You should rerun some of these videos , gives us some idea where and how far you came , keep up the great work brother , remember randy never regret just live and learn
Thanks Randy, I really like your channel, watching the car videos and just started watching the Uber man videos. Thank you for this 😮, the video means a lot.
wow im 62 disabled single parent of a 35 yo fine young man.....life was not good for me in years past.....I had to stand up and own who what and where i go on.....as tough as life can be the end is we are our own worst judges, you sharing with complete strangers admits you see worth, you have pride integrity and seems like an awesome heart. You do so much good in this world you have a following of thousands of people, you are not afraid of hard work thats obvious by how you teach each and everyone of us, i have learned so much gained strength and fortitude and yeah i drive my health is shit, i don't have a whole lot of clock left i should be kicking back im actually in excellent health in last few years which totally overwhelms me however my years cant be many people always ask me how i live the way i do for the last 28years i focus on the million things i can do instead of the hundreds i can't seems kind of profound, Randy you are a young man look in the mirror and see what this group sees in you forgive love and you still have time to rebuild those bridges you burned years past, this is just a passage of time everyday day by day can be the foundation to make your skyscraper. slowly you will see little by little how there is light in the tunnel that gets brighter, possessions are the things you use to justify what you lost when living on the streets, what you have done is make a "home" from what i see a very comfortable setting where anyone walking thru the door would feel comfortable and want to sit and feel welcoming there something to be said about success brother you have that. FEEL PROUD!!!! GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED!!!!! you are healing!!!! Just remember what was a judicial assignment years ago can change in reverse "Action TAKES MOVEMENT" and you have the right formula just keep on keeping on YOU OWN THE TITLE "UBERMAN" "RANDY" until you take your last breath you still have time to have change happen!
I've never seen you type so much Mark!! This was probably the most heartfelt comment I've ever read. Thank you for taking the time to tell me a little about yourself. There is a lot of wisdom in these words. I will take this to heart. And thank you. Thank you!!
Hey Ub, waz up. Just saw ur vid, you are very real and raw in your vids man. But u are also strong and u r an Uber earner. Yes that's right. U r an earner and a provider. That is your major strength, Rand. Take it from a guy who misses his mid thirties. I just turned 50 man. I may not be old but it's not the same. So. Keep your strength. Appreciate your strength. Eliminate or at least diminish the possession thing. Stop buying just to buy. Start saving and find a way to spend some time with the kids. I don't know. I'm single so I don't have much experience. Just my thoughts. Thanks for sharing
Gil Gutierrez Thank you for sharing. I may be in my 30s but I have lived a life that would make most 50 year olds look 70 lol. It's been a crazy, and stressful life. I don't expect to live to a "ripe" old age.
I agree. At 44 with 3 children in their 20's and grandchildren, i miss my late 20's. When I was 30 years old, I was irreparably injured by a drunk driver. Now I'm finally fighting for some piece of who I truly am again. We can look back without going back, however, we NEED to continue moving forward. We all carry regrettable memories. YOU ARE A GOOD MAN NOW! Thank you for your honesty and honor, I think it's what makes me watch and listen every morning.
Amber Marie Thank you for commenting Amber. I agree, we just need to keep moving forward. Time will keep going on without us. We can stay in the past, and sulk, cry, etc., but we are throwing our own time, and future away. Time is irreplaceable. I truly wish you the very best.
Proud of you for being open about your past. I really am bro! You are among the few who admit their mistake, feel sorry and try to go forward. What matters is who you were before but who you are today what you will be tomorrow. May God also be with you and support you in your rationale decisions, PEACE!
Hi Randy, Thank you for sharing so much of your personal life. It takes real courage to let strangers into your world and you've displayed that brilliantly. Even though things have been very difficult things will get better. Yeah, I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will. It's just going to take time. You've made mistakes, like everyone, and yes, you're paying for them, but I'm convinced it's only to make you a better person. And you are becoming a better person. I've been watching your videos for a little while now since I drive for Uber as well part time, and I have nothing but tremendous respect for you and the struggles you're dealing with. You're an amazingly strong person and you will get through this storm. It won't be easy, but it will happen. Just keep believing in yourself and keep fighting. You'll find your place. And if there's anything you ever need do not hesitate to ask for help. Even if it's just to vent. Until then, stay strong and know you're not alone.
