People say women want a guy with money. No, I have been saying since I was 14 years old. They want a man that spends money. They can't tell the difference between debt and equity so long as they have the object, luxury, or feeling.
Agree with you. It is the hardest pill to swallow, that you are alone and don't receive much empathy as a man. I seems so unfair, like the world is just a lie and realitu stinks. Once I internalized the freedom that it entailed my vision flipped 360° and everything was fine.
Our 1st relationship is with ourselves. We can serve and protect that no problem and, I think it's the closest we'll get to the intimacy some of us may feel is missing. We're going to our graves alone.
@@Hallucitania love flows down. not up. it goes man - woman - children. there is no higher being on this earth than man. that's why men are so much more sentimental about past romances and relationships. for in those temporary moments surrounded by company, we didn't feel so alone in life. we therefore treasure those memories. hard pill to swallow but im in my middle ages and realize that i will die alone. maybe why men are usually solitary creatures
That's as it should be. When a woman becomes pregnant, she and her offspring are dependent on others. It's a very dangerous position for her to be in. Her man better have money, and he better hand it over. It's a matter of life or death for her and the children. Men cheat and leave for WAY less reason.
A manager I had some years ago said that to me when I was focusing on a cute young miss in the office at the time. I thought he was just trying to get me to get back to work. Little did I know he was giving sage advice
@@sarahrobertson634 that is bullshit but its a female point of view. clearly you must be in danger because your job makes no money. and you may not be aware of the things called alimony and child support that have ruined countless men. but you go on focusing on gynocentric views and proving human's point. thanks for that!
We need to append or have an footnote that states: “When the male refuses to participate in such associations, he comes out the winner and the female loses, since no transaction takes place.”
Not true. In my anecdotal experience it’s the other way around. The more you give of yourself, the more they feel entitled and above you. The more I take, the more I’m respected. Benjamin Franklin effect.
I must agree with Bash David. To be fair, I don't think it is only women, because if people can take advantage of you they almost universally will not be grateful, they will demand more and disrespect you. But because of social and legal situation today, it is especially women, and extremely so with married women. Today, only women matter. Men are still expected to provide, but are no longer appreciated nor given even a semblance of love or respect. The more you give, the more they take and the LESS they respect you. Which doesn't mean they won't exit if you start struggling financially. I worked in a volatile industry, now retired. Feast or famine. My last few relationships were ended by the woman when I was going through a layoff period, each and every one. 2010, 2012, 2014, 2015...
Trick question. Even if you pay, she won't stay. Why benefit from only one relationship when you can have a second on the side and benefit twice? A woman is only as loyal as her options.
When discussing a relationship I was having years ago, my mother said to me, stop giving her money and she will go away. That is the most honest thing that ever came out of the mouth of my mother.
This is my first month away from my wife(we where together almost 10 years) after she asked for a divorce and told me she was in love with another man. It has been hard but i’ve found a power in not being bitter and moving on. If any young men are reading this my advice is to stay single and have fun in life. Don’t ever let a woman control your money or how you see yourself. Ever!
And how sad and pathetic is it when a woman still operates on these rules even after hitting the wall. An old woman with demanding standards. Invest in cat food companies and pet supply manufacturers.
"Invest in cat food companies and pet supply manufacturers. " Haaaahahahah that's the most insightful financial advice I've seen this year, and I've spent 6 months googling ideas of how this financial crisis will play out
Theyre both cucked by women still lol, one foot in one foot out, rollos married and coopers still in and out of relationships lol, theyre insightful men but in no way can i listen to either of them while theyre still under the lens of blue
@@cedarbay3994 and he's become a busy life coach now ... but he's always only been an information co-ordinating channel, nothing more. Listen to his vocab, it isn't much to brag about.
Yet somehow society believes women are the romantic, idealistic gender Just because she utterz the word "Awwww!! That's so sweet" now and then... While looking like she can't contain her tears. The soft, gentle, exterior with puppy dog eyes... etc.... But in the end it's men who after finding a woman that he's truly into who are the ones that devote their lives to the relationship.
If she doesn't benefit from you, she states you are USELESS. She doesn't care that you're useful to yourself. You're only useful if you're useful to her.
The best relationships in nature are suppose to be symbiotic, where both sides benefit and grow to become better united. Modern relationships nowadays are either parasitic, where only one benifits and the other is at best unaffected and at worst slowly suffers, or predatory, where one benefit by devouring and destroying the other. Im sorry, I didnt ask for a parasite and I am nobodys prey.
When I was rich I never spent a cent on women and they stayed, happily. She benefited from the idea that the money is there and if there was need, it would be met, even though there was never need. Once the money was gone, she was gone. The idea couldn't exist without the backing of something real. Fiat currency doesn't exist in relationships. The idea that I did it once so I can rise again isn't a factor. It's all about "show me the money", rather than spend the money on me. Knowing that if I were to get money again, the women would return is another bitter red pill to swallow.
@@gladiammgtow4092 When I had wealth, it was my life. I worked, I dealt with rental properties, and I directed my company. It would not have been possible to compartmentalize all of this and keep it secret. I didn't have money sitting in a vault. My phone was being used a lot. I didn't advertise anything. I didn't drive a fancy vehicle. Yes, I was a single man living in a nice, half million dollar house, but otherwise, I was just living my life normally.
Exactly what happened to me when I got engaged. I told her we were seeing a financial planner and we were going to sit down and come up with short term, and long term goals. She did not want to reveal her debt, so she left. She thought, since I had a house that was my only debt, some play toys a car, I would pay off her debt.
Not willing to disclose her debt when getting engaged is reveling a lack of trust and basically being a trap set up on you. That's a real red flag warning you to jump ship and dodge that bullet no matter what. On the other hand, annoucing you're seeing a financial planner is a good shit test on her. And she failed it big fucking time!
The second part of Briffault's Law was the one I became most aware of in my younger years as my own mother told me this as a teenager: "A woman cares about three things in her life. 1. Herself. 2. Her offspring. 3. Her blood family relatives. You, (As a man), will never be a priority in her life as long as a you support her priorities. If that man fails to support her priorities at any time during the course of the relationship. The woman will discard him like a used tampon." As a teenager, I had no clue what my mother was trying to tell me. Now as a grown man, it is clear what is expected/ demanded by women from a men. You have a choice gentlemen. I suggest you choose wisely.
@@mrphyl3041 Most mothers want the best for their children. My mother understood women well as she had two sisters that went off of the deep end. And she did not want my sister and I to suffer the same fate. So she along with my father made it their mission to train us as children. While many of my childhood friends ridiculed us for what we were going through as children. Years later in conversations, they had a much better appreciation of how we were taught and wished their parents did the same with them. Life is hard. Very hard. And my parents wanted both of us to understand it so that we could survive.
I was in a long term relationship for 15 years. Did everything right, but kept separate domiciles. My solution to the 'what do I get?' question was to buy her a life insurance policy on myself. That seemed to work for a while and allowed taking the discussion to it's core principles - namely that she (despite making more $ than me) expected to 'get' something from the relationship (resources, money, property etc). After all that time of friendship and loyalty, she eventually just said "I don't want to see you anymore". And that was it. So, your observation in the video speaks to the core of truth of the relationship between men and women. They don't need us, they want our stuff and will exploit sex without feeling guilty about it.
