My best friend was in a car accident when we were in 10th grade that resulted in her becoming an incomplete quadriplegic. Her accident was just a couple months after getting her license. Seeing her get her first adapted car and all the freedoms it afforded her was such a beautiful experience. Keep that smile, girl. You're amazing 💜
You’re right about Makayla she is a beautiful person inside and out I can tell you right now if I was her shoes I wouldn’t be as happy yes she is always smiling and have a happy positive attitude I Would be broken I wouldn’t be The same person
@@snowygirl131 That's very true! A group of us put together a battle of the bands benefit concert to raise money towards my friend getting her car which helped a ton.
I just watched your newest video and the comments are turned off but I just wanted to say that having those bad days, where you are emotional and upset about what's happened to you, is not only a good thing but absolutely necessary. The mourning process sucks but it's healthy and putting pressure on yourself to always be positive and happy and grateful, it's just can be really unhealthy because it means you are repressing your feelings and not addressing and coping with them. I know you are probably completely aware of this but I just wanted to also say that you are super early in your recovery, there is still chances that you will gain more motion and use of your arms and fingers, there's surgeries they can do as well. It is completely possible that by this time next year, you will be able to use your fingers and arms more and that you will need much less help💜 I know hearing people tell you how strong you are 24-7, can feel so exhausting because on those bad days you might just want to say "I'm not strong, I just dont have any other choice" so I won't say that but I will say it's going to get better, you are doing amazing for how recent your accident was
I became a paraplegic in a fire in 1978. I’ve had 2 vehicles since then. The first was a cargo van that was converted, but instead of a ramp, it had a lift. (I really liked the lift as I have a manual chair and the ramp can sometimes be a little steep for manual.) My second vehicle is a minivan. I’ve had it since 2006, and was thinking about trading it in on a newer van, but now that I’ve seen your Chevy, I want one! I am considerably older than you, (I could be your grandma), but I didn’t really want a minivan either. You have opened my eyes to new possibilities and I think I’m going to check into something like yours. If I stop trying to rebuild the Nation’s economy on my own, I might be able to save enough for a down payment. Lol. Take care of yourself. You have such a wonderful attitude, there is nothing that will be able stop you! 😊
I am paralyzed as well but bc of a Neurological condition called Transverse Myelitis. It's been almost 5 years. I was a Quadriplegic but I've rehabbed alot and I can now move my arms..feed myself etc. I can move my legs sitting up and only 1 lying down. This gives me so much hope for driving again. Thx for sharing your experience.
@@mimi0424 So sorry to hear about your condition Michelle, praying for a total recovery! Just remember that these bodies are temporal and aren't meant to last forever, but our Spirits are eternal and they will return to the Awesome Creator that made them when these bodies no longer work. Take care Michelle, God bless you! 🙏
There is a light that shines from you that just lights up a room (or an SUV). You effortlessly remind us to be grateful for what we have even in the face of hardship. You deserve all the good that comes your way! Love from Canada 🇨🇦.
I've got neurological symptoms for over a year now, but still doctors haven't found the exact reason. I'm going to some genetic tests next. My life has stopped since I can't really walk more than a couple hundred meter at the time, so it's difficult even to go to work at morning, my muscles are just always really tired. But then I found your videos, don't even remember how. Even they say you cannot compare your situation to others, you are still giving me hope. Like, if you can stay so positive in THAT situation, why I couldn't deal with my own. After all you seem so happy, and that your life still has so much content despite it all. You will still travel, explore things and be happy. I wish you all the best, and I wish I could be as positive as you some day. Even so, I wish so much that I could heal you.
Absolutely! It’s why she rocks. Makayla, if you see this I actually have to make a comment on your appearance. This was the best I’ve seen you look and here’s why: maybe you slept really well or something but your makeup looked great. I’ve been an advocate of less makeup for a long time, especially if you don’t need much. Sometimes it’s diminishing returns with it. Specifically, eye makeup in excess? Not a fan! But you went really minimalist with it for this video and I hope you’ll take a good look again. We could really see you and it’s a good thing! 👍🏻✌🏻
@@junior.von.claire I have to agree. Makayla looks so pretty. Her smile just lights up all the time. She's just so happy and positive. And her hairstyle is so cute!
Junior con Claire I agree, she is stunning😍 She has this natural beauty that radiates from the inside out and you can tell this has always been her! Mom and Dad have raised an absolute LIGHT🥰
i've been watching your videos for the last 2 hours now, and although i don't have any form of physical injury, my mental is what has kept me down since before i was your age! After watching your videos i am very truly inspired to not let anything get in your way no matter how big the problem!! You got this girly!!💜💜
How beautiful your new car is!!! Its just an exciting new world for you - freedom! God blessed you and your family sweetheart! The sweet people who all contributed are just marvelous!!! 💕💕
I am watching the video you just posted about how you really feel. Let it o u t. I feel for you and am thinking of you. I don't understand why comments are turned off. This is your most important video so far. Your rawness is heartfelt and so justified. Of course you are gonna compare yourself to others!! We all do that!!! Your friends applaud your honesty and frankly anything you do or say is applauded and understood. You are a hero. So few of us could deal with it. You have earned it!
Awesome..That car is well equipped for your needs..It’s gonna be cool when you are learning to drive..And actually cruise around in your new Whip lol..Your heartfelt appreciation was warmly felt..You Got One Shot at this day..I hope something fun and exciting happens
You are the kind of Angel and positive energy this world needs right now..... At 17 years old to carry this much grace and integrity it's humbling and inspiring. I hope it's ok but I want to share your videos with my 14 year old daughter whi can learn so much from you. And thank you for teaching us all how to make the world a more loving place. You and your are in our thoughts and prayers every day! Love from Houston!
Heya sweetness, just wanted to say real quick, from a mom/grandma's pov, you're an absolute gift to your family! I know your mom's heart just bursts with pride over you. I can imagine that even on your darkest days, you still bring her so much joy. Stay positive, honey, I wish you all the beautiful and wonderful things in the whole world! 💙💜
This is so cool, I've never seen an adapted SUV! My sister-in-law went from a minivan to a Traverse and loves it. It's so awesome how they were able to make it work for you. Shout out to Mobility Works for this and all the supporters who could make it happen! As for cup holders, maybe you could get vent cup holders that clip into the vents or something else like that. They have a bunch of options online, I'm sure you could find a solution. Can't wait to see you in action in the Traverse!
You are such a ray of sunshine to everyone. Your positivity just radiates. I can’t imagine that your disability will ever be a barrier to your dreams and ambitions xx
WOW that Truck is awesome, Girl the importance of a sunroof💕 Love to your mom and Sis.. When you start driving I know you will be gone for hours with your new freedom..You are BEAUTIFUL
You are just so inspirational. I can't believe someone your age and someone who has recently had to deal with this has such a positive attitude. You are a very strong young woman.
An ex prosperite here. My kids went to school there when they had just 1 building for all grades. You are an inspiration to all. Love your hair. Congrats on your car! God bless you.
