These are good tips. If she's not willing to set aside time to see u in person, then she's not into u. It's painfully obvious, but guys still get strung along by girls in "hopes" that one day they will have a chance with her. Remember - girls like the validation and attention u give her. That's good enough for her. She doesn't need to do anything intimate with u for her to win.
I’d like to speak on the last rule about not responding quickly. It honestly depends on the girl. For instance, I had a girl that would take hours to respond to my texts, but she would almost never be on her phone, and when I glanced at her phone I was always at the top of her list. She ended up liking me and we had a good time. But when measuring response times, you need to gauge the person’s phone habits first.
I pride myself in knowing in a couple minuites if a woman is interested in me or not. It's a crime to waste time on women who are not interested in you.
You have done women a big favour through this video. These points apply to men as well..but as a woman I can seriously tell about that physical space part. If a woman is giving signs through her body language that she is moving away or kinda not interested in even little bit of touch, she is not interested.
Sometimes i wonder if this things mean something or maybe i´m just to insecure but you just said most of the things i wonder about. You´re awesome Jessica, love your videos !!!
Thanks for the advice, Jessica. A few of these things are currently happening to me right now.. Thanks to this video, I know how to approach my situation moving forward thanks! 🙏
Al right small thing about 8:00. Make sure the girl friends you meet, are in a relationship. Single friends will give a negative feedback. And the better you are, the worse the feedback will be. The reason is clear
If it's a fine line between the both, I'm just walking away. If you're not giving clear signals I'm not pushing. I'm looking for something that goes both ways, not something where I have to take all the initiative.
Greetings from Kenya … I think guys need to up their game and pay attention to details and also embrace rejection don't take it personally . thanks for this guys reading this look for a book called how to fall out of love by Debora Phillips and Robert Judd
The first point btw .... not too sure. People have life issues that make it difficult to just know their own schedule. Not saying ur wrong just i know ive had girls ive been MADLY interested in. But i didnt have the comfort or stability in my life at the time to set a precise time or date to meet with them. The things that were an issue was school and my assignments have no set time it would be complete. Like why would i make q plan when its possible i cant make it
When she hits on the men kakraa, she'll comman hit on the ladies kakra ... One day, both genders will just collaborate & hit on you ... 😂😂😂🙆. Just Jokes TEDDY's SOLACE was here
My ex has a brilliant son who after four years of the relationship I grew close to Charlie he’s a good boy. We grew a father and son bond and have love for each other. His mum has cut me off and I’m taking advice practicing the no contact rule but his birthday is coming up and I would not make an effort he is my mate and is 13 yrs old. How do I approach and make my boy happy without giving his mum gratification. 🙏🏻
Some of these things we as man already know, but because we can be in denial, we like to lie to ourselves, thinking she is gonna come around. but hearing this, just makes it easier to identify and move on as quick as possible. no time wasted. Thank you once again Jessy.
In my teens and twenties, I thought women were attracted to me if they were chatty, friendly, sweet-hearted and attentive. I made some big, embarrassing mistakes with this assumption, and lost track of how many times I was told, "No, Stephen, I just want us to be friends." Finally, the penny dropped, and now I assume that any woman who is friendly, chatty, sweet-hearted and attentive is the same with everyone else. Result: no embarrassing situations, no time wasted in searching for her signals that are not there.
Men should never fear rejection. You reject me, i move on to the next. I agree with those subtle signs that someone is not interested. But the best way to find out if a woman is interested is to shoot your shot.
@@Anthony90026 let her choose meaning let her show signs of interest like eye contact, smile, etc don't just walk up on them shows needy and she has the power .👍🏾
@kapa LL listen to everyone one who passes through ur ears choose to adhere or not adhere but don't force ppl not to be kind and to stop doing the right thing
I tell younger guys don't deal with her all together. Only deal with women that interested in him. Don't give them any unwarranted attention put them in the friendzone if she try to come back especially when you in your purpose and successful. Only deal with women in your field of vision or shes not worth your time.
The thing that women value most from men is their time and attention. Just like men will take free sex, women will take free time and attention...it's on you to know when you're being used and to cut things off. When you value your time, the same way she values her vagina...you'll reach enlightenment.
@@jeviosoorishas181 Your view of men and women is perverse and definitely doesn't apply to people who are interested in building good relationships on respect and friendship.
Not really! Love is blind, your girl keep doing that and you keep pursuing her. As the unexplained rule applies: We always run after those who don't want us and we never turn attention to those who wanna give us the World!
