Girls Are SHOCKED When Find Out The TRUTH About Average Men

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Комментарии • 734

  • @trooperjoe73
    @trooperjoe73 7 дней назад +438

    It's irrelevant how the vehicle looks. Once you see the Carfax and realize it's had 50 owners, has water damage, smoke damage, some rust, and every previous owner has a set of keys - hard pass.

    • @andre59FIFTY
      @andre59FIFTY 7 дней назад +15

      Easy pass. Hard pass means it was a difficult decision. Unless you are using hard pass sarcastically, it’s easy pass. I see people using hard pass incorrectly often.

    • @Ariana-wv4pf
      @Ariana-wv4pf 7 дней назад +1

      ⁠these guys comparing women to cars are never too literate. At they?

    • @FallenSentinel1337
      @FallenSentinel1337 7 дней назад +6

      @@Ariana-wv4pf
      Obviously their common sense outweighs their book learning.

    • @FallenSentinel1337
      @FallenSentinel1337 7 дней назад +17

      ⁠​⁠@@Ariana-wv4pf
      “…never too literate. At they?”
      The women who get offended by the comparison aren’t either, are they?

    • @michaelahrinco79
      @michaelahrinco79 7 дней назад

      Ha ha 😂

  • @Tag0n
    @Tag0n 5 дней назад +9

    I’m don't know why women in the U.S are acting like this these days. 😷

    • @briancaparoula9607
      @briancaparoula9607 11 часов назад

      Because men have been allowing it

    • @patm6018
      @patm6018 7 часов назад

      People in the USA are mean, crazy and egotistical.

  • @boogie7778
    @boogie7778 7 дней назад +13

    If the average for men is 5-8, why are women shocked when men think that number is high?

    • @echo.romeo.
      @echo.romeo. 7 дней назад

      Women that are shocked to hear men have less sex often times have a lot of sex themselves. Women internalize, personalize, and project a lot of their qualities. They make money easily, so men that have a hard time are bums. They get sex and attention easily, so men that struggle are lame and beta. They yell and scream and hit men because they're not used to getting hit for being insolent and abusive. Whatever a woman finds "normal" is generally going to be based on her own life and experiences because women focus more on their emotions and have a hard time thinking about actual consequences and objective reality.

  • @andre59FIFTY
    @andre59FIFTY 7 дней назад +233

    “I’ve never been asked about body counts.”
    Nobody has ever considered you a potential wife and vetted you because he was interested in you for that.

    • @doctorsteve9476
      @doctorsteve9476 7 дней назад +15

      because nobody dared to know the answer......

    • @heathdean3807
      @heathdean3807 7 дней назад

      LITERALLY was looking for this and was very happy to find it near the top. No one asked cuz no one valued you enough to imagine you as a wife. 4 da skreetz.

    • @AsukaZetto
      @AsukaZetto 5 дней назад +6

      @@doctorsteve9476 nobody could've cared for it.... ouch

    • @SandwichDoctorZ
      @SandwichDoctorZ 4 дня назад +11

      ​@@AsukaZetto yes, the guys who dont care... don't care. And dont love the woman in question. Hence, the lack of care. Shocker😂

    • @tomfoolery333
      @tomfoolery333 4 дня назад

      Modern Dutch woman. She comes from a country where religion is gone, marriage is long gone and prost i tu tion is legal. Sex is not viewed as anything but a human need and bodily function. Modern Western European women have been this way for decades. It is why their societies are not replacing themselves but collapsing due to low birth rates. Islam will control Western Europe within 50 years. This woman is the remnant of a dying society. Her opinion will die out with her genes.

  • @commiserable4626
    @commiserable4626 7 дней назад +280

    "Sex is the same thing as going to a theme park." Desensitized to the point where she diminished the most intimate thing you can do with another person to just going out. No hope for this one.

    • @generalneylandGBMFO
      @generalneylandGBMFO 7 дней назад +12

      how much do they hate their dad's
      you know that poor guy is thinking about assuming an alias & moving to another state

    • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
      @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 7 дней назад

      These girls don't understand that there are many millions of guys who rarely or never get any action because they can't.

    • @garrido_heron
      @garrido_heron 7 дней назад

      She's just brainwashed and her parents probably encouraged her worldview. She can't help it tbh.

    • @michaelahrinco79
      @michaelahrinco79 6 дней назад

      @@commiserable4626 man are themselves to blame way woman go off sex ( simple it's not good most of the time so they stop )

    • @consciouslyawake6051
      @consciouslyawake6051 5 дней назад

      For real she’s a lost cause

  • @edwardpaddock2528
    @edwardpaddock2528 7 дней назад +127

    If the guy does not ask about your past, it means he does not care about your future, as he has no intention to be a part of it.

    • @sarge-T.O.
      @sarge-T.O. 7 дней назад +2

      Co sign

    • @cobyskrilla119
      @cobyskrilla119 6 дней назад +3

      Best comment

    • @lemmasgirl
      @lemmasgirl День назад

      Not true. I don't ask because I don't want to know, I don't want to think about it. Who she is will come out during the relationship regardless of body count. Besides, the past is unimportant if you're trying to build a future together. And if I didn't want to be a part of someone's future, then why was I married for 17 years, and together with her for more than 20?

    • @cobyskrilla119
      @cobyskrilla119 День назад +4

      @lemmasgirl who she is will come out during the relationship? So you could've potentially saved yourself some time, resources, and embarrassment, if you just asked a question first? History can give you a look at the potential future. If I can ask a question off jump that would save myself time, why wouldn't I? Why let someone be deceptive to you, and get in a relationship with you that isn't going to work, when you could've handled it much more efficiently?
      I'm glad it worked out for you, but the chances of it happening the way it did for you, for everyone, is mighty slim.
      Also, if you've been in a relationship for 20 years, you haven't even dealt with the struggles of the modern dating scene. Things are way different than they were 2 decades ago.

  • @Thebigbad1013
    @Thebigbad1013 7 дней назад +84

    She's living proof of the damage that promiscurity does. Completely desensitized to the point that sex doesn't mean anything to her besides casual fun. Completely broken.

  • @Bateluer
    @Bateluer 7 дней назад +117

    Men's average is 5 to 8? That seems really high relative to a lot of recent polling. I would predicted 0 to 2.