I didn’t drive for 6 years after being a para but as soon as I was behind the wheel everything felt normal. Took one day of driving training and was qualified to drive with hand controls. You’ll get it all really quick! I have a Volkswagen Passat so just know that any car can be converted, and you’re not limited to minivans once you get a manual wheelchair. Good luck girly
Your positivity is such an incredible thing to witness. I don’t even have the words to explain how amazing you are! What a gift you have…and you will change lives! Thanks so much for sharing your world with us. 💜💜
Hi Makayla, thank you for sharing your story, I’ve watched quite a few of your RUclips videos. You are amazing,so positive about your life after your injury. I wish you all the luck in the future. Take care. 😀
I'm so happy and proud of you!!!! An amazing inspiration isn't enough to describe you! I cry and smile every time I watch your videos. Continue to be a ray of sunshine 🌞 to us ALL!
Omg you have the sweetest personality on ANY social media....happy for you and your new car, super cute. I'm keeping you in my prayers, you've got this.
I’m a mom from Chicago. I told my husband of your story and am so proud of how far you’ve come. I’m not sure if you ever told the whole story, but I’d love a story dedicated to what happened and the event that made you paralyzed. I think so many cheer girls could benefit from what happened and any warnings you might have for being careful outside of practices. You’re amazing, hugs!!
@@beth_2709 You need to find the article where says that she was at a friend's house doing tumbling exercises in the backyard, and she landed on her head with no mats.. in the grass it was a freak accident... there are many news stories on what happened..
@@bishbash6547 Yea I read that! Just think it would be cool for mak to sit down and rlly explain all the details and like the journey to the hospital!! Just all the little details
Im very happy for you Makayla! I love your attitude on life, keep on going and may God help you and your family on this journey. Cheers all the way from Costa Rica!
You are such an inspiration. I’m sitting over here in Michigan worry about my health conditions but it’s nothing like what you’re going through. Thanks for shining your bright light!
Congratulations kiddo!!! My friend had the big conversion van as his vehicle, and he drove everywhere with it and his helper dog. He even drove to Bloomington Indiana where he and his wife both went to and got their doctorates, if I spleed that correctly..lol You Got this kiddo, keep on keeping on!!!!
Congrats Makayla and family-very happy for you!! This is sooo exciting and great for you that you will be able to drive it when you get your license. The Traverse is VERY roomy and comfortable. Love your cute hairstyle too and your both very grateful & upbeat attitude!! You truly are an inspiration to us all!!! You look great in this video-very healthy! 😊😁💕💗❤💗💕💗❤
You are an amazing spirit. there’s is so much strength and courage which just pours out of you . Awesome young lady, a role model in positivity and well being
YOU are amazing!! So positive and happy x obviously you'll have low days, who wouldn't. But the way you're adapting and your determination is inspiring. Your family too! Thank you for sharing your journey, especially for those finding themselves in the same boat x Don't give up beautiful girl x
Hello Mak! This comment is from watching “Explaining to ya all how I really feel” video. We are all human! You have your up days and some down days. Today is my down day. I and all people on here want to wish you the best and we support you! You rock girl 💕 YOUR FAMILY ARE GREATEST..
Congrats to you! This is gonna be a big step into being more independent ! I agree that not driving before and trying to relearn is an advantage. Godspeed young lady!
Makayla, u r a true inspiration. I can see why God would pick u for this job. U r a beam of sunshine, I can only imagine the struggles, but I can also see God in you, with tremendous power!! I found your channel yesterday and today I woke up with u in my heart, feeling very humble, will keep u in my thoughts and prayers, wishing u find ur purpose in life. Just wanted to say a massive thank you for being you, keep up the hard work 💪 🙌 👍 u r AMAZING!!!! 😘
I am so happy for you!!! I can't explain....I feel like I will bust out of my skin. Can't wait to see you drive!! You have so many people helping you...God Bless your family. You are so lucky to have such a loving family. Drive carefully...when u get your license..so so happy your expenses have been paid. You have such a sunny disposition. You are up beat and positive. Like my grandmother used to say...' Keep looking ahead...don't look back.' The future holds so much for you Makayla!! Holding u in my thoughts...my heart...and in my prayers.
What a blessing! It's beautiful!! I love your sun roof. The sun shines on you but your beautiful smile lights up any room on it's own. Congratulations on your gorgeous car!
I drive with hand controls. Helpful tip if you are in need of additional financial resources for installation of hand controls and/or an adaptive driving program to learn how to use everything check out your states department of vocational rehabilitation. They assist individuals with disabilities with finding gainful employment. Transportation is considered an aspect of that.
Congratulations, Makayla! You are living proof that being wheelchair-bound does NOT stop you from the most significant accomplishment in one's lifetime - having the ability to drive a vehicle. You have done it, and I am truly impressed! I would like to see more of your videos! (2/13/2022)
Glad you got a Chevrolet Mak! You will love it and it will last. I have a Silverado SS (with a sunroof too!) It has a hydraulic lift and the doors flip out naturally. I have an EZ lock system to lock my chair in place at drivers position. I also have a switch that pops the back door because it got harder for me to open the back door. Pretty much every issue that comes up as you gain or lose more mobility can be addressed. I have a hard time getting the seat belt and bringing it across as it’s behind me once I’m locked in and that’s my biggest problem. I’ve had a few different brands of seatbelts but they all have the stop action so it’s hard to fix the problem. Just something to get them to work on now before you need it. Make sure you can work the seatbelt ok from drivers position and locked in! The biggest downfall is that I can’t take my vehicle through a car wash with my conversion because it will rip the wiring right out to the lift. An SUV is great because you don’t have to worry about the hydraulic pump and circuit boards getting wet even though they are housed in a metal box in my truck bed. They had to go back and seal it a couple times because of it getting wet in there. The day will come when something isn’t working and it’s frustrating being stranded. I’m sure they have a service to come help but I used to travel a lot so was out of the area for help when I would have issues. It has happened to pretty much everyone at one time or another, you learn to get creative. Just wondering if you have a remote start on yours. It’s something you can mention to them if you don’t have it because being a quad you need to really watch yourself in the heat and getting in a hot car can be disastrous for you. With the remote start you have the opportunity to have the air conditioning or heat blowing for a few minutes to get your vehicle the right temp for you. Especially with two sun roofs your interior will heat up quickly. I also am intolerant of temps even though I’m a para I’m a T 5-6 right where our internal temps are controlled so I have those issues as well and I don’t sweat below my injury and I live in central FL. The remote start makes such a difference. There is a parking lot at one of my drs at Shands that is on the roof of parking garage and in the summer I get so overheated just getting to my vehicle that without that remote start I would be cooked for sure! I know you will love it when you are driving your beautiful new car. Hope to hear what you name it! Mine is black so I named him Obsidian Super Shark. The shark is because Hunter Thompson used to call his fav red Cadillac convertible The Shark, so mine is The Super Shark, being an SS. I have a vanity plate with a Shark on it too! My conversion hasn’t been the happiest for me as it has a lot of problems but yours has so many less moving parts to go wrong with the ramp instead of lift. I wanted to get the ramp on my older truck but in a manual chair it’s just too steep esp since I’m usually loaded down when coming from the store. So the lift is what I have. When it’s all working it’s fantastic. The other issue is parking spaces because most handicap spaces where I live aren’t for van accessible they are the smaller sizes which doesn’t give me any room to get off the lift. So I have to park out of the way somewhere and park across 2 spaces to allow room for the lift and for my exit/entry. These are issues you will run into especially when all the spots are taken. I work at Walmart closing shift so when I get there after 3 pm all the handicap spots are taken. Customers throw a fit because they don’t pay attention to the under vehicle lift or the handicap placard. They complain to management or put carts or mart carts behind my vehicle to block me in to show their displeasure. So it’s a challenge. I had one customer key all the panels on the driver side so bad my body shop said I need to get a new bed on truck because they gouged it so deeply. And this was a few years ago before people got woke and ugly and ready to fight at the drop of a pin. There are those that just don’t understand and don’t care what damage they do. But then there are those who go above and beyond to help you out of a jam. This is getting way too long so I will conclude by saying Safe Travels young lady! I love your new ride.