Randy! I understand that, you deserve a better life and sooner things will be change. I am in the transition from my Full Time job into Private driving for UBER/LYFT. At least, I can be my own boss and not just working as a slave for someone. I pray for you, man!
the Lord Jesus Christ can fill any void you have! my twenties were rough, partying and drugs, etc...I'm 41 now and serving God. no matter what you've done and how far you've been, Jesus is a merciful God and forgives instantly. you don't have to continue to live with regret, guilt and shame. the devil wants you to feel that. but God wants to give you liberty and a he wants to free you from all that junk. he can also repair bridges that were burned. I'm speaking from experience. good luck, Jesus is waiting with open arms.
It takes a lot of guts to open up like that, warts and all. We've all done things we're ashamed of. The main thing is to learn from it and do what is within your circle of control now.
I usually have these talks with myself in complete solitude. You always wind up on top because you are a good man at the core. I have been dealing with a very rotten, hollowed out life after my baby momma fucked some guy from jewels and then got in some bullshit relationship right after I proposed. And for over a year I looked like shit and felt like shit. Lost my hair, hoes and respect. 2 of those three are coming back these days, I empathize with you. Nobody is perfect, we are all living in hell so we couldn't be. Every mortal is born a sinner; this is the place asshole spirits incarnate to refine themselves. Don't beat yourself up bro, it is only counterproductive and will send you backward.
Watching this, you showed me that you are HUMAN! My thing is this, you are trying to be better and quite honestly I think you are ! So you made mistakes....guess what??? Me too man! I respect you for doing better!
Well kid, being an idiot is not without consequences. To stop being an idiot is not easy its exactly the same as an alcoholic. Its a long process to transform from an idiot to wise and require self examination on daily on hourly basis. Deep down you are a good man and I wish you well.
Lots off lessons to be gleaned from this interesting story. Life can be a real bitch sometimes. Hopefully u can find healing and peace. This is a lot for a man to endure.
@@AutoAuctionRebuilds Great answer. You were honest, and he kicked you while you were down. You didn't retaliate. That was a huge thing! Bless you. My pastor says, "An honest man won't go to hell." May the Lord reveal His mercy to you, because it can only be received through revelation. He is able.
It's funny how you passed the background check. Despite all the issues, you're lucky that you're still standing and making some income to make ends meet.
Uberman, wow, !! It takes a real man to say what you just did.an to own ur shit. Youve come a long way, but still sturgling. I hope you learn to forgive your self dude. You did all the right things, it sounds like
I know this video is a while ago, but has Baby Mama earned the two kids back yet? I don't know about your state, but in California, parents can do classes and work with DHS to earn kids back
Hey brother I'm sitting here watching your video on your son and your other video on your life God bless you all and I pray that the Lord touches each and everyone of you and the lord loves you no matter what you've done just tell him you need his help and he'll help you and if you need me to help you you just get ahold of me God bless you and your family amen
I so happy charged your life, I was a woman who lived with a man he was physically and emotionally abusive, I can see in your face how you love these kids, I have suggestion for you GoToo a Kinghall Hall, in your area and see that you can and will be for given For all your sins, that way Jesus gave his life. All you have too do is ask. People at the hall help learn the bible. I hope you forgive yourself, no one is prefect, I want too let know, I am praying for you.
2 Corinthians, 17. Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. Open your heart to Jesus. He will clean your soul. The Bible will help you renew your mind. Find a good bible believing church for fellowship and support. Also, if the courts terminate your parental rights, you can have them re-instated after a period of time if you petition the court.
A business locally that assisted clients in obtaining legitimate titles for their title-less cars, trucks, vans, SUVs, motorhomes, mobile homes, boats, ATVs, motorcycles, etc.
Ethan Mark did you read the date of the comment. It’s 3 years old. Use you little knuckle dragging lefty brain, and understand that comment isn’t even relevant.
