Agreed.. When a man makes an investment into a woman, we want exclusive access to her. That means she has No Attachments to other men. This is how Men have instinctively chosen mates for thousands of years. A woman's Youthfulness & Purity is what makes her valuable. Even men who have children shouldn't deal with single mothers..
I tell the woman with the 4 children she's not wife material as most women especially black women. Do the fact they are no longer groomed to be ladies nore wives, and the ones that are groomed abandoned what they are taught do to the fact the world is at all time moral low!!! Especially in America!
The term Real men being said by women are a gaslighting term. I've never heard a requirement of a real men that benefit men. All these Real men requirements benefit women
I'm not American so i seriously have trouble understanding this new mindset of "Modern women". 3 Kids from 3 different men, and still be able to feel offended with truth. 😐
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
I’m with ya. These mothers can spin ANY bad situation into an enticing euphemistic lie. Don’t judge her for her shitty mistakes yet they judge very man who’s shorter than them😂
What women fail to understand is that a confident Man, responsible enough to have no kids out of marriage expects a woman to be equally accountable. 3 baby daddy's, 3 strikes, and you're excomunicado.
The one that said she was in a bad situation for 12 years but found a better situation and still decided to leave that "better" situation because it wasn't for her, is a whole clown.
Facts....even to play devils advocate you date a guy "better" but still not a good guy granted u live an u learn she woman going off emotions...nowhere are u required to have his kids!!!! You still not learning from yo old mistakes
Cracking eggshells in a bowl with the egg is a mistake, spelling a word incorrectly is making a mistake, forgetting that McDonald's coupons end tomorrow so I gotta use them up today is a mistake! Having many children with many different men isn't a mistake, it was a poor choice!
These chicks took every opportunity possible to assert psychological force on this dude and he didn't budge once, and didn't match the energy at all. Really shows why all of them are in the situations they're in. Grown women acting like children. And a strong black man with a bulletproof masculine frame.
3 children from 3 different men is not a good look…….ladies. It’s disingenuous that these women act like they don’t understand. James with the HAT is the guy none of those ladies want.
It’s not the mistake that they have 3 for 3 it’s the fact that the men they “want” rejects them for it that’s the only reason why it sizzles in their spirit
this is the funny thing I noticed very early... NONE of them want the guy in the hat even though he is willing to accept women with kids but yet the mad at the one that isn't
It's a turnoff to see that females can have preferences without questions, but men can't without being canceled or dragged in the mud of public opinion.
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
Brian is directly on point.Listen to everything the women saying.They are ready to tear him and what he wants down even though these are his choices.He never said their choices were wrong for them.The reality is accountability will help anyone make better decisions for their future.
It would require a large group of MEN for a large group of WOMEN to feel the need to change. The kind of men you speak of are a small minority which is why women will believe they have so many options of men who will accept them.
@Skywalker721 oh that's called passport bros. Or men not even getting married or dating women at all now, we all doing it an we are all standing on business cuz when we men say we are gonna do something we resolve ourselves to stick to it with no exceptions. Look online an see how women are breaking down from us doing this. We are men of principles indeed
@colestony I'm a stepfather and I love my kids. At the end of the day, unless you're married and have established where you stand as a husband, you're the head of household.
She only said that because she was triggered as soon as he said men take on accountability and the truth hurts so she had to scream out the lie women take on accountability because no other women was going to say something on the panel and she had to protect the sisterhood.
I can guarantee you if you were ask her to define the word accountability as per the dictionary her version of the definition wouldn’t even come close. Most of these hyenas use words they can’t spell nor know the actual definition. 🤦🏾♂️
They want you to come crash out financially for her and some other ninja's kids. These babymamas don't care about you. They're looking for sponsors and clean-up men for their terrible choices.
Agreed you can't change people's interest or attraction there is no reason to keep trying to convince them or even be mad about it. It sucks but would you really want someone who doesn't want what you want? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Just keep it pushin
if a relationship is truly abusive your not going to wait 12 years to split as a man I've been with several mentally abusive women (manipulators, use crocodile tears to get what they want, can never be wrong in an argument) and I usually don't go over 6 months of dating them if they cant mend their ways. Women use the term "Abuse" so loosely now a days none of them can be believed which is sad for the women who truly are. just a room full of women trying to tell men how to be men all while not having men.
Facts... A female got 60 days to fix her issue or I'm gone. My first wife turned to drugs I was not about to sit around and wait for a mf to make a decision. Took my kids and left that was 11 yrs ago ain't looked back and i feel no regrets. There is no excuse to me 🤷🏿♂️.
Real Talk Homeboi just speaking hardcore facts. It’s a great deal of women that’s delusional to the reality. The woman sitting next to him talking about she needs a strong man, No what she’s really saying she need a strong Simp. She need to live with her decision and just be a single woman. It’s going to take a special guy to take on her and the kiddos and it don’t have nothing to do with strength.