Just stumbled across ur videos and wanted to offer some hope. A friend of mine fell from a high location braking Thier back in multiple locations, docs told them they would never walk again. Today they are walking up trees! Literally, they climb trees like a frog! If you didn't know them you would never guess! My grandfather had a stroke and became paralyzed, doctors told him he wouldn't walk.. he proved them wrong! Doctors told me I wouldn't be walking past the age of 21. I'm 36 ( with multiple injuries to over ½ my back and nerve damage to all extremities) still walking.... with a cane and not very far.... but still walking! (That's a win in my book) One day at a time, one small win at a time! Keep up your awesomeness and the good fight! ***You got this girl! It is possible! Shine brighter then the sun and show how amazing you are every day! And don't let anyone put limits on what you want to do! Hugs and may your dreams come true! My thoughts are with you! ***
I've seen three vids of yours, this evening, while scrolling through my feed... In each one, you have the most incredibly lovely smile. So infectious. Just seeing it, has made me smile, too❤️❤️ much love, to you xx
I'm so happy for you I hope you have many good times with your car your outlook and attitude towards things is always amazing to me I feel like you deserve the best of life and I hope you get it
Every single video your improvement is shockingly great! You hand and arm control improves with every video watching you use your hands and arms to communicate. I'm sure some days you feel like your recovery is going slower than you hope but as someone that only knows you from the videos you put out, your recovery progress shines in every video. Keep up the great work!
Always wishing you the best Makayla. I'm 19 and seeing you achieve your goals regardless of your accident and injury, its inspiring and motivating. You are so amazing and sweet and I know you will only achieve greater things. ❤️
Well done little lady. You are a positive roll model to so many people that have or had a bad accident to step up a notch. You are brave and your smile is amazing. Congratulations. (Please note i do not share my thoughts all that much on social media but when i do it is for a reason)
Makayla, you are so adorable. You always make me smile. I've watched your whole journey from your awful accident. I can't get my head around how someone so young can be so level headed and positive. I love you, you're such an inspiration. Keep on doing you. I can't wait for more videos. Xxx
Answered Prayers!! 🙏Thank you Jesus!!So excited for your future sweet girl! Take your time on your journey. Dont ever rush it for us on RUclips. We are here to support you always. You have taught me so much since your accident. I didnt know who you were prior too your accident. Your viedo popped up on my feed. Isn't it odd but zmazing how GOD connects people that has nothing in common but uses it all for the glory of his kingdom. Im so very greatful he connected me to your story. Again, you've taught me what Patience & greatfulness truely looks like. Oh,, & your sweet sister Mirah...Sister... your and earthly angel & your teaching us what Love truely is. You go so above & beyond your calling. Your a very special person & you make caregiving look so easy when its not! I took care of my grandmother who was bed ridden for 4yrs straight(so I know from experience). Bless you girls!! Sending Love from South Louisiana! 😘❤
So happy for you. My cousin is 26 and 2 years ago out of the blue 3 bones in his neck snapped and he fell to the ground in a lot of pain. Hes 6 feet tall. He cannot drive now. He wasnt a drinker or into drugs and would always help get his mom dressed as she had cerbal palsey. Now he has to live with her forever as she has a handicap shower. Working fill time is very hard as his back is in a lot of pain. He would love to have a car again for his independence. His mom isnt driving as her reflexes isnt quick enought if their was a accident about to happen. She only has one ear. His hands work. He was teaching animation to students in New Zealand. Now he has a caregiver along with his mother. Hes never had a girl friend. Like you he is upbeat and hapoy enought in his personality.
I am so happy for you and so thankful to those who made it happen! You go girl, and always be safe and drive safe. I wish you the very best in your life!
You are amazing! I admire you so much. I am not sure why your video showed, but I am glad it did. I absolutely love your attitude and how transparent you are when going through tough times. You are an example to many people. May god always bless you and your amazing family You are such a strong woman. I am confident you will be able to accomplish many things with your determination. I wish you health and recovery. You are a beautiful girl and soul. Keep fighting
Congrats Makayla on your first car. Can't wait to see you drive it. You'll learn those hand controls pretty quickly. I subscribed to your channel today. Looking forward to following your progress every step of the way. I know in my heart you'll walk again. Never give up. Keep pushing. #StillWeRise
Congratulations Makayla on your new vehicle!!! I can not think of anyone more deserving of such a wonderful and gracious gift! I know this will be life changing for you and your family. You are in my thoughts every single day and my prayers for you are unending. I continue to pray for your family as well since I know they are by your side every step of the way as you continue with your recovery. You are all so amazing and SO blessed to have one another. 💕💜💕💜
Okay, okay, the car is BOMB but I'm totally obsessed with your shirt!! It's almost as gorgeous as you are! Congratulations on your first car, I'm so so happy for you and the fam bam! You're literally the sweetest thing ever, we're all so proud of you! Honestly, I'm most proud of your attitude, you have the absolute best outlook on everything and it's absolutely my favorite! ❤ thank you for sharing your day to day, as much as you can, and thank you to your amazing family for allowing us to see day to day in their lives too! Thank you ALL!!
