'How to pursue someone in a healthy way?' (Aaron & Sarahbeth's Story) | HANDLEBAR SESSIONS | EP. 4

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @reginezata3557
    @reginezata3557 Год назад +165

    " No one is the one for you until you choose them."

  • @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl
    @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl Год назад +124

    Spending time with the Lord allows you to know your heart.

  • @mariah8117
    @mariah8117 Год назад +108

    “If you don’t know what you want then don’t pursue…” 🙌🏽

  • @taylorlyall
    @taylorlyall 10 месяцев назад +8

    As a dad to a 10 and 7 year old daughters, this is so good for my heart and hope for their future husbands.

  • @maddybrown2320
    @maddybrown2320 Год назад +58

    No way, I’ve never heard anyone name their son Boaz! Love it. 😊

  • @adedayoaruwajoye
    @adedayoaruwajoye Год назад +21

    If you don't know what you want, you won't know how to pursue. I agree 1000%.

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 Год назад +92

    If a guy tells you that he likes you, then saying it back isn't doing it first! He did it first! :D He initiated it! Thank you God for freeing us from ourselves and making us like You!

    • @abigailtarpley
      @abigailtarpley Год назад +8

      Exactly!!!!! at first I thought she was saying make the first move and say you like him first and I was like uhhh no lol but now that I know he had been asking her out for a month and I was like ohhhhh okay that’s different lol

  • @adedayoaruwajoye
    @adedayoaruwajoye Год назад +5

    'Make a choice and be powerful in your choice'. Whew.

  • @adedayoaruwajoye
    @adedayoaruwajoye Год назад +3

    'No one is the one for you, until you choose them'. Whew.

  • @Seyi-f4c
    @Seyi-f4c 8 месяцев назад

    "Don't hear what I'm not saying", love that!

  • @kaileebroadway7723
    @kaileebroadway7723 Год назад +104

    Sooo good! NOW Elyssa and joel Next!!!!!

  • @Jeremiah_Daniel_1984
    @Jeremiah_Daniel_1984 Месяц назад

    I am focused on singleness with the Lord right now, but I really liked the teaching from you both.

  • @alyssaniehaus
    @alyssaniehaus Год назад +10

    Pursue CLARITY!

  • @paulaganbi5236
    @paulaganbi5236 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love the point she makes about making marital vows even before getting to the altar. Saying it at the altar is only a formality. For example I should have made up in my heart that I will love you for richer or for poor even before I propose to you and for a woman before I accept his proposal. Loved this video!

  • @aaronpresley
    @aaronpresley Год назад +15

    Y’all blessed me. I’ve been getting mixed answers on calling her dad or not but you confirmed it. I will still ask mentors but I want to Honor her Paremts you know

  • @brow30535
    @brow30535 Год назад +33

    It’s my first time here.
    A few comments.
    I think this podcast was very healthy and sound advice. It was quite refreshing to see you as a couple teaching others how to be healthy when entering a relationship.
    On a tech perspective. I work in the AV entertainment industry, so there were a few suggestions I would like to put forward to you on your content. You have every right to ignore my suggestions, that’s totally fine. However, here they are.
    I’m assuming you have three cameras, it seems like there is a wide shot, a close up on a tripod and a handheld. It could also be a lock-off wide angle but you crop in to get a tight angle, however. If do indeed have three cameras, you should look into having a wide, and then a lock off tight on either side (left and right). I noticed a few times that there were two tight shots of the same person, or a tight and a wide. And it looked, to me, a bit clunky at times. Sometimes the simple options are the best.
    This also means that your recordings are less hands on and much easier to manage.
    I don’t think for a podcast such as this, that you would need a handheld, it can be shaky.
    If you have two cameras, then a wide and a tight shot that is on a tripod where you can turn quickly whilst still having the shot still and not shaky, or just two tight shots would look cleaner.
    I don’t expect you to read all of this, but if you do, I hope this is of some use to you.

    • @DouglasABailey
      @DouglasABailey Год назад +4

      I hope they read it. Great content but I often had to block the left side of the screen so I could concentrate on what was said.