Facts they say that shit like they get points for It. He was abusive and I survived. What? Then what about the next bd he abusive too like damn. Whoever they with the dude wants to kill them. That says something right there
I wouldn't even want to be within earshot of her in public. Maybe someone likes it, but she has displayed several consistent traits between here and the show--in her communication alone--that are nonstarters alone for me. I wonder what her redeemable qualities are.
Intolerable podna. I couldn't imagine being with her & having to be a role model for her kids. She's the type to remote control when & how a Man discipline kids. Go punish him for dat, dnt punish him for dat, oh so you ain't gon tell him nothing. Madness lol!
The boldness takez away from her beauty as not so elegant. By presenting herself so egotistical and lack to embrace a man or to disrespect him for his standards. To suggest a man to be less than a Man if not willing to hold down her fort. The delusions & lack to comprehend accountability of these no class having messy women these days is way beyond bounds of seriously remaining civilized. I think these are radical feminists with conflicted between entitlement & a victimised mindsets to be believing that independence saves them from lonliness. Lets be real if men of war comes to these wm forts & they not covered by no REAL men, then They'll be accountable by then frfr I bet! Wm go to lean more towards Extreme feminist when all they know how to do is disrespect, lie on men, emasculate men, shame, over talk &/or disregarding the authority of men by physically attacking him, not listening to his permissions, over stepping bounds or stepping outside of a mans security after bein courted but thinking a man has to still tolerate, protect & provide for her along with her kids. This the crazy Felicia Hyenas type brothers learn being MGTOW from 'Men Going There Own Way" until they can be a passport bro.
Alot of them were missing the point..in this case no one has a problem with anyone having kids. Its the amount of SEPARATE PARTNERS whom they had these children with.
That guy with the hat on in the purple is ridiculous. He’s pandering to those women HARD. It’s not going to work. If he’s been in relationships with single mothers… why is he no longer with them? He got played. He sounds desperate. Making a fool of himself.
The men who are fathers said they'd check the stepfather for whooping their kids and the women called it an insecurity. Men kill for theirs if need be. So why die for a kid that's not yours, a family you didn't create and a woman who will replace you
Correct the risk management doesn’t add up . Plus you don’t get your own legacy . It’s actually a burden on you and removes the chances for you to fulfill your own mating purpose. It’s absolutely stupid to marry a woman with multiple baby fathers it’s ridiculous she is bottom of the barrel that is truly settling. Modern women truly have a narcissistic superiority complex and grandiose ego. The irony is they the only ones with the superiority complex they the only ones with the rethoric never settle, they believe themselves to be superior and above men. Men for the very least have humility never rarely ever say don’t settle
@@illdoctrine9329Judging someone of their appearance is your first mistake you automatically sound ignorant. Second mistake is trying to look cool and smart. The only Imbecile here is you. 🥴
😂😂😂😂😂 not ONE woman ever said "I might have made a decision that could potentially hinder me for the rest of my life." Instead they try to shame a man that don't wanna inherit a family he didn't create
Which is fkd up because if you have kids with a woman and don't help she talks shit but if you don't jave kids with her and won't take care of her kids sthey still tall shi
They also never said “maybe I chose a man who ain’t sh-t because maybe I MYSELF ain’t sh-t?”. It’s never ever them. One lady said her baby daddy said to her in front of her child “that ain’t my child”. Not once did you ever see his other bad qualities and say “I’m not ever bringing a child in the world with him”? That’s all these ladies’ problem: they want the “fun guy” and the guy who’s always fun is that way because he’s carefree without responsibilities! Y’all kicking it in the middle of the day on a random Thursday and never did anything cross your mind like “why is he not at work? He doesn’t go to school?” These women are so engrossed in doing whatever they want at the moment and they wanna run away and cry when it’s time to pay the Piper. Women who end up in these positions are not there coincidentally.
If a woman in the present refuses to accept the perspective of a man who is not interested in a woman with multiple kids by multiple men, then Im making a judgement on her mindset today that I have no interest dating her.
The irony is that most women would be attracted to a Brian type than a James type, even though James is willing to be a stepdad to multiple kids. Talk about reality.
I'm 61yrs old,& I'm very (proud) of you young brothers building your Pod-casts,& giving a voice to men/black men especially!.In my day, no talk shows,nor Pod-casts did this!.God speed to my (young-brothers)!.Keep up your strong voices, where we Old G's failed you!.👍
A woman with " a starting line up" will never be a GOOD DEAL in most relationships.The man will always be on the backfoot everytime he tries to stamp his authority in that household. 😢😢😢😢
A single mother of a child or children will place ‘her’ kids above the stepfather. The stepfather will not have a valid position within that household other than financial.
That lady on Brian's right, the one with three kids. I think she really digs Brian. She probably wouldn't mind having him has her 4th baby daddy...😂❤😊😅
Yup.. I thought I was the only one that saw it. She is definitely attracted to him.. & if he gave her a sniff, she would be ready for a fwb situation. She just can’t stand the fact that he doesn’t want her.
