This makes so much sense! It’s sad that we are never taught how to be in relationships with others. We only have family as the example or the experiences that have gone terribly wrong.
Well said as always Jay! Physical distance shouldn’t feel like emotional distance. You can be in the same room as someone and feel farther away than you are with someone who is close to you on the other side of the country
True(ish) If two people' are in love being physically apart should NOT MEAN THE TWO ARE SPIRITUALLY AND MENTALLY apart..... NEVER EVER. NOT WHEN A COUPLE IS TRULY IN LOVE WITH EACHOTHER.😊
So sad! this resonates with me. We miss each other but sad to say, no communication between us and this gives me the idea that we aren't really meant to be. BUT, THANK U LORD I KNOW U HAVE WAYS FOR US TO RECONNECT WITH EACH OTHER IN UR OWN GOD'S TIME 🙏🙏🙏👆
Recently fell for a guy when my Msc. degree is near to end, on approaching the guy he clearly told me that he's not willing even though he likes me because we'll soon be apart and he doesn't want a distance relationship like that ... Made sense to me a bit. Now I'm understanding more through this video . Thank you very much .
One time I took a 7-day cruise with my sister and her family. My husband didn't come. Shortly after we set sail, I started to miss him terribly. Everyone in my party was coupled up but I was on my own. Never again. I miss him too much when we're apart 🫂❤
Linked a loving person to senses, and it's scary to give your body some new time while taking care of worries. Worries, handle them from a perspective. I did, and kept me going healthy. Juggling junk to the bin. If today had little loss, it was probably near a win.
So much more important to have more communication and explain what you need and ask and isten to them for what they need. and form a plan together. Going thru this right now and trying to figure it out. I am a co dependent and he is avoidant because of childhood trauma. He runs away and I chase. We never know when we are going to get together. we have know each other 14 years and dated for only a year. He takes my being in his life for granted and at the same time he doesn't want to get closer because he's afraid i will hurt him or leave him. so messed up.
I agree unconscious connecting is not good it’s like your in limbo at Kraft today we have i phones and can talk text or face time long bouts alone can compromise the integrity of the emotional mental and physical health I think your plan idea is the way to go set time you’ll call set rules on what to do when you reconnect the longer the apartness the more awkward it is to reconnect you actually feel sr sense the empty space in time. It’s weird like a time gap surreal hope you will elaborate on how you guys deal with this it can rip a couple apart so you have to have safe guards in place even with iPhone capabilities And there are snakes in the garden sexually so one must be highly sensitive to them
It is so easy to get used to skipping over or dismissing or totally missing things that come up or should come up during beginning of relationship when long distance. If I woman with some assets and I was the one moving and changing my life by moving I would request or get in a contract that my assets stay as moving expenses. Sometimes looks different while guy getting you to join them than the actual reality of it all. Proceed with caution.
Have. A. good night 🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃 🌃🌃. Sir. Jay. Respect you. Only. & You. Twoled. How. Live. Free. Dréedom??????????? Sir. Jay Shetty. Midnight ❤️💜❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️. God bless you and your family 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹. How????????? Study. To. You. Have a great. June 8. God bless you and your family. Sir
he has not communicated to me so far either on what reason he had been splitting up from me it's still a hidden factor from me that is the very reason behind myself becoming upset. or he has a right to reveal me exactly whether he has been serious with his significant other for me to completely disconnect with him and I find no trouble doing that since I was managing without him for nearly 8 years and since that time either no one has come with their suggestion why we supposed to be split up in this way because there was nothing went wrong in my end as far as I am concerned regarding our relationship unless Vidura College management decisive about to sack me away from College suddenly at a time I was completely unknowledgeable about what went wrong.
Relationship in distance is born out of insecurity. You can't connect over distance. You are just terrified that you might not find another mate like that.
#58 ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART... Absence makes the heart grow fonder... Or would it make the flesh to wonder? That’s the question that was ahead to be answered; Whether my heart had cells that would rebel and grow cancered. The world has so many temptations that constantly pull Our attention away from our loved ones so that love might fade dull. The Devil knows exactly what buttons in me to push; Pretty faces, revealing figures, and the occasional nice tush. But that’s really no different than every other day. I thank God for the strength to ignore what his demons say. He uses the same old tricks, with the distance his ace in the hole, But I never fail to forget to which girl I’ve committed my soul. The one thing the distance does is make me long dearly and strong; To be close to my wife and hold her near me all the night long; Just to be near to my mate and hear her voice in my ear So the last words I hear at night are “ I LOVE YOU, MY DEAR! ” Rich Kovatch 11-24-2002 TheBLUETOOTHpoet.com
This makes so much sense! It’s sad that we are never taught how to be in relationships with others. We only have family as the example or the experiences that have gone terribly wrong.
jay sheets and his wife are such wonderful coaches.
and the relationship they share is wonderful to watch.
Well said as always Jay! Physical distance shouldn’t feel like emotional distance. You can be in the same room as someone and feel farther away than you are with someone who is close to you on the other side of the country
You are such a WISE young man.
yes...❤ so true. It's not about control, it's about building trust and comfort!🎉
SO true Jay thank you for your help and support thank you very much God blessed you 🙏🙏
True(ish) If two people' are in love being physically apart should NOT MEAN THE TWO ARE SPIRITUALLY AND MENTALLY apart..... NEVER EVER. NOT WHEN A COUPLE IS TRULY IN LOVE WITH EACHOTHER.😊
So sad! this resonates with me. We miss each other but sad to say, no communication between us and this gives me the idea that we aren't really meant to be. BUT, THANK U LORD I KNOW U HAVE WAYS FOR US TO RECONNECT WITH EACH OTHER IN UR OWN GOD'S TIME 🙏🙏🙏👆
Recently fell for a guy when my Msc. degree is near to end, on approaching the guy he clearly told me that he's not willing even though he likes me because we'll soon be apart and he doesn't want a distance relationship like that ... Made sense to me a bit. Now I'm understanding more through this video . Thank you very much .
