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Same with any workers in a position that are viewed poorly. If someone insults maids, janitors, garbage men etc, you can probably assume they don't have great character
My grandfather had a trick to find out who you are truly dating. Go on a long road trip, just you and her at least 2 hours each way. Being stuck on a road trip brings out your true colors. It's best to be in a private vehicle. If you don't drive each other insane with each other's antics, then you should be okay in marriage.
Naw. They could just gost on their phone etc. You have to live with them before marrying them. You have a homeymoon phase and then thats over and their real personality comes out. From the aound of this story he didnt live with her while dating.
Yeah, no. Almost everyone, even if you're bisexual or pansexual and dating same gender as you, would turn you mad just from this antic. This is not different than mind game deployed by manipulative and insecure girls towards men all the time and wasting good vibe once had between each other. Even as a test of friendship would resulting in the same thing, both are at each other's throat trying to playing blame game and exchange yelling, they're not you and you're not them, that's why love between mates should be conditional, but tolerant. I mean, would you stand with yourself in such condition? No, but you ought to because no one else would if you don't do it yourself, same goes with children as this is expected from us the one that provide to them, being responsible to love and protect unconditionally in any circumstance since they're a weak dependent version of ourselves as infant. If you can't love your friends or mates beyond some point you put as boundaries as in following nuanced flexibility to resolve something, then don't force yourself and expect anyone to be in line with your mindset and goals since you're making out with people, not your shadow or reflection, still doesn't mean total severance of what had been established rather than stepping back and realizing true values between each other towards pre-supposed common goals, unless you have very good reason to do so, like they're harming and exploiting you without considerate feeling to you on the basic principle of self-dignity and common sense.
My ex preferred taking her new bf on a hiking group trip that lasted at least a week. It reveals how people behave with around 90% accuracy (as under stress, being tired, hungry sleepy, having to do stuff because it's scheduled). I would suggest to everyone!
@odieses1 Have you ever been on a multi-hour road trip in a private vehicle while stuck in bumper to bumper traffic? You ARE living with them in a possible stressful situation. It's not long-term, but you will truly show the sides of you that are hidden from view.
@bdi_vd3677 That's a great one! My family mostly lived in urban areas with no nice areas to camp. Edit: Bro... Hopefully, your ex didn't cheat on you with him. If so, I sincerely hope you find the one.
No kids ? Just bail bro, you fell for the good ol' electoral campaign. You voted for her and she felt she didn't have to play her skit anymore. Save time, bail.
Bail? to where? they already married if he ask for divorce the wife win big, if He run away the wife also win big. also is hard to proof narcissist abusive behaviour.
@@lost4356 solution: convince wife to take up camping with you. People go missing all the time during camping trips and visits to a national park and never a trace of them is found. It's really disturbing when ya think about it.
@@lost4356if it's only been a couple years then the courts likely won't do much more than order them to divide their assets but no alimony should be involved. Trust me bro, if I had the option to do this I would've taken it long ago. So what if I would've lost my car? At least I wouldn't be stuck with this environment for life.
@@Slowpoke3xit does make the sentiment understandable, but I think the reason that is is because divorce was looked down upon in their generation and all of them where simply told to “suck it up”. The real problem is that boomers think that’s normal because they were socially pressured to marry and stay married, and want their kids to be in miserable relationships as well just like them. I’m glad that younger generations after the boomers are usually just saying stuff like “get a divorce” or simply to not marry and just live with the person, so if they ever show their true colors? You can always have the option of just waking out of an abusive relationship much easier. It’s not a perfect solution that fits every abusive relationship, but by god does it make it easier to leave if you don’t have any legal documents binding you together.
@@BlueTyphoon2017Yeah, our sub replacement birth rates and significantly inceqsed instances of depression is really making me think that our modern ideas about life is absolutely wrong.
It’s more complicated than that, though. If it’s a quick “how’s the marriage?” from a colleague then may not be a good time to talk about this. But I agree he should try and get some help from someone, whether it be a friend, counsellor or family member
@willowtree-qd2de I think a simple "not too great" would suffice for a casual question, rather than openly lying. Cultivating an atmosphere of deception only aids those who prey on the naive.
