My husband didn’t have a secure job when we got engaged/married. But I was so pleased with his Deen and his akhlaq and we both knew that Allah provides barakah and riqz. It was 3 months after we got married that my husband got a job that pays 3x the amount that he used to earn. Alhamdullilah 💗
Its very beneficial for those who are married and not married yet you learn what it takes to be a good husband or wife. It takes a lot of sacrifice and patience May Allah make it easy for us. Ameen 🙏
May Allah bless you with Jannah solely for doing this series... I am sure you will be saving a lot of marriages from falling apart and fixing the unhappy ones.... I know since I started watching, I have had the realization how I have been falling short in my duties towards my husband... pray for me Allah guides me and helps me in improving my marriage
Before I found my husband-to-be I prayed to Allah to marry me with a man that is right for me and I right for him. I acknowledge my weakness that I'm a human that only can do so much, and cannot see the future. I ask for Allah's guidance (something I routinely do until now). When I found my husband-to-be I did the istikharah prayer. For 3 nights I did it until after the third night doing it, a big calm and steadfastness came over me, and I married him not long after. When we first met he wasn't very religious, but he did his daily wajib salats, and he had a good etiquette. He's family (parents and siblings) has a strong bond with each other. He was a strong and responsible man. He didn't have a lot of money but he had a job and a willingness to work. Alhamdulillah now we have 5 children (so far), and I feel really compatible with him. We fill and cover for each other. We've went through a lot of ups and downs (or downs and more downs, before coming up 😁). When we married I was 19 and he was 24. I was in university and he dropped out of university. Alhamdulillah I graduated more than 2.5 years later, bringing a toddler and a baby. Since I was in elementary school I've read a lot of books about Islamic marriage so I understand the responsibilities of the wife and husband. I also got to read the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I discussed it with my husband and used that to learn how to be a better spouse for him. One advice I took to heart in the beginning of my marriage and has served me well is this: "focus on my responsibilities and forget my rights." This might sound crazy in a world that focuses too much on rights. I focus my mind and energy on doing my responsibilities, and only ask my payment from Allah. Alhamdulillah, this helped me be more thankful and receive so much good in my life. I pray that my husband and I will be forever together 'till Jannah, and rise good and strong muslim men and women that in turn will build up strong families. Aamiin.
ماشاء الله تبارك الله لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم. Masha Allah nice to hear that. 🤲بارك الله فيكما و جمع بينكما فى خير. آمين يارب العالمين. Alhamdulilah my marriage has been fixed after a lot of searching 😁. 🤲May Allah the Almighty preserve love between us all Aameen
MashAllah! sister That is such a beautiful example, I have never seen a good manly figure in my life, when it comes to a husband 😣😣, Im 19 and I hope I get to meet the right person in life and try my best to earn the etiquette of marriage. Thank you so much for making me hopeful again. May you and your family be rewarded with jannah al firdaus AMEN
Its really true syekh, a women mostly doing something from the heart and feeling not by logically.. but as a women Im thankfull to having a full of love, i cannt imagine how a women treat husband without feeling and take caring a kids without feeling, and i believe even all man mostly doing something by logically but they will be happy when having a wife full of love and full of caring. May Allah give us so much reward when we try to sabr for ibadah on married life.
Asalamalekom dear brother after watching your series i came to know that you are far more knowledgeable than most of celebrity speakers. May allah sw reward you jazakallah kheir for these beautiful episodes ❤️🎉😊
I dont know for some reason this touched my heart. May Allah make your marriage like our prophets and make your husband the best spouse, Ameeen. And if possible try to auto-translate in the caption
Ma sha Allah, ma sha Allah, best speech, I have ever heard about marriage in my 21 years of marriage. Jazakallahu khaira dear brother for this series. May Allah give you ajar e azeem for this .ameen suma ameen 🙏
Jazak Allah khairan brother..I've never heard a talk in so much details... each and every of your words are sooo true. I've witnessed almost all you are saying in my marital life..after 40 years with my husband and first time I get my answers of my Q & doubts...Alhamdulillah I was not always wrong...may Allah forgive me for my jahilia thought/behaviour and help me in my journey till my last day In this world.
This is Mashaa Allah so HELPFUL to married,unmarried divorced etc May Allah swt grants Ali Hammuda happiness and joy in his marriage too, his kids and wife be the coolness of his eyes and theirs. Ameen
This is the best series on marriage I have ever heard of mA. It keeps getting better. Love the sheikhs calm and mellowing demeanor and his humility. So many gems. May Allah grant us all with righteous spouses and marriages ameen.