They twist that term all the time when you find a good woman and make her your wife then it can be a good thing but women interpret it as any women you get is automatically good
We devalue men with multiple baby moms just the same. Brian brought to light an embarrassing topic they weren’t prepared to confront on tv initially….on the flip side I’d like to add, a single woman no kids or multiple baby dads ( top teir ) doesn’t mean she has never been PREGNANT multiple times by multiple men. Some women carry their “shame” while some have have ABORTIONS. And you will never know! Does that still make her top tier? We extend grace always for the right person
Three babies for three different man, and they want a high-value man. In their dreams. As a woman I would not want a man that has three kids, etc with three different woman. We have to be responsible adults.
Dating a woman with kids for a man without kids automatically puts the man in a deficit. Let alone multiple kids and multiple BDs. It’s a bad ROI…point blank period.
The man would literally be put in last place. I've been there to witness my GF (a baby mama) put everyone in front of me and my needs, while I was the one paying majority of the bills.
It's funny when they try to play the "YOU CAN'T FIRE ME BECAUSE I QUIT!" card...😂 He wasn't interested in any of them but a couple of them acted like they disqualified him...😂 Also...I like how he remained calm while the Hyena was attempting to use Sign Language to trigger him.
That's funny but irritating when some do that 😂😂😂. A poor attempt to control false narrative that they still control the dynamic even though they were already disqualified. No matter the women's circumstances, if she thinks she's cuter than she actually is, she will maintain this arrogant mindframe on her looks being able to land her a whale, multiple children notwithstanding. Confidence or psychosis??
@1stone379 ...Right. I think it's because their egos are so fragile that they have to try to trick the man into believing they rejected him when he rejects them. Definitely Psychosis.
The sick part is when these women try to redefined a "real man" as a man who will take on the responsibility of other men's kids and her and put himself last. That a true provider and protector will marry a women who has made bad decisions in her life and bail her out. All this rather than find a good wife who has made good, intelligent decisions throughout her life. A woman that you can trust to make good decisions when you are not around and will have your back.
An the most disgusting part is that they can't see that they should never speak on that since they aren't men an will never be men. Fools don't even know what real men look like with all the horrible decisions they keep making involving bad men an looking over good men
Speaking to them the way he did was “harsh” because of their actions that they can control… but they would pop their balloon because of a man’s height which is something they cannot change… yes they do not have accountability.
1. I'm glad that Bryan stood his ground on the whole stepfather thing & women having multiple baby daddies (The problem with that woman with multiple baby daddies is her attitude, she masculine with that "I'm strong & independant" crap, etc) 2. The lack of accountability from those women was unbelievable (It just shows their fear of self reflection & growing wiser as a person)
We need more men like Brian!!! Stand your ground my brother! Why don't any of these women take accountability for themselves. We need to just accepting just anything from black women!
Many of these ladies are in denial about how a single man chooses to be or not to be a stepdad to multiple children! If you as the mother are in your feelings or denial about your parental decisions…don’t be upset when a single man does not want to be your kids financial provider! Their own fathers did not chose to be there! Interesting.
Boss, please connect me with the gentleman in the purple shirt. I’d be happy to offer coaching support-there’s so much that shapes who we are today, and I’d love to explore how we can revisit and improve things moving forward!
Reality always triumphant! This lady is over 40 single still and on a dating show 😂 So therefore your decision making skills is HORRIBLE🤦🏾♂️ and miss 3/3 also proved why she's still single once she went masculine mode😭
The more they talk the more they inadvertently proved why he made the wise decision
Yes and remember these American women don’t appreciate honesty…they can’t even tolerate it.
Agreed.. When a man makes an investment into a woman, we want exclusive access to her. That means she has No Attachments to other men. This is how Men have instinctively chosen mates for thousands of years. A woman's Youthfulness & Purity is what makes her valuable. Even men who have children shouldn't deal with single mothers..
Bbbbut she said she is a strong independent woman…seriously the stuck up attitude is annoying
Men raise your own children try your best to keep all ya eggs in one basket!
I tell the woman with the 4 children she's not wife material as most women especially black women. Do the fact they are no longer groomed to be ladies nore wives, and the ones that are groomed abandoned what they are taught do to the fact the world is at all time moral low!!! Especially in America!
It just funny how they love using the word REAL man when they themselves never been REAL women
This is western women more so black women ideology towards relationships.
i fell on the floor everytime they said REAL MAN
😂😂😂. You are right about that.
Nothing is real about them
The term Real men being said by women are a gaslighting term. I've never heard a requirement of a real men that benefit men. All these Real men requirements benefit women
I really man rules his house and tells them to shut their damn pie-hole.
Why does the next man have to be equipped to hold down a fort that he never built????
Dating a single mom is like arriving late to a house party, after everyone has already left, and the home owner expects you to clean up the mess.
While she continues to party with the kids fathers 😂😂
😅😅😅
Yes, you can pick over the half eaten sandwiches and drink that beer with a cigarette butt floating in it.....