@@ianleui7007well you’re in luck, because I’ve noticed that more people in younger generations after boomers are usually encouraging people to be more honest and not give fake smiles, ESPECIALLY in abusive relationships like this since every generation since the maybe the late 1970s has been bombarded with messages of “if you feel XYZ bad feeling, tell someone” or something similar. Quite frankly it makes me glad, because the more people say to be honest with others the more people can look for help to get out of abusive or unhappy relationships like these.
@dizzydial8081 “Succubus” probably isn’t the right word to use for this situation. Probably just “bitch” is good. A succubus is a female demon that has sex with men while they’re sleeping. She wasn’t insatiably horny to the point of it being problematic. And I doubt anon was letting her have sex with him anyway. She was just being a bitch.
The skipping mother's birthday thing shows how much of an horrible person she is. Filial Piety is very important in a person, a woman that doesn't care about someone caring about their mom, is not going to be a good mother at all. Yeah time to leave, its a good thing this guy had no children with her.
If the story is true; maybe look for a marriage counselor. If that doesnt work then maybe it's time to think about divorce, as much as i hate to say it. Wife is the problem and Wife doesnt wanna solve the problem, then there are few options left.
For me she sounds like a typical narcissist. Conselor wont help... at most she will act like it helped, so she will get kids, who will be used as an argument that he will wreck family if he divorces.
I knew I never wanted to get married since I was a young kid because of this exact scenario. One of my best friends from high school got married to this girl 3 years out of high school. I went to the wedding all that. 2 years later he calls me to tell me he’s getting a divorce and her whole personality changed right after the honeymoon. Personally I never really liked the girl when I first met her but there was nothing I could say or do so…
The moment you realize the real her isn't who she pretended to be, and it isn't someone you want to be around, is when you should leave. There's no good outcome from staying longer. She will not get better, she will only be assured that you'll keep tolerating her poor behavior. Irredeemable.
Its never going to get better. This is by the way the reason why some people advise against ever marrying at all. Not because marriage itself is the problem, but because it automatically solves most of the problems regarding such people.
@@olmostgudinaf8100 If your marriage is like this then it’s an unhealthy one. And abuse isn’t that common. It happens, but saying most marriages are like this is simply untrue.
I had a similar situation with my wife with 2 differences: 1. My wife did have some outbursts before, but yeah, no way near what happened after. 2. It gradually got worse and worse, and after the childbirth was the worst change. But I didn't give up and kept being assertive and also showing my love for her, and now it's even better than before our wedding. Sad that her libido is way lower, but it's not the most important part anyway. We still do this 5 to 8 times a month, so I guess it's not that bad from what I hear from other people xD
Successful bait and switch. Everyone's too busy thinking about the ideal. This one's more likely to happen after the honeymoon period's over. You can find the perfect partner but who's to say they won't change later down the line?
The trick here is to always watch how they treat other people and not you because most women who have some kind of agenda will treat you like gold, but the second you notice how they treat other people get out of that relationship or else you're going to be suffering
Always take someone on a long trip before you marry them. Bonus points if it's something like a backpacking trip, or a reeally long road trip, where you're with each other all the time for literally hundreds of hours. This is coming from an introvert btw. Situations like that reveal people's true colors. Even at my lowest I'd never be pointlessly rude to someone serving me- let alone the person I want to be my life partner... I don't think it's unfair to hold that expectation for your own partner as well. Maybe a genuine slip of frustration here and there at a tough situation, sure, but it quickly becomes easy to tell apart frustration for wanting to be able to help practically, and frustration due to selfish intent... and manipulative tendencies
Guys, always remember that you need to check somebody in extreme situations. Like real deal when your life is on stake. Only in this kind of situations you can truly see somebody else personality
This is why you should always ALWAYS live with a person for atleast 6-8 months before asking them to marry you. Trust me, dating a person and living with them are two completely different things. When you live with them, their real self will show through because it's impossible to keep the mask on 24/7
This woman was not happy. Women rarely say when they don't feel fulfilled in their relationship. However, there are signs when they are not. Mature ones will tell you early on, many however will not and will make you suffer for it for months or even years until they decide to tell you. They might even skip it altogether and straight up leave you. She will make you suffer for you not realizing she is unhappy with you. They expect you to somehow realize it yourself and change it. Immature. Waste of time for both of you. But men somewhat have this responsibility in a way, to keep the relationship going and to lead it. Many women are just grown up teenagers without accountability and need someone to lead them. It is what it is.
