How Gambling Will Ruin Your Life
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- Опубликовано: 2 янв 2023
- The dark truth about gambling, and how it will ruin your life.
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When you are addicted to a point where winning money is no longer priority. You just wanna keep gamble all your money for the excitement and dopamine
Gambling has ruined my life😭😭
I regret the day I knew how to gamble…it’s like I am being controlled…please I need help to stop this…
Pleaseeeeee
Its not your fault man these companies are thieves you win money by not playing
Just think about the money you have and you have already won it no need to play at the casino im freaking done with this shit
As a former poker player, I resonate with all of this. I never got deep into the addiction. I saved all of that for alcohol. It's wild the parallels between all addictions and the stories we tell ourselves. Derek these video help me with my own battles and I'm sure they help so so so many others. Thank you as always for your vulnerability. Way to conquer your demons!
Respect my brotha. Hopefully my gambling stories and your alcohol stories can help those in need. Its kind of interesting how our dark times of the past, are becoming useful in the present. My grammar sucks lol
In the midst of this now. It really hit home. Watching some of your videos gives me hope.
Great advice!! I will make sure follow each one of these steps.
Your production, from the camera work to presentation, script writing is absolutely insane. Praying that you blow up cuz this is not only quality content in the way it’s presented but the actual message is needed by so many people. God bless you
Thanks bro. Hopefully the people in need will find this message one day. If we can save just 1 person from a gambling addiction, then it will all be worth it.
Thanks for the video. Appreciate the time and effort you put into it. God Bless You
I gambled for a year or so, since 18 to 19(where i am now) and i can only relate to some of the steps, i am trying to stay away from gambling as much as i can and so far is going good, im starting to reconect with my friends that i lost over the last year (because of gambling) and trying to rebuild myself as a better me
I fell lucky that i stopped before it was to late, and your videous only helped me get over it and finally fell that i’ve left gambling behind
Sorry I missed your comment. Super glad to hear that you're reconnecting with your friends. That's amazing, and congrats. Self improvement is an amazing thing once you get control of your bad habits. Wishing you all the best in the future!
Such a powerful video, I can relate with most of these steps. Always trying to stop. 2023 will be my year!
All the best in 2023 my dude!
Awesome vid. I just shared this with some of my guys at GA. Keep off the bet!
Thats awesome brotha, thank you!
I keep coming back to this one, masterpiece on gambling addiction
Thank you my brotha
Hello bro its nice seeing your new upload, im still struggling in gambling addiction I already done exit on that gambling addiction but something make me to do it again and now im struggling I know I can conquer this stage again because of my strong faith,I love this topic brother, im your number 1 supporter about this
Sorry for the late reply my brotha. This gambling thing feels like a disease we have to fight the rest of our lives. Even last night when I watched the football game, I wanted to bet so bad. Stay strong my dude
Thank you for sharing. Lots of people are going through this, but they are trying to keep quiet because we blame ourselves for not being strong enough. I have seen suicide among family and friends 💔 and most of all, they blame each other like nobody tells you to go there. You did it to yourself. The devil is around every us where. Be aware.
Sorry for the late reply Suzie. Sorry to hear that you've seen suicide amongst your friends/family, It's definitely heartbreaking. Wishing you the best
The way you handled the subject of the consequences that come with gambling was one I haven't seen so far.
I really like it.
I made it to step 6 and after watching this video, I'm fortunate to say that I didn't make it further.
I will watch this video every time I feel the urge to gamble. It helped me not to gamble a couple of minutes ago :)
Glad the video helped Nasah! Stay strong
Wow that shit was a hit bro, I've flirting with gambling after i started playing poker. It's kinda crazy how you had a similar story. My family has a known issue with compulsive gambling so it's not something i got into until very recently. Watching your content really does help keep me in touch with reality and my relationship with gambling. I've lost a lot gambling recently, not more then i could bare, but probably more then I would have liked to spend, and its a combination of factors i feel like, but I'm happy watching your content as it actively inhibits me from gambling. Its very nice how you talk through the mindset and the struggles it makes your content very relatable.
Dude thank you for the wonderful comment. Sorry it took me awhile to get to it. This is the reason why I like to share my gambling demons. Hopefully it will prevent others from making the same mistakes I made.