She speaks fact. I have gone through this before until the lady showed her true color by screaming at me when I took her out and made a mistake passing the wrong place while I was taking her home. She screamed at me like crazy and ended up saying she’s done with me. When I got her back the second time it was as if she has an agenda of asking me for money which I did gave her. I was a fool getting the signal thst she doesn’t like me and still pushing myself towards her. August 1, I stopped talking to her. Thank God I have a new girlfriend now and she’s so cool.
@@kevinmalone3210 i removed her number. In church she’s quiet and always frowning her face. The last time I text her was when she ask me to buying something online and was trying to give her my credit card foolishly, that day I decided to change my mind telling her that I can’t give you my credit card that it’s too risky. She now said I don’t trust her. Since then I stoped talking to her till now.
@@osarumenerhunmwunsee I suppose it doesn't hurt to talk to that person even if for the most part you cut then out of your life. It's always wise to never give anyone your credit/debit card numbers out. For a woman to say, you don't trust me in response sounds manipulative. Moving on is the best way. Life is too short.
@@kevinmalone3210 Honestly man. What people don’t understand is that it’s not about the look, it’s about heart. If you are the most prettiest girl in the world and you have a bad behavior no one will date the person or maybe they’ll have sex with the person and run away. This girl is so pretty but she had a very bad behavior
@@kevinmalone3210 most ladies u see walking around are highly emotionally unstable,,,when u as a dude ask them ,why do u love me ,,they say the same thing repeatedly "Bec you make me happy and smile"*
This is exactly why I downgraded women on my priority list and life has only improved. 1. God, 2. My goals/vision/purpose, 3. My Health, 4. My family, 5. My life long friends, 6. My Community, 7. Women. Life is short and my time is valuable to myself and others. Plus the first 5 on this list always bring value to my life. Love my sisters but I can no longer be distracted by time wasters.
big hutch i love the list but i would put 1.Consent as number one. not your fake ass skydaddy hahahaah. carry on dont @ me with fairy tale arguments either. i care much more about womens safety than your allegiance to whatever god you worship. one of them is actually a real thing lol
@@lowlowseesee well you better hope he’s not real because if he is your screwed my friend. Wouldn’t you rather believe in something even if just for comfort, on your off chance that he is real you’d be doing yourself a disservice not believing in at least something you can’t be right if you don’t try.
Some women like to flirt around so that they could be the center of attention all the times... that also is sign that these types cannot be taken too seriously as well. Thanks Jessica
Another thing is that if a woman is not interested in you, she will treat you the same way she treats other guys in front of you. She will be nice to you alright but u won't feel "special". Boys br3 o.
I know women are like that, but as a man I find this indirect communication very disrespectful. They waste other people's most valuable thing...their time.
She's not just being nice, she's actually trying to get your attention without having to reciprocate. They adore that, getting men's attention knowing they won't do anything with them.
I’m very uncomfortable being friends with women because of this. Simply being friends makes me feel like less of a man because of how many time I’ve been the attention giver with nothing in return.
@@jaylenwilliams8271literally get that. It’s like wanna be friends at least or just want get to know u as a person but u ain’t even giving me the time and always busy when I ask to hang out. This girl, haven’t heard my name from her mouth b4, so I blocked her. Move on brothers I know it’s hard but in reality it ain’t
1) When you trying to invite her out, she will never give you an exact date and time 2) When she does make a date with you, she doesn't show up 3) She doesn't allow you, to invade her personal space 4) She never want to be alone with you, or will only meet you in public 5) She keeps you away from her friends 6) She takes hours or days to respond to your messages
@@oliverakisa98 i think "being nice" in this context means that she even communicating with you instead of flat out telling you to go away. I still think that these videos are way too much about the situation when you already asked a girl out.
#1 is happening to me right now. I recently asked her if she would like to go to the library together. She said she's okay with the idea but has to check her schedule because she's very busy.
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Great tips.. If you've been in the game long enough, you tend to see this signals so early on your interaction. It doesn't even bother me as much as it did when I was younger. Even if she says NO, I acknowledge it, Take the L...and move on to the next without emotions, with time it just becomes normal and you become less n less attached to women.
I personally don't allow myself to waste time. If I feel like there is very little interest shown I will quickly remove myself from that situation. There won't be any bad talk or any type of negativity. I just move on without warning and wish them good luck, because there is absolutely no way to get time back once it is spent...
You're not the only one. There was one that always wanted to meet me when I was about to give her something (flower or small gift something like that) and she was always with her friends. She never wanted to go somewhere alone with me offered her numerous times. Always public places. She obviously played with me. Also she never introduced me to her friends.
or not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a fucking break lol. one thing ive learned with my 40 years is that a woman will let you know if she likes you. ive also had a great life so i know its hard for guys who havent had the experiences that I have to actually chill. I wasn't always chill either hahaha
@@lowlowseesee "Not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a break." Explain yourself please. That didn't make any sense to me. It's called playing the numbers my dude. No 1 woman should ever get that much attention. Especially if she's not reciprocating interest.
