We Need To Talk About Achraf Hakimi & His Wife

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
  • Over the past week, there has been an extraordinarily viral news story claiming that PSG right-back Achraf Hakimi has avoided having to pay his wife a divorce settlement in court because all of his assets are in his mother's name.
    That's despite the fact that there is very little evidence to support that claim, but regardless of that fact, the entire tenor of the conversation seems to be rather odd given the context in which Hakimi and his wife Hiba Abouk are getting divorced.
    So in this video, HITC Sevens attempts to find the truth behind some very slanted headlines, taking a look at both online misinformation and a rise in misogyny, and how the two are linked.

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  • @animevsirl
    @animevsirl Год назад +923

    To be fair Alfie, you are kind enough to assume that those Twitter commentators have a partner

    • @MrYounis26
      @MrYounis26 Год назад +10

      and you have a partner?

    • @lougiacobbi725
      @lougiacobbi725 Год назад +76

      @@MrYounis26 and who art thou protecting with your blather.

    • @MrYounis26
      @MrYounis26 Год назад +7

      @@lougiacobbi725 protecting animevsirl from hypocrisy

    • @Krwler
      @Krwler Год назад

      Are you one of those dweebs that thinks it’s some great achievement to have a partner? How do you think we all got here? It’s average shit, you talking like not having one is some kind of put down 🙄

    • @man4437
      @man4437 Год назад

      ​@@MrYounis26Hakimi will not fuck you. Consensual or not

  • @burkezillar
    @burkezillar Год назад +1041

    Imagine being 14 years old and feeling that you know what marriage is all about. I'm 35, married, and I still have no fucking clue what it is.

    • @rscfootball
      @rscfootball Год назад +17

      I mean he was basically 14 and she was 35 when they got married

    • @nucleardragons
      @nucleardragons Год назад +18

      You've clearly forgotten what's like to be 14 - be default you know everything

    • @ObviouslyKieran
      @ObviouslyKieran Год назад +59

      @@rscfootball He was 19 and she was 29 at the time they got married...

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад +10

      ​@@rscfootball Good thing Alfie talked about the lies spread online... here's one.

    • @Quattro_Joe
      @Quattro_Joe Год назад +20

      I’m 38. Married 8 years, have 5 children and I haven’t a clue about marriage or women. Just winging it here.

  • @christianspanggaard
    @christianspanggaard Год назад +803

    Alfie, your channel is a very needed space of intersection between decency and good, educated humans and football. It is, sadly, a space that has been way too empty for a long time but your work is pulling the community in the right direction (or at the very least, you provide a good counter balance to the non-sense of today's football world). I've said it before, and I'll say it again: I, and a lot of others, appriciate you and your channel, your dignity and research. Please, keep on doing what you do: using your platform for the good.

    • @augustusfreeman4032
      @augustusfreeman4032 Год назад +8

      I wouldn't call a grown man insulting people for 30 minutes straight "decent" or "good education" to be honest.

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад +28

      @@augustusfreeman4032 The writing on this video was superb. Hit many nails on the head.

    • @d3rnik-5
      @d3rnik-5 Год назад

      @@augustusfreeman4032 if you feel insulted in any way by this video, you’re scum and deserve it

    • @pavelblaha8370
      @pavelblaha8370 Год назад +29

      @@augustusfreeman4032 You mean people who are also grown and are insulting a woman who wants a fair divorce and praising a man who is charged by rape? I will call them out even for 60 minutes straight. Misogony and sexual violence destroys human lives - I have seen it too many times to have any empathy for people who are hateful towards women. Ask yourself what is more harmful, Alfie´s video or the underlying attitudes in the society towards women and sexual violence represented in the comments?

    • @pinkblossom1516
      @pinkblossom1516 Год назад +2

      Why no body is talking how she is dated him when he was 18 and she 31 ? Lol

  • @badjujuforever
    @badjujuforever Год назад +408

    how and why did you just explain divorce settlements to me better than anyone ever has, and my parents got divorced in 2003 hahaha damn

    • @Odumase
      @Odumase Год назад +12

      I Hope your doing fine

    • @felixbache5369
      @felixbache5369 Год назад +9

      It's not your fault

    • @oceanmike8516
      @oceanmike8516 Год назад +1

      Why are divorces just happening left,right and centre?

    • @Odumase
      @Odumase Год назад +5

      @@TUTENSKENGS oh yeah I thought it said 2023

    • @gingergreek
      @gingergreek Год назад

      @@oceanmike8516 Mainly because of financial burdens placed on couples thanks to this shit system we live in, often puts a strain on marriages. Then there's the usual cheating etc.

  • @akshadchavan5528
    @akshadchavan5528 Год назад +296

    The only genuine person on the internet talking about this. You and Niran of FTW actually knew what was going on and didn't jump to silly stereotypical conclusions

    • @LocalNoob_2
      @LocalNoob_2 Год назад +1

      nah they are just both femboys who only hang out with women

    • @ashleyw6728
      @ashleyw6728 Год назад +10

      ​@@LocalNoob_2 shouldn't you be in school right now

    • @LocalNoob_2
      @LocalNoob_2 Год назад +35

      @@ashleyw6728 i could be a 8 year old child or a 50 year old grandpa and i still hurt your feelings mate,kinda embarassing

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +12

      All of you are doomed to fail in the dating scene if you listen to Alfie lol

    • @Lapraswoo
      @Lapraswoo Год назад +12

      I bet maqwell will make a similar video his videos are really good

  • @robertjonsson797
    @robertjonsson797 Год назад +374

    Thank you for being a voice of reason in this. Sadly too many on internet dont use their brains at all.

    • @Tazza81
      @Tazza81 Год назад +7

      Brains and common sense seem to be a rarely rare commodity in this day and age.

    • @JimTheFly
      @JimTheFly Год назад +13

      @@Tazza81 People used to have to pay about 10 dollars a month to get on the internet. Now it seems many just pay about 10 IQ points a month to stay on social media

    • @milagomez55
      @milagomez55 Год назад +3

      @@JimTheFly nice one 😅😂

    • @reintaler6355
      @reintaler6355 Год назад +2

      @@JimTheFly Tbf paying to get on the internet has no indication of the payer's IQ

    • @augustusfreeman4032
      @augustusfreeman4032 Год назад +1

      This video is terrible as well to be honest.

  • @Dani-kq6qq
    @Dani-kq6qq Год назад +184

    I hope the rape accusations are false, i cannot forgive rapists no matter how talented or how much they love their mama.

