I have no regrets anymore - forgiving yourself for your mistakes is essential to lead a happy life

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @dremamccoy2004
    @dremamccoy2004 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for filming the beautiful sunrise. God's handwork ❤

  • @mariechristianemourges9626
    @mariechristianemourges9626 2 месяца назад +1

    Belle video, addictive, ....merci pour l’astuce des ”dandelions” 🙏
    Et toujours de bons sentiments ❤

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser 5 месяцев назад +9

    Dear Scottish Fairie.....what a beautiful video!...words of gentle wisdom, beautiful scenery and beautiful musical accompaniment. The walk along the shore was such a lovely object lesson....As the gentle waves wash on to the shore, they carry away all that was there just there the other morning....all is fresh again and new. Such is your gentle view of self acceptance and forgiveness.....a fresh newness and moving on to a new day. If we are honest...we ALL may have made bad choices and have regrets, but we also have the CHOICE to start fresh....to wash away the regrets and begin each day anew as that of the rising sun upon a clean beach. Oh, that lilac lemonade looked wonderful! I've never made it...

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад +1

      Hello Charlotte and thank you for another very kind comment - they are all much appreciated!
      I love your words about the gentle wash on the shore carrying away all that was! I find the sea is a healer, forgiving and kind.
      I agree, we can shift our view and change course at any stage in life. The past is the past and will remain there if we let it.
      Have a wonderful Sunday and once more thanks for your kind support 🧚

  • @rrhines3151
    @rrhines3151 5 месяцев назад +4

    Lovely video once again -- the sunrise, forgiveness so no regrets -- the lilac lemonade seems a drink only fairies could imagine creating! Enjoy your week, DearScottishFairy! Until your next video 🍋💌

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for another kind comment - they really mean a lot!
      The lemonade is really wonderful - I might try making Rose Lemonade next 🌹
      Have a lovely week and I see you soon 🧚

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton 5 месяцев назад +2

    I was a single mom also. I also have regrets about how I raised my son. There are things I wished I could have changed. We all make mistakes. He tells me I'm a good mom. Thank you so much for this video it really helped me.❤❤❤

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад +3

      Hello Cathy and thank you for this lovely comment. As single parents we do our best and only in hindsight do we think that our actions could have been different. I am happy your son sees it like mine - that is because we are good moms! I hope you hold pride in the fact that you raised a child by yourself. Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

    • @cathylynnpietranton
      @cathylynnpietranton 5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much

  • @aussiebushgirl1829
    @aussiebushgirl1829 5 месяцев назад +1

    A lesson for us all. Beautifully said amid a morning vista of tranquility and peace. I am learning much from you dear Scottish Fairy, and allowing the wisdom of slow living to flow into my life. Thank you. 🙏🌊

  • @lindaconnelly7836
    @lindaconnelly7836 5 месяцев назад +3

    Another beautiful video and inspirational content.
    Thank you. 🩷

  • @marjayasmr
    @marjayasmr 5 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful little channel that popped up randomly on my feed. I love your soothing tones, your home, the music in your video, and your life messages 😊 I have subscribed x

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for subscribing. I hope you enjoy the rest of my videos. Have a lovely day 🧚

  • @marieheyndrickx4463
    @marieheyndrickx4463 5 месяцев назад

    Très beau ❤❤

  • @KobusingyeAisha
    @KobusingyeAisha 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks big cc for the wonderful, advise video ❤❤lord bless u 🙏.

  • @alexgosher2702
    @alexgosher2702 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such a beautiful video, with those gentle words of wisdom, so good for my daughter to also hear that others get anxious and scared.
    Many blessings from France,
    Katrina

  • @sabinebecherer3735
    @sabinebecherer3735 5 месяцев назад +1

    Danke!

  • @ענתכהן-פ7ז
    @ענתכהן-פ7ז 3 месяца назад

    Hello dear
    This video, besides being beautiful, it dealing with a very meaningful subject. Thank you for talking about it.
    Its so true what you said and so hard to do... i suppose it's a matter of self awareness and mostly a spiritual decision.
    I loved the sentence in which you said we shouldn't leave this world with regrets. I think it may help me to be focused on the way of dealing with my regrets. I wish i would be more forgiving to myself. I am working on it...
    Thank you again for being authentic. 🌺🦋🌻💕🌸

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for this lovely comment. It is much appreciated.
      I hope that you can forgive yourself in the future. It is not always easy as I do know from my own mistakes that effected others. But just as we forgive others we should forgive ourselves and show ourselves the same kindness we would to those we love.
      You will get there!
      Have a lovely Sunday 🧚

    • @ענתכהן-פ7ז
      @ענתכהן-פ7ז 3 месяца назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396
      Thank you dear for you kind and encouraging words.
      You are right. I am more forgiving to others than myself...that is definitely a thing to work on...
      Thank you for believing in me 😊
      Have a lovely day 🌷💛🦋💕