Very wonderful episodeds I've just come across.. Hardly few scholars of religion speak about these realities.. As a student of you I like the approach you take.. You speak on a topic that is very important but not much importance is given.. Baraka'Allahu feek ya shaykh..
This episode is superb! Allahumma bārik ya shaykh! May Allah increase you in beneficial knowledge and may we all be open to understand everything presented here. Ameen 🤲🏽
JazakAllah Khairan Brother Ali. I have learned and benefitted a lot. I have always been amongst those women who sees the rules as skewered between men and women generally. I am working on myself and my perception of the sexes. May Allah reward you abundantly for my understanding of your explanations and my intention to put what you've taught into practice. JazakAllah Khairan
Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️
وَالَّذِيۡنَ يَقُوۡلُوۡنَ رَبَّنَا هَبۡ لَـنَا مِنۡ اَزۡوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ اَعۡيُنٍ وَّاجۡعَلۡنَا لِلۡمُتَّقِيۡنَ اِمَامًا ﴿25:74﴾ (25:74) who are prone to pray: "Our Lord! Grant us that our spouses and our offspring be a joy to our eyes,92 and do make us the leaders of the God-fearing."93
Wow! Subhanallah! The most important thing I extracted from this is the differences between man and woman especially cognitively. Very well explained and beautifully ended! Mashallah. Really helpful and something definitely to ponder upon before I get married Inshallah. May Allah reward you 😊
MashaAllah tabarak Allah May Allah swt protect and preserve you and increase you in goodness dear Shiekh. Ameen Jazak Allahu khaire for yet another most beneficial series of lectures. May Allah swt make it heavy on your scale of good deeds. Ameen
May Allah Grant us righteous spouses that’ll bring us tranquility in life and keep us steadfast in our deen when we’re young as well as when we get older
Sahih al-Bukhari 510 Narrated Busr bin Sa`id: "Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, 'If the person who passes in front of another person in prayer knew the magnitude of his sin he would prefer to wait for 40 (days, months or years) rather than to pass in front of him." Abu An-Nadr said, "I do not remember exactly whether he said 40 days, months or years."
I am at this stage of my life where I'm sure of a person being able to atleast understand principals of marriage but nothing further is happening. Please pray for me to get married to someone who is ready to follow the marriage on Islamic principles and correct foundations
The Prophet said: "Were you to put your complete trust in Allah, He would provide for you as He provides for the birds. They issue forth hungry in the morning and return filled in the evening." [At-Tirmithi]
sheikh can you acknowledge the reasons other than feminism as to why less women want to get married? cheating, abuse etc. and how we can educate people about these issues.
My ex husband was b=very religious, going for jamaat every month and doing joula every week. But he was so abusive in every single way that after 27 long, painful years, I filed for divorce. It has been 1.5 years and i still have not gotten my freedom because he won't let me go. I suffer from mental health issues and none of my 4 daughters want to ever get married because of how I was treated. It is thanks to these so called scholars that spread male supremacy that gives men license to men to abuse women without any consequences. it is so sad that under the name of religion, men are been glorified just because they are born with a penis.
I'm so sorry to hear your story. However, I don't know what you mean by "so called scholars glorifying religious men" Sister, I don't know about other scholars, but Shaykh Ali Hammuda clearly stated that women shouldn't marry a man only because he's "a religious person" they should look at his conduct behind close doors. So, the fact that your daughters don't wanna get married is really concerning. Because, if they are scared of marriage, then they will find comfort in other way i.e., non-marital relationship. So, I advice you to teach your daughters that they won't have to go through what you went through. I know you are traumatized by your ex, but plz for the sake of Allah don't pass your prejudice view of men to your daughters that's extremely dangerous. Anyways, May Allah swt, ease your pain and suffering. btw, I've nv seen any scholar that give permission to husbands to be abusive toward their wives. I don't know who you're taking about. But if that's true, then they are not scholars they are something else. And ppl like that should nv hv any platform EVER.