@@lowlowseesee Also! I don't know about you but I've found that waiting for them to approach is also bull shyt. I've gotten better results being a pursuer of women. So you can miss me with that.
@@christopherduffy1703 ... flirting with a bunch of women is one way, but it may not be the best way. A true player, or a man that has a good dating system, will make women purse him. Some women want a man that is elite, or unique. If you are always up on her grinning and barking, then you are just another thirsty dude that is trying to get under her dress. And in her mind, this will not make you unique, or special. A quality woman wants to be with a quality man, and not just another thirsty dude.
The phone tip is probably the best way to know if someone is interested or not. I have a coworker who always has her phone within reach. Most the time when I text her she takes a while to respond or doesn't respond at all. Dead give away right there.
@linkzable I wouldn't go as far as saying that's a simp move but it certainly isn't advanced strategy in the dating game. I avoid dinner dates myself unless it's at my place or hers. That puts me in the red zone (American football reference). I'm not saying it's an automatic lay because you still need game to close the deal but you're not spending a fortune either.
@linkzable I don't disagree with your park bench example. I was just saying that it's not entirely a simp move to have dinner because there are layers to this. My chances of getting laid are way better if she accepts an invitation to my home for dinner or ice cream. It's at my home or hers, not some restaurant.
Men don't get asked out nearly as many times as women. I myself try to be cool about rejecting what few women that have asked me out that i was not interested in. I wish I could just say I wasn't interested out the gate but not as easy when you are on the spot. Trust me. People can be sensitive to how you may react to the rejection.
This video is highly recommended for men who don't have time to waste .... it just saved their asses!!! Sometimes the guys know, but I wonder what they are still waiting for? Great job Jessica 👏❤️
The best things that have worked for me is to try having some mystery about myself and to be straight to the point with my expectations. Women know from the very start if they're into you, so it all depends on how they SHOW it, not by response. Regardless, I never view them in a pedestalistic manner nor give them any undeserved attention. Keep it moving!!!
@@vince11harris man wish more guys had this mindset, seems like most dudes in this comment section fear rejection, the whole wait for the signals first before u approach, man tbh i prefer to shoot my shot with a girl who catches my eye rather than wait, and personally i prefer to know that she wasn't fucking with me up front when i approach her rather than sit back and wonder how many women i've missed out by not approaching, women are all different and one woman's choosing signals can be different to another, some girls are hella subtle and u woulld have never guessed they liked u because honestly which guy is going around constantly looking if girls are sending signals? thats tedious, imma keep cold approaching coz at the end of the day most likely these women are strangers and u might never see them again so so what if i take the L as long as i'm polite abt the interaction and wish her good day afterwards who cares what she thinks of me after the interaction ends, not like i'll ever see her again. Plus taking rejections can also make for good stories later on lmao i have a few embarrassing L's that i laugh at when i think abt it
@@stevetheiii477 I think dudes are just scary. They have unrealistic expectations and assume that if every girl doesn’t like them or says then she’s a “bitch “ or whatever. Nah man she just doesn’t like you like that and it’s cool. And I agree. I would definitely rather have the confidence to cold approach and tell her how I think about her then play the “what if” game in my mind
Nothing beats experience. Knowing and doing things are two different things. I know the mistakes I make but I usually remember them after they’ve been made. For example, I remember a girl chatting me up at a mall last year, she was really pretty and I was so impressed with her confidence and vibe that I got carried away and became too chatty (my most frequent mistake with anybody I’m trying to impress). It was after she left that I realized how I’ve screwed it up. I barely chat up anyone that looks like that so tips or no tips, without the experience, it’s easy to get carried away in the moment and fumble. We know some of these tips, it’s just harder to see/remember when you’re in the middle of it.
so help me understand, you feel your mistake was you held too long of a conversation? so was she trying to cut it off and you kept going or did she also bring up new subjects as well? What is "too chatty"? I mean if she was feeling you and you feeling her what was wrong with that my man? Talking is a good thing; something was wrong with her apparently!
These are good tips. If she's not willing to set aside time to see u in person, then she's not into u. It's painfully obvious, but guys still get strung along by girls in "hopes" that one day they will have a chance with her. Remember - girls like the validation and attention u give her. That's good enough for her. She doesn't need to do anything intimate with u for her to win.
I’d like to speak on the last rule about not responding quickly. It honestly depends on the girl. For instance, I had a girl that would take hours to respond to my texts, but she would almost never be on her phone, and when I glanced at her phone I was always at the top of her list. She ended up liking me and we had a good time. But when measuring response times, you need to gauge the person’s phone habits first.