Most relationships with women are like that. They ask - how much do you have and when can I get it ? This is why you don't marry her, she is now legally tied to all your money, land, savings, house and future income.
Woman need men. Everything they use is designed and built by men. Thats where the state comes in. If she can't sceme or steal it from you, daddy government will take it from men by force. The state is womans privat army. As a collective, woman cost money during their lifespan but the fact she can produce the future corporate slaves for everybody to leech from is the reason you as a man are the target (not the prise). The world has never been a patriarchie and it never will be. The only thing we can do as men is not to play the rigged game if we want things to balance out.
@Light Head Precisely! More and more of my friends are coming around to seeing that. They aren't Red Pill or GTOW but they see the hypocrisy. They are definitely demanding more from their partners, not settling and requesting pre-nups. The slow turn is happening.
This is quite profound. I've lately been keeping females at arms distance financially and it is definitely true that once they realize that it's a symbiotic relationship instead of a parasitic one, they tend to quickly lose interest at that point.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
When most men hear "protector and provider" they automatically think of it as doing it for women. To me being a protector and provider is 100% about myself, in my opinion we should be more focused on self preservation as opposed to being selfless for those who will discard us when given a better option the majority of the time.
1:40 Always laughed at women's "no baggage" requirement. Not only does everyone have baggage in some way, but the definition of "baggage" is whatever women want it to be to justify discarding men.
100% THIS, its the second part of the law that made me lose all interest in having a relationship...even short term flings leave a sweet bitter taste in my mouth. "Being sucessful with women" what a load of BULLCRAP...more like an exploitable target….. NO THANKS!
They never were in "love" with the person, that is the excuse to go with the lie they said in the first place. That is "how" they do it. They are to emotional to fall out of love.
The catch to that ability is that women are also not capable of falling in love in the first place. They are only smitten with the idea of getting financial benefits from you. And if you break up with her, she can and will get those financial benefits from some other man. There is no sadness when they leave you. There is no true happiness and extacy when she hooks up with you either; Instead there is a short lived, shallow ego rush emerging from the notion of having conquered and enslaved yet another fool who will finance her decadent lifestyle and do her bidding.
The effects of Briffault's Law are even more pronounced with the myth of women's independence, since she doesn't consider men's support of her as necessary to her survival. So in her mind the stakes are lowered and so the contribution of men is downplayed when it's literally a matter of life and death. In other words, the ongoing benefit of being with a man (avoiding destitution) doesn't enter into her calculation of benefit. It's just more gibs.
I am a 32 year old female. I always go 50/50 on anything financial whether it's rent, bills, groceries or dinner dates. I kept my bank accounts separate in all previous relationships and would ask no questions about spending and expected the same. As long as my partner is contributing their 50, more power to however they choose to spend their money. We're adults. I don't look for any qualities in men that I myself don't embody as a person, whether it's independence or living situation, or mindset. Finally, I have several male friends I appreciate for their skills, insights and values. They enrich my life simply with their character and not because I can use them in any way. I take good care of myself on my own and integrate them as a part of my life simply because of what their character has to offer and not a collection of benefits. I am sorry this video represents the experience of many men, but please be aware that it is not all there is. The world is vast and varied and has soo many wonderful and conscientious people. Have your heart in the right place, and you will find them. Take care of yourself and love others equally.
A woman with this mindset is almost unheard of. I tell women the exact same thing that HuMAN mentioned in the video. I say “I'm never getting married, you’re not moving in with me, I’m not having kids and we are not joining bank accounts.” The moment I say this they are gone. Spending time with me and going on adventures just doesn’t cut it. I have a home, fun toys, assets and security and I think HuMAN is right when he says that once a women can't benefit from my things, she gone.
Women: But won't you do this for me? Men: Well, no. Why should I? Would you in my place? And then, no matter how great of a man you are, when she realized she can't push your further (because you have your boundaries) - it's over. Most women think it's essential part of the game for men to play by their rules. When they realize you play by your own rules, even if you try to make it fair for both parties, their no longer interested in you as a man. Great video man, something to think about, thanks for that. Nice holidays to you and hope to hear from you soon enough.
In that shit right now using our daughter like it's power to her like she thinks I have no rights funny thing she had a boy in a previous relationship that she has no contact with
Amen to that, took my ex a year and half to try and foil me into her ways.. i almost conceited. Then like the saying goes shes only as loyal as her options, she monkey branched and is trying the same right now with some simp
I had always known this yet convinced myself that I would eventually find the one. To be optimistic about whammen is to live in a fools paradise no worries though as I'm content being solo and enjoy the freedom. Thanks huMAN for bringing this salient point front and center, all the best for the new year mien sage.
The male determines how open his wallet is and how resources are distributed in the relationship. Where a woman consumes too much, as determined by the man, no such relationship will continue.
@DiscordShaggy True, but that just means they set a limit at everything they had. That does not negate my corollary, it just makes them poor. Once that limit is reached (whether it is everything or less) then the association ends.
@ETB It's the same statement as Briffaults law. Just written from the negative. Women choose Men commit. We can end an association any time we want simply by turning off the benefits to the woman.
Briffault’s Law is sheer brilliance. It’s simplicity, elegance, and proven applicability to reality puts it right up there with the Theory of Evolution as my favourites.
Today would have been my 33rd wedding anniversary. However; after 20 years of marriage my ex-wife got everything she could out of our marriage. American citizenship, a college degree, and a high paying job. She then found another man who had more wealth and left me. Everything this man says is true. 👍
Benefit = Take FROM YOU. Means it's diametrically opposed to male SOVEREIGNTY. That IS hard to face. All interactions by her paradigm will set expiration dates on a relationship. Major wake up call. Used to be upsetting that a woman wants more than "just me". Knowing this, I see EVERY relationship with a countdown on it now. "You only get me"... Now stand there and hear her say "It's not enough....." Heartbreaking indeed.
Doesn't it suck to be used and tossed aside? I'm glad to see that both genders can play that game. I think women might be a bit better at it, honestly.
Important extension of Briffault's law: past benefits accrued by the female don't count for the future. If you give her all your stash today, she's gone the day after tomorrow.
"MORE" continues to define the modern woman. Most of them simply think their company should always qualify them as good enough in a man's eyes. The problem is that if you're always the one giving and they are always taking, it will NEVER be enough to satisfy. If both aren't coming into the relationship to give, then one is the Mule and the other, the Leach.
I'm a great guy. I tick every single one of those boxes. I keep my shit and see no reason for "the other" to benefit from my hard work after doing jack shit or for merely existing. The second half of Briffault's law was a hard pill to come to terms with but that's the world we live in. Stay safe, gentlemen.
Wise words 👍. We men only have to look at the super-rich (who clearly and objectively have it all (money, power, good looks) and see that women STILL leave these men to prove this whole argument. Clearly the woman isn’t just after the man, she wants his stuff and would rather have all his stuff without him. If a super-rich man can’t keep a woman happy, what chance for us “normal” men?