On the sexual drive of the language of economy mentioned - “Women are the suppliers, Men are demanders”…with all due respect to our teacher, and I know that is not his statement but that is not correct and misleading that women dont care much about mAking the most of their sexual with spouse. Sexual desire differences between women and men is so wide. Some are more sexual than the other, regardless of gender, its clear that Allah created us differently as stated many times.Also not to be negative, i.e. many women are divorcing their husbands because of bad sexual life, very common in UAE and Qatar. This can also be vice versa unfortunately. And let’s not forget the incel movement that’s rampant amongst men young and old subhanaAllah
Subhanallah, Allahu Akbar you said exactly what I was think, jazakallah khair for your comment. I think the discussion of marriage principles were great up until the " insert" of differences amongst men and women . In my opinion it's because you can't use popular culture to explain the sharia of Allah. Never the less there is a Sister Sara in the Maghreb institute who does a great job. I also agree with your references on how those poor stereotypes lead to a lot of Muslim men not understanding women ( Ya Rabbi help our beloved brothers) and struggling in relationship involving females i.e. sister's, mother, sisters in the deen , mother in law , wives. I know the teacher means well , May Allah recorded this in his book of deeds nevertheless.
@@abdaalahmad5483 if you think Allah allowed you to have 4 wives as a man because of sexual needs, then you have missed the point and need to educate yourself. It’s filthy and degrading of you to even think like that about what Allah made permissible. And no, men don’t have a higher need of sexual needs, its an individualistic matter, rather then gender based
@@abdaalahmad5483 science lie, and women capacity for out reach men, this is why female prostitution made for a better business then male prostitution. It do appear that men aren't as in control of their desires as much as the majority of women. Also men aren't discretionary about sex either, which makes of for the diversity of the porn business profits. So men who are Muslims i.e. believers should practice morality, decency and upright that is encouraged through the Sunnah and leave the findings of science to the other men. Surely Allah knows best and set for the believers a straight path ! ( science doesn't exactly understand that)
You are going against what Science and Islam have proven. And yes, there are divorces in the Gulf countries but over there are mainly initiated by men as they like to have different women and they can afford many.
I really want to hear the responsibilities of a woman told in the Quran by ALLAH specifically from Sheikh Ali Hammuda. Sheikh, May I ask you to respond to this, please? JazakALLAH Khairan
In reference to his last point about rigid gender roles, doesn’t Islam accommodate a mutually beneficial relationship between a husband and a wife? For example, the Prophet SAW used to help around the house while Hazrat Khadija RA was a successful businesswoman? How does one explain that dynamic in light of what Ali Hammuda is highlighting? To my understanding, Islam is much more accommodating than what most religious preachers teach.
Khadija RA had inherited the wealth from his father khuwailid and his earlier two marriages, she also only conducted buisnes from her home, on the other hand the prophet Muhammad SAW was never a stay at home husband(there is nothing such as a stay at home husband in Islam) he was a merchant and used to travel with goods to trade, this was the very reason he was considered by Khadija RA to take her merchandise aswell. There is a big difference between helping in household chores and being a stay at home husband. One is a good quality that everyone should have and the other is a dead beat.
He answered that sister he said you can't take one or 2 haddith and form an opinion you have to look at the whole religion and give an opinion. Now it is encouraged to help around the house for men and its okay for women to work but that's not what the quran advises or the hadith if you look at the whole religion. It is advised for woman to be the maintainers of the home and men to go out and work
How bout the girls who don't dress modestly, like to hang with guys , and know how to play with them, but claim to be righteous and full of iman? I have my thoughts, but seriously would like to know what others think?? Check yes for these girls or check no?
So if I'm correct the brother says that people from different cultures can't marry? I thought Islam was brought to humanity to dismantle these cultural barriers and backgrounds that we all belong to the one cloak the Umma of Allah that he created us differently so we may know one another other? Can someone explain to me, maybe I got that part wrong.
