Your ~Gayest~ Secrets (this was OUT OF CONTROL)
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
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I NEED MORE OF THIS... MORE GAY CONFESSIONS please?
Yessss I’m so glad you enjoyed this!!
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial +
Watch rose and Rosie lez confess
Me too 😄😄
My best friend and I both realised we were both asexual, decided we only wanted to marry each other and have felt a lot of comfort in knowing we will probs spend our lives together rescuing animals and adopting old people 😅
omg this is the most wholesome thing I have ever read ^_^
Old people need rescuing in 2020 and 2021.
That’s precious
Omg you've just described my dream. I hope that I can find this level of happiness and I wish you both all the best!!
Most gorgeous thing I've ever read, I might print this out and pin it above my bed.
“Church or Bible Camp, those are really the place to find the hidden gays”
My friends and I go to a catholic school and we are all closeted gays. 😀
Lmao 🤣 I’mma bout to go to art school… so yeah ….
Same haha
me too lmaoo all my friends are fruity
i love the king pfp
@@vicko4788 aww thx
Alayna be like "In case anybody here didn't know I'm a gay woman, I want them to know." I feel you Alayna, I feel you.
Me in my snazzy mens button-up 👁👄👁
@@alexbarone9443 Lmao yuup, literally stole 6 of my dad's shirts, and they're like 3 sizes bigger than my shirts, I love them 😂
Gosh, massive mood
To all the "I'm in love with my best friend" confessors: I was friends with my now wife for 5 years before either of us made a move, we both regret not telling each other sooner. Tell her!
What if I love my best friend [ aka my girlfriends best friend too ] and my girlfriend???
@@kimmel636 Polyamorous?
This is so cute
On the flip side for anyone worried about the rejection, I was close friends with my friend/crush for about 6 years before I told her how I felt (mostly because I was still figuring things out) and when I finally did, she said something along the lines of "I'm flattered but I don't see it" and we continued being friends like normal. I think our situation worked out because she knew I would respect her boundaries and I didn't put her on a pedestal, so it wasn't like she broke my heart or I was fawning over her after confession. I just wanted to put it out there, she didn't pick it up, so I threw it somewhere else and we kept seeing each other on a friendly basis (it's been about 15 years since then) and we're still very close. At the time of confession I had thought all women had some interest in other women (and maybe they do but I just wasn't her type 😅) so she helped me accept straight women on that far end of the spectrum who aren't even interested in experimenting.
@@kimmel636 this happened to me, I told her and it turned out we all had crushes on eachother... if you're cool with poly its really great
The girl who ended up in a three-way with her professor is living the dream. What gay girl didn't have an unhealthy crush on at least one of their professors?
Threesome, checked
Sex with a professor, checked
Sex with a cop, checked
All of that in just one encounter.
I think that was fake. Some incel fantasy.
@@wavygravy30 like incels watch Alayna and pretend to be girls
@@jabon8832 Nope, exactly my point.
Alayna's response of "share with the class" was a top tier pun.
For the people who don't want to tell their crushes that they have a crush on them, 3 of my friends have confessed their feelings for me and I don't feel the same way to either of them. The friendship has continued between us and nothing changed. Honestly just tell people how you feel
wow you’re very popular 😳
@@rrrrrrrrrr9354 😊
I did not continue friendships with people who asked me out. Can't shake the feeling that the friendship is less meaningful since they had an ulterior motive
@@radiationshepherd As much as I understand that, it's the reason people are scared to tell their crushes. They value the friendship more than anything else and that's why it takes them a long time. Usually there's no "ulterior motive" but feelings developed through spending time with the person. Most people can get over it and continue the friendship :)
@@butterbeer4582 I agree and disagree in the same time. It really depends on the person, and yes, people can be sexually and/orromanticallyattraced from the begining of a relationship and don't tell the other and the latter jus think it's friendship. Not automatically make it an "ulterior motive" though, but can definitively still change the relationship, or even end it, if the person "being persued" know that the other whish for more/wasn't actually satisfyed/fulfilled with their current relatonship actually.