I watched the whole video. I don't really know what to say. We all make mistakes man. I know you probably don't want to hear this and I am sure that it isn't something you would be willing to do..but honestly, I feel that you should turn your ex wife in. If only to get help for her kids. Payback is a bitch (she did it to you, right?)
I agree,turn in your ex, so the kids can be taken care of properly. They didnt choose to live like that but your ex did.You feel a lot of pain because deep down your a good person. Stay strong for those children,my friend!
wantsanewvehicle The kids have different fathers, in different places. If I turn her in, they get separated. Forever. They will lose each other, and that's all they have had for a couple years now. I asked them about it, and they don't want to go back to the state again.
How many hookers have you killed while driving for uber!? I kid I kid.... Sorry to hear about your situation. I was in a similar situation man..... The red clouds the eyes and things happen. Age is wisdom! I'm 31 now but 6 years ago I was a complete psycho. Thank god we have matured! I wish you the best, you are my favorite youtuber!
Hey Uberman, I am watching the Surge zones for my area, and turned on a video of yours. One area has been surging for over thirty minutes, and I know you have said, "not to chase surges." I am tempted, just sayen!!! I have made a mental note of this particular area of our city. I just want to succeed, have you watched this SF ninja Uber dude on you tube before??? He is a super hard worker, like you, like me: ruclips.net/video/JvzRM5I30_k/видео.html While this video (your video on relationships) is about a year old, and I think you recently posted that you have a fresh start with a new girlfriend, no longer with the mother of your daughter Becky. I see some similarities in your struggles with my own. I am a little older (54) so clearly it only gets better if.................... you work at it. I too have anger issues, and the only reason that they have mellowed is because I took the advice of my kind, non judge mental and loving sister. She said to me, "you wait too long, then you blow up".................okey so how do I fix that? There are triggers to notice when your just starting to get pissed, holding your breath is one, rehearsing the same thing in your mind that really pisses you off, everyone is different, those are my triggers. I often have to remind myself to BREATHE, or to stop thinking about dot dot dot, go to my "happy place" pick a subject that calms you, what ever works. Mine happens to be a horses, yours is going to be a dream car, my best guess. So pay attention to triggers, and then COMMUNICATE sooner. Let people know, for example;, Hey I am starting to feel upset, or am already feeling agitated, or time out, I am now angry. Your partner, if he or she respects and loves you, will simply back off, give you the time and space you need to regroup, calm down. Did you know that Physically, it takes longer to calm down then get pissed? Like twenty minutes! And unless someone is bleeding, there is no reason that any disagreement cannot wait 24 hours, 2 hours, 20 minutes. What ever the situation requires. Both parties need to be relaxed and calm in order to discuss something they disagree on, compromise? his way or her way? Choose your battles. You don't have to WIN every disagreement, then loose in the relationship. (sorry that was intended more for my spouse then you!) We have been married for fifteen years, and while we know each others boundaries on certain subjects, there seems to still be a lot of arguing over STUPID STUFF, we are not talking about divorce material here! For me, I have learned to STOP before I say and do things I will regret. Am I perfect? NOPE, do I follow these guidelines about 95% of the time YES. Everyone needs a little grace and forgiveness. Without it, we just exist............ Fair Fighting Rules that saved our marriage: I am married to a very particular engineer. Who was difficult to live with, I can now say, that only occasionally is it rather difficult between us. These rules, savle our marrige.. plus learning about personality types, have you read Dr. Rober Rohm? Personalaity Profiles? There is another author who uses, colors to describe personality styles as well. As I have gotten to know you, thru your videos, I can already tell what your strengths are: Here is just the beginning of a 14 point list on Rules for fair fighting: 1. No Name Calling 2. No bringing up the past, including past unresolved issues 3. No pushing buttons, these are sensitive areas known by one spouse to the other 5. No Physical aggressive behavior, including stomping, slamming, yelling, behaving in such a way that is intended to intimidate the other spouse. 6. There,s more,........................... look here marriages.net/fighting-conflict-series/
Semantics. Tomato / tOmOto. :) I call them passengers. Some call them riders, PAX, passengers (seeing as they are a passenger in your car), clients, etc. To each their own. :) Thanks for the comment.
