Matthew Hussey Reveals Why He Doesn't Love "Self-Love" | The Drew Barrymore Show

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  • Опубликовано: 2 май 2024
  • "Love Life" author Matthew Hussey joins Drew Barrymore to chat about his new book, his philosophy on modern dating, and more! In this clip, Matthew reveals why he doesn't like the term "self-love" and what a better mindset may be for accepting and loving one's self.
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Комментарии • 34

  • @claudiaclutch1958
    @claudiaclutch1958 14 дней назад +29

    From RUclips to Hollywood...well done to him. Followed him for YEARS

  • @katealison6087
    @katealison6087 2 дня назад +5

    Makes so much sense. A reframe that made my hair stand up on end. I love that "it's not a feeling, it's an approach." It's therefore a trainable action which I know from experience can be easy to install in your brain just through the right kind of focus and repetition. I taught my brain to feel happy every morning, regardless of what else is happening and it works. I know that this book will be full of other hair up on ends moments so I've just ordered it. I've followed Matthew Hussey for several years and it's great to see him achieve so much success - in both his personal and professional life. He deserves every bit of it.

  • @dianabecerra4326
    @dianabecerra4326 18 дней назад +35

    These two deserve more time together!
    Also, Drew never ceases to amaze me with her kindness and warmth.
    Whoever ends up sharing their life with her will be so blessed! 😭

  • @janet2188
    @janet2188 17 дней назад +28

    I’m 61 years old and found this to be so helpful for myself when he reframed self love, so true that we all can learn from, to keep taking care of ourselves as human first. ❤

  • @ffyonacampbell1111
    @ffyonacampbell1111 14 дней назад +19

    Since ordering the book, I'd moved house so, in order to collect my copy delivered to a Post Office on the other side of the county, I had to cycle for 45 mins to the bus stop, catch two buses totally 1hour 50 mins, walk 45 mins to the Post Office, collect my copy of Love Life by Matthew Hussey. I tore open the envelope, read only the dedication, and knew the journey had been worth it for that alone. It carried me all the way home.

  • @leecohen6959
    @leecohen6959 11 дней назад +5

    True you can easily say to your kid - I love you even when I’m angry. It’s time to say it for you.

  • @AveWiesengrund
    @AveWiesengrund 16 дней назад +10

    The term "self-love" for me is just the short version of: my parent(s) failed to give me the basics to grow up to a healthy, loving adult. Finally i was able to let go of that blame (using the phrase "they did as good as they could at that time") and I started to be responsible for myself- with the help of strategies like inner child work and re-parenting myself. I no longer blame others, i work on myself to learn how to be the best parent for myself. Today I can say: I am happy, I love myself_ every day, even when I do not give my best. I forgive myself if I fail, because there is always a new day to try again.

    • @sandrabryant5228
      @sandrabryant5228 15 дней назад +3

      'He who blames others has a long way to go on their journey. He who blames himself is halfway there. He who blames no one has arrived' ~ Ancient Proverb

  • @slindilengcobo3235
    @slindilengcobo3235 13 дней назад +3

    I love the analogy of parental love as a way of thinking about self love. And Drew’s authenticity.

  • @pixxiespit
    @pixxiespit 17 дней назад +9

    This same logic can be applied to the Mind - Body relationship; use that as a motivating factor to take better care for your body and make healthier choices, and not just with food.

  • @angeandwords
    @angeandwords 13 дней назад +4

    God , what a great speech! I almost cried💛

  • @tuffybuf
    @tuffybuf 10 дней назад +1

    I adore Matthew! He's like my Internet brother that I never met. Such a cool, genuine guy. Thanks for having him on.

  • @trisf1589
    @trisf1589 16 дней назад +5

    fantastic approach, thank you ❤

  • @ainatler
    @ainatler 17 дней назад +5

    Yes, 100% this is so accurate!

  • @martaskrzynska658
    @martaskrzynska658 8 дней назад +1

    Probably the most important video I’ve ever watched. Thank you so much, Matthew 🙏

  • @ramzy-6566
    @ramzy-6566 17 дней назад +4

    Drew. always make us happy.

  • @coreyhendricks9490
    @coreyhendricks9490 18 дней назад +10

    Drew is so adorable, love her 🥰❤️😊

  • @amandav9091
    @amandav9091 16 дней назад

    Definitely agree unconditional or for self is key

  • @carriedolha788
    @carriedolha788 16 дней назад +3

    Nailed it......

  • @yichen4398
    @yichen4398 17 дней назад +5

    Love ❤️ Peace Rainbow 🌈!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @SundayCookingRemix
    @SundayCookingRemix 15 дней назад +2

    Self compassion

  • @arianacyrus4640
    @arianacyrus4640 10 дней назад

    This made my cry

  • @rockymountains02
    @rockymountains02 9 дней назад

    I love this so much!

  • @ismp7633
    @ismp7633 18 дней назад +5

    Wow.... Makes since. By allowing the bad treatment , tells and shows others what I will accept and approve of.!!! Light bulb on!

  • @helenjensen3729
    @helenjensen3729 11 дней назад +4

    Exactly! We need a parent-child relationship. The answer ins GOD; The holy father!

  • @David-yu5bz
    @David-yu5bz 14 дней назад

    Interview ok for two minutes 🎉 😊😊

  • @chad9186
    @chad9186 17 дней назад

    I like your earrings Drew

  • @Leslove1777
    @Leslove1777 12 дней назад +1

    Earrings looking heavy Drew

  • @randomvlogsandthings
    @randomvlogsandthings 15 дней назад +3

    Honestly i haven't watched his stuff because when he first started everything was behind a paywall and it felt really sleezy

  • @ModernDalai
    @ModernDalai 8 дней назад +1

    Sorry to say sounds like complete spinning. Self love IS about unconditionally loving ourselves. Has nothing to do with loving ourselves because of xyz.

  • @Whoeverwhateverwhenever
    @Whoeverwhateverwhenever 18 дней назад +6

    Why do many people say he is a scam artist? 🤔

    • @dianaballon0210
      @dianaballon0210 16 дней назад +8

      He sort of was when he first started. I’m so glad he has grown, matured and evolved so much, because what he shares now is much deeper and more important.

    • @Paula-fd6lj
      @Paula-fd6lj 14 дней назад +4

      He got a bad reputation when he was dating Camila Cabello by her fans. They believed he was using her for fame but they lasted for 1 yr together n she dumped him for Shawn so I think its safe to say he loved her. Additionally, he mentions post that breakup that for the first time he got his heart broken. And she writes a song about it, bad butterflies and his answer in the song about it is sooo Matthew. He is awesome

  • @yichen4398
    @yichen4398 17 дней назад +1

    Orange 🍊 Gym is a good recommendation?! Only $1 per monthly!!! Get you fit as as a dumb bell ?! Lolzzzzz