When I was kindergarten I had no idea what lgbtq+ but me and a girl (I’m a girl) decided we wanted to get married and have children. We were like 7. I think this was the first clue of my gayness
Oh, I also had a "wife" around that age 💓 It felt really good. Then I forgot about it unill recently
okay, this needs to become a regular thing because this is glorious
It’s kinda like Lez Confess on Rose and Rosie’s channel
I sewed all my short sleeved shirts so that they’re forever cuffed 👍
Now there’s an idea
I've definitely considered doing that before! 3 T-shirts down lol
I did it to all my bands t-shirts
Me too! Well the majority of them. Love cuffed sleeve shirt and pants.
Is there any specific technique to sewing them so they dont show the seem? I would think that it would look like hemmed pants otherwise. Please advise. Girl needs to fix her falling cuffs
that moment when you're watching this at work and then alayna reads out your secret...
omg which one was you which one was you 😘
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial hahaha omg i didn't think you'd actually see this! how dare you expose me like this miss alayna 😅 well let's just say that journey home from mexico was one for the history books... so now that i have exposed one of my dirty gay little secrets i hope this at least turns into a never-ending series cause i've got lots more stories to tell 😜
@@AnniBaby94 Unfortunately, yours is not one of the ones Alayna had questions about.
@@AnniBaby94 I can’t tell if you’re the mile high club one or the wedding night 3 way one! … if it’s the first one I never understood how someone could go from dirty looks to hooking up?! Doesn’t dirty looks usually mean you DON’T like someone 😳
@@boland73 So, she and her gf were provoking the woman giving them nasty looks by being intimate and handsy with each other and THEY did the sexual stuff.
When I heard the one about the socks my brain immediately said "be gay, do crime!" Lol 😆
"WHAT'S THE GAY PART OF THIS SECRET???"
I swear you need to make t shirts
And "Me. I am the gay secret." on the back
"you're maintaining this friendship relationship in the hopes that something might happen" hit me where it hurts why don't ya lol
Tell her
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle easier said than done 😔
@@shobo4482 always
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle but at the same time not telling her could so end up hurting you so it's a bit of a mixed situation lol
@@shobo4482 You should always tell her how you feel, but there's always a chance it won't end up well.
One of my ex, when she told her best friend that she was bi and really liked her, her best friend slapped her.
Not all lesbians are repulsed by men? Oh, perhaps I should discuss this in therapy 😬
Not all of us♥️
Some are, but like in the way some are sex repulsed. It’s not motivated by hatred, but it’s just an extreme discomfort in the idea to be with a man.
For me, I’m not personally repulsed by the thought of being with a man. The thing is, nothing’s *there*, like the same romantic feelings feelings I have with women? I feel none of that with men.
Feel free not to answer, but is it anything similar to how you might feel about being sexual with a woman you're attracted to?
I'm bisexual/omnisexual & attracted to people of all genders, so I just have "people I'm attracted to" and "people I'm not" haha.
I'm not completely repulsed by men but being in a relationship with a man is a whole different story like I don't think I could be in a romantic relationship with a guy to me it just feels uncomfortable and creepy idk if anyone can relate but here's my opinion
@Solarmoo yes I am
Hell no. My best/closest male friend was best man at my and my wife's wedding 10 years ago.
He and my wife get on really well, too.
Why would we be repulsed?
YES! Rejection is normal. Rejection is healthy. Tell someone if you love them. If they reject you, accept the rejection and be free to love someone else.
Accept the rejection and be free to love someone else 😲 Genius! Such great advice! I feel like people spend way too much time wondering. Redistribute that energy elsewhere if it's not reciprocated instead of it festering inside your head & heart!