Tell your date that you go out with, that you just lost your job and you only RENT an apartment, you don't actually own a house. Half the time she will immediately stop what she's doing/saying, pick up her purse, and walk out on you right there, without even saying goodbye.
I used to get women mad when I rejected them. (Women almost never get rejected so can't handle it well.) I then used to say I was gay. Now I just say I'm poor. Works great. They smile and say goodbye with no issues at all. Another one is to ask to go dutch. That works well also. Flush them out then flush them down.
Excellent video. What gets me is how the one who wants to know "where is this relationship going" is she who has had 50 or more men in her past, and couldn't bond with you if she wanted to. Yet, she insists on an answer involving your commitment to her. Ridiculous!
This makes a great deal of sense, and explains why a lot of incels nowadays just can't afford supporting a modern "independent" woman. She will always keep her earnings. We will need to "share" ours. Be weary she doesn't steal your soul in the process.
And just like that, another lightbulb goes off. This explains so much for me. I have many of the qualities listed and struggled to grasp why she ended things. It was because I was unwilling to give it all. I was looking for someone to share my life with, as you said, whereas she wanted someone that would give it all.
Absolute truth Human. It’s not negativity as most women and blue pill men would say, it’s the truth. No shamming language will bring me back to the plantation. And prenatal agreements don’t work either. Judges and lawyers can rip them up and wipe their asses with them like nothing. All the best to my friends in Australia with those wild fires. America has your backs.
This conversation has exploded on the internet over the last 3-5 years. I've read through a lot of the comments here. IT"S FUCKING SCARY...how we all see it the same way and our stories are so similar... it's very telling. For one, it must be true, and two, we've had enough of losing. The stereo type of men not sharing their feelings and thoughts is fading. The internet has given light to the truth that men need other men and are willing to seek each other out, for the comfort and understanding that only other men can give. It's time we put women back in their place...It's time to ignore them. God bless brothers !
I inherently knew that this was the reason for my ex divorcing me after 32 years but I just couldnt wrap my head around the mechanics of why. I have put a lot of the little pieces of the puzzle together, this however finalizes the whole picture for me and looking back at my dating experiences why some of the women chose me and others did not. Thanks Human. Now I can put this whole question to bed. And now that my eyes have been really opened I have to ask myself, and any potential female companion what it is that they are expecting me to contribute that they will not. And I will always remember it is what they do, not what they say.
@@leegrande8226 Modern women dont love men, they love what he can do for them. Many of them cant even love their children. I guess you could call that depressing...it is reality and men have to adapt to that to survive. The first step to surviving the present predicament is to change your mindset. If you see it as a problem it will be depressing because you are in victim mode. If you see it as a challenge to be overcome, you empower your mindset and start looking for viable options...the former keeps you living in the past and the latter has you living in the present with an eye on the future.
i feel that every man should have his own set of rules sitting quietly in the back of his mind, there's no need to share these rules with anyone, just check in with them occasionally because once you compromise you're own rules regret usually follows. the rules of cohabitation with a woman conflict with my rules.
You are absolutely right! Personally, cohabitation doesn't bother me that much if it's my pad. My iron-clad rule is that I can never move in with a woman. I prefer to be dead than live under a roof provided by a woman!
When I first met my girlfriend she started telling me she loves me. That was after 2 weeks. At that time I told her never to tell me she loves me again. We have been in a none live in casual relationship for 4 years now & she has never told me that lie again. Woman can't love, without you giving them something & that's not love.
Again you're spot-on.... If she cannot benefit from those attributes and selfishly those benefits are not relate to her and her alone. Then she will not have any problem with kicking you to curb. that is why it pisses them off when they are not able to convince a guy to give up all of his success and status so that it can be handed over to her on a platter without any effort to earn it.
Only if they look really good but on the other hand , if you are a good looking guy at 6.4 you will also have a nice life, compared to a short average looking guy.
She could objectively benefit from you in the many ways that men like to show their love through acts of service. But if that doesn't stack up against what she can get elsewhere -- and it won't -- she's gone.
Quote from my ex, - I'm glad you earn more than me (it wasn't by much, we both earned great wages) because when we have children I know you will be able to support us. Fairly innocuous at the time, but can now see the underlying female drive to be looked after. Biologically it makes sense - it's the way it is.
"A good woman is worth more than pearls". As an agnostic I don't often quote scripture but In this case it's true. A good wife and mother is worth more than a man can provide. The others need to pay their own way.
@@Bob-fz7pd yes, but in the end, even a good woman will cut and run if you falter on your end of the bargain.....in fact, she becomes less tolerant of your failings because she uses herself as the benchmark you that have to exceed (men always have to be higher "value")
@@1Mutton1 what you call monkey branching is a tendency not an absolute. The male cliche of leaving an aging wife for a younger woman is probably as common. After 30 years of good times and bad my wife still calls me commander. A name she came up with after moving to the States and being exposed to feminism. Exceptions exist. Now go enjoy your hobbies while the rest of us build families and the future.
@@Bob-fz7pd 70 to 80% of divorces are filed by woman (depending on the country). Just saying, it doesn't seem to be the trend. Glad your still happily married. Just make sure you remain the commander.
I came to this realisation a few years ago. It was very difficult for me to accept and make a change to my belief system/programming. Thanks God I woke up.
The thing I don't get about the second part of B's law is, doesn't that apply to men as well? Isn't it equally true of men, that we don't stay in a relationship unless we are benefiting from it? Generally speaking, people don't do things unless they're benefiting from it in some way. That's not so much a law of female nature as a law of human nature.
since it's unlikely that you'll be receiving material support, then it falls upon emotional or physical support in the form of a hole of cum in. The latter is solved readily but that brings us into the first factor: validation. It's a weakness that I struggle with as well, I love consensual sex (sex without a overt transmission of material benefit), since you really get the best out of the woman. It's really hard to remove oneself from the apparent circumstances, and realize that if not for the time blindness, it's an investment on the woman's part, based on a promise of happiness of benefit by association. much like Stendhal said: "Beauty is a promise of happiness..." but in reverse, "Beauty (to a woman) is a promise of benefit...".
It is heart breaking....not many survive....the few learn. Sex/ relationship is basically used as a weapon of mass destruction. Sad truth...but it is liberating! Cheers huMAN.
People tell me I shouldn't be single because I have some good qualities (tall, some money, no debt, own car ect), this video explains why I am single 👌
Hi huMAN! Thanks for all the commentary, thought, effort, and care you've put into your channel and others in 2019! You've been a help to me in my journey.
That was eloquently said. Throughout my life I have heard, “What are we?” I never realized it was only code for - “is there MORE!” Fucking MORE! This is the the part of life that makes me sick; what a gut-punch! I don’t care any more to be, “enough.” Had a home invasion robbery with 3 men trying to break in while my wife and I were home. I felt like a hero at the time being the man that went downstairs to protect us. Now, I just feel like a fool risking my life and savoring a false bravado. Thank you huMan for bringing me such clarity.
