Now this is a good fucking video. Its so much easier taking advice from someone whos confident in his findings but not arrogant. This actually feels like an authentic video.
“The Legend of Aang” On a side note, The Last Airbender might seem like a kids’ show, but it is far from it. If all adults internalized its wisdom, many of the worlds problems would be solved. So many of Siddhartha’s core teachings are present in there.
I think an other story that really potraits well what actually being masculine is Vagabond. It's an hystoric manga about Musashi Myamoto (the greatest samurai who ever lived) and you see his jorney to become the strongest samurai, he was raised by a traditional masculine man and only knew war, however with years he becomes wise and understands many lessons, after committing massacre later on he finds himself on a village and starts to help the people with agricultural problems that they have that cause starvation. He matures a lot. I think that is really a great story about true masculinity. Btw it's a manga targeted to adults, is really violent and not made for kids, it also has some of the best art you'll ever see in a comic o manga.
@@nomenbeb5747 Just imagine Musashi and Uncle Iroh having a conversation, would be the most chill, wholesome, emotional and though provoking conversation of all time
I just saw the Chris Williamson Podcast yesterday and I can already tell that you're implementing what you've learned so well. W video so far, well done man
I listened to you and became traditional and actually lost all love in my life. My family didnt like me and my girlfriend (girl was literally perfect, i cant think of one thing that is bad about her) left me in november 2023. I broke down, i realised i lost everything. I needed to change. I actually became this new gen masculine man on my own and fixed my realtionships with my family. I have to say im really happy you change because i dont want anyone to go the same path as me. Keep this content and you will save a lot of lives. Also, im fully taking responsibilty for my actions, its not your fault my life has been this way. I made these desisions myself. Im so mad that now 6 months later i still cant sleep for more than 5 hours a day.
@yves4132 he has to be very old to realise what advice would and would not work without following through it. Give him a break dude, this is his first time living a life. Just like all of us.
Next gen masculinity is quite literally the epitome of Jesus Christs character. He was hard working (he went from town to town for his ministry constantly), he prioritized rest (mark 6:31), he showed rebuke, boldness, and expressed righteous anger when necessary (flipping tables at the temple John 2:15-19; rebuke the Pharisees Matthew 23:27 among others), Jesus showed love and compassion so many times throughout the gospels but one of the most famous and shortest verses perfectly articulates his empathy after his close friend Lazarus dies (John 11:35 “Jesus Wept”). He was a leader (had twelve disciples). Most importantly he was disciplined, brave, and loving enough to die a gruesome death on the cross for you and I. This next gen masculinity isn’t new! It’s been shown perfectly through Jesus!
Not at all. Jesus is only good, to good. Someone who is to good get used because they don't have in them to defend their honor. It's not at all the new masculinity it's feminity disguise as religion. Christianity is only a system to transform strong humans into weak ones.
Hamza I am happy to see that you are being more authentic and honest with the way that you speak, and not saying everything with full conviction. I enjoy growing with you and thank you for making this film guide as well as the rest.
Ngl, seeing you implement the “I’m not so certain, but I am experimenting with this at the moment, and it seems to be working” frame after the Modern Wisdom episode, is refreshing to see, as you seem to be taking advice and heeding it in a way that makes sense to you. Incredible watching you evolve💯
Wow, this is a very nuanced take on masculinity that I was not expecting from Hamza. Glad to see him evolving. He really does live by self-improvement and this is the proof
Wamza I’m right now climbing mountains, going on dates and living outside my comfort zone in Peru. Thanks for your teachings throughout the years here on Yt.
Avatar has so many good lessons. Wanna be a good father or need a father figure? Look at iroh. Stuck in a toxic self image? Go through zukos journey. Are you a weak, childlike man? Go through aangs journey. Example of growth in femininity? Katara. Spiritual growth? The episode where aang went with the guru had the best and simplest explanation I’ve ever seen. What a perfect show
@@JohnMcAfee-se9msit seriously does have a lot knowledge and insight despite being a show for kids Uncle iroh has genuinely good advice on what it means to be a man
brought tears to my eyes when he talked abt not being able to be around his dad even now. Almost every brown guy relates. Thankfully my father changed alot when he got deeper into religion and now i can sit with him and just talk which never happened before. so grateful to god for the dad he gave me. I love you papa❤
Hamzaa i am from pakistaan 14 yr old and i love you for changing my life. i wouldve ended in some rabbit hole but you saved me. i look upto you as a younger brother. you are a big bro we all needed but never had. YOU ARE A HERO.
The way you described the uncle reminds me of the way my mum described my great grandfather Ernest. He had PTSD from the war, and he was very quiet and reserved, but always showed kindness towards my mother. One day, he was at a bank when someone walked in with a gun. My great grandad chased him out the door. He suffered, he had mental health issues, but he was gentle and kind and was prepared to stand up for everyone else. He was a hero, really.