@reverb - That's such wonder advice! I took a screenshot of your comment to save on my phone. 👍😊
“Hey bestie… love you… but like. I actually like love you” lmao 😂
I love that part too🤣🤣🤣
The Sun shines in England? Who knew!
Fake news lol
😂😂😂
I think it's as frequent as total solar eclipses.
You helped me to accept myself and come out to the world (it went well)
Congrats!
omg congrats!! 🌈🌈
Congrats!
I assume that the "I" part of the stealing paw patrol socks one was the gay part of the secret. Though, is it really a secret if you did it yesterday and you told the internet immediately?
No, I think 'being drunk on playground' is the gay part
Doing it every time xd ✌🏻
@@nikolacechova1841 i concur. I too have been drunk on a playground. lol
Alayna talking about cuffing her sleeves is the biggest mood
Hi. As someone who’s in love with their best friend and we are both pansexual, I’ve told her, it’s been six months and we’re not together but we did move in together. She sleeps in my arms every night. Sometimes things like this can move slow and is TERRIFYING but so worth it
I read a quote once that said something like relationships are terrifying because they always end badly; either you break up or one of you dies. It's not easy being vulnerable especially when you don't know what to expect, but I would just say to enjoy it now and worry later if you can
came here for Alayna, staying for the cuffs
Valid
British sun... newbie mistake! When it shines, it’s strong, it burns...
I made the same mistake and suffered on the first hot day 😂 my scalp peeled
My favorite glorious little sunbeam. It's so perfect her name Joy because that's just what she bring us!
"it's not safe for work, but it sure is effective!!" im dying
as I was reading this she literally said it at the same time
"I told you I was gay right?" We know Alayna. Literally all of us :P
I’m 25 and engaged and just now realizing a lot of occasions in my life that I may be attracted to girls…. I think I’m possibly Bi but very confused, I only realized this a week ago😬
Good luck
It will get easier and less confusing. 💕 you have to take some time and really be honest with yourself about what you want.
@@chimbo8741 Thank you! 🥺 I really do love my fiance and he knows about it and still loves me and is okay with it. I guess I’ll have time to figure it all out! 💗
So about the person who likes to do it themselves while their so is sleeping next to them,
First of all you should just tell them that, honesty is very important
Also I think you might be asexual maybe
Asexuality spectrum is very wide
Yeah, I would be mortified if I woke up to that without consenting to it beforehand. Might just be my hypervigilance talking though.
I was thinking the same thing. Sounds pretty ace to me.
@@jubilationcryer it's not your hyperviligance. that's all I was thinking then as well
My girlfriend has a similar kink, I'm very fine with it. Honestly, for different people it can be an indicative of anything; For someone it might be asexuality, for others it might not mean anything.
I wonder if it may be the “not getting caught”’or the “sneaking” that is doing the arousing..
I'm curious about how friendly & inclusive Beducated is for trans, non-binary and genderqueer individuals and couples!
I used to have a crush on my best friend, but it never came to anything because he became like a brother to me, also he’s gay and I have since come out as trans. Which means I’m a straight woman with a gay bestie.
These confessions have me SHOOK
Alayna realising she sings on this channel is the most underrated part of the video lol
I can't imagine how someone could sleep next to someone and not know what they are doing. I would feel totally inadequate if I woke up to something like that
You fell victim to the British Sun Psych! I was born here and am highly melanated. It never ceases to amaze me how I always have my factor 50, hat and cover up and my melanin challenged compatriots seem to think basic sun safety doesn't apply to them. And that is when the English sun, that you think is weak and feeble, will kick your unprotected ass down the stairs. Sheesh people, get it together - if I can you can!!
Wow so fun! Do some mooore. And btw while listening to those confessions does anyone felt like their lives are just boring?😂 Like gay boring but still
petition for alayna to sing on this channel
absolutely not
Hi Alayna Joy! 😊
I'm sure you get tons of comments and messages everyday, but I felt compelled to send you a message of gratitude for the gift you have given me through your RUclips channel.