If not "you ain't equipped...."
@@eleveneleven572😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Much worse than that
They can deny men based on skin tone, height and money. But we have to have an entire segment on a man not wanting to take care of 4 other men’s kids.
That is is sooo crazy to me too. The crazy thing about it is no one ever says it to their face at the time. On these videos...
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U see why brothers gettin passports
@Zulu-Lemon...don't forget about weight as well.
This is why men are indefinitely done with these women
Its not a punishment, its consequences of your choices.
Women talk about our delivery but disrespect us with their delivery daily
Bingo
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This a good point
You said a mouthful
💯.
Dude in the purple, is the real enemy to men who have standards.
Yes
Facts. That fedora is not helping either.
He can't see past the 🐈
Simp energy
Facts
I’m a woman and I stand with Brian there is nothing wrong with what he said✊🏾✊🏾
I'm not American so i seriously have trouble understanding this new mindset of "Modern women". 3 Kids from 3 different men, and still be able to feel offended with truth. 😐
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
“Woman” singular. “Women” plural.
@@alienkomplex1897 thank I fixed it
Salute to that man for not compromising his standard.
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
2 strong men and a room full of women.
🤣🤣🤣
😂
😂😂 exactly!!
Exactly!!!!
That....😂
Saying you were in an abusive relationship no longer works.
Especially if u say you were in it for 12 years . 😢 Lord take us out of darkness
that’s what they get when they refuse to let men protect them from other men
Exactly
These women are crazy I'm not interested in hearing what a single mother thinks a real man is 3 babies by 3 different men seriously
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE 😂 like how would you know your 3 kids by 3 different men add value then add another 5 to that didn't workout
She had 3 strikes 6 foul balls and still struck out. That's why the majors have a farm league.
I’m with ya. These mothers can spin ANY bad situation into an enticing euphemistic lie. Don’t judge her for her shitty mistakes yet they judge very man who’s shorter than them😂
facts bro. these heffas think we owe them an explanation as to why we don't wanna date single moms.
crazy broh!!!!, they want to destroy his life man
What women fail to understand is that a confident Man, responsible enough to have no kids out of marriage expects a woman to be equally accountable. 3 baby daddy's, 3 strikes, and you're excomunicado.
Welcome back Mr Wick. lol good pull!
@@19brittani😂
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Absolutely agree
Exactly! I have 1 child from my previous marriage and women look at me crazy when I don’t want women with multiple children from multiple men.
This guy spoke for alot of men who couldn't say what he just said 🎉
The one that said she was in a bad situation for 12 years but found a better situation and still decided to leave that "better" situation because it wasn't for her, is a whole clown.
Facts, like bro you ARE THE PROBLEM!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Like bro I was thinking the same dam thing bruh😂😂😂😂😂….a bad situation wasn’t good enough….neither was a good one💯💯💯💯😂😂😂😂…they really be buggin bro💯
Facts....even to play devils advocate you date a guy "better" but still not a good guy granted u live an u learn she woman going off emotions...nowhere are u required to have his kids!!!! You still not learning from yo old mistakes
She is an indecisive woman point blank.
This brother told no lies to these hyenas
Only liberal feminist men will take on a women with 3 baby daddies
I'm stealing this line and there's nothing you can do about it 😅😅😂😅😂😅
Bryan stands on business!! Never changed up! Salute my brother!!💪💯
These women are quoting the Bible but aren’t living out biblical principles. 😂
😂😂😂😂
Todays women😂
Yeah hiding behind a book like coward Tate
@@sbwlearning1372 Come again??
@@LB-kr5ku What didn't you understand?
Cracking eggshells in a bowl with the egg is a mistake, spelling a word incorrectly is making a mistake, forgetting that McDonald's coupons end tomorrow so I gotta use them up today is a mistake! Having many children with many different men isn't a mistake, it was a poor choice!
It’s a lifestyle
Bam! 🎯🎯🎯
BINGO!!
RIP Rich Homie Quan.....lksdhaskldfkjasdkjhfjakshdfhasjdhfjakhsjdhf Lifestylleeeeeee!😉😀
So many people do not understand the difference. But many do and just want to play stupid.
The moment James started talking you can tell he got some simping skills under his belt
The purple shirt guy, is a mythical Simp.
Mythical simp is crazy work 😂
@@DodgingChildSupport agree 😂😂
@@DodgingChildSupportthe choice of words is extremely accurate 😂😂
Pure Unadulterated Simp-athy
And he's never going to lay it, ever.
The dude with the hat is a simp.
Big time.
@@karlmax6031His name is James, yes, he’s a BIG ONE!!!
A serial masterbater
Yep. He will take care of everyone's child 😂
Facts lol hope his homeboys clown him when he’s back home lol
These chicks took every opportunity possible to assert psychological force on this dude and he didn't budge once, and didn't match the energy at all. Really shows why all of them are in the situations they're in. Grown women acting like children. And a strong black man with a bulletproof masculine frame.