    • @LocalNoob_2
      @LocalNoob_2 Год назад

      they are false lol,every other popular guy is accused of rape by these gold digging whores

    • @caleb4369
      @caleb4369 Год назад +31

      based

    • @frankreynolds9930
      @frankreynolds9930 Год назад

      @@LocalNoob_2 Yeah "every". Dont who why incels keep bringing this up. There has been like max 10 players rape cases in football. If it was popular, there would have been way more. You cant just fake it and get money.

    • @triple_r_va
      @triple_r_va Год назад +3

      Facts

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +3

      @Mocrovich 🇲🇦 I hope that man...

  • @ai__ninja
    @ai__ninja Год назад +141

    This guy’s satire, sarcasm, humour and storytelling is next level😂

  • @mikaelvirji5807
    @mikaelvirji5807 Год назад +44

    Alfie, I was already a fan given how well researched your videos are, but now that I know you’re one of the rare, not sexist football fans, you’ve earned yourself a proper subscription. Thanks for dunking on these idiots/misogynists and doing the proper work to disprove the story.

  • @thecurdy
    @thecurdy Год назад +170

    Thank you, Alfie. The entirity of the 'debate' and reporting over the Hakimi story just proves two things:
    1) Misogynistic views concerning women in a marriage and especially wives of celebrities (regardless of their own celebrity status) are still really prevalent. When I read the story, I already had 10 red lights blinking because of the misogyny that this story conveyed.
    But it 2) shows something much more concerning. In times of social media nobody needs sources anymore. A random instagram screenshot with no sources whatsoever was reposted time and time again. Nowadays, it's just about a scandalous story, not about the truth anymore.
    Although I doubt many of the insane people commenting under your tweet will see this video, it is extremely important that you have made this video.
    You are a gem of football RUclips and Twitter, Alfie. Thank you so much for making this video!

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +26

      People these days don't know what misogyny means jeez

    • @DresdenShuffle
      @DresdenShuffle Год назад +15

      The internet being full of incel misogynists? In other news the sky is blue. Look at the comments here lol nothing but incels

    • @cronusjackson6663
      @cronusjackson6663 Год назад +9

      I totally agree with you! As a teen girl, I find it extremely upsetting to see so many of my classmates (both girls and boys) falling into this drain and defending misogyny by saying it's not what it is...And misinformation is just rising and there are going to be great consequences soon enough

    • @archstanton6102
      @archstanton6102 Год назад +2

      ​@@dedasalmeida9047why don't yiu explain exactly what it is then? And how people here have misunderstood the word?

    • @archstanton6102
      @archstanton6102 Год назад +2

      ​@@Charles-nc6knYou're upset people have different opinions to you?
      Life is going to be very tough for you.

  • @ashleyw6728
    @ashleyw6728 Год назад +60

    I know that in the UK it can work the other way around, parents can transfer all of their assets to their kids so if they need long term care the government can't touch any of their assets

    • @exilenm2
      @exilenm2 Год назад +1

      They can, but it doesn't work.

    • @ashleyw6728
      @ashleyw6728 Год назад +4

      @@exilenm2 it does people I work with have done it

    • @slayingroosters4355
      @slayingroosters4355 Год назад +4

      You can also gift property to people and as long as it is 10 years before your death they wouldn't have to pay any inheritance tax 👍🏿

    • @ashleyw6728
      @ashleyw6728 Год назад +5

      @@slayingroosters4355 it's 7 years isn't it

    • @slayingroosters4355
      @slayingroosters4355 Год назад +2

      @@ashleyw6728 yeah my mistake it's 7 years. 10 is how long you have to pay inheritance tax if it's due 😂

  • @tomsanderson9111
    @tomsanderson9111 Год назад +195

    Hey Alfie, slightly off-topic but I just wanted to let you know that I've been preparing a presentation on PSG for my uni degree and I've found the videos you've made in the past about the club/Ligue 1/QSI really helpful in researching and structuring it. Thought it would be a bit awkward to comment on months/years old videos so I'll just say thank you very much under this video. Let me know how you want your really professional reference to look!!

    • @lukeshineman1768
      @lukeshineman1768 Год назад +22

      Best of luck on your presentation.

    • @uraniumbreakdown
      @uraniumbreakdown Год назад +11

      Yeah man hope you smash it

    • @jonfee5081
      @jonfee5081 Год назад +4

      Which degree are you pursuing? Just curious I’ve never heard anyone that make presentations about football clubs for uni degree and again no hate just asking

    • @marsmarshall4921
      @marsmarshall4921 Год назад +1

      @@jonfee5081 why should he satisfy you with an answer? How do you even fit in his narrative? Get a life man!

    • @jonfee5081
      @jonfee5081 Год назад +10

      @@marsmarshall4921 why man I’m just curious I don’t have any intention to hate him

  • @Chris-sb4gy
    @Chris-sb4gy Год назад +6

    people seem to care more about the fact she cant get anything in a potential divorce settlement rather than the fact that she, a 30 something year old has been with hakimi since he was around 18
    nothing weird there at all...

  • @harrysinclair1786
    @harrysinclair1786 Год назад +30

    The fact that this video needs to be made is a damming enditment on society

  • @dej71
    @dej71 Год назад +203

    You are truly the greatest human on Earth Alfie, please never change from your deadpan humour combined with your iron-clad reasoning. Your videos give me faith.

  • @mrjustwaitformemain9970
    @mrjustwaitformemain9970 Год назад +92

    I saw the story and sadly just assumed it was right straight away and didn’t think anything of it because accounts I thought were more reliable were sharing it. Very glad to have seen this and been corrected and a good reminder to check things in future. Cheers Alfie keep up the good work as always!

    • @JayForsure
      @JayForsure Год назад +7

      I went through the exact same thing! I thought it was 100% true since like you said the accounts who tweeted it i thought were reliable. But i've learned now to question things a bit more, or at the very least do some investigating myself rather than taking tweets at face value and believing them without questioning. So glad we have Alfie.

    • @IrishGuysScarf
      @IrishGuysScarf Год назад +2

      I thought the same. But the whole ‘Hakimi’s mother owning all his assets’ was never right in my head.

    • @only_fair23
      @only_fair23 Год назад +1

      ​@@IrishGuysScarfExactly, I was thinking "What a stupid loophole". Everyone should do that.

  • @JR15386
    @JR15386 Год назад +16

    Great video. Think a lot of young lads go through the same phase as many of those on Twitter believing this bollocks. Hopefully they all come across enough level headed content like this to help them re-evaluate

  • @shyamkulkarni4810
    @shyamkulkarni4810 Год назад +42

    Despite loving soccer, I mostly stay away from football media outside of actual football and HITC Sevens, so boy was this a thing to watch. Before this video, I hadn't even known Hakimi was getting a divorce, and now I understand how it's a harbinger for the end of society.