  • @toegum7451
    @toegum7451 Год назад +11

    thanks aaron and sarahbeth! i just need that boost of confidence

  • @katharinastrutz9962
    @katharinastrutz9962 6 месяцев назад

    I found yesterday your podcast and I love it soo much !!! Guys honestly I subscribed directly your channel 😂 and I love your honesty in the podcast and that you are both absolutely follower of Jesus 😍🙌🏼 I love to listen and to learn from you both ! God bless you guys !
    Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 😊

  • @DalliseElliott
    @DalliseElliott Год назад +8

    Nahhh, imma head out before I cry lol This was so good. I love the way this is shot too. Keep up the great work!

  • @niriaantonio9097
    @niriaantonio9097 Год назад +3

    I didn’t want to watch at first, but wow that was a great conversation ❤️❤️ thank you God bless you guys 🙏🏾

  • @kaileebroadway7723
    @kaileebroadway7723 Год назад +9

    Also it would be awesome to hear Gabriel and Abbies' story as well❤

  • @hopekeehn4836
    @hopekeehn4836 9 месяцев назад

    THIS IS SOLID🙌🏼 And it's confirming stuff for me. Thank you!!

  • @rebeccaemmanuel8074
    @rebeccaemmanuel8074 11 месяцев назад +1

    This was wholesome

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday 6 месяцев назад

    I love these stories! I hate the timer though, y'all need to throw that thing out the door 😂

  • @valeryhilario8778
    @valeryhilario8778 11 месяцев назад

    Facts were spoken so hard

  • @LearsiMusic1
    @LearsiMusic1 Год назад +2

    First time hearing about you both! This was great

  • @ronaf.5760
    @ronaf.5760 Год назад +4

    I love you guys. I’m always waiting for your new episodes.

  • @MyUganda256
    @MyUganda256 11 месяцев назад

    First tymer already Love u guys.

  • @sumwhere08
    @sumwhere08 Год назад +18

    I feel like she wasn't even initiating anything because he had already made the first move by asking her out.
    I dont think I'd want a guy talking to my dad or mom prior to a date 🥴
    I need an episode on how to get a date 😅

  • @AI-priest
    @AI-priest Год назад +1

    My name is Samuel,i'm new here and I really enjoyed and learned a couple of lessons watching this session. Thank you

  • @Oreoluwa
    @Oreoluwa Год назад +2

    Upperrom lover from Nigeria here. Didn't know they were marriedddd🤭❤️

  • @oziascantos3384
    @oziascantos3384 Год назад +1

    Love this. Thanks for sharing!

  • @VMorales923
    @VMorales923 Год назад +1

    BEAUTIFUL ❤️

  • @Nai-09
    @Nai-09 Год назад

    So good! Short and sweet!

  • @michaeldyoung5788
    @michaeldyoung5788 Год назад +1

    I think what they said is very helpful when she is already attracted to him. Thank you for sharing the experience.

    • @thehandlebarpodcast
      @thehandlebarpodcast  Год назад

      Thanks for your feedback Michael! ❤️

    • @michaeldyoung5788
      @michaeldyoung5788 Год назад

      @@thehandlebarpodcast Sorry I was a bit harsh in my earlier comment. I just got rejected by a girl whom I really like from church for a coffee meet. She told me she just wants to be friends. Will you share how you asked your wife on the Chick fil a and Coffee meet before your official date? Did you say that’s to get to know each other (it’s a hangout and not a date)? I think that’s the key to everything else you said here.

  • @ariah5093
    @ariah5093 Год назад

    So wholesome!!

  • @jacoblin2314
    @jacoblin2314 Год назад +1

    Just discovered this very good ! God bless !

  • @Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife
    @Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife Год назад +2

    9:29 - 9:50
    This is so cute 😭

  • @itsnotcrisman
    @itsnotcrisman 11 месяцев назад

    The bars 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @TheBlazerSociety
    @TheBlazerSociety Год назад

    Love the vibe!

  • @marilynjauregui6789
    @marilynjauregui6789 Год назад

    You both are so cute! Loved this podcast. For the next one you guys should get some lighting!

  • @josephhickman4005
    @josephhickman4005 Год назад

    Love you guys and this podcast. The questions always line up with where I’m at in life.

  • @genova4578
    @genova4578 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think calling the dad before the first date may be a bit much but maybe im wrong on that. Im all for meeting parents early and stating intentions but i feel like there should at least be a couple of dates to even determine if it will actually go anywhere. It would seem wierd to call up the dad telling him about these intentions to persue his daughter only to change your mind the next day.