3 children from 3 different men is not a good look…….ladies. It’s disingenuous that these women act like they don’t understand. James with the HAT is the guy none of those ladies want.
It’s not the mistake that they have 3 for 3 it’s the fact that the men they “want” rejects them for it that’s the only reason why it sizzles in their spirit
TRUE
this is the funny thing I noticed very early... NONE of them want the guy in the hat even though he is willing to accept women with kids but yet the mad at the one that isn't
It's a turnoff to see that females can have preferences without questions, but men can't without being canceled or dragged in the mud of public opinion.
How I wish Kevin Samuels was still alive. He must be rolling in his grave hearing these women giving excuses for having multiple kids with multiple baby daddies 😭
She said 25 years old is a young girl who lacked knowledge! At 25 years? You cannot make decisions?
The four baby daddies weren't OBVIOUSLY equipped either.
ha ha ha ah
We don't want to date them either...😉
Real shit
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Brian was being truthful for himself. I have no problem with what he said.
Brian is directly on point.Listen to everything the women saying.They are ready to tear him and what he wants down even though these are his choices.He never said their choices were wrong for them.The reality is accountability will help anyone make better decisions for their future.
Great point
He made the right choice. Start your own empire young man.
IF a Man stands on Principles , women would be less Delusional
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Thank you.
Exactly at the end of the day us fellas gotta start being really about discipline and stop letting the sex appeal be the end all be all 💯💯
It would require a large group of MEN for a large group of WOMEN to feel the need to change. The kind of men you speak of are a small minority which is why women will believe they have so many options of men who will accept them.
@Skywalker721 oh that's called passport bros. Or men not even getting married or dating women at all now, we all doing it an we are all standing on business cuz when we men say we are gonna do something we resolve ourselves to stick to it with no exceptions. Look online an see how women are breaking down from us doing this. We are men of principles indeed
I agree with, bro. It's better to start your own family, start fresh, and lead your own 💯
IT TAKE A VILLAGE TO RAISE A KID???????Naw it took a village to make them kids!!!!! 😅😅
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Exactly. You're not responsible for another man's kids.
😂😂😂
@@ratswagger as a step father...I agree. Somebody did it for me that carried a lot weight in my decision.
@colestony I'm a stepfather and I love my kids. At the end of the day, unless you're married and have established where you stand as a husband, you're the head of household.
"My kids are well taken care of. I'm an INDEPENDENT woman."
Then, what the hell you need me for??
Absolutely
& I can't discipline them. It's krazy to listen to. Talkn in circles
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THIS BROTHER DESERVES HIS OWN SHOW 👍🏽!
Wait.. did this woman let the words women embrace accountability fly out of her mouth.... CALL DA POLICE 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Yeah the delusion is real
She only said that because she was triggered as soon as he said men take on accountability and the truth hurts so she had to scream out the lie women take on accountability because no other women was going to say something on the panel and she had to protect the sisterhood.
@@BigLance27 yeah sisterhood can be very delusional sometimes…lmao
I can guarantee you if you were ask her to define the word accountability as per the dictionary her version of the definition wouldn’t even come close. Most of these hyenas use words they can’t spell nor know the actual definition. 🤦🏾♂️
People commit murders when they are young adults and we still consider them murderers even when they go to jail for “25” years 😂😂😂😂
True 😂
Well taking life and having multiple baby daddies is a little different but I hear you.
@@mikayd if it’s not multiple marriages but multiple baby daddies you’re making bad life decisions
@@AndreAdvocate oh I’m not disagreeing with you, I’m with you all the way.
This wild but real
Go and marry one of your 3 baby daddies
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In an abusive relationship for 12 YEARS! MULTIPLE CHILDREN BY DIFFERENT MEN. HORRIBLE DECISION MAKER
12 years is along time to keep staying in the same mistake. 😢 I don't get it fr .
They want you to come crash out financially for her and some other ninja's kids. These babymamas don't care about you. They're looking for sponsors and clean-up men for their terrible choices.
Finally Someone says it.
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Lmao its a full spectrum crash out
BIG FACTS
😅100% thump up
They do not want you to discipline their kids! But want you to provide for the kid.
If people don't want to date you for WHATEVER reason, keep it movin'!!! that's all🙄
Easier said than done to the person who gets rejected
Agreed you can't change people's interest or attraction there is no reason to keep trying to convince them or even be mad about it. It sucks but would you really want someone who doesn't want what you want? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Just keep it pushin
Thank you
Well Said!
Thanks 👍
if a relationship is truly abusive your not going to wait 12 years to split as a man I've been with several mentally abusive women (manipulators, use crocodile tears to get what they want, can never be wrong in an argument) and I usually don't go over 6 months of dating them if they cant mend their ways. Women use the term "Abuse" so loosely now a days none of them can be believed which is sad for the women who truly are. just a room full of women trying to tell men how to be men all while not having men.
Very well said!
They say "toxic masculinity" and "patriarchy" and "misogynistic" and "a real man would ....." as much as they breathe in and out.