Every rejection is God's protection 🙏 🙌
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I pride myself in knowing in a couple minuites if a woman is interested in me or not. It's a crime to waste time on women who are not interested in you.
Nice tips jess. Things can be very confusing with some ladies though, but everything you've said is absolutely spot on❤❤❤
You have done women a big favour through this video. These points apply to men as well..but as a woman I can seriously tell about that physical space part. If a woman is giving signs through her body language that she is moving away or kinda not interested in even little bit of touch, she is not interested.
My sister , or a mother I may say thank you so much for your words you really saved a life
Glad I could help
Sometimes i wonder if this things mean something or maybe i´m just to insecure but you just said most of the things i wonder about.
You´re awesome Jessica, love your videos !!!
Real talk, pay attention fellas, my best friend was a woman for three years, learned a lot.............the hard way
You were friend-zoned,right?
Oh yeah, too many times
Went through a similar situation & in retrospect I can confirm I experienced most if not all of the points raised in this video. I now know better
I witnessed all these signs, withdrew myself and she came back asking why I stopped talking to her 🤷♂️
When this happens..there is usually another guy in the picture, and she value him more then you , MOVE ON and Never look back!
Great content Jessica once we as guys listen and apply these into our lives we will no longer waste so much time
As a man always have to deal with rejection and life goes on
Watching this only brought back a barrage of negative feelings and emotions. 🙁
I had gone through all those points mentioned. You are correct.They just trying to be nice. That's all. Stop wasting time on them..
Thank you Jess,
I like your simple white T-Shirt.
Really love your vibes and personality. It's really contagious.
So what are the signs that she likes you but just stretching you a little. When do we give up or wait?
will probably have to do a separate video on that
Thanks for the advice, Jessica. A few of these things are currently happening to me right now.. Thanks to this video, I know how to approach my situation moving forward thanks! 🙏
Not looking for any relationship rn. I've got too many other things to study than for looking for someone to be in a relationship with!
this is super useful, worth my time!
After a while you can just tell. It usually comes with experience tbh
Great Video! Appreciate you for sharing this information!
Glad it was helpful!
Wisdom! Thank you Jessica, we're learning 💯
I love your talk ,for real yes at least you really keep me enlightened
Jessica, you are a True Blessing of an Angel from above!!! Thank, you for the truth and knowledge!!! Chicago, USA!!!
Love this video, Thanks for the tip !
Glad it was helpful!
Awesome Video Thank You So Very Much.
Every woman who's spoken to me I believe...
You are an excellent broadcaster
The last one hurts bruh !!! For all my brothers here, please read at least onetime in your life the book : The Alpha Male Strategies
Al right small thing about 8:00. Make sure the girl friends you meet, are in a relationship. Single friends will give a negative feedback. And the better you are, the worse the feedback will be. The reason is clear
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Tks sis. Truly insightful.
If it's a fine line between the both, I'm just walking away. If you're not giving clear signals I'm not pushing. I'm looking for something that goes both ways, not something where I have to take all the initiative.
Hey your back here, good to see you…😔
Well presented.
This really helped my life thank you,time to take action
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Greetings from Kenya … I think guys need to up their game and pay attention to details and also embrace rejection don't take it personally . thanks for this
guys reading this look for a book called how to fall out of love by Debora Phillips and Robert Judd
Nice one Jessica, thank you 😊.
They can be so intrested cz u are connected and had money she wouldn't be there for u if the conection and money isn't there
I love this content and you voice 🔥🔥🔥 I literally had to subscribe.
Aptly & Accurately spoken...
wooow, mam jessi is so beautiful, and i love your composure
The first point btw .... not too sure. People have life issues that make it difficult to just know their own schedule. Not saying ur wrong just i know ive had girls ive been MADLY interested in. But i didnt have the comfort or stability in my life at the time to set a precise time or date to meet with them. The things that were an issue was school and my assignments have no set time it would be complete. Like why would i make q plan when its possible i cant make it
Some of these ladies who acted smart regret later as I moved on a better person.
She just broke Girl Code giving Guys THE CODE. 💯
25 years of singleness make me sad😢
Money is key to open a womans brain.