I love the transformation you had after the talk with Chris Williamson . It is obvious that you genuinely want to improve as a Man . I also noticed you implemented Alex Hormozi's tips he gave for Educational videos. Great Going mate , I hope I can one day see you as an equal
I been tapped into this channel for months now and hamza been a blessing fr. He had way more obstacles than I and made it. I'm proud of myself for manning up & finally moving out. I appreciate Hamza being vulnerable with his relationship with his dad. I feel the same way with my dad acting like nothing I do is good enough for him and I can't go back to that toxic environment. If anyone is a believer in Christ I humbly ask for your prayers for myself and my father. It's time for me to be there for my parents as they have been there for me these past 27 years. Please pray for us as I become the person I know I can be and support my family as my dad is go ing on FIVE YEARS of fighting colon cancer. I shall keep the community in my prayers as well all fight our own battle others know nothing about. God Bless everyone!
Uncle iroh being described as the gentle giant is so accurate. I've always felt like he was beyond the "warrior in a garden" state, he was the former wargeneral in a teashop. Thanks for the video Hamza, I know it gave us all a lot of insight.
Thank you for sharing this important information. I am actually a woman but I listen/watch your videos daily because I wanna teach my lil brother how to become more masculine and learn more about the masculine nature. I am 20 years old woman who has to get more masculine traits because of how the world has been ( because of feminism). I hope that many young men and children will find your videos to become more ambitious and successful in life. You are doing a very great job and helping the generation.
Thank you Hamza. I think Aragorn from the LOTR saga is another character to consider as an example of the next step of masculinity. Extremely stoic in accepting the fate to become the King of the next generation (even if at first he didn't want to), hard working and sacrificing, BUT at the same time extremely kind, loving, humble, friendly and respectful towards women and all the weaker people around him. I recommend everyone is working to become a better MAN to re-watch (and also read) the LOTR, it is a great metaphor of the past, present and future world. Also the female characters are very feminine in their essence but at the same time have integrated their inner masculine (they fight if really necessary)
The bit about balance deserves a whole video in and of itself. I speak about this on my own RUclips channel, and it's one of the things that my viewers have the most resistance towards. "You can do anything that you want, but you can't do everything". Cheers for the vid bro
Really liked your episode on the Modern Wisdom podcast and this episode is a perfect followup. Exactly what I needed. Thanks for sharing your view and opinion!
Bro I want to thank you. I have stubble upon your channel and at this point I have watched 3 of your long videos. This was yesterday. And you have brought something out of me, I have felt like a failure and a piece of shit for the last couple of months, I am happily married. But I feel like the worst husband ever. I'm 27 got married young. I truly love my wife and she must love me for still being here as I'm not successful, I get paid about $800 and yet I cannot provide a good life. I'm fat, unmotivated, lack self respect, self control, no discipline I cannot see things through I am indecisive, I'm not strong, I can't fight. I have had a chance to really look at my self and see what I am. And I'm not happy. You have brought out something and all I can think of how I can become this fucking beast of a man that I can be proud of and be true Man I can be. Thank you. 🔥🔥🔥
Hamza, i think this new direction of videos is very good and more realistic then the more james-bond, more superficial style of videos you were pushing previously. It´s great how your personal growth shows throughout your videos, which it also does in your past videos. I also think you reacted very well to your talk with Chris Williamson. Not everyone can take constructive critiscism like that in front of thousands of people. I admire you for you videos and great content. I truly think you have a positive impact on this generation. Keep doing what you do and grow further
Glad to see Hamza is appreciating some fictional characters, considering how much he hated anime/cartoons and belittled those who watched it. Don’t get me wrong, there’s a lot of degenerate anime out there, but there are some great stories, themes and characters in anime and the fictional world in general. Great to see Hamza respecting Uncle Iroh for the amazing man he is, even if he is just a cartoon character. In the future, I hope Hamza dives into other stories like Vagabond, Vinland Saga, and Berserk to explore male role models like Musashi Miyamoto, Thorfinn and Guts.
Hamza you have spelled it out perfectly. I used to think that I needed to change myself into this traditional man, but at my core I am just that new gen man at heart thank you for letting me know that while I should be more disciplined I don’t have to change the person I am to become an amazing man.
i usually don’t comment on videos i watch, but the section on traditional masculinity was so eye opening and refreshing, it’s something i’ve never seen anyone else talk about, so i felt i needed to say thanks. love you hamza, you’ve made me a better man, very grateful for you, i been enjoying these longer videos too keep up the good work brother
My father is exactly how you described the next gen man , he served the military , he got in alot of fights , but still , I can't remember once where he hit me or my sister , he let's us decide what's best for ourselves while still leading us in the right direction
I never scroll down to the comments, but god, you really DID take the advice from Chris. I hope this is a new Hamza Era, in which you don't let your ego off, and just give awesome advice like you always used to, not being so specific about everything, just helping them IMPROVE IN GENERAL. Great vid as usually.
great to see hamza is giving an unbiased and factual point of view. sure, there are some claims with no sources but overall brilliant information. although. this entire thing (minus the info about masculinity) can be simplified to: maintain a healthy work-life balance.
