What about after a year of reaching out at least once a month? Will she still have these feelings if I stopped contacting her altogether? Been 51 days so far
Great question. I was with my ex for 6 years and she left me. That was 5 months ago and the longest we've gone without talking was a week. We still play video games together. In that five months she's been hot and cold. Now it's warm and cold. She says she still has mixed feelings. In that time though I've been working on bettering myself. So whether we get back together or not I'll still come out of this a better person. Best chance you have is turn your focus back to yourself. Let her reach out and let things work itself out naturally. Sorry I don't have a real answer for you. I think we all come here looking for answers.
Yes. Anytime the dumpee breaks no contact, it’s chasing. If there’s been a death or something serious they need to know about, that’s the only time to break it. If you’ve already done it, just start no contact over again, and this time hold to it until they contact you first. It’s been 5 months for me. After month 3 it gets easier.
I did chase in the beginning, she went into a rebound which didn’t work. Now I’m removed from everywhere apart from WhatsApp. Written a message out recently but didn’t send it. It been 9 months since she left and NC for a third time
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What about after a year of reaching out at least once a month? Will she still have these feelings if I stopped contacting her altogether? Been 51 days so far
Great question. I was with my ex for 6 years and she left me. That was 5 months ago and the longest we've gone without talking was a week. We still play video games together. In that five months she's been hot and cold. Now it's warm and cold. She says she still has mixed feelings. In that time though I've been working on bettering myself. So whether we get back together or not I'll still come out of this a better person. Best chance you have is turn your focus back to yourself. Let her reach out and let things work itself out naturally. Sorry I don't have a real answer for you. I think we all come here looking for answers.
What about reaching out 45 days after NC...is that chasing?
Yea that is chasing
Yes ! Don’t do that…. I have been for 45 days…. And so strong!! 💪
Yes. Anytime the dumpee breaks no contact, it’s chasing. If there’s been a death or something serious they need to know about, that’s the only time to break it. If you’ve already done it, just start no contact over again, and this time hold to it until they contact you first. It’s been 5 months for me. After month 3 it gets easier.
Yes it’s chasing! This person doesn’t want to be with you and you’re gonna do all the work between you?
I did chase in the beginning, she went into a rebound which didn’t work. Now I’m removed from everywhere apart from WhatsApp.
Written a message out recently but didn’t send it. It been 9 months since she left and NC for a third time
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