I am in Uber Miami and they are very touchy about Uber.Trying to hassle ect.If they are clients it means they have chosen Uber cver the taxi.Also many come from other markets and have used Uber in their home country/city.
Whatever works for you. I've been with Uber in Indianapolis, Bloomington, Oklahoma City, and Norman for 15 months. I've never been asked by a passenger, or Uber to call them clients. But, every city is different. I fail to see how calling a client, a passenger changes the fact that that person chose Uber over Lyft / Taxi / Sidecar. It's just a word, the fact remains they are riding with Uber. :)
You should rerun some of these videos , gives us some idea where and how far you came , keep up the great work brother , remember randy never regret just live and learn
Thanks Randy, I really like your channel, watching the car videos and just started watching the Uber man videos. Thank you for this 😮, the video means a lot.
Your heart is genuine, you have a gift of communication
wow im 62 disabled single parent of a 35 yo fine young man.....life was not good for me in years past.....I had to stand up and own who what and where i go on.....as tough as life can be the end is we are our own worst judges, you sharing with complete strangers admits you see worth, you have pride integrity and seems like an awesome heart. You do so much good in this world you have a following of thousands of people, you are not afraid of hard work thats obvious by how you teach each and everyone of us, i have learned so much gained strength and fortitude and yeah i drive my health is shit, i don't have a whole lot of clock left i should be kicking back im actually in excellent health in last few years which totally overwhelms me however my years cant be many people always ask me how i live the way i do for the last 28years i focus on the million things i can do instead of the hundreds i can't seems kind of profound, Randy you are a young man look in the mirror and see what this group sees in you forgive love and you still have time to rebuild those bridges you burned years past, this is just a passage of time everyday day by day can be the foundation to make your skyscraper. slowly you will see little by little how there is light in the tunnel that gets brighter, possessions are the things you use to justify what you lost when living on the streets, what you have done is make a "home" from what i see a very comfortable setting where anyone walking thru the door would feel comfortable and want to sit and feel welcoming there something to be said about success brother you have that. FEEL PROUD!!!! GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED!!!!! you are healing!!!! Just remember what was a judicial assignment years ago can change in reverse "Action TAKES MOVEMENT" and you have the right formula just keep on keeping on YOU OWN THE TITLE "UBERMAN" "RANDY" until you take your last breath you still have time to have change happen!
I've never seen you type so much Mark!! This was probably the most heartfelt comment I've ever read. Thank you for taking the time to tell me a little about yourself. There is a lot of wisdom in these words. I will take this to heart. And thank you. Thank you!!
Hey Ub, waz up. Just saw ur vid, you are very real and raw in your vids man. But u are also strong and u r an Uber earner. Yes that's right. U r an earner and a provider. That is your major strength, Rand. Take it from a guy who misses his mid thirties. I just turned 50 man. I may not be old but it's not the same. So. Keep your strength. Appreciate your strength. Eliminate or at least diminish the possession thing. Stop buying just to buy. Start saving and find a way to spend some time with the kids. I don't know. I'm single so I don't have much experience. Just my thoughts. Thanks for sharing
Gil Gutierrez Thank you for sharing. I may be in my 30s but I have lived a life that would make most 50 year olds look 70 lol. It's been a crazy, and stressful life. I don't expect to live to a "ripe" old age.
I agree. At 44 with 3 children in their 20's and grandchildren, i miss my late 20's. When I was 30 years old, I was irreparably injured by a drunk driver. Now I'm finally fighting for some piece of who I truly am again. We can look back without going back, however, we NEED to continue moving forward. We all carry regrettable memories. YOU ARE A GOOD MAN NOW! Thank you for your honesty and honor, I think it's what makes me watch and listen every morning.
Amber Marie Thank you for commenting Amber. I agree, we just need to keep moving forward. Time will keep going on without us. We can stay in the past, and sulk, cry, etc., but we are throwing our own time, and future away. Time is irreplaceable. I truly wish you the very best.