I'm not sure what grace of luck caused me to stumble onto your channel, I think I had been watching videos of lesbian comedian Cameron Esposito and eventually your content showed up in Recommendations. But you are the first queer content creator I found. And once there I consumed nearly every single video you made because your story spoke to me so clearly (and the silly videos gave me some much needed laughs).
I'm a cis woman who has been in hetero relationships my whole life (I'm 50 now). I've been interested in being with women romantically or sexually since ending a 9 year relationship in my late 20s (also engaged), but a combo of comp het and controlling partners meant I was never able to explore that side of me. Aside for a disastrous brief 1-month attempt last year, I haven't dated anyone for the past 8 years -- my last relationship was so abusive it utterly destroyed every aspect of my life, and it's taken me this long to try to rebuild it and myself.
That time has been very lonely, but I also knew I could not date men anymore. And until our society has gender equality, I can't see me ever dating men again. I'm done with the sexism, the rigid gender roles, the entitlement, the fragile egos, the narcissism, the sexual hangups and shame around sex, and sex that's penis-focused instead of female-focused that all come with dating men -- even the seemingly "progressive" men.* (Which is not to say I hate men by any means. I just don't want to waste any more of my life with them.) And I still have so much sexual trauma I can't even think of a penis without feeling turned off or triggered.
I left the abuse 9 years ago, and over the past 2 years I've been thinking about shifting to dating women more and more. After watching your channel and listening to your stories I realized that this shift was not simply out of practicality. I remembered back to all the times over the past 2 decades when I genuinely desired to connect with women, no matter what my hetero relationships were like (good or bad). And I had suppressed that important side of myself because it was not possible in my last relationship (7.5 years of my life sucked away and as I mentioned, abusive). My last partner was adamant that he would not allow me to have relationships with women, even before we became a committed couple, and told me I had to choose between him and exploring that part of myself (I made the wrong choice).
Watching you talk about ending your engagement and coming out as lesbian was heartbreaking and I so admired your strength to not only tell that story and sit with those feelings of grief, but also your generosity in sharing such private feelings with the RUclips public. Listening to you parse your feelings about your bi-sexuality and lesbianism was instrumental in helping me understand my own. And once I acknowledged I was queer... I felt lighter, like a weight was lifted. I felt *~happy~. I remember closing one of your videos after calling it a night on the "gay research" -- lol -- and realized the idea of being queer just felt ~good.~*
And once I came to those realizations and embraced that aspect of myself, I recognized that I *do* have a future, that I don't have to spend the rest of my life alone. (Ignoring the obvious challenges of attempting to date and enter the queer world at my age, lol).
I'm still not sure if I identify as bi-sexual or lesbian because thanks to the pandemic I haven't had an opportunity to even try to be with a woman. But I'm ok with that. The right label will come to me in time. The important thing is I have been able to look at my full self. I haven't come out to anyone yet (even though my closest friend is bi), I'm not quite ready, but you were a hugely important part of me coming out to myself. Coming out also led me to understand that if I want companionship despite my chronic illnesses (caused by abuse), then I need to start taking better care of myself so that I can be accessible. So it's helping me with healthier self care as well.
Thanks again for all you do, all your effort, your kindness, your humor, your openness, your boldness, your beautiful soul. I'm eternally grateful.
*Edit to clarify:
Upon second reading of my comment I realized it may come across as man bashing to some people, which is not at all my intent. Our society does cis boys and men a disservice by instilling these qualities as they are raised. So much so that even progressive cis men most often grow up with the unconscious traits and gender biases I mentioned. This in turn does a great disservice to cis women who date cis men, particularly feminist, independent, out spoken, accomplished women with sexual agency. I hope this changes with the youngest generations. Peace. 🙏
(P.S. - I was new to RUclips when I found your channel and didn't understand the whole Like 👍 thing and how it helps creators, and frequently forgot to hit the button. So I just went through and did a sweeping Likes on your vids for karma.)