Makayla you are such an inspiring young beautiful woman. God Bless you each & everyday & I pray 🙏 that God will heal you. Thank You for Sharing. Always
I just got done watching your latest video, the Q and A while putting on your makeup. I noticed you turned the comments off, so I came here to say this... Love...you're ALIVE! Even if partially handicapped at the moment, you still have advantages some only dream of. You looked totally fine without makeup, so try not to stress so much over that LOL. Gorgeous is gorgeous, and the man who falls in love with you, will see you 90% without it anyways. Natural beauty is hard to come by, and you're truly blessed. The road you are on, isn't permanent, as you know like I do, that god can work crazy things and make miracles happen even when we as humans can not ever find the path. I've seen it. You're a prime example of it, so embrace that as much as possible. You ARE going to have your days as you mentioned. Some days you're going to be at your lowest of lows too, but it's in those moments, you begin to dig deep, and your future changes. You tune into yourself, you find issues and answers in those moments. The adjustments come with realizing what needs to happen, but know most of all, you can't rush perfection. You can't rush this type of healing. It takes time, and its SUPER hard not knowing in advance what the future holds. What all this does mean, is you have to take it 1 day at a time, 1 step at a time ( figuratively and physically) and that's ok. It's a just a few steps back, rebuilding yourself, and continuing on. My mother had have 5 strokes in 2 years, they don't know what's causing them, but she gets up and tries...every...single ..day. She always bounces back well, and she has her days too, and that's ok. But she would tell you this, as she tells me and others..." I ain't dead, ain't gonna be dead for a good long time, so just help me when I need it, encourage me often, and watch me whoop this one's butt!" I say this because I just buried my uncle 3 days ago, he passed away from 1 stroke that incapacitated him, basiclly totally. You said it yourself, some quadriplegics have some of the same issues you do, some don't. People heal differently. People have stronger will power than others, and some people have so much to live for, that they bounce back, and Dr's tell you it IS simply a God given miracle for getting back to as close to as normal as they have. Walking, doing your makeup, being free again, make those goals and strive to accomplish at least 1 baby step towards them each, daily. I want all these positives for you. I want you to embrace your bad days more than your good, as this will help your will power grow immensely. Cry when you need to. Heck, cuss if you need to, but you get back to it just like you're doing now, and maybe...JUST maybe...you won't need that other wheelchair, or that suv at all, in due time.🤞 I speak this from the heart, from experiences, from my own falters, fumbles, and bad life experiences. It does get better. You're beautiful, strong, and such an inspiration to others already. You...are a rolemodel. Know that. Keep going. Keep pushing. Never quit. You're never out of the fight. (Navy Seals motto). Check out Team Never Quit here on YT. Listen to the audio book Lone Survivor. Introduce yourself to Marcus Luttrell. His stories helped me and still do help me, with my custody battle, traumatic past, and a host of other things I deal with daily...and I've never served in the military. But his story, will blow your mind. 11 thru and thru gunshot wounds. Broken back, nose, face, eyesockets, severely dehydrated, but worst of all, watched his team mates pass away 1 by 1.... in his underwear, on a mountain, in Afghanistan, running from the taliban, and he crawled for 7 days...paralyzed from the waist down. And today, he walks like any other person. You have to keep pushing, never give up, fight hard, and you're gonna make it sweetheart. I'll be your cheerleader for sure. Anytime. I only surround myself with positive minded folks, so grow your circle too. Keep smilin' love! 😁 You got this, don't rush it. God's got you.🙏
She has the most infectious smile. ☺️ It's really cool that she has a vehicle that is accessible to her needs and also very cool looking. Also that sweater is amazing. 💯
I would love to see you posting something on how to get more mobile or what you do on a daily/ weekly basis to strengthen yourself. I'm also disabled and I'm curious to see what other disabled people do to keep themselves strong physically. Congrats on your new car!
Sweetheart, I just started watching your newest video I'm not finished yet but the comments are turned off, I just want to say your feelings are normal, you are going to grieve and it will come and go. And also you are a teenager with a lot of hormones going on to deal with on top of everything you have been through. I think you are amazing and very mature for your age, a very special person. Praying for you. You got this. It's ok to be sad you have a right to be sad and mad. Praying for you and Jesus loves you more than you will ever know. We all love you and praying for you.
I'm in a motorized wheelchair too. I have been looking for something to drive. I don't want a van either, but now seeing this video I think I'm going to get a car just like the you got. Thanks for sharing.
I can not comment on your latest video so I will put this here. I just wanted to say that you inspire me and seeing how you try your best inspite of everything that has happend to you and also to see that you struggle but try again. Best of luck to you and your loved ones. You go girl!
Watching from France, it must be dufficult but you're so strong i'm impress, thanks for your positivity Hope you'll keep fighting to get better and stay happy no matter what
I'm new to your channel this is amazing! I became Paralyzed in July of 2017. I have a Neurological condition called Transverse Myelitis. I could walk when I went into the ER but left Paralyzed 10 months later. I lost the ability to feel my bottom half. Some things have come back and I am still doing therapy. I can stand a bit. The times been increasing. Trying to get to atleast 2 min so I can stand and Pivot. Ty for sharing your life w us. I never even thought about driving again but you've given me so much hope 💕
Hey girl, loving the videos and how open and upbeat you are about everything. Keep that kind of attitude and everything will go with ease. I was thinking about you cupholder situation and I thought maybe they could have some kind of trey fold out under the radio or ever slide out where the center console used to be or in that area. Again keep the positive attitude and keep on keep'n on. Peace Love and be humble my friend.
You're so adorable 🤗. Please don't think you have to always stay positive and need to supress your feelings, thoughts and anger as vulnerability can also be a sign of strength. You're a beautiful intelligent talented woman, who has the whole world ahead of her, live your best life with your new abilities. I am rooting for you. Remember, baby steps. Love from Australia 🥰.
I just saw your post on Sadie’s page and came started looking through your links. I found your channel, watched my first video and oh my you’re a sweetheart. I love you already. ❤️❤️❤️
This is fab! 🚘 You are such a fighter and such a genuine bright light. Thanks for being an amazing human and showing what strength of spirit is all about. 🤜🏼 🏅 🤛🏼
I remember my first car being the old family minivan. The spacious interior was nice, but it wasn't the cutest look let's be real. An SUV is a great car. Congratulations!
So cool 😎 You guys did great! We have our own company here in Ocean Springs, Mississippi called "Team Adaptive" that does great conversions but I've only seen Caravans or van conversions but this Traverse is so much sporty and to me way better. Bravo!
My best friend was in a car accident when we were in 10th grade that resulted in her becoming an incomplete quadriplegic. Her accident was just a couple months after getting her license. Seeing her get her first adapted car and all the freedoms it afforded her was such a beautiful experience. Keep that smile, girl. You're amazing 💜
You’re right about Makayla she is a beautiful person inside and out I can tell you right now if I was her shoes I wouldn’t be as happy yes she is always smiling and have a happy positive attitude I Would be broken I wouldn’t be The same person
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But they are so expensive!
@@snowygirl131 That's very true! A group of us put together a battle of the bands benefit concert to raise money towards my friend getting her car which helped a ton.
I just watched your newest video and the comments are turned off but I just wanted to say that having those bad days, where you are emotional and upset about what's happened to you, is not only a good thing but absolutely necessary. The mourning process sucks but it's healthy and putting pressure on yourself to always be positive and happy and grateful, it's just can be really unhealthy because it means you are repressing your feelings and not addressing and coping with them. I know you are probably completely aware of this but I just wanted to also say that you are super early in your recovery, there is still chances that you will gain more motion and use of your arms and fingers, there's surgeries they can do as well. It is completely possible that by this time next year, you will be able to use your fingers and arms more and that you will need much less help💜 I know hearing people tell you how strong you are 24-7, can feel so exhausting because on those bad days you might just want to say "I'm not strong, I just dont have any other choice" so I won't say that but I will say it's going to get better, you are doing amazing for how recent your accident was
I became a paraplegic in a fire in 1978. I’ve had 2 vehicles since then. The first was a cargo van that was converted, but instead of a ramp, it had a lift. (I really liked the lift as I have a manual chair and the ramp can sometimes be a little steep for manual.) My second vehicle is a minivan. I’ve had it since 2006, and was thinking about trading it in on a newer van, but now that I’ve seen your Chevy, I want one! I am considerably older than you, (I could be your grandma), but I didn’t really want a minivan either. You have opened my eyes to new possibilities and I think I’m going to check into something like yours. If I stop trying to rebuild the Nation’s economy on my own, I might be able to save enough for a down payment. Lol. Take care of yourself. You have such a wonderful attitude, there is nothing that will be able stop you! 😊
Great comment.Really positive response. 👍💯
Beautiful message, bless!! Hope you get one 😘😘
I am paralyzed as well but bc of a Neurological condition called Transverse Myelitis. It's been almost 5 years. I was a Quadriplegic but I've rehabbed alot and I can now move my arms..feed myself etc. I can move my legs sitting up and only 1 lying down. This gives me so much hope for driving again. Thx for sharing your experience.