  • @lyndagray5937
    @lyndagray5937 5 месяцев назад +2

    Hello Kirsten. How beautiful was the beach at sunrise, stunning. What a wonderful way to start a day. Your thoughts on regrets in life are honest. We all make mistakes but have to move past those if we are to be happy. I, like so many people, have regrets and I wish I could go back and change things, but I can’t. Many of my regrets stem from being so highly sensitive and as a result I reacted badly in some situations. It makes me sad. But I have people in my life (my wonderful husband included) for which I am so thankful. I have never heard of lilac lemonade but I bet it’s very refreshing. Thank you for your content. I hope you have a lovely week and that the warm sun shines on your lovely part of Scotland 🌷🌼🌸🌺❤️

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Hello Lynda and thank you for your comment.
      I understand your feelings regarding reacting to things differently as a HSP. We all make mistakes and as long as we didn't plan on being unkind but reacting this mistake is "innocent". Forgiving ourselves for these mistakes isn't easy as we wish we hadn't done what we did but I hope you are good to yourself as your sound like a wonderful person to me!
      I am happy that you have a wonderful husband (we are both lucky that way!) and that you are part of this lovely community.
      Have an enjoyable Sunday. Sending blessings from Scotland 🌸🧚

    • @lyndagray5937
      @lyndagray5937 5 месяцев назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 Thank you so much for your kind and caring response. It means an awful lot. I feel that I am a kind and caring person and yes any mistakes I made were always done out of kindness and caring even if others could not see it that way. I am so glad to have found your wonderful channel and to be part of this lovely community. Thank you ❤️

  • @KCfan1587-r2u
    @KCfan1587-r2u 5 месяцев назад +3

    I have made millions of bad choices my whole life. Kept bad people in my life and threw away the good. And that is just the tip of the iceberg. At every crossroad i went the wrong way. Some things I am OK with ...others...who-boy did i make a mess out of everything. I am older now and look back and realize what was so important to me was really not. The times I should have sat with my grandparents and savored those moments I did not. Too busy. what I wouldn't do do have them beside me and hear their stories about coming here through Ellis Island and writing it all down. I miss them very much. I think I broke their hearts by keeping distant. Hopefully they understand I was a selfish young teenager. And really did love them. When I read the book "the Road Less Traveled"...first sentence said......"Life is difficult". And boy it sure is. IF I had a magic wand .......and made a wish.....I would be an infant and start all over again...knowing what I know now of course. hopefully when I die I will finally find peace and happiness. there isn't any here on Earth.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story with us. We do make choices at times that turn out to be wrong, that is human nature.
      I am sure your grandparents knew that you loved them. Sending you a heartfelt hug from Scotland 🧚

  • @carolhydon7324
    @carolhydon7324 5 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful video again, thank you. So lovely to hear the sea, and share the sunrise xx

  • @janismacvicar1786
    @janismacvicar1786 5 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful video !!!

  • @Anita-rq9ev
    @Anita-rq9ev 5 месяцев назад +1

    This was a lovely vlog and beautifully shot. I think we all make mistakes and have some regrets (I certainly still have some regrets), but all we can do, is to learn from them and move on. Never knew you can make a lemonade like that. It must be refreshing to drink it in the summer. Thank you for sharing a bit more about your thoughts. Have a lovely week Kerstin ❤

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Hello Anita and thank you for your comment. Yes, we can learn from our mistakes, especially forgiving ourselves as most mistakes we made weren't meant to be one in the first place. We just made the wrong decision or acted from a place of anger or sadness or annoyance.
      The lemonade is really lovely - maybe you try to make it!
      Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

  • @rayachan1794
    @rayachan1794 4 месяца назад

    Peaceful ❤ that’s beautiful 😇👍🏻

  • @rayettawagster9335
    @rayettawagster9335 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, beautiful video🥰

  • @LB-rc3nt
    @LB-rc3nt 4 месяца назад

    Your videography is BREATHTAKING!!!!..( What in the world are you filming with??? ) This was an utterly classic beauty!!! ...You and your lantern, moving through sunrise; the sand and the sea, then the sun..Your voice with an ancient melodious soothing; healing, with hope of forgiveness..for all!!!

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for this very kind comment.
      For my filming I actually mostly use my iphone (11, so old-ish) and I have a Sony Camera that I also use (and have used in this particular video). I think where I live and the beauty I see just speaks for itself and it is almost impossible to not have good videography in Scotland but I appreciate your compliment and have been told I have a natural eye for it.
      You do have Irish - Scottish family ties - that is wonderful! I hope you come visit to see all of Scotland's beauty for yourself.
      Have a wonderful week 🧚

    • @LB-rc3nt
      @LB-rc3nt 4 месяца назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 You are so welcome Sweetheart

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  4 месяца назад +1

      @@LB-rc3nt Sorry for my late response! It was a busy week. My camera is a Sony a6000 (model from 2018), the lens is the kit lens (the one that came with it) - 3.5-5.6 / 16-50 🧚

    • @LB-rc3nt
      @LB-rc3nt 4 месяца назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 Thank you Sweetheart!!