No you can marry in to other cultures but you need to keep in mind about culture clash and other things like social class and righteousness and other things that could bring problems into your marriage. Thats why this part of the segments is about things you need to keep in mind before marriage
Can anyone please write the Duaa that he mentioned? I don’t speak Arabic and he’s just too fast for me 😅 but I want to learn it InshaAllah. JazakAllah khair
Asalaam Alaikum Ustadh some times we inadvertently connect two different issues together. So how the tension and discomfort in your closing of this lecture focused on feminist women not Muslimah that entire portion detracts from the remaining portion of the lecture. That is to say if we are discussing that which halal in islam harboring over things that are not part of our Deen and does not strengthen your bottom line is wasteful for you and the viewers. The blurb about non-Muslims women feminist Audhubillah Minash Shaitan Rajeem that was not called for your excerpt spoiled my goal of sharing this with non-Muslims women because that is not how the Rasool of Allah salalahi alayahi wa salaam called to that which is right , best or good. Inshallah that will make sense
3 and half Years ago I knew a girl, very sweet, loving and beautiful! We were Soo in love (and 700 km separated us) but didn't want anything before getting married. So she spoke with her parents and told them about us, what we wanted (Halal) ...etc Then we agreed to meet, so I went to see them (13h by bus 2 days after a was hospitalized due to a bicycle accident). For the context at that time I was doing a very hard job (I was a food delivery man riding bicycle 🚲 and a scooter 🛵) and that's when I had an accident. Anyway I still went to see her parents inspite of the pain and I told them everything about me. I was and still praying, I don't smoke, don't drink, that I had studied a lot (I have a master degree in robotics and am very good El hamdoulilleh in informatics) but I am in a bad administrative situation (papers). So I told them everything even the fact that I was in love few years prior but that was over. When we finished they had asked my only question about me but never told me what they expect and they didn't reject me. Then with her father we want outside tu drink a coffee and we spoke, and the only thing he kept saying was why don't I return to my country (this is happening in France)...etc When I went back to my home for more then a week they kept trying to destroy the relationship we had with the girl, they didn't even speak to me to tell me their answer, using lies against me (he is not trust worthy, he will leave you for an other girl, he will not take care of you, he only wants the papers....etc) and by Allah I was 100% honest with her but they didn't want to know anything and kept using lies and bringing questions to her that they never dated to ask me face to face. This is my story showing how sad it is to see how "muslim" parents are nowdays. El hamdoulilleh anyway.
My husband didn’t have a secure job when we got engaged/married. But I was so pleased with his Deen and his akhlaq and we both knew that Allah provides barakah and riqz. It was 3 months after we got married that my husband got a job that pays 3x the amount that he used to earn. Alhamdullilah 💗
This is a sign of being married for the sake of Allah and trusting him. ❤️
May Allah bless your marriage ameen
Allahuma barik 🌸
Same 😀
🤲🤲💖💖💖🤲🤲
Its very beneficial for those who are married and not married yet you learn what it takes to be a good husband or wife. It takes a lot of sacrifice and patience May Allah make it easy for us. Ameen 🙏
May Allah bless you with Jannah solely for doing this series... I am sure you will be saving a lot of marriages from falling apart and fixing the unhappy ones.... I know since I started watching, I have had the realization how I have been falling short in my duties towards my husband... pray for me Allah guides me and helps me in improving my marriage
Before I found my husband-to-be I prayed to Allah to marry me with a man that is right for me and I right for him. I acknowledge my weakness that I'm a human that only can do so much, and cannot see the future. I ask for Allah's guidance (something I routinely do until now). When I found my husband-to-be I did the istikharah prayer. For 3 nights I did it until after the third night doing it, a big calm and steadfastness came over me, and I married him not long after.
When we first met he wasn't very religious, but he did his daily wajib salats, and he had a good etiquette. He's family (parents and siblings) has a strong bond with each other. He was a strong and responsible man. He didn't have a lot of money but he had a job and a willingness to work.
Alhamdulillah now we have 5 children (so far), and I feel really compatible with him. We fill and cover for each other. We've went through a lot of ups and downs (or downs and more downs, before coming up 😁).
When we married I was 19 and he was 24. I was in university and he dropped out of university. Alhamdulillah I graduated more than 2.5 years later, bringing a toddler and a baby.
Since I was in elementary school I've read a lot of books about Islamic marriage so I understand the responsibilities of the wife and husband. I also got to read the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I discussed it with my husband and used that to learn how to be a better spouse for him.
One advice I took to heart in the beginning of my marriage and has served me well is this: "focus on my responsibilities and forget my rights." This might sound crazy in a world that focuses too much on rights. I focus my mind and energy on doing my responsibilities, and only ask my payment from Allah. Alhamdulillah, this helped me be more thankful and receive so much good in my life.
I pray that my husband and I will be forever together 'till Jannah, and rise good and strong muslim men and women that in turn will build up strong families. Aamiin.
MashAllah Ameen to your duas! Please remember the single brothers and sisters looking for marriage❤️
Allahumma Barik lakuma wa yakhlikum li ba’adh 💕💕💕
ماشاء الله تبارك الله لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم.
Masha Allah nice to hear that.
🤲بارك الله فيكما و جمع بينكما فى خير.
آمين يارب العالمين.
Alhamdulilah my marriage has been fixed after a lot of searching 😁.
