@@javidallas4113- You nailed it my guy! I try to hold my composure while watching these, but more often times than not, I literally have to put my hand over my mouth and SCREAM because someone of these people are just not even living on this planet! UNBELIEVABLE!! smh
It would have cost him far less to visit his local red light district and as a regular client probably had far more chance to built up some type of genuine friendly relationship over time with one of them without being taken to the cleaners by an online working girl who would not never look at him twice in real life. No fool like an old fool.
It happens A LOT!!! I used to do web cam back in 2011, it's crazy how these guys truly don't understand that it's purely business. NONE of it is real, it's paying for a FANTASY!!
@@angelabarnes1675 all these are scams anyway. She asking for money using scammers talking points "I need money for..." she's a sophisticated real life scammer
She asked for money to pretend to be his girlfriend. He paid her. He got her pretending she was his girlfriend. He now has buyer's regret. That's his fault - nobody else's.
Give him a little time to build up his bank account again and I'm sure he will be more than willing. He's done it about 5 times already, so maybe you will be lucky 6?
He doesn’t think an old man lusting after a 2o something year old woman he found on a p*rn site expecting her to be his wife after having multiple strokes is immoral?
Irs all o er RUclips. I follow a few fillipino vliggers thst live in Japan. One said on her latest vlog that a MSN had sent her $200 to 'treat herself to something nice'. No doubt some silly old fool she's scamming theses a nest of them about 7 ir 7 all who have started up RUclips channels about living in Japan. No doubt thinking its easy money from westerners. They never STFU about being monetized and saying how poor the are and sending money back home etc. Now wheh people got on her in the comments and told gee that accepting money from strange mum online is disgusting, she's now started deleting comments smd claimed ots a mKe fried she knows in real life who gave her tye money!! 😂😂😂 YEAH RIGHT!! Scamners, parasites and opportunists is all most of them are. # Sorry not sorry
I notice how much in common the pedz have with these old guys going after very young women and also work with young people. I don't see a scam here, more of a pred really
@@ferraroannie4058he says he's working at a college in the Palouse region. WSU is known as a party college - probably don't vet their employees very well either
@@Limitedonathios I mean, some women do stuff like that but I don't think I could. Just for handbags or whatever (well, a really cushy life.) But he isn't even offering that.
Its fu**ing ridiculous old crusty a** pays to play, but complains he got played. Like dude, you're 80 looking to buy a 30 year old wife that is "fresh looking" 😂 Amazing how low IQ some people are.
'I'm seriously in debt because of her." No, man. You're seriously in debt because of your own decisions. You gave your credit card, you sent the money. You paid a business woman for a service. You got exactly what you paid for.
I've never felt less sorry for a victim. "I'm so broke because of her!" No dude, you're broke because of YOU. A two time divorced geriatric man thought he could buy a 26 year old "fresh looking girl" on the internet and marry her. That's how this really shakes out. You tried to buy a human being.
0:18 "I'm not paying for you to be a girlfriend. I'm paying for you to be my future wife" - not even 20 sec into the video and he already lost my sympathy.
His two strokes got my sympathy but what was he like before they happened? He was up there paying for others to minister to his needs. I figured the strokes impaired his thinking but maybe they emphasized what was already going South.
If you pay for a "girlfriend experience" of course she's gonna pretend to be your girlfriend cause that's literelally what she's being paid to do. This creep can't tell fact from fiction. He misunderstood the service she was offering for actually buying a girlfriend. Gross.
I think it's important that today, the day after a heated US election, that every Democrat, every Republican, and every Independent set aside their differences, join together and in one resounding voice ask: "Tom, what the hell were you thinking?"
Lol, based on how popular Reality TV is in our country, and how many people actually believe that the characters on these shows are being filmed performing as themselves as they are in their "real" lives.... ummmmm....
I don't get these older men thinking that young women are going to want to marry them out of nowhere when they aren't either super wealthy or Richard Gere! And the reverse is true for women. 😔
Some people are just delusional. At some point, as in this man's case, it isn't about loneliness. He went to only fans for a young sexy pretend girlfriend. He needed someone to feed his ego. I mean if he was looking for someone to take care of him there are legitimate healthcare companies that can provide that. They will cook, clean, and provide companionship. Also, it wouldn't have cost him $70,000.
I am not only victim blaming, I'm saying it is this guy who is the perpetrator. We all get scam calls and emails because of guys like this. He's knowing funding an army of scammers to pester us. Every time I see a scammer, I ask why they even do it? Because of this guy.
Agree. He is elderly and ill but has adult children...But he got into OF because he did not want to be alone for the holidays. He's estranged from his adult children so there's probably an ugly backstory of some kind.
@@lwscijunkie the alone for the holidays part made no sense. Did he expect this stranger to fly halfway across the world to spend the holidays with an old man that they did not know and his family? After spending the money, he still end up alone for the holidays
@@lwscijunkieI'm with you on that. With how perverted he is. You never know what he's done to his kids or their friends. He's a narcissist at the very least.
@@mildredpierce4506Right…he signed up for a *virtual* girlfriend experience, then got upset she kept it strictly virtual. Make it make sense. Any romantic talk or promises to visit/move were part of her pretending to be in a relationship with him, which is what he signed up for and was paying for 🤦🏻♀️
I'm 62 and get guys as young as 21 contacting me on dating sites. I look good for my age, but come on, I know what I look like compared to a 30 yo Bye bye 👎
To be real real, they are chasing a bag, not you. It's like the 20 yr olds that chase after men that are 50+. It's not looks, it's a financial transaction. @@ScubaFanatic60
He really thought a 26yr old porn star was going to leave her country fly over to the US and be the wife of a 61yr old man who had a stroke, slurs his speech and doesn't work. 🤦🏾♀️
The way I see it this is not even a scam. They had an arrangement. She was pretending to like him be his virtual gf and get paid in exchange. They agreed exactly on that and now he feels cheated?! What am I missing?