I have known my friends for 9+ years and still get surprised often by their actions and thoughts, would expect a relationship to be even harder@@kalb390
@ takes that time to go through enough changes and good and bad times to see who someone really is, to me it’s insane to think you can experience all of someone in a couple years
@@kalb390 fair enough point, all the more reason to not marry I guess because both can be become different people eventually and nobody knows if they’ll remain comparable
Sounds like she knows she'll be set if he divorces her, so she's just taking advantage of him. Remember: Don't marry until you're absolutely certain you want to be with a person.
She is a narcissist. The same happened to me. My boyfriend was great, perfect, to reel me in, when he noticed I was fully in love and he was in control, he became a different person. Never wanted to listen to anything I said, tried to devaluate me, never said he loved me, he was always in doubt about the love he felt for me. The best thing is just to leave and never look back. They dont change.
I am a rock type personality. That means I would be completely fine putting up with her while just flat out ignoring her criticisms and petty requests. If she doesn’t like it, that’s on her then.
I'm a typical narcissist, i got it from my dad, terrible person, i hope my personality changed somehow and it doesn't pass on to my kids, that's why i dislike myself. Well the point is i hope i can build and raise a good family and comfortable environment in the future, naive; i know.
Yet another married couple who can't actually talk to each other. This is what happens when you settle for fake communication in place of the real thing.
@user-zj2wo4xv9w That is extremely unlikely. I have never seen spousal support where the man has to pay up even though he earns way less. Mostly the man pays because of the traditional "Worker - Housekeeper" roles people have throughout the marriage
Man.... I Almost ended up like this... For 2 years, I thought we had great communication, I thought he was the kindest person I'd ever met. It turns out that we didn't have good communication, we'd just never had any problems big enough that they NEEDED good communication, and as soon as any kind of issue appeared, things fell apart. He was very capable of being kind. But turns out he was also very, very good at being cruel. Just hadn't done anything to "deserve" that cruelty until then... Even though he traumatized me, I count myself lucky that things ended then and there and I didn't marr him. He no longer has power over me. Anon, wherever you are, I hope that you're able to get out. There is nothing salvageable about this marriage and you deserve better, you deserve a marriage you don't regret. Get out, don't look back.
@@tinyratdude mkay. So, hardcore feminism is women can do no wrong? Only men? But feminism is just trying to get women in the same level as men. Correct?
This is probably fake since anon never had a gf but in case it's true for anyone in this situation heed my warning.. DO NOT HAVE BABIES, seek a marriage counselor to show an attempt to fix the relationship and if that doesn't work then go from there with legal means (obviously if she's cheating on ya you get a free ticket to divorce). But don't let her walk all over you, stand up for yourself when trying to solve a problem
Guy's really will do anything but leave. No wonder we have decade's of sitcoms about the husband hating his wife low key. Like bro, clearly being independent is better, just go.
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Being rude to wait staff is the biggest red flag that the internet is absolutely correct about.
The greentext seems to imply she became that way AFTER marrying the OP.
Unless they talk shit first = thats rare, but it probably happened to everyone at least once
Completly correct
Same with any workers in a position that are viewed poorly. If someone insults maids, janitors, garbage men etc, you can probably assume they don't have great character
My grandfather had a trick to find out who you are truly dating. Go on a long road trip, just you and her at least 2 hours each way. Being stuck on a road trip brings out your true colors. It's best to be in a private vehicle.