  • @assolutocosmicoregolarerea8817
    @assolutocosmicoregolarerea8817 Год назад +4

    Why not even a short about Benjamin Mendy's being innocent and having his life and legacy almost ruined by fake accusations???

  • @Kyle-mw3bo
    @Kyle-mw3bo Год назад +92

    What do you think the chances are that someone in Hakimi’s legal or management team is party responsible for creating or at least boosting this story?

    • @kristi4113
      @kristi4113 Год назад +11

      I was wondering the same thing.

    • @clytemnestra
      @clytemnestra Год назад

      I would hope this was the case but I think the truth is drivel like this tends to spread like wildfire naturally

    • @silvesta5027
      @silvesta5027 Год назад +32

      Considering the timing of this story and how indictment of rape charges sullied Hakimi’s reputation - I honestly wouldn’t be surprised

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад

      Got myself thinking the same.

    • @jedaye47
      @jedaye47 Год назад +1

      Almost certainly a PR companies planted story.

  • @rafadinhoforlahm
    @rafadinhoforlahm Год назад +220

    Hey Alfie, just wanted to say thanks for making this video. You might get a lot of hate for it, but it is nonetheless imperative that people with your considerable quantity of audience and quality of analysis, to continue to spread these nuanced reflections on rather tribalistic and yellow journalistic matters.
    Personally, the whole Hakimi matter shines a light on the shockingly misogynistic and close-minded echo chamber of online football discourse. Most of these accounts are just sharing this whole misconception because it brings them easy clicks, they know most of social media is dominated with self-conscious trolls who feel threatened by the slightest challenge to bigoted traditions or young users who are easily impressionable. The reality is that rather than focusing on why PSG continue to play Hakimi, why Partey continues to play for Arsenal, or why Greenwood might return to Man United, football flans flock to the victims, insulting them and hating them because their favorite player, the guy they idolize every weekend, ends up being a human being as corruptible as us.
    At the end of the day those who defend these idols might feel different if say, their sister, mother, daughter, niece, or cousin was the wife of Hakimi or the victims of Benjamin Mendy. Hakimi’s incident shouldn’t be a victory for us men, it is an embarrassment for us. How a man who made his mother proud by reaching a WC semifinal, is now hiding behind her during a divorce that might’ve been caused because of his own mistake. I don’t know about you guys, but that’s not what I learned manhood embodies. Manhood is about accepting and learning from your mistakes, accepting guilt when you merit and not hiding behind your mum. I hope Alfie, you abstain from deleting the comments on these videos, and perhaps in five years those who leave comments praising Hakimi can come back and appreciate how much they’ve matured.

    • @andreitv9921
      @andreitv9921 Год назад +3

      so the Partey thing turned out to be true? huh, good to know, I haven't heard anything about it since "a misterious footballer in North London was accused of rape"

    • @riteshmishra5008
      @riteshmishra5008 Год назад +30

      The irony is social media is filled with woke people and plz don't get me started how easily they get offended

    • @eplv3432
      @eplv3432 Год назад +12

      Hope she sees this...

    • @rafadinhoforlahm
      @rafadinhoforlahm Год назад

      @@riteshmishra5008 please do, explain to me how it’s filled with woke people and explain to me what is “woke”…whenever a bigot uses that word it usually results in them revealing to me how much of a dick they are in the basis that they don’t respect basic human rights, so I beg you tell me what woke means

    • @Not_Sal
      @Not_Sal Год назад

      @@riteshmishra5008 woke is just a dog whistle for “not conservative”

  • @anttirytkonen11
    @anttirytkonen11 Год назад +7

    Oh no! Apparently, one of Finland's 🇫🇮 largest newspapers fell into that misinformation trap today and reported that "news" as facts. Alfie, you're doing an extraordinarily awesome journalistic job! Keep up the great work! ☺️👍🏻

    • @CasualObserver9493
      @CasualObserver9493 Год назад

      LOL "Journalistic job!" To be clear, I love Alfie! But also, to be clear, what he's doing here (as he himself has straight up told us time and time again because he doesn't need that kind of legal pressure) is *not* journalism (and that's perfectly ok, and think it's unfair to hold him to a journalistic standard - you don't have to be a journalist to speak honestly). What he's doing here is simply saying, "Here's a set of clear and obvious facts that I noticed that for some reason I need to say out loud because there are apparently *millions* of people who don't see it or are gaslighting others, and I need to restore some sanity to this world!"
      As Alfie himself said, if he "reports" that Steve Sidwell has never been to Mars, he's not being a journalist, but simply stating a clear and obvious fact! And as you can see, this entire video is a ton of statements like that. At one point, he literally just goes through a series of tweets exchanged between him and some of these misogynistic know-nothings!
      You get the picture! And to be clear, I *understand* why hearing this common sense *feels* like "journalism" (read: honest reporting that is heavily fact-checked and that you can trust to be true) nowadays - because so many disreputable sources *posing* as journals and legitimate sources have appeared in this day and age to try to fool masses into believing that complete nonsense is "fact!" They are so terrible, they make Alfie look like a "real journalist" by simply pointing out things he can be 99.9999% confident are true (such as that Steve Sidwell has never been to Mars)!
      But yes, I guess what I'm trying to say is, *that* is the sad state of this world! The most commonly read "news sources" (in quotes because they literally are *not* news sources - case in point: Fox News anchor Tucker Carlson himself literally argued in court that no reasonable person would believe what he says! Read: he literally admitted that his viewers are certifiably insane) are so full of lies and nonsense, that any random person with the slightest amount of common sense sounds like a genius by comparison!
      Anyway, that all being said, I thank Alfie for helping us regain our sanity during such a time!

  • @beedeesirf1116
    @beedeesirf1116 Год назад +11

    One of Alfie's most entertaining videos ever. There's a lot of competition for that title, but I laughed out loud multiple times and really didn't expect that with the subject matter!

  • @lukasbosina301
    @lukasbosina301 Год назад +7

    Another point about giving money to his mother: in most cases this would have triggered quite some hefty taxes which might have been about as much as he would have to give to his wife.

  • @rahulrego3257
    @rahulrego3257 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's no coincidence that the vast majority of people backing Hakimi are either African, arab or south asian

  • @maba1503
    @maba1503 Год назад +65

    Again a fantastic video! It is so rare these days to find a youtube content creator that still has what a real newswriter should have.

    • @jtduarte6829
      @jtduarte6829 Год назад

      But why do we need to talk about something that is solely a private issue of a person who happens to be a footballer? Is this channel going to become a gossip magazine?

