is one of those necessary evils. I like putting music on when I clean. Definately a discussion you need to have.
Thanks for sharing!!
this is an amazing post for a number of reasons. first, it allows to differentiate what is fem energy and mas energy around the house, it provides a clear strategy on how to discuss this issue with your partner, and it gives very practical advice on how to do this better when you do nor feel like, or simply cant as when you are depressed or ill. most important, it makes you realize that you can ve imperfect anf its ok. Fem energy is not about been perfect, but is about been kind and warm, and it has to start with yourself. great video!
Thank you for the amazing recap! ❤❤❤
I just want to take some time to say thank you for transforming my life. I am not happily married. I got your ebooks and honestly, game changer. Thank you
I’m a happy to help you! 🥰 Thank you!
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Paper clutter! Same 🫠
Thank You Adrienne
You are so welcome❤️
Hi Adrienne, I have been watching your videos for a long time, and have all of your programs and ebook. I wanted to ask you about around the 13:06 mark, when you say "No. If you don't mind, just throw it in the sink". I was just curious because this sounds like a departure from your usual FE advice about feeling statements and getting into your body- it sounded very masculine energy. I may be wrong, or I may just be hearing it differently, but it was just something that struck me a little bit as being different to your usual advice and tone and just wanted to ask your take on it.
Yes it was for sure. It was a boundary of sorts, because often sidetracked and I end up doing some bulk of the work. So occasionally, I do put on my boy pants, especially when you’re working I redirect him with some good logic. remember, there’s a time to be in your masculine energy, but it’s not all of the time.👌🏼🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your explanation, but I'm still a little confused, if you don't mind me pressing a little further for clarity. I may have gotten the advice confused, but I would have thought in this case, where you are doing the bulk of the work while he is distracted, your advice would have been to do the work that you would normally do and leave his 'part' of it- like waiting it out, or outgirling him, or trusting him to pick up where he left off. This is completely personal obv, and I don't know the details of the situation, but hosing down a vomit filled rag does sound like a job that would require immediate attention (at least to me), so maybe the example didn't sit right with me 😅 in addition to how the desire/boundary was communicated. Another moment in this video that struck me as being different to what you normally teach is your script "this doesn't feel fair"- this sounded more like the FS loopholes you've mentioned in previous videos vs an actual feeling of the body.
Who was listening to my conversation? You or my phone? 😮😂
Me and my boyfriend were having some rifts since months we have been together for almost 2 years. He is very sarcastic but sometimes im just not in the mood..impulsively i said i csnt be with you and he brokeup with me. Its been a week. I apologised made him understand but he isnt willing to meet me or patchup. What do i do?
I think you really spoke your truth. He can dish it but not receive it. Now he’s punishing you. Don’t pursue him. You’ve apologized and if he’s so good at picking you he can certainly understand when the tables turn. Also - do you really want a sarcastic man? If not, keep your options open. Men have a way of coming back around. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools I am so sorry you’re going through this.
I'm exhausted I just finished cleaning up
Great job! I’m usually tired afterwards, too, and I always feel a little excited and exhilarated to have everything so clean. If you’re exhausted, is a good chance you might want to look at the things are making you feel happy and satisfied, and things are draining. Maybe you can sort those differently on the same day.
I'm embarrassed to admit depression. He already used to make fun of me, calling me sick. Hypocrite. I noticed he's depressed too.
Hugs to you honey! ❤
Hello A- I pay attention to what you teach us , I have been following you for a few Year’s, I bought the ABC’s course in 2022 , but it was so lengthy i didn’t complete it ..I get a lot from your Videos you do here on You tube . ❤ Thank you for your hard work..
How did you know? Haha 🧹 🧺 🧽