@@mimi0424 fantastic story..
Inspiration at its best..
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So sorry to hear about your condition Michelle, praying for a total recovery! Just remember that these bodies are temporal and aren't meant to last forever, but our Spirits are eternal and they will return to the Awesome Creator that made them when these bodies no longer work. Take care Michelle, God bless you! 🙏
There is a light that shines from you that just lights up a room (or an SUV). You effortlessly remind us to be grateful for what we have even in the face of hardship. You deserve all the good that comes your way! Love from Canada 🇨🇦.
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I second that from England ❤️
Beautiful comment!
Love from California ❤
I third that from England!
I fourth that from Rhode island! Amazing young woman and family
I've got neurological symptoms for over a year now, but still doctors haven't found the exact reason. I'm going to some genetic tests next. My life has stopped since I can't really walk more than a couple hundred meter at the time, so it's difficult even to go to work at morning, my muscles are just always really tired.
But then I found your videos, don't even remember how. Even they say you cannot compare your situation to others, you are still giving me hope. Like, if you can stay so positive in THAT situation, why I couldn't deal with my own. After all you seem so happy, and that your life still has so much content despite it all. You will still travel, explore things and be happy. I wish you all the best, and I wish I could be as positive as you some day.
Even so, I wish so much that I could heal you.
I remember my first vehicle after paralysis and it was a Godsend to give me more independence. I am really happy for you.
Miss Makayla, I love your positive spirit! And congrats on your first car!!
That's fantastic!!!. Congrats
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This girl got potential!! I dont even have a car and i am at the same age. 😭😭😭😭😭
She just radiates love and kindness. She is going to inspire the world. What a beautiful young lady inside and out.
I wish everyone could see the beauty and positivity in life as much as you do!! What an inspiration to ANYbody♥️♥️♥️
Absolutely! It’s why she rocks. Makayla, if you see this I actually have to make a comment on your appearance. This was the best I’ve seen you look and here’s why: maybe you slept really well or something but your makeup looked great. I’ve been an advocate of less makeup for a long time, especially if you don’t need much. Sometimes it’s diminishing returns with it. Specifically, eye makeup in excess? Not a fan! But you went really minimalist with it for this video and I hope you’ll take a good look again. We could really see you and it’s a good thing! 👍🏻✌🏻
@@junior.von.claire I have to agree. Makayla looks so pretty. Her smile just lights up all the time. She's just so happy and positive. And her hairstyle is so cute!
Cool car
Junior con Claire I agree, she is stunning😍
She has this natural beauty that radiates from the inside out and you can tell this has always been her! Mom and Dad have raised an absolute LIGHT🥰
Iam paralyzed 2 I know how it felt but she such a positive girl
i've been watching your videos for the last 2 hours now, and although i don't have any form of physical injury, my mental is what has kept me down since before i was your age! After watching your videos i am very truly inspired to not let anything get in your way no matter how big the problem!! You got this girly!!💜💜
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How beautiful your new car is!!! Its just an exciting new world for you - freedom! God blessed you and your family sweetheart! The sweet people who all contributed are just marvelous!!! 💕💕
I am watching the video you just posted about how you really feel. Let it o u t.
I feel for you and am thinking of you.
I don't understand why comments are turned off.
This is your most important video so far.
Your rawness is heartfelt and so justified.
Of course you are gonna compare yourself to others!! We all do that!!!
Your friends applaud your honesty and frankly anything you do or say is applauded and understood. You are a hero. So few of us could deal with it.
You have earned it!
Cool car. I'm also a wheelchair user and have hand controls. Personally, I found it pretty easy to learn to drive using them. I'm sure you'll do fine.
Yep Ditto
Awesome..That car is well equipped for your needs..It’s gonna be cool when you are learning to drive..And actually cruise around in your new Whip lol..Your heartfelt appreciation was warmly felt..You Got One Shot at this day..I hope something fun and exciting happens
You are the kind of Angel and positive energy this world needs right now..... At 17 years old to carry this much grace and integrity it's humbling and inspiring. I hope it's ok but I want to share your videos with my 14 year old daughter whi can learn so much from you. And thank you for teaching us all how to make the world a more loving place. You and your are in our thoughts and prayers every day! Love from Houston!
Heya sweetness, just wanted to say real quick, from a mom/grandma's pov, you're an absolute gift to your family! I know your mom's heart just bursts with pride over you. I can imagine that even on your darkest days, you still bring her so much joy. Stay positive, honey, I wish you all the beautiful and wonderful things in the whole world! 💙💜
This is so cool, I've never seen an adapted SUV! My sister-in-law went from a minivan to a Traverse and loves it. It's so awesome how they were able to make it work for you. Shout out to Mobility Works for this and all the supporters who could make it happen! As for cup holders, maybe you could get vent cup holders that clip into the vents or something else like that. They have a bunch of options online, I'm sure you could find a solution. Can't wait to see you in action in the Traverse!
You are such a ray of sunshine to everyone. Your positivity just radiates. I can’t imagine that your disability will ever be a barrier to your dreams and ambitions xx
We are very happy for you. Please take time to slow down and heal emotionally. Social media can be a toxic place. Take all the time you need.
You're such a ray off sunshine , I glad things are following in to place . Keep the faith be strong, you got this.
WOW that Truck is awesome, Girl the importance of a sunroof💕 Love to your mom and Sis.. When you start driving I know you will be gone for hours with your new freedom..You are BEAUTIFUL
You are just so inspirational. I can't believe someone your age and someone who has recently had to deal with this has such a positive attitude. You are a very strong young woman.
An ex prosperite here. My kids went to school there when they had just 1 building for all grades. You are an inspiration to all. Love your hair. Congrats on your car! God bless you.
You are so sweet. I’m a grandma of 3. I enjoy listening to you because you are so encouraging and uplifting. Thank you for being you. 🌹
I didn’t drive for 6 years after being a para but as soon as I was behind the wheel everything felt normal. Took one day of driving training and was qualified to drive with hand controls. You’ll get it all really quick! I have a Volkswagen Passat so just know that any car can be converted, and you’re not limited to minivans once you get a manual wheelchair. Good luck girly
I love how bright and positive you always are. I’m so happy for you and your family.
Enjoy your new car, you deserve it!!
I need a handicap van! My husband is 75,& can't lift my Power Wheelchair any more. !
Your positivity is such an incredible thing to witness. I don’t even have the words to explain how amazing you are! What a gift you have…and you will change lives! Thanks so much for sharing your world with us. 💜💜
But we dont know when she close the camera.....maby life is not THAT cool after.....
Hi Makayla, thank you for sharing your story, I’ve watched quite a few of your RUclips videos. You are amazing,so positive about your life after your injury. I wish you all the luck in the future. Take care. 😀
I'm so happy and proud of you!!!! An amazing inspiration isn't enough to describe you! I cry and smile every time I watch your videos. Continue to be a ray of sunshine 🌞 to us ALL!
