Pop The Balloon Or Find Love Season 2 Reunion | With Arlette Amuli

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 14 тыс.

  • @TheDcousinjr
    @TheDcousinjr 2 месяца назад +7638

    The fact that so many ppl in the comments are saying “James’ Gourmet Pies” proves that there is power in marketing yourself. Salute to James no matter how annoying the pitch was lol😂

    • @lynetteforte1996
      @lynetteforte1996 2 месяца назад +398

      @@TheDcousinjr James said F finding love, imma sell these pies 😩

    • @sleepyeyez01
      @sleepyeyez01 2 месяца назад +177

      @@lynetteforte1996 his pies will get him some cookie 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Nonchalantlyfabulous
      @Nonchalantlyfabulous 2 месяца назад +55

      lmbo ..like his tactics worked !!

    • @Reallythere54321
      @Reallythere54321 2 месяца назад +29

      Why people praise that isn’t this show about finding love?

    • @keimanii2332
      @keimanii2332 2 месяца назад +8

      🥧 🥧 🥧 🥧

  • @moreezy3877
    @moreezy3877 2 месяца назад +3679

    I can see Arlette and her husband landing a major millionaire dollar deal in the future. This show is hands down the best on YT.

    • @babylambpro
      @babylambpro 2 месяца назад +99

      U know her husband is a famous African singer?

    • @Hawthorneheights888
      @Hawthorneheights888 2 месяца назад +46

      @@babylambproyes! Did you know he didn’t know? That’s random.

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan 2 месяца назад +141

      I just hope they don’t go mainstream on tv. I mean it’s a level up and I’m here for that but I think it will change things. It will be more controlled at that point by the higher ups

    • @alakazam25yearsago8
      @alakazam25yearsago8 2 месяца назад

      @@PreciousSullivanwhat ya toes smellin like though girl? Forget the “higher ups”

    • @tiffanyleak_
      @tiffanyleak_ 2 месяца назад

      @@moreezy3877 for sure

  • @amakaemilia7973
    @amakaemilia7973 2 месяца назад +3163

    James Gourmet pie coming with actual samples is hilarious! Man's a genius at marketing.

    • @shynebayarea510
      @shynebayarea510 2 месяца назад +25

      Facts

    • @Chancse
      @Chancse 2 месяца назад +16

      😂😂😂😂...for real.

    • @edturner3615
      @edturner3615 2 месяца назад +69

      LOL I low key wanna try one 😂😂😂 and I’m in Egypt!

    • @amakaemilia7973
      @amakaemilia7973 2 месяца назад +46

      @@edturner3615 Bro! I live in Nigeria but for a moment I was almost going to order one!!

    • @Mohamed-lw2ig
      @Mohamed-lw2ig 2 месяца назад +18

      Bro said it so much I might actually have to try it now😂

  • @Trust_No_One_0316
    @Trust_No_One_0316 Месяц назад +159

    I’m rooting for the new couple. Me and my husband married within a month of knowing each other and we been together since 2011. My best friend ❤

    • @derek1986
      @derek1986 22 дня назад +1

      That's amazing

    • @Trust_No_One_0316
      @Trust_No_One_0316 22 дня назад +2

      @@derek1986 Thanks so much I appreciate that

    • @AnnieMay-ff1qo
      @AnnieMay-ff1qo 7 дней назад

      That's crazy.... I couldn't marry someone without knowing them at least 5+ years and even then is a gamble. You barely know anyone after only a few weeks. Theres a woman in France suing her husband that she knew for years before marrying but found out he had been drugging her and letting the neighborhood men come and rape her daily. That could be a whole serial killer/rapist/ psychopath/undercover abuser/etc, that you put a ring on. Please be careful and good luck.

    • @2oubleD
      @2oubleD День назад +1

      Congratulations! I pray strength over your marriage!

    • @Trust_No_One_0316
      @Trust_No_One_0316 День назад

      @@2oubleD thanks so much❤️

  • @des_4444
    @des_4444 2 месяца назад +2233

    Shout out to Arlette’s husband he keeps her glowing. And he puts the MOST HIGH FIRST. Beautiful successful family ❤️

    • @laetitia1763
      @laetitia1763 2 месяца назад +84

      This husband is a real leader

    • @jeanniejones8777
      @jeanniejones8777 2 месяца назад +43

      You can't lose with that combination 🙏🏽

    • @NYPOPTHEBALLOON
      @NYPOPTHEBALLOON 2 месяца назад +16

      He does… yes shout out to him🎈❤️

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 2 месяца назад +6

      The most high is GOD, next is man.

    • @dresylvereign2156
      @dresylvereign2156 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@dannysalzer770

  • @AminaSy_
    @AminaSy_ 2 месяца назад +5895

    The girl with face tats needs to do a lot of work on her herself. She seems like she’s been traumatized by whatever happened because it’s showing through her. Wishing her all the best.

    • @kimberlytate8884
      @kimberlytate8884 2 месяца назад +574

      It seems as though someone has made her feel like she ain't good enough. She was the only one on there today without makeup on and was stunning. Natural beauty!

    • @Sunrise-k56
      @Sunrise-k56 2 месяца назад +257

      Yes, self acceptance is the key to self love. She needs to accept her life choices and forgive herself if she regrets her choices.

    • @AshaEl-p4l
      @AshaEl-p4l 2 месяца назад +168

      She looks like she's looking for a saviour so she doesn't have to do what she's doing but confident enough to allow her to choose. Honestly her only need is to get deliverance from what she's been through

    • @lacedog27
      @lacedog27 2 месяца назад +93

      She's really pretty too

    • @shiningstar6470
      @shiningstar6470 2 месяца назад +247

      She’s lost and only Jesus can save her

  • @shortbreadfinger
    @shortbreadfinger 2 месяца назад +895

    It is BOLD of Arlette to let everyone hold a hot mic. Really impressed by the decorum everyone held and the way Arlette was able to manage the room

    • @nishadh366
      @nishadh366 2 месяца назад +136

      The guy who was hat fishing constantly wanted the spotlight

    • @shortbreadfinger
      @shortbreadfinger 2 месяца назад +49

      @@nishadh366 i was almost certain they were going to lose control of him trying to steer the conversation but she kept that in check

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 2 месяца назад +46

      @@nishadh366 Jesus is coming back. Repent of your sins and accept as your savior and obey God. The Bible is all you need.

    • @nishadh366
      @nishadh366 2 месяца назад +29

      @@shortbreadfinger he was too eager to participate in all the conversations! Lol

    • @Coachkingrod
      @Coachkingrod 2 месяца назад +16

      Same here. And this is the edited version! Lol. Lol.

  • @greyjaye7115
    @greyjaye7115 Месяц назад +244

    "At 37 stomping on ballons?, thats clown activity " Bryan was speaking facts

    • @healthyylitvibez
      @healthyylitvibez 16 дней назад +15

      Bryan is a clown himself! 🤡 clowns recognize clowns😂😂 both of them need to just have a circus

    • @AZBran
      @AZBran 8 дней назад +2

      @@healthyylitvibez😂😂😂

  • @tinybrit3225
    @tinybrit3225 2 месяца назад +1428

    25:26 “at 37 stomping on balloons, that’s clown activity”…”you 50 and still on the show, that’s clown activity”, “but I don’t look 40 and got all my hair, take your hat off”…takes hat off bald af 😅
    This is why I watch this show! So entertaining 😂

    • @GoalsBYMen
      @GoalsBYMen 2 месяца назад +94

      He spanked em with that one I was geekin Bro got a oval shaped nugget 😂😂😂 loved that it stayed civil thru the show all jokes ….

    • @Hawthorneheights888
      @Hawthorneheights888 2 месяца назад +68

      He doesn’t look 50! Yet he has a classy vibe. The other guy is just wrong and loud.

    • @GoalsBYMen
      @GoalsBYMen 2 месяца назад +15

      @@slovelyyx7718 tbh bros funny and himself and it’s somebody out there for him that’s the whole ordeal of the show be yourself no matter the age height weight , when he said 9-5 part time stripper I was thinking the same thing Ngl 😂😂😂

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan 2 месяца назад +8

      I was shocked and appalled 😂

    • @uha8146
      @uha8146 2 месяца назад

      No fr saying too much weave but hiding that bald head under hats just a hypocrite

  • @SlyXD-mb1so
    @SlyXD-mb1so 2 месяца назад +3496

    That stripper bit of this video was so annoying to listen to, so many errors and contradictions in her speech. “Im a woman of God , I go to church” “I look up to Cardi B” . “I didn’t want my side job as a stripper to be the main thing” “I knew that my stripping would not be for everyone “ so many more things I could say …

    • @oromtitiwbo5078
      @oromtitiwbo5078 2 месяца назад +266

      Women are confused by the “you can be anything and do anything, ignore the haters and judgment, be free, do whatever you want” messaging.
      It doesn’t work in the construct of society, culture, history, and human nature.
      Yes she can be a strper, but yes, men and society is going to look down on her. That’s how it is.
      A strper is not a doctor and a lawyer.
      Yes, a strper can find a husband.
      It doesn’t mean he’s going to be a respectful, loyal, faithful, upstanding character.
      People want to blur the lines. I don’t think Jesus(AS) having a Prstte touch his cloak means it’s okay to actively be a Prstte. Then they are saying she can be a “testimony” to young girls and women.
      Young girls and women need real role models and leaders. In Islam, the best of women is Mother Mariam(AS), that God left as a role model for all women. not Cardi B.
      Chrstians are not doing themselves a favor by watering down and commercializing their faith.