    • @Tim_G_Bennett
      @Tim_G_Bennett 7 дней назад +26

      Yeah I agree, I'm at 1 and I'm 46.

    • @brettreason484
      @brettreason484 7 дней назад +18

      It’s either like 3 or 100 for men, very little middle ground. Chad/Tyrone get like 97% of the sex. Women it’s all like 25-30.

    • @rabidsminions2079
      @rabidsminions2079 7 дней назад +13

      Agree 5 is high Gen X here.

    • @NuclearNuke41
      @NuclearNuke41 7 дней назад

      @@rabidsminions2079 The f is gen x?

    • @Bateluer
      @Bateluer 7 дней назад

      @@brettreason484 Good point.

  • @generalneylandGBMFO
    @generalneylandGBMFO 7 дней назад +63

    who cares who's "better in bed," sex is for creating families & expressing your love for your partner

  • @sfirlaki
    @sfirlaki 7 дней назад +134

    "I've never been asked about body count..." That's just indicative of the type of people you associate with.

    • @Remember-Death
      @Remember-Death 7 дней назад +1

      Exactly. It's because the guys who deal with her ONLY want to smash, then move on to the next one.

    • @Figment-
      @Figment- 7 дней назад +19

      She's probably never been in a real relationship.

    • @powerlifting85
      @powerlifting85 7 дней назад +7

      Not exactly. I care about body count but i never ask, they can just lie or make up a random number, ommit encounters based off arbitrary b.s., etc. Instead, I try to observe her behavior regarding sex, how many ex's she mentions, what her friends say about their "party phase." I get that guys want to ask a woman her body count, but she's just gonna tell you what she thinks you want to hear.

    • @saimon1987
      @saimon1987 6 дней назад +2

      I tell you guys. You in america are obsessed with body counts. In the rest of the world we never even think about asking about that. I dont fucking care, honestly.

    • @MA-gu2up
      @MA-gu2up 5 дней назад +1

      ​​@@saimon1987
      Actually, most of the world care about chastity to some extent, it is just europeans who are a kind of an outlier, but even them, they care to avoid promiscuous people
      I think if an european guy was told he has to get married but he gets to choose between a woman with a body count of 3 and she never had a one night stand, and another with a body count of 10, with different things, most guys will choose the first
      But also, keep in mind that relationships for europeans are more fragile, they don't value their intimate relationship as much, so it is expected they woukd care less about chastity

  • @kickblake
    @kickblake 7 дней назад +63

    Pair bonding is like tape. Sure it’ll stick a few times, but eventually it stops.

    • @dejavu666wampas9
      @dejavu666wampas9 7 дней назад +9

      Great analogy.👏👏👏

    • @jimmcneal5292
      @jimmcneal5292 4 дня назад +4

      And it sticks much better first time than all the next ones

  • @luckyluke1503
    @luckyluke1503 7 дней назад +140

    She is just a 304. That’s all

    • @kenp9073
      @kenp9073 7 дней назад +18

      And not an attractive one....

  • @nmr20067
    @nmr20067 7 дней назад +76

    I’m sure these 304s can’t relate… 😂

  • @helgar791
    @helgar791 7 дней назад +66

    The even sadder fact is that guys tend to over report while women under report. So when guys say their life body count is 5 the truth is it's far closer to 2-4. As opposed to when women say they have 5 bodies they really have far closer to 10 or more.

    • @nosocialmedia2854
      @nosocialmedia2854 7 дней назад

      The sad reality for most men through history is that they were genetic dead ends! If you are average then you better find a way of improving your hand so the game is stacked in your favour. Women have always been fussy but actually needed a husband for most of history. Give them resources and options and your loser ass is history unfortunately! Women are programmed by nature to only find a small percentage of men attractive regardless of how they look. This was never an issue when they needed men but in 2024, most will fail. Things play out exactly as nature intended.

    • @kickblake
      @kickblake 7 дней назад +9

      It’s the rule of 3. It’s always 1/3 for guys and 3x for girls.

    • @NuclearNuke41
      @NuclearNuke41 7 дней назад +6

      @@kickblake Or 0 for the guy.

    • @helgar791
      @helgar791 7 дней назад +3

      @@kickblake For men I think the rule holds. But for today's postmodern women I think the new rule is if they say their BC is below 5 multiply by 5. If they say it's above 5 then multiply by 3.

    • @jeffreycole2816
      @jeffreycole2816 7 дней назад +3

      "Multiply by 3 and you have the real number"

  • @Razear
    @Razear 7 дней назад +66

    Lol, the fact that she truly believes engaging in casual sex says nothing about a person's character or has any post-coital repercussions... I don't understand how someone could reach adulthood while being this oblivious about basic human nature. This stuff should be instinctual.

    • @nathanholmes6265
      @nathanholmes6265 7 дней назад +7

      🎯…yeah that statement of hers was wild 🤨

    • @R.James.
      @R.James. 7 дней назад

      She's the spawn of feminism. It has instilled in women that their own desires are the only thing that matters and has men's wants and needs eradicated. Liberal women do not consider men's wants ONE single bit.

    • @YSFmemories
      @YSFmemories 4 дня назад +7

      Because THEY dont care about character. They dont know what it is. And thats the vast majority of thw western world atm.

    • @IamSpider_0
      @IamSpider_0 2 дня назад

      Reminds me of Jordan Peterson when he talks about being non-violent because you are weak is not a virtue. A man who has a propensity to be violent but keeps it in check is virtuous because he keeps it in check. There is a reason virginity was also called virtuous, because women being women can get under any guy pretty easily, even the chubby uglies.

    • @hoylogefkal
      @hoylogefkal 2 дня назад

      the true human nature is ra-pe not love. the only thing why it changed are rules. back in the stone-age there was no flirting.

  • @matthewsisti4382
    @matthewsisti4382 7 дней назад +90

    For the vast majority of modern society your body count was 1 (the person you married)

    • @spp0c532
      @spp0c532 7 дней назад

      You are beyond completely high as fuck. The vast majority of modern society?

    • @robertdemon3550
      @robertdemon3550 7 дней назад +7

      Exactly, my grandparents were from a generation where they got married young especially the women, my grandmother was 16 when she married my grandfather who was about 10 years older and they were married over 50 years up until my grandfather died. These previous generations had healthy relationships because they weren’t brainwashed by television and the internet, Hollywood studios have a lot to answer for, they have turned many women into 304’s.