Omg you have the sweetest personality on ANY social media....happy for you and your new car, super cute. I'm keeping you in my prayers, you've got this.
I’m a mom from Chicago. I told my husband of your story and am so proud of how far you’ve come. I’m not sure if you ever told the whole story, but I’d love a story dedicated to what happened and the event that made you paralyzed. I think so many cheer girls could benefit from what happened and any warnings you might have for being careful outside of practices. You’re amazing, hugs!!
I think we would definitely want the whole story whenever you are ready mak!!💖
Just Google her name, and you will see what happened to her..take care...
@@bishbash6547 It just says a freak tumbling accident. I think we all want the details. But ofc whenever mak is ready to share❤️
@@beth_2709 You need to find the article where says that she was at a friend's house doing tumbling exercises in the backyard, and she landed on her head with no mats.. in the grass it was a freak accident... there are many news stories on what happened..
@@bishbash6547 Yea I read that! Just think it would be cool for mak to sit down and rlly explain all the details and like the journey to the hospital!! Just all the little details
Im very happy for you Makayla! I love your attitude on life, keep on going and may God help you and your family on this journey. Cheers all the way from Costa Rica!
An awesome gift to a courageous and beautiful person. Congratulations! ✌🏼❤️
You are such an inspiration. I’m sitting over here in Michigan worry about my health conditions but it’s nothing like what you’re going through. Thanks for shining your bright light!
You're adorable and such an inspiration to ALL. Be blessed 🙌
Congratulations kiddo!!! My friend had the big conversion van as his vehicle, and he drove everywhere with it and his helper dog. He even drove to Bloomington Indiana where he and his wife both went to and got their doctorates, if I spleed that correctly..lol You Got this kiddo, keep on keeping on!!!!
Congrats Makayla and family-very happy for you!! This is sooo exciting and great for you that you will be able to drive it when you get your license. The Traverse is VERY roomy and comfortable.
Love your cute hairstyle too and your both very grateful & upbeat attitude!! You truly are an inspiration to us all!!! You look great in this video-very healthy! 😊😁💕💗❤💗💕💗❤
You are an amazing spirit. there’s is so much strength and courage which just pours out of you . Awesome young lady, a role model in positivity and well being
YOU are amazing!! So positive and happy x obviously you'll have low days, who wouldn't. But the way you're adapting and your determination is inspiring. Your family too!
Thank you for sharing your journey, especially for those finding themselves in the same boat x
Don't give up beautiful girl x
This makes me wanna do a proper review of my driving set-up. id love to see how your special driving test go 👊🏻
I freaking LOVE your attitude towards everything. Keep rocking Mak and your progress already is AMAZING! Go girly
I think your so awesome. May your light never dim, sweet young lady. ❤
Edit: Congratulations to you!
Hello Mak! This comment is from watching “Explaining to ya all how I really feel” video. We are all human! You have your up days and some down days. Today is my down day. I and all people on here want to wish you the best and we support you! You rock girl 💕
YOUR FAMILY ARE GREATEST..
Congrats to you! This is gonna be a big step into being more independent ! I agree that not driving before and trying to relearn is an advantage. Godspeed young lady!
Congratulations on your new ride!!! Super excited for you. Your joy reminds me to be grateful in this life. 🙏😃❤️💫
Makayla, u r a true inspiration. I can see why God would pick u for this job. U r a beam of sunshine, I can only imagine the struggles, but I can also see God in you, with tremendous power!! I found your channel yesterday and today I woke up with u in my heart, feeling very humble, will keep u in my thoughts and prayers, wishing u find ur purpose in life. Just wanted to say a massive thank you for being you, keep up the hard work 💪 🙌 👍 u r AMAZING!!!! 😘
Miss girl, you bringing so much joy to my life with these videos. Keep killing it and working hard 💜
I am so happy for you!!! I can't explain....I feel like I will bust out of my skin. Can't wait to see you drive!! You have so many people helping you...God Bless your family. You are so lucky to have such a loving family. Drive carefully...when u get your license..so so happy your expenses have been paid. You have such a sunny disposition. You are up beat and positive. Like my grandmother used to say...' Keep looking ahead...don't look back.' The future holds so much for you Makayla!! Holding u in my thoughts...my heart...and in my prayers.
What a blessing! It's beautiful!! I love your sun roof. The sun shines on you but your beautiful smile lights up any room on it's own. Congratulations on your gorgeous car!
I drive with hand controls. Helpful tip if you are in need of additional financial resources for installation of hand controls and/or an adaptive driving program to learn how to use everything check out your states department of vocational rehabilitation. They assist individuals with disabilities with finding gainful employment. Transportation is considered an aspect of that.
Congratulations, Makayla! You are living proof that being wheelchair-bound does NOT stop you from the most significant accomplishment in one's lifetime - having the ability to drive a vehicle. You have done it, and I am truly impressed! I would like to see more of your videos! (2/13/2022)
Glad you got a Chevrolet Mak! You will love it and it will last. I have a Silverado SS (with a sunroof too!) It has a hydraulic lift and the doors flip out naturally. I have an EZ lock system to lock my chair in place at drivers position. I also have a switch that pops the back door because it got harder for me to open the back door. Pretty much every issue that comes up as you gain or lose more mobility can be addressed. I have a hard time getting the seat belt and bringing it across as it’s behind me once I’m locked in and that’s my biggest problem. I’ve had a few different brands of seatbelts but they all have the stop action so it’s hard to fix the problem. Just something to get them to work on now before you need it. Make sure you can work the seatbelt ok from drivers position and locked in! The biggest downfall is that I can’t take my vehicle through a car wash with my conversion because it will rip the wiring right out to the lift. An SUV is great because you don’t have to worry about the hydraulic pump and circuit boards getting wet even though they are housed in a metal box in my truck bed. They had to go back and seal it a couple times because of it getting wet in there. The day will come when something isn’t working and it’s frustrating being stranded. I’m sure they have a service to come help but I used to travel a lot so was out of the area for help when I would have issues. It has happened to pretty much everyone at one time or another, you learn to get creative. Just wondering if you have a remote start on yours. It’s something you can mention to them if you don’t have it because being a quad you need to really watch yourself in the heat and getting in a hot car can be disastrous for you. With the remote start you have the opportunity to have the air conditioning or heat blowing for a few minutes to get your vehicle the right temp for you. Especially with two sun roofs your interior will heat up quickly. I also am intolerant of temps even though I’m a para I’m a T 5-6 right where our internal temps are controlled so I have those issues as well and I don’t sweat below my injury and I live in central FL. The remote start makes such a difference. There is a parking lot at one of my drs at Shands that is on the roof of parking garage and in the summer I get so overheated just getting to my vehicle that without that remote start I would be cooked for sure!