If you don't drive each other insane with each other's antics, then you should be okay in marriage.
Naw. They could just gost on their phone etc. You have to live with them before marrying them. You have a homeymoon phase and then thats over and their real personality comes out. From the aound of this story he didnt live with her while dating.
Yeah, no. Almost everyone, even if you're bisexual or pansexual and dating same gender as you, would turn you mad just from this antic. This is not different than mind game deployed by manipulative and insecure girls towards men all the time and wasting good vibe once had between each other. Even as a test of friendship would resulting in the same thing, both are at each other's throat trying to playing blame game and exchange yelling, they're not you and you're not them, that's why love between mates should be conditional, but tolerant. I mean, would you stand with yourself in such condition? No, but you ought to because no one else would if you don't do it yourself, same goes with children as this is expected from us the one that provide to them, being responsible to love and protect unconditionally in any circumstance since they're a weak dependent version of ourselves as infant.
If you can't love your friends or mates beyond some point you put as boundaries as in following nuanced flexibility to resolve something, then don't force yourself and expect anyone to be in line with your mindset and goals since you're making out with people, not your shadow or reflection, still doesn't mean total severance of what had been established rather than stepping back and realizing true values between each other towards pre-supposed common goals, unless you have very good reason to do so, like they're harming and exploiting you without considerate feeling to you on the basic principle of self-dignity and common sense.
My ex preferred taking her new bf on a hiking group trip that lasted at least a week. It reveals how people behave with around 90% accuracy (as under stress, being tired, hungry sleepy, having to do stuff because it's scheduled). I would suggest to everyone!
@odieses1 Have you ever been on a multi-hour road trip in a private vehicle while stuck in bumper to bumper traffic? You ARE living with them in a possible stressful situation. It's not long-term, but you will truly show the sides of you that are hidden from view.
@bdi_vd3677 That's a great one! My family mostly lived in urban areas with no nice areas to camp.
Edit: Bro... Hopefully, your ex didn't cheat on you with him. If so, I sincerely hope you find the one.
No kids ? Just bail bro, you fell for the good ol' electoral campaign. You voted for her and she felt she didn't have to play her skit anymore. Save time, bail.
More like : you've lost all 4 engines and the plane is falling apart due to flak, just bail out bro
Bail? to where? they already married if he ask for divorce the wife win big, if He run away the wife also win big. also is hard to proof narcissist abusive behaviour.
@@lost4356 solution: convince wife to take up camping with you. People go missing all the time during camping trips and visits to a national park and never a trace of them is found. It's really disturbing when ya think about it.
@@lost4356if it's only been a couple years then the courts likely won't do much more than order them to divide their assets but no alimony should be involved.
Trust me bro, if I had the option to do this I would've taken it long ago. So what if I would've lost my car? At least I wouldn't be stuck with this environment for life.
@@lost4356 he'll lose short or long term either way. Better to leave early, lose small rather than leave late and lose big
Ah, that's where the boomer "I hate my wife" comics come from...
Lol yea this situation makes that sentiment understandable.
@@Slowpoke3xit does make the sentiment understandable, but I think the reason that is is because divorce was looked down upon in their generation and all of them where simply told to “suck it up”. The real problem is that boomers think that’s normal because they were socially pressured to marry and stay married, and want their kids to be in miserable relationships as well just like them.
I’m glad that younger generations after the boomers are usually just saying stuff like “get a divorce” or simply to not marry and just live with the person, so if they ever show their true colors? You can always have the option of just waking out of an abusive relationship much easier. It’s not a perfect solution that fits every abusive relationship, but by god does it make it easier to leave if you don’t have any legal documents binding you together.
@@BlueTyphoon2017Yeah, our sub replacement birth rates and significantly inceqsed instances of depression is really making me think that our modern ideas about life is absolutely wrong.
She managed to put up a facade for 3 years of dating... That's diabolical 💀
Its easy for narcissists
Makes me wonder how much is really enough to see a person's true colors...
Anon missed 3 years of red flags that everyone else probably saw
No way, anon is either blind or he's leaving out info.