Facts... A female got 60 days to fix her issue or I'm gone. My first wife turned to drugs I was not about to sit around and wait for a mf to make a decision. Took my kids and left that was 11 yrs ago ain't looked back and i feel no regrets. There is no excuse to me 🤷🏿♂️.
Very true
Easiest way to avoid accountability
Real Talk Homeboi just speaking hardcore facts. It’s a great deal of women that’s delusional to the reality. The woman sitting next to him talking about she needs a strong man, No what she’s really saying she need a strong Simp. She need to live with her decision and just be a single woman. It’s going to take a special guy to take on her and the kiddos and it don’t have nothing to do with strength.
I have come to understand when women say they been abused, they were usually the bad one
When women say
“they were abused”, they actually mean
“they were taken advantage of their stupidity and ignorance of reality”.
Too many times this is the case from what I have discovered also
Facts they say that shit like they get points for It. He was abusive and I survived. What? Then what about the next bd he abusive too like damn. Whoever they with the dude wants to kill them. That says something right there
All this women are just stupid .they can call a man broke but we cannot call them treacherous bastards
The lady with the blonde braids is extremely passive aggressive then she sugar coats that aggressiveness with respectful words after. Emotional!!
I wouldn't even want to be within earshot of her in public. Maybe someone likes it, but she has displayed several consistent traits between here and the show--in her communication alone--that are nonstarters alone for me. I wonder what her redeemable qualities are.
She looks like dani leigh. Fine af but yea not feminine at all, plus she's used up. Hard pass
Facts
Intolerable podna. I couldn't imagine being with her & having to be a role model for her kids. She's the type to remote control when & how a Man discipline kids. Go punish him for dat, dnt punish him for dat, oh so you ain't gon tell him nothing. Madness lol!
The boldness takez away from her beauty as not so elegant. By presenting herself so egotistical and lack to embrace a man or to disrespect him for his standards. To suggest a man to be less than a Man if not willing to hold down her fort.
The delusions & lack to comprehend accountability of these no class having messy women these days is way beyond bounds of seriously remaining civilized. I think these are radical feminists with conflicted between entitlement & a victimised mindsets to be believing that independence saves them from lonliness. Lets be real if men of war comes to these wm forts & they not covered by no REAL men, then They'll be accountable by then frfr I bet! Wm go to lean more towards Extreme feminist when all they know how to do is disrespect, lie on men, emasculate men, shame, over talk &/or disregarding the authority of men by physically attacking him, not listening to his permissions, over stepping bounds or stepping outside of a mans security after bein courted but thinking a man has to still tolerate, protect & provide for her along with her kids. This the crazy Felicia Hyenas type brothers learn being MGTOW from 'Men Going There Own Way" until they can be a passport bro.
Alot of them were missing the point..in this case no one has a problem with anyone having kids. Its the amount of SEPARATE PARTNERS whom they had these children with.
That guy with the hat on in the purple is ridiculous. He’s pandering to those women HARD. It’s not going to work. If he’s been in relationships with single mothers… why is he no longer with them? He got played. He sounds desperate. Making a fool of himself.
Bingo
He not desperate thats all he has to choose from at his age because western women dont like to date older men untill they have 2,3 kids..
Super Simp!
Simp detected, lol
Guy was a joke
The men who are fathers said they'd check the stepfather for whooping their kids and the women called it an insecurity. Men kill for theirs if need be. So why die for a kid that's not yours, a family you didn't create and a woman who will replace you
Correct the risk management doesn’t add up . Plus you don’t get your own legacy . It’s actually a burden on you and removes the chances for you to fulfill your own mating purpose. It’s absolutely stupid to marry a woman with multiple baby fathers it’s ridiculous she is bottom of the barrel that is truly settling. Modern women truly have a narcissistic superiority complex and grandiose ego. The irony is they the only ones with the superiority complex they the only ones with the rethoric never settle, they believe themselves to be superior and above men.
Men for the very least have humility never rarely ever say don’t settle
gotta ask them if they will allow another woman to hit their kid for them to realize it's not an insecurity but just avoiding drama..
@akeemguy7331 now that is a solid counter question. As they always glorify a mother's love.
So u have to create something in order to be willing to protect it? That's a wild take bruh
@thegreatestever913 I'm above 40. I've lived some and saw plenty. Take that knowledge and make better decisions for you and your family ONLY
He is completely right! 💯
...And what TF is he missing out on by NOT messing with her and her THREE kids? Hilarious! 😆😆😆😂🤣
Straight delusional
They throw the word "real" to your face as a shaming tactic, don't fall for this bs. Kudos to this brother!
No man wants to hear, "you ain't my daddy!". From someone else's child.
Brian u made the right call
Brian looks like a self-confident, educated, well put together dude. And he is well spoken. I really hope he finds his soulmate.