I'm even older than he is, but I will never be so delusional, desperate or lonely to do something remotely like this. My self worth exceeds anyone's monetary value to me. 100% on him.
you're not buying a person, you're paying for a service....that's what S** work is, its a service...you get this, you pay this. Like getting a massage, hope that helps :)
Internet is crawling with it. Even on RUclips I was following fillipina girls living and vlogging in Jaoan. Then one stated on her vlog that a 'nice man had paid me $200 to treat myself'. Obviously some silly old fool who'd been watching her videos. Needless to say the feedback on that was not good with many people calling her out for basically selling herself online and scamming. She's now gone from.sayinh its a guy she knows IRL (YEAH RIGHT 😂😂),to now getting angry and saying well at least I get money out of it. Absolutely shameless. These people are known in every country they infest as parasites, scammers, vultures and scavengers. But at least she's revealed to her subscribers exactly who she is 😂
@@sapphire22011I'm from SEA and even we know here in SEA that Filipinos tend to be some of the most crooked when it comes to money. I steer clear, personally. lying, and cheating, for money is not that uncommon there
They were using someone else's pictures to sucker him in. That's why it's a problem. If it were actually the person they represented themselves as, then he got what he paid for.
@@tomknack that's what you got?! you know that on phone service lines most of them are different women or even men! this kind of services are about delusion and illusion!
Right. I mean I assume he has a mental illness, but he got what he paid for. That’s one of the oldest businesses in the world. Men still paying for it. He could of gone out and tried to meet someone his own age
@@tomknack While I understand that the business woman was using someone else's picture, she could have just as easily AI'd a person. He was doing the 21st Century equivalent of pen palling to a "Lonely Hearts" column, or calling a 1-900 number for phone sex. He paid the level for a fantasy girlfriend to text/sext with him on a daily basis and have one-hour of phone time once a week. It doesn't matter what she did or didn't look like that wasn't the level he purchased.
He blames this fake model for taking all of his money, when he gladly handed it over when he thought she was a younger woman. The only person to blame is himself for being stupid.
@@maximilianvs8430Allyson, the OF model from the video didn’t say the guy was immoral. This commenter here did (and she’s right) and she did NOT lie or use men for money.
I think what he said was the things she was doing with all the other men was immoral, but he glossed over what she did with him…that was obviously A-OK. Can you say hypocrite?
Wait, blue is your favorite color? OMG, mine too! I love tacos, do you love tacos? I hear wedding bells…no, wait, that’s one of the two microwaves you sent her…Tom Tom Tom
Using terms like “our bond grew” “our relationship became stronger” “we knew each other so well” It’s scary that people lack the self awareness to see that it’s entirely one sided.
I got the impression that he _may_ have meant "natural" more-so than fresh. I don't know if the stroke affected his language processing at all, but even if it didn't it's a potential word mistake/misunderstanding/misinterpretation someone could potentially do. Anyway, while I do think such an extreme gap is odd and unrealistic (or generally immoral), I would also say that the logic of your argument is entirely fallacious. If you had a parent that was 16 years older than you does that mean it would also be gross to be in a relationship with someone who was 16 years older than you?
04:07 "She had no tattoos and no piercings, which is also very attractive to me" *picture of the woman in question with a piercing appears on the screen*… Stupid men are honestly one of the greatest forms of comedy.
You had a stroke and your highest priority after leaving the hospital is paying for a girlfriend…..this speaks VOLUMES about his intellect and character…..
well he said hes in debt now, so I guess it wasnt even his money :') I guess it belongs to some bank or some people didnt get their money yet.. But for real.. I also dont understand how people can collect that much debt, at some point you wouldnt even get a credit anymore
Yup as I said many times before , here we are in the real world working hard (sometimes 2 jobs) to pay the bills 😒 meanwhile these people have hundreds of thousands of dollars lying around to give away on a fantasy 😏 This is why I have NOOOOO sympathy for any of them .
Paying for her to ACT like a girlfriend and mad she's...too good at her job?? I'll also never understand these dudes who fall for girls who do OF and stuff and then get mad when they wanna keep doing OF
Oh absolutely I agree. Ivory watch these videos over and over again not because I want to watch the video but to check out the comment section and see the new comments. This is my favorite channel
Sadly for Tom .. there's no fool like an old fool .. and a fool and their money are easily parted . 70 thousand is bad but it coulda been sooo much worse . Bet his kids are disappointed.. two microwaves.. two T.V's .. best Samsung galaxy on the market .. yada + yada 🫣
While there is an element of sadness to this story, I find it VERY hard to be empathetic to people who put themselves into this situation. She played you, bro.
Tom got what he paid for. Tom's problem is he can't afford the "girlfriend experience" any longer. He likes certain women because they look "fresh?" Dude, do you have mirrors? He paid for a service, a fake relationship, fake emotions. His contract was fulfilled. Even if this is a scammer, they provided the paid for SERVICE, PERIODT! Aren't they just really good at their 'job?' 🤷♀️
@Drea473 You’re right. It was a clearly stated TRANSACTION. One of his problems was he got emotional ,thinking it was real, they’d get married, and getting jealous she was making adult vids for other men for money.
@@gonelucid That he uses a walker isn’t his fault. Hope you never have a stroke. Even if he was a 90 year old paraplegic, as long as everyone is realistic about it, there’s nothing wrong with paying to have a fake girlfriend. His problem was expecting the real thing when he went into it paying for the fake version.
@@DKi-f5y Perhaps those lies lead him to continue paying her, but also that's kinda part of what he paid for - pretending that they are in love and gonna be together so the "lies" were literally part of what he paid for. Regardless, there was no scam. He agreed to pay for a pretend girlfriend, and that's exactly what he got.