    • @NuclearNuke41
      @NuclearNuke41 7 дней назад +3

      @@robertdemon3550 What did Hollywood do? Pretty sure it was social media it's self.

    • @DrakeFromStatefarm-e9u
      @DrakeFromStatefarm-e9u 4 дня назад

      @@NuclearNuke41 It started in the 60s with the bra burning feminists and the "free love" movement.
      Hollywood has always been used to propagandize the minds of generations... Its the whole "monkey see, monkey do"... thing.
      Social media was just a straight injection into the brain with the same awful message.

    • @CottidaeSEA
      @CottidaeSEA 2 дня назад +1

      @@NuclearNuke41 It was the feminist movement and the increased availability of convenient contraception if you want to be real precise.

  • @googlefearsaltmedia218
    @googlefearsaltmedia218 7 дней назад +35

    This is proof that more partners a woman has the less likely it is she can pair bond.

    • @izwanlavio
      @izwanlavio 3 дня назад +2

      Which is why cheating spouse is so common in the US, they simply have seen a lot and can no longer stick to 1

  • @michbushi
    @michbushi 7 дней назад +21

    "I dont think sex is a big deal"
    Also: "my bodycount is 50+, I can't even remember"
    Well, thanks for making the point for your adversary! She belongs to the streets.

    • @fionahawkes1758
      @fionahawkes1758 3 дня назад +1

      Yes! 👏 👏

    • @newCoCoY6
      @newCoCoY6 2 дня назад

      Well, lucky for that woman to know what she wants at least.

  • @Vyo1983
    @Vyo1983 7 дней назад +27

    Why is it always the heaviest chicks on the podcast with the highest bodycount? Wouldn't have anything to do with self esteem or would it?

    • @sarge-T.O.
      @sarge-T.O. 7 дней назад +6

      They're weighed down by all the loads. 😅

    • @cameronw1942
      @cameronw1942 4 дня назад +2

      They'll just take what they get and it's not hard for a guy to say yes if the girl is throwing themselves at them.

    • @ianmurdoch6247
      @ianmurdoch6247 3 дня назад

      Almost any woman can slay Chads and Chads will jump on anything at last call. Probably not to many Chads interested in a relationship with them. Or anyone else for that matter.

    • @MG-bv8fi
      @MG-bv8fi 3 дня назад

      Or lied about the number?

  • @TriScaleCreations
    @TriScaleCreations 7 дней назад +41

    She acts like this is some brand new outlandish idea. This is the status quo in many successful civilizations, both modern and throughout history...

  • @aquapuppy9838
    @aquapuppy9838 7 дней назад +29

    Will they ever point out to women like this that women aren't desperately chasing guys with 50 or more divorces? Surely he has "lots of experience," making him a good husband?
    Because they could probably understand why he's not marriageable material, and that it'd be a red flag if that guy said he wanted her as the next marriage. Same applies to women who also have 50 or more in the "I could be bothered, but then again, I couldn't be bothered" bin.

    • @nightmareTomek
      @nightmareTomek 7 дней назад +2

      Good point.

    • @YSFmemories
      @YSFmemories 4 дня назад +1

      I dont think women think in this direction. Like, i dont think they care. To them, it just means the guy is attractive enough to find 50 girls to take a shot at him meaning hes high status and women are hypergamous and drawn to status.
      So genuinely, i dont think theyll understand with that example.

    • @bobblacka918
      @bobblacka918 3 дня назад +1

      Every woman thinks she is the one who will tame a guy who has 50 or more partners because she thinks she is an 11 and no one else is. Then when it doesn't happen as she planned, it's the man's fault for not treating her like a princess. Delusion at it's worse.

  • @fd15k
    @fd15k 7 дней назад +45

    She is not an outlier, she is a liar.

    • @Remember-Death
      @Remember-Death 7 дней назад +4

      'In-liar." 🤣

    • @R.James.
      @R.James. 7 дней назад

      Neither. She's a 304 who belongs on De Wallen

  • @AdamLyle-j9i
    @AdamLyle-j9i 7 дней назад +36

    She Def knows and is embarrassed by it that's why the whole act she puts up. She's tryna convince you cuz she knows if you knew her number you'd dip

  • @kamilegier4730
    @kamilegier4730 7 дней назад +8

    The best sex is with a husband that you have given your heart and soul to for a lifetime and a husband that has taken the responsibility of protecting and providing for you as long as you live, there are numerous benefits only those situations reveal.

  • @notjamesearl
    @notjamesearl 7 дней назад +15

    it’s crazy that women today treat sex the way men did back in the 80s and 90s. and now men are like how women were back then. men want it to be special and to have an emotional attachment

    • @YeahhDan
      @YeahhDan 4 дня назад +2

      Yeah, it feels like we’ve literally flip flopped

  • @dominicottaviano166
    @dominicottaviano166 7 дней назад +33

    Everyone of those 304s had 5 before highschool graduation

    • @robertdemon3550
      @robertdemon3550 7 дней назад +1

      Nothing surer.

    • @Figment-
      @Figment- 7 дней назад +1

      5 at a time.

    • @kursor52
      @kursor52 7 дней назад +1

      But doesn't that mean there's 5 other guys who did it? So, how are guys less promiscuous? Help me math here.

    • @gavinjohn3545
      @gavinjohn3545 6 дней назад +5

      @kursor52 It's not a promiscuity gap it's an opportunity gap. Most guys would run their body counts like women do but they can't because women typically have standards for who they will have sex with that are far higher than men have for women. So many women run up their bodies with handsome and rich guys without the requirement of being beautiful or rich themselves. Any woman above a 3 can easily secure sex with little effort on her part but for guys the bar is 8 or 9. Under that it's going to require skill or effort. And it's hard to gain skill with no opportunity.