I know you will love it when you are driving your beautiful new car. Hope to hear what you name it! Mine is black so I named him Obsidian Super Shark. The shark is because Hunter Thompson used to call his fav red Cadillac convertible The Shark, so mine is The Super Shark, being an SS. I have a vanity plate with a Shark on it too! My conversion hasn’t been the happiest for me as it has a lot of problems but yours has so many less moving parts to go wrong with the ramp instead of lift. I wanted to get the ramp on my older truck but in a manual chair it’s just too steep esp since I’m usually loaded down when coming from the store. So the lift is what I have. When it’s all working it’s fantastic. The other issue is parking spaces because most handicap spaces where I live aren’t for van accessible they are the smaller sizes which doesn’t give me any room to get off the lift. So I have to park out of the way somewhere and park across 2 spaces to allow room for the lift and for my exit/entry. These are issues you will run into especially when all the spots are taken. I work at Walmart closing shift so when I get there after 3 pm all the handicap spots are taken. Customers throw a fit because they don’t pay attention to the under vehicle lift or the handicap placard. They complain to management or put carts or mart carts behind my vehicle to block me in to show their displeasure. So it’s a challenge. I had one customer key all the panels on the driver side so bad my body shop said I need to get a new bed on truck because they gouged it so deeply. And this was a few years ago before people got woke and ugly and ready to fight at the drop of a pin. There are those that just don’t understand and don’t care what damage they do. But then there are those who go above and beyond to help you out of a jam. This is getting way too long so I will conclude by saying Safe Travels young lady! I love your new ride.
This is amazing! Congratulations on your new car! Can’t wait to go on this journey with you and learn as you do. You are teaching us all so much !
Just stumbled across ur videos and wanted to offer some hope.
A friend of mine fell from a high location braking Thier back in multiple locations, docs told them they would never walk again. Today they are walking up trees! Literally, they climb trees like a frog! If you didn't know them you would never guess!
My grandfather had a stroke and became paralyzed, doctors told him he wouldn't walk.. he proved them wrong!
Doctors told me I wouldn't be walking past the age of 21. I'm 36 ( with multiple injuries to over ½ my back and nerve damage to all extremities) still walking.... with a cane and not very far.... but still walking! (That's a win in my book)
One day at a time, one small win at a time! Keep up your awesomeness and the good fight!
***You got this girl! It is possible! Shine brighter then the sun and show how amazing you are every day! And don't let anyone put limits on what you want to do! Hugs and may your dreams come true! My thoughts are with you! ***
I've seen three vids of yours, this evening, while scrolling through my feed... In each one, you have the most incredibly lovely smile. So infectious. Just seeing it, has made me smile, too❤️❤️ much love, to you xx
Congratulations I'm so psyched for you! You have such a positive and heartwarming spirit.💞
I'm so happy for you I hope you have many good times with your car your outlook and attitude towards things is always amazing to me I feel like you deserve the best of life and I hope you get it
Im so happy for you! You are just amazing! To be that happy and send out all this wonderful energy! Just love it! Wish you the best
I just love you. You and your beautiful family are in my prayers always. Car is awesome!!!!
Yeah...keep em coming, love ur videos, good luck on your car.
Every single video your improvement is shockingly great! You hand and arm control improves with every video watching you use your hands and arms to communicate. I'm sure some days you feel like your recovery is going slower than you hope but as someone that only knows you from the videos you put out, your recovery progress shines in every video. Keep up the great work!
Always wishing you the best Makayla. I'm 19 and seeing you achieve your goals regardless of your accident and injury, its inspiring and motivating. You are so amazing and sweet and I know you will only achieve greater things. ❤️
Well done little lady. You are a positive roll model to so many people that have or had a bad accident to step up a notch. You are brave and your smile is amazing. Congratulations. (Please note i do not share my thoughts all that much on social media but when i do it is for a reason)
Makayla, you are so adorable. You always make me smile. I've watched your whole journey from your awful accident. I can't get my head around how someone so young can be so level headed and positive. I love you, you're such an inspiration. Keep on doing you. I can't wait for more videos. Xxx
We are so very happy for you and the positive vibes that you give off are so inspirational.
Answered Prayers!! 🙏Thank you Jesus!!So excited for your future sweet girl! Take your time on your journey. Dont ever rush it for us on RUclips. We are here to support you always. You have taught me so much since your accident. I didnt know who you were prior too your accident. Your viedo popped up on my feed. Isn't it odd but zmazing how GOD connects people that has nothing in common but uses it all for the glory of his kingdom.
Im so very greatful he connected me to your story. Again, you've taught me what Patience & greatfulness truely looks like. Oh,, & your sweet sister Mirah...Sister... your and earthly angel & your teaching us what Love truely is. You go so above & beyond your calling. Your a very special person & you make caregiving look so easy when its not! I took care of my grandmother who was bed ridden for 4yrs straight(so I know from experience). Bless you girls!! Sending Love from South Louisiana! 😘❤
So happy for you. My cousin is 26 and 2 years ago out of the blue 3 bones in his neck snapped and he fell to the ground in a lot of pain. Hes 6 feet tall. He cannot drive now. He wasnt a drinker or into drugs and would always help get his mom dressed as she had cerbal palsey. Now he has to live with her forever as she has a handicap shower. Working fill time is very hard as his back is in a lot of pain. He would love to have a car again for his independence. His mom isnt driving as her reflexes isnt quick enought if their was a accident about to happen. She only has one ear. His hands work. He was teaching animation to students in New Zealand. Now he has a caregiver along with his mother. Hes never had a girl friend. Like you he is upbeat and hapoy enought in his personality.
You are absolutely adorable! You're an amazing young lady and such an inspiration for others. Keep it up. Congrats on the new car! It's nice! ❤
I love how you are so young but amazingly positive, thoughtful and thankful. You are an inspiration xx
Aaaggghh! I'm so excited for you!! 1st cars are always awesome!! 😀😀😀
I am so happy for you and so thankful to those who made it happen! You go girl, and always be safe and drive safe. I wish you the very best in your life!
Mak, You are so welcome! I enjoy following you and seeing how everyday you become stronger & your positivity is amazing!! We ❤️ U!
You are amazing! I admire you so much. I am not sure why your video showed, but I am glad it did. I absolutely love your attitude and how transparent you are when going through tough times. You are an example to many people. May god always bless you and your amazing family
You are such a strong woman. I am confident you will be able to accomplish many things with your determination. I wish you health and recovery. You are a beautiful girl and soul. Keep fighting
Congrats Makayla on your first car. Can't wait to see you drive it. You'll learn those hand controls pretty quickly. I subscribed to your channel today. Looking forward to following your progress every step of the way. I know in my heart you'll walk again. Never give up. Keep pushing. #StillWeRise
Your positivity sheds light in my life as a fellow wheelchair user. Continued Blessings
Congratulations my girl. ❤️
Congratulations Makayla on your new vehicle!!! I can not think of anyone more deserving of such a wonderful and gracious gift! I know this will be life changing for you and your family. You are in my thoughts every single day and my prayers for you are unending. I continue to pray for your family as well since I know they are by your side every step of the way as you continue with your recovery. You are all so amazing and SO blessed to have one another.
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Okay, okay, the car is BOMB but I'm totally obsessed with your shirt!! It's almost as gorgeous as you are! Congratulations on your first car, I'm so so happy for you and the fam bam! You're literally the sweetest thing ever, we're all so proud of you! Honestly, I'm most proud of your attitude, you have the absolute best outlook on everything and it's absolutely my favorite! ❤ thank you for sharing your day to day, as much as you can, and thank you to your amazing family for allowing us to see day to day in their lives too! Thank you ALL!!