This☝🏽. I don’t get it..,. Hell, nowadays you can find some pretty hot 60 year olds: Don’t sleep! I’m in my late 50’s and I have hot friends. I may even be a “hot friend.”
@@EveryGirlEveryWhere Fully agreed. I mean there are plenty of 20 something year olds that will sleep with him for money if that is what he wants. But for companionship, you need to not being looking at superficial looks at all, and looking at who the person is to see if they match. You cannot have both, and he should realize this by now. I hope I remember this if I am still his age and single.
Lol no, not unless he expected that once she was his wife he could keep her prisoner! Paying to get a wife happens, I don’t agree with it, but unless you think you’re getting a literal slave, it’s not “buying a human”.
lol but then it could still be Nigerians living in South Africa, especially if they are from Pta since there is a considerable number of Nigerians in PTA. Just wish their IP tracker went deeper into tracking exactly where that place is in PTA. But yes we have made it.
I'm 10000% sure that, even if the girl is real, they don't have anything in common. The 'girlfriend experience' includes things like agreeing with your views, taking your side no matter what, and pretending you have hobbies in common, etc.. You know, telling you what you want to hear. That's the service you paid for and you got it.
One way Catfished can get through to him is to make it clear that she was excellent at her JOB of being his pretend girlfriend. The scammer built up the girlfriend experience slowly and got to that stage where he actually believed she would come to him and be his wife in person. Now that is good acting!
I'm 72 years old, still reasonably fit for my age and can't even meet a woman my own age in the bloody grocery store to help pick out a nice melon or squeeze the Charmin with much less find a 25 year old OF model to be my future wife.
He doesn’t look fresh looking, but he wants a woman who is fresh looking. He never thought that a fresh looking woman would also want a fresh looking man.
There has to be some kind of backstory. He is old and sick and has adult children yet he is dreading being alone for the holidays. I wonder if he was a rotten father and was already estranged from his adult children before the scam or that he became estranged from them because they warned him he was going broke for a romance scam and he wouldn't listen.
He’s not fresh looking, but he expects his Internet Internet girlfriend to be fresh looking. He never consider that a woman that Young would also want a man who’s fresh looking.
another moron who missed the part where the account scamming him was a cloned account run by a scammer who was pretending to be the OF model and offering services using this OF models photographs and ID whilst on another platform to evade OF moderators picking up on suspicious activity. That's fraud. Pay attention next time, Jake you soft cnut.
🔴New Catfished Video Dropped (feat. Debbie) 🔴
Check it out here ➡ruclips.net/video/LnRQhilfkZE/видео.html&t
True😂😂😂😂
Delusional is one hell of a drug 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry but I don’t feel one bit sorry for man like this clown 🤡 😂😂😂lol
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@@javidallas4113- You nailed it my guy! I try to hold my composure while watching these, but more often times than not, I literally have to put my hand over my mouth and SCREAM because someone of these people are just not even living on this planet! UNBELIEVABLE!! smh
He literally paid for a fake relationship and he's mad it's fake lol wtf.
lol ong he could have found a real grandma
The fake part was disregarded LOL
Right. What difference does it make who's behind the keyboard at this point?
It would have cost him far less to visit his local red light district and as a regular client probably had far more chance to built up some type of genuine friendly relationship over time with one of them without being taken to the cleaners by an online working girl who would not never look at him twice in real life. No fool like an old fool.
Eh, it's more like he literally paid for a product he didn't receive, and on further investigation it turned out he didn't pay who he thought he did.
"Went to OnlyFans looking for companionship" is like going to a dentist looking for a heart transplant.
Hahahahahaha! Perfect!😂😂😂
😂😂😂perfect!
Right 😂
That's a way to put it
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This is not a scam. Your gf experience has come to an end
THIS
EXACTLY!! He paid for a FANTASY!! Ofcourse it isn't real, it's her job, that's all.
I had a girlfriend experience. I had to clean her car, install a new dishwasher, shampoo her carpets and pick up tampons at the store.
Fun times!
@@kev3d Omg 😱 that's so sad. I can help you get over that trauma...gonna be about treefidty. For the "coddling experience" 😅😂 shiiiiiit.
@@GaffGiraffe Damn Lochness Monster still owes me treefidty
Pays for a fake girlfriend, gets upset that the girlfriend is fake 🤯
It's hard out here... as.a woman, you won't understand
@@randomstuff2650 It’s literally called a fake girlfriend experience what is there to understand?
*surprised pikachu face*
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May I have your digits?
I guess a nice woman his own age that wouldn’t cost him 100k is out of the question. He went looking for nonsense, and he got nonsense.
Facts
Yep...he's 61 and she's 26!
A nice woman his own age is probably looking for a nice man. She wouldn't find one in him.
A nice woman his own age probably wants a nice man her own age.
He likes "fresh" looking women. Meanwhile, he looks 5 days past his expiration date.
*pays for a fake relationship*
"...my relationship is fake? 😮"
It happens A LOT!!! I used to do web cam back in 2011, it's crazy how these guys truly don't understand that it's purely business. NONE of it is real, it's paying for a FANTASY!!
No way! 😳
@@angelabarnes1675I guess that’s like how actors who play bad characters are abused by people who think they are the character 😂
@@angelabarnes1675that’s so creepy!
@@angelabarnes1675 all these are scams anyway. She asking for money using scammers talking points "I need money for..." she's a sophisticated real life scammer
28:11 “I’m so broke it’s not even funny, because of her and deeply deeply in debt.”
No Tom, you’re broke because of YOU.
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Thank you! That's what he needs to understand, realize, and believe.
He put her on an allowance.. "she" didn't even ask for it 😂
She asked for money to pretend to be his girlfriend. He paid her. He got her pretending she was his girlfriend. He now has buyer's regret. That's his fault - nobody else's.
But when it happens to a woman its terrible.Absolute man haters.
I promise that stripper ACTUALLY LIKED ME!! NOT FOR MY TIPS! Thats what this is like.