    • @enigma9971
      @enigma9971 6 дней назад +3

      ​@@kursor52each of those 5 guys she was with could have only been with her and nobody else. It's not hard to understand. If i ate 5 apples, it doesn't mean anyone else got a bite. Those apples didn't go get eaten by anyone else

  • @adogg-2006
    @adogg-2006 7 дней назад +26

    Men: "we're concerned about the longevity of the relationship we're about to commit to and invest in"
    Women: "it's DISGUSTING that that's SO important"
    What is happening?? 🤣

  • @mortalvolt85
    @mortalvolt85 7 дней назад +23

    39 and i have 4 on my count and only 2 of them where on multiple occasions..... Yet my ex told me 6 at first and now if you ask her its 2 they are all lier's they will never tell you the real number qnd any female tells you 5+ just run

    • @Figment-
      @Figment- 7 дней назад +1

      If they can't give a solid number or remember all their names, then they are a super what Santa says.

  • @ronnoe6708
    @ronnoe6708 6 дней назад +19

    She's one of those who will get with a guy who has cheated on every girl he's been involved with and then be surprised that he cheats on her too. No grasp of how past behavior influences current and future behavior. Very little grasp on reality in general.

  • @Josh-ww7mp
    @Josh-ww7mp 7 дней назад +20

    She belong to the street

    • @Vyo1983
      @Vyo1983 7 дней назад +2

      She is the street

  • @dragondrakage2402
    @dragondrakage2402 7 дней назад +48

    A lock that opens to a lot of keys is a bad lock

    • @Dfourteens
      @Dfourteens 7 дней назад +5

      Its a used up, dented, battered lock

    • @jaleesahevans101
      @jaleesahevans101 День назад

      You can say that all you want, but remember. Stds don't care about your gender. No one should be promiscuous.

    • @mangiagatti85
      @mangiagatti85 11 часов назад

      Great analogy!

    • @Pablo-ny5mp
      @Pablo-ny5mp 11 часов назад +2

      But a key that opens a lot of locks is a master key

    • @Garl_Vinland_FFXIV
      @Garl_Vinland_FFXIV 6 часов назад

      Yeeeeep

  • @giosal2005
    @giosal2005 7 дней назад +8

    100 bodies= 100 failed relationships, = 100 divorces. You can not fix a broken woman.
    Only a homeless man or simp would want them. A then you would feel nothing but pitty for the hell these men would have to go through.

  • @bhamsoxfan72
    @bhamsoxfan72 6 дней назад +6

    "Being special has nothing to do with sex." Really? Do you remember your first time? I sure do. What about your 2nd,3rd,4th times? I do, but not as vividly. What about your 10th, 20th, 40th? I don't. Fortunately, mine were all with the same person; I can't imagine being with an endless parade of women and not remember who they were...

  • @betobeto1998
    @betobeto1998 7 дней назад +39

    26 and I’ve always been told I’m an above average looking person and my body count is only at 3. Being a dude ain’t easy, but luckily my morality is okay so I’m really not stressing on it 😂

    • @RobotsandMonsters
      @RobotsandMonsters 7 дней назад

      Lol, I was at 3 when I was 26. By 29, it was 30. It doesn't take long when you're single, live on your own, and go a lot.

    • @n8george
      @n8george 7 дней назад +5

      ​@@RobotsandMonstersNo discipline

    • @RobotsandMonsters
      @RobotsandMonsters 7 дней назад

      @n8george lol, that's just cope for no rizz, bruv.

    • @n8george
      @n8george 7 дней назад +2

      @@RobotsandMonsters Hilarious

    • @Darkpath03
      @Darkpath03 6 дней назад +3

      26 here as well only 1 for me.

  • @albertvirgil4471
    @albertvirgil4471 7 дней назад +35

    To have as a man the Bodycount of 5 women is extreme! I know a lot of boys who have a bodycount of 0 ! I can name at least 30 dudes who have the bodycount of 0 !

    • @gavinjohn3545
      @gavinjohn3545 6 дней назад

      I know a guy that had 5 women that he was banging who each had a kid from him at the same time. Five is not extreme although I do believe 5 is above the median.

    • @enigma9971
      @enigma9971 6 дней назад +1

      Then you should stop hanging out with losers who can't get any 🤣

    • @ryan124007
      @ryan124007 4 дня назад +2

      Mine is 0.

    • @sarge-T.O.
      @sarge-T.O. 4 дня назад

      @@albertvirgil4471 can't confirm that, but I believe it

    • @jimmcneal5292
      @jimmcneal5292 4 дня назад

      That's average. I'm almost 27 and virgin, there are 27 yo guys with triple digit "body counts"

  • @niadrentwett9099
    @niadrentwett9099 5 дней назад +9

    Eww! The thought that 5 isn't promiscuous... This world is disgusting.

  • @springbok204
    @springbok204 7 дней назад +11

    You gotta be kidding. Sleeping with 1000 people says nothing about you?

    • @chriskitchen4772
      @chriskitchen4772 23 часа назад

      I think it says something about her profession.🤣🤣🤣😳

  • @bobblacka918
    @bobblacka918 3 дня назад +4

    Let's use a practical analogy: Would you rather buy a 10 year old car that had 20 owners, or a 10 year old car that had only one owner? In every instance, every expert will tell you the one owner car is the best buy because you can be sure that one owner took care of the car and valued it. Likewise, a man or woman who had only a few relationships will more likely value a new relationship rather than the person who had dozens of short term relationships. It's not rocket science which one is the better deal and which one to avoid.

  • @dfields9511
    @dfields9511 7 дней назад +34

    0:11 she is surprised because she is socially around her 304 friends

  • @tomwebb2831
    @tomwebb2831 7 дней назад +5

    I'm 40, and my count is at about 7. I never had any interest in racking up a body count. I can't think of anything that screams insecurity more than this.
    One of my biggest regrets in life was a one night stand I had when I was going through a dry patch. I really hurt that girl emotionally.. I was not into her at all.
    It takes a while to get to know a girl sexually. You want to actually get to know them, as thats when you have more fun as far as I'm concerned.
    The impression I have is that many have a body count higher than me, but who knows? If many guys had the same attitude as me, that would actually fill me with some confidence about humanity as what i had felt was that humanity had lost itself to vices

  • @oberon190848
    @oberon190848 5 дней назад +4

    she can "think" all she wants about whether body count "SHOULD" matter or not..... but the point is there are studies showing that the ability to Pair Bond lessens after 5 sexual partners

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 4 дня назад

      It actually lessens with every sexual partner for a woman. Every sexual partner that ends is emotional damage to her soul.