🤲May Allah the Almighty preserve love between us all
Aameen
Ameen Ya Raab.
MashAllah! sister That is such a beautiful example, I have never seen a good manly figure in my life, when it comes to a husband 😣😣, Im 19 and I hope I get to meet the right person in life and try my best to earn the etiquette of marriage. Thank you so much for making me hopeful again. May you and your family be rewarded with jannah al firdaus AMEN
Its really true syekh, a women mostly doing something from the heart and feeling not by logically.. but as a women Im thankfull to having a full of love, i cannt imagine how a women treat husband without feeling and take caring a kids without feeling, and i believe even all man mostly doing something by logically but they will be happy when having a wife full of love and full of caring. May Allah give us so much reward when we try to sabr for ibadah on married life.
every 👏 single 👏 word👏 SubhanAllah. All praise be to Allah.
Asalamalekom dear brother after watching your series i came to know that you are far more knowledgeable than most of celebrity speakers. May allah sw reward you jazakallah kheir for these beautiful episodes ❤️🎉😊
Just want to say I am fully commited to getting through all episodes in shaa allah. These are very useful thank you.
I wish my husband could understand English so that we both benefit from this incredible lecture. Jazaka Allah khayran
Press on Settings, then Caption, then Auto-translate and select any language you want inshAllah it helps
I dont know for some reason this touched my heart. May Allah make your marriage like our prophets and make your husband the best spouse, Ameeen. And if possible try to auto-translate in the caption
Ma sha Allah, ma sha Allah, best speech, I have ever heard about marriage in my 21 years of marriage. Jazakallahu khaira dear brother for this series. May Allah give you ajar e azeem for this .ameen suma ameen 🙏
Minding our Own business is perfect business, Allahu Musta’an
Love the practical tips. And I can agree, John Grays book is really a must read for everyone.
Jazak Allah khairan brother..I've never heard a talk in so much details... each and every of your words are sooo true. I've witnessed almost all you are saying in my marital life..after 40 years with my husband and first time I get my answers of my Q & doubts...Alhamdulillah I was not always wrong...may Allah forgive me for my jahilia thought/behaviour and help me in my journey till my last day In this world.
This is Mashaa Allah so HELPFUL to married,unmarried divorced etc
May Allah swt grants Ali Hammuda happiness and joy in his marriage too, his kids and wife be the coolness of his eyes and theirs. Ameen
The last 15min are Gold. Sheik is so brilliant. Allah continue to bless him.
This is the best series on marriage I have ever heard of mA. It keeps getting better. Love the sheikhs calm and mellowing demeanor and his humility. So many gems. May Allah grant us all with righteous spouses and marriages ameen.
may Allah reward you for this heavily Sheikh. This has been so helpful, and we keep waiting to learn more.
Assalamualaikum aminnn ya rob 🤲 🤲
ALLAHUMMA Ameen
Ikrrrrr allahhumma ameen
Very wonderful episodeds I've just come across.. Hardly few scholars of religion speak about these realities.. As a student of you I like the approach you take.. You speak on a topic that is very important but not much importance is given.. Baraka'Allahu feek ya shaykh..
These videos are so insightful. Learning so much from this series. Jazak Allah Khair. May we all have the right priorities in our searches.
Waoooh so much wisdom,may Allah make me one of those who will watch all these episodes and then act upon all the principle amin
May Allah reward you for the immense knowledge you pass onto mankind. Your every single word is so powerful. JazakaAllah kher.
This episode is superb! Allahumma bārik ya shaykh! May Allah increase you in beneficial knowledge and may we all be open to understand everything presented here. Ameen 🤲🏽
Jazakallahu Khaira Sheikh.. it's an important topic for all of us May Almighty Allah bless everyone who put effort in this lecture ،👍🤲
بارك الله فيكم
Finished all of these alhamdulilah. Waiting for the next part inshAllah bi ithnillah. Learnt alot. Jazakullahu khairan sheikh.
Allahumma baarik . This series is gold .
☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽 Subhan Rabi Al Aalah ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽
shaykh,your words inspire and guide me to stick into the path of islam.
May Allah bless you
This series is amazing. Thank you.
I’m so amazed by this seminar Alhamdulillah I had to repeat so many and recorded so many parts of this seminar so I can reflect back on it.
JazakAllah Khairan Brother Ali. I have learned and benefitted a lot. I have always been amongst those women who sees the rules as skewered between men and women generally. I am working on myself and my perception of the sexes. May Allah reward you abundantly for my understanding of your explanations and my intention to put what you've taught into practice. JazakAllah Khairan
Jazakallah bikhoir.