Thank you for the advice you are so true about what you are saying
When she hits on the men kakraa, she'll comman hit on the ladies kakra ... One day, both genders will just collaborate & hit on you ... 😂😂😂🙆. Just Jokes
TEDDY's SOLACE was here
Im facing this ryt now i ask for help to another girl and she told me she will come to my room to help me
I’ve been there,I went out with a girl and she as all on her f phone and that was a huge turn off for me
Who else likes that background music.?
thanks a lot,,,i think i am going to save a lot of efforts and time
My ex has a brilliant son who after four years of the relationship I grew close to Charlie he’s a good boy. We grew a father and son bond and have love for each other. His mum has cut me off and I’m taking advice practicing the no contact rule but his birthday is coming up and I would not make an effort he is my mate and is 13 yrs old. How do I approach and make my boy happy without giving his mum gratification. 🙏🏻
so if she does the opposite of this stuff she likes me??? and what if when im around her she quite literally puts her phone away?
I still have no idea if she’s into me or not 🫡
Some of these things we as man already know, but because we can be in denial, we like to lie to ourselves, thinking she is gonna come around. but hearing this, just makes it easier to identify and move on as quick as possible. no time wasted. Thank you once again Jessy.
Swear man. Denial is real
Facts
wow thank you so much for the tips,i am guilty of chasing and thinking that i am suppose to chase to try and win her.
Jesus Christ loves u acts 238 and upci church locator for a church type that on the Internet
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In my teens and twenties, I thought women were attracted to me if they were chatty, friendly, sweet-hearted and attentive. I made some big, embarrassing mistakes with this assumption, and lost track of how many times I was told, "No, Stephen, I just want us to be friends." Finally, the penny dropped, and now I assume that any woman who is friendly, chatty, sweet-hearted and attentive is the same with everyone else. Result: no embarrassing situations, no time wasted in searching for her signals that are not there.
They tend to be
what about the pretty ones at work that gives us dirty looks
Chase what won't reject you. your dreams and vision can't reject you. If you can chase your dreams and realize it, even women would chase after you.
Yeah but at that point why even accept them? They don't seem to want you they want more of what you bring
When you dreams are having a happy healthy family. You are screwed
The truth hurts
But it will set you free
Thank you for clearing things up for me 😌
I appreciate your content lots
well said
Men should never fear rejection. You reject me, i move on to the next. I agree with those subtle signs that someone is not interested. But the best way to find out if a woman is interested is to shoot your shot.
You too much
Nah let her choose up 1st. Don't cold Approach.
@@davante1286 What do you mean?
@@Anthony90026 let her choose meaning let her show signs of interest like eye contact, smile, etc don't just walk up on them shows needy and she has the power .👍🏾
@@davante1286 Oh ok, I was confused at first lol thanks for clarifying
That last part, always holding her phone, but takes hours or days before she'll respond.
Thank you
guess its time to move on…
Huge red flag 🚩
Every genuine male have had to deal with this someway somehow, God help us
I like the word "genuine"
lol! I feel for you
@@kwesipositiveappiah5997 I also like the word “genuine” May God help genuine men out there 🙌❤️
that is why I'm bay myself because if you don't be careful they will take advantage of you and will not show you no respect or appreciation
@@derrickofori4859 Amen 🙏
Mehn, she speaks impeccable English 👌
That's also one of the things that stood out for me.
Ghana to the world 😍🔥✌🏽
Rather than a compliment, I think this comment’s insulting. She’s from Ghana, and English as much as I know is an official language there.
You speak impaccable English aswell. 👌🏿
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Normally i say don't take advice from woman. But this one speak tru facts no bs. All her advice is 100% facts.
thats a red flag from hell if you normally dont take advice from women. we are people you know
@@lowlowseesee wtf? dont trust what she saying
@kapa LL listen to everyone one who passes through ur ears choose to adhere or not adhere but don't force ppl not to be kind and to stop doing the right thing
Trust me women know shit abt women... the best advice abt women u can get is from a woman...
@@veemuyambo Nope.
I tell younger guys don't deal with her all together. Only deal with women that interested in him. Don't give them any unwarranted attention put them in the friendzone if she try to come back especially when you in your purpose and successful. Only deal with women in your field of vision or shes not worth your time.
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This is the secret to success
Thank you
The thing that women value most from men is their time and attention. Just like men will take free sex, women will take free time and attention...it's on you to know when you're being used and to cut things off.
When you value your time, the same way she values her vagina...you'll reach enlightenment.
@@jeviosoorishas181 Your view of men and women is perverse and definitely doesn't apply to people who are interested in building good relationships on respect and friendship.
Whenever she gives strange dudes a more cheerful, vibrant energy than she does you... red flag?.. I think so..
Yeah, I've been there too. Complementing dudes and females while in my presence. Shiiiid.
Thats sounds about right
Wow. Guess I'll add that too. Didn't even think of that.
Certainly. It's quite disrespectful too
Been there MANY times
I just don't understand why men invest so much of their time, energy and money with women who are not interested in them.