I love the balance thing. I kind of feel like if you focus on one thing, you get to a point where consistent progress just happens, you don't need effort for it anymore. For example, with lifting if you focus only on that eventually you reach a point where you can lessen the focus on lifting and you will still be improving because you just like going to the gym and do it even though your not focused on that aspect. So its kind of like, start up on something then maintain that consistent growth while focusing on something else, and continue.
This next gen masculinity thing, let's call it "The Violet Pill". It is derived basically from the Matrix's "Blue pill and Red pill" .Because essentially, Red pill - Traditional masculinity Blue pill - Modern masculinity We then get next gen masculinity, which combines elements of both sides, the same way violet is formed when we combine red and blue.
Respect that you said in the beginning that you don’t really know what you’re talking about in this area. We’re just here to hear you insights so I respect that you don’t claim to know the truth.
It’s crazy how you make the exact video that’s solving some of the questions in my head that i had lately. I actually bought “how to make friends and influence people “ yesterday so you naming the book in this video makes it even more crazy. Now Hamza im good at graphic designing and music. If you ever need someone like that in your team, i’m your guy!
I personally relate to your story with your father, and when you were talking about it I felt like, "yeah... that's exactly how it is for me", and I believe there's a lot of people out there who share this kind of relationship with their fathers. The thing is, even when we are now aware of this, it's not easy to change how things are, it feels weird, uncomfortable and requires serious mental energy...
My mum once said my dad in arguments would always bring up how he’s giving her a house food and the life of a queen but my mum never cared. She just wanted a good connection and a loving understanding man
There is nothing safer than a masculine men who knows how to stand in his masculine role whilst at the same time knowing how to manage and deal with his emotions
Keep uploading these guides man. Back to Back 3 GUIDES. Thats sick brother. No matter what the braindead people say, dont stop uploading these guides brother. All the best!!
This geniunely might be one the best videos you've made, thank you. I finally understand the backstory of masculinity and also what the ideal masculine man is like. I always thought the advice of being extremely traditionally masculine and cold hearted was bad but now you've clarified it so much for me. Being tough at times when needed but also remaining stoic and kind for most of the other times which is basically what religion and islam also says.
"Tbh I dont know what Im talking about in this area but I just got interesting insight that I wanted to share" - Big respect for actually implementing what Chris said in his podcast with you.
Thanks for the info Hamza, if you read about the life of the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) he was the perfect balance of a man, exactly like how you’re explaining.
Hey hamza im here to thank you for changing my life this is last time im using my phone and internet. I saw your 1st video when i was in 9 th grade now im in 11 th grade. You are the one who saved me , I will miss watching your videos for next 2 year. Love you ❤ Adonissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
A much needed topic to be discussed Hamza. Your videos are helping alot in figuring out and making sense of what it truly means of being a masculine man. Me being an INFP and having no real connection to competitive sports or anything, growing up I was and still somewhat am like this Peter Parker Nice guy like you explained and obviously things never went like I imagined so I knew somethings wrong and when I started looking into self improvement it was a space filled with traditionally masculinized men whom I admired their stoicism and responsibility discipline (something which I never had) but it never resonated with me and I always couldn't help but notice how it follows toxic masculine traits like you mentioned. I also watched Avatar recently and really liked the masculine archetype of Iroh and it really resonated with my perception of Ideal masculinity. Btw I'm also from Pakistan and have been watching your videos for a couple years now and your words have really resonated relatibly with me.
As a suggestion to everyone: watch 12 angry men (1957 version). The film itself is about jury that has to decide about a boys life. But the most important lessons are about human relationships and how to handle conflict. I think the juror #8 (the guy that has to convince everyone else, played by Henry Fonda) does a wonderful job of portraying subtle, gentle form of masculinity. He is very soft spoken, but assertive at times. I think he is one of the examples of classical masculinity that isnt that macho, self-centered type but is based on more of virtues that would be recognized universally across cultures.
0:00: 💡 Exploring modern masculinity through unconventional role models and engaging in long-form educational content. 4:22: 💼 The challenges of embodying traditional masculinity in modern society. 9:17: 💔 The impact of prioritizing financial provision over emotional connection within families. 13:41: 💪 Reevaluating the importance of providing money in traditional masculinity roles. 18:19: 💊 Impact of birth control on attraction towards masculinity and femininity. 22:11: 💪 Shift towards valuing softer, lower testosterone traits in modern masculinity, prioritizing relationships and happiness over work. 26:29: 💪 Unapologetic display of traditional masculinity inspires and wakes people up in modern times. 30:42: 💪 A day in the life of a strong and kind man mourning the death of his son. 34:58: ⏳ Evolution towards healthier masculinity through education and knowledge. 39:29: ⚽ Prioritize quality time over material gifts for lasting memories with loved ones. 43:13: 💪 Optimal development involves focusing on one aspect at a time before expanding into others. Recap by Tammy AI
Thank you Hamza. The meek will inherit the world is a quote from Jesus’s teachings, but the hebrew word means One who carries a sword but acts the humblest, thats perfect masculinity.