Ma'esha Allah, best wishes
I've also been like that. Always focusing on how men are tge ones benefiting from marriage because they are less vulnerable.
Subhan'allah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah wa Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets Messangers and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil aalameen ❤️
وَالَّذِيۡنَ يَقُوۡلُوۡنَ رَبَّنَا هَبۡ لَـنَا مِنۡ اَزۡوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ اَعۡيُنٍ وَّاجۡعَلۡنَا لِلۡمُتَّقِيۡنَ اِمَامًا ﴿25:74﴾
(25:74) who are prone to pray: "Our Lord! Grant us that our spouses and our offspring be a joy to our eyes,92 and do make us the leaders of the God-fearing."93
Elhamdulilah....for series like this!!
Wow! Subhanallah! The most important thing I extracted from this is the differences between man and woman especially cognitively. Very well explained and beautifully ended! Mashallah. Really helpful and something definitely to ponder upon before I get married Inshallah. May Allah reward you 😊
JazakAllahu khraieran for this sincere and profound knowledge ustadh.
Very informative and interesting Alhamdulillah
MashaAllah tabarak Allah
May Allah swt protect and preserve you and increase you in goodness dear Shiekh. Ameen
Jazak Allahu khaire for yet another most beneficial series of lectures. May Allah swt make it heavy on your scale of good deeds. Ameen
mashAllah shaikh Ali this episode is very important , Jazak Allah Khairan
very eloquent and knowledgeable. .................Nice Thobes always.
Sir thanks a lot u r really a great personality.... May Allah bless you
May Allah Grant us righteous spouses that’ll bring us tranquility in life and keep us steadfast in our deen when we’re young as well as when we get older
Jazakallahu khair sheikh
Amiin
Sahih al-Bukhari 510
Narrated Busr bin Sa`id:
"Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, 'If the person who passes in front of another person in prayer knew the magnitude of his sin he would prefer to wait for 40 (days, months or years) rather than to pass in front of him." Abu An-Nadr said, "I do not remember exactly whether he said 40 days, months or years."
JazakAllahu Khair dear Sheikh 💓
The male is not like the female explains a lot…thank you ❤
I am at this stage of my life where I'm sure of a person being able to atleast understand principals of marriage but nothing further is happening. Please pray for me to get married to someone who is ready to follow the marriage on Islamic principles and correct foundations
The Prophet said: "Were you to put your complete trust in Allah, He would provide for you as He provides for the birds. They issue forth hungry in the morning and return filled in the evening." [At-Tirmithi]
sheikh can you acknowledge the reasons other than feminism as to why less women want to get married? cheating, abuse etc. and how we can educate people about these issues.
These are all issues hyperinflated by feminism, they do not exist on the scale at which these women shoe it to be.(not at all justifying them)
@@abdaalahmad5483 this is not true, please do some more research on the topic
34:30 I love it
Jazakhallahu khayran Sheikh 🤲♥️
May Allah SubhanaWata'ala rewards you brother Ali, the team behind this and the older lectures... This series is really helpful.
My ex husband was b=very religious, going for jamaat every month and doing joula every week. But he was so abusive in every single way that after 27 long, painful years, I filed for divorce. It has been 1.5 years and i still have not gotten my freedom because he won't let me go. I suffer from mental health issues and none of my 4 daughters want to ever get married because of how I was treated. It is thanks to these so called scholars that spread male supremacy that gives men license to men to abuse women without any consequences. it is so sad that under the name of religion, men are been glorified just because they are born with a penis.
I'm so sorry to hear your story. However, I don't know what you mean by "so called scholars glorifying religious men" Sister, I don't know about other scholars, but Shaykh Ali Hammuda clearly stated that women shouldn't marry a man only because he's "a religious person" they should look at his conduct behind close doors. So, the fact that your daughters don't wanna get married is really concerning. Because, if they are scared of marriage, then they will find comfort in other way i.e., non-marital relationship. So, I advice you to teach your daughters that they won't have to go through what you went through. I know you are traumatized by your ex, but plz for the sake of Allah don't pass your prejudice view of men to your daughters that's extremely dangerous. Anyways, May Allah swt, ease your pain and suffering.
btw, I've nv seen any scholar that give permission to husbands to be abusive toward their wives. I don't know who you're taking about. But if that's true, then they are not scholars they are something else. And ppl like that should nv hv any platform EVER.