  • @Andarovin
    @Andarovin 2 дня назад +4

    Unbelievable how little women understand about men now.

  • @shryque
    @shryque 7 дней назад +14

    I'm up to 5 bodies, and I'm 38.
    My count slowed down once I moved out of my dads place and got an apartment.

    • @vashishtramoutar8122
      @vashishtramoutar8122 7 дней назад +2

      6 girls and no more in the future the way things are going.

    • @Cereal_Killer007
      @Cereal_Killer007 7 дней назад +3

      3 women and im 40....I got married at 20

    • @Tim_G_Bennett
      @Tim_G_Bennett 7 дней назад +2

      That's 4 more then me and I'm mid 40's.

    • @rdwilln
      @rdwilln 7 дней назад +2

      I've had one, my wife, she's had one more than me, and we have a really good marriage. My secret was I filtered out girls whose parents marriage was not one I would replicate.

  • @vinceseth530
    @vinceseth530 7 дней назад +5

    Been celibate for 5 years man. Not easy to find someone

  • @holeymcsockpuppet
    @holeymcsockpuppet 2 дня назад +2

    The average for men, excluding the top 1% (who are in the hundreds), is actually 2 partners. 50% of men age 28 are virgins now. The average for women, minus the top 1%, is still 25 males and 8-10 females. And at this point, 50% of females have lost their virginity BEFORE high school.

  • @MKristensen
    @MKristensen 2 дня назад +2

    My wife was a virgin when I meet her, we have been together for 19 years. Our relationship is really good. My mother has only had my father, they have had a good relationship for over 50 years. Body count matters.

  • @bplayerr1
    @bplayerr1 7 дней назад +3

    Woman: I dont care about body count
    Same woman: I prefer a high body count man
    No shit Sherlock! Then youu care about high body count

  • @Dwbulldog04
    @Dwbulldog04 7 дней назад +2

    There was a story of a man who wifed up a 304. She had so much sex with other men to the point where she was no longer interested in having it with her husband. If they did it, it wasn’t great and he became frustrated with her.

  • @fearlesscheshirecat1411
    @fearlesscheshirecat1411 2 дня назад +4

    33 years old, and I’ve been with 2 women.
    1 of which is my wife who I’ve been with for 12 years now. Never been happier.

    • @gtsonev1988
      @gtsonev1988 Час назад +1

      I'm 36 and still virgin. I don't care if people would laugh at me

    • @fearlesscheshirecat1411
      @fearlesscheshirecat1411 Час назад +1

      @@gtsonev1988 That’s good on you dude, to have that self control.
      Sex is way overrated anyways…..I don’t care what anybody says…..
      It’s fun don’t get me wrong, but it’s not all people make it out to be.

  • @BirdDogey1
    @BirdDogey1 День назад +2

    I'm a 7 to 8 with a good career. Physically great shape. Invisible until I reached 40.

  • @Cereal_Killer007
    @Cereal_Killer007 7 дней назад +7

    Men whove had long relationships are far more experienced than single men looking for one night stands

    • @ericbrown1132
      @ericbrown1132 7 дней назад +1

      I would agree, the odds of a man actually communicating and caring about her pleasure as well.

    • @Cereal_Killer007
      @Cereal_Killer007 7 дней назад

      @@ericbrown1132 good point

    • @yota8325
      @yota8325 7 дней назад

      Yep one night stands can only be so good. Relationship sex is far superior

  • @nintendohomeboy
    @nintendohomeboy 2 дня назад +2

    Australian guy articulates it perfectly. He taught her something that day.

  • @smashedbread
    @smashedbread 7 дней назад +2

    Men aren't as selective as women. so a girl who is a 5 can easily get with an 8 or 9 guy. Thats the thing though, most of the dating or sex "men" as a group are having (outside of married couples) are being done by the top 10-20% of men. So women have high body counts, but its with the same group of attractive, somewhat wealthy men. Those men know this and they get all the sex they want, but aren't looking to be more than that so the women who chase those men, end up single and in their 30's feeling used and bitter against men. The other 80% of men are left trying to find love among the few women who will actually look their way.

  • @theoteddy9665
    @theoteddy9665 7 дней назад +2

    you never been asked for body count, cz nobody wanted to stay with you after, how is this hard to grasp???

  • @MegaBobo234
    @MegaBobo234 7 дней назад +7

    My exwife had 50+ before we met. She also bragged while we were dating that she had a "rotation", me included, before we started dating. After marriage, she would get nostalgic and bring it up often.
    We are divorced because I simply asked for better dialogue instead of constantly hearing about these past encounters. She took no time to jump back on the rotation once I finally left.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 4 дня назад +1

      You really should have picked better. 50 bodies... the statistical chance of a happy marriage is awful.

    • @l3lackoutsMedia
      @l3lackoutsMedia Час назад

      Hookers also build up a well paying "rotation"

  • @christopherregister2246
    @christopherregister2246 21 час назад +3

    My body count is zero

  • @bluedouchemark4685
    @bluedouchemark4685 7 дней назад +3

    Shocked because they all had 5 partners by middle school.

  • @erikkorhonen
    @erikkorhonen 5 дней назад +2

    they must be really shocked when they figured out that women's numbers should be much lower lol

  • @Prophet_36
    @Prophet_36 7 дней назад +3

    lol future lonely cat lady spotted

  • @erasablefallen7223
    @erasablefallen7223 2 дня назад +2

    Got a body count of 0 and it's staying that way until I'm married. Problem is, very few women seem to value chastity before marriage so I've largely given up. Saw plenty of girls in Highschool getting pregnant and that was back in 2011-2013 for me.

    • @vahjayjayaddict
      @vahjayjayaddict 4 часа назад

      Pair bonding women are seeking a match, hookup girls are seeking to get off. Being long term celibate, it should become easier to recognize the difference when you encounter women for the first time. We live in an era where at least 80% of women are hookup girls, so finding a match for yourself, you are competing against 80% of men for less than 20% of women for a pair bond. I say don't give up, live your best life, be available for pair bonding women when the opportunity occurs. But don't settle for chasing hookups because it is the only game available. It's a degrading way to live life.

  • @MikeDeSmet-lp7nl
    @MikeDeSmet-lp7nl 2 дня назад +2

    Crocodiles have more love in their hearts than these modern women.