EGO i guess lol
maybe because they still have feelings even though they know it’s impossible
@@xxxj4s279 They need to be very much aware of feelings that end up digging holes in their pockets. One must always consider the costs.
Lust
Scarcity mindset. Knock it off, Kings.
She just saved a lotta guys alotta time frfr
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Not really! Love is blind, your girl keep doing that and you keep pursuing her. As the unexplained rule applies: We always run after those who don't want us and we never turn attention to those who wanna give us the World!
She speaks fact. I have gone through this before until the lady showed her true color by screaming at me when I took her out and made a mistake passing the wrong place while I was taking her home. She screamed at me like crazy and ended up saying she’s done with me. When I got her back the second time it was as if she has an agenda of asking me for money which I did gave her. I was a fool getting the signal thst she doesn’t like me and still pushing myself towards her. August 1, I stopped talking to her. Thank God I have a new girlfriend now and she’s so cool.
Sounds as if she's emotionally unstable. You did the right thing in forgetting her.
@@kevinmalone3210 i removed her number. In church she’s quiet and always frowning her face. The last time I text her was when she ask me to buying something online and was trying to give her my credit card foolishly, that day I decided to change my mind telling her that I can’t give you my credit card that it’s too risky. She now said I don’t trust her. Since then I stoped talking to her till now.
@@osarumenerhunmwunsee I suppose it doesn't hurt to talk to that person even if for the most part you cut then out of your life. It's always wise to never give anyone your credit/debit card numbers out. For a woman to say, you don't trust me in response sounds manipulative. Moving on is the best way. Life is too short.
@@kevinmalone3210 Honestly man. What people don’t understand is that it’s not about the look, it’s about heart. If you are the most prettiest girl in the world and you have a bad behavior no one will date the person or maybe they’ll have sex with the person and run away. This girl is so pretty but she had a very bad behavior
@@kevinmalone3210 most ladies u see walking around are highly emotionally unstable,,,when u as a dude ask them ,why do u love me ,,they say the same thing repeatedly "Bec you make me happy and smile"*
This is exactly why I downgraded women on my priority list and life has only improved. 1. God, 2. My goals/vision/purpose, 3. My Health, 4. My family, 5. My life long friends, 6. My Community, 7. Women. Life is short and my time is valuable to myself and others. Plus the first 5 on this list always bring value to my life. Love my sisters but I can no longer be distracted by time wasters.
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Well said big man...I love that spirit
Truth! I am adopting this!
big hutch i love the list but i would put 1.Consent as number one. not your fake ass skydaddy hahahaah. carry on dont @ me with fairy tale arguments either. i care much more about womens safety than your allegiance to whatever god you worship. one of them is actually a real thing lol
@@lowlowseesee well you better hope he’s not real because if he is your screwed my friend. Wouldn’t you rather believe in something even if just for comfort, on your off chance that he is real you’d be doing yourself a disservice not believing in at least something you can’t be right if you don’t try.
as a man you have to face rejections and still walk up with pride
That be the vibe bro...... Life must move on...... The grind and hustle is real
It's cool long as it's not a constant rejection 😁
@@davante1286 That's been my experience. It's seriously screwing up my mental health 😓
@@howboutdat4053 stop approaching women. get money & flex & let them come to you.
@@thebotfather9508 Lmao I got the money and I'm very ambitious. Though flexing isn't really my thing. I don't want to deal with golddiggers.
Right now i dont even care about any woman i just want to make money first
Me too
Me too bro thinking of money
Word up
Money, saving more wisely and a business plan
Simple.
Some women like to flirt around so that they could be the center of attention all the times... that also is sign that these types cannot be taken too seriously as well. Thanks Jessica
Thank you sister , had this one flirting and all but not interested happy was able to notice quick before wasting my time
Another thing is that if a woman is not interested in you, she will treat you the same way she treats other guys in front of you. She will be nice to you alright but u won't feel "special". Boys br3 o.
Yh I've been there many times which is why I don't bother anymore I just keep myself to myself now
You also speak the truth.
Some sef will flirt and all but not interested
I know women are like that, but as a man I find this indirect communication very disrespectful. They waste other people's most valuable thing...their time.
My solution is to stay away, don't even say hi
Somebody is scared of women
@@Ben256MB not scared, just not with the bullshit
@@chubbydee6379 Please what bullshit ?
@@Ben256MB U are very nieve
@@Ben256MB the games that's what bullshit anything else you wanna know
She's not just being nice, she's actually trying to get your attention without having to reciprocate. They adore that, getting men's attention knowing they won't do anything with them.
💔 Been there man. Some wisdom that has been far too painful, almost a pyrrhic victory, though it makes us stronger.