You should be a jeweler with the gold words coming out of your mouth. Amazingly accurate. My friend just got married to a woman that was renting a home, she convinced him prior to getting married to sell his home and buy them a bigger one. My friend had lost his job a few years early but happen to drive Uber. This idiot went on and sold his home then purchased a home with her credentials cause he didn't show enough on paper; u get the jist. She only married him just for the roof and to say she is now a home owner. Oh, btw she was previously married 2wice with 3 kids, 2 from 1 guy and 1 from the other. Yes, my friend gets a Grammy for being a complete doormat.
Great title, great video. I would add not only money, but involuntary servitude! She wont stay without that either. It's extortion plain and simple. Keep them out of your life on any of their terms.
They just want you to keep pouring, even if their cup runeth over. They want to know that you are prepared to have nothing left after making them happy.
I hear a lot in this space that women are only with you for resources, but this doesn't explain why there are so many women with "losers", guys who don't have money or status.
This literally breaks my heart ........ that I know this to be true ........ and as a result I will forever be an army of 1..... it hurts but at least I know the truth..... the painful and lonely truth
Patriarchy solves the problem. When the man is placed higher than the woman socially, HE controls how much she can benefit from him. The problem is we live under matriarchy, that pretends to be a patriarchy, and have no protection other than going our own way.
Your saving lives for those of us whom are listening and willing to do what's necessary .... Go hard after your hobbies , passions mental emotional health and financial security .
She can also leave mentally or emotionally. I was stuck in a relationship like that for 4-5 years of my life, until she tried to cuck me, while at the same time having arguments about her now wanting to have a baby (she stopped birth control without telling me). She was completely incoherent and wanting this or that and getting angry when I would not go along with it. In the end I had to leave her, as she would have stayed in that toxic relationship forever as it was giving her a baseline of security. Now I am growing again I make my own life without being guilt tripped for any and all choices I make.
“Never love anything that can't love you back.”
― Bruce Williams
He was great in Die Hard....
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
he's wrong there. I love my waifus even if they don't love me back.
Quote: “Never love anything that can't love you back.”
well, that sort of eliminates 99% of women out there doesn' it?
Then that only leaves Dogs Boris.
People say women want a guy with money. No, I have been saying since I was 14 years old. They want a man that spends money. They can't tell the difference between debt and equity so long as they have the object, luxury, or feeling.
Facts
True a rich stingy selfish men is still a dusty. You can be a middle class men and have generous character, thats a real men
Hey Big Spender , spend a little time with me”
@@alexandra7950 Yeah, a real single man.
@@MK_ULTRA420 finding quality takes time. So it s up to you to choose the right one
It's not dating, it's eBay, she's looking for the highest bidder, what's in it for her...if you think she's paying 50% you're kidding your self.
She gets free delivery and your paying the fees......it's not 50% now.
@Ghost in the Shell what is solution u think?
more like she is a shared product and its just your turn.
Makes great sense.
@@kisms8590 Refund policy
the most sombering reveal is take care of yourself as best as you can for as a man, you are alone in this life.
Agree with you. It is the hardest pill to swallow, that you are alone and don't receive much empathy as a man. I seems so unfair, like the world is just a lie and realitu stinks. Once I internalized the freedom that it entailed my vision flipped 360° and everything was fine.
Our 1st relationship is with ourselves. We can serve and protect that no problem and, I think it's the closest we'll get to the intimacy some of us may feel is missing. We're going to our graves alone.
@@Hallucitania love flows down. not up. it goes man - woman - children.
there is no higher being on this earth than man. that's why men are so much more sentimental about past romances and relationships. for in those temporary moments surrounded by company, we didn't feel so alone in life. we therefore treasure those memories.
hard pill to swallow but im in my middle ages and realize that i will die alone.
maybe why men are usually solitary creatures
John Smith that’s wisdom my friend, very nice.
@FenwickIslandDelaware777 L coltaine
*_When Poverty comes thru the door- 'Love' goes out the window._*
Bahahahaha 👍
Brilliant!
That's as it should be. When a woman becomes pregnant, she and her offspring are dependent on others. It's a very dangerous position for her to be in. Her man better have money, and he better hand it over. It's a matter of life or death for her and the children. Men cheat and leave for WAY less reason.
A manager I had some years ago said that to me when I was focusing on a cute young miss in the office at the time. I thought he was just trying to get me to get back to work. Little did I know he was giving sage advice
@@sarahrobertson634 that is bullshit but its a female point of view. clearly you must be in danger because your job makes no money. and you may not be aware of the things called alimony and child support that have ruined countless men. but you go on focusing on gynocentric views and proving human's point. thanks for that!
Question: What do women want?
Answer: More.
This is the 'secret' of women.
The mindless zombie horde..
Collectively the zombie whores.
MGTOW Answer: Don’t care.
😂🤣😂
MORE and MORE... and they want it NOW.
Female nature is fine in a patriarchy where men are respected for their service and sacrifice... but we don't live in a patriarchy!
Briffault's law can not be applied whenever a man refuses to participate. Never play a rigged game!
But pussy....I need it
Bravo !
We need to append or have an footnote that states: “When the male refuses to participate in such associations, he comes out the winner and the female loses, since no transaction takes place.”
@@melancholyman369 just a poisonus trap
People do in casino's all the time. They play the game knowing it's rigged.
A woman's respect is proportional to what you are providing for her now. Once respect is gone, so is the relationship.
The funny thing is, her 'respect' for you is conditional and proportional to what you provide for her.
Not true. In my anecdotal experience it’s the other way around. The more you give of yourself, the more they feel entitled and above you. The more I take, the more I’m respected. Benjamin Franklin effect.
@@bashdavid9223 I guess I was not clear - when I said provide - I did not mean yourself.
@@seattime4075 yeah no matter how I interpreted it. Financial, time, respect, whatever. The more I provided the less I was appreciated
I must agree with Bash David.
To be fair, I don't think it is only women, because if people can take advantage of you they almost universally will not be grateful, they will demand more and disrespect you. But because of social and legal situation today, it is especially women, and extremely so with married women. Today, only women matter. Men are still expected to provide, but are no longer appreciated nor given even a semblance of love or respect. The more you give, the more they take and the LESS they respect you.
Which doesn't mean they won't exit if you start struggling financially.
I worked in a volatile industry, now retired. Feast or famine. My last few relationships were ended by the woman when I was going through a layoff period, each and every one. 2010, 2012, 2014, 2015...
Agreed. It's not about a man's wealth. It's about his willingness to spend his money on a woman.
Don't think it's that simple.
A lot of women want companionship or babies or something else. Not all money grabbers.
it's true, if you are wealthy but don't share it, just dangle it in front of her like a carrot, she'll leave eventually.
More than money. The benefit could be whatever she determines
@@tomcolton5662 these may actually be the worse. They want to get and not share the TIME that the man has.
Trick question.
Even if you pay, she won't stay.
Why benefit from only one relationship when you can have a second on the side and benefit twice?
A woman is only as loyal as her options.