One of your best videos yet. I know you've ranted about this topic before lmao, but I've never seen you do a video directly addressing it. I can see myself kind of being like uncle iroh, and for a while I thought that was a bad thing. For most if my life I've had primarily female role models, and that's led to me having a more sensitive and compassionate side. For a while I was also a pushover, which I'm working on now, but, the two traits seeming to coincide, I saw my soft side as a feminine trait that took away from my potential as a strong male figure. Thank you for making this. It really reassured me that I'm on the right track.
my family had a similar situation, my dad worked very hard to provide for us through the 2008 stock crash and my mom having serious health issues for years, and in the end she divorced him because she didn’t feel loved
been watching your content since 2022 and this is the best guide yet. absolute brilliant insight bringing uncle iroh as the final role model. shoutout from brazil
One of the best books I have ever read KING WARRIOR MAGICIAN LOVER explain this very well. Like u can say traditional masculinity is someone who only works on king and warrior archetype, and the modern masculinity is the opposite. And what we should aim for is to work on all 4 archetypes: starting with king: get individuality. Than warrior: protect ur gains. Third magician: get wisdom in a specific area. Than lover: so give ur gift to the wrld for free for honor. It really doesn’t take to long like u can gain ur individuality in 1-2 years. Just align everything in ur life to your goal (ur time, focus, ppl, money…) and do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
I believe that 3 of the greatest examples of balanced masculinity are 1. King Leonidas (300) 2. Captain America/Steve Rogers (MCU) 3. Uncle Iroh (ATLA). Being at either end of the extreme rarely ends well.
I love how much more humble Hamza became after the Chris Williamson podcast, love to see it
It’s about time someone he respects called him out. Also really happy to see him be more careful and thorough with what he says.
What did Chris Williamson say?
Finally
I noticed that too. Hamza must respect Chris a lot to have taken his advice seriously
I didnt watch it could someone summarize what happened?
Uncle iroh solos 🗣️🔥🗣️🔥‼️💯‼️💯
IROH W
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Im so glad Hamza knows who uncle Iroh is 😭 He can learn a lot from him!
Yo bro, thanks
W fr
Now this is a good fucking video. Its so much easier taking advice from someone whos confident in his findings but not arrogant.
This actually feels like an authentic video.
“The Legend of Aang”
On a side note, The Last Airbender might seem like a kids’ show, but it is far from it. If all adults internalized its wisdom, many of the worlds problems would be solved. So many of Siddhartha’s core teachings are present in there.
Avatars the most esoteric show
@@somalipirate20so are you
I think an other story that really potraits well what actually being masculine is Vagabond.
It's an hystoric manga about Musashi Myamoto (the greatest samurai who ever lived) and you see his jorney to become the strongest samurai, he was raised by a traditional masculine man and only knew war, however with years he becomes wise and understands many lessons, after committing massacre later on he finds himself on a village and starts to help the people with agricultural problems that they have that cause starvation. He matures a lot.
I think that is really a great story about true masculinity.
Btw it's a manga targeted to adults, is really violent and not made for kids, it also has some of the best art you'll ever see in a comic o manga.
@@nomenbeb5747 Just imagine Musashi and Uncle Iroh having a conversation, would be the most chill, wholesome, emotional and though provoking conversation of all time
@@jcplays1749 yeah, but Musashi was real and also wrote a bunch of stuff.
i didn’t even know this was a hamza video, i saw iroh on the thumbnail and was like wtf😭😭
What u doing here restless hakari still stalling uraume
😭@@kingkamaldeen9078
didn't expect you to be here
make more one piece vidsss
what the fuck you doing here mofo
“Be the guy who uses his strength to protect, but if you are attacked, be the guys who knows how to fight back”
-quote I just made up
I just saw the Chris Williamson Podcast yesterday and I can already tell that you're implementing what you've learned so well. W video so far, well done man
Totally agree, the first thing i thought when I saw this video is that he's listening to Chris.
Really shows in the intro
The disappointment on his face when he said ‘harry styles wearing a dress’ is mad 😂🤣
HAMZA IS BACK WITH THE BANGERS
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i miss sonor vids 😂
Exactly LAD!
Fr❤
I listened to you and became traditional and actually lost all love in my life. My family didnt like me and my girlfriend (girl was literally perfect, i cant think of one thing that is bad about her) left me in november 2023.
I broke down, i realised i lost everything. I needed to change. I actually became this new gen masculine man on my own and fixed my realtionships with my family.
I have to say im really happy you change because i dont want anyone to go the same path as me. Keep this content and you will save a lot of lives.
Also, im fully taking responsibilty for my actions, its not your fault my life has been this way. I made these desisions myself. Im so mad that now 6 months later i still cant sleep for more than 5 hours a day.
@yves4132 he has to be very old to realise what advice would and would not work without following through it. Give him a break dude, this is his first time living a life. Just like all of us.