I’m very uncomfortable being friends with women because of this. Simply being friends makes me feel like less of a man because of how many time I’ve been the attention giver with nothing in return.
@@jaylenwilliams8271literally get that. It’s like wanna be friends at least or just want get to know u as a person but u ain’t even giving me the time and always busy when I ask to hang out. This girl, haven’t heard my name from her mouth b4, so I blocked her. Move on brothers I know it’s hard but in reality it ain’t
Usqubot. Bingo. Enough said.
1) When you trying to invite her out, she will never give you an exact date and time
2) When she does make a date with you, she doesn't show up
3) She doesn't allow you, to invade her personal space
4) She never want to be alone with you, or will only meet you in public
5) She keeps you away from her friends
6) She takes hours or days to respond to your messages
How is this being nice....I don't understand
@@oliverakisa98 well according to the video any girl being nice means the girls is not interested
@@oliverakisa98 i think "being nice" in this context means that she even communicating with you instead of flat out telling you to go away.
I still think that these videos are way too much about the situation when you already asked a girl out.
#1 is happening to me right now. I recently asked her if she would like to go to the library together. She said she's okay with the idea but has to check her schedule because she's very busy.
@@Marcus-gw4bb #2 isn't really nice if she does this on purpose lol sadly happened to me
Why would you flirt with me on all angles and not be interested in me wow , anyways i have learnt my lessons
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So trueee!!!
Facts👏🔥
Great tips.. If you've been in the game long enough, you tend to see this signals so early on your interaction. It doesn't even bother me as much as it did when I was younger. Even if she says NO, I acknowledge it, Take the L...and move on to the next without emotions, with time it just becomes normal and you become less n less attached to women.
"with time it just becomes normal and you become less n less attached to women." That's deep.
Hapo umenena bro
Yh ... that attachment part is the last thing I need to achieve. I know the game
I personally don't allow myself to waste time. If I feel like there is very little interest shown I will quickly remove myself from that situation. There won't be any bad talk or any type of negativity. I just move on without warning and wish them good luck, because there is absolutely no way to get time back once it is spent...
preach
True indeed
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I will do this as well and cry the entire time im walking away.
Never worry about the one that got away😔😅😅
I'm dying inside right now because I've made every mistake on this list with multiple girls 😫
It's all good. That's how you learn.
@@frankiegunnz8066 facts
@@frankiegunnz8066
Same here bro and in the dating game, you have to spend time as a caterpillar before you morph into a butterfly
Cheer up shoota. Its goody
You're not the only one. There was one that always wanted to meet me when I was about to give her something (flower or small gift something like that) and she was always with her friends. She never wanted to go somewhere alone with me offered her numerous times. Always public places. She obviously played with me. Also she never introduced me to her friends.
I've taken your advice and saved myself from a possible heartache. Well done Jess.
If Jess makes a masterclass on dating life, I dunno who wouldn't purchase that course. She doesn't miss!
Would you? Take dating advice from a man, women don't often know what a man's perspective is like
Ummmm she acts a little masculine
Ijs
And Im female
I think she has a 1 on 1 for her patreon supporters.
easy. If you're handsome, she's into you . If not, she's just being nice. 😆
Same thing to me ❤, I don't have the looks 😢
The key to this whole thing fellas, flirt with a whole bunch of women. Reserve your energy for ones who give the best responses.
or not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a fucking break lol. one thing ive learned with my 40 years is that a woman will let you know if she likes you. ive also had a great life so i know its hard for guys who havent had the experiences that I have to actually chill. I wasn't always chill either hahaha
@@lowlowseesee "Not flirt with a whole bunch so they can get a break." Explain yourself please. That didn't make any sense to me.
It's called playing the numbers my dude. No 1 woman should ever get that much attention. Especially if she's not reciprocating interest.
@@lowlowseesee Also! I don't know about you but I've found that waiting for them to approach is also bull shyt. I've gotten better results being a pursuer of women. So you can miss me with that.
@@lowlowseesee By the way, are you even a dude or a chic troll?
@@christopherduffy1703 ... flirting with a bunch of women is one way, but it may not be the best way.
A true player, or a man that has a good dating system, will make women purse him. Some women want a man that is elite, or unique. If you are always up on her grinning and barking, then you are just another thirsty dude that is trying to get under her dress.
And in her mind, this will not make you unique, or special.
A quality woman wants to be with a quality man, and not just another thirsty dude.
The phone tip is probably the best way to know if someone is interested or not. I have a coworker who always has her phone within reach. Most the time when I text her she takes a while to respond or doesn't respond at all. Dead give away right there.
