My friend recently told me that she finally started feeling like her old self again after have a child two years ago. She said her psychologist told her that in someone people postpartum can take years to get through. Not hopeful at all, I’m sure but I just wanted to let you know your not alone. Postpartum is real and needs to be talked about more. Thanks for sharing.
We put our Daughter in her crib at 5 months and it only took a few days and aside from a couple sleep regressions due to illness she is a great sleeper. Shes 2.5 years old so that could change but I pray it doesn’t. You’re doing a great job!
i found that when the bubs clothing size changes slow down a bit (so instead of 3 month upsizing, it's 6 month) - they also stop changing so rapidly and you can actually find your groove 😅 it's coming!
My daughter turned 3 in November of ‘23 and i will tell you… it took my about 2 and half years for me to finally feel like i was getting to a place within myself where i felt more like me. You’re not alone and it’s not redundant to talk about such things. Take care of yourself and be patient. You’re killing it!
My sister is in a similar situation, she went back to work last week after giving birth back in September, she's been an emotional wreck with that and then we had the crazy weather which we dont really get here and then the formula that her doctor recommended was recalled and she couldn't find it anywhere and had to try something different which made baby break out with some sort of rash so she's just been put through it since this year began.
Lisa! I need you and the cast from Talking Tom & Friends needs you!! They want you to come and they want you to act in Talking Tom & Friends Season 6!!!
we're here to hearabout you, so hearing about the biggest thing affecting you right now besides your human baby is what we're here for. cant be annoying !
It can take a really long time to start feeling normal again after having a baby. Be patient with yourself ❤ I think it took me about a year honestly. Also transitioning my daughter to her bed was very hard on me. She actually did so well and didn’t need us as much as I thought she would and that kinda broke my heart lol. But it’s so cool making these big strides and figuring out what works for your family. You’re doing fantastic ❤
Should I have a kid I want one but gosh seeing the reality of how hard and exhausting it is I’m worried I can’t handle it I’m already tired from working so much I’m not sure any moms out there any advice if you could go back would you not have kids? I’m an adult btw I kind of have to make a decision sooner than later unfortunately due to age Thank you
I recommend you listen or read The Nurture Revolution: Grow Your Baby's Brain and Transform Their Mental Health Through the Art of Nurtured Parenting Book by Greer Kirshenbaum!
Hi Lisa! Be careful with the „sleep training”. When baby’s crying it says „I need you”. When you let it cry it out, the only thing you’re showing the baby is that it can’t receive help. The baby stops crying but only because it knows that no one is coming, it never stops feeling the initial need. Not to be cruel but I just cannot stand the „sleep training” methods. You know where kids don’t cry and lay in silence? In orphanages, where no one has their backs…
When the parents leave the child to cry itself to sleep, the babies brain learn that they are alone and no one is coming to calm them. So, they stop reaching out for the parents, and that damages the babies emotional development. Small children cant self-sooth themselves, it's a trauma respond to survive. Not even adults are able to self-sooth themselves, so why are parents mistreating their small babies to cry themselves to sleep. They are way too young for that. Babies arent born with adult cognitive abilities, so stop expecting severely underdeveloped brains to self-sooth
anyone who has had cognitive behavioural therapy for anxiety disorders can tell you the opposite is actually true, for calming our brain's limbic system. if you ALWAYS give in and soothe your anxieties, your brain never learns that there is no real threat, and becomes more and more hypersensitive to threats. sleep training babies (within reason, to guidelines), should actually help them regulate their emotions and not feel so helpless and threatened. it sounds counterintuitive, and that's why anxiety therapy is so hard - but it's true. our brains learn through exposure and repetition, that there is no threat and we don't need to seek relief anymore. i know from experience, it feels much better.
I think that would only happen if the child has a need that isn't being fulfilled. My son fusses when he's sleepy so I just give him a few minutes and he's fast asleep and he sleeps through the night and he's a very happy 2 yr old
@@TaterTot_6717 Wanting your parents warmth, love and being held is a very big need for small children. Always hug your kids while they actually want your love. One day they wont seek you out anymore because you left them alone whilst being sad/upset. And then the parents will be the ones begging for a hug and time to do stuff together
My friend recently told me that she finally started feeling like her old self again after have a child two years ago. She said her psychologist told her that in someone people postpartum can take years to get through. Not hopeful at all, I’m sure but I just wanted to let you know your not alone. Postpartum is real and needs to be talked about more. Thanks for sharing.
This!!!!!!❤❤❤❤
Hearing her babble in the background was so cute. Enjoy solids! It’s so fun watching their reactions to trying different flavours.
Missed you, but totally understand 🥰 glad the four of you are doing so well xxxx
You and Jeff are nailing it!
We put our Daughter in her crib at 5 months and it only took a few days and aside from a couple sleep regressions due to illness she is a great sleeper. Shes 2.5 years old so that could change but I pray it doesn’t. You’re doing a great job!