Next gen masculinity is quite literally the epitome of Jesus Christs character. He was hard working (he went from town to town for his ministry constantly), he prioritized rest (mark 6:31), he showed rebuke, boldness, and expressed righteous anger when necessary (flipping tables at the temple John 2:15-19; rebuke the Pharisees Matthew 23:27 among others), Jesus showed love and compassion so many times throughout the gospels but one of the most famous and shortest verses perfectly articulates his empathy after his close friend Lazarus dies (John 11:35 “Jesus Wept”). He was a leader (had twelve disciples). Most importantly he was disciplined, brave, and loving enough to die a gruesome death on the cross for you and I. This next gen masculinity isn’t new! It’s been shown perfectly through Jesus!
Brilliant point, Jesus was hard-working, loving, and has no fear in standing against sin
Not at all.
Jesus is only good, to good.
Someone who is to good get used because they don't have in them to defend their honor.
It's not at all the new masculinity it's feminity disguise as religion.
Christianity is only a system to transform strong humans into weak ones.
Hamza I am happy to see that you are being more authentic and honest with the way that you speak, and not saying everything with full conviction. I enjoy growing with you and thank you for making this film guide as well as the rest.
Ngl, seeing you implement the “I’m not so certain, but I am experimenting with this at the moment, and it seems to be working” frame after the Modern Wisdom episode, is refreshing to see, as you seem to be taking advice and heeding it in a way that makes sense to you. Incredible watching you evolve💯
Wow, this is a very nuanced take on masculinity that I was not expecting from Hamza. Glad to see him evolving. He really does live by self-improvement and this is the proof
Wamza I’m right now climbing mountains, going on dates and living outside my comfort zone in Peru.
Thanks for your teachings throughout the years here on Yt.
How’s it like in Peru bro? I’m Peruvian
@@ivan06pr it’s amazing! Small peaceful town in the mountains and great people.
I’ve made a bunch of videos here if you want to see it🤝🏼
me too. I thought I was the only hamza fan on Perú.
@@danielgarciaescudero2862 nice man where are you from? (Btw I’m just traveling here)
Avatar has so many good lessons. Wanna be a good father or need a father figure? Look at iroh. Stuck in a toxic self image? Go through zukos journey. Are you a weak, childlike man? Go through aangs journey. Example of growth in femininity? Katara. Spiritual growth? The episode where aang went with the guru had the best and simplest explanation I’ve ever seen. What a perfect show
Yeah great, no need to study Buddhism because you watched a cartoon while eating cheetohs.
You have 100+ comments on this channel.
Holy shit John mcafee is back from the dead
@@JohnMcAfee-se9msit seriously does have a lot knowledge and insight despite being a show for kids Uncle iroh has genuinely good advice on what it means to be a man
@@MattBuckhout Great well I'll be sure to skip dharma talks and group meditations and reading philosophers to watch hours of a cartoon.
@@JohnMcAfee-se9ms no one ever said that damn you’re a vengeful spirit mcafee maybe you need to meditate more
brought tears to my eyes when he talked abt not being able to be around his dad even now. Almost every brown guy relates. Thankfully my father changed alot when he got deeper into religion and now i can sit with him and just talk which never happened before. so grateful to god for the dad he gave me. I love you papa❤
Hamzaa i am from pakistaan 14 yr old and i love you for changing my life. i wouldve ended in some rabbit hole but you saved me. i look upto you as a younger brother. you are a big bro we all needed but never had. YOU ARE A HERO.
Pakistan Zindabad my brudda, were all going to make it
Bro ur 14 what r u talking about changing ur life???
Really cool how you took Chris's advice and embraced uncertainty
Hamza being a ATLA fan puts a smile on my face.
@@i_am_janaa wdym? It literally stands for Avatar the last Airbender
@@Savigghuh
I know bro
" avatar the legend of aang " 😭😭😭
uncle iroh in thumbnail + hamza i'm the most happy man in the world 🗿
i actually love seeing a self improvement youtuber i know is actually improving and expanding his view of life
The way you described the uncle reminds me of the way my mum described my great grandfather Ernest.
He had PTSD from the war, and he was very quiet and reserved, but always showed kindness towards my mother.
One day, he was at a bank when someone walked in with a gun. My great grandad chased him out the door.
He suffered, he had mental health issues, but he was gentle and kind and was prepared to stand up for everyone else.
He was a hero, really.
gigachad great grandad
Masha'allah bro
masculinity at its finest
My sixteen year old just sent this video to me and I have to say, I appreciate much of what this fella said here.