The thing is, alot of girls play this game of responding late and so on to make sure they don't get too attached
This is so true and straight forward💯There's no time to waste men!!
Jess, thumbs up to you👍 there s never a dull moment with you, right here😍😍❤❤
Awesome advice Jess✊✊
Another major Red Flag:
When u take her for dinner and she spends her time on her phone until u finish your food, just leave 🤪🤪🤪🤪
@linkzable
I wouldn't go as far as saying that's a simp move but it certainly isn't advanced strategy in the dating game. I avoid dinner dates myself unless it's at my place or hers.
That puts me in the red zone (American football reference).
I'm not saying it's an automatic lay because you still need game to close the deal but you're not spending a fortune either.
@linkzable
I don't disagree with your park bench example.
I was just saying that it's not entirely a simp move to have dinner because there are layers to this. My chances of getting laid are way better if she accepts an invitation to my home for dinner or ice cream. It's at my home or hers, not some restaurant.
This just goes to show you that some women can pretend to be interested in you, when really their just wasting your time being nice
They are very good actors.
@@davante1286 Alot of them are actors and dudes are giving them homes, cars, like fools.
Men don't get asked out nearly as many times as women.
I myself try to be cool about rejecting what few women that have asked me out that i was not interested in. I wish I could just say I wasn't interested out the gate but not as easy when you are on the spot. Trust me. People can be sensitive to how you may react to the rejection.
Facts.
Time wasters
This video is highly recommended for men who don't have time to waste .... it just saved their asses!!!
Sometimes the guys know, but I wonder what they are still waiting for? Great job Jessica 👏❤️
Sometimes just waiting for God's intervention. It's works with some,fails with some.
😝😝😝😝😝😝
We wait because we feel we got to give it time .. 🤷🏿♂️
@@emmanuelgyamfi6320 nice
@@evadora3606 🙏
The best things that have worked for me is to try having some mystery about myself and to be straight to the point with my expectations. Women know from the very start if they're into you, so it all depends on how they SHOW it, not by response. Regardless, I never view them in a pedestalistic manner nor give them any undeserved attention. Keep it moving!!!
Have some mystery women will think your a weirdo and don't want to be alone with you for fear of being killed
Dude you can do all that and still get rejected. You not gonna bag every single woman you think is attractive
@@vince11harris man wish more guys had this mindset, seems like most dudes in this comment section fear rejection, the whole wait for the signals first before u approach, man tbh i prefer to shoot my shot with a girl who catches my eye rather than wait, and personally i prefer to know that she wasn't fucking with me up front when i approach her rather than sit back and wonder how many women i've missed out by not approaching, women are all different and one woman's choosing signals can be different to another, some girls are hella subtle and u woulld have never guessed they liked u because honestly which guy is going around constantly looking if girls are sending signals? thats tedious, imma keep cold approaching coz at the end of the day most likely these women are strangers and u might never see them again so so what if i take the L as long as i'm polite abt the interaction and wish her good day afterwards who cares what she thinks of me after the interaction ends, not like i'll ever see her again. Plus taking rejections can also make for good stories later on lmao i have a few embarrassing L's that i laugh at when i think abt it
@@stevetheiii477 I think dudes are just scary. They have unrealistic expectations and assume that if every girl doesn’t like them or says then she’s a “bitch “ or whatever. Nah man she just doesn’t like you like that and it’s cool. And I agree. I would definitely rather have the confidence to cold approach and tell her how I think about her then play the “what if” game in my mind
Being mysterious and not being overly thirsty gives a man more power. Feeling her vibe to see If she’s worth It
Some will say,they are putting u to a test
So they have to drag u to see whether u are truly in for business 😊😎
That gender don tire me sef 😹😹😹
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@@oreoluwabukunmi8430 🤣
Forget them😂😂
@@oreoluwabukunmi8430 this matter still dey court oo
Nothing beats experience. Knowing and doing things are two different things. I know the mistakes I make but I usually remember them after they’ve been made. For example, I remember a girl chatting me up at a mall last year, she was really pretty and I was so impressed with her confidence and vibe that I got carried away and became too chatty (my most frequent mistake with anybody I’m trying to impress). It was after she left that I realized how I’ve screwed it up. I barely chat up anyone that looks like that so tips or no tips, without the experience, it’s easy to get carried away in the moment and fumble.
We know some of these tips, it’s just harder to see/remember when you’re in the middle of it.
so help me understand, you feel your mistake was you held too long of a conversation? so was she trying to cut it off and you kept going or did she also bring up new subjects as well? What is "too chatty"? I mean if she was feeling you and you feeling her what was wrong with that my man? Talking is a good thing; something was wrong with her apparently!
Relatable.