@Don't Call Me White "Gone with the wind"🤣🤣
yup. shes not yours its just your turn. like a subway turnstile.
Still many men are dumb to understand this .
@@user-FM1 men are just testosterone driven.. it's hardwired can't help it..
Trick Question: "Why only have one wife when you can have two for twice the cost?" ... LOL
When discussing a relationship I was having years ago, my mother said to me, stop giving her money and she will go away. That is the most honest thing that ever came out of the mouth of my mother.
Just remember this sentence: where men are happy everybody benefits, where women are happy many suffer.
This is my first month away from my wife(we where together almost 10 years) after she asked for a divorce and told me she was in love with another man.
It has been hard but i’ve found a power in not being bitter and moving on. If any young men are reading this my advice is to stay single and have fun in life.
Don’t ever let a woman control your money or how you see yourself. Ever!
Thank you for the advice. Hope your doing well and didn't lose too much in the divorce
You were her better.
@R B Welcome Home, and I wish you can find peace with yourself in this new life you have ahead.
Thank you guys so much for your support i truly appreciate it.
Welcome to freedom. The bar is in the back and drinks are on the house. Cheers!
And how sad and pathetic is it when a woman still operates on these rules even after hitting the wall. An old woman with demanding standards. Invest in cat food companies and pet supply manufacturers.
In many cases they get even more denanding - it becomes riduculously disproportionate.
"Invest in cat food companies and pet supply manufacturers.
"
Haaaahahahah that's the most insightful financial advice I've seen this year, and I've spent 6 months googling ideas of how this financial crisis will play out
"Men value love, women love value."
"Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically."
-- Entrepreneurs in Cars
Taken directly from Rollo and not attributed
Yet Rollo thinks that meathead is his buddy
@@cedarbay3994 exactly that meathead cooper even looks sleazy
Theyre both cucked by women still lol, one foot in one foot out, rollos married and coopers still in and out of relationships lol, theyre insightful men but in no way can i listen to either of them while theyre still under the lens of blue
@@cedarbay3994 and he's become a busy life coach now ... but he's always only been an information co-ordinating channel, nothing more. Listen to his vocab, it isn't much to brag about.
Yet somehow society believes women are the romantic, idealistic gender Just because she utterz the word "Awwww!! That's so sweet" now and then... While looking like she can't contain her tears. The soft, gentle, exterior with puppy dog eyes... etc.... But in the end it's men who after finding a woman that he's truly into who are the ones that devote their lives to the relationship.
Mgtow Monk
K22 N34_Dingowarrior str8 facts!!!
Be a monk won't help either...
If she doesn't benefit from you, she states you are USELESS.
She doesn't care that you're useful to yourself. You're only useful if you're useful to her.
Solipsism in plain sight . Purest form .
The day that you worship a woman is the day that you unlock hells' doors by your hands .
Jack Reacher said it best......
"I can't afford you!"
Then he said " then l really can't afford you " after she discloses she's not a prostitute in which case you get your money's worth lol
@@saywhat.. True indeed. Once you show a pretty girl you don't need her. Her feelings started that fight.
The best relationships in nature are suppose to be symbiotic, where both sides benefit and grow to become better united. Modern relationships nowadays are either parasitic, where only one benifits and the other is at best unaffected and at worst slowly suffers, or predatory, where one benefit by devouring and destroying the other. Im sorry, I didnt ask for a parasite and I am nobodys prey.
I don't get it either... relationships with others should be SHARED, and not parasitic.
When I was rich I never spent a cent on women and they stayed, happily. She benefited from the idea that the money is there and if there was need, it would be met, even though there was never need.
Once the money was gone, she was gone. The idea couldn't exist without the backing of something real.
Fiat currency doesn't exist in relationships. The idea that I did it once so I can rise again isn't a factor. It's all about "show me the money", rather than spend the money on me.
Knowing that if I were to get money again, the women would return is another bitter red pill to swallow.
Never advertise you wealth or lack of it.
@@gladiammgtow4092 When I had wealth, it was my life. I worked, I dealt with rental properties, and I directed my company. It would not have been possible to compartmentalize all of this and keep it secret. I didn't have money sitting in a vault. My phone was being used a lot. I didn't advertise anything. I didn't drive a fancy vehicle. Yes, I was a single man living in a nice, half million dollar house, but otherwise, I was just living my life normally.
@ETB Indeed, every man with money and a head on his shoulders knows this.
@Diggy d sorry to hear that. Good luck to you, and all of us.
@@pledgestone how come you're not as wealthy anymore?
Exactly what happened to me when I got engaged. I told her we were seeing a financial planner and we were going to sit down and come up with short term, and long term goals. She did not want to reveal her debt, so she left. She thought, since I had a house that was my only debt, some play toys a car, I would pay off her debt.
Not willing to disclose her debt when getting engaged is reveling a lack of trust and basically being a trap set up on you. That's a real red flag warning you to jump ship and dodge that bullet no matter what.
On the other hand, annoucing you're seeing a financial planner is a good shit test on her. And she failed it big fucking time!
@@fudogwhisperer3590 Same happened to me.
The second part of Briffault's Law was the one I became most aware of in my younger years as my own mother told me this as a teenager:
"A woman cares about three things in her life.
1. Herself.
2. Her offspring.
3. Her blood family relatives.
You, (As a man), will never be a priority in her life as long as a you support her priorities. If that man fails to support her priorities at any time during the course of the relationship. The woman will discard him like a used tampon."
As a teenager, I had no clue what my mother was trying to tell me. Now as a grown man, it is clear what is expected/ demanded by women from a men. You have a choice gentlemen. I suggest you choose wisely.
A special mother she is that gives her Son such a heads up, choosing him over female group preference.
Shout out to your mum!!! 👌🏾👍🏾✊🏾😎
@@mrphyl3041 Most mothers want the best for their children. My mother understood women well as she had two sisters that went off of the deep end. And she did not want my sister and I to suffer the same fate. So she along with my father made it their mission to train us as children. While many of my childhood friends ridiculed us for what we were going through as children. Years later in conversations, they had a much better appreciation of how we were taught and wished their parents did the same with them. Life is hard. Very hard. And my parents wanted both of us to understand it so that we could survive.
@@MLR400 your mother was spot on.
I was in a long term relationship for 15 years. Did everything right, but kept separate domiciles. My solution to the 'what do I get?' question was to buy her a life insurance policy on myself. That seemed to work for a while and allowed taking the discussion to it's core principles - namely that she (despite making more $ than me) expected to 'get' something from the relationship (resources, money, property etc). After all that time of friendship and loyalty, she eventually just said "I don't want to see you anymore". And that was it. So, your observation in the video speaks to the core of truth of the relationship between men and women. They don't need us, they want our stuff and will exploit sex without feeling guilty about it.
It isn't exploitation, it is extortion.
Feel your pain
Most relationships with women are like that. They ask - how much do you have and when can I get it ? This is why you don't marry her, she is now legally tied to all your money, land, savings, house and future income.