I starting gambling before 2 months, already lost 3000+ euros
I will always link poker to when I first got out of the 9 to 5. Great memories for me even though I didn’t make much in the end. Just got me thinking of other ways to make a living self employed! Great video bro! 🙌
Entrepreneur gains bro. So behind on reading comments Loll
Thanks for this video
No prob!
Great video! Salute
Thank you! 😁
You nailed several solid points of the addiction - instant money, money in cash that the government doesn't have to know about - tax free.
Thanks bro cash is king 😅
thank you for this bro
Anytime brotha
God bless you for this vide❤
This shit damn near made me cry as a man because I know the struggle. I am so thankfuI am overcoming this problem. I am thankful I found your video. Thank you brother 🙏
Fucking destroyed me in more ways than I can remember. Changed me into a bad person.
I hear you my brotha. Keep fighting the good fight
Where you able to stop?
@@midyanabdulbaki2665 no bro I was up 20k this past month and blew it again.
this guy is a genius and everyone shoud follow his advice
Watching this because my boyfriend who got addicted to betting in games told me that I'm the reason he lost because I was just so annoyed at him for his addiction.
Thanks🙏
You're welcome!
your videos are inspiring and really saved me. I know you get these comments all the time but it’s true
I'm glad it helped bro. Just trying to do whatever I can to help people who went through the same struggles as me.
This video really hits close to home. I was strictly a slots player . The worst of all ways to gamble I think . Far too many lies later I am finally gambling free .
Glad to hear that Ken. I have family members who play slots as well. Luckily, I never got into playing slots. The flashing lights and sounds are probably so addictive.
So true Derek . The only solution for me was to stay away completely . I know for me there is no middle ground . One slip and I would be right back in it big time brother . Proud to say every day it is getting easier and the urge is less and less . I appreciate you .
It's so addictive for me😢
wow. This really hit in the gut
It's dark but hopefully it will help someone in need
I will come back to you after tomorrow
i was an addict, i went to the casino last month & won $3500 , i ddnt get that high feeling i used to get , i went again 2 weeks ago and won $13k .
i went back last night and lost $2500 .
I ddnt care that i lost because it ddnt break my bank .
But i started thinking about what i could’ve done with that money .
i could’ve given it away to someone who truly needed it .
we gamble all in hopes we win alot of money in a short period of time.
Maxed out my 40k credit cards. Loan sharks every 2 weeks, and lied to borrow money. I've done all that.
Trying to stop the bleed now. Down 2.5k and feeling pissed off. I was only down 600 and chased it....
Chasing losses is tough, I've been there. It never ends well. Keep fighting bro
I have done all the steps and currently on step 9 don’t be like me you become very depressed and a lonely person with no real goals or aspirations I really wish I could restart my life from the beginning and never be a gambler or a punter its all bullshit.
I appreciate the honesty Paul. How you doing bro? Hopefully your story can help inspire other people to stay away from gambling
I am still in debt but I am feeling positive as long as I don’t go back to my gambling ways then life can get better I realise with this addiction there is to much action around and the key is not making the 1st bet
@@DerekBearzi One year later and having cut back the gambling massively my life is much different I realised after going through all of this it just isn’t worth gambling you get completely destroyed time and time again at least now I have started a better path I did get financial help
From family my advice is don’t gamble if you cannot control yourself.
And the advert that followed this video was for guess what......Correct a gambling site. Good video though sir and all the best to those who need it.
Wow are you serious? That's so brutal, kinda defeats the whole purpose of my video lol. Thanks for the comment my brotha!
We had a Fireman's Carnival come to town every summer when I was a kid. One summer I went there and could do no wrong. I tossed the ball, I won the lamp. I picked up the floating duck, it won a prize. I played the dice game over under where every 7 they both lose, and won that, too. Came home loaded with junk. I was hooked. Something wicked this way comes.
Wow thats wild. It was one of those days where you couldn't lose
@@DerekBearzi - Almost as if it was rigged to lose some low grade junk and hook impressionable children on gambling.
@@david_cop_a_feel7538 Damn I never thought about that before. Hopefully all is well bro
Well made video.. however in my opinion poker shouldn’t be included into a discussion like this. With the proper study.. practice and experience.. poker can be very profitable. You aren’t playing against the house, you are playing against other players. Learning the mathematical probabilities and studying ranges will allow you to win more than you lose if properly implemented.