This is gotta be the best Hamza video. So glad I watched this
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😂@@0neno
I love the transformation you had after the talk with Chris Williamson . It is obvious that you genuinely want to improve as a Man . I also noticed you implemented Alex Hormozi's tips he gave for Educational videos. Great Going mate , I hope I can one day see you as an equal
I been tapped into this channel for months now and hamza been a blessing fr. He had way more obstacles than I and made it. I'm proud of myself for manning up & finally moving out. I appreciate Hamza being vulnerable with his relationship with his dad. I feel the same way with my dad acting like nothing I do is good enough for him and I can't go back to that toxic environment. If anyone is a believer in Christ I humbly ask for your prayers for myself and my father. It's time for me to be there for my parents as they have been there for me these past 27 years. Please pray for us as I become the person I know I can be and support my family as my dad is go ing on FIVE YEARS of fighting colon cancer. I shall keep the community in my prayers as well all fight our own battle others know nothing about. God Bless everyone!
Uncle iroh being described as the gentle giant is so accurate. I've always felt like he was beyond the "warrior in a garden" state, he was the former wargeneral in a teashop. Thanks for the video Hamza, I know it gave us all a lot of insight.
Thank you for sharing this important information. I am actually a woman but I listen/watch your videos daily because I wanna teach my lil brother how to become more masculine and learn more about the masculine nature. I am 20 years old woman who has to get more masculine traits because of how the world has been ( because of feminism). I hope that many young men and children will find your videos to become more ambitious and successful in life. You are doing a very great job and helping the generation.
OMG. A woman being guilty about being masculine (by society). First time eharing this directly from woman. You will get a perfect man soon.
Thank you Hamza.
I think Aragorn from the LOTR saga is another character to consider as an example of the next step of masculinity. Extremely stoic in accepting the fate to become the King of the next generation (even if at first he didn't want to), hard working and sacrificing, BUT at the same time extremely kind, loving, humble, friendly and respectful towards women and all the weaker people around him.
I recommend everyone is working to become a better MAN to re-watch (and also read) the LOTR, it is a great metaphor of the past, present and future world.
Also the female characters are very feminine in their essence but at the same time have integrated their inner masculine (they fight if really necessary)
The bit about balance deserves a whole video in and of itself. I speak about this on my own RUclips channel, and it's one of the things that my viewers have the most resistance towards. "You can do anything that you want, but you can't do everything". Cheers for the vid bro
"All truly strong people are Kind"
Miyamoto musashi
Really liked your episode on the Modern Wisdom podcast and this episode is a perfect followup. Exactly what I needed. Thanks for sharing your view and opinion!
hamza cooking something here good job my nigga
Bro I want to thank you. I have stubble upon your channel and at this point I have watched 3 of your long videos. This was yesterday. And you have brought something out of me, I have felt like a failure and a piece of shit for the last couple of months, I am happily married. But I feel like the worst husband ever. I'm 27 got married young. I truly love my wife and she must love me for still being here as I'm not successful, I get paid about $800 and yet I cannot provide a good life. I'm fat, unmotivated, lack self respect, self control, no discipline I cannot see things through I am indecisive, I'm not strong, I can't fight.
I have had a chance to really look at my self and see what I am. And I'm not happy.
You have brought out something and all I can think of how I can become this fucking beast of a man that I can be proud of and be true Man I can be.
Thank you. 🔥🔥🔥
Hamza, i think this new direction of videos is very good and more realistic then the more james-bond, more superficial style of videos you were pushing previously. It´s great how your personal growth shows throughout your videos, which it also does in your past videos. I also think you reacted very well to your talk with Chris Williamson. Not everyone can take constructive critiscism like that in front of thousands of people. I admire you for you videos and great content. I truly think you have a positive impact on this generation.
Keep doing what you do and grow further
Glad to see Hamza is appreciating some fictional characters, considering how much he hated anime/cartoons and belittled those who watched it. Don’t get me wrong, there’s a lot of degenerate anime out there, but there are some great stories, themes and characters in anime and the fictional world in general. Great to see Hamza respecting Uncle Iroh for the amazing man he is, even if he is just a cartoon character. In the future, I hope Hamza dives into other stories like Vagabond, Vinland Saga, and Berserk to explore male role models like Musashi Miyamoto, Thorfinn and Guts.
Hajime no Ippo is another example of great dudes, Ippo is the hardest worker but he is the kindest guy youll meet
@javiejomal9838 can u suggest me an anime
Bro he watched it when he was a kid... and I'm pretty sure he won't watch another show
Great, pretend you're leveling up by watching cartoons and eating cheetohs.
@@kyadekhrha Legend of the Galactic Heroes is even today still the best.
Have been on self improvement for a little over a year now. Thank you hamza
1 like = 11 pull ups
22 pushups now 😂
film it
so I know you're not bullshiting
@@giantdad5858i bet he won't
@@giantdad5858 look it's 55 pull ups
On a pull day I do 100 so it's nothing special for me
This is one of the best videos you've made in a while, I hope this is the path the channel continues on
Hamza you have spelled it out perfectly. I used to think that I needed to change myself into this traditional man, but at my core I am just that new gen man at heart thank you for letting me know that while I should be more disciplined I don’t have to change the person I am to become an amazing man.
Much love and respect for trying Williamson's advice, wish you the best
thats excatly what i needed hamza and unc iroh collab
Never tought id see uncle ihro in a hamza tumbnail.