He’s wearing white socks with black pants and black gym shoes. Do you think that well put together? You are as much a goofball as he is.😂😂😂😂
Yea is his mind@@illdoctrine9329
He's picking choosing wisely! He know there isn't a black women alive! That is compatible for him.😂
@@illdoctrine9329Judging someone of their appearance is your first mistake you automatically sound ignorant. Second mistake is trying to look cool and smart. The only Imbecile here is you. 🥴
@@kevinalexander2741then why is he entertaining it
I love Brian’s unwavering demeanor and composure. Deep rooted in his values is inspiring.
😂😂😂😂😂 not ONE woman ever said "I might have made a decision that could potentially hinder me for the rest of my life." Instead they try to shame a man that don't wanna inherit a family he didn't create
Which is fkd up because if you have kids with a woman and don't help she talks shit but if you don't jave kids with her and won't take care of her kids sthey still tall shi
They also never said “maybe I chose a man who ain’t sh-t because maybe I MYSELF ain’t sh-t?”. It’s never ever them. One lady said her baby daddy said to her in front of her child “that ain’t my child”. Not once did you ever see his other bad qualities and say “I’m not ever bringing a child in the world with him”? That’s all these ladies’ problem: they want the “fun guy” and the guy who’s always fun is that way because he’s carefree without responsibilities! Y’all kicking it in the middle of the day on a random Thursday and never did anything cross your mind like “why is he not at work? He doesn’t go to school?” These women are so engrossed in doing whatever they want at the moment and they wanna run away and cry when it’s time to pay the Piper. Women who end up in these positions are not there coincidentally.
25 years old is a Kid? What a fucking joke
But wait there's more!!! Haha!
Girl in green is delusional and never gonna change
I’m ashamed of my past because I was wicked as hell! But I don’t do the same things now that I did in 1991
No, Her CHILD is now 25. She had her at 16 years old
@@Meccaone17it really doesn't matter, that's steal somebody else that you got to deal with that didn't come from your loins
How the heck does someone scream independence and still need a man, is beyond crazy. That is contradictory, at it's finest
they dont want a man to lead but one to be there and become tenderer of the sheep and does the bidding of the flock. A servant basically.
If a woman in the present refuses to accept the perspective of a man who is not interested in a woman with multiple kids by multiple men, then Im making a judgement on her mindset today that I have no interest dating her.
The irony is that most women would be attracted to a Brian type than a James type, even though James is willing to be a stepdad to multiple kids. Talk about reality.
Not me, he is not attractive in no kind of way. Internally or externally.
Brian he the goat..no.cap he see now and then..james just sounds cheeky even by voice..lamne
@@cateyes4030 damn who stepped on your cheese, lmao
A man doesn't join a family, he starts a family
Super simp in purple. 😂
I'm 61yrs old,& I'm very (proud) of you young brothers building your Pod-casts,& giving a voice to men/black men especially!.In my day, no talk shows,nor Pod-casts did this!.God speed to my (young-brothers)!.Keep up your strong voices, where we Old G's failed you!.👍
It's crazy that we have to ask black women how many baby daddies they have. And yet, they still don't see it as a problem...smh!!!
A woman with " a starting line up" will never be a GOOD DEAL in most relationships.The man will always be on the backfoot everytime he tries to stamp his authority in that household. 😢😢😢😢
Why must he dumb his delivery down? No woman who comes on the show ever holds back, bite their tongue, etc
A single mother of a child or children will place ‘her’ kids above the stepfather. The stepfather will not have a valid position within that household other than financial.
I strongly agree 💯
Even if he is providing
Depends on the male.
@@anthonywilliams132exactly, it's what a man allows
Balloon show is goofy. Old broads with unreasonable preferences.....comedy.
I agree
Salute you brother for standing your ground!
Hey ladies the men you want are *NEVER* gonna give you “grace” for that in a trillion years. I hope that helps ✊🏿
James is trying to get one of these women...sad
I will never put myself in a position to be a stepfather again.
That lady on Brian's right, the one with three kids. I think she really digs Brian. She probably wouldn't mind having him has her 4th baby daddy...😂❤😊😅
Yup
You peeped that too, she low-key crazy about him ...she just wants him to fold a little
Yup.. I thought I was the only one that saw it. She is definitely attracted to him.. & if he gave her a sniff, she would be ready for a fwb situation. She just can’t stand the fact that he doesn’t want her.
@@muckboyvc Exactly 💯
She said it right: "when you find a wife, you find a good thing." Not baby mama. If she's a widower, no judgement.
Hmmmm😮🤔
Is not up to a man to find a wife is up to a man to find riches
They twist that term all the time when you find a good woman and make her your wife then it can be a good thing but women interpret it as any women you get is automatically good
Hes right!
"But you're baring the man's children" ...SILENCE! 🤣
Then stay with those men stop looking for a new one when you already have two.
@@dennismitchell6979 Exactly! Lay in that bed you made and stop trying to make other people take responsibilities that aren't their's!