  • @klocugh12
    @klocugh12 7 дней назад +3

    Like going to theme park? With her it'd be like Disneyland - crowded and overpriced.

  • @Kingdennissinned
    @Kingdennissinned 7 дней назад +57

    Im 47, above average in looks and im in the single digits..

    • @chris-twenty7
      @chris-twenty7 7 дней назад +4

      Based

    • @brucemiller1696
      @brucemiller1696 7 дней назад +1

      I am almost 60 and my count is about my age.

    • @brucemiller1696
      @brucemiller1696 7 дней назад +2

      I would rather be with someone that likes sex as much as the women on here than be with someone that doesnt want sex.

    • @DatsLegitness
      @DatsLegitness 7 дней назад +1

      Dude you’re average at best. Don’t get so full of yourself

    • @WolfekingAlex
      @WolfekingAlex 7 дней назад

      ​​@@brucemiller1696then enjoy the pain and toxicity they bring. We don't want the garbage, if you'll treasure it, more power to ya.

  • @josephtattum6365
    @josephtattum6365 7 дней назад +4

    I have 1 “body” so I am weird right?

    • @patm6018
      @patm6018 7 часов назад

      Nah American and Dutch women are hypocrit, selfish and terrible partners in general.
      They justify their faults all the time.

  • @camsmith4433
    @camsmith4433 7 дней назад +4

    Having multiple sex partner to me shows the person has an "I don't give a shit" attitude.

  • @IbrahimMuhammad_114
    @IbrahimMuhammad_114 7 дней назад +5

    That guy is above average

  • @jamesnagy7136
    @jamesnagy7136 7 дней назад +4

    "Body count doesn't matter" + "I prefer a guy with experience" can't make this stuff up😂

  • @MGarcia168
    @MGarcia168 4 дня назад +1

    I have seen these same type of discussions many times from many RUclipsrs. And for some reason, the guys keeps telling all these women how an unattractive it is for guys for women to have high body counts. But they keep forgetting to tell these women the most important thing. A “HIGH BODY COUNT” means the inability to “PAIR BOND”. This means the woman will have a higher chance of infidelity. When you tell these women that a higher body counts is unattractive to men, they don’t see the consequences. They only see it as “Men’s Preference for lower body count due to ego or insecurity.” These guys should emphasize the consequences. Women who have High Body Count and is not able to pair bond are like volatile stocks. , Why would any guy invest in them. The ROI is very low or at a loss. This is why the success rate of the relationship or marriage is very low. Put it this way and which is better? . Would you tell a child to not touch a hot stove because you don’t want him/her to do it?(Preference) or Would you tell the child to not touch the hot stove because he or she will burn his/her hand?(Consequences) These is how to talk to these women regarding High Body Counts.

  • @ladiesbestfriend5319
    @ladiesbestfriend5319 2 дня назад +1

    We live in a culture that has undergone significant changes since the sexual revolution, particularly in terms of how women are encouraged to view their sexuality. The rise of social media, pop culture, and celebrity influence has glamorized a more casual, promiscuous approach to sex for young women, promoting the idea that it’s empowering to have as many sexual experiences as they want, much like the stereotypical portrayal of men. This shift, however, has led to confusion and unintended consequences, both for men and women, and has created an imbalance that is far from what could be considered “empowering.”
    In today’s society, many young women believe that adopting the behaviors traditionally associated with men-such as casual sex without emotional attachment-is the key to empowerment and equality. But this ignores fundamental biological differences. Women are biologically and hormonally wired differently; their bodies and emotions are influenced by a cycle that creates different needs and responses compared to men. Men, on the other hand, produce sperm continuously and have a more straightforward biological drive, which is highly influenced by testosterone. Because of these differences, women who attempt to emulate male behaviors in terms of sexuality may not experience the same fulfillment, often feeling emotionally drained or disconnected instead.
    This disparity is rooted in our biology. Men's evolutionary drive tends to focus on spreading their genes, while women's is centered around selectivity and ensuring security for offspring. It’s a difference shaped by millions of years of evolution, and trying to override it can lead to confusion and conflict. When women accumulate a high number of sexual partners, it often leads to emotional consequences that are more significant than those experienced by men, given the deeper emotional bond that women tend to form during intimacy due to oxytocin and other bonding hormones. This biological fact makes casual, non-emotional sex less fulfilling for many women, despite societal messaging that suggests otherwise.
    Today’s popular culture often encourages women to ignore these biological realities. Celebrities, influencers, and media push a narrative where promiscuity is equated with power, but what many women experience instead is confusion and emotional dissonance. Meanwhile, men are still largely wired to approach sex with less emotional attachment, and they often don't face the same social stigma for having multiple partners. As a result, many women feel frustrated that men aren't reacting or behaving the same way they do, missing the fact that they are biologically different by design.
    This situation has created a power dynamic where sex becomes a tool for manipulation. Some women might use the idea of weakness or emotional turmoil as a shield to justify their actions or as a way to avoid accountability, while enjoying the benefits of social norms that expect men to act rationally and responsibly. This imbalance can leave men feeling trapped-they are held to expectations of providing stability and logic, while being confronted with behavior that, to them, seems emotionally inconsistent or even manipulative.
    For society to move forward, it’s crucial that both men and women acknowledge these biological differences without judgment. Empowerment shouldn’t be about emulating the behavior of the opposite sex without considering our natural differences; instead, it should be about understanding and embracing what makes us unique. Men and women bring different strengths to relationships-men often provide structure, protection, and rationality, while women contribute depth, emotional connection, and nurturing. Trying to reverse or blur these roles without understanding their basis leads to a disconnect and undermines the value each person brings to the relationship.
    We need to move towards a more authentic understanding of empowerment-one that honors and respects biological differences while allowing each individual to make choices that are true to their nature. The solution isn’t to mimic each other's behaviors or manipulate based on these dynamics, but rather to cultivate mutual respect, understand our inherent differences, and build relationships that honor the best in each other. Both men and women have unique needs, and acknowledging these without attempting to force one perspective onto the other is essential for creating harmony in relationships.