    • @Pandering_equalsmoney
      @Pandering_equalsmoney 2 месяца назад +124

      I was so confused! This is part of the reason the church has declined. You can just claim whatever and people will support it.

    • @Usersomethingsometh
      @Usersomethingsometh 2 месяца назад +30

      ​@@oromtitiwbo5078You made a lot of sense but it's just one woman, don't make it a gender thing.

    • @N.Z99.
      @N.Z99. 2 месяца назад +103

      “I’m looking for someone to take me off the pole”. 🙄

    • @maritawanazw
      @maritawanazw 2 месяца назад +125

      She's sooo lost. Smh.

  • @jermainekendall1932
    @jermainekendall1932 2 месяца назад +772

    I typed in James and James Gourmet Pies was the number 1 suggestion in my search bar. This man is the undisputed Master of Marketing.

    • @OneYulaw
      @OneYulaw 2 месяца назад

      Because Google Analytics is scary smart af. It knows you were engaged in this show. So when you put in a search query on Google for anything that could closely match what you were just watching, it's going to auto-complete your query and place it as a top result. Smartest SEO on the planet.

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 2 месяца назад +39

      Jesus is coming back. Repent of your sins and accept as your savior and obey God. The Bible is all you need.

    • @daisyjoy7586
      @daisyjoy7586 2 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AshAshnique
      @AshAshnique 2 месяца назад

      😂

    • @shanenolan85
      @shanenolan85 2 месяца назад

      💯💯💯

  • @markenscastelly
    @markenscastelly Месяц назад +117

    She said she looks up to cardi B that pretty much sums up everything we needed to know 😂

  • @SlyXD-mb1so
    @SlyXD-mb1so 2 месяца назад +3097

    I love how the Engaged couple looked throughout the entire reunion. They’re smart classy and not childish which is why they will last.

    • @kathy-annyoung7965
      @kathy-annyoung7965 2 месяца назад +207

      They are so grounded and supportive to each other

    • @mucleboy0151
      @mucleboy0151 2 месяца назад

      Shit gonna get real when the honeymoon phase is over with ​@@dannysalzer770

    • @AmoiWynn
      @AmoiWynn 2 месяца назад +323

      @@dannysalzer770 he's a red flag, the way he was even talking to the other woman says a lot. Wish the best for them though, watch them true colors come out with time.

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 2 месяца назад +63

      No guarantees with 💕 but the best for both.

    • @Peejayyesthetics
      @Peejayyesthetics 2 месяца назад +111

      Stop projecting... Stop the negativity

  • @princeprescy
    @princeprescy 2 месяца назад +1618

    some people be looking so different than they did when they first appeared on shows ! 😂😂😂 thanks Arlette does these recaps or I wouldn't recognize none of them

    • @BEGINNERFRIENDLY_SEWING
      @BEGINNERFRIENDLY_SEWING 2 месяца назад +99

      That is soo true. Especially the lady with the many facial expression. She looked weight prettier today and the drunk 1 too.

    • @MaryByrne-wr7ou
      @MaryByrne-wr7ou 2 месяца назад +75

      I didn't recognise Driva AT ALL!!!

    • @nicolechkw
      @nicolechkw 2 месяца назад +3

      Honestly 😂😂😂😂

    • @NYPOPTHEBALLOON
      @NYPOPTHEBALLOON 2 месяца назад +26

      Because they saw they self on screen 😂😂😂😂

    • @kimberlytate8884
      @kimberlytate8884 2 месяца назад +25

      @@princeprescy exactly because the old lady Reggie matched with looks better today.

  • @ami03441
    @ami03441 2 месяца назад +4593

    That girl with the face tattoos is even more annoying than I remembered. She literally popped her balloon multiple times because "you won't like that I'm a dancer" and then on this show now it's "that's not my life." Then girl why did it matter enough to keep popping your balloon???

    • @sleepyeyez01
      @sleepyeyez01 2 месяца назад +104

      @@ami03441 advertising lol

    • @3ZN-q6q
      @3ZN-q6q 2 месяца назад

      Confused and delusional

    • @tythames6508
      @tythames6508 2 месяца назад +41

      Exactly

    • @TyroneGladden
      @TyroneGladden 2 месяца назад +182

      Stripping is a apart of her life whether people view it positive or negative it’s apart of your life

    • @Cutthroat__
      @Cutthroat__ 2 месяца назад +61

      @@TyroneGladdenexactly she can take it however she wants its apart of her

  • @tamirrapage6711
    @tamirrapage6711 18 дней назад +9

    I really like James’ voice, conversation, energy and the way he carries himself. God has someone special for him!

  • @Amawhaaat
    @Amawhaaat 2 месяца назад +5321

    The girl with the face tattoos is INSUFFERABLE. Like why is she there and not her therapist’s office?

    • @butterscotchcaramel25
      @butterscotchcaramel25 2 месяца назад +533

      I didn't listen after 1 minute. I kept hitting fast forward. She was saying a bunch of nothing. She was afraid of being judged, needs to grow up & was popping for NO good reason. Why come on the show? I'm not sure of the vetting process, maybe they will change it? I LOVE Arlette & her husband! ❤️ 💙

    • @angielu3187
      @angielu3187 2 месяца назад +5

      It's like she came on there to get chose IN SPITE of her circumstances. She kept popping her balloon and basically saying "you won't want me cuz i'm a stripper" and hoping someone would be like "no, that's okay, I want you anyway 🥹". like girl bye. lol.

    • @shaybutter3403
      @shaybutter3403 2 месяца назад +61

      Whew.

    • @angielu3187
      @angielu3187 2 месяца назад +147

      @@butterscotchcaramel25 I did the same. Tapped right past it. Lol. She went on for way too long. 😂

    • @kimberlytate8884
      @kimberlytate8884 2 месяца назад +304

      She talk too much and didn't want to listen to the others.

  • @olawaleademola3864
    @olawaleademola3864 2 месяца назад +922

    The engaged lady is so classy and sophisticated. You can tell she loves and respects her man. Wish them all the best!

  • @stephencurry8439
    @stephencurry8439 2 месяца назад +5314

    It’s crazy I’m a grown man and still clicked on this soon as it dropped 🤣

  • @Vzkbn
    @Vzkbn Месяц назад +255

    “9-5 side hustle once in a while” wtf are you yapping about

    • @Trytostopmeh
      @Trytostopmeh Месяц назад +3

      😂😂😂😂 that is kinda off now that I think abt it

    • @EmberCrow
      @EmberCrow Месяц назад +2

      Also confused.

    • @kimberly329
      @kimberly329 Месяц назад +4

      That means she views it like a regular boring job that she only does every blue moon.

    • @tentosix0919
      @tentosix0919 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 26 дней назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mmarie810
    @mmarie810 2 месяца назад +998

    I love the fact that Arlettes husband always starts by thanking Jesus Christ !

    • @Quentin_1of_few
      @Quentin_1of_few 2 месяца назад +13

      @@mmarie810 yeah thank Jesus Christ cause he died so people can meet up have sex and have standards because one person is better than the other. Jesus don’t have nothin to do with this mess. Sinners need God, yes but they ain’t tryna get baptized.

    • @GenZealous
      @GenZealous 2 месяца назад +8

      It’s really weird tbh

    • @shanrenee2908
      @shanrenee2908 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen

    • @amzztv04
      @amzztv04 2 месяца назад +1

      Ikr!

    • @amzztv04
      @amzztv04 2 месяца назад +14

      ​@GenZealous How? How is showing your fevor for God on especially your own platform weird? Smh

  • @leneag1521
    @leneag1521 2 месяца назад +553

    I actually met Brian in person, and he was actually very sweet and a gentleman! He helped me bring my luggage up to my hotel room. Shout out to Brian!

    • @Angeliz225
      @Angeliz225 2 месяца назад +117

      Was he a Bellhop?