Beautiful comment! I'm a young person and it's nice to see 'older' people share their feelings and vulnerabilities so openly. I am confused with my sexuality as well, but i think all of these labels don't really matter in the end. I think its okay to not know and just sit with it, however I'm sure you've had that time to reflect a lot already!
I wish you the best of luck with everything! :))
@@roniiowens1994 Thank you for your lovely supportive response. 😊 I wish you much luck and happiness in your own journey. 💜
I'm so glad that you were able to escape your abusive past, and I wish you all the best in exploring yourself and finding what makes you happy. I'm so proud of you! Get it girl!!
@@reptiqueen7275 Thank you for your lovely encouraging comment! 💕 Much appreciated! Best gay wishes for you too, hee.
So we can expect another 4 or 5 vids of this content?
I expect a solely dedicated channel
16:13 You say "Fantasy World" and I know you mean sexually but all I can think of is rainbows and unicorns, you know? Rolling green hills, rainbows and puffy white clouds, with unicorns and fairies and your wishes coming true. Haha, such a childish interpretation of "Fantasy World" lol!
Alayna: this isnt an advice vid
Also her: gives godamn gold advice on the bestie subject. Such a good way to go about it
"For those of you to whom my face is new...."
These secrets were relatable. 100%
Can we make this a regular series? I am enjoying this so much.
I know these videos are very entertaining and often funny, but you are so so right that they are medicinal as well. Sharing your fears, the things you locked away in your brain because you were afraid no one would understand... and then finding out other people get it? That's HUGE. That's healing. That's reassurance everyone needs.
Hi! Just wanted to let you know how appreciative I am of your videos. You helped me come out to my boyfriend of almost 10 years that I’m a lesbian.. it was something that I always suppressed and had some idea that I was but always that I was bi and just didn’t recognize that I genuinely was gay… don’t know how this goes I love him so much he’s truly my best friend only time can really tell where this goes now but thank you for your videos you really are helping so much ❣️
Soundlyawake does a "The dumbest thing I've ever done" series and it is gold. I'm glad for more embarrassing secrets in my life!
Ok i have a couple things:
First, I just wanted to let you know that you made me realize Im omnisexual lol. I knew I like guys and had also been attracted to genderfluid and nonbinary people too. Then saw your videos and was like “damn, I get what you’re talking about”. So now I’m both queer in my sexuality and gender
Second, I love how quirky and excepting you are. Your videos are so fun and you never really judge anyone and it feels so nice for someone like me who thinks the same way but the other people in my life kinda don’t (at least not to the extent that you do). Did that make any sense? Idk but imma go with it
Anyway - keep doing you!
When you said you don't sing on this channel, the "vitally important producers!" part popped in my head and I was like... Um are you sure? Then you said about it at the end 😂
19:19 Completely unrelated to the rest of the video, but definitely funny :p
By the way, I think you meant to say: "For those of you to whom my face is new."
You laughing at them before reading them to us gives me happy chemicals, hope that’s not weird to say lol
Yes, being drunk at a playground seems to be pretty gay. My best friend sent me selfies from her drunken playground adventure, and she's the gayest person I know. (and almost everyone I know is gay).
Literally spit my drink when the 'offload onto me' was said😂
"A CONVERSATION NEEDS TO HAPPEN THERE"!!!
I wish cuffed sleeves was a real failsafe to tell if someone was gay though!! 😭😅
"church or bible camp" THATS SO FUNNY CUZ ITS TRUUUEEEE
You have to make more!! My favorite series yet!! Really glad I have my own room and my parents leave me home alone a lot so I can actually watch them lol
LOVE U ALAYNA 💕
My story is identical to the first one. But I wasn't a late bloomer, I knew, and he knew, but a visa was calling and we decided to marry so I could travel. 21 years later, and I actually don't regret it. We're still married. We still live together as a married couple. And I love him more deeply than I ever thought was possible to love another human being. Sex does not matter enough to us to break up 21 years of this kind of love. If I need a female, he's been very supportive and we have found bisexual women willing and useful in that regard. He gets his "two girls" jollies, I get a woman in my bed, and she gets to be 'taboo' or figure out (if she's just curious) how much she likes women. It doesn't happen often (every few years for a few months at a time), but if all parties are honest and open, then we all get some fun, and I can happily remain married to a man who cooks, cleans, sews and loves me, too.