@Appellonia Yes, except it was not the stripper getting the money so to speak.
But she wasn't like the other strippers. She really liked me!
lol he called her a “business partner”
Is Tom still looking for a girlfriend? Because I need a new refrigerator too.
Give him a little time to build up his bank account again and I'm sure he will be more than willing. He's done it about 5 times already, so maybe you will be lucky 6?
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So do I.
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She didn't ruin his credit. He did it happily & willingly.
Willingly is a stretch. She deceived him, then once he was in love used that as a lever to scam him.
He was scammed by a user pretending to be an OF model. THe account scamming him was a clone account. It's fraud. Grow a brain, Kim.
@@fookorf He thought he was purchasing a wife. Willingly.
@@fookorf So if it was the OF model scamming him that would have been ok, but a different scammer is not?
“I think the things she did was immoral” dude! You literally PAY her to do the same to you!
He doesn’t think an old man lusting after a 2o something year old woman he found on a p*rn site expecting her to be his wife after having multiple strokes is immoral?
No, but see he’s different!
That kind of strangeness has been a thing since forever...Men buying prostitutes but being contemptuous of them because they are prostitutes.
Men in a nutshell.
Irs all o er RUclips. I follow a few fillipino vliggers thst live in Japan. One said on her latest vlog that a MSN had sent her $200 to 'treat herself to something nice'. No doubt some silly old fool she's scamming theses a nest of them about 7 ir 7 all who have started up RUclips channels about living in Japan. No doubt thinking its easy money from westerners. They never STFU about being monetized and saying how poor the are and sending money back home etc.
Now wheh people got on her in the comments and told gee that accepting money from strange mum online is disgusting, she's now started deleting comments smd claimed ots a mKe fried she knows in real life who gave her tye money!! 😂😂😂 YEAH RIGHT!! Scamners, parasites and opportunists is all most of them are. # Sorry not sorry
Dude has a stroke and 5 days later, signs up for Only Fans? WTF. This is wild.
a stroke changes your personality
He wanted a different kind of stroke 😂
Pay me $170 a week and suddenly we’ll have everything in common too
I like blue…. Do you like blue?
@@Maureen-MO “yes my queen…I wrote you a romantic poem about the color blue” 😂
Do you like pizza? If only I could find a man who also liked pizza, I would know he was my sould mate!
It's probably a African dude in what if it's a AI chatbot?? They evolved
Have you eaten today, my queen?
😂100 year old man: "i like em fresh...eew"
His banana not working after stroke still want em fresh😮
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😂 yeah that’s so inappropriate especially cause he works with young students
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Yep my soul died a little bit
“She has no tattoos or piercings which was attractive to me”. Immediately after shows picture of her with a nose piercing.
LOL she's not "Fresh" anymore
Came here to say this 😂😂
@@CatfishedOnline that made me feel so gross 😭
wasn't a ear,tho
@@skibee421had to listen to his quote again. It was no tattoos or piercings
Just remember this isnt a victim this is a willing participant.
The fact that he works at a college is a bit concerning as well.
I notice how much in common the pedz have with these old guys going after very young women and also work with young people. I don't see a scam here, more of a pred really
Could it be a "fantasy college"?
@@ferraroannie4058Washington State University has a campus where he lives.
@@ferraroannie4058he says he's working at a college in the Palouse region. WSU is known as a party college - probably don't vet their employees very well either
creepy
“I’m paying for you to be my future wife.”
Bruhhhhhhhhh 🤣
Not enough money in the world
He really thought he could just buy someone
@@Limitedonathios I mean, some women do stuff like that but I don't think I could. Just for handbags or whatever (well, a really cushy life.) But he isn't even offering that.
Thats a cold thing he said. like an item from a brand new fully functioning refrigerator
Sounds like human trafficking
"I like girls that are very fresh looking" Thats creepy coming from a guy his age or literally ANY AGE WTF
This alone made me not feel bad for him.
He forgets that he is not fresh looking.
That made my skin crawl.
Its fu**ing ridiculous old crusty a** pays to play, but complains he got played. Like dude, you're 80 looking to buy a 30 year old wife that is "fresh looking" 😂
Amazing how low IQ some people are.
Yeah that's not far off from the used chewing gum analogy which is disgusting.
WHERE D I FIND ME A FOOL LIKE THIS, I'D CHARGE HALF THE AMOUNT!
He is probably available now 😂
Uh...here on this video..
Charge £170 and we'll split it 😂
He got exactly what he paid for. No scam here
That was a wild one, going from girlfriend experience to being a pay pig 😋
Exactly……
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@@Itsa-MessPlus he'd done it several times before 🙄🙄🙄
He expected her to marry him, FR!!!! This guy is living in a bubble of his own!
He’s literally just annoyed because he’s ran out of money. No catfishing here just a sad delusional old guy who should know better.
it's still catfishing as he was conned by a cloned account, dipsh1t.
@ To me he was a willing participant and knew exactly what he was doing. Some people just have no class and I’m sure you know all about that.
Exactly
Man has brought 3 children into the world, but spends 75k on a "fresh looking girl". Gross.
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Strange…. Desperate man
Why is it gross? Females have the same mindset
No TF we don't incel, quit generalizing us. U snitching on ur self @@PickleGobbler9000
@@PickleGobbler9000 It's gross if it's a man or a woman
Poor Tom, he bought himself a fresh new human and he can't even use it.
He should demand to speak to the manager like all boomers
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'I'm seriously in debt because of her." No, man. You're seriously in debt because of your own decisions. You gave your credit card, you sent the money. You paid a business woman for a service. You got exactly what you paid for.
All of these video guests have that point of view of themselves, that they are not responsible for financially ruining themselves.
Dude is deep in debt because he's a simp.
Lust can destroy your life: life lesson for all ❤
@karencramer6491 do you condone ripping off sad pathetic individuals ?