    • @senseisiix4606
      @senseisiix4606 2 месяца назад +29

      @@Angeliz225😂

    • @OneYulaw
      @OneYulaw 2 месяца назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @soulRegal08
      @soulRegal08 2 месяца назад +8

      @@Angeliz225😩😩😂😂

    • @dasia5871
      @dasia5871 2 месяца назад +138

      Did he mention he was from the ghetto?

  • @fegersonlevinson6604
    @fegersonlevinson6604 2 месяца назад +783

    Don’t stop this show. It’s showing a lot of dating issues we have in our colored communities this is an eye opener for both men and women we are very hard on each other.

    • @SomnnaVibes
      @SomnnaVibes 2 месяца назад +43

      Underrated comment.
      I hope Arlette see it.

    • @PriestAndrettii
      @PriestAndrettii 2 месяца назад

      This shit is everywhere! It doesn't only apply to black and brown people

    • @jazzya7383
      @jazzya7383 2 месяца назад +3

      💯

    • @rewbi2196
      @rewbi2196 2 месяца назад +44

      @fegersonlevinson6604 "Colored" was a choice..........

    • @megayummyrockstar
      @megayummyrockstar 2 месяца назад +6

      True it gives more that the ppl of the colored community needs to worry less about relationships but more on building better communities 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @angiec13
    @angiec13 15 дней назад +9

    I love the engaged couple's level of maturity. They are in their OWN world!

  • @Og23_wave95
    @Og23_wave95 2 месяца назад +291

    “I will not be shy about praising his name” was a flex gonna borrow that

  • @JustJeff777
    @JustJeff777 2 месяца назад +6732

    A stripper not accepting that she's a stripper is a new level of a lack of accountability

    • @PrinceInawRakah
      @PrinceInawRakah 2 месяца назад +369

      She accepted it.. she just wants a man who will accept that side of her and convince her to step away from that life..
      She can’t please God and be in that life.

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings 2 месяца назад +861

      I lost brain cells listening to her

    • @RJSoul75
      @RJSoul75 2 месяца назад +456

      She completely exhausted me!

    • @faraihamiltondemawatema4228
      @faraihamiltondemawatema4228 2 месяца назад +220

      Delusional 😂

    • @luvlove92
      @luvlove92 2 месяца назад +325

      @@PrinceInawRakahnooooo she hasn’t! She is still in denial and ashamed of it hence the defensiveness.

  • @l.mendes547
    @l.mendes547 2 месяца назад +916

    Don't know with that Zola girl, something about her breaks my heart...there is a sadness there behind the smile. I hope God fills her heart with joy.❤ You are beautiful!

    • @bellamoqekwa2650
      @bellamoqekwa2650 2 месяца назад +15

      Agreed!

    • @cynnamon28
      @cynnamon28 2 месяца назад +75

      Exactly, she has some trauma and heart wounds to heal before she can accept real love in her life.

    • @kristamonae
      @kristamonae 2 месяца назад

      Leave her alone worry about your own sadness and trauma tf

    • @kallahari7542
      @kallahari7542 2 месяца назад

      Zola is lost and she needs to get counseling and seeks for another profession. She brags about working in the music industry but if that job doesn't provide for you and you need to parttime undressed yourself as a child of God ? That's not good. Look at her she is 31 and she looks like a tired 45 year old. Something doesn't sits well with her. And it's good for the guys to address her. If you cover and support her lifestyle she will stay in that toxic enviroment waiting on a prince who feel sorry for her . She acts like a victim and needs to stop.

    • @thebullockbunch224
      @thebullockbunch224 2 месяца назад +57

      The Holy Spirit is convicting her about being stripper, but it’s just what she think she has to do…

  • @tentosix0919
    @tentosix0919 Месяц назад +27

    I appreciate all these brave participants. I saw glimpses of vulnerability in each of them. I enjoyed them discussing, arguing, and being genuine. We are all human beings and need love. In this life we need to have understanding. I pray God blesses all of them. 🙏🏽

  • @Goyabeen
    @Goyabeen 2 месяца назад +476

    Girl in the purple and the butterfly clips is one of my favorite contestants on this show so far . She’s well spoken, sharp , blunt and the facial expressions were hilarious during this reunion. 😂😂😂😂

    • @NothandoMbatha-kz4ec
      @NothandoMbatha-kz4ec 2 месяца назад +30

      and she is a girl's girl. love her

    • @50statee
      @50statee 2 месяца назад +7

      @@NothandoMbatha-kz4ec *ghetto

    • @xKouture
      @xKouture 2 месяца назад +4

      She reminds me of someone i would see on baddies lol i do like her personality though

    • @lilylunsford
      @lilylunsford 2 месяца назад

      I would love to meet her

    • @TheNewHope2010
      @TheNewHope2010 2 месяца назад

      YES!!!

  •  2 месяца назад +847

    Khe and Mike minding their business the whole reunion is the reason why they're the first engaged couple out of this show😌🥰

    • @MissTeeTee1111
      @MissTeeTee1111 2 месяца назад +60

      Yep, Khe definitely was 😅👌🏾

    • @comeatmebro8120
      @comeatmebro8120 2 месяца назад +117

      Khe gave her quick update about her and Mike and then kept her mouth closed during all the drama. Thats a respectable woman right there

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe 2 месяца назад +37

      REAL! I love how mature & unbothered they are. It shows a lot about their character.

    • @csmith2484
      @csmith2484 2 месяца назад +3

      As they should! God bless them!!

    • @kikialeaki1850
      @kikialeaki1850 2 месяца назад +123

      Nah Mike got into it a bit and Khe tried to get him to stop😅

  • @destinymahlayia
    @destinymahlayia 2 месяца назад +1016

    When BM said he will not be shy about praising Jesus name, I shouted “AMEN” ✝️ cause fr! Too many people on this show been popping because of someone’s faith in him

    • @kingKC-m2k
      @kingKC-m2k 2 месяца назад +22

      You caught that too huh.

    • @mxssdeja
      @mxssdeja 2 месяца назад +8

      Amen!!!!

    • @88Reasha
      @88Reasha 2 месяца назад +16

      Yes that made me proud Praise God ❤❤❤❤

    • @Lonerstoner21
      @Lonerstoner21 2 месяца назад +8

      Loved how he clocked it!

    • @Luyanda_shezi
      @Luyanda_shezi 2 месяца назад +4

      Me too🤭🙏🏾

  • @ashch5867
    @ashch5867 Месяц назад +21

    We fail to realize not every woman or man is the right match for you.
    Love the show!

  • @briasantana3268
    @briasantana3268 2 месяца назад +2098

    25:42 BRYAN ATE THAT UP "Take that hat off" 😭😭😭
    I was not expecting him to actually be bald

    • @ToOpen6seven
      @ToOpen6seven 2 месяца назад +162

      He is actually a lot more attractive without the hat.

    • @etruscancivilization
      @etruscancivilization 2 месяца назад +137

      Thr bald brother who took off his hat was the most intelligent person on the show regarding his preference for women who wear their NATURAL HAIR instead of all of those WEAVES, and that really did UPSET all the WEAVE wearing women except the two who wore their NATURAL hair that included the Tattoo face part time stripper, and the short blond haired engaged beautiful woman. Bryan is cool and I say that because he comes from South Louisiana, and I'm originally from the Northeast small town areas, but he did not have to disrespect the bald brother with the hat on by talkin about his bald head and bragging about himself having all of his hair? Maybe the GOOD LORD just might take his hair away for teasing that bald brother, because when I was a kid i was told to never make fun of other people because we might up having the same problems in the future.....

    • @uno1728
      @uno1728 2 месяца назад +71

      He should’ve kept that hat on 😂

    • @etruscancivilization
      @etruscancivilization 2 месяца назад +67

      @@uno1728 Brother wasn't shy of his bald head, since it took nothing from his overall appearance..

    • @smalone5624
      @smalone5624 2 месяца назад +12

      I feel like he just shaved his head for the reunion.

  • @QueenDana-sl6gf
    @QueenDana-sl6gf 2 месяца назад +596

    Zola is having an identity crisis and needs deliverance not a date. She seems genuinely sweet but very conflicted. BM and Arlette you are amazing. Braylon is a boy in a man’s body. Great reunion all around

    • @Godslight1970s
      @Godslight1970s 2 месяца назад +23

      Yes to everything you said. I also said she needs deliverance. I'm praying for her. She seems like a nice person.

    • @VoVina111
      @VoVina111 2 месяца назад +15

      BM and Arlette seem like genuine Christians so it was disappointing that they didn't correct or explain any of the Bible verses that the other women twisted

    • @2andFro
      @2andFro 2 месяца назад +6

      Agree with your Zola comment. Love isn’t what she needs. She needs to do some soul searching.