Woman need men. Everything they use is designed and built by men. Thats where the state comes in. If she can't sceme or steal it from you, daddy government will take it from men by force. The state is womans privat army. As a collective, woman cost money during their lifespan but the fact she can produce the future corporate slaves for everybody to leech from is the reason you as a man are the target (not the prise). The world has never been a patriarchie and it never will be. The only thing we can do as men is not to play the rigged game if we want things to balance out.
I'll never again forget that great saying that seems to be a mantra women tend to follow: "what's yours is mine, and what's mine is mine".
@Light Head Precisely! More and more of my friends are coming around to seeing that. They aren't Red Pill or GTOW but they see the hypocrisy. They are definitely demanding more from their partners, not settling and requesting pre-nups. The slow turn is happening.
Kastigatr Here's another version: "What I earn is mine. What you earn is ours.". Just one more trick from the -parasite's- woman's playbook.
This is so true. The sad thing is many men won’t believe it until little “Ms. Right” runs them through the ringer.
Folks, all I can say is, that every man needs to have a long memory. Overcome your anger, but never forget!!!
This is quite profound. I've lately been keeping females at arms distance financially and it is definitely true that once they realize that it's a symbiotic relationship instead of a parasitic one, they tend to quickly lose interest at that point.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
Brilliant message!
Always Remember it's only your turn!
only having sex with 1 woman ever in your life is fucking beyond boring 95% of the time. Why do most men want this anyways?
@@michaelangst6078 I'm a 36 year old asexual virgin. I've been cool with me since forever so.🤷🏽♂️
When most men hear "protector and provider" they automatically think of it as doing it for women. To me being a protector and provider is 100% about myself, in my opinion we should be more focused on self preservation as opposed to being selfless for those who will discard us when given a better option the majority of the time.
correct, maybe the first time in history the narrative was changed to benefit them, only a secure and resourceful male can extend is generosity.
Exactly correct
@@shadowwalker9203 Thanks! I like your screen name bro
Amen brother. That is some Barbarossa level knowledge that you're dropping.
FACTS. Its ALL about me. My needs and wants is top priority.
1:40 Always laughed at women's "no baggage" requirement. Not only does everyone have baggage in some way, but the definition of "baggage" is whatever women want it to be to justify discarding men.
100% THIS, its the second part of the law that made me lose all interest in having a relationship...even short term flings leave a sweet bitter taste in my mouth.
"Being sucessful with women" what a load of BULLCRAP...more like an exploitable target….. NO THANKS!
You can set boundaries with a woman like you can with a child. The difference is, the child can't leave, but the woman can, & WILL.
I hadn't quite thought of the WEIGHT of that word, yes, not SHARE ….Benefit.
"She just falls out of love..." What I would give for this ability.
Flaming Olives Matter Too It gets easier when you don’t allow emotions to guide your thinking, and use more of your rationality.
They never were in "love" with the person, that is the excuse to go with the lie they said in the first place. That is "how" they do it. They are to emotional to fall out of love.
Don't worry, eventually you will lose the ability to fall in. I think I lost it when I was 5.
@@mr.invisible1400 Exactly.
The catch to that ability is that women are also not capable of falling in love in the first place.
They are only smitten with the idea of getting financial benefits from you. And if you break up with her, she can and will get those financial benefits from some other man.
There is no sadness when they leave you. There is no true happiness and extacy when she hooks up with you either; Instead there is a short lived, shallow ego rush emerging from the notion of having conquered and enslaved yet another fool who will finance her decadent lifestyle and do her bidding.
The effects of Briffault's Law are even more pronounced with the myth of women's independence, since she doesn't consider men's support of her as necessary to her survival. So in her mind the stakes are lowered and so the contribution of men is downplayed when it's literally a matter of life and death. In other words, the ongoing benefit of being with a man (avoiding destitution) doesn't enter into her calculation of benefit. It's just more gibs.
I am a 32 year old female. I always go 50/50 on anything financial whether it's rent, bills, groceries or dinner dates. I kept my bank accounts separate in all previous relationships and would ask no questions about spending and expected the same. As long as my partner is contributing their 50, more power to however they choose to spend their money. We're adults. I don't look for any qualities in men that I myself don't embody as a person, whether it's independence or living situation, or mindset.
Finally, I have several male friends I appreciate for their skills, insights and values. They enrich my life simply with their character and not because I can use them in any way. I take good care of myself on my own and integrate them as a part of my life simply because of what their character has to offer and not a collection of benefits.
I am sorry this video represents the experience of many men, but please be aware that it is not all there is. The world is vast and varied and has soo many wonderful and conscientious people. Have your heart in the right place, and you will find them.
Take care of yourself and love others equally.
A woman with this mindset is almost unheard of. I tell women the exact same thing that HuMAN mentioned in the video. I say “I'm never getting married, you’re not moving in with me, I’m not having kids and we are not joining bank accounts.” The moment I say this they are gone. Spending time with me and going on adventures just doesn’t cut it. I have a home, fun toys, assets and security and I think HuMAN is right when he says that once a women can't benefit from my things, she gone.
There is a glitch in the Matrix. A place where 2+2 make five. There it is.
@@Anonymous-md2qp Or maybe these women just want to get married and have kids so you're just not the right guy for them.
B.s.
Women: But won't you do this for me?
Men: Well, no. Why should I? Would you in my place?
And then, no matter how great of a man you are, when she realized she can't push your further (because you have your boundaries) - it's over. Most women think it's essential part of the game for men to play by their rules. When they realize you play by your own rules, even if you try to make it fair for both parties, their no longer interested in you as a man.
Great video man, something to think about, thanks for that. Nice holidays to you and hope to hear from you soon enough.
In that shit right now using our daughter like it's power to her like she thinks I have no rights funny thing she had a boy in a previous relationship that she has no contact with
Amen to that, took my ex a year and half to try and foil me into her ways.. i almost conceited. Then like the saying goes shes only as loyal as her options, she monkey branched and is trying the same right now with some simp
@@Foxgaming-th7pl NEVER get involved with a single mother. EVER.
@@totw41 correct
Funny that, as women say that they want a man who is assertive and not submissive. 😂
Briffault's Law, Gravity and Buoyancy. All natural Phenomena that should be Mandatory curricula for young Men.
@M Z SSHHHHHH, you can't tell people the truth !!
@M Z Fear is the most powerful control mechanism.
I had always known this yet convinced myself that I would eventually find the one. To be optimistic about whammen is to live in a fools paradise no worries though as I'm content being solo and enjoy the freedom. Thanks huMAN for bringing this salient point front and center, all the best for the new year mien sage.
What's the suicide rate of men that are single? It's much higher then married men. Something you might consider.
@@Bob-fz7pd - What's the suicide rate ratio between "never married" and "divorced"? -- They are both lumped together in the stats.
The male determines how open his wallet is and how resources are distributed in the relationship.
Where a woman consumes too much, as determined by the man, no such relationship will continue.
Lol!
@DiscordShaggy True, but that just means they set a limit at everything they had. That does not negate my corollary, it just makes them poor. Once that limit is reached (whether it is everything or less) then the association ends.
@ETB It's the same statement as Briffaults law. Just written from the negative.
Women choose Men commit.