Couldn't have said it better
I like ketchup on my fries. Do you? Okay, I think we’re in a deep relationship. Let’s get married! 😅
We already are married!!!! Absolutely. So much love!
Ketchup, am I right?!
@ 😂😂😂
Johnny Depp told me he likes ketchup too. It's true love. We're gonna get married after I send him my entire life savings.
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@@LT-kq4bgcool! I hope that you're inviting my boyfriend Darius Rucker and me!
Saying "she had a great girl next door look to her" at his age is alarming. Crazy work
“I like when girls look fresh” too it’s wild
Don't forget he works at a university
I was thinking the same thing
I've never felt less sorry for a victim. "I'm so broke because of her!" No dude, you're broke because of YOU. A two time divorced geriatric man thought he could buy a 26 year old "fresh looking girl" on the internet and marry her. That's how this really shakes out. You tried to buy a human being.
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Her: No sex before marriage.
Dude, there will be no sex EVER.
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lololololol
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Lmao
Aww. She's a virgin. How traditional!🤣
0:18 "I'm not paying for you to be a girlfriend. I'm paying for you to be my future wife" - not even 20 sec into the video and he already lost my sympathy.
His two strokes got my sympathy but what was he like before they happened? He was up there paying for others to minister to his needs. I figured the strokes impaired his thinking but maybe they emphasized what was already going South.
He buys a girlfriend experience and thinks he’s the only one getting that? That’s beyond delusional.
No, he somehow caught the feels and asked his "pretend GF" to drop all her other clients and marry him.
@@lwscijunkie which is really delusional because she was getting more money being a fake OF model then she would if she had actually married him
🎶Everybody plays a fool"...sometimes "🎶😅
@thankthelord4536 there's no exception to the rule!
Some Men think they are The only ones that have money.😂😂😂
I believe some Men think women live in a cage and only him hás acces to that women.
“the bond really began to grow between us”. lmao!!
This wasn't a scam - the guy signed up for it.
If you pay for a "girlfriend experience" of course she's gonna pretend to be your girlfriend cause that's literelally what she's being paid to do. This creep can't tell fact from fiction. He misunderstood the service she was offering for actually buying a girlfriend. Gross.
He likes fresh looking girls, so he went to Only Fans!
I think it's important that today, the day after a heated US election, that every Democrat, every Republican, and every Independent set aside their differences, join together and in one resounding voice ask: "Tom, what the hell were you thinking?"
Lol, based on how popular Reality TV is in our country, and how many people actually believe that the characters on these shows are being filmed performing as themselves as they are in their "real" lives.... ummmmm....
😂😂😂 Amen
Hahahahahaha that’s hilarious! 😁
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Good one.😂😂😂
A fool and his money will go separate ways. 😂
his poor daughter, how embarrassing to see yout dad creeping on girls young enough to be your friends from high school
Wait, he had a daughter?! 😱
More than one daughter . Why didn’t they want to spend Christmas with him .
@@jennyfrmpmac9878from both his earlier marriages 😅
Yo I'm 52, same age as any 'kids' this clown could've. Let's get real: He's easily pushing 90 yrs old.
He signed up for the girlfriend experience and she upgraded him to the gold digger experience.
He said he offered to start paying her rent. How does that make her a gold digger, if he willingly opened his wallet and said "take my money"?
@sadie2melw It was a joke.
Play stupid dopey games , get stupid dopey prizes .
Dumb dude asked for it . Dumb dude got it .
@@MadKitty10 for sure. He deserves it a million percent. I was just making a joke.
@@sadie2melwthe prostitute experience 😂
I don't get these older men thinking that young women are going to want to marry them out of nowhere when they aren't either super wealthy or Richard Gere! And the reverse is true for women. 😔
Some people are just delusional. At some point, as in this man's case, it isn't about loneliness. He went to only fans for a young sexy pretend girlfriend. He needed someone to feed his ego. I mean if he was looking for someone to take care of him there are legitimate healthcare companies that can provide that. They will cook, clean, and provide companionship. Also, it wouldn't have cost him $70,000.
And live out in the. middle of nowhere with them, caring for their declining health.
I am not only victim blaming, I'm saying it is this guy who is the perpetrator. We all get scam calls and emails because of guys like this. He's knowing funding an army of scammers to pester us. Every time I see a scammer, I ask why they even do it? Because of this guy.
These men are alone in their twilight years for a reason.
Agree. He is elderly and ill but has adult children...But he got into OF because he did not want to be alone for the holidays. He's estranged from his adult children so there's probably an ugly backstory of some kind.
@@lwscijunkie the alone for the holidays part made no sense. Did he expect this stranger to fly halfway across the world to spend the holidays with an old man that they did not know and his family?
After spending the money, he still end up alone for the holidays
@@lwscijunkieI'm with you on that. With how perverted he is. You never know what he's done to his kids or their friends. He's a narcissist at the very least.
@@mildredpierce4506Right…he signed up for a *virtual* girlfriend experience, then got upset she kept it strictly virtual. Make it make sense. Any romantic talk or promises to visit/move were part of her pretending to be in a relationship with him, which is what he signed up for and was paying for 🤦🏻♀️
A Libby on a Libby campus working for Libby ‘Z … a simp of the highest order. Whatta jabroni lol
“I never had a reason to doubt her.”
🤦🏻♀️ come on, man.
Tom is a creep. He’d have better luck going to a strip club to find a wife.
“We like the same colors.” What is he, 5?
It's like he's in Kindergarten...you like red??? I LIKE RED!! let's be best friends...
May have a mental health disorder; would also explain how he’s annoyed that she’s not loyal to him and yet is on onlyfans.
Bhhhahaa
We both like pink ?? #soulmates
5 and a half! Unbelievable! I think something is off in his brain.