    • @Andre-vh5wt
      @Andre-vh5wt 2 месяца назад

      All of these women except for the engage one need help and are delusional and are very combative when men state preferences they have .. ladies multiple kids by multiple fathers is very messy as a lady.. We don’t want that at all and especially men of value and substance

    • @Andre-vh5wt
      @Andre-vh5wt 2 месяца назад

      All these women are messy and lost and don’t respect men

  • @akspov
    @akspov 2 месяца назад +2451

    They let Zola talk in circles for too long. They could have left her off this reunion.

    • @PrettiBelle
      @PrettiBelle 2 месяца назад +229

      I agree. Something isn't right with her.

    • @Ky-xn8ud
      @Ky-xn8ud 2 месяца назад +152

      She is emotionally immature. 😢

    • @Mixedgoddess52
      @Mixedgoddess52 2 месяца назад

      She's ditzy AF!

    • @JesRocWitMe
      @JesRocWitMe 2 месяца назад +145

      Zola over talked the men and I love how not one woman on the panel stood up to Zola for her contradictions. Not one woman of God

    • @dianesedzro2096
      @dianesedzro2096 2 месяца назад

      She’s not ok in the head

  • @myrajohnson9154
    @myrajohnson9154 Месяц назад +15

    Being able to self reflect and state what you could have done better in a past relationship is a sign of accountability and maturity. We are the common denominator in every one of our relationships. We carry our baggage with us everywhere we go until we are ready to fix it.

  • @traplordso985
    @traplordso985 2 месяца назад +2134

    Oh wait JamesGourmetPies is here LMAOOOOO😂😂😂 I’m screaming 😂😂😂

    • @Gennyminaj
      @Gennyminaj 2 месяца назад +4

      😂

    • @nokwandaxaba8282
      @nokwandaxaba8282 2 месяца назад +12

      Yoooh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Smokeybob-sz6be
      @Smokeybob-sz6be 2 месяца назад +20

      He done the guy dapping him up at 5:40 onwards DUSTY 🤣

    • @YourMilkAndHoney
      @YourMilkAndHoney 2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    •  2 месяца назад

      Lmfao!!!

  • @jhaszmyn.
    @jhaszmyn. 2 месяца назад +1216

    The girl who strips was having a full on conversation with herself. She didn’t want anyone to speak because she didn’t want to hear what they had to say by constantly cutting them off. Then she wasn’t even listening to what they were saying

    • @sherell9090
      @sherell9090 2 месяца назад +32

      She's heard it all before. No one said any new talking points. They proved that with what they were saying. She literally said she popped because people who aren't in the entertainment industry don't understand and then the men proceeded to prove her point and talk on behalf of all men. They had no idea what they were talking about but were desperate to give their opinion. I wouldn't have let them talk either

    • @AmoiWynn
      @AmoiWynn 2 месяца назад +9

      @@sherell9090 exactly, she said wants a man in entertainment and the men who are'nt qualified are speaking. Like why?

    • @MimiHawk
      @MimiHawk 2 месяца назад +119

      ​@sherell9090 so the question still remains, why did she even come on the show in the first place of she already "knows" what ppl are gonna say or think??

    • @sherell9090
      @sherell9090 2 месяца назад +4

      @MimiHawk she answered that question too. If there was someone she had a connection with or someone in the entertainment industry she wouldn't have popped

    • @sherell9090
      @sherell9090 2 месяца назад +3

      @MimiHawk if you're asking about the reunion she likely was asked to come back to speak on her experience, which she did very well

  • @DiamondDs504
    @DiamondDs504 2 месяца назад +257

    Their relationship is very high vibrational. My brother met a girl, married her 3 months later and they’re going on year 20. The happiest couple ever. He said he knew it around week 2 and wouldn’t let her get away. Beautiful.

    • @ashleychamon6446
      @ashleychamon6446 2 месяца назад +8

      Time honestly means nothing. There are people who marry in 6 months or some in 10 years and the relationship could be great either way. I know people who have been together 20 years and aren’t truly happy, or truly like each other.

    • @CenturionN-o6m
      @CenturionN-o6m 2 месяца назад +3

      That was stupid

    • @DiamondDs504
      @DiamondDs504 2 месяца назад +3

      @@CenturionN-o6m whatever helps you sleep at night. I’m sure that you’re a breath of fresh air ❤️

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@DiamondDs504Nah. Homeboy was sitting up there arguing with other women. His "fiancee" needs to get up on out of there.

    • @DEANN-v9z
      @DEANN-v9z 2 месяца назад +1

      The female artist keeps disrupting people, it's annoying

  • @EvelynS-xo7kj
    @EvelynS-xo7kj Месяц назад +19

    I don’t usually watch reunion shows but this show is definitely the exception to all my rules 😂😂😂. Love it!!

  • @AbigaillOwusu
    @AbigaillOwusu 2 месяца назад +1669

    Zola: People just focused on that
    Because you keep mentioning it!!!

    • @traplordso985
      @traplordso985 2 месяца назад +19

      Right!

    • @depitrius
      @depitrius 2 месяца назад +20

      She should mention it. Otherwise things would be awful afterwards.

    • @kubrakuubs8306
      @kubrakuubs8306 2 месяца назад +67

      SHE IS SO ANNOYING. She is the only one bringing it up.

    • @Wonderfullymade1212
      @Wonderfullymade1212 2 месяца назад +3

      @@AbigaillOwusu she said it sooooo much!

    • @PreciousOchimana
      @PreciousOchimana 2 месяца назад +45

      She was so tiring

  • @TeekayPGPMidrand
    @TeekayPGPMidrand 2 месяца назад +931

    She's ashamed of being a stripper. That was hard to watch. She isn't confident at all

    • @patienceISavirtue75
      @patienceISavirtue75 2 месяца назад

      Not at all! She doesn’t know how to communicate to get her point across. If I was a man I’d go crazy conversing with her.

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 2 месяца назад +30

      Painful

    • @kimsmith6480
      @kimsmith6480 2 месяца назад +30

      Very painful

    • @shaybutter3403
      @shaybutter3403 2 месяца назад +46

      Where is BetterHelp when you need it? 😅

    • @TortillaBill
      @TortillaBill 2 месяца назад +64

      Feel like her coming on the show was a cry for help. I hope she finds peace

  • @AustinHitachiinCyrus
    @AustinHitachiinCyrus 2 месяца назад +1609

    I love how Arlette always swings her microphone around during the intro 😂

  • @100MusicincCompany
    @100MusicincCompany 27 дней назад +8

    As a Congolese I’m proud of our Beautiful couple BM and Arlette, may our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ continue blessings your union

  • @DarkMatter11k
    @DarkMatter11k 2 месяца назад +413

    Whew! Reunion had a lot of broken people giving other broken people advice and validation. Dude talking crazy to Brian and trying to clean it up afterwards was wild lol

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 2 месяца назад +42

      Jesus is coming back. Repent of your sins and accept as your savior and obey God. The Bible is all you need.

    • @beu2543
      @beu2543 2 месяца назад +26

      @@DarkMatter11k he was so sus all that grinning and cheesing at Bryan like bruh “stand on bidness” like you love to do with these women

    • @gxp958
      @gxp958 2 месяца назад +39

      Was Brian not talking “crazy” to him first. He respected Brian cuz he stood on business and was being himself. You can show respect and also keep things on the level of jokes. Everything don’t have to be a fight. What’s wrong with n•glets.

    • @PoisonIvyy-sz8rv
      @PoisonIvyy-sz8rv 2 месяца назад +38

      I can tell it was just banter. they were able to agree on an important topic and bonded from that. men aren't catty the same way women are catty lol

    • @ChampaEmap
      @ChampaEmap 2 месяца назад +13

      Are some of you on this comment section like 12 years Olds? Couldn't you see the mutual respect between those two men??? They do what men do

  • @alondra2317
    @alondra2317 2 месяца назад +298

    I really love how Arlette’s husband lifts her up every chance he gets on this platform. Love to see couples support and push each other in their endeavors. Congratulations to you both! 💕

  • @EvetteNimpa
    @EvetteNimpa 2 месяца назад +526

    I like that Shaina grew from the experience and took accountability. It shows her maturity and that she was serious about matching with the guy she connected with.

    • @jazzya7383
      @jazzya7383 2 месяца назад +128

      Yes, I didn’t like how some of the men kept arguing with her after thought about it. She already said she regretted not answering the questions. Smh

    • @sleepyhead5384
      @sleepyhead5384 2 месяца назад +70

      She didn't do anything wrong. They should come up with a more sophisticated question to find out about a person's flaws. She's single for the same reason all of y'all on the show are.