I pray for you and your family frequently. Be well, Amber
Proud of you for being open about your past. I really am bro! You are among the few who admit their mistake, feel sorry and try to go forward. What matters is who you were before but who you are today what you will be tomorrow. May God also be with you and support you in your rationale decisions, PEACE!
Alemayehu Teklegiorgis Thank you for the kind words, I appreciate you taking the time to comment.
Hi Randy,
Thank you for sharing so much of your personal life. It takes real courage to let strangers into your world and you've displayed that brilliantly. Even though things have been very difficult things will get better. Yeah, I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will. It's just going to take time. You've made mistakes, like everyone, and yes, you're paying for them, but I'm convinced it's only to make you a better person. And you are becoming a better person. I've been watching your videos for a little while now since I drive for Uber as well part time, and I have nothing but tremendous respect for you and the struggles you're dealing with. You're an amazingly strong person and you will get through this storm. It won't be easy, but it will happen. Just keep believing in yourself and keep fighting. You'll find your place. And if there's anything you ever need do not hesitate to ask for help. Even if it's just to vent.
Until then, stay strong and know you're not alone.
Thank you for your realness. I hope things get better for you. I feel your struggle. Sometimes we need to forgive ourselves. Hang in there!
Randy! I understand that, you deserve a better life and sooner things will be change. I am in the transition from my Full Time job into Private driving for UBER/LYFT. At least, I can be my own boss and not just working as a slave for someone. I pray for you, man!
Harvey Wu And that is the beautiful thing about Uber / Lyft. Best of luck to you.
A very heart felt testimony
dude....God is using you to help people!! That includes me! I appreciate you man...keep it going...
You are a bad ass!
Joshua Benjamin I wish that were true. Thank you.
the Lord Jesus Christ can fill any void you have! my twenties were rough, partying and drugs, etc...I'm 41 now and serving God. no matter what you've done and how far you've been, Jesus is a merciful God and forgives instantly. you don't have to continue to live with regret, guilt and shame. the devil wants you to feel that. but God wants to give you liberty and a he wants to free you from all that junk. he can also repair bridges that were burned. I'm speaking from experience. good luck, Jesus is waiting with open arms.
@E Dogg36 Oh, really????????
Tons of respect for you, man. Glad to see you are still working hard and keeping strong. I'm proud of you.
Here for you if you need to talk to someone, you have a huge support group big R, so keep going man, what else can you do!
Jason Feriani Thanks man, really appreciate it
your a good man... and u went through life.. hard. but your doing well now...
keep it up and stay strong
raider steel Thanks :)
It takes a lot of guts to open up like that, warts and all. We've all done things we're ashamed of. The main thing is to learn from it and do what is within your circle of control now.
+A Repas Thank you. I appreciate that. Things have gotten a lot better since this video.
I usually have these talks with myself in complete solitude. You always wind up on top because you are a good man at the core. I have been dealing with a very rotten, hollowed out life after my baby momma fucked some guy from jewels and then got in some bullshit relationship right after I proposed. And for over a year I looked like shit and felt like shit. Lost my hair, hoes and respect. 2 of those three are coming back these days, I empathize with you. Nobody is perfect, we are all living in hell so we couldn't be. Every mortal is born a sinner; this is the place asshole spirits incarnate to refine themselves. Don't beat yourself up bro, it is only counterproductive and will send you backward.
+composite badguy I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you for the wisdom. Thinks have gotten a lot better since this video. I let a lot of that baggage go.
Watching this, you showed me that you are HUMAN! My thing is this, you are trying to be better and quite honestly I think you are ! So you made mistakes....guess what??? Me too man! I respect you for doing better!
+Andrew Carden Thank you. I appreciate that.
god will heal you if you let him randy god bless you
things will get better. never stop beleiving
Well kid, being an idiot is not without consequences. To stop being an idiot is not easy its exactly the same as an alcoholic. Its a long process to transform from an idiot to wise and require self examination on daily on hourly basis. Deep down you are a good man and I wish you well.