"Real Allyson is completely innocent". Scrip writer, you made my day with this one
We just gunna ignore a 61 year old man trying to marry a woman in her 20s?
I'm 62 and get guys as young as 21 contacting me on dating sites. I look good for my age, but come on, I know what I look like compared to a 30 yo
Bye bye 👎
To be real real, they are chasing a bag, not you. It's like the 20 yr olds that chase after men that are 50+. It's not looks, it's a financial transaction. @@ScubaFanatic60
Right! She's probably younger than his own kids!
And he's working at a college around women that age.
He really thought a 26yr old porn star was going to leave her country fly over to the US and be the wife of a 61yr old man who had a stroke, slurs his speech and doesn't work. 🤦🏾♀️
He's using a 20 year old pic for his profile, but he's upset that he's getting scammed. Make it make sense!
He's a narcissist.
😂
@@Veracityseeker7 Everyone is a narcissist nowadays
@@NickyBlue99yeah they ARE
Hilarious when people use old pics.
The way I see it this is not even a scam. They had an arrangement. She was pretending to like him be his virtual gf and get paid in exchange. They agreed exactly on that and now he feels cheated?! What am I missing?
I think maybe he thought he was literally buying a girlfriend, and feels scammed now.
she was supposed to fall head over heels in love with him & quit OF to be his special OF girl since he sent $$$
She employed a chatter pretending to be her 😂😂
I'm even older than he is, but I will never be so delusional, desperate or lonely to do something remotely like this. My self worth exceeds anyone's monetary value to me. 100% on him.
You know what's immoral..... Buying another person
you're not buying a person, you're paying for a service....that's what S** work is, its a service...you get this, you pay this. Like getting a massage, hope that helps :)
Internet is crawling with it. Even on RUclips I was following fillipina girls living and vlogging in Jaoan. Then one stated on her vlog that a 'nice man had paid me $200 to treat myself'. Obviously some silly old fool who'd been watching her videos. Needless to say the feedback on that was not good with many people calling her out for basically selling herself online and scamming. She's now gone from.sayinh its a guy she knows IRL (YEAH RIGHT 😂😂),to now getting angry and saying well at least I get money out of it. Absolutely shameless. These people are known in every country they infest as parasites, scammers, vultures and scavengers. But at least she's revealed to her subscribers exactly who she is 😂
@@sapphire22011I'm from SEA and even we know here in SEA that Filipinos tend to be some of the most crooked when it comes to money. I steer clear, personally. lying, and cheating, for money is not that uncommon there
@@sapphire22011What??😰
@blueStarKitt7924
🤣🤣🤣
He said: "He's BROKE because of her..." **NO!!! He's BROKE because of his foolishness!!! SMFH....
i agree
Most shocking part: Woolworths is still open…in South Africa!
For real I miss Woolworths
That’s what I thought too!
@djmekalek2134 Funny, I noticed that as well.
It's not your American Woolworths, totally different ownership
@@metamorphicme9378 who said anything about an American Woolworths
How do they keep a straight face during the interviews?? 😂
Tons of practice would be my guess.
This one would be difficult
😂
You paid for a service. Service ends when payment ends. What did I miss?
They were using someone else's pictures to sucker him in. That's why it's a problem. If it were actually the person they represented themselves as, then he got what he paid for.
@@tomknack that's what you got?!
you know that on phone service lines most of them are different women or even men! this kind of services are about delusion and illusion!
Right. I mean I assume he has a mental illness, but he got what he paid for. That’s one of the oldest businesses in the world. Men still paying for it. He could of gone out and tried to meet someone his own age
@@tomknack While I understand that the business woman was using someone else's picture, she could have just as easily AI'd a person. He was doing the 21st Century equivalent of pen palling to a "Lonely Hearts" column, or calling a 1-900 number for phone sex.
He paid the level for a fantasy girlfriend to text/sext with him on a daily basis and have one-hour of phone time once a week. It doesn't matter what she did or didn't look like that wasn't the level he purchased.
@@tomknackhe was using onlyfans to find ‘companionship’ he suckered himself in
We've hit a new low of stupidity.
I know right.
Intelligence is limited, stupidity is not.
@Random_user_8472 Truth!
Let's leave the election out of this though.
Now you know how we elected a pedophile and a sex predator in a felon for president people in this country are just freaking stupid
He blames this fake model for taking all of his money, when he gladly handed it over when he thought she was a younger woman. The only person to blame is himself for being stupid.
Beyond stupidity ☜ (↼_↼)
I love it when people pay for love and s*x but then claim "what she does is immoral"🤦♀️
paying for a service isn't the same as being scammed. Paying for sex is only immoral to conservative prudes.
I love that women lie and use men for money but then claim "what he does is immoral"
@@maximilianvs8430Allyson, the OF model from the video didn’t say the guy was immoral. This commenter here did (and she’s right) and she did NOT lie or use men for money.
I think what he said was the things she was doing with all the other men was immoral, but he glossed over what she did with him…that was obviously A-OK. Can you say hypocrite?
@@maximilianvs8430 I just know you have many OF subscriptions
This man doesn’t need a wife he needs a therapist. And a good one at that!
He can’t afford one now…
Hope it’s not a female one… 🤣😭
What about meds...😂
He needs a mirror, and some self awareness 😳
But he is all out of funds now, shit out of luck.
We had so much in common. Same music, colors and food. Deep. That’s deep. Can’t argue with that.
Wait, blue is your favorite color? OMG, mine too! I love tacos, do you love tacos?
I hear wedding bells…no, wait, that’s one of the two microwaves you sent her…Tom Tom Tom
@@brenda5511 HAHAHAHAH
😂😂😂😂
@@brenda5511 that was too funny!!
"we share the same values" 😂
Using terms like “our bond grew” “our relationship became stronger” “we knew each other so well”
It’s scary that people lack the self awareness to see that it’s entirely one sided.