100% and this was the case for myself personally for 9 years. However, it became a gateway game which manifested into a gambling addiction. Like many of my peers, we couldn't stay away from the casino games. Even after winning money in the poker room. A foolish mistake on my part.
After this vidoe so today is my first and last day of gambling 😢
Just broke my new years resolution.. already lost $700 this year🤦♂️. Ty for the video tho
A piece of advice, remember even if you win, you lose. They will get it all back plus interest. I had to learn the hard way and ruined my life in doing so. There is no happy ending when it comes to this degenerate disease. It breaks you mentally and physically.
Stay strong bros. Can always reup your news years resolution
Went back again nd lost 500 🤦♂️, i need to help myself
@@Howdareya123 please don't chase. I learned the hard way...
19th April 2023. Your video is so truthfully yet so brutal.there is one law about gambling.if you are losing then you bet big.just to recoup your losses and to take home some winning.there is a saying among the Malaysian Chinese ,if you win.just grab the cash and run for the door.never! Never ! continue playing hoping to win more.That is GREED !!
Grab the cash and run for the door! Haha solid plan
I have tried all of these options emptying my bank account and putting it on a bet and yes it has gotten up before I bet on a $6.00 horse and it won the thrill of turning your bank roll six times over but there are plenty of times you lose and end up in the hole everything is a disaster following these steps will destroy you mentally and spiritually.
I at start I lose 1200, I said to my self I will get them back and never gamble again, I win 1400 ( 200 profit) but it was impossible to stop gambling because I felt very strong
Damn bro its tough to quit when you win some money. The temptation is strong
This is exactly what happened to me from one to 10
Dude it's a big problem in Australia. Pokies machines especially.
Oh damn machines like slots?
@@DerekBearzi I would look into Australia Gambling problem, your message would hit here the most. We are the worst in the world per person in gambling losses, Australia has the highest gambling losses, $1200 USD per person (research done a few years ago) which is more than double America per person and the statistics are probably even worse now. We call slots, pokie machines yes and it is in every pub all over Australia. Its accessible everywhere here. Doesn't stop there in Brisbane where I live there is a $15 billion casino opening called Queens Wharf end of the year. Which will only make things worse
Sports Gambling is also prolific here, what is not discussed is the Royalties Cricket, Rugy League and Aussie rules make. Combine that with new casinos. Vegas, Macau LOL. Might as well just stay in Australia
i prefer it when my gambling ruin other peoples lives
POV: your playing any gambling game ever
Haha tried to get those POV shots in
All you're saying is me, not only the money I've lost, but also my friends, job, and most of my family, now I live here alone in my parents house it's so dark and nobody cares about me. Just waiting for my death by days passing by.
Sorry to hear that bro, I hope you can make some progress in life
True! Love u man! 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅lol
That’s why it’s forbidden in Islam el hamduliallah
Is gambling considered haram?
@@DerekBearzi yes, gambling, alcohol. Pork. Most of them are bad for human according to God.
Ah now I feel less of a man for gambling too frequently but sticking to lower stakes. You're right, winning a few sheckles is pointless, I need to grow a pair and go large!
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Salute
Respect!
@@DerekBearzi thank U, I play poker more in person than online...good to be aware of the risks, dangers, and addiction...the way I see it, winners in poker are like the NBA...there are 200 players in the league (winners) and yet everyone thinks they could be in the NBA (losers). I.e. 1% winners, 99% losers /////// 100% lose in the long term....check out Dewey Tomko's interviews, he said he seen maybe 5 survive in poker over 50 years
I vividly remember thinking "Isn't black due?"
That's when I saw 12 reds in a row and my bank roll disappeared
Damnnnnn bro thats insane. 12 reds in a row? 🤯
Step two ??? What if I lose that whole money ???
Then hopefully you'll never go back
Hi bro. I really wanted to have a heart to heart talk with someone. Please, help me.
a blackjack bet of $20, and $5 on both side bets where I got two 3's of spades and the dealer got a 3 of spade and I won 1600 on the side bets and then when I split 3's and got double 3's and split again and played four hands in one turn and won it all got me addicted. I thought god choose me to be the luckiest gambler of our generation because the chances of that happening is 1 in a trillion. ended up 5000x my win that night on losses through my lifetime, and I'm only 23....... Watching these videos help me stop by reminding me its not worth it
Wow thats an insane story. The mathematical odds of that happening is mind blowing. But you're still young! Lots of time to learn from past mistakes and leaving blackjack in your past.