    • @Hawthorneheights888
      @Hawthorneheights888 2 месяца назад +22

      @@sleepyhead5384yes that is a cringey question. I would have answered it, but I would be like oh this guy just doesn’t seem as hot to me now lol...

    • @rewbi2196
      @rewbi2196 2 месяца назад +34

      ​@@jazzya7383I didn't like that either, it was so unnecessary. 😬😬 She acknowledged her mistakes, made up for them and she's moving on. Why are we (they) still on the matter?? ( -_・)?

    • @XtrosGaming
      @XtrosGaming 2 месяца назад

      Unnecessary when yall be asking us whats our zodiac sign ​@@rewbi2196

  • @NayGloir
    @NayGloir 3 дня назад +2

    Watching this really humbles me because hearing these dialogues out loud makes me question the nonsense I have said or desired in finding love

    • @nephewsouledout
      @nephewsouledout 2 дня назад

      Sounds like accountability, self awareness and potentially someone who can be led and give there person gentle counseling. Shoutout to you

  • @larry2524
    @larry2524 2 месяца назад +242

    Mad respect to the girl who held herself accountable!!

    • @rewbi2196
      @rewbi2196 2 месяца назад +32

      @larry2524 Yes Shayna was decent!! She recognized her wrongs and moved forward. There was no need for the back and forth of the men about it when she already acknowledged her mistakes.

    • @deestephen3612
      @deestephen3612 2 месяца назад +7

      Big woman thing

    • @christine-97
      @christine-97 2 месяца назад +19

      ​​​@@rewbi2196 Exactly. That one guy who keep going back and forth with her trying to FIND something to disagree about Even when she was taking full accountability... was Crazy.

    • @tfyproductions1631
      @tfyproductions1631 2 месяца назад +3

      It shocked the hell out of me rare to see. Even if it took her reading 3,000 comments disagreeing with her like she said....but damn its appreciated.

    • @larry2524
      @larry2524 2 месяца назад

      @@tfyproductions1631 I know right lol

  • @browardc2428
    @browardc2428 2 месяца назад +196

    Man the way the engaged girl looks at her man is the perfect example of "Choose the woman that wants you". I love a woman that wears her heart on her sleeve and you don't gotta question how she feels cause its right there in your face ✊🏾❤️

    • @kingofmykraft1447
      @kingofmykraft1447 2 месяца назад

      ​@@christopherwilliams1234Zero sense about what?

    • @christopherwilliams1234
      @christopherwilliams1234 2 месяца назад

      @@kingofmykraft1447 my fault. Put it under the wrong comment lol

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 2 месяца назад +2

      Y'all have no discernment.

    • @Dawgyjoe
      @Dawgyjoe Месяц назад

      @@SparkleInYourEyes2024 like you?

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 Месяц назад

      @@Dawgyjoe Gaslighting won't work on me. A man that's married or engaged should not be in a single womans' business. I'll come back to you when they break up

  • @biruktawit2495
    @biruktawit2495 2 месяца назад +261

    PLEASE ARLETTE AND BM NEVER LET NETWORK TELEVISION OR A STREAMINH SERVICE PROVIDER PICK UP THIS SHOW. WE LOVE IT ON RUclips AND WANT IT TO STAY EXACTLY HOW IT IS. WE LOVE AND APPRECIATE THE AUTHENTICITY 💜💜💜 THERE’S NOTHING ELSE LIKE THIS

    • @fashionwithoutlabels
      @fashionwithoutlabels 2 месяца назад +33

      You YELLING can’t make them do what you say 😂😂😂

    • @realtalkqueenie
      @realtalkqueenie 2 месяца назад +15

      They should get picked up. It’s called growth!

    • @MyNameIsTwan
      @MyNameIsTwan 2 месяца назад +3

      @@fashionwithoutlabels And not taking advice to trademark your own show is stupidity

    • @yasminmohamed2271
      @yasminmohamed2271 2 месяца назад +2

      Not worth to see on tv tbh , enough for RUclips

    • @BeeetchImStacia
      @BeeetchImStacia 2 месяца назад +3

      Baby if the bag calls, she better pick tf up!!! We still gone watch & support regardless. Why you tryna hinder her GROWTH for your own selfish reasons?? Very weird.

  • @sadeonthemoon
    @sadeonthemoon Месяц назад +7

    I love this show because it makes me more and more grateful for the MAN that God has placed in my life to love, hold, and cherish me. The boys in the dating pool are devastating.

  • @yasharahlaprincess
    @yasharahlaprincess 2 месяца назад +161

    This reunion was EXTREMELY necessary for the people who want to be on the show in the future. The reunion gave WONDERFUL perspective. Thanks yall 🙏🏾 And for the engaged couple, this goes to show that if you take the show serious you can find love. STOP POPPING THE BALLON FOR SILLY REASONS. I hate when people pop over crazy stuff like outfits.

    • @angelalee9347
      @angelalee9347 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree

    • @khandygurl01
      @khandygurl01 2 месяца назад

      I definitely agree! BUT… Arlette does tell them in the beginning of every episode “ if you like what you hear and see, don’t pop, but if there is just something you’re not feeling, the outfit, etc. Then go ahead and pop your balloon.” Lol it’s got to get narrowed down somehow, and they only have a couple minutes with each other. But still, I, personally, would not pop because of an outfit. Lol

  • @Amandaronell
    @Amandaronell 2 месяца назад +691

    Zola made me feel like I can’t comprehend simple conversation😭😭😭

    • @stephaniegravenhorst5383
      @stephaniegravenhorst5383 2 месяца назад +21

      I was so confused with myself😩🤣

    • @eboneyherbert9759
      @eboneyherbert9759 2 месяца назад +10

      Omg 😂😂😂 literally smh

    • @FavoritesNahuj
      @FavoritesNahuj 2 месяца назад +18

      Where s the Reunion we ALL have been waiting for!???? You KNOW WHAT guy am talking about......QUEEN.

    • @DeersThrone
      @DeersThrone 2 месяца назад +4

      SPACE CADET! jesus christ

    • @Rez-rifical
      @Rez-rifical 2 месяца назад +1

      Which one is Zola 😂😂😂

  • @bigmacetv7404
    @bigmacetv7404 2 месяца назад +119

    Aside from the video, I am soooooo proud and happy for Arlette and her success! It is so refreshing to see a black woman win and not have to act a fool to do so. Flowers for you girl!❤️❤️

  • @chinyerea8388
    @chinyerea8388 25 дней назад +2

    My favorite thing about Arlette is that she has opinions, but she lets everyone speak their minds. She makes herself a neutral party which I think helps people to be unapologetically themselves. That’s why her channel is so great. Love this channel!

  • @yayadatdyme
    @yayadatdyme 2 месяца назад +288

    DORIAN IS THE MOST SUPPORTIVE PERSON ON HERE!!!! And ALWAYS GIVING COMPLIMENTS TOO!!! Hope this girl go far ❤

    • @tamar9832
      @tamar9832 2 месяца назад +12

      Yess, I really like her.

    • @guguthabapelo4952
      @guguthabapelo4952 2 месяца назад +16

      She was great and carried herself well

    • @ChisomAdaora
      @ChisomAdaora 2 месяца назад +11

      I like her even more. She carries herself well and is really smart about what she says. ❤

    • @banginthekitchen7039
      @banginthekitchen7039 2 месяца назад +2

      Yup yuppp 🎉❤❤

    • @sydyoudigg
      @sydyoudigg 2 месяца назад +11

      I loved her also and I never once thought she was ghetto. They ain’t seen ghetto lol

  • @Jose-ht2lw
    @Jose-ht2lw 2 месяца назад +77

    The engaged couple is so cute! Hope they are joyful forever! Wish them the very best.

  • @musement7446
    @musement7446 2 месяца назад +1169

    baldy “can I get invited”
    ol girl “he gonna talk about everybody weave there” 💀

    • @Nonchalantlyfabulous
      @Nonchalantlyfabulous 2 месяца назад +59

      lmbo... wait.. I didn't catch that !!

    • @Misstonyah
      @Misstonyah 2 месяца назад +39

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I heard that.

    • @Wonderfullymade1212
      @Wonderfullymade1212 2 месяца назад +8

      I think Khe was like NO!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @samichan6848
      @samichan6848 2 месяца назад +57

      Not you calling him “BALDY” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MaryByrne-wr7ou
      @MaryByrne-wr7ou 2 месяца назад +7

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Daisywomuru
    @Daisywomuru Месяц назад +10

    I'm so addicted to this program 😊

  • @traplordso985
    @traplordso985 2 месяца назад +268

    Arlette is the perfect mediator! I love how she cut them off when things were about to go left and I love how she changed the subject very quick after she saw the stripper girl was damn near close to a breakdown

    • @Qbanhoneydip
      @Qbanhoneydip 2 месяца назад +15

      So classy

    • @skinnzthedon
      @skinnzthedon 2 месяца назад +4

      Yea she built for this

    • @GreenGiant873
      @GreenGiant873 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes, just like a refree steps in to end a fight in a boxing match when one of the fighters is been pummeled

    • @tes-xj8uy
      @tes-xj8uy 2 месяца назад +3

      she is good at her job

    • @dandybrandy451
      @dandybrandy451 2 месяца назад +2

      Yeah I love that she's not all about messy content. She's too classy for trashy tv

  • @jermed23
    @jermed23 2 месяца назад +980

    That whole conversation starring Zola was the blind leading the blind.