Salam from west Africa the Gambia
May Allah protect us from satanic things of this world Ameen.
I'm a brother from Uganda,East Africa
I send my salaam
Very good series
On the sexual drive of the language of economy mentioned - “Women are the suppliers, Men are demanders”…with all due respect to our teacher, and I know that is not his statement but that is not correct and misleading that women dont care much about mAking the most of their sexual with spouse. Sexual desire differences between women and men is so wide. Some are more sexual than the other, regardless of gender, its clear that Allah created us differently as stated many times.Also not to be negative, i.e. many women are divorcing their husbands because of bad sexual life, very common in UAE and Qatar. This can also be vice versa unfortunately. And let’s not forget the incel movement that’s rampant amongst men young and old subhanaAllah
Subhanallah, Allahu Akbar you said exactly what I was think, jazakallah khair for your comment. I think the discussion of marriage principles were great up until the " insert" of differences amongst men and women . In my opinion it's because you can't use popular culture to explain the sharia of Allah. Never the less there is a Sister Sara in the Maghreb institute who does a great job. I also agree with your references on how those poor stereotypes lead to a lot of Muslim men not understanding women ( Ya Rabbi help our beloved brothers) and struggling in relationship involving females i.e. sister's, mother, sisters in the deen , mother in law , wives. I know the teacher means well , May Allah recorded this in his book of deeds nevertheless.
Men clearly have a much bigger drive than woman as shown by scientific studies and aswell as the permission for man to have multiple wives.
@@abdaalahmad5483 if you think Allah allowed you to have 4 wives as a man because of sexual needs, then you have missed the point and need to educate yourself. It’s filthy and degrading of you to even think like that about what Allah made permissible. And no, men don’t have a higher need of sexual needs, its an individualistic matter, rather then gender based
@@abdaalahmad5483 science lie, and women capacity for out reach men, this is why female prostitution made for a better business then male prostitution. It do appear that men aren't as in control of their desires as much as the majority of women. Also men aren't discretionary about sex either, which makes of for the diversity of the porn business profits. So men who are Muslims i.e. believers should practice morality, decency and upright that is encouraged through the Sunnah and leave the findings of science to the other men. Surely Allah knows best and set for the believers a straight path ! ( science doesn't exactly understand that)
You are going against what Science and Islam have proven. And yes, there are divorces in the Gulf countries but over there are mainly initiated by men as they like to have different women and they can afford many.
I really want to hear the responsibilities of a woman told in the Quran by ALLAH specifically from Sheikh Ali Hammuda. Sheikh, May I ask you to respond to this, please? JazakALLAH Khairan
Beautiful ❤️ seize her rush for her
In reference to his last point about rigid gender roles, doesn’t Islam accommodate a mutually beneficial relationship between a husband and a wife? For example, the Prophet SAW used to help around the house while Hazrat Khadija RA was a successful businesswoman? How does one explain that dynamic in light of what Ali Hammuda is highlighting? To my understanding, Islam is much more accommodating than what most religious preachers teach.
Exactly
Khadija RA had inherited the wealth from his father khuwailid and his earlier two marriages, she also only conducted buisnes from her home, on the other hand the prophet Muhammad SAW was never a stay at home husband(there is nothing such as a stay at home husband in Islam) he was a merchant and used to travel with goods to trade, this was the very reason he was considered by Khadija RA to take her merchandise aswell. There is a big difference between helping in household chores and being a stay at home husband. One is a good quality that everyone should have and the other is a dead beat.
He answered that sister he said you can't take one or 2 haddith and form an opinion you have to look at the whole religion and give an opinion. Now it is encouraged to help around the house for men and its okay for women to work but that's not what the quran advises or the hadith if you look at the whole religion. It is advised for woman to be the maintainers of the home and men to go out and work
Jazakum Allah khair, choosing potential spouses for our grown up children? Allah help us
WALAYSADHAKARU KAL-UNNTHAA
❤ Masha Allah quite an educative and insightful lecture, got more from this than any paid marriage course, barakkAllahu fikum
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MachaAllah. Allahuma barik ameen
Subhanallah ❤
This man is great Mashallah perfection
you guys didn’t upload anything this Saturday. It’s been almost 2 weeks 😢😢
Assalamualaikum Allah
Masyaallah. 🤲☺️😍Subhanallah
JazakAllahu Khairan Sheikh
Explained so beautifully, I watched episode 1, 2 and now I am here. I can't stop. I will go back to re watch in sha Allah.