Much love, Lisa, and good luck with your shows!
✨✨✨✨✨You both are doing an amazing job. Sending all the 🥰and✨✨✨✨✨
i found you through two broken girls!!!! i love the reference so much
We love you & miss you but absolutely understand the breaks, take your time, focus on the fam & he kind to yourself ❤️
Glad to see you back, Lisa! Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Also the woolino sleep sack has been great to help my baby sleep
i found that when the bubs clothing size changes slow down a bit (so instead of 3 month upsizing, it's 6 month) - they also stop changing so rapidly and you can actually find your groove 😅 it's coming!
I’m at work and can’t watch this yet. But wanted to comment real quick just to say I’ve missed your videos.
Have a great 👍 day and a GREAT weekend, Lisa! 🎉
My daughter turned 3 in November of ‘23 and i will tell you… it took my about 2 and half years for me to finally feel like i was getting to a place within myself where i felt more like me. You’re not alone and it’s not redundant to talk about such things. Take care of yourself and be patient. You’re killing it!
You’re amazing! ❤
Love ya Lisa! Have a great weekend ❤️
My sister is in a similar situation, she went back to work last week after giving birth back in September, she's been an emotional wreck with that and then we had the crazy weather which we dont really get here and then the formula that her doctor recommended was recalled and she couldn't find it anywhere and had to try something different which made baby break out with some sort of rash so she's just been put through it since this year began.
Lisa! I need you and the cast from Talking Tom & Friends needs you!! They want you to come and they want you to act in Talking Tom & Friends Season 6!!!
I'm also exhausted 😴
I think as a collective consciousness, we all relate to this. 😂😭
I love that our babies are the same age. I feel like I’m learning with you
we're here to hearabout you, so hearing about the biggest thing affecting you right now besides your human baby is what we're here for. cant be annoying !
Love y'all 🎉🎉🎉
You are doing such an amazing job 🎉🎉🎉
It can take a really long time to start feeling normal again after having a baby. Be patient with yourself ❤ I think it took me about a year honestly. Also transitioning my daughter to her bed was very hard on me. She actually did so well and didn’t need us as much as I thought she would and that kinda broke my heart lol. But it’s so cool making these big strides and figuring out what works for your family. You’re doing fantastic ❤
I'm really proud of you. 😊
Just started my day
Jeff is so adorable & funny!
Omg yay ur back!
💖
Should I have a kid I want one but gosh seeing the reality of how hard and exhausting it is I’m worried I can’t handle it I’m already tired from working so much I’m not sure any moms out there any advice if you could go back would you not have kids? I’m an adult btw I kind of have to make a decision sooner than later unfortunately due to age
Thank you
amazing. You play Angela in talking tom and friends right?
Annie is gonna turn 18 and yall are just gonna look like you’ve survived a war (especially Jeff) 😂😂
Babies are amazing but also exhausting
I recommend you listen or read The Nurture Revolution: Grow Your Baby's Brain and Transform Their Mental Health Through the Art of Nurtured Parenting
Book by Greer Kirshenbaum!
❤Hi
Hi Lisa! Be careful with the „sleep training”. When baby’s crying it says „I need you”. When you let it cry it out, the only thing you’re showing the baby is that it can’t receive help. The baby stops crying but only because it knows that no one is coming, it never stops feeling the initial need. Not to be cruel but I just cannot stand the „sleep training” methods. You know where kids don’t cry and lay in silence? In orphanages, where no one has their backs…
The thinning of the hair yikes
When the parents leave the child to cry itself to sleep, the babies brain learn that they are alone and no one is coming to calm them. So, they stop reaching out for the parents, and that damages the babies emotional development. Small children cant self-sooth themselves, it's a trauma respond to survive. Not even adults are able to self-sooth themselves, so why are parents mistreating their small babies to cry themselves to sleep. They are way too young for that. Babies arent born with adult cognitive abilities, so stop expecting severely underdeveloped brains to self-sooth
anyone who has had cognitive behavioural therapy for anxiety disorders can tell you the opposite is actually true, for calming our brain's limbic system.
if you ALWAYS give in and soothe your anxieties, your brain never learns that there is no real threat, and becomes more and more hypersensitive to threats. sleep training babies (within reason, to guidelines), should actually help them regulate their emotions and not feel so helpless and threatened. it sounds counterintuitive, and that's why anxiety therapy is so hard - but it's true. our brains learn through exposure and repetition, that there is no threat and we don't need to seek relief anymore. i know from experience, it feels much better.
I think that would only happen if the child has a need that isn't being fulfilled. My son fusses when he's sleepy so I just give him a few minutes and he's fast asleep and he sleeps through the night and he's a very happy 2 yr old
@@TaterTot_6717 Wanting your parents warmth, love and being held is a very big need for small children. Always hug your kids while they actually want your love. One day they wont seek you out anymore because you left them alone whilst being sad/upset. And then the parents will be the ones begging for a hug and time to do stuff together