We can end an association any time we want simply by turning off the benefits to the woman.
@ETB She doesn't turn her feelings off. Her feelings are linked to the resources coming to her.
If men had the heart of women ... you just described the feminist nightmare of gender equality.
To her, you're an ATM, not a person. Don't sacrifice for people who mean to only take from you. Walk away.
Briffault’s Law is sheer brilliance. It’s simplicity, elegance, and proven applicability to reality puts it right up there with the Theory of Evolution as my favourites.
Today would have been my 33rd wedding anniversary. However; after 20 years of marriage my ex-wife got everything she could out of our marriage. American citizenship, a college degree, and a high paying job. She then found another man who had more wealth and left me. Everything this man says is true. 👍
I'm a man that wants to give and receive. I guess I'll be single forever
Benefit = Take FROM YOU.
Means it's diametrically opposed to male SOVEREIGNTY.
That IS hard to face. All interactions by her paradigm will set expiration dates on a relationship.
Major wake up call.
Used to be upsetting that a woman wants more than "just me". Knowing this, I see EVERY relationship with a countdown on it now.
"You only get me"...
Now stand there and hear her say "It's not enough....."
Heartbreaking indeed.
Relationship expiration date.
Brilliant term.
From the first moment, the countdown begins.
Brutal.
Once a man has been financially harvested he will be thrown out like the empty husks or an empty bottle.
Doesn't it suck to be used and tossed aside? I'm glad to see that both genders can play that game. I think women might be a bit better at it, honestly.
Important extension of Briffault's law: past benefits accrued by the female don't count for the future. If you give her all your stash today, she's gone the day after tomorrow.
Think of your best friend. Have they ever asked you to sign a legally binding lifetime contract or they will no longer be your friend?
"MORE" continues to define the modern woman. Most of them simply think their company should always qualify them as good enough in a man's eyes. The problem is that if you're always the one giving and they are always taking, it will NEVER be enough to satisfy. If both aren't coming into the relationship to give, then one is the Mule and the other, the Leach.
If what she can 'benefit' is her only measure of a relationship then love simply does not exist.
It's all transactional in her eyes.
When they say they love you she’s talking about what you do for her. When that stops so does her “love”
I'm a great guy. I tick every single one of those boxes. I keep my shit and see no reason for "the other" to benefit from my hard work after doing jack shit or for merely existing. The second half of Briffault's law was a hard pill to come to terms with but that's the world we live in. Stay safe, gentlemen.
you provide benefits...she makes sandwiches and washes yer socks.....and diapers yer kids...used to be a fair trade....
....no more
A sandwich is like five minutes of work and today we have washing machines. Its not a fair trade by a sight.
Jason’s Deli makes way better sandwiches than my ex wife ever did. And they hand it to me with a smile.
oh my, it's so true im laughing
Wise words 👍. We men only have to look at the super-rich (who clearly and objectively have it all (money, power, good looks) and see that women STILL leave these men to prove this whole argument. Clearly the woman isn’t just after the man, she wants his stuff and would rather have all his stuff without him.
If a super-rich man can’t keep a woman happy, what chance for us “normal” men?
Red Pill Lion yup 👍
That's the heart of the matter. Even if you're Tom Cruise and Channing Tatum, you can't keep them.
I love your vids man
I saw this exact issue with women when I was 20
I'm now 41
Single party loving risk free life
aka batchelor living
It's like a business and the woman is the manager, she wants the money, she wants everything to do for HER
Don't fall for that
On the positive side, being stingy after the honeymoon is a great way to get ride of a female.
Tell your date that you go out with, that you just lost your job and you only RENT an apartment, you don't actually own a house. Half the time she will immediately stop what she's doing/saying, pick up her purse, and walk out on you right there, without even saying goodbye.
I used to get women mad when I rejected them. (Women almost never get rejected so can't handle it well.) I then used to say I was gay. Now I just say I'm poor. Works great. They smile and say goodbye with no issues at all. Another one is to ask to go dutch. That works well also. Flush them out then flush them down.
Excellent video. What gets me is how the one who wants to know "where is this relationship going" is she who has had 50 or more men in her past, and couldn't bond with you if she wanted to. Yet, she insists on an answer involving your commitment to her. Ridiculous!
This makes a great deal of sense, and explains why a lot of incels nowadays just can't afford supporting a modern "independent" woman. She will always keep her earnings. We will need to "share" ours. Be weary she doesn't steal your soul in the process.
And just like that, another lightbulb goes off. This explains so much for me. I have many of the qualities listed and struggled to grasp why she ended things. It was because I was unwilling to give it all. I was looking for someone to share my life with, as you said, whereas she wanted someone that would give it all.
one of my ex taught me this a long time ago. also a single mother never again.
Dumped on the spot once i told her i was not going to financially support her kid and asked what she was bringing to the table besides her pussy.
Absolute truth Human. It’s not negativity as most women and blue pill men would say, it’s the truth. No shamming language will bring me back to the plantation. And prenatal agreements don’t work either. Judges and lawyers can rip them up and wipe their asses with them like nothing.
All the best to my friends in Australia with those wild fires. America has your backs.
And that's the hard truth of the matter, a dish best served cold. I hope it's opened up some eyes out there.
This conversation has exploded on the internet over the last 3-5 years. I've read through a lot of the comments here. IT"S FUCKING SCARY...how we all see it the same way and our stories are so similar... it's very telling. For one, it must be true, and two, we've had enough of losing. The stereo type of men not sharing their feelings and thoughts is fading. The internet has given light to the truth that men need other men and are willing to seek each other out, for the comfort and understanding that only other men can give. It's time we put women back in their place...It's time to ignore them. God bless brothers !
I inherently knew that this was the reason for my ex divorcing me after 32 years but I just couldnt wrap my head around the mechanics of why. I have put a lot of the little pieces of the puzzle together, this however finalizes the whole picture for me and looking back at my dating experiences why some of the women chose me and others did not. Thanks Human. Now I can put this whole question to bed. And now that my eyes have been really opened I have to ask myself, and any potential female companion what it is that they are expecting me to contribute that they will not. And I will always remember it is what they do, not what they say.
@@leegrande8226
Modern women dont love men, they love what he can do for them. Many of them cant even love their children. I guess you could call that depressing...it is reality and men have to adapt to that to survive. The first step to surviving the present predicament is to change your mindset. If you see it as a problem it will be depressing because you are in victim mode. If you see it as a challenge to be overcome, you empower your mindset and start looking for viable options...the former keeps you living in the past and the latter has you living in the present with an eye on the future.
Stay away from them WAHHHHMEN. She is bad news
i feel that every man should have his own set of rules sitting quietly in the back of his mind, there's no need to share these rules with anyone, just check in with them occasionally because once you compromise you're own rules regret usually follows.
the rules of cohabitation with a woman conflict with my rules.
You are absolutely right! Personally, cohabitation doesn't bother me that much if it's my pad. My iron-clad rule is that I can never move in with a woman. I prefer to be dead than live under a roof provided by a woman!