    • @TheJonBob
      @TheJonBob Год назад +17

      @@jtduarte6829 While I think I get where you're coming from, this video wasn't solely talking about a footballers private issues and merely speculating on them. It was pointing out that a story that's been virtually everywhere (badumtss) including a whole host of not just gossip magazines but also being talked about by other footy youtubers is baseless and fake. The video also underlined a broader issue within media reporting nowadays and today's youth instead of just spilling some drama.

    • @maba1503
      @maba1503 Год назад +5

      @@jtduarte6829 sir you are clearly missed the sole purpose of the video

    • @vaffangool9196
      @vaffangool9196 Год назад +9

      ​@@jtduarte6829
      *It's about the shocking extent* to which knee-jerk misogyny and susceptibility to poor-quality information exist among exploitative creators- and cognitively-challenged consumers of football-related content. Anything else you need explained?

    • @archstanton6102
      @archstanton6102 Год назад +6

      ​@@jtduarte6829I thought the video focused on how toxic lies are now spread as facts, with no supporting evidence.

  • @OhneMehrwert
    @OhneMehrwert Год назад +76

    Great video! Just remember, that normal people don’t really have the time or need for attention to tweet about this or tweet in general lol. Its always someone who is insecure and needs to build themselves up. Thats how twitter bubbles work 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @gentleken7864
      @gentleken7864 Год назад

      Yep. The same kind of person you work with who always tells you how busy they are, when they clearly are not. Properly busy people don't have time to tell you how busy they are, because they're really busy, and you can see they're really busy. And also how alpha males don't need to broadcast that they're alphas, whereas betas are always banging on about being alphas, when they're not. Too me, twitter and social media of its type are a scourge on the earth now.

    • @Brwntwn4G
      @Brwntwn4G Год назад

      If Alfie made this video, then surely, he is attention seeking? Insecure, and looking to build himself up?

  • @seandelap8587
    @seandelap8587 Год назад +18

    I have absolutely no idea what this is supposed to be about and it's the first that I've heard of it

  • @neo_corgski4618
    @neo_corgski4618 Год назад +14

    Loved the video, keep up the good work! It's great to see somebody taking note of some of the vile views held by these chronically online losers, as they seem more present than ever

  • @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx
    @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx Год назад +42

    I mean if you’re saying there’s no evidence then you shouldn’t be calling Hakimi that when he hasn’t been proven guilty. It goes both ways.

    • @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx
      @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx Год назад +25

      @David Palero Don’t think I can type it in youtube comments but the R word, you should know if you watched the video

    • @areebsiddiqui758
      @areebsiddiqui758 Год назад +28

      @David Palero His tone made it very clear as to what he thought about Hakimi, proven or not.

    • @deanticocombar7529
      @deanticocombar7529 Год назад +12

      @@davidpalero129 check the comments here people also act like teenagers they are talking as he was rapist and we knew that he was not proved a rapist for now so in his comments people are talking like hakimi was rapist so this kind of behavior was also not acceptable I guess

    • @finnishyank7413
      @finnishyank7413 Год назад +5

      @Kev Burner Let me guess you are a Torie fan since you called Alfie a liberal as if that is a bad thing

    • @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx
      @RicardoHernandez-ii9lx Год назад +2

      @David Palero 6:12 he brings up Hakimi being indicated on R charges on a barstool football quote tweet. Yes like you said it's true but literally had no reason to bring that up when the main point was showing that they had false evidence. It was just a move to lower Hakimi's image and showed his bias when what he wrote in the first paragraph was enough to prove that their post was false.

  • @areebsiddiqui758
    @areebsiddiqui758 Год назад +12

    What happened to innocent until proven guilty? Maybe you need to learn the difference between being indicted for a crime and being convicted for it. Your tone from this video and the way you talk about Hakimi suggests that you're already assuming or even suggesting that he's guilty. Surely, it would make more sense to talk about something as serious as r*pe allegations after the trial has finished and a verdict has been reached with enough evidence to back it in a court of law.
    Secondly, reading off tweets from 13 year olds in a condescending and pretentious way does not make for quality viewing. And spewing some lazy rhetoric about incels, red pills and Andrew Tate is far below your usual high standards Most sane people including myself with lives of their own couldn't care less about two multimillionaires and their divorce settlement. You essentially shared the same view after taking up 30 minutes of our time, admitting yourself that this whole video was rather pointless.
    if you wanted to make a meaningful video on online literacy and misogyny among football fans on social media then there were much better ways to do it.

  • @CaledoniusD
    @CaledoniusD Год назад +5

    👏👏👏 you maybe the best example of responsible journalist integrity I have witness in a long time. Don’t change, change the world

    • @Brwntwn4G
      @Brwntwn4G Год назад +1

      Fucking hell man, he never addresses divorce statistics, he doesn't highlight the age gap and predatory nature of the woman. He doesn't present evidence or facts to support his claim.

  • @lougiacobbi725
    @lougiacobbi725 Год назад +74

    Alfie, you are an internet treasure. Thanks for the entertainment on this one. As someone who never heard of Andrew Tate before he was arrested, my reaction to this proselytizing of misogyny lands somewhere between "Why?" and "What the F..."

  • @eplv3432
    @eplv3432 Год назад +29

    Só it was a fake news. Oh well.. just another day at the office.

  • @paintsniffer401
    @paintsniffer401 Год назад +105

    football fans and misogynism is like peanut butter and jelly at this point

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +18

      Mate you don't even know what's misogyny is

    • @paintsniffer401
      @paintsniffer401 Год назад +43

      @@dedasalmeida9047 what*
      so you're telling me, a made-up or misconstrued story about hakimi's wife having "evil plans" to take his fortune, even though he's accused of sexual assault and she just wants a divorce, isn't rooted in misogynism?

    • @rajorn2223
      @rajorn2223 Год назад +1

      Where's the misogyny, I bet you're a fanatic when it comes to Women's footbal

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +6

      @@paintsniffer401 to some degree it is ...I'm NGL to you it even surprised me however, let's not jump into conclusions to accuse the man of rape... Also if he's innocent she's a bad wife she should know her man well instead of believe BS(if proven innocent)

    • @paintsniffer401
      @paintsniffer401 Год назад +23

      @@dedasalmeida9047 well it's her right to divorce him even if he's innocent, I'm not claiming he's guilty but when you're as wealthy as Hakimi it's hard to actually lose in court even if you are guilty

  • @becca125
    @becca125 Год назад +11

    The media automatically thinking the woman has no money of her own, so depressing.

  • @nleak92
    @nleak92 Год назад +27

    I don't think they're celebrating Hakimi but more the fact that men in general get screwed in divorce courts and its good to see it not happen for a change

    • @nleak92
      @nleak92 Год назад +1

      @David Palero Its fake news that men get screwed in divorce courts?