    • @TheresaHunter-zi3ic
      @TheresaHunter-zi3ic 2 месяца назад +102

      LEAVE GODS WORD OUT OF IT😂

    • @Keith10
      @Keith10 2 месяца назад +9

      @@jermed23 1000% I said the same thing.

    • @Keith10
      @Keith10 2 месяца назад +20

      @@TheresaHunter-zi3ic especially if you're going to get it completely wrong.

    • @SuperWarpath
      @SuperWarpath 2 месяца назад

      😂

    • @chibi0109
      @chibi0109 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Annatoria62
    @Annatoria62 2 месяца назад +311

    Arlette really has a grip on us, obsessed with this show all the way from South Africa, it's international 😊.

    • @realg7849
      @realg7849 2 месяца назад +9

      Nawe 😂

    • @Annatoria62
      @Annatoria62 2 месяца назад +10

      @@realg7849 😂I don't even miss an episode cabanga

    • @nobertsibanda7793
      @nobertsibanda7793 2 месяца назад +8

      Sisonke 😂

    • @boniswamchunu
      @boniswamchunu 2 месяца назад +5

      Same here I'm addicted 😅😅😅

    • @jessedee8635
      @jessedee8635 2 месяца назад +1

      You are right her show has gone global. I'm following up right here in Dubai

  • @FloatingFont
    @FloatingFont Месяц назад +5

    16:23 this woman is INSANE. She doesnt actually answer the questions she's asked and just goes ON. Girl in love with her voice

    • @Megan6772
      @Megan6772 20 дней назад

      Babyyy!! Calling a 9-5 a side hustle. Those are contradictory statements.

    • @idellasays2086
      @idellasays2086 День назад

      And constantly cutting people off. Needs to learn to listen. No one in any industry respects that ……

  • @naijawave
    @naijawave 2 месяца назад +1010

    Dropping a book on the perfect match meanwhile you ain’t even match is INSANE 😂

    • @kelsimoore3524
      @kelsimoore3524 2 месяца назад +76

      DIABOLICAL! 😂😂😂

    • @comeatmebro8120
      @comeatmebro8120 2 месяца назад

      @@naijawave Its because he’s from the ghetto

    • @1stdaughter
      @1stdaughter 2 месяца назад +66

      He can't even say words correctly... ain't nobody reading this book.

    • @louisndalameta3018
      @louisndalameta3018 2 месяца назад +22

      😂😂😂😂 This comment is undefeated

    • @Courber99
      @Courber99 2 месяца назад +7

      you caught my ribbs... 😂🤣🤣😅

  • @LisaDurant1997
    @LisaDurant1997 2 месяца назад +315

    It's so heart warming to see this show just keeps getting better....

    • @KayP32
      @KayP32 2 месяца назад +8

      And she’s doing it soooo gracefully! That’s what sets her apart. 💕

    • @destinyn63
      @destinyn63 2 месяца назад +1

      She’s needs to be on tv. I can’t see the show on BET or Netflix

    • @JessRare
      @JessRare 2 месяца назад +4

      @@destinyn63noooo def doesn’t…keep her platform on RUclips and let it grow in its own way. Soon as TV gets involved it would take away from her shining and it being HER SHOW and decisions.

    • @jaycee1529
      @jaycee1529 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@JessRare exactly. TV wouldn't care about the realness, just ratings

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 2 месяца назад

      Entertainment wise but it’s getting worse amongst women and men of color, sad.

  • @WordTraveller9
    @WordTraveller9 2 месяца назад +505

    Who else clapped when BM praised his wife Arlette 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Decades-pl2kl
      @Decades-pl2kl 2 месяца назад +3

      Cause she's making that money. My Nigerian friend does his wife the same way

    • @joy_nia
      @joy_nia 2 месяца назад +18

      @@Decades-pl2kl they’re getting the bag together. BM produces the show and he’s a successful musician. That’s what marriage is about: TEAMWORK

    • @zion9146
      @zion9146 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Decades-pl2kl he does work too stop bashing Nigerians

    • @natashabowen4340
      @natashabowen4340 2 месяца назад +1

      Power Couple!!

    • @thunderbolt1359
      @thunderbolt1359 2 месяца назад +1

      Not me. 🙋

  • @Nev82
    @Nev82 Месяц назад +10

    As a black man I must say I enjoyed Dorian’s personality on this reunion and her episode. I didn’t feel she was argumentative or aggressive. I just feel like none of those guys could handle her.

  • @TorCumberbatch-k8i
    @TorCumberbatch-k8i 2 месяца назад +483

    The girl with the face tattoos is a walking contradiction. She ASSUMES that guys will make an ASSUMPTION about a job that she claims isn't her life and yet she CONSTANTLY brings it up. Make it make sense🤯

    • @justice_rizzo
      @justice_rizzo 2 месяца назад +19

      Very low self esteem

    • @Rez-rifical
      @Rez-rifical 2 месяца назад +6

      Lost 😂

    • @kurogikuzuzuki9790
      @kurogikuzuzuki9790 2 месяца назад +3

      she’s not contradicting, she plain and simple has a fear of rejection. she brings it up bc of what men/society center, not what she centers for herself lol

    • @TylerNxumalo
      @TylerNxumalo 2 месяца назад

      Nah ​@@kurogikuzuzuki9790

    • @dre22
      @dre22 2 месяца назад +3

      This world it full of broken people and half of them are on this show

  • @orvillehenry822
    @orvillehenry822 2 месяца назад +761

    The stripper didn’t let one person finish their statements

    • @Peejayyesthetics
      @Peejayyesthetics 2 месяца назад +86

      She said she's a recording artist lol. Don't call her a stripper 😂

    • @anthonyt425
      @anthonyt425 2 месяца назад +52

      Because she knew they were right. 🤣

    • @msimareallady8664
      @msimareallady8664 2 месяца назад +36

      She made the entire reunion about her. She is on here not for a date but for validation. I dont understand why she was even there. No one from episode 11 was there.

    • @user-wollpya
      @user-wollpya 2 месяца назад +23

      I literally had to fast forward her part, because that annoyed me. Like hush and let someone finish their thought please. But she was in defense mood.

    • @janda6822
      @janda6822 2 месяца назад

      @Peejayyesthetics 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ImKnotMyHair
    @ImKnotMyHair 2 месяца назад +133

    Yoooooo that banter between baldy and Bryan was sending me !!! 😅😅😅😅 highlight of this reunion

    • @ericmorris5912
      @ericmorris5912 2 месяца назад +12

      Y’all calling him baldy is hilarious! 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MerlotBaby
      @MerlotBaby 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ericmorris5912he had it coming

    • @bernardking9136
      @bernardking9136 2 месяца назад +1

      Man what hollering 😂😂😂😂😂🤣

    • @cynthiajones6013
      @cynthiajones6013 2 месяца назад

      Brian & Braylen

  • @yevgeniywang5077
    @yevgeniywang5077 18 дней назад +2

    The 💍 engaged couple is haaat 🔥 😮 energy is so lovely 😍 all the best to them ❤️

  • @simone6803
    @simone6803 2 месяца назад +87

    Im so proud of Arlette and her husband. The whole production is SPOT ON. And why it stands out amongst so many who have tried this format. The sound quality MATTERS. Im a grown 40 year old woman captured because I LOVE to see love and young people winning… all people winning. I love that this team didn’t just try to promote ratchet and crass nor the other negative narratives mainstream media likes to push where they can… we see young black people with character, MAINLY quality characters with good grounding or education, direction, looking for affection. It’s just energy and its capturing us ALLLLLLLL i saw a comment saying “not me a grown man clicking immediately” me too brother :)) watching with my darling x

    • @JiHu-d8c
      @JiHu-d8c Месяц назад +1

      Agreeed. The wild cards that slip in occasionally make it funny though.

  • @normless2472
    @normless2472 2 месяца назад +213

    The engaged woman with the short blonde hair is gorgeous, beautiful eyes, quiet, humble. And he is handsome. Beautiful couple, I wish them a great future.

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 2 месяца назад +22

      He's a red flag, sitting up there arguing with other women while engaged to be married.