The red flags are there if you look, but some don't look.
He shouldn't lie to his friends. It's only leaving them vulnerable to the same trick.
It’s more complicated than that, though. If it’s a quick “how’s the marriage?” from a colleague then may not be a good time to talk about this. But I agree he should try and get some help from someone, whether it be a friend, counsellor or family member
@willowtree-qd2de
I think a simple "not too great" would suffice for a casual question, rather than openly lying. Cultivating an atmosphere of deception only aids those who prey on the naive.
@@mytruepower2yeah exactly. People are so used to being phony and fake in todays world that interactions like this are normal
@mytruepower2 True, but if his wife is emotionally abusive it might cause more problems, ones we don’t know about.
@@ianleui7007well you’re in luck, because I’ve noticed that more people in younger generations after boomers are usually encouraging people to be more honest and not give fake smiles, ESPECIALLY in abusive relationships like this since every generation since the maybe the late 1970s has been bombarded with messages of “if you feel XYZ bad feeling, tell someone” or something similar. Quite frankly it makes me glad, because the more people say to be honest with others the more people can look for help to get out of abusive or unhappy relationships like these.
If they don't have kids then he should just bail before it's too late. Once kids come into the picture you're locked in whether you like it or not
But she isn't. She'll still leave him as soon as she finds a better option, kids or not.
Anon needs to run real fast.
@@VoidwardNuclear option: Become trans and steal her new husband
They’re married
@@mooganifyyes, and he has the chance to get out of there before he brings children into the world with a toxic person
Take them grocery shopping.
*SEE IF THEY RETURN THE TROLLEY*
@@blacknapalm2131 AND GIVE YOU BACK THE COIN, BRO
This is the most real post on 4chan that doesn't provide photo evidence. I hope he got away from that succubus.
Didn't he marry her for her personality?
That's how all women behave. It won't get any better with the next partner either.
@schauseil187 Whoa, careful with that edge, kiddo!
@dizzydial8081 “Succubus” probably isn’t the right word to use for this situation. Probably just “bitch” is good. A succubus is a female demon that has sex with men while they’re sleeping. She wasn’t insatiably horny to the point of it being problematic. And I doubt anon was letting her have sex with him anyway. She was just being a bitch.
@@schauseil187mate go somewhere else to troll people.
The skipping mother's birthday thing shows how much of an horrible person she is. Filial Piety is very important in a person, a woman that doesn't care about someone caring about their mom, is not going to be a good mother at all.
Yeah time to leave, its a good thing this guy had no children with her.
a* horrible
Sounds like Anon married a narcissist, dude needs to bail asap. My dad was the same way towards my mum
If the story is true; maybe look for a marriage counselor. If that doesnt work then maybe it's time to think about divorce, as much as i hate to say it. Wife is the problem and Wife doesnt wanna solve the problem, then there are few options left.
Weak comment
@@David-y9f3j oh so he's supposed to stay with that miserable person for the rest of his life?
@@philipkoch7570 or maybe divorce? i dont think counseling would help in this case
@@David-y9f3jjust like your mental stability
For me she sounds like a typical narcissist. Conselor wont help... at most she will act like it helped, so she will get kids, who will be used as an argument that he will wreck family if he divorces.
I knew I never wanted to get married since I was a young kid because of this exact scenario. One of my best friends from high school got married to this girl 3 years out of high school. I went to the wedding all that. 2 years later he calls me to tell me he’s getting a divorce and her whole personality changed right after the honeymoon. Personally I never really liked the girl when I first met her but there was nothing I could say or do so…
What didn't you like ?
Their first mistake was getting married 3 years out of high school.
- A woman marries a man hoping he will change, but he won't
- A man marries a woman hoping she will stay the same, but she won't
The moment you realize the real her isn't who she pretended to be, and it isn't someone you want to be around, is when you should leave.
There's no good outcome from staying longer. She will not get better, she will only be assured that you'll keep tolerating her poor behavior. Irredeemable.