    • @nleak92
      @nleak92 Год назад +2

      ​@David Palero It could be real, it might not be. Time will tell

    • @fizzyboy08
      @fizzyboy08 Год назад +6

      @@nleak92if it’s real, then the French / Spanish court will severely punish Hakimi with anything from massive fines to years behind bars since hiding your assets from your partner is extremely illegal

    • @ninjalectualx
      @ninjalectualx 10 месяцев назад +1

      LOL. Won't someone think of the men????

  • @RenegadeMaster137
    @RenegadeMaster137 Год назад +12

    Man I just bloody love this channel 💚

  • @gregoryhumblestone2866
    @gregoryhumblestone2866 Год назад +16

    The positive reaction towards this hakimi’s news stems from men just wanting to see men win in divorce settlements. I’m not supporting hakimi in any way but splitting a man’s property in half in divorces should not even be a thing to begin with except in certain circumstances.
    Eboue lost his entire fortune in a settlement. and no woman ever said that was unfair, the world simply moved on. Hakimi gets accused of rape, somehow she feels entitled to more than half of his properties. How does one make up for the other ?

    • @anthonydowney6069
      @anthonydowney6069 Год назад +3

      Yes exactly on point with that observation.

    • @mike.n.n.7723
      @mike.n.n.7723 Месяц назад +1

      Less than 20% of divorces result in splitting of assets and less than 10% result in alimony payments
      Too many men live vicariously through wealthy male celebs and get personally offended when those wealthy men have to split assets with their (usually) stay-at-home wives.

    • @mike.n.n.7723
      @mike.n.n.7723 Месяц назад +1

      The vast majority of divorce settlements that require splitting of assets are where the wife was a stay-at-home mom, who put her career on hold or ended it entirely to take care of the family.
      If both parents were working formal jobs it's extremely rare for the assets to be split straight down the middle

    • @bigbabado8296
      @bigbabado8296 9 дней назад

      ​@@mike.n.n.7723 Wait, you mean the internet and celebrity drama isnt accurste to real life????

  • @i2krez
    @i2krez Год назад +19

    THIS is the content we need, thank you for creating a news sphere that isn’t like those drunk clowns at barstool

  • @garyleonardteacher5162
    @garyleonardteacher5162 Год назад +2

    Couldn't care less about this story but your writing is so good, I watched 2 thirds of it.

  • @simonhurst8960
    @simonhurst8960 Год назад +5

    Thank you very much for this video, this is a fight I’ve been trying to promote despite not having the details you have provided

  • @luisalfonso4694
    @luisalfonso4694 Год назад +11

    Alfie you are a real one, thanks for making a great video on this topic. Hopefully you dont get much hate.

  • @cal-efc8062
    @cal-efc8062 Год назад +38

    Hi Alfie your documentaries are class any chance you can do one about Franco and Spanish football? How he helped certain clubs an what he got up to please?

    • @johnnydragongaming
      @johnnydragongaming Год назад +2

      This is a great idea

    • @theblackmailguy875
      @theblackmailguy875 Год назад +2

      It's a very interesting idea

    • @TheKeylor107
      @TheKeylor107 Год назад +1

      I’d love to see this but having studied the Spanish Civil War, it could be some of his most grim content.

  • @3phistory701
    @3phistory701 Год назад +1

    This is part of the reason fewer and fewer people are getting married and the birth rate is low.

  • @DuxEtRex
    @DuxEtRex Год назад +4

    Bro. Why are you lowering yourself by making insulting comments. I thought you were above that crap. Leave that to the dregs of social media. I used to love this channel, until you became political. I'm out.

  • @Krwler
    @Krwler Год назад +12

    Whether this all happened or not, whether Hakimi’s wife will get a penny or not, men are rejoicing at this news because too many men have, or have seen many men wrecked legally by marriage, divorce, and custody settlements. That is the cause of this reaction, not Andrew Tate or the other crap you came up with.

  • @mamba1203
    @mamba1203 Год назад +3

    Thank god I’m not the only one, I saw those headlines and comments and wondered if he had been proven innocent of the charges because of how people were talking. People really are disgraceful

  • @covcraig88
    @covcraig88 Год назад +12

    This guy and his superiority complex bangs on about “doing his research” yet fails to mention Portnoys “allegations” was a hit piece from left wing publication Business Insider who spent a year trying to find dirt on him. One women didn’t even allege it, it was her mum and the second carried on messaging him weeks after the “alleged” event.. Alfie seems to have missed all of that out. How disingenuous of him.

    • @OpreRoma
      @OpreRoma Год назад

      That's what Portnoy said, word for word. Why do you believe him and none of the dozens of people who have accused him? His attempt to sue for defamation was also dismissed and he refused to follow that up, indicating that the story was more true than he wants to admit...

    • @covcraig88
      @covcraig88 Год назад

      @@OpreRoma I believe him as he had proof and evidence… is it because he is male that you don’t believe him?

  • @adarbarrush
    @adarbarrush Год назад +13

    Man knew she was a gold digger and played 4D chess

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад +1

      Yet he married her.

    • @dcfootball1
      @dcfootball1 Год назад +1

      ​@soundscape26 She was nice and all maybe?

    • @OpreRoma
      @OpreRoma Год назад

      The story is fake. Literally the first thing the video covered. Are you dense or merely empty?

    • @adarbarrush
      @adarbarrush Год назад +2

      @@dcfootball1 right, and when she found out he had all his money under his moms name and she would have to pay him, she decided she didn't want a divorce anymore

    • @adarbarrush
      @adarbarrush Год назад +3

      @@soundscape26 yet he put his money in his mothers name and didn't change it when he married her

  • @Schopenhauer69
    @Schopenhauer69 Год назад +23

    This entire video is just proof of Alfie's ignorance. Hakimi has been writing off his earnings in his mum's name. The money doesn't belong to him.anymore. So, yes, this is win for him. Courts will only consider who had their name on the money. Not who earned it. It also shows Alfie's ignorance of eastern cultures. It is fairly common in the east for wealthy families to retain all assets and wealth in the family. This is specifically done to avoid situations like alimony.

    • @danivarga4868
      @danivarga4868 Год назад +6

      Source: Hakimi’s kitchen sink

    • @user-te1le7ck6b
      @user-te1le7ck6b Год назад +3

      As usual for Alfie

    • @frankreynolds9930
      @frankreynolds9930 Год назад

      Idiot. With that logic, every rich will do that to avoid payment. Also he only started earning big after getting married and having kids so he cant just transfer his new wealth to his mum. Any decent lawyer can easily see through that bullshit.
      Also since they met at Spain, probably married under Spanish law so eastern law bullshit doesn't matter. Is Moroccon called eastern culture when it is in western Africa?