I was confirmed to have PCOS a few years ago. We tried rebalancing my hormones, and he asked me to stop about 6 months in. I wasn't happy, I was emotional and pissed that I was becoming a "girl" and he hugged me tight and reminded me that he loves his gay, manly wife. Gay/het marriage can work.
This is actually... incredibly comforting? Thank you for sharing, knowing that love can be (and is) so wholly unconditional was something I really needed to hear. That it's not all about sex.
We want more pls..make it a 1 hour video😻😻
More! This could’ve been an hour long and I would be here the whole time.
commenting for the algorithm 🏳️🌈
THANK YOU
I told my now ex-best friend that I had feelings for her and she was completely shocked, uncomfortable, definitely not interested in me, and didn’t talk to me for a few months. She basically needed space which is fine but the way she went about it was wrong in my opinion because it really hurt me. How can a best friend completely cut you off like that. Honestly I wish I never had told her because we are no longer friends. While we started having other issues within our friendship, it was never the same after I told her I had liked her. So I would personally not tell a best friend you like them unless you’re okay with the possibility of never being friends with them again.
My first time was such a... combination of things lol. Straight but bicurious, bisexual, lesbian; black, white, and asian. So a foursome but somehow despite all of the different levels of experience, they all thought I was the most experienced... which happens to me a lot. My domme/top energy makes people think I am experienced I guess??
can you make merch with “get it girl” on it 🤣🤣
Maybe like a “get it girl” line on different color palates matching the different pride flags
@@clumsyninja1172 yesssss
Obviously on a tshirt with rolled sleeves 😂👍
You are a ray of sunshine. Thank you. Just raged against Paypal for the past half hour and needed a little pick me up and you accomplished that in all of 1 minute :)
Girl, it's 2021...wear sunscreen! Even if you don't burn you can get skin cancer.
ive done nothing but watch your videoes all day
Alayna: in case you didn’t know I’m a gay women, I want people to know. (Me being a femme/sort of masc lesbian) same alayna same
GET IT GIRL! But like please make more of these! (I also just admitted some secrets and honestly would love to hear you react to some) And even if you just react to those of others, I loveeeee these!!!
And then you made the joke about offloading and all I could think was "Dear God, I'd like to be best friends with this woman." D you know how much root beer burns when ejected forcefully from one's nasal passages at high velocity? Subbing to you has been the best decision I've ever made and a shared enjoyment of your channel brought me and my girlfriend together and we just hit one year. She saved me when we lost my dad to his 8 year cancer battle. I hope you know that you are a beacon and that you make so much difference for people
Omg please make more of these I love them
As a bisexual woman, I personally had a huge crush on one of my best friends, but they had a boyfriend who they absolutely adored and I thought, wow, I love them together and I love their relationship, and I never want to come between them ever, so I’ll just keep my mouth shut.... Well, fast forward three years and I ended up soul vomiting to them over it all one night, and then they talked to their boyfriend who confESSED TO HAVING HAD A CRUSH ON ME AS WELL, and now we’re all well on the way to forming a super sweet, loving and closed triad.
Just confess. You never know what will happen. 😂
Yes. Please do this again!
My ex gf's girlfriend got so jealous with me knowing that we still have a conversation. She got so mad and flew here in my province and the unexpected happened. Thought she will kill me! Guess what?! We make out! 😅
Please please make more of these! They are the absolute funniest
Hilarious that the opening ad was for "Manscaped".