Anon's friends know. That's why they're asking him. Bro literally just needs to be honest.
Its never going to get better.
This is by the way the reason why some people advise against ever marrying at all.
Not because marriage itself is the problem, but because it automatically solves most of the problems regarding such people.
Marriage itself can be a problem simply because it shifts the power dynamic.
@@smurf88 Largely depends on the country though.
@@smurf88Which is why it's always the woman or her family who pressure you into marriage.
Just divorce her bro, get out of there. Especially before she tampers with birth control or something. RUN!
From my own experience, I can only concur: *RUN!*
bro married a classic case narcissist wow
Genuinely sounds like abuse. She’s manipulating him.
Welcome to 99% of marriages.
@@olmostgudinaf8100 If your marriage is like this then it’s an unhealthy one. And
abuse isn’t that common. It happens, but saying most marriages are like this is simply untrue.
All that was an act to get the ring, it's called a bait and switch
I had a similar situation with my wife with 2 differences:
1. My wife did have some outbursts before, but yeah, no way near what happened after.
2. It gradually got worse and worse, and after the childbirth was the worst change.
But I didn't give up and kept being assertive and also showing my love for her, and now it's even better than before our wedding. Sad that her libido is way lower, but it's not the most important part anyway. We still do this 5 to 8 times a month, so I guess it's not that bad from what I hear from other people xD
5-8 times a month. I'll not get married.
This one is real, for many people
Successful bait and switch. Everyone's too busy thinking about the ideal. This one's more likely to happen after the honeymoon period's over. You can find the perfect partner but who's to say they won't change later down the line?
U need to marry a person who is already an adult, has a stable philosophy and is changing in the direction of the path, his philosophy teaches
@@ProfibobWotwell then Anon needs to marry a man because there aren’t any women like this
@@ProfibobWot a narc will hide their true colours like she did. you won't know till they drop the mask.
The trick here is to always watch how they treat other people and not you because most women who have some kind of agenda will treat you like gold, but the second you notice how they treat other people get out of that relationship or else you're going to be suffering
If a woman treats you like that she is as unhappy with you as you are with her. Just leave pal.
She is not unhappy "with him".
She is unhappy *with herself* and blames him for it.
The wolverine meme of him looking at that picture is basically how he looks at his wedding day photo 😢
Always take someone on a long trip before you marry them. Bonus points if it's something like a backpacking trip, or a reeally long road trip, where you're with each other all the time for literally hundreds of hours. This is coming from an introvert btw. Situations like that reveal people's true colors. Even at my lowest I'd never be pointlessly rude to someone serving me- let alone the person I want to be my life partner... I don't think it's unfair to hold that expectation for your own partner as well. Maybe a genuine slip of frustration here and there at a tough situation, sure, but it quickly becomes easy to tell apart frustration for wanting to be able to help practically, and frustration due to selfish intent... and manipulative tendencies
Guys, always remember that you need to check somebody in extreme situations. Like real deal when your life is on stake. Only in this kind of situations you can truly see somebody else personality
Out of all the greentexts I think this one is actually real
Politics: "we can't figure out why there's a demographic crisis"
Meanwhile dating and marrying:
Life isnt a greentext
@@powerplayer75 No, but this greentext is life.
This is why you should always ALWAYS live with a person for atleast 6-8 months before asking them to marry you. Trust me, dating a person and living with them are two completely different things. When you live with them, their real self will show through because it's impossible to keep the mask on 24/7
True. When you life with someone you start to see their flaws more clearly.
This woman was not happy. Women rarely say when they don't feel fulfilled in their relationship. However, there are signs when they are not. Mature ones will tell you early on, many however will not and will make you suffer for it for months or even years until they decide to tell you. They might even skip it altogether and straight up leave you. She will make you suffer for you not realizing she is unhappy with you.
They expect you to somehow realize it yourself and change it. Immature. Waste of time for both of you. But men somewhat have this responsibility in a way, to keep the relationship going and to lead it. Many women are just grown up teenagers without accountability and need someone to lead them. It is what it is.