    • @russellliban76
      @russellliban76 Год назад +1

      Alfie should learn more about the Muslim community..

    • @nikolas8203
      @nikolas8203 Год назад

      man how do eastern culture rules apply in a western court of law

  • @briannao9251
    @briannao9251 Год назад +48

    Please make a video on the following topics:
    -Corrine Diacre’s controversial/toxic tenure as the manager of France’s Women’s National team which lead her to get sacked last month
    -The alleged attack on Kheira Hamaroui by her own former PSG Teammate Aminata Diallo
    -The drama/scandal surrounding Gregg Berhalter and Gio Reyna’s parents during the 2022 FIFA World Cup
    -Ranking all of the goals that won the FIFA World Cup Goal of the Tournament Award
    -The Dortmund bus bombing in 2017 right before their Champions League Quarterfinal against Monaco

    • @shanemcgaley8322
      @shanemcgaley8322 Год назад +7

      Zealand did an excellent video on the Berhalter/ Reyna situation

    • @alexgreen4322
      @alexgreen4322 Год назад +4

      These are important topics I'd love to see given the Alfie treatment, nice

    • @shanemcgaley8322
      @shanemcgaley8322 Год назад

      @@alexgreen4322 just keep asking him, it was a long time before the Dublin Dons was covered

  • @FredIsHalfDead
    @FredIsHalfDead Год назад +8

    That sentence from 3:00 - 3:41 might be the best sentence ever uttered

  • @Fenet2000
    @Fenet2000 Год назад +16

    13:25 this doesn't have to apply at all, at least here in Germany
    You can make a marriage contract when you get married, to still keep the wealth of both partners separated. This would mean that there is no shared property at all and everything "they" own would go to they buyer in case of a divorce.
    If the rumour were true, and she gets half, that means only that there was no marriage contract. If they never combined their fortunes, she would get all of her own stuff, but have no claims on his.

    • @rogerallen1283
      @rogerallen1283 Год назад +2

      Yes a prenuptial. I think most western countries have this. Lol

    • @Fenet2000
      @Fenet2000 Год назад +2

      @@rogerallen1283 I know, but it was not even mentioned in the video. Might even be different in the UK.
      But assuming that a football star hasn't got that is just naive. In this case the agent would probably the most stupid man in human history

  • @laurendorronsoro6285
    @laurendorronsoro6285 Год назад +10

    Thank you alfie as a woman in our community it is unbelievably disheartening to see these misogynistic men so often I’m really glad you talked about it thank you

  • @MrYounis26
    @MrYounis26 Год назад +14

    Cool, when should we expect to see a "We Need To Talk About Benjamin Mendy & The 10 False Charges In Which 8 Have Been Unanimously Acquitted"

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад +4

      Mendys not been unanimously acquitted check your facts

    • @MrYounis26
      @MrYounis26 Год назад +8

      @@ebuns reread what I wrote, out of the 10 he has already been unanimously acquitted for all but 2, and those 2 are pending.

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад

      @@MrYounis26 I have and that kind of goes against you calling 10 charges false when 2 are still pending. So would it not make sense waiting till all 10 have been judged in court? Or you just out here defending people you've never met personally blindly?

    • @talhahhussain5603
      @talhahhussain5603 Год назад

      @@ebuns How about now?

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад

      @@talhahhussain5603 what about now?? My comments were posted Two months ago whilst two charges were still pending and Mendy has been unanimously acquitted now

  • @refilwemokoene2922
    @refilwemokoene2922 Год назад +4

    "I was going to have to do a tweet", is the most Alfie thing I've ever heard.

  • @yorkshirej2219
    @yorkshirej2219 Год назад +3

    I like to listen to these videos when I'm doing something else a bit like a podcast but I might have to sit down and watch them from now on. The reference photos you put up while throwing shade at people is brilliant 3:20 especially

    • @reflectionz7705
      @reflectionz7705 Год назад +1

      i’ve always actually watched them when i tried watching them without sound for so i could listen and do a school project i kept being tempted to look so i could see the pictures and the great jokes i was missing out on

  • @bpnk5237
    @bpnk5237 Год назад +6

    She was trying to trap him from start. Also she shouldn't get half of such huge assets for no reason.

    • @yourmum955
      @yourmum955 Год назад +1

      Proof? How do you know that? You friends with her or something?

    • @bpnk5237
      @bpnk5237 Год назад +3

      ​@@yourmum955 he was 19 and she was 31, she was definitely grooming him

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад

      @@bpnk5237 Consenting adults.

    • @commentstealer4460
      @commentstealer4460 Год назад

      @@soundscape26 still she doesn't deserve sh*t for only 3 years of marriage

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад

      @@commentstealer4460 That's for the courts to decide.

  • @cobii5174
    @cobii5174 Год назад +2

    like seriously thank u for making this it’s so important

  • @BALHAM69
    @BALHAM69 Год назад +21

    a documentary of Borussia Dortmund and how they were extremely close to bankruptcy in 2002 time and how Bayern had to save them. The extreme difficulties the club has had to manage within to get back to where they are #thepeopleschannel

    • @Angel-xf2lc
      @Angel-xf2lc Год назад

      I think he made a video similar to that, im not entirely sure tho

    • @BALHAM69
      @BALHAM69 Год назад

      @@Angel-xf2lc what is that called?😊

    • @Angel-xf2lc
      @Angel-xf2lc Год назад

      @@BALHAM69 couldn’t find the video, I swear i saw smt from this channel but it might’ve been another channel i was thinking of, sorry mate😢

    • @BALHAM69
      @BALHAM69 Год назад

      @@Angel-xf2lc that’s ok

  • @Eclecticompany
    @Eclecticompany Год назад +3

    I would only add that I don't think Jordan Peterson deserves to be lumped in with the Andrew Tates of this world.

  • @FAOHUESOS
    @FAOHUESOS Год назад +2

    I will never un-see "Shaw" as "sure" now

  • @batemanlife
    @batemanlife Год назад +7

    Amazing as ever. Great channel

  • @kanadeba
    @kanadeba Год назад +2

    Alfie is a beacon of sanity in a world of horribility

  • @abrahammuwanga9887
    @abrahammuwanga9887 Год назад +5

    The best account of RUclips delivers once again

  • @itschris2628
    @itschris2628 Год назад +6

    This is why you don’t use twitter

  • @ganaed
    @ganaed Год назад +6

    I love HITC Sevens. Thank you

    • @augustusfreeman4032
      @augustusfreeman4032 Год назад +3

      This video isn't good either dude.