    • @Queenofbeautiful
      @Queenofbeautiful 2 месяца назад +17

      @@SparkleInYourEyes2024 Exactly. Patting his leg because she know he probably gets crazy . Smh.

    • @SparkleInYourEyes2024
      @SparkleInYourEyes2024 2 месяца назад +5

      @@Queenofbeautiful Right! It's crazy how unperceptive so many people are!

    • @gkusuo4921
      @gkusuo4921 Месяц назад +8

      @@SparkleInYourEyes2024 thought I was the only one the whole time I was like yikes… she even tried to get eye contact with him so he could stop…

    • @BAEYBE
      @BAEYBE Месяц назад +8

      don’t buy it for one second all for clout

  • @AmericanShadewithBrittanyKing
    @AmericanShadewithBrittanyKing 2 месяца назад +990

    some of y'all where over here MAD that they didn't upload another episode and now they got us a WHOLE REUNION... let's goooooo. lolol

    • @1stdaughter
      @1stdaughter 2 месяца назад +77

      That's me. I was mad. I feel better now.

    • @GodsHappyFamily
      @GodsHappyFamily 2 месяца назад +10

      Let’s gooooooo😂

    • @njeriperry
      @njeriperry 2 месяца назад +2

      😭😭😭😭FR

    • @JaNeeDiahann1225
      @JaNeeDiahann1225 2 месяца назад +36

      This is definitely not better😂😂😂😂

    • @Te-Rebel
      @Te-Rebel 2 месяца назад +5

      I am some of y'all, but wasn't mad😅

  • @AhYAHrshalYAH.
    @AhYAHrshalYAH. Месяц назад +78

    As a former stripper for two years.. you can’t say you love the Father and go to a club and get naked for men causing not only yourself to comitt sin but leading men down with you. That’s not love. Don’t allow them enemy to fool you. When I cried and prayed to the Father I immediately had a choice to go back (which I thought of after I prayed.. I thought let me work for two more months it’ll get enough to be straight for the year) or to LEAVE! I chose with my FREE WILL to leave and put my trust in the Father. I chose him instead of myself!! I chose to respect him and have fear of him instead of going back to that sin! Never even went back to clean my locker! You can’t say you love someone but your actions are completely against what they tell you to do. That’s not LOVE! If I love my husband I’m not going to go sleep with another man consistently every few months and say well I go home and cook for my husband every day and make sure his clothes are wash etc. NO that’s not how that works and you have to take accountability and be real with yourself. The enemy will deceive us. The word says those who love me will keep my commandments.. not go against them. Now I’m not saying she’s perfect.. no way shape or form we all fall short.. but it’s the lack of accountability and her believing that her actions of stripping but going to church every Sunday is okay. No.. it’s not! And if you think it is your fooling yourself as well. Where’s the conviction? Where is the fear of the Father? Love is not something you say it’s something you do! It’s an action.. and you will remain in the darkness love until you come out completely. Don’t be lukewarm.. you either love him or you don’t! Pray, ask for faith, fast!! Put in an effort to leave… but don’t be fooled and think sacrificing your body is okay.. it’s not. And it doesn’t matter about a man accepting this… does the Most High accept this? That should be your first husband and your first priority! Goodluck 🙏🏽

    • @JT-zs9zb
      @JT-zs9zb Месяц назад +4

      👏👏👏

    • @88niteowl88
      @88niteowl88 Месяц назад +3

      Amen, sister!!! I'm so proud of you!!! Let the Lord use you!!! Jesus loves everyone and is the only way to heaven. ❤

    • @AhYAHrshalYAH.
      @AhYAHrshalYAH. Месяц назад +1

      @@88niteowl88 thank you for your kind words, really appreciate it! All glory to the Most High!🙌🏽🙏🏽💜

    • @Shamika2391
      @Shamika2391 Месяц назад

      @@AhYAHrshalYAH. hallelujah!!!

    • @amberk5536
      @amberk5536 Месяц назад +1

      Love to hear what God has done in and through your life!!! And you sharing your testimony brings others to Christ and glorifies the Father! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @Coronaboii88
    @Coronaboii88 2 месяца назад +484

    Shoutout to BM for bigging up our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Without Him, there’s nothing. Let’s go brother 🙏🏽

    • @leeann111
      @leeann111 2 месяца назад +11

      Praise the Lord! The gospel must be shared and our Savior Jesus acknowledged one way or another

    • @summergurl21
      @summergurl21 2 месяца назад +8

      TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY 🙏🙏

    • @BlaqQtee
      @BlaqQtee 2 месяца назад +6

      Amen...

    • @ColoradoJayy
      @ColoradoJayy 2 месяца назад +4

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @chichibesa6838
      @chichibesa6838 2 месяца назад +3

      ❤❤❤

  • @tenacity337
    @tenacity337 2 месяца назад +119

    Girl in purple 💜 dress is my favorite. She is so real, genuine, kind, positive, someone you can talk to when you want advice. The way she spoke to girl with tattoo is so sweet

    • @rickybobbydastar6534
      @rickybobbydastar6534 2 месяца назад +2

      U mean gotta bbl & ratchet but funny lol

    • @B.I.of_65th
      @B.I.of_65th 2 месяца назад

      She is a witch.

    • @comica869
      @comica869 2 месяца назад +6

      She told her what she needed to hear without degrading her.

  • @Cortland729
    @Cortland729 2 месяца назад +731

    Did Arlette rent out an entire hotel lobby?? This is BALLER 😂

    • @rdot980
      @rdot980 2 месяца назад +42

      I noticed that too.

    • @BuffaloGreens
      @BuffaloGreens 2 месяца назад +26

      Yesss she did lol

    • @MahalKita0215
      @MahalKita0215 2 месяца назад +56

      Probably a club house for a luxury apartment complex. They had to shoot this after hours was my guess.

    • @ritabos7162
      @ritabos7162 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m so done 😂😂😂

    • @ahenzeaccessories
      @ahenzeaccessories 2 месяца назад +2

      She means business.No chaser.

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink 6 дней назад

    That engagement was beautiful. Had me crying. Congratulations to them! ❤️💍💐

  • @emerypride7098
    @emerypride7098 2 месяца назад +391

    They done got Bryan started “I’m from the ghetto” “ain’t nothing wrong with being ghettto” 🤣🤣😂😂

    • @mikelarobinson2348
      @mikelarobinson2348 2 месяца назад +27

      Once Dorian brought that up, then he started up, that is hilarious

    • @ghostlee9489
      @ghostlee9489 2 месяца назад +12

      I died at that part

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 2 месяца назад +2

      Awww shit lol

    • @522gem_
      @522gem_ 2 месяца назад +14

      I said the exact same thing…his eyes lit up when heard ghetto 😂

    • @cateraclark
      @cateraclark 2 месяца назад +9

      Can’t forget he’s a Louisianimal

  • @TalkswithMellow
    @TalkswithMellow 2 месяца назад +129

    That engagement was beautiful asf! Literally in tears watching. God please wrap your arms around this union. Their happiness radiates.

  • @CJ2008NW
    @CJ2008NW 2 месяца назад +610

    Girl with the tattoo looking up to Cardi B at 31 is CRAZY…

    • @448savage7
      @448savage7 2 месяца назад +34

      😂😂😂😂 naw fr she still lost in life

    • @attracTion876
      @attracTion876 2 месяца назад +4

      Facts!

    • @servantofthelord25
      @servantofthelord25 2 месяца назад +4

      😂😂

    • @mayfield0707961
      @mayfield0707961 2 месяца назад +14

      If you’re a woman pursuing to be a recording artist, what’s wrong with looking up to Cardi B? She has had a really successful career

    • @quelleym4265
      @quelleym4265 2 месяца назад

      @@mayfield0707961that’s not why she’s looking up to her tho. Her thing is cardi was a stripper and still managed to find love but cardi is no role model. Her marriage is on the rocks. Her husband always cheated and they have 3 kids amidst all that mess. Just cause you can pull a husband while being a stripper doesn’t mean that’s going to be a good life for you. Her self esteem level is clearly low and she needs to elevate herself and find new role models

  • @TobianThompson
    @TobianThompson Месяц назад +1

    Host and hubby!!! How amazing! Gods glory if truly reflected in your presetation.

  • @JesusIsLoooorrd
    @JesusIsLoooorrd 2 месяца назад +117

    The bible is not to fit our lifestyle. It changes our lifestyle and shows the mercy of God's hand in our lives as we draw closer through Jesus ❤

    • @destinyj23
      @destinyj23 2 месяца назад +5

      Thank you!!! 💙 When people say that I already know what I need to know about their relationship with GOD.