  • @navanolivier481
    @navanolivier481 Год назад +1

    This is so goood Aaron and SB!! Love you guys! This was needed! 🔥

  • @aez378
    @aez378 Год назад

    y’all have the CUTEST KIDS! loved this one 💖🥲

  • @marcusw9894
    @marcusw9894 Год назад

    this was great.

  • @achanwol
    @achanwol Год назад +1

    this was soo cute awww

  • @milicorrea8415
    @milicorrea8415 Год назад +1

    so good! i def took some tips from this!

  • @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl
    @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl Год назад

    Follow your sanctified conscience!

  • @Raq777
    @Raq777 Год назад +3

    Couple goals! Jesus help 😂

  • @davidlavrinovich2257
    @davidlavrinovich2257 Год назад +4

    Hey guys, when will this be on Spotify? I love listening to them in the car :)

    • @thehandlebarpodcast
      @thehandlebarpodcast  Год назад +4

      Hi David! The “session” episodes are something unique we have done that are RUclips only. However season 5, which comes in November will be on Spotify and apple. ❤

    • @davidlavrinovich2257
      @davidlavrinovich2257 Год назад +1

      @@thehandlebarpodcast thank you!!

  • @andreaclaire8043
    @andreaclaire8043 Год назад

    love you guys!

  • @SaiMyName4
    @SaiMyName4 Год назад

    MIC DROP 😂BOOM!

  • @LiyahLova
    @LiyahLova 11 месяцев назад

    I always cringe when couples talk over each other and interrupt each other 😬 but other than that this was super helpful to singles 🙏😩

  • @JoyousDeMark
    @JoyousDeMark Год назад

    Yes! Such good advice!👏

  • @yurireyes176
    @yurireyes176 11 месяцев назад

    Be upfront don't waste your time with someone who is not worth it

  • @3unhy3
    @3unhy3 Год назад

    Soooo helpful!! Thank you ❤

  • @caro.jahdis
    @caro.jahdis Год назад +1

    Hi Sarahbeth 😊 at what kind of dating / friendship stage have you been when you texted Aaron that you like him? We’re you guys good friends and have you known each other for a long time?

  • @caro.jahdis
    @caro.jahdis Год назад

    Wow! What’s the song in the background so lovely!

  • @evillynbm
    @evillynbm Год назад

    So good!!! 💚

  • @fortuneanya-nga8258
    @fortuneanya-nga8258 Год назад

    So beautiful❤❤❤

  • @juliaaa3580
    @juliaaa3580 Год назад

    so good 🔥🔥

  • @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl
    @MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl Год назад

    Self versus God's purposes

  • @Dwellevator
    @Dwellevator Год назад +3

    😂😂😂 “Not yet!”

  • @dgluhovski
    @dgluhovski Год назад

    Amen

  • @justacarat2638
    @justacarat2638 11 месяцев назад

    Wow. You guys even look alike

  • @cassandrabustos3004
    @cassandrabustos3004 Год назад

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @Sunburst6520
    @Sunburst6520 Год назад

    Matthew 13:18-23 18 Hear ye therefore the parable of the sower. 19 When any one heareth the word of the kingdom, and understandeth it not, then cometh the wicked one, and catcheth away that which was sown in his heart. This is he which received seed by the way side. 20 But he that received the seed into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receiveth it; 21 Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word, by and by he is offended. 22 He also that received seed among the thorns is he that heareth the word; and the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful. 23 But he that received seed into the good ground is he that heareth the word, and understandeth it; which also beareth fruit, and bringeth forth, some an hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty

  • @lameilleurepart
    @lameilleurepart Год назад +4

    What's the name of the song at the beginning?

  • @melikahabibi4207
    @melikahabibi4207 Месяц назад

    Omggg a guy told me he admired me when I confessed like what does that mean shhshshhsjdjd

  • @justexploringsomeuniquesou3355
    @justexploringsomeuniquesou3355 Год назад +1

    If you don’t get a response back from the guy you say you like he is probably not ready.

  • @alliceson6464
    @alliceson6464 Год назад

    dang this is good!!!

  • @keidyesteban3586
    @keidyesteban3586 Год назад

    Cute! ♥️♥️

  • @Dwellevator
    @Dwellevator Год назад

    🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @3AMentality
    @3AMentality 27 дней назад

    I admire you? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