  • @kwiatekjkd
    @kwiatekjkd 2 дня назад +1

    Goście robią dobrą robotę dla odwrócenia Rozwiązłości jako kobiecego "Empowermentu"
    niszczącego wrażliwość kobiety i ograniczenie ich samozniszczenia.

  • @IamSpider_0
    @IamSpider_0 2 дня назад +1

    The wall is coming, and it is not forgiving. I as a man won't consider a relationship with a woman who has had more than three or four partners for an entire lifetime. I am in my 40's. A woman that is easy to bed, is for temporary fun. A woman that has been with more than three or four men, is a 304. I expect that a woman may have been with one or two boys in high school. After that the third or fourth had better be a LTR that lasted years, because at least that tells me she can pair bond.
    And being a harlot is fine, it is the oldest profession for a reason. Even biblical figures like Abraham had concubines, but they were never a wife.

  • @paulhutchison815
    @paulhutchison815 4 дня назад +1

    What she fails to realize or even consider is that body count and past sexual history of a woman, even though she doesn't think it should matter.... matters A LOT to a marriage-minded man. Her beliefs are not going to change the fact that it is very important to a man.
    Statistics don't lie.
    Women with high body counts:
    -initiate divorce at a higher rate than women with low body counts
    -Cheat on their husbands more than women with low body counts
    And marriage-minded men do not want to ever get divorced.

  • @DavidCowsert-u5i
    @DavidCowsert-u5i 22 часа назад +1

    Women don’t care about body count but it’s important to men. Men judge a woman’s character & morality by her body count.

  • @callyourhitsorquit296
    @callyourhitsorquit296 4 дня назад +1

    When she described that having sex is like a theme park. She belonged to the street. A woman with a high body count is like a used car. A car might be good looking at the outside, but after 3rd or 4th and so on owner of that car being used, there are minute damages or wear on the mechanism of that car. And no car owner who can afford to buy a new car would go for a used car, in general. A guy would never know, and will subconsciously think at the back of his mind, that the woman shes interested with, have more than 5-50 drivers who drove her. A woman's psyche about relationship and her view on men is damaged for life.

  • @wavegun
    @wavegun День назад +1

    "Bodycount isn't important". Of COURSE a 100+ would say that.

  • @newportninja245
    @newportninja245 7 дней назад +2

    I havent dated a girl in 3 years and was previously in three relationships that lasted nearly 3+ on each one. Not sure if they got tired of me or vice versa but we definitely tried our best. Ive never heard of a girl sleeping with even more like 4-5 ppl so hearing this is terrifying and I may be single forever. Women dont realize that men visualize imagine how it look when a dude busted in her face. Makes it hard to kiss her and be in “love”

  • @oscarl.3563
    @oscarl.3563 7 дней назад +4

    The reason a guy doesn't inquire or care about bc is that he is only out for sex and doesn't consider her a keeper. That should have been a wake-up call for her, she didn't notice.

    • @sophrosyne5900
      @sophrosyne5900 6 дней назад

      I think you are right , but I'm also going to add my perspective . In my twenties , two of my ex's wanted to marry me . They never asked my body count , because I was loyal as fuck and submissive . I think they would have been surprised it was high ( between 8-15 at the time ). My one ex wanted kids right away . I was 21 and he was 29 and European , so very traditional . He was satisfied with our sex life and deemed me to be submissive and nurturing , and likely would become a good mother provided I give him children ...the second boyfriend , same thing . His body count was MUCH lower than mine 😅 ...
      I believe they might care about body count , but didn't care to ASK , because of the way I carry myself ...you would never know . Low key, introvert , don't party , no addictions , etc .
      Now I'm in my 30s , and like attracts like . No man over 40 has ever asked my body count , because they EXPECT I have one . And they have also allready experienced their lives and got the hedonism ( which I don't RECCOMEND ) out of their system . It's more or less a " take me as I am , or not at all " expectation , because we are too fucking old for games .
      💁 If a man over 35 wants a relationship with me or even sex , and he asks me my body count ....I'm dropping him right then and there lol
      I've been celebate for almost 5 years and have no tolerance for bullshit . The whole body count thing is weird as fuck for anyone over 30 imo . 😅

    • @oscarl.3563
      @oscarl.3563 6 дней назад

      @@sophrosyne5900 It is not weird, it has nothing to do with age but w/e. One girl could have been married from 18 to 30, celebate for 5 years and now at 35.
      It's good that you were loyal but in the end your exes are _exes._ You didn't marry them, you probably dumped them. Can you really claim to be loyal when none of your relationships lasted and you never started a family? Even if you didn't cheat you didn't stick.
      What you describe happens, women may not appear like they have a high body count and the man may be into them and go for it without asking. But in the end the relationship don't stick or they get married and he finds out later and problems arise because he married her on false pretenses.
      See Kirk Durston explaining _"Sex and Culture"_ by J.D.Unwin to understand the consequences of women being anything but virgins before the wedding night. Unwin studied the link between sexual restriction and the rise and fall of civilizations and tribes. And the single most important factor behind their rise/downfall was whether there was a custom for no sex before marriage in place, the second most was absolute monogamy namely 1 partner for life though this was not nearly as important as the first factor.

  • @DavidCowsert-u5i
    @DavidCowsert-u5i 22 часа назад +2

    I’m 55 body count 5..!

  • @cameronw1942
    @cameronw1942 4 дня назад +1

    These women or just the main 1 talking don't realise that it's a lot harder for a man to hook up than a woman. A woman just has to say yes and a man will sleep with them. A man has to take you make you laugh show interest and still might not get any so it's pointless. And having multiple see partners doesn't make you good at it everyone has different needs in the bed. I've been with my now wife for 10 years and know I have a lot better experience than these people with high body counts because I know what my woman wants and care about her needs as well as my own. It's a lot more fun when you know how to please each other and it's not just a wild one night stand.

  • @esh3325
    @esh3325 2 дня назад +2

    Most guys dont even have 3.

  • @colbydee6828
    @colbydee6828 4 дня назад +1

    Undercooked pork arms here knows how horrible her behavior is but she doubled down to avoid the pain of dealing with it. Nobody actually thinks this sort of lifestyle is a good idea.

  • @danielc3003
    @danielc3003 7 дней назад +2

    Nobody cares about the mileage of a rental! Body count is irrelevant to a hump and dump encounter!