Alayna - professional matchmaker
hey hope you’ve had an amazing week, your videos make my Fridays so much better
ROSE AND ROSIE MY QUEENS. YESSSS
That outtake at the very end 😂 yes… that’s bad grammar… 😂 try “for those of you to whom my face is new”
As a flight attendant we do see a lot of stuff.
Make this a series!!! These were great. So much love to you!
"Church or Bible Camp, those are really the place to find the hidden gays”
My first gay experience was letting a girl tie me up at Girl Scout Camp sooooooo 😂
Keep going, make this a series! (Read: you haven't read mine yet and I really want you to read mine)
P.S. Mine is a long story about how I had a crush on my best friend throughout high school.
Lol mine is very similar and also long. She could probably do a whole video or two on secret love for highschool best friends... I'm way too old to still think about that heartbreak lol... but hey, realizing it was a pivotal moment in my psychosexual development, and so many have similar experiences!
Also kinda far from the point but one of my friends came out as bi to me recently and I was like "ok" and continued the conversation like nothing happenend and for some reason she thought I was gonna be shocked by it so she was like "wait you're actually chill with it" and i'm like b***h we in the same class for 2 years did you not see the bi flag on my pencil case ? It makes me laugh how strong heteronormativity is that nobody knows I'm queer when it's so fricking obvious to me
Me: man, this makes me wish I had a juicy gay secret...
Me, upon realizing I do infact have a juicy gay secret: 😲😬
So, if you do this again I'll finally have a place to spill that secret
15:23 the socks.
I love the healthy and respectful advice you give 🙏
You could do 50 more of these videos and I would watch them all
15:14 “Be gay, Do crime.”
This was so fun! Shoutout to all my other aces!!🖤💜💚
4:09 is when she reads the first confession
Also, can someone please explain me the story behind the cough at the start of every videos? ty
Pretty sure it is just so it is easy to sync audio/see where the video starts when editing. A spike in audio is a good signal
@@thelibby21 really? I remember her mentioning to gabby in a video that there is a reason and a story behind the cough at the start of every video. And this is it? 😯
this is so fun to watch!
omg...i would have SO MANY great gay secrets, but i´d never tell them online under my name... ;)
15:00 "What's the gay part of this secret?"
Ma'am it's "be gay do crime" for a reason!✌🏻😌✨
Tell your crush! Told my best friend, nothing happened except now we both know where we stand and it’s all good. He’s still a respectful, loving and wonderful human being. Decent people will not break your heart for this
When my best friend came out as gay I started to question if I was a lesbian too. I'm in a relationship with a man, and I can pretty well say I'm not. And it's mostly because when I fantasize it's always with him as he is, never seeing him as a woman. But one reason I like his body so much is it has more feminine qualities.
I mean bisexuality exists, also you might just like androgynous features in men which is totally valid
wait not all girls have some attraction to other girls? Im pretty sure im straight but like women✨ yk hmm 🤔
What helped me figure my sexuality out, was differentiating between aesthetic attraction, romantic attraction and sexual attraction. I always thought women were beautiful, but just shrugged it off as 'that's what all girls feel'.
Idk I just had to be very honest with myself and truly consider the fact I may have been queer. (Spoiler alert, yeah, I think girls are hot)
@@vee6775 thanks that helps a lot
U gurls know the story from 17:17?
In Brazil we have a word to describe these relationships... REBUCETEIO! Witch means " when lesbians dates their ex's ex-, and every lesbian you know already date or been to another lesbian (or queer woman at all) you know as well!
F* love the rebuceteio word
4:24 "wOt a GrEaT kWeStIoN" -Louis Tomlinson
I didn't exactly get to come out to my parents. I would constantly search things like "boobs" "naked women" on google, and then one day those searches weren't getting any results. My father was talking about safe sex and "use a condom, etc etc" and then turns to me and says "or gloves if that's what you need" and my little nonaware mind was like 😳😳