    • @JesusIsLoooorrd
      @JesusIsLoooorrd 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes! It's sad to see and hear how she thinks she's a right now representation of a woman of God samething when a man say their men of God but shows the opposite. Of course, when she surrenders, then the Holy Spirit will show her what a woman of God looks like as she's being cleansed through the blood of Jesus!​@destinyj23

    • @kendrastamps-lynch1582
      @kendrastamps-lynch1582 2 месяца назад +4

      Exactly you’re supposed to change and she doesn’t want to. She’s just going on and about nothing

    • @VRM787
      @VRM787 2 месяца назад +2

      🙌🏽🙏

  • @ngosachisenga7559
    @ngosachisenga7559 2 месяца назад +225

    Publicly Praising Jesus was just so amazing 🥺❤️

  • @calvingutsa
    @calvingutsa 2 месяца назад +2072

    The "Gracias" girl is funny af, "I am not saying you're a prostitute" 😂

    • @Lexx1192
      @Lexx1192 2 месяца назад +114

      I love her!!! 😂😂😂

    • @Kirk-d7v
      @Kirk-d7v 2 месяца назад

      @@Lexx1192
      ruclips.net/video/AUFu3yb-4A4/видео.htmlfeature=shared

    • @kylieking8163
      @kylieking8163 2 месяца назад +21

      @@Lexx1192I lover her too

    • @kaheaisaac1
      @kaheaisaac1 2 месяца назад +136

      She's funny. I love the butterflies in her hair

    • @Divinehammer3000
      @Divinehammer3000 2 месяца назад +12

      Maybe it would be funny if she pronounced it right

  • @TinaLuv-g1x
    @TinaLuv-g1x 24 дня назад +2

    Am happy for the engaged couples,awww wish you both successful home ahead 🎉❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zemylancoleman9038
    @zemylancoleman9038 2 месяца назад +128

    James the most respectful and humble guy on here

  • @LyriLowkey
    @LyriLowkey 2 месяца назад +133

    She’s telling everyone it’s not her life but that’s the main reason she popped balloons! She made it her life! No one would’ve known had she not even mentioned it!

    • @oliviagilmore8125
      @oliviagilmore8125 Месяц назад +11

      exactly!!! She disqualified herself then got on here not wanting to be judged, she gotta stop judging herself first. There was another stripper on a previous episode with child(ren) that was upfront and still left with a match.

    • @handsomeblack5234
      @handsomeblack5234 Месяц назад +2

      Just curious as to why they are bringing on so many strippers?

    • @oliviagilmore8125
      @oliviagilmore8125 Месяц назад +3

      @@handsomeblack5234 probably for4 controversy, but to be fair, they bring people from all walks of life. There was a male entertainer as well...

    • @donnaleeclubb119
      @donnaleeclubb119 Месяц назад +2

      She could have mentioned it if she's not ashamed of it, but MOVE ON. If it's not your main thing, speak on things that ARE the main things in your life.

    • @2010DERT2010
      @2010DERT2010 Месяц назад +1

      FACTS. I'm like you the one brought it up. Giiiiiirl 🙄

  • @amazonkee74
    @amazonkee74 2 месяца назад +86

    I love that he gave praise to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. ❤❤ Keep winning and shining beautiful couple. May God continue to bless all that you both do.

  • @quintessiagreen4604
    @quintessiagreen4604 Месяц назад +1

    Arlette has such charisma! Love watching her host

  • @jawsh5479
    @jawsh5479 2 месяца назад +1733

    I can’t be the only one that wishes the Ninja Turtle guy came for this reunion😭

    • @Peacefullytimah
      @Peacefullytimah 2 месяца назад +199

      Naw he too much keep him away

    • @chriswilson6292
      @chriswilson6292 2 месяца назад +60

      Facts!! that's the main reason I clicked on this video

    • @laurab6418
      @laurab6418 2 месяца назад +117

      He said he wasn’t coming back. His match did him dirty by taking another man’s phone number right in front of him 😅

    • @Mr.Ming07
      @Mr.Ming07 2 месяца назад +10

      Wasn’t that season 1?

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 2 месяца назад +21

      The roof would’ve came off the building with him and the woman that said it.

  • @Bijoux_George
    @Bijoux_George 2 месяца назад +279

    Not Braylene and Bryan starting out as enemies and ending damn near besties at the end of the show 😂😂❤

    • @ChampaEmap
      @ChampaEmap 2 месяца назад +50

      That's what men do

    • @vgreen1106
      @vgreen1106 2 месяца назад +23

      They both (in my Nene voice) SEE each other!

    • @GuntherPlosch-o7g
      @GuntherPlosch-o7g 2 месяца назад +35

      Even tho they don't fw each other . They still respect each other's opinions.. ( how men kick shxt )

    • @kyramichelleee
      @kyramichelleee 2 месяца назад

      they sucking each other

    • @thesecondcoming2422
      @thesecondcoming2422 2 месяца назад

      thats because men can take accountability and respect other men for calling them out, you women could never, yall can only be friends with ppl that gas yall up and never for a fraction of a second challenge yall. That's why the phrase single women keep women single exist, just echo chamber of delusion and fantasy talks, when men on the other hand will tell eachother things like bro u fat or bro u broke to keep them in check.

  • @brininc7125
    @brininc7125 2 месяца назад +138

    If you spend your time chasing butterflies they will fly away; but if you spend your time building a beautiful garden the butterflies will come to you.

  • @JiHu-d8c
    @JiHu-d8c Месяц назад +5

    “What’s hard about dating you” that’s an excellent question.

  • @iledwards13
    @iledwards13 2 месяца назад +958

    Bryan writing a book on 7 keys of relationships and dating with no personal matches, himself, is wiiiiiiild....

    • @emeraldkaysgarden
      @emeraldkaysgarden 2 месяца назад +126

      I'm sure it's an A.I written book.

    • @maritawanazw
      @maritawanazw 2 месяца назад +45

      😂🙌🏾he's looking for clout on this show

    • @laurab6418
      @laurab6418 2 месяца назад +83

      Guess who will not be buying or reading his book 🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @Usersomethingsometh
      @Usersomethingsometh 2 месяца назад +8

      But it's smart tho 😂

    • @jew-el1
      @jew-el1 2 месяца назад +1

      DELUSIONAL BRYAN‼️

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 2 месяца назад +261

    I like Bryan. He’s direct, confident and straightforward. Not for everyone, but I personally like him. The women arguing that men have to accept women with multiple baby fathers or vice versa, is not judging, its preference. It’s got nothing to do with society. If I met a man who had multiple baby mothers, I’d be reluctant to date him. I’ve done that before and it’s a lot of stress.

    • @beingcece
      @beingcece 2 месяца назад +44

      Finally someone said it! I know for a fact I don’t want a man with multiple baby mamas period and that’s my decision. They make it seem like something’s wrong with that and that definitely says something about your decision making skills idc💯

    • @kvonbruce2911
      @kvonbruce2911 2 месяца назад +16

      Bryan is what a lot of these women with daddy issues need,.. a stern, hard-truth telling man.

    • @lizzieliz0708
      @lizzieliz0708 2 месяца назад +15

      I don't think anyone has a problem with his preference. But why didn't he just tell them if they had multiple baby fathers to pop their balloons instead of scolding them like he's their daddy??

    • @judithmuyunda6618
      @judithmuyunda6618 2 месяца назад +6

      You are so right
      And them comparing it with stealing candy is crazy😂

    • @browngirl603
      @browngirl603 2 месяца назад +4

      That’s not what was happening he wanted them to take accountability for their past, which they should on their on time, but not to a damn random man

  • @aniyas_wayy
    @aniyas_wayy 2 месяца назад +216

    Arlette is the epitome of class. Literally the saying “Very Classy, Very Cutesy, Very Demure” fits everything about her and her show lol

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 2 месяца назад +1

      💯

    • @handsomeblack5234
      @handsomeblack5234 2 месяца назад +10

      She is annoying sometimes with her instigating

    • @beastzeus
      @beastzeus 2 месяца назад +13

      @@handsomeblack5234 annoying? you mean comedic relief and entertaining ? This has been damn near tv quality production as commented above, I actually think she intervenes to keep the show moving way more than she instigates anything, I also think its more of a clarification as opposed to an instigation especially if a statement is a broad one.

    • @Rez-rifical
      @Rez-rifical 2 месяца назад

      ​@handsome😂black5234

    • @janniebranch1857
      @janniebranch1857 2 месяца назад +2

      Naw she be allowing a lot of disrespect. She let that man sit there and disrespect black women.

  • @OscarJ-01
    @OscarJ-01 Месяц назад +6

    Shordy said “when you find a wife you find a good thing” talking bout herself a Baby mama with 4 baby daddies is insane😭🤣