That "12 year abusive relationship" was 100% mutual abuse from both parties. Always gotta play the victim 😂
Thank you
@@Wgz945lying straight outta her teeth. Her eyes keep blinking when she talking
We devalue men with multiple baby moms just the same. Brian brought to light an embarrassing topic they weren’t prepared to confront on tv initially….on the flip side I’d like to add, a single woman no kids or multiple baby dads ( top teir ) doesn’t mean she has never been PREGNANT multiple times by multiple men. Some women carry their “shame” while some have have ABORTIONS. And you will never know! Does that still make her top tier? We extend grace always for the right person
Great point.
Is it me or do all these women have an "abusive relationship" they escaped from?
🤭 💯% facts
They leave out the facts that they start a bunch of it
Like they was locked up and made it out. But what happens to the next baby daddy the same thing?
@@Wgz945 most timesx they were the abusive ones.
Yeah cuz us men are just so horrible let them tell it they would rather be in the woods with a bear🐻 instead of a man 😂😂😂😂
Three babies for three different man, and they want a high-value man. In their dreams. As a woman I would not want a man that has three kids, etc with three different woman. We have to be responsible adults.
What's this "give grace" excuse
😂😂😂😂😂
Are we Jesus ?
Oh lord God 😂😂😂
Dating a woman with kids for a man without kids automatically puts the man in a deficit. Let alone multiple kids and multiple BDs. It’s a bad ROI…point blank period.
Been there. Never again
The man would literally be put in last place. I've been there to witness my GF (a baby mama) put everyone in front of me and my needs, while I was the one paying majority of the bills.
It's funny when they try to play the "YOU CAN'T FIRE ME BECAUSE I QUIT!" card...😂 He wasn't interested in any of them but a couple of them acted like they disqualified him...😂
Also...I like how he remained calm while the Hyena was attempting to use Sign Language to trigger him.
That's funny but irritating when some do that 😂😂😂.
A poor attempt to control false narrative that they still control the dynamic even though they were already disqualified.
No matter the women's circumstances, if she thinks she's cuter than she actually is, she will maintain this arrogant mindframe on her looks being able to land her a whale, multiple children notwithstanding. Confidence or psychosis??
@1stone379 ...Right. I think it's because their egos are so fragile that they have to try to trick the man into believing they rejected him when he rejects them. Definitely Psychosis.
I respect you my brother keep standing your ground.
The sick part is when these women try to redefined a "real man" as a man who will take on the responsibility of other men's kids and her and put himself last. That a true provider and protector will marry a women who has made bad decisions in her life and bail her out.
All this rather than find a good wife who has made good, intelligent decisions throughout her life. A woman that you can trust to make good decisions when you are not around and will have your back.
An the most disgusting part is that they can't see that they should never speak on that since they aren't men an will never be men. Fools don't even know what real men look like with all the horrible decisions they keep making involving bad men an looking over good men
James,the guy in purple is a full blown simp.
Nope, super simp
Super Simp with zest
The dude is annoying boy.
She arguing over a man’s preferences
Yea ma'am im not equipped with simp tendencies you are correct
Yooo, James... Take the cape off n🥷🏿a! LOL 😂😂😂
Speaking to them the way he did was “harsh” because of their actions that they can control… but they would pop their balloon because of a man’s height which is something they cannot change… yes they do not have accountability.
1. I'm glad that Bryan stood his ground on the whole stepfather thing & women having multiple baby daddies (The problem with that woman with multiple baby daddies is her attitude, she masculine with that "I'm strong & independant" crap, etc)
2. The lack of accountability from those women was unbelievable (It just shows their fear of self reflection & growing wiser as a person)
The dude in the hat trying to be on the ladies good graces but im pretty sure they still aint looking at him
😂😂🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
😂😂😂 They could never truly respect a mark. Trust me. Life experience turned me into an asshole of sorts. That 180 is amazing and women can feel it 😂😂😂
We need more men like Brian!!! Stand your ground my brother! Why don't any of these women take accountability for themselves. We need to just accepting just anything from black women!
Yeah, when we find a wife with NO kids, we'll find a good thing.
Many of these ladies are in denial about how a single man chooses to be or not to be a stepdad to multiple children!
If you as the mother are in your feelings or denial about your parental decisions…don’t be upset when a single man does not want to be your kids financial provider!
Their own fathers did not chose to be there! Interesting.
That last sentence
Boss, please connect me with the gentleman in the purple shirt. I’d be happy to offer coaching support-there’s so much that shapes who we are today, and I’d love to explore how we can revisit and improve things moving forward!
Talking to a woman about her accountability is like talking to a wall about it moving.
😂😂😂😂
Reality always triumphant! This lady is over 40 single still and on a dating show 😂 So therefore your decision making skills is HORRIBLE🤦🏾♂️ and miss 3/3 also proved why she's still single once she went masculine mode😭
He is single as well and on the same show.🤷 Make it make sense. He obviously not top tier.
@@cateyes4030 there's a big difference between a man and woman when it's come to building a family💆🏾♂️
@@Skamala89they act like we cant find any other beggar 😂