Names of A pair ,(of sahaba and sahiabiya) who got divorced due to their cultural differences?
Why we can't enhance the quality of these videos?😭
We were waiting for more ilm, Sheikh ..
JazakAllah JazakAllah brother. This was extremely helpful. May Allah reward you with the best of best ameen
Briliant!!! Thank you so much!!! Only Allah can reward you for your time and effort!
How do you find out how a person is behind closed doors as they will never show you till later?
may Allah SWT reward you for this
Does that mean that we shouldn’t act naturally?
What are men married for ?
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How bout the girls who don't dress modestly, like to hang with guys , and know how to play with them, but claim to be righteous and full of iman? I have my thoughts, but seriously would like to know what others think?? Check yes for these girls or check no?
No. Stay away from such women.
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So if I'm correct the brother says that people from different cultures can't marry? I thought Islam was brought to humanity to dismantle these cultural barriers and backgrounds that we all belong to the one cloak the Umma of Allah that he created us differently so we may know one another other?
Can someone explain to me, maybe I got that part wrong.
No you can marry in to other cultures but you need to keep in mind about culture clash and other things like social class and righteousness and other things that could bring problems into your marriage. Thats why this part of the segments is about things you need to keep in mind before marriage
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Can anyone please write the Duaa that he mentioned? I don’t speak Arabic and he’s just too fast for me 😅 but I want to learn it InshaAllah.
JazakAllah khair
it is in surah number 25 (furqan) in verse number 74. You can look it up or look in your quran in shaa Allah :)
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رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَـنَا مِنْ اَزْوَا جِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ اَعْيُنٍ وَّا جْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِيْنَ اِمَا مًا
robbanaa hab lanaa min azwaajinaa wa zurriyyaatinaa qurrota a'yuniw waj'alnaa lil-muttaqiina imaamaa
(QS. Al-Furqan 25: Ayat 74)
Rabbana hablana min azwajina wazuriyatina khuratan aynin waja'alna lil muthakhina imama
@@fatimasouane1864 JazakAllah khair
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Brother I don’t like you saying “they look like prophets”
Is it acceptable to say such a thing akhi? May Allah guide us and forgive us
Asalaam Alaikum Ustadh some times we inadvertently connect two different issues together. So how the tension and discomfort in your closing of this lecture focused on feminist women not Muslimah that entire portion detracts from the remaining portion of the lecture.
That is to say if we are discussing that which halal in islam harboring over things that are not part of our Deen and does not strengthen your bottom line is wasteful for you and the viewers. The blurb about non-Muslims women feminist Audhubillah Minash Shaitan Rajeem that was not called for your excerpt spoiled my goal of sharing this with non-Muslims women because that is not how the Rasool of Allah salalahi alayahi wa salaam called to that which is right , best or good.
Inshallah that will make sense
Its lowly to marry a woman for her money
3 and half Years ago I knew a girl, very sweet, loving and beautiful! We were Soo in love (and 700 km separated us) but didn't want anything before getting married.
So she spoke with her parents and told them about us, what we wanted (Halal) ...etc
Then we agreed to meet, so I went to see them (13h by bus 2 days after a was hospitalized due to a bicycle accident).
For the context at that time I was doing a very hard job (I was a food delivery man riding bicycle 🚲 and a scooter 🛵) and that's when I had an accident. Anyway I still went to see her parents inspite of the pain and I told them everything about me. I was and still praying, I don't smoke, don't drink, that I had studied a lot (I have a master degree in robotics and am very good El hamdoulilleh in informatics) but I am in a bad administrative situation (papers).
So I told them everything even the fact that I was in love few years prior but that was over.
When we finished they had asked my only question about me but never told me what they expect and they didn't reject me. Then with her father we want outside tu drink a coffee and we spoke, and the only thing he kept saying was why don't I return to my country (this is happening in France)...etc
When I went back to my home for more then a week they kept trying to destroy the relationship we had with the girl, they didn't even speak to me to tell me their answer, using lies against me (he is not trust worthy, he will leave you for an other girl, he will not take care of you, he only wants the papers....etc) and by Allah I was 100% honest with her but they didn't want to know anything and kept using lies and bringing questions to her that they never dated to ask me face to face.
This is my story showing how sad it is to see how "muslim" parents are nowdays.
El hamdoulilleh anyway.
Jazakallahu khair sheikh
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