Agree
A tale as old as time, takes minimum 6-7 years to truly know someone and even after that it’s a gamble
6 7 years? You are insane.
I have known my friends for 9+ years and still get surprised often by their actions and thoughts, would expect a relationship to be even harder@@kalb390
@ takes that time to go through enough changes and good and bad times to see who someone really is, to me it’s insane to think you can experience all of someone in a couple years
@@FundyisleLegacy My guy, 6-7 years is enough to change anyone, at that point you're just judging what someone becomes.
@@kalb390 fair enough point, all the more reason to not marry I guess because both can be become different people eventually and nobody knows if they’ll remain comparable
she was like that to secure the ring and cash,now she has it and doesnt have to pretend
I know the feel bro.
Don't have kids, otherwise you can't leave.
A tip for the young guys. They never apologize. None of them
From an old guy, *this ☝️ is the truth!*
If ever there was a time to divorce this is it before it gets worse or you start breaking down.
She hid that for 3 years? That's crazy
Cost of marriage is inversely proportional to the longevity of the marriage.
That's why u need to be in shitty situation and see whether she a keeper or a heeper
Bro married a daywalker
thats what they call a "chameleon"
This is why no fault divorce should continue to exist.
“And then everyone on the bus stood up and applauded.”
If your partner is trying to separate you from your family, RUN!
And that, is why you shouldn't get married anymore.
Time to throw divorce papers
A common case of BPD and Bipolar. They do a complete 180 degree change just like this.
She kept the lid on all this for three years? Damn.
Everyone is like this to some degree.
Some just show their true self earlier than others.
Sounds like she knows she'll be set if he divorces her, so she's just taking advantage of him.
Remember: Don't marry until you're absolutely certain you want to be with a person.
Dump her, it's not the end of the world, find another girl and marry again. It's easier than it sounds.
All fun and games until she says "its like a furnace in here"
She is a narcissist. The same happened to me. My boyfriend was great, perfect, to reel me in, when he noticed I was fully in love and he was in control, he became a different person. Never wanted to listen to anything I said, tried to devaluate me, never said he loved me, he was always in doubt about the love he felt for me. The best thing is just to leave and never look back. They dont change.
Fake: anon met woman
Gay: cant even make up a story of enjoying being with a woman
See kids, this is called an abusive relationship
nope. thats 99% of marriage life. its a average situation
Reason why communication is needed
Anyone in this situation fing run b4 having kids...
If you are not with the person you once loved, whats the point of being with her anymore?
Not losing half or more of your stuff to the crooks called divorce court? It's why marriage should honestly be avoided in most cases.
@@VoiceOvaGuyWhy does it work like that in the US? Sounds pretty stupid. Are there any benefits to marriage? In Germany you usually pay less taxes.
@@VoiceOvaGuyHe hasn't got much to lose yet. They've only been married for 2 years. If there ever was or will be a time to run, this is it!
Narscisism? Divorce is a must in this scenario. Since she seems to treat everyone badly.
I had similar experienc, lucky when we moved together she showed me her real personality. I wasted only HER time for 2 years, not mine as she said.
Being in a LTR is the WORST mistake a man can make.
These woman lack all worth and value.
I think he sugarcoated his pre-marriage life with her. Love can make you blind and I daresay his peers saw those red flags already.
This was my first marriage to a T. Never had one of these hit me like this. I hope he bailed in time.
Work on yourself physically. Suddenly, the complaining magically ceases.
At least she havent been ran through. Amrite, guys?!!
This happens on both sides, narcissists pretend to be someone then reveal this.
Anon got love bombed into marriage not knowing the mask was still up.
I know someone who was pretty much just like this, except I had to call all shit off cause I couldn't deal with it whatsoever.
I am a rock type personality. That means I would be completely fine putting up with her while just flat out ignoring her criticisms and petty requests. If she doesn’t like it, that’s on her then.
I mean, what did he expect still using 4chan and getting married? Dude got played harder than a fiddle.
Can't stand when they don't ever apologise
Wow. Marriage scares me now.