  • @andrewgardner1727
    @andrewgardner1727 7 дней назад +2

    It absolutely amazes me how two guys on the panel are giving these ladies a blueprint on what men actually want and they’re still downright delusional and think their way is the best and don’t bother listening. I understand that these are 304s that have been ran through, but the reality of the situation is a lot of modern woman think like this and the scary part is they think like this undercover yes I agree theres good woman out there but most are damaged have mental issues. The list goes on and they’ll wake up when it’s too late, but they’re only hurting themselves and it has a direct correlation to getting intimate with too many partners it’s proven science, and it needs to be told a lot more on a sidenote, men and Women need to be better……. 💯💯

    • @Figment-
      @Figment- 7 дней назад

      The good ones get taken early. Which makes sense.

    • @danhewit
      @danhewit 7 дней назад +1

      Yeah that’s the interesting part, the information on how they can attract a worthy man is right in front of them. The ones getting ran through clearly had no fathers to raise and guide them so they end up going for the wrong type of men and as a result become traumatised. The inability to pair bond due to them sleeping around is no joke, look how desensitised the women in this podcast is. It will sadly be too late for too many as they seem to think they are going to be in their prime forever.

    • @andrewgardner1727
      @andrewgardner1727 7 дней назад

      @@danhewit straight 💯

    • @andrewgardner1727
      @andrewgardner1727 7 дней назад

      @@Figment- very true 💯

  • @nmr20067
    @nmr20067 7 дней назад +3

    Hey, at least that girl with the long black hair is honest…. She not lying like some of the other 304s clearly do.. lol

  • @bassikproform2391
    @bassikproform2391 7 дней назад +1

    How ironic is it women always talk about how they are so much more empathetic and emotionally intelligent they are than men but when talking about body count they just absolutely can’t think about it outside of their own perspective 😂

  • @artstuffandmore...8956
    @artstuffandmore...8956 3 дня назад +1

    She doesn’t get it, men would preferred virgin or low body count wife. Because that means she can trust her better and that would give him peace of mind. And men want peace of mind.

  • @xray114
    @xray114 День назад +1

    What’s up with a girl always wearing that German helmet? Is that a dunce hat or what?

  • @JeromeAverett-wy9xl
    @JeromeAverett-wy9xl 7 дней назад +3

    All those women pretending to be strong, when it’s obvious they aren’t even aware of their own pain.

  • @kurok1sh170
    @kurok1sh170 7 дней назад +3

    A year? From 19 to 25 I didn't so much as get to hold a girls hand let alone garner sexual interaction.
    And it wasn't from a lack of trying.
    My numbers have improved since moving to London but 3 partners (failed relationship attempts) in two years is depressing

    • @paulstockton7121
      @paulstockton7121 2 дня назад

      London has fallen, get out bro. Work there if you have to, but commute.

    • @kurok1sh170
      @kurok1sh170 День назад

      @@paulstockton7121 I already commute an hour to get to work while living IN London. I'm not making that longer. I'm already waking up at 5:30 in the morning for work as ism

  • @lewisjones85
    @lewisjones85 2 дня назад +1

    Men won’t ask your body count, but we will, hear or find out somehow

  • @IMadeYouUpsetHuh
    @IMadeYouUpsetHuh 7 дней назад +1

    Lmfao her being shocked that men aren't ran through is wild like women is wild. The dead silence when she said she slept with over 50 guys is telling.

  • @nadineearley8564
    @nadineearley8564 7 дней назад +2

    These women are awful

  • @Duetmaster2
    @Duetmaster2 20 часов назад +1

    Part behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.

  • @landen99
    @landen99 6 дней назад +9

    Progressivism destroys everything about sex and marriage, virtue and honor, goodness and peace.

    • @lemmasgirl
      @lemmasgirl День назад

      You misspelled conservatism. They're concerned with genitals, who we're with and what we do in the bedroom. Not surprising when you have a convicted sex offender and felon running for president.

  • @xVovax
    @xVovax 5 дней назад +2

    5 is much too

  • @brianroness103
    @brianroness103 4 дня назад +1

    High body does not add any value to a relationship.

  • @hianxiety8953
    @hianxiety8953 7 дней назад +2

    im 32 with a b count of at least 100+ but i do agree that it's nasty for a woman to have a high body count. It's just different.

    • @echo.romeo.
      @echo.romeo. 7 дней назад +2

      It's bad for both men AND women.

    • @karlobluesman
      @karlobluesman 2 дня назад

      no its not.

    • @echo.romeo.
      @echo.romeo. 2 дня назад

      @@karlobluesman Pair bonding is impaired, risk of STDs increases, risk of unwanted pregnancy increases, tendency to be unfaithful increases, it's psychologically damaging, it negatively alters biochemistry. I mean... it's a laundry list of cons. You can't just say "no it's not." It takes more sexual partners to be destructive for men than it is for women, but it's ultimately bad for both sexes objectively.

    • @jaleesahevans101
      @jaleesahevans101 День назад

      Putting yourself at risk of stds that many times is not less stupid just because you're a man. Anyone who does that has no self respect.

  • @14Penfold88
    @14Penfold88 День назад +1

    Me: 25
    Wife: 3
    Best we’ve ever had

  • @TheSharpeful
    @TheSharpeful 7 дней назад +6

    Curiously, the average number of life time sex partners is the same for both men and women. 5 to 6.
    (and Im guessing the very few promiscuous men and women - comparatively speaking - who have sex with hundreds of people, drive that average up quite abit, making the vast majority of people quite abit lower)

    • @chris-twenty7
      @chris-twenty7 7 дней назад +7

      In the west be very weary of thinking women on average have 5 bodies 😂

    • @raphaels33
      @raphaels33 7 дней назад +2

      tHERE is MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE THAN HAVE SEX jez........ most of our parents our grandparents had single digits on body counts on their entire life.... now a 18 years old girl already have almost 100 Its disturbing and discusting TBH.

    • @TheSharpeful
      @TheSharpeful 7 дней назад

      @@chris-twenty7 I think you'll find people wildly over estimate "body counts" of women in the west, social media content really skews peoples perceptions of it. That 5 to 6 life time sex partners is for both men and women in the west.

  • @1isaacgardner
    @1isaacgardner 4 дня назад +1

    Delusion is off the richtor scale....