+Alasa kul I'm doing great now. Thanks.
Lots off lessons to be gleaned from this interesting story. Life can be a real bitch sometimes. Hopefully u can find healing and peace. This is a lot for a man to endure.
Homeboy Chris Thank you, this is but one page, of one chapter, in my book of life.
Zero respect for any dude what would hit a chick.
Cool!
@John Hunter any one of us is capable of hideous things. Be careful.
@@AutoAuctionRebuilds Great answer. You were honest, and he kicked you while you were down. You didn't retaliate. That was a huge thing! Bless you.
My pastor says, "An honest man won't go to hell." May the Lord reveal His mercy to you, because it can only be received through revelation. He is able.
It's funny how you passed the background check. Despite all the issues, you're lucky that you're still standing and making some income to make ends meet.
Roy Long LOL I'm doing a "little" bit better than making ends meet ;)
Uberman, wow, !! It takes a real man to say what you just did.an to own ur shit. Youve come a long way, but still sturgling. I hope you learn to forgive your self dude. You did all the right things, it sounds like
Thank you so much. I really appreciate that.
I know this video is a while ago, but has Baby Mama earned the two kids back yet? I don't know about your state, but in California, parents can do classes and work with DHS to earn kids back
+Isabell Xie That happened 10 years ago. She signed her rights over. She will never have them again. Sad.
+Uber Man oh :(
Hey brother I'm sitting here watching your video on your son and your other video on your life God bless you all and I pray that the Lord touches each and everyone of you and the lord loves you no matter what you've done just tell him you need his help and he'll help you and if you need me to help you you just get ahold of me God bless you and your family amen
I so happy charged your life, I was a woman who lived with a man he was physically and emotionally abusive,
I can see in your face how you love these kids, I have suggestion for you
GoToo a Kinghall Hall, in your area and see that you can and will be for given
For all your sins, that way Jesus gave his life. All you have too do is ask.
People at the hall help learn the bible.
I hope you forgive yourself, no one is prefect, I want too let know, I am praying for you.
2 Corinthians, 17. Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
Open your heart to Jesus. He will clean your soul. The Bible will help you renew your mind. Find a good bible believing church for fellowship and support.
Also, if the courts terminate your parental rights, you can have them re-instated after a period of time if you petition the court.
Baby momma drama.
what was your six figure business that you no longer have?
A business locally that assisted clients in obtaining legitimate titles for their title-less cars, trucks, vans, SUVs, motorhomes, mobile homes, boats, ATVs, motorcycles, etc.
Fill that void with Jesus. He can help you with everything - please take that very seriously.
Stephanie Turner fuck off dude
Ethan Mark did you read the date of the comment. It’s 3 years old. Use you little knuckle dragging lefty brain, and understand that comment isn’t even relevant.
You are jimmy fallon as well as uber man
I watched the whole video. I don't really know what to say. We all make mistakes man. I know you probably don't want to hear this and I am sure that it isn't something you would be willing to do..but honestly, I feel that you should turn your ex wife in. If only to get help for her kids. Payback is a bitch (she did it to you, right?)
I agree,turn in your ex, so the kids can be taken care of properly. They didnt choose to live like that but your ex did.You feel a lot of pain because deep down your a good person. Stay strong for those children,my friend!
wantsanewvehicle The kids have different fathers, in different places. If I turn her in, they get separated. Forever. They will lose each other, and that's all they have had for a couple years now. I asked them about it, and they don't want to go back to the state again.
Uber Man Okay, understandable.
How many hookers have you killed while driving for uber!? I kid I kid.... Sorry to hear about your situation. I was in a similar situation man..... The red clouds the eyes and things happen. Age is wisdom! I'm 31 now but 6 years ago I was a complete psycho. Thank god we have matured! I wish you the best, you are my favorite youtuber!
God will forgive you if you ask. Jesus Christ paid the price for all sins of mankind. Thank you for being honest.
wow i guess this an old vid but still you can reflect on the day you made that.....sorry...........