Makayla you are such an inspiring young beautiful woman. God Bless you each & everyday & I pray 🙏 that God will heal you. Thank You for Sharing. Always
I just got done watching your latest video, the Q and A while putting on your makeup. I noticed you turned the comments off, so I came here to say this...
Love...you're ALIVE! Even if partially handicapped at the moment, you still have advantages some only dream of. You looked totally fine without makeup, so try not to stress so much over that LOL. Gorgeous is gorgeous, and the man who falls in love with you, will see you 90% without it anyways. Natural beauty is hard to come by, and you're truly blessed.
The road you are on, isn't permanent, as you know like I do, that god can work crazy things and make miracles happen even when we as humans can not ever find the path. I've seen it. You're a prime example of it, so embrace that as much as possible.
You ARE going to have your days as you mentioned. Some days you're going to be at your lowest of lows too, but it's in those moments, you begin to dig deep, and your future changes. You tune into yourself, you find issues and answers in those moments. The adjustments come with realizing what needs to happen, but know most of all, you can't rush perfection. You can't rush this type of healing. It takes time, and its SUPER hard not knowing in advance what the future holds.
What all this does mean, is you have to take it 1 day at a time, 1 step at a time ( figuratively and physically) and that's ok. It's a just a few steps back, rebuilding yourself, and continuing on.
My mother had have 5 strokes in 2 years, they don't know what's causing them, but she gets up and tries...every...single ..day. She always bounces back well, and she has her days too, and that's ok. But she would tell you this, as she tells me and others..." I ain't dead, ain't gonna be dead for a good long time, so just help me when I need it, encourage me often, and watch me whoop this one's butt!" I say this because I just buried my uncle 3 days ago, he passed away from 1 stroke that incapacitated him, basiclly totally. You said it yourself, some quadriplegics have some of the same issues you do, some don't. People heal differently. People have stronger will power than others, and some people have so much to live for, that they bounce back, and Dr's tell you it IS simply a God given miracle for getting back to as close to as normal as they have. Walking, doing your makeup, being free again, make those goals and strive to accomplish at least 1 baby step towards them each, daily.
I want all these positives for you. I want you to embrace your bad days more than your good, as this will help your will power grow immensely. Cry when you need to. Heck, cuss if you need to, but you get back to it just like you're doing now, and maybe...JUST maybe...you won't need that other wheelchair, or that suv at all, in due time.🤞
I speak this from the heart, from experiences, from my own falters, fumbles, and bad life experiences.
It does get better. You're beautiful, strong, and such an inspiration to others already. You...are a rolemodel. Know that.
Keep going. Keep pushing. Never quit. You're never out of the fight. (Navy Seals motto).
Check out Team Never Quit here on YT. Listen to the audio book Lone Survivor. Introduce yourself to Marcus Luttrell. His stories helped me and still do help me, with my custody battle, traumatic past, and a host of other things I deal with daily...and I've never served in the military. But his story, will blow your mind.
11 thru and thru gunshot wounds.
Broken back, nose, face, eyesockets, severely dehydrated, but worst of all, watched his team mates pass away 1 by 1.... in his underwear, on a mountain, in Afghanistan, running from the taliban, and he crawled for 7 days...paralyzed from the waist down. And today, he walks like any other person.
You have to keep pushing, never give up, fight hard, and you're gonna make it sweetheart. I'll be your cheerleader for sure. Anytime. I only surround myself with positive minded folks, so grow your circle too.
Keep smilin' love! 😁 You got this, don't rush it.
God's got you.🙏
She has the most infectious smile. ☺️
It's really cool that she has a vehicle that is accessible to her needs and also very cool looking. Also that sweater is amazing. 💯
I would love to see you posting something on how to get more mobile or what you do on a daily/ weekly basis to strengthen yourself. I'm also disabled and I'm curious to see what other disabled people do to keep themselves strong physically. Congrats on your new car!
Congratulations in your new car!! 🚙 Beep Beep
Love the hairdo!
Ur killin it!! Rooting for yall!! thanks for the positivity beautiful!
Sweetheart, I just started watching your newest video I'm not finished yet but the comments are turned off, I just want to say your feelings are normal, you are going to grieve and it will come and go. And also you are a teenager with a lot of hormones going on to deal with on top of everything you have been through. I think you are amazing and very mature for your age, a very special person. Praying for you. You got this. It's ok to be sad you have a right to be sad and mad. Praying for you and Jesus loves you more than you will ever know. We all love you and praying for you.
Oh I love it !! So pretty !! Congratulations 🎉 on your new ride ! Can’t wait to see you drive it I know you’re so excited 😊
I'm in a motorized wheelchair too. I have been looking for something to drive. I don't want a van either, but now seeing this video I think I'm going to get a car just like the you got. Thanks for sharing.
I can not comment on your latest video so I will put this here. I just wanted to say that you inspire me and seeing how you try your best inspite of everything that has happend to you and also to see that you struggle but try again. Best of luck to you and your loved ones. You go girl!
Watching from France, it must be dufficult but you're so strong i'm impress, thanks for your positivity Hope you'll keep fighting to get better and stay happy no matter what
I'm new to your channel this is amazing! I became Paralyzed in July of 2017. I have a Neurological condition called Transverse Myelitis. I could walk when I went into the ER but left Paralyzed 10 months later. I lost the ability to feel my bottom half. Some things have come back and I am still doing therapy. I can stand a bit. The times been increasing. Trying to get to atleast 2 min so I can stand and Pivot. Ty for sharing your life w us. I never even thought about driving again but you've given me so much hope 💕
Hey girl, loving the videos and how open and upbeat you are about everything. Keep that kind of attitude and everything will go with ease. I was thinking about you cupholder situation and I thought maybe they could have some kind of trey fold out under the radio or ever slide out where the center console used to be or in that area. Again keep the positive attitude and keep on keep'n on. Peace Love and be humble my friend.
You're so adorable 🤗. Please don't think you have to always stay positive and need to supress your feelings, thoughts and anger as vulnerability can also be a sign of strength.
You're a beautiful intelligent talented woman, who has the whole world ahead of her, live your best life with your new abilities.
I am rooting for you. Remember, baby steps.
Love from Australia 🥰.
I just saw your post on Sadie’s page and came started looking through your links. I found your channel, watched my first video and oh my you’re a sweetheart. I love you already. ❤️❤️❤️
ahhh SOO exciting!!! Sooo happy for uu!!
This is fab! 🚘 You are such a fighter and such a genuine bright light. Thanks for being an amazing human and showing what strength of spirit is all about. 🤜🏼 🏅 🤛🏼
I am so excited to see your progress in the coming months 🥰 congratulations! 🍾🎈🎊🎉
I remember my first car being the old family minivan. The spacious interior was nice, but it wasn't the cutest look let's be real. An SUV is a great car. Congratulations!
What a great girl following her development hopefully she regain some more movement lots of work ahead, you inspire me.
So cool 😎 You guys did great! We have our own company here in Ocean Springs, Mississippi called "Team Adaptive" that does great conversions but I've only seen Caravans or van conversions but this Traverse is so much sporty and to me way better. Bravo!