  • @ellie.l6585
    @ellie.l6585 5 месяцев назад

    A truly beautiful sunrise in another magical Scottish place. Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us. Such wise words shared too. As you said its much easier to forgive others than ourselves. So pleased you've found peace on this. Dont know if you found the same but sometimes our thoughts seem to have a will of their own and get out ahead of us. Seemingly trying to overturn the peace of mind we've found ☺️. I suppose life is always a work in progress.
    Sending love and gratitude for your channel from me and my three beautiful dogs 🌻🐞🌻 xxx

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад +1

      Hello Ellie and thank you for this kind comment. I totally agree with you - our thoughts can be interfering with a peaceful moment and it isn't easy to not have them! Indeed - life is progress and change, a bit like the tide that comes and goes, is still and then wild.....
      Sending you and your dogs blessings from Scotland 🧚

    • @ellie.l6585
      @ellie.l6585 5 месяцев назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 ⚘️ xx

  • @charmainescarborough5646
    @charmainescarborough5646 5 месяцев назад

    Lovely video and the scenery is breathtaking! I agree with you when talking about forgiveness. It sets you free to move forward into the future with peace. You have a wonderful week:) Charmaine

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад +1

      Hello Charmaine and thank you for your comment. Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

    • @charmainescarborough5646
      @charmainescarborough5646 5 месяцев назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 Hi There! You too have a wonderful day and I am really enjoying watching your video's:)

  • @mistywoods4407
    @mistywoods4407 5 месяцев назад

    I have to try this lemonade.

  • @sylvain123
    @sylvain123 5 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for another beautiful video 💐🌷🌸🌿

  • @plumicorn
    @plumicorn 5 месяцев назад

    When I would remove all my past mistakes I would remove myself,too

  • @vlogbyannielife
    @vlogbyannielife 5 месяцев назад

    Beautiful video 😻

  • @heidixxx2454
    @heidixxx2454 2 месяца назад

    At age 59, I still bother myself with regrets. Perhaps if I were more successful, I would feel better about myself, and it would therefore be easier to let some regrets go. I don't have resolution around my father, who was often verbally unkind to myself and my Mother. He was a few times better. I don't really like being a highly sensitive person. I feel it's a hindrance. I wish I could have grown out of that, developed self-confidence sooner, so I could have been around him instead of many years of no contact, and only a fleeting last one before he died. I see we have some plants in common despite being across the world. Here in my Oregon garden I dig up those dandelions and plantain with a vengeance! 😏Do you know what the plant is at 4:38"? That volunteers readily here also. I once tried transplanting some into a hanging basket but was unsuccessful. Its' flowers are so lovely and dainty.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  2 месяца назад

      Hello Heidi and thank you for your kind comment. I am sorry to hear that you are still challenged with regrets. It is not an easy thing to overcome but you might still be able to make changes. Be kind to yourself.
      I understand that being HSP can be difficult as we feel so deeply and that is sometimes a hindrance to see things in a rational way. But you are also an empath and a kind soul and that is a good thing!
      Unfortunately I do not know what the plant is - it grows wildly in some of the old stone walls here. It is looks lovely though.
      Well done for transplanting it, I hadn't thought of that yet - but there is always next summer to try.
      Have a lovely week and take good care of yourself. 🧚💜

    • @heidixxx2454
      @heidixxx2454 2 месяца назад

      @@thescottishfairy5396 Thank you so much for your kind reply.🙂🩷

  • @happyvaper5748
    @happyvaper5748 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤🌹🌹❤❤🌹🌹❤❤🌹🌹❤❤🌹🌹❤❤🌹🌹

  • @lesleychambers4429
    @lesleychambers4429 5 месяцев назад

    But what if our loved ones can't forgive us

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Hello Lesley and thank you for your comment.
      Forgiveness is a personal thing and if someone can not forgive us, we can not change that. We can however forgive ourselves and offer an apology to those we might have hurt.
      I hope this helps a wee bit. Have a lovely Sunday 🧚

  • @Skye-hy5sw
    @Skye-hy5sw 4 месяца назад

    🩷🌹🩷

  • @LenaLacheLebe
    @LenaLacheLebe 5 месяцев назад

    Schade das du die Vlogs nicht in deutsch machst

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  5 месяцев назад

      Danke für den Kommentar Elana, Englisch ist nun meine erste Sprache und erreicht natürlich mehr Menschen, aber ich danke Dir für den Denkansatz. Einen schönen Sonntag und liebe Grüße aus Schottland 🧚