Happiness comes from the self, and the self only.
Next gen masculinity man will MOG 🗣😎
You can see he learned from Crhis Williamson!
the black and white guy in the suit is George Hackenshmidt, created the bench press and other weightlifting exercises
You are doing a God's work, Hamza! Balance thing was really insightful!
i usually don’t comment on videos i watch, but the section on traditional masculinity was so eye opening and refreshing, it’s something i’ve never seen anyone else talk about, so i felt i needed to say thanks. love you hamza, you’ve made me a better man, very grateful for you, i been enjoying these longer videos too keep up the good work brother
My father is exactly how you described the next gen man , he served the military , he got in alot of fights , but still , I can't remember once where he hit me or my sister , he let's us decide what's best for ourselves while still leading us in the right direction
wow brother, I can feel this relationship with your father.
I never scroll down to the comments, but god, you really DID take the advice from Chris.
I hope this is a new Hamza Era, in which you don't let your ego off, and just give awesome advice like you always used to, not being so specific about everything, just helping them IMPROVE IN GENERAL.
Great vid as usually.
I’ve found this video so insightful, if Men could watch and understand video’s like this the world would honestly be in a better place.
great to see hamza is giving an unbiased and factual point of view. sure, there are some claims with no sources but overall brilliant information. although. this entire thing (minus the info about masculinity) can be simplified to: maintain a healthy work-life balance.
Please continue making presentations. I love it. I will do everything to get more of it.
Im glad I have a father that is next gen masculine. Even though he work hard for our family I don't feel detached from him.
Luke 8:18 "For nothing is hidden that will not be made manifest, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light."
I adore that thumbnail and I really appreciate videos like this
I love the balance thing. I kind of feel like if you focus on one thing, you get to a point where consistent progress just happens, you don't need effort for it anymore. For example, with lifting if you focus only on that eventually you reach a point where you can lessen the focus on lifting and you will still be improving because you just like going to the gym and do it even though your not focused on that aspect. So its kind of like, start up on something then maintain that consistent growth while focusing on something else, and continue.
This next gen masculinity thing, let's call it "The Violet Pill". It is derived basically from the Matrix's "Blue pill and Red pill" .Because essentially,
Red pill - Traditional masculinity
Blue pill - Modern masculinity
We then get next gen masculinity, which combines elements of both sides, the same way violet is formed when we combine red and blue.
this dropped exactly at the right time. today i just experienced a reality check and i finanlly recognize the stress has gotten to me
Respect that you said in the beginning that you don’t really know what you’re talking about in this area. We’re just here to hear you insights so I respect that you don’t claim to know the truth.
It’s crazy how you make the exact video that’s solving some of the questions in my head that i had lately. I actually bought “how to make friends and influence people “ yesterday so you naming the book in this video makes it even more crazy. Now Hamza im good at graphic designing and music. If you ever need someone like that in your team, i’m your guy!
You can always make more money but you can’t replace your family. Some things are priceless.
HAmaza i am a Indian boy .I'm 18 year old .you are very helpfull man in the whole RUclips.my dream is meet you once in a life
I personally relate to your story with your father, and when you were talking about it I felt like, "yeah... that's exactly how it is for me", and I believe there's a lot of people out there who share this kind of relationship with their fathers. The thing is, even when we are now aware of this, it's not easy to change how things are, it feels weird, uncomfortable and requires serious mental energy...
Love to see your transformation after the episode with Chris, that episode was so good and I’m looking forward to seeing the new path of your channel
I honestly reallylove hamzas video cause he was the reason why i stopped my soda addiction
My mum once said my dad in arguments would always bring up how he’s giving her a house food and the life of a queen but my mum never cared. She just wanted a good connection and a loving understanding man
In this video Hamza shows that he really paid attention to Chris' advice and is trying to improve where he feels he's failing at. Props to you Hamza
There is nothing safer than a masculine men who knows how to stand in his masculine role whilst at the same time knowing how to manage and deal with his emotions
Uncle Iroh and Special Agent Dale Cooper are the example of the pinnacle masculinity
Keep uploading these guides man. Back to Back 3 GUIDES. Thats sick brother. No matter what the braindead people say, dont stop uploading these guides brother. All the best!!
Man those full guides and lectures with those presentations are the best content Hamza has ever uploaded.
Iroh was always one of my favorite characters. I guess even as boys we have a respect for that kind of masculine energy.
New age masculinity is literally Jesus Christ except they’re sinners. Strength, temperance, patience, charitable, masculinity.
Nope it’s prophet Muhammad ﷺ
Next gen masculinity ✝
This geniunely might be one the best videos you've made, thank you. I finally understand the backstory of masculinity and also what the ideal masculine man is like. I always thought the advice of being extremely traditionally masculine and cold hearted was bad but now you've clarified it so much for me. Being tough at times when needed but also remaining stoic and kind for most of the other times which is basically what religion and islam also says.
okay art femboy
This is the content we needed
"Tbh I dont know what Im talking about in this area but I just got interesting insight that I wanted to share" - Big respect for actually implementing what Chris said in his podcast with you.