Rightfully so.
Be afraid. Be very afraid.
Anon married a narcissist
He married a WOMAN. Enough said.
Well, that is also seduction on her part. Before the weeding I mean.
Shouldnt have waited 3 years to marry, would have saved you time. Should have gotten to know her better too
I'm a typical narcissist, i got it from my dad, terrible person, i hope my personality changed somehow and it doesn't pass on to my kids, that's why i dislike myself.
Well the point is i hope i can build and raise a good family and comfortable environment in the future, naive; i know.
Being at work all the time just to be away from your spouse? I've had the displeasure of knowing guys who did this and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Pretty sure OP wouldn't do that if his wife suddenly changed personality.
Anon should take the advice of Luke from Streets and get BOOM! DIVORCED!
Yet another married couple who can't actually talk to each other. This is what happens when you settle for fake communication in place of the real thing.
I'd be willing to bet Anon is leaving out the part where her husband is a deadbeat with a dead end job, no ambition, and plays video games all day.
And if its not true - what then??
Its ok, divorce exists
Get a divorce. That's it, that's the post.
Oooh that's gaslighting. the woman is gaslighting him. sounds like a narcissist.
Dude should sit down with her, read her this post and say "change or I'll leave". Simple as that.
Yeah, and then she takes half of everything he worked for, most likely including the house... or he has to go deep in dept to afford a divorce lawyer.
@@Warfokiand?
@@reformed_attempt_1 What and? What is your question or point?
@@Warfoki You're oblivious
@@matthewbadger8685 Sure, bud. Come back when you are capable of making an actual point.
Anyone know the source for the thumbnail?
as long as your vows didnt go along the lines of "for better and for worse" and "till death do us part" you are free to leave
even if they did, he is free to leave.
I'd say it's worth breaking the vows for this
@@mariustan9275 u dont have to break the vow if she not alive. that is the only way
Damn just leave her
cant leave too you gotta pay her monthly if you do so
Not if they don't have kids.
There's still time. RUN!
That really depends on where they live and who has the higher income.
@@Maztergyl666 not on my country male always pays
@user-zj2wo4xv9w That is extremely unlikely. I have never seen spousal support where the man has to pay up even though he earns way less. Mostly the man pays because of the traditional "Worker - Housekeeper" roles people have throughout the marriage
@ it is true i am not lying
Man.... I Almost ended up like this...
For 2 years, I thought we had great communication, I thought he was the kindest person I'd ever met.
It turns out that we didn't have good communication, we'd just never had any problems big enough that they NEEDED good communication, and as soon as any kind of issue appeared, things fell apart. He was very capable of being kind. But turns out he was also very, very good at being cruel. Just hadn't done anything to "deserve" that cruelty until then...
Even though he traumatized me, I count myself lucky that things ended then and there and I didn't marr him. He no longer has power over me.
Anon, wherever you are, I hope that you're able to get out. There is nothing salvageable about this marriage and you deserve better, you deserve a marriage you don't regret. Get out, don't look back.
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0:56 -- no woman apologizes. ever. That's just what men think - until they notice the pattern that only men should apologize.
What?
@@Radrakkoon hard core feminist (feminism is good, hard core feminism is bad)
@@tinyratdude mkay. So, hardcore feminism is women can do no wrong? Only men? But feminism is just trying to get women in the same level as men. Correct?
@@tinyratdudefeminism licks buyt
Divorce that the only option
This is probably fake since anon never had a gf but in case it's true for anyone in this situation heed my warning.. DO NOT HAVE BABIES, seek a marriage counselor to show an attempt to fix the relationship and if that doesn't work then go from there with legal means (obviously if she's cheating on ya you get a free ticket to divorce). But don't let her walk all over you, stand up for yourself when trying to solve a problem
I don't feel bad for anyone who uses "TFW" when telling a story.
Guy's really will do anything but leave. No wonder we have decade's of sitcoms about the husband hating his wife low key. Like bro, clearly being independent is better, just go.
Dudę its XXI century you can divorce