This is pitiful. He is 61 yrs old and has been married twice previously. He should have enough life experience to not fall for this but here we are.
Exactly!!
@@els1736 He is clearly in cognitive decline. His remaining funds should be put in receivership.
He’s 61 wow
@@PandaHead602 I thought he was 91
More like pathetic
“ Tom has decided to take a break from Only Fans”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Only because he's broke. This was his 4th or 5th girlfriend experience. Hopefully, he learns from this $70,000 lesson.
I think he's gonna have to start DOING OF to get some of that 💰 back
@@deezkeez But who'd pay for that, haha.
@ivanov....after the shenanigans Americans have pulled in these elections, anything is possible...
The fact he has daughters and says he likes girls fresh....gross
I wonder what he would think of his daughter(s) dating a guy his age.
@@Lunafalls You are too old for him, so hop it.
@@JackTorse-b1gshe’s too old for the broke, developmentally delayed, old geriatric divorcé? 😂😂😂
Exactly, these men get what they deserve. There’s plenty of women near his age that are single and looking for a companion!
I got the impression that he _may_ have meant "natural" more-so than fresh. I don't know if the stroke affected his language processing at all, but even if it didn't it's a potential word mistake/misunderstanding/misinterpretation someone could potentially do.
Anyway, while I do think such an extreme gap is odd and unrealistic (or generally immoral), I would also say that the logic of your argument is entirely fallacious. If you had a parent that was 16 years older than you does that mean it would also be gross to be in a relationship with someone who was 16 years older than you?
04:07 "She had no tattoos and no piercings, which is also very attractive to me" *picture of the woman in question with a piercing appears on the screen*… Stupid men are honestly one of the greatest forms of comedy.
You had a stroke and your highest priority after leaving the hospital is paying for a girlfriend…..this speaks VOLUMES about his intellect and character…..
Ikr and he has kids too he could be using his money to buy them gifs and stuff or spending time with them smh
He's a lonely victim and should sue
@@Nicholas-f5😂
Not to defend any of his choices but stroke can affect cognition and decision making especially temperofrontal
The sister switch was the con.
*$70,000?!??!?!* How do people afford to flush their money down the toilet??
well he said hes in debt now, so I guess it wasnt even his money :') I guess it belongs to some bank or some people didnt get their money yet..
But for real.. I also dont understand how people can collect that much debt, at some point you wouldnt even get a credit anymore
Yup as I said many times before , here we are in the real world working hard (sometimes 2 jobs) to pay the bills 😒 meanwhile these people have hundreds of thousands of dollars lying around to give away on a fantasy 😏
This is why I have NOOOOO sympathy for any of them .
I keep wondering this, 😮it’s nuts
$75,000 - as they say, a fool and his money are soon parted.
If you have good credit and a job, credit card companies will, sadly, give you 20-50k credit lines.
All those old men wanting a relationship with women four times younger than them. It's creepy.
They want young 😼
The only reason men don't date 12 year old kids is because it's ilegal. they don't want to be known as PDFiles.
I agree. I'm sure Catfished team can easily realize that. They should be more honest about that with all these creepy oldies.
Absolutely gross!
Shes younger than his daughters
Paying for her to ACT like a girlfriend and mad she's...too good at her job?? I'll also never understand these dudes who fall for girls who do OF and stuff and then get mad when they wanna keep doing OF
I absolutely love the subscribers and members of this channel. I love the comments more than the stories!
Same here!
Oh absolutely I agree. Ivory watch these videos over and over again not because I want to watch the video but to check out the comment section and see the new comments. This is my favorite channel
Same! Im here for the comments!😂😂😂
He's an unkempt scruff, a fool and lacking any backbone - what woman could possibly want him?
Dude is over 60, had 2 strokes and still thinks a young hot woman could be in love with him... 🤣🤣🤣
Without being a Millionare. That’s the key here
Guarentee he's a Trump supporter.
They never want someone like them 😂
@@dougwarren5471why bring politics into everything? God damn people
@@dougwarren5471Isn't it the Kamala crowd thats into women's "rights" to do such things as Onlyfans?
Tom has MAJOR ISSUES. 😳
Sadly for Tom .. there's no fool like an old fool .. and a fool and their money are easily parted .
70 thousand is bad but it coulda been sooo much worse .
Bet his kids are disappointed.. two microwaves.. two T.V's .. best Samsung galaxy on the market .. yada + yada 🫣
Ya think?😂
@jrlv62 😸👍
Yes. Honestly if I encountered him through my work I would be filing a vulnerable adult report with the county.
Space control to Major Tom...
While there is an element of sadness to this story, I find it VERY hard to be empathetic to people who put themselves into this situation. She played you, bro.
Tom got what he paid for. Tom's problem is he can't afford the "girlfriend experience" any longer.
He likes certain women because they look "fresh?" Dude, do you have mirrors?
He paid for a service, a fake relationship, fake emotions. His contract was fulfilled. Even if this is a scammer, they provided the paid for SERVICE, PERIODT!
Aren't they just really good at their 'job?' 🤷♀️
@Drea473 You’re right. It was a clearly stated TRANSACTION. One of his problems was he got emotional ,thinking it was real, they’d get married, and getting jealous she was making adult vids for other men for money.
He even referred to paying for a "pretend girlfriend"...!
He uses a walker 😂
@@gonelucid That he uses a walker isn’t his fault. Hope you never have a stroke. Even if he was a 90 year old paraplegic, as long as everyone is realistic about it, there’s nothing wrong with paying to have a fake girlfriend. His problem was expecting the real thing when he went into it paying for the fake version.
@@gonelucid Now he doesn't need to walk to the ATM anymore, it is drained.
Thinks paying for a 'girlfriend experience' means getting an actual girlfriend - duh 🙄
Sorry where is the scam? He paid for a fake relationship, the business transaction was 100% agreed upon by both parties.