Thanks for the info Hamza, if you read about the life of the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) he was the perfect balance of a man, exactly like how you’re explaining.
Hey hamza im here to thank you for changing my life this is last time im using my phone and internet. I saw your 1st video when i was in 9 th grade now im in 11 th grade. You are the one who saved me , I will miss watching your videos for next 2 year.
Love you ❤
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A much needed topic to be discussed Hamza. Your videos are helping alot in figuring out and making sense of what it truly means of being a masculine man. Me being an INFP and having no real connection to competitive sports or anything, growing up I was and still somewhat am like this Peter Parker Nice guy like you explained and obviously things never went like I imagined so I knew somethings wrong and when I started looking into self improvement it was a space filled with traditionally masculinized men whom I admired their stoicism and responsibility discipline (something which I never had) but it never resonated with me and I always couldn't help but notice how it follows toxic masculine traits like you mentioned. I also watched Avatar recently and really liked the masculine archetype of Iroh and it really resonated with my perception of Ideal masculinity. Btw I'm also from Pakistan and have been watching your videos for a couple years now and your words have really resonated relatibly with me.
As a suggestion to everyone: watch 12 angry men (1957 version). The film itself is about jury that has to decide about a boys life. But the most important lessons are about human relationships and how to handle conflict. I think the juror #8 (the guy that has to convince everyone else, played by Henry Fonda) does a wonderful job of portraying subtle, gentle form of masculinity. He is very soft spoken, but assertive at times. I think he is one of the examples of classical masculinity that isnt that macho, self-centered type but is based on more of virtues that would be recognized universally across cultures.
Red haired Shanks is exactly like the character described here, which is why he's my favourite
0:00: 💡 Exploring modern masculinity through unconventional role models and engaging in long-form educational content.
4:22: 💼 The challenges of embodying traditional masculinity in modern society.
9:17: 💔 The impact of prioritizing financial provision over emotional connection within families.
13:41: 💪 Reevaluating the importance of providing money in traditional masculinity roles.
18:19: 💊 Impact of birth control on attraction towards masculinity and femininity.
22:11: 💪 Shift towards valuing softer, lower testosterone traits in modern masculinity, prioritizing relationships and happiness over work.
26:29: 💪 Unapologetic display of traditional masculinity inspires and wakes people up in modern times.
30:42: 💪 A day in the life of a strong and kind man mourning the death of his son.
34:58: ⏳ Evolution towards healthier masculinity through education and knowledge.
39:29: ⚽ Prioritize quality time over material gifts for lasting memories with loved ones.
43:13: 💪 Optimal development involves focusing on one aspect at a time before expanding into others.
Recap by Tammy AI
Mushashi Miyamoto is the GOAT 😼🙏
we need a Hamza Tate collaboration. Tate changed my life
Thank you Hamza. The meek will inherit the world is a quote from Jesus’s teachings, but the hebrew word means One who carries a sword but acts the humblest, thats perfect masculinity.
Minato Uzumaki, is an amazing example of a next gen masculine man.
Yes actually
One of your best videos yet. I know you've ranted about this topic before lmao, but I've never seen you do a video directly addressing it.
I can see myself kind of being like uncle iroh, and for a while I thought that was a bad thing. For most if my life I've had primarily female role models, and that's led to me having a more sensitive and compassionate side. For a while I was also a pushover, which I'm working on now, but, the two traits seeming to coincide, I saw my soft side as a feminine trait that took away from my potential as a strong male figure. Thank you for making this. It really reassured me that I'm on the right track.
"If you keep an open mind, and an open heart, I promise you will find your own destiny someday". - Iroh
my family had a similar situation, my dad worked very hard to provide for us through the 2008 stock crash and my mom having serious health issues for years, and in the end she divorced him because she didn’t feel loved
been watching your content since 2022 and this is the best guide yet. absolute brilliant insight bringing uncle iroh as the final role model. shoutout from brazil
These long guides are a godsend
One of the best books I have ever read KING WARRIOR MAGICIAN LOVER explain this very well.
Like u can say traditional masculinity is someone who only works on king and warrior archetype, and the modern masculinity is the opposite.
And what we should aim for is to work on all 4 archetypes:
starting with king: get individuality.
Than warrior: protect ur gains.
Third magician: get wisdom in a specific area.
Than lover: so give ur gift to the wrld for free for honor.
It really doesn’t take to long like u can gain ur individuality in 1-2 years. Just align everything in ur life to your goal (ur time, focus, ppl, money…) and do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.
I believe that 3 of the greatest examples of balanced masculinity are
1. King Leonidas (300)
2. Captain America/Steve Rogers (MCU)
3. Uncle Iroh (ATLA).
Being at either end of the extreme rarely ends well.
MORE FULL GUIDES!!!!!!!! MORE FULL GUIDES!!!!!!
Today I thanked the Lord for having your videos in my life Hamza