Today i decided to quit….. but i have this feeling of emptiness due to the problems the addiction created and the relationship with my girlfriend is in a dark place at the moment. Stay away from gambling…. Only a small amount of people win and unfortunately we are not them. 😂😂😂😂
So true. Gambling can easily destroy our relationships
I stop 😞
Never go back!
@@DerekBearzi Thx brother. Lately doing stupid stuff. I know gambling is not profitable. But going back to it, and gambling with my paycheck. I m in debt and problems coming. But I m not that deep in it. I can stop it and fix my problems easy in 3 months, I thing what I m going to do. But what a fascinating thing that your mind always thinks one more time, this time I m going to win. And you keep losing. This time I m going to be better and stop this bad habit.
This is nothing but a gamblers fallacy.
The table is due for red!
I hope y’all know this is a sarcastic video lol
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I didn't lose a lot of money with gambling, but I just didn't like the person i became. Gambling is only fun, when you win...
If u didn't lose a lot of money, then u r not quitting any time soon. U r a loser sooner or later believe me. There will come a time, u will play big because u won big and u'll think that u got lucky and the chances r by ur side, that's a trap!!. If u think that u r smart that's another trap!!. If u don't believe me use accounting It will clarify ur bankroll and it's BANKRUPT!!. RUN, Ruuuuuuuuuuun for ur life...
@@rabiiwolfborn ive only gambled on sport games and in the Netherlands casino’s are obligated to give you the ability to limit. Ive put my limit on 1 euro’s so that i cannot spend on it. Gambling is not worth it and i only played with money that i had. I realize that it is an useless activity and are not going to return.
@@rabiiwolfborn Im also religious so I really felt bad, even when i was winning. So believe me, im not going to return, ever!
Love to hear that you guys had the determination to quit once and for all. We need to help our brothers who are still struggling
Its just the hobby 💀
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@@DerekBearzi Its a meme, there's one streamer called ohnepixel, he opens ingame cases for real money, and you can get rare skins worth thousands, and he opens lots of them, recently he opened 1000 cases worth 2$ each just so he could get a skin that has 1 in 4000 chance, its basically gambling, and he made 'The Hobby" a meme cause he said it was a hobby in one of his streams while opening cases, and he's very enthusiastic when opening, it became a meme lol, while in reality its addiction, so everyone is memeing it
I loved this video. It is so enlightening on the dangers of gambling. Relying on pure chance is not something anyone should do.
There are people who have been gambling for a living, a good living, for decades. You have never heard of most of them. A few have at least some public exposure, such as Jean Scott, Bob Dancer, and Stanford Wong. And, of course, the best poker pros have made millions. Advantage players have made and continue to make money at almost all kinds of gambling including blackjack, other table games, some slots, video poker, sports betting and almost any other game where a casino offers a promotion that turns a bad game into a good game. I have made money at keno. Both times I made over 5K and it was due to a promotion that gave a massive bonus for certain payouts. It is all about math. The pros know precisely how to calculate the game return and they know precisely how that return is impacted by promotions or other casino incentive.
The things in this video are things that STUPID people do and think. This does not mean you will do them, unless, of course, you are an idiot.
If you are not able to, in effect, prove you have a mathematical edge, you should not play. You also need to have a firm grasp of the risk of going broke even when you have an edge. The idea is simple enough that you don't truly need the math to get it. If you are playing any game where a bad, but normal, run can cause you to lose more than 5% of your bankroll, you are betting too much. Just bet less and the risk of going broke becomes minute. This is true even when you have an edge, but if you are actually a losing player, you simply need to find a different game.
My problem with this video is that it fails to give a fair view of gambling and how it can be a net benefit to the studious player.
Gamblers fallacy man casino always wins infinite bankroll the odds are always against you if you think you can beat the casino then you need to give your head a shake
@@tyga6348 that’s true casinos weren’t built on winners rather losers. Gambling addiction is destroying my life, I can’t stop myself.
The video has nothing to do with trying to give a fair view of gambling. You completely missed the point. Its intended to try and help people that are really really struggling. Some people need emotional support while other may need to hear the dark truth. Were trying to help people, not throw math in their face.
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Stay positive my brotha
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I loved this video. It is so enlightening on the dangers of gambling. Relying on pure chance is not something anyone should do.