@@torpedoe1936 if the woman has the upper hand she will rub your nose in it
When I first met my girlfriend she started telling me she loves me. That was after 2 weeks. At that time I told her never to tell me she loves me again. We have been in a none live in casual relationship for 4 years now & she has never told me that lie again.
Woman can't love, without you giving them something & that's not love.
That's not love. That's love bombing.
Again you're spot-on.... If she cannot benefit from those attributes and selfishly those benefits are not relate to her and her alone. Then she will not have any problem with kicking you to curb. that is why it pisses them off when they are not able to convince a guy to give up all of his success and status so that it can be handed over to her on a platter without any effort to earn it.
Good video woman have at such an easy life and they don't even know
Only if they look really good but on the other hand , if you are a good looking guy at 6.4 you will also have a nice life, compared to a short average looking guy.
This is what I needed to hear right now. I’ve been working on myself, and I should be careful about where I draw my boundaries now that I’m “a catch”
I believe this book may help. Enjoy yourself:
archive.org/details/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy
She could objectively benefit from you in the many ways that men like to show their love through acts of service. But if that doesn't stack up against what she can get elsewhere -- and it won't -- she's gone.
Quote from my ex, - I'm glad you earn more than me (it wasn't by much, we both earned great wages) because when we have children I know you will be able to support us.
Fairly innocuous at the time, but can now see the underlying female drive to be looked after.
Biologically it makes sense - it's the way it is.
"A good woman is worth more than pearls". As an agnostic I don't often quote scripture but In this case it's true. A good wife and mother is worth more than a man can provide.
The others need to pay their own way.
@@Bob-fz7pd yes, but in the end, even a good woman will cut and run if you falter on your end of the bargain.....in fact, she becomes less tolerant of your failings because she uses herself as the benchmark you that have to exceed (men always have to be higher "value")
1Mutton1 so glad I don’t play that game anymore. No more stressing out if I’m good enough.
@@1Mutton1 what you call monkey branching is a tendency not an absolute. The male cliche of leaving an aging wife for a younger woman is probably as common. After 30 years of good times and bad my wife still calls me commander. A name she came up with after moving to the States and being exposed to feminism. Exceptions exist. Now go enjoy your hobbies while the rest of us build families and the future.
@@Bob-fz7pd 70 to 80% of divorces are filed by woman (depending on the country). Just saying, it doesn't seem to be the trend.
Glad your still happily married. Just make sure you remain the commander.
It also amazes me how men are expected to pay the monthly fee within these dating apps as well... if you don't pay not one female contacts you.😀
I came to this realisation a few years ago. It was very difficult for me to accept and make a change to my belief system/programming. Thanks God I woke up.
If she can’t add anything to a relationship, what’s the point of having her there?
The thing I don't get about the second part of B's law is, doesn't that apply to men as well? Isn't it equally true of men, that we don't stay in a relationship unless we are benefiting from it? Generally speaking, people don't do things unless they're benefiting from it in some way. That's not so much a law of female nature as a law of human nature.
since it's unlikely that you'll be receiving material support, then it falls upon emotional or physical support in the form of a hole of cum in.
The latter is solved readily but that brings us into the first factor: validation.
It's a weakness that I struggle with as well, I love consensual sex (sex without a overt transmission of material benefit), since you really get the best out of the woman.
It's really hard to remove oneself from the apparent circumstances, and realize that if not for the time blindness, it's an investment on the woman's part, based on a promise of happiness of benefit by association.
much like Stendhal said: "Beauty is a promise of happiness..." but in reverse, "Beauty (to a woman) is a promise of benefit...".
50 year old plus women almost never have anything to offer.
It is heart breaking....not many survive....the few learn.
Sex/ relationship is basically used as a weapon of mass destruction.
Sad truth...but it is liberating!
Cheers huMAN.
People tell me I shouldn't be single because I have some good qualities (tall, some money, no debt, own car ect), this video explains why I am single 👌
Hi huMAN! Thanks for all the commentary, thought, effort, and care you've put into your channel and others in 2019! You've been a help to me in my journey.
That was eloquently said. Throughout my life I have heard, “What are we?” I never realized it was only code for - “is there MORE!” Fucking MORE! This is the the part of life that makes me sick; what a gut-punch! I don’t care any more to be, “enough.” Had a home invasion robbery with 3 men trying to break in while my wife and I were home. I felt like a hero at the time being the man that went downstairs to protect us. Now, I just feel like a fool risking my life and savoring a false bravado. Thank you huMan for bringing me such clarity.
This is the exploitative part that gets me unfriendly towards any one. Not just only women.
You should be a jeweler with the gold words coming out of your mouth. Amazingly accurate. My friend just got married to a woman that was renting a home, she convinced him prior to getting married to sell his home and buy them a bigger one. My friend had lost his job a few years early but happen to drive Uber. This idiot went on and sold his home then purchased a home with her credentials cause he didn't show enough on paper; u get the jist. She only married him just for the roof and to say she is now a home owner. Oh, btw she was previously married 2wice with 3 kids, 2 from 1 guy and 1 from the other. Yes, my friend gets a Grammy for being a complete doormat.
Great title, great video. I would add not only money, but involuntary servitude! She wont stay without that either. It's extortion plain and simple. Keep them out of your life on any of their terms.
They just want you to keep pouring, even if their cup runeth over. They want to know that you are prepared to have nothing left after making them happy.
You just gave me the revelation that made so much make sense. Thank you for this, huMAN.
This is what @huMAN and we all are here for. One more Man with his eyes open. That's a reason for Masculine celebration!
I hear a lot in this space that women are only with you for resources, but this doesn't explain why there are so many women with "losers", guys who don't have money or status.
Relationships are transactions and we all pay in one way or another.
"Warning Signs" The first lie is never the last. Accept the truth!
That is so TRUE. I wish I followed that advice. Once a liar always a liar. Once a cheater always a cheater. Crazy now, always crazy. Be safe gents.
This literally breaks my heart ........ that I know this to be true ........ and as a result I will forever be an army of 1..... it hurts but at least I know the truth..... the painful and lonely truth
It’s part of maturing as an adult. Unfortunately many men don’t discover this until after they have been divorced and they lose everything!
Patriarchy solves the problem.
When the man is placed higher than the woman socially, HE controls how much she can benefit from him.
The problem is we live under matriarchy, that pretends to be a patriarchy, and have no protection other than going our own way.
Your saving lives for those of us whom are listening and willing to do what's necessary .... Go hard after your hobbies , passions mental emotional health and financial security .
My 21-year-old self says why is this guy taking all this so seriously my 46-year-old self says man if more men understood this
This is so true. I'm in the process of an ending 10-year relationship for just this reason. Ignore Briffault at your on risk.
She can also leave mentally or emotionally. I was stuck in a relationship like that for 4-5 years of my life, until she tried to cuck me, while at the same time having arguments about her now wanting to have a baby (she stopped birth control without telling me). She was completely incoherent and wanting this or that and getting angry when I would not go along with it. In the end I had to leave her, as she would have stayed in that toxic relationship forever as it was giving her a baseline of security. Now I am growing again I make my own life without being guilt tripped for any and all choices I make.