    • @ganaed
      @ganaed Год назад +1

      @@augustusfreeman4032 really? Why so? Even so I still got a lot of love for Alfie and the channel

  • @ulishamiti4038
    @ulishamiti4038 Год назад +2

    The first 15 minutes of this video are Alfie's sarcasm thesis showcased in the most spectacular way possible lmfao

  • @MickeyKraut419
    @MickeyKraut419 Год назад +21

    Alfie, you're a breath of fresh air in the football landscape that speaks with reason and intellect in the age of the echo chamber of confirmation and stupidity bias that is most forms of social media. The idiocy you covered in this video is precisely why I have never, and will never sign up for twitter, lol.

  • @SofaK1ingN1c3
    @SofaK1ingN1c3 Год назад +1

    You're spot on saying they'll grow out of it, I was a proper arse in my teens and early 20s I grew out of it pretty quick and grew some common sense. I just hope some of these kids have the ability of critical thinking and a good friend group to show them sense.

  • @Cottocandokeebs
    @Cottocandokeebs Год назад +4

    It's crazy how many mainstream media outlets have picked this up without any source and even the likes of Andrew Schulz and Thogden are talking about this as real and Glorifying Hakimi and saying things like "Real life 4D chess" or "massive dub by Hakimi" it's really outrageous

    • @SortOfEggish
      @SortOfEggish 8 месяцев назад

      Shulzy holds hands with his dad when they cry together. He's a fucking loser that glorifies losers

  • @annabellekremens2051
    @annabellekremens2051 Год назад

    i’m a very big fan of this channel and even more so after watching this, you put everything going through my mind while looking at twitter during this whole nightmare into a video🙌

  • @dragosi8980
    @dragosi8980 Год назад +17

    Yeah...this is also not fair coverage at all. You seem to really treat a guy accused of something just as bad as someone actually convicted of it. What happened to innocent until proven guilty?

    • @frankreynolds9930
      @frankreynolds9930 Год назад +2

      Did you even watch the video. He defender her way more. Also even if accused are charged, most sexist fans don't care.

    • @frankreynolds9930
      @frankreynolds9930 Год назад +3

      @Mir Baloch Khan Alfie used alleged everywhere because French police has indicted Hakimi. So I don't know where this commentor is talking about convicted. This video is more about fake story.

  • @kuroazrem5376
    @kuroazrem5376 Год назад +6

    Lesson of the story: Do not get married

  • @davidzhuleiva
    @davidzhuleiva Год назад +11

    Thank you, Alfie. Hope this money somehow gets passed on to you, even though RUclips probably pays this out to HITC
    Edit: Also, I agree with all the positive comments, I couldn’t have said it better myself.

  • @LunchSays
    @LunchSays Год назад +5

    A big hello to the people who married their sole mates.

  • @A.corona717
    @A.corona717 Год назад +4

    We definitely need more people like you in this world very good video 🤝

    • @AbdallahSomali
      @AbdallahSomali Год назад +5

      You definitely need more people who are aligned with your ideas.

  • @natanmihretu4532
    @natanmihretu4532 Год назад +3

    What I found bonkers is the fact people would assume a person (who they suspect of malintent!) Wouldn't know their partners financial status.

  • @rogerhaddad7937
    @rogerhaddad7937 Год назад +4

    Since his ex-wife is a strong, independent and wealthy woman she shouldn't want his money.😂

  • @societyoffriends7414
    @societyoffriends7414 Год назад +4

    Thanks Alfie for making this video!

  • @whufcforeverr
    @whufcforeverr Год назад +4

    Thanks for making this, it's done my head in to see so many pages pump out this '4D chess' bullshit about it and people making him out to be a hero

  • @adebayoadegbite904
    @adebayoadegbite904 Год назад +2

    This is wholesome content. It's nice to hear a voice of reason pushing back against all that crap.

  • @Desabafando10
    @Desabafando10 Год назад +6

    Day 9: best XI Brazilians that played for other nations

  • @canonogic
    @canonogic Год назад +15

    So it's okay to brand someone an "accused rapist" but misogynistic when branding someone else "greedy"

    • @williamcross210
      @williamcross210 Год назад +11

      Hakimi is indicted that is an accusation, so accused rapist is a true statement.

    • @kingjahad100
      @kingjahad100 Год назад +4

      ​@@williamcross210 and greedy is true for her

    • @OpreRoma
      @OpreRoma Год назад +2

      @@kingjahad100 Greedy is an opinion. Accused rapist is a quantifiable fact
      Hope this basic lesson on language helps! Would hope you'd covered the difference between fact and opinion in primary school though...

    • @abhikrajan8904
      @abhikrajan8904 4 месяца назад

      @@kingjahad100 the court did the branding.

  • @silvesta5027
    @silvesta5027 Год назад +9

    Blows my mind people believed this story so readily. Alfie you’re an absolute treasure

    • @Brwntwn4G
      @Brwntwn4G Год назад +3

      Why did they believe it so readily? I don't understand why you don't address the reason why?
      Because divorces never go that way and we need to talk about it.

    • @Yhsprs711
      @Yhsprs711 Год назад

      ​@@Brwntwn4G Just kids who've been brainwashed by Andrew tate celebrating a fake story

    • @silvesta5027
      @silvesta5027 Год назад +4

      @@Brwntwn4G Before this I saw this RUclips short by Thogden on this topic. ‘Achraf Hakimi is a genius.’ Have a quick look at the comments there if you’d like. I genuinely couldn’t believe my eyes 💀
      I think it just comes down to people shutting their brains off and believing anything they hear as long as it conforms to their biases. People liked the heartwarming story about Hakimi and his mum during the World Cup, so they wanted to see him painted in a good light. There was zero thought process beyond that.
      And yeah, how such a large number of people don’t know even the basics of how a divorce works absolutely baffles me as well 😭

  • @dougidouglas3210
    @dougidouglas3210 Год назад +11

    Don't worry my friend, life and time will teach you a very valuable lesson about vindictive women. Leaving an alleged rapist is not the issue, demanding more than half of what he worked for after Leaving is. A woman 10 years older that a man will never marry a boy without a motive. I'm 1000% certain that is she met him living in the slums of Morocco he would never turned her head.

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад +1

      Did you even watch the video? Judging by the description you made of her I assume you didn't.

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад +1

      She's 12 years older so maybe do some research and get your facts right. You seem to be missing the main point that he is an alleged rapist(your words) and without him cheating(which he has addmited the question is concent) they would still be married with the two kids they also have maybe do some research instead of just reading headlines

    • @dougidouglas3210
      @dougidouglas3210 Год назад +1

      @Ebuns0304 don't care about research! And I know she is 36 he is 24. My point is, all gold diggers can go fuck themselves! No one man/woman deserves half of someone's else assets without contributing to acquisition of said assets!