Hey Uberman,
I am watching the Surge zones for my area, and turned on a video of yours. One area has been surging for over thirty minutes, and I know you have said, "not to chase surges." I am tempted, just sayen!!! I have made a mental note of this particular area of our city.
I just want to succeed, have you watched this SF ninja Uber dude on you tube before??? He is a super hard worker, like you, like me: ruclips.net/video/JvzRM5I30_k/видео.html
While this video (your video on relationships) is about a year old, and I think you recently posted that you have a fresh start with a new girlfriend, no longer with the mother of your daughter Becky. I see some similarities in your struggles with my own. I am a little older (54) so clearly it only gets better if.................... you work at it.
I too have anger issues, and the only reason that they have mellowed is because I took the advice of my kind, non judge mental and loving sister. She said to me, "you wait too long, then you blow up".................okey so how do I fix that?
There are triggers to notice when your just starting to get pissed, holding your breath is one, rehearsing the same thing in your mind that really pisses you off, everyone is different, those are my triggers. I often have to remind myself to BREATHE, or to stop thinking about dot dot dot, go to my "happy place" pick a subject that calms you, what ever works. Mine happens to be a horses, yours is going to be a dream car, my best guess.
So pay attention to triggers, and then COMMUNICATE sooner. Let people know, for example;, Hey I am starting to feel upset, or am already feeling agitated, or time out, I am now angry. Your partner, if he or she respects and loves you, will simply back off, give you the time and space you need to regroup, calm down. Did you know that Physically, it takes longer to calm down then get pissed? Like twenty minutes! And unless someone is bleeding, there is no reason that any disagreement cannot wait 24 hours, 2 hours, 20 minutes. What ever the situation requires. Both parties need to be relaxed and calm in order to discuss something they disagree on, compromise? his way or her way? Choose your battles. You don't have to WIN every disagreement, then loose in the relationship. (sorry that was intended more for my spouse then you!) We have been married for fifteen years, and while we know each others boundaries on certain subjects, there seems to still be a lot of arguing over STUPID STUFF, we are not talking about divorce material here!
For me, I have learned to STOP before I say and do things I will regret. Am I perfect? NOPE, do I follow these guidelines about 95% of the time YES. Everyone needs a little grace and forgiveness. Without it, we just exist............
Fair Fighting Rules that saved our marriage: I am married to a very particular engineer. Who was difficult to live with, I can now say, that only occasionally is it rather difficult between us. These rules, savle our marrige.. plus learning about personality types, have you read Dr. Rober Rohm? Personalaity Profiles? There is another author who uses, colors to describe personality styles as well. As I have gotten to know you, thru your videos, I can already tell what your strengths are:
Here is just the beginning of a 14 point list on Rules for fair fighting:
1. No Name Calling
2. No bringing up the past, including past unresolved issues
3. No pushing buttons, these are sensitive areas known by one spouse to the other
5. No Physical aggressive behavior, including stomping, slamming, yelling, behaving in such a way that is intended to intimidate the other spouse.
6. There,s more,........................... look here
marriages.net/fighting-conflict-series/
Do you know Jesus Christ man? Start in the book of Mathew.
I've heard of him.
Lol your gonna be just fine brother.
Question are you Native American?
Uber man the people you ride are clients,not passengers.
Semantics. Tomato / tOmOto. :) I call them passengers. Some call them riders, PAX, passengers (seeing as they are a passenger in your car), clients, etc. To each their own. :) Thanks for the comment.
I am in Uber Miami and they are very touchy about Uber.Trying to hassle ect.If they are clients it means they have chosen Uber cver the taxi.Also many come from other markets and have used Uber in their home country/city.
Whatever works for you. I've been with Uber in Indianapolis, Bloomington, Oklahoma City, and Norman for 15 months. I've never been asked by a passenger, or Uber to call them clients. But, every city is different. I fail to see how calling a client, a passenger changes the fact that that person chose Uber over Lyft / Taxi / Sidecar. It's just a word, the fact remains they are riding with Uber. :)
MGTOW, look it up.
+mekkler I did. Thanks. Not for me, I love the P!