She lied.to.him about marrying annd moving in thats the scam
She said she would move to america
@@DKi-f5y Perhaps those lies lead him to continue paying her, but also that's kinda part of what he paid for - pretending that they are in love and gonna be together so the "lies" were literally part of what he paid for. Regardless, there was no scam. He agreed to pay for a pretend girlfriend, and that's exactly what he got.
Should've contacted her mother instead.
The fact that he works for a university is just so nasty....
like another comment said, check his hard drive. He is a scummy old man
He might be unemployed after this
Right. He probably fantasizes about the girls there. Ewww!
He didn't want to be lonely. He also didn't want to date a woman in his league.
This☝🏽. I don’t get it..,.
Hell, nowadays you can find some pretty hot 60 year olds: Don’t sleep! I’m in my late 50’s and I have hot friends. I may even be a “hot friend.”
@@EveryGirlEveryWhere Nah, you are feeding us garbage, get a fake gf and stroke it, from afar. Best deal.
@@EveryGirlEveryWhereyes but these hit 60 year old wouldn't want him
He looks like those old preds@@ironknobsteelworks4063
@@EveryGirlEveryWhere Fully agreed. I mean there are plenty of 20 something year olds that will sleep with him for money if that is what he wants. But for companionship, you need to not being looking at superficial looks at all, and looking at who the person is to see if they match. You cannot have both, and he should realize this by now. I hope I remember this if I am still his age and single.
He pays for a girlfriend experience, and then forgets it's all pretend, and it taken advantage of. He is in denial that he caused the who scam.
My Gosh, a man going to ONLY FANS for a wife. SMH.
Just the type of women who look like they want to settle down & meet your family 😆
He's a good Guy saving a Young women from poverty.
He's doing Good's work out there, we canta blame him.😂😂😂😂
"I did something incredibly stupid and it didn't turn out well. I'm pissed!"
"I'm paying for her to be my future wife" so, youre trying to buy a human.
Lol no, not unless he expected that once she was his wife he could keep her prisoner! Paying to get a wife happens, I don’t agree with it, but unless you think you’re getting a literal slave, it’s not “buying a human”.
That's a new one: The scammer tries to end it?
Wow South Africa, we made it 😮🇿🇦. Our first appearance on Scamfish. Our crimes are never THIS sophisticated 😅😆
lol but then it could still be Nigerians living in South Africa, especially if they are from Pta since there is a considerable number of Nigerians in PTA. Just wish their IP tracker went deeper into tracking exactly where that place is in PTA. But yes we have made it.
Congrats South Africa! 👏 🎉
What crime? There was no scam or crime here lol.
LOL
Yep nijas lol 😜
“She’s got no tattoos or piercings “ shows picture of her with a nose piercing 🤦🏼♀️
😮😅
Haha I noticed that
But obviously he ain't so clued up 🤷🏼♀️
And he's talking to Brianne, who looks beautiful with her nose piercing.
Oof, I feel that internet access should only be given to those who can pass an exam.
Agreed 😂
I mean it was the joke in the early '00s. But at this point nah, social media exists. I do miss the internet before social media became a thing.
The whole “girlfriend/boyfriend experience” might be THE cringiest thing I can imagine, and that’s saying something. 🤦🏼♀️
I'm 10000% sure that, even if the girl is real, they don't have anything in common. The 'girlfriend experience' includes things like agreeing with your views, taking your side no matter what, and pretending you have hobbies in common, etc.. You know, telling you what you want to hear. That's the service you paid for and you got it.
The older they get, the smarter they ain't.
Gotta wonder how some of these people have survived in the world 🫣
One way Catfished can get through to him is to make it clear that she was excellent at her JOB of being his pretend girlfriend. The scammer built up the girlfriend experience slowly and got to that stage where he actually believed she would come to him and be his wife in person. Now that is good acting!
I’m older than this guy and have zero sympathy for. He’s an idiot and deserves to be taken.
I'm 72 years old, still reasonably fit for my age and can't even meet a woman my own age in the bloody grocery store to help pick out a nice melon or squeeze the Charmin with much less find a 25 year old OF model to be my future wife.
Dude paid 75k for the girlfriend experience?? I have paid over 100k for the ex wife experience!!
Lol
😂
That's why I refused to marry.. 4 times..
Some divorce lawyer is pissed they don’t have that other 25k, huh 😂
(Sorry you guys were unhappy. Seriously. That sucks.)
😂😂😂
"I like girls that are fresh-looking" what the actual f dude..... Someone call Skeeter
Predator pasta
He doesn’t look fresh looking, but he wants a woman who is fresh looking. He never thought that a fresh looking woman would also want a fresh looking man.
Skeeted in 4K!
he wears them air preds
Sir... You are not broke because of her. You are broke because of you.
"I'm so broke it's not even funny. Because of her."
No, not because of her.
His kids are probably tired of his antics smh
There has to be some kind of backstory. He is old and sick and has adult children yet he is dreading being alone for the holidays. I wonder if he was a rotten father and was already estranged from his adult children before the scam or that he became estranged from them because they warned him he was going broke for a romance scam and he wouldn't listen.
I don't know how you manage to keep a straight face as people tell you these stories. They all have a predictable arc to them.
They probably do out takes in between LOLs
He lost me at " I like them fresh looking. " GROSS!
He’s not fresh looking, but he expects his Internet Internet girlfriend to be fresh looking.
He never consider that a woman that Young would also want a man who’s fresh looking.
With no tattoos or piercings
Poor Tom is slow . He fell for the oldest trick in the book.
He got exactly what he paid for. Someone pretended to care about him for money.
another moron who missed the part where the account scamming him was a cloned account run by a scammer who was pretending to be the OF model and offering services using this OF models photographs and ID whilst on another platform to evade OF moderators picking up on suspicious activity. That's fraud. Pay attention next time, Jake you soft cnut.
he got a real gf experience