  • @Wuehewnqnejejwebdbd
    @Wuehewnqnejejwebdbd Год назад +6

    Normally it would make sense. But this woman was a predator, started dating him just a while he stopped becoming a minor and married him for the sole reason of taking away 50% of his wealth. So, I'm satisfied with this conclusion.

    • @kpamanahkebbie4016
      @kpamanahkebbie4016 Год назад +1

      Do you know her personally? Guess you didn‘t watch the video..

  • @JohnM-sw4sc
    @JohnM-sw4sc Год назад +6

    The only thing we need to talk about is what a smoke she is. She can have half this one room apartment anytime

  • @ebuns
    @ebuns Год назад +16

    Ahh thanks Alfie this video is needed
    People are too quick to praise Hakimi before seeing the details of why they are getting a divorce. Just goes to show how you need to read things properly before making a judgement.
    He's admitted something happened with the accused too which is good enough reason for the marriage to end in its self let alone the rape alligation but somehow she's in the wrong.

    • @yangthuggie5647
      @yangthuggie5647 Год назад +6

      Soo you not supposed to trust your spouse? No innocent until proven guilty? Kobe Bryant got accused of grape too, Vanessa stood by his side.

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад +5

      @@yangthuggie5647 Yes you are but if you actually look into the story here he admitted infidelity the question is the concent. So that's proves she can't trust him so why would she stick by him?

    • @yangthuggie5647
      @yangthuggie5647 Год назад +8

      @@ebuns when did he admitted? What article? Even his mom stood by him, why couldn't you? The timing of it is too perfect. As soon as shit hit the fan " oh im out btw you gotta gimme half of your shit even the things you own before we got married"

    • @ebuns
      @ebuns Год назад +4

      @@yangthuggie5647 any article that came out as soon he got arrested and suspended by psg. Mum's stick by people no matter what so that's irrelevant. I get your point it does look like that if you didn't know about his arrest in the first place.
      They broke up as soon as he was arrested

    • @yangthuggie5647
      @yangthuggie5647 Год назад +9

      @@ebuns he didnt get arrested. Its still on going investigation. And the woman who accused him of rape still didnt press charges. Look the point is the timing she files for divorce is too sus. All im sayin is she didnt deserved what she want, you Demanded HALF of his fortune?? Cmon you could get some compensation but not half. Peace

  • @Rkralv
    @Rkralv Год назад +1

    so proud of you to making this video

  • @luyandapapiyana5526
    @luyandapapiyana5526 Год назад +10

    I don't agree with some your statements, especially about the concept marriage. Many men out there suffer from infidelity, toxicity and misogyny from women. Then when they want to divorce their wife. They are met with a 50/50 assets agreement. Now tell me that's fair. I know men do those things, but the exception doesn't make the rule. 70% of divorces are initiated by women in the USA. What does that tell you?

    • @soundscape26
      @soundscape26 Год назад

      "misogyny from women" - That's called misandry. As for that 70% figure... hummm, maybe men tend to be more unfaithful and go looking for greener grass than women. As a reward they get a divorce.

    • @OpreRoma
      @OpreRoma Год назад +1

      It tells you a few things:
      - Gender roles. Men are socialised to have lower emotional intelligence than women. It is thus more likely that a man emotionally neglects a woman than the other way around. I stress that I say more likely, not always
      - This difference in emotional intelligence also means women are more likely to spot problems in a relationship and are also more likely to understand exactly what they're feeling
      - in the US, women take on the majority of the actual work of maintaining marriage, family, and the home. They're more likely to make significant sacrifices to actually make a marriage work. So when it doesn't work, they're more likely to be pissed off enough to end it
      Now this next one may trigger a few snowflakes in these comments...
      - Women are more likely to be the victims of serious abuse at levels where a divorce may be considered. In the US, 84% of spousal murder victims are women, and women are 6 times more likely to be injured by a partner. While research on rates of domestic violence themselves are varied and inconclusive, it is agreed generally among academics who study such things that domestic violence from men is a far more serious problem due to the much higher risk of injury and psychological problems as a result. Thus, more women will find themselves in a relationship where serious shit happens to them and they can't take it anymore. Bear in mind, I say this as someone who grew up in a household where the woman was very much the abuser
      One thing that is notable is that it's women who are independently wealthy or college educated that are more likely to file for divorce. Divorce is a difficult and complex thing for both parties, and leaving a marriage when you don't have the means currently to fend for yourself is terrifying

  • @refilwemokoene2922
    @refilwemokoene2922 Год назад +2

    So you're giving her 50% of everything you made and you get nothing from her if you're both working? Yeah that's fair.

  • @tommyk6947
    @tommyk6947 Год назад +5

    Dude learn to get to the point of the video post. I wanna watch it but u feel us the viewers with way too much garbage first. Get to the story first then spill that garbage later..plizzzz. Big ups to Hakimi

    • @nikolas8203
      @nikolas8203 Год назад +1

      this has always been his video style, and we love it. You are welcome to leave

    • @tommyk6947
      @tommyk6947 Год назад +1

      @@nikolas8203 I never joined

  • @noaffiliation-x8w
    @noaffiliation-x8w Год назад +1

    I agree with the premise of the video but when talking about wealth, let’s not act like the divorce courts aren’t notoriously sexist AND misogynistic. A court system can exhibit misogyny and still be in favour of women.

  • @joefaucette925
    @joefaucette925 Год назад +3

    thank you for making this!

  • @leaguesmanoframsgate
    @leaguesmanoframsgate Год назад +3

    Proper comment: I had managed to miss this story, and I am very, very glad I did.

  • @Abhishek3108_Minj
    @Abhishek3108_Minj Год назад +4

    Well sad for couples but you can't ask someone half wealth work for your own money.

  • @ShaneWKenneth
    @ShaneWKenneth Год назад +19

    What we need to talk about is abolishing Capitalism and stopping the destruction of the family, culture, environment and human psyche in the pursuit of private profit for an extreme minority.

    • @spazzyd840
      @spazzyd840 Год назад +8

      Based

    • @man4437
      @man4437 Год назад +12

      But if we do that, what will happen to the microscopically small chance that I will get to attain top dog status in the economic oppression ladder?

    • @yasin_GD
      @yasin_GD Год назад +1

      The extreme minority of billionaires right?

    • @dedasalmeida9047
      @dedasalmeida9047 Год назад +6

      Abolishing capitalism and then adopt what system?

    • @suinwqj
      @suinwqj Год назад +2

      ​@@dedasalmeida9047 Most likely communism lol

  • @konstancja74
    @konstancja74 Год назад +3

    Whenever I go on twitter I need brain bleach in order to forget what I've seen. Thanks Alfie.