This is 100% true
So true!!
One time I took a 7-day cruise with my sister and her family. My husband didn't come. Shortly after we set sail, I started to miss him terribly. Everyone in my party was coupled up but I was on my own. Never again. I miss him too much when we're apart 🫂❤
I sooo do Agree with all, of your wise words ❤
That's on point Jay!!!❤
Thanks!
He is absolutely right …. Military families know that too well 😅
This is great
Linked a loving person to senses, and it's scary to give your body some new time while taking care of worries. Worries, handle them from a perspective. I did, and kept me going healthy. Juggling junk to the bin. If today had little loss, it was probably near a win.
This is very true. I believe I. Order to stay connected you must have a plan❤
Together everything is possible to achieve
Yes ❤
I agree! So true!
This is so very true.
💙 your insight
So true.
Totally yes and I experience it 2 weeks ago😢😢💔💔💔
You have a point
My G 💜🏆
So very true distance is healthy but what about if your codependent and trauma bonded.
So much more important to have more communication and explain what you need and ask and isten to them for what they need. and form a plan together.
Going thru this right now and trying to figure it out.
I am a co dependent and he is avoidant because of childhood trauma.
He runs away and I chase.
We never know when we are going to get together. we have know each other 14 years and dated for only a year.
He takes my being in his life for granted and at the same time he doesn't want to get closer because he's afraid i will hurt him or leave him.
so messed up.
I agree
its EVEN healthier if both partys are involved in the planning.
I agree unconscious connecting is not good it’s like your in limbo at Kraft today we have i phones and can talk text or face time long bouts alone can compromise the integrity of the emotional mental and physical health I think your plan idea is the way to go set time you’ll call set rules on what to do when you reconnect the longer the apartness the more awkward it is to reconnect you actually feel sr sense the empty space in time. It’s weird like a time gap surreal hope you will elaborate on how you guys deal with this it can rip a couple apart so you have to have safe guards in place even with iPhone capabilities
And there are snakes in the garden sexually so one must be highly sensitive to them
Smart man.
It is so easy to get used to skipping over or dismissing or totally missing things that come up or should come up during beginning of relationship when long distance. If I woman with some assets and I was the one moving and changing my life by moving I would request or get in a contract that my assets stay as moving expenses. Sometimes looks different while guy getting you to join them than the actual reality of it all. Proceed with caution.
I keep getting lost in his eyes but try to reconnect 😂
Is it from the ryan holiday podcast?
100%
X 👍✅
Have. A. good night 🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃🌃 🌃🌃. Sir. Jay. Respect you. Only. & You. Twoled. How. Live. Free. Dréedom??????????? Sir. Jay Shetty. Midnight ❤️💜❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️. God bless you and your family 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹. How????????? Study. To. You. Have a great. June 8. God bless you and your family. Sir
Then it's also healthy to BREAK UP
good morning 🌞 JAY SHETTY JI KI WIFE PRIYA SINGH WEDS JAY GHANSHYAM SHETTY JI 😔😐😔😞
he has not communicated to me so far either on what reason he had been splitting up from me it's still a hidden factor from me that is the very reason behind myself becoming upset. or he has a right to reveal me exactly whether he has been serious with his significant other for me to completely disconnect with him and I find no trouble doing that since I was managing without him for nearly 8 years and since that time either no one has come with their suggestion why we supposed to be split up in this way because there was nothing went wrong in my end as far as I am concerned regarding our relationship unless Vidura College management decisive about to sack me away from College suddenly at a time I was completely unknowledgeable about what went wrong.
He the one walked away alots
I will apply for TRESSPASS FROM POLICE
IF U NOT LISTEN I DONT WANTS HIM
Relationship in distance is born out of insecurity. You can't connect over distance. You are just terrified that you might not find another mate like that.
🥸🗣️💔😇🫂💓
default all the way to toxic
Sigh.
Easy to talk about this over the net. Are you discussing this with your wife ?
But it's not healthy to be a fraud and steal people's work.
Boring
Bla bla bla
#58 ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART...
Absence makes the heart grow fonder...
Or would it make the flesh to wonder?
That’s the question that was ahead to be answered;
Whether my heart had cells that would rebel and grow cancered.
The world has so many temptations that constantly pull
Our attention away from our loved ones so that love might fade dull.
The Devil knows exactly what buttons in me to push;
Pretty faces, revealing figures, and the occasional nice tush.
But that’s really no different than every other day.
I thank God for the strength to ignore what his demons say.
He uses the same old tricks, with the distance his ace in the hole,
But I never fail to forget to which girl I’ve committed my soul.
The one thing the distance does is make me long dearly and strong;
To be close to my wife and hold her near me all the night long;
Just to be near to my mate and hear her voice in my ear
So the last words I hear at night are “ I LOVE YOU, MY DEAR! ”
Rich Kovatch 11-24-2002 TheBLUETOOTHpoet.com