Missy, I’ve been in this manifestation journey for 4 freaking months. Obviously started with an SP but it has progressed into so much more. Girl, I have watched it all. I mean ALL. You are hands down the best RUclipsr I have come across that actually explains things, is relatable and breaks everything down. Honestly, please don’t stop. Even though you may not have a million subs, you are seriously the most spot on in my experience. Truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!
Guys, this is real. I actually put this to the test like about a month ago? So what happened was I imagined a scene where I was with my SP and we were looking out to a view and I put my head on his shoulder. Long story short, about a week ago I realised that same scene played out however in a different way, instead of me putting my head on his shoulder, he did it to me. Unfortunately, I wasn’t specific with what I wanted so now I’m having to revise and create another scene. So be very specific and trust! It works! ❤️✨
Girl, the bit about obsessive thoughts signaling an underlying negative belief and changing your self identity hit me like a ton of bricks!!! I’ve heard this before but today it really resonated!!! Wow!! I’m tingling 😃😃😃
Missy, I can't thank you ENOUGH for this video, specifically the part about obsessing. I have been actively manifesting my sp for MONTHS but haven't been able to shake off the obsessive thinking. You are the only person I have watched on RUclips who talks about this subject & it makes COMPLETE sense to me now. I have enormous fears of abandonment due to childhood and adulthood abuse that I have always been aware of but never knew how to get rid of it. You have inspired me to tackle this issue (and others). THANK YOU SO MUCH. Please don't ever stop doing what you're doing. Such a gem to this community! ox
I do as well have the same abandonment issues. If I may ask, how did you tackle these issues? I know all about working on self concept in theory, but how does one conquer and deprogram years of cemented painful and negative assumptions embedded deep in our psyche? Affirmations? Revisions? I’ve done them all, but I still find myself not being able to fully embody the version of myself who is whole and without negative assumptions.
Not to worry MR. We, your loyal subscribers, will never abandon you, All joking aside, I'm sorry that you've experienced those things, but glad to know that you have it all cleared now. This was an awesome lesson, super detailed and well thought out. I can tell that you put a good bit of time and effort into it and I want you to know that I appreciated you. Thanks!
I love your voice. It exudes intelligence and groundedness, rather than flakiness and delusion, like a lot of the manifestation people online. Thank you!
You are a true coach speaking from true experience and the ability to share your vulnerability. More coaches need to talk about your inner work. Anybody can manifest an SP if they truly want to, but what does it matter if once you receive it you're a shitshow underneath it all. I loved how you spoke of making sure not to manipulate the situation either. You spoke very direct and clear on what not to do. I could tell in your tone and slight giggle that you've done all the wrong things in your past and acknowleged it but have learned. This is true guidance because it's very easy to not only mess up your manifestations but also mess with your mental health. Thank you for your story and message today.
Omgggggg I have watched a lot of manifesting videos but I haven't seen something that makes me feel soooo good.Thanks to you Missy love uu🥰🥰still waiting for my SP and I know that he is showing up❤️❤️🥰🥰🙏🙏
I can't stop watching this video! Missy, given that this was a year ago, would you consider making a part 2 updated version, with any additional thoughts? Either way, tysm.
This is my first encounter of your video and I find it very interesting because I think I always mess things up in the middle by doing so much work and by imaging some scene with my SP almost everyday, it is crazy.
I’m glad I found you. I have been manifesting for awhile but you explain so well. I have listened to lots just as I’m going through my day and it helps keep positive and on the path. Love the mediation ones too. I constantly feel I am wearing a wedding ring so your piece about that gave me a boost. I often rub the ring and think of the end. Thank you for your calmness and positivity x
This is by far the best video on the topic. You explain this so clearly and at a pace where we can digest the information easily. This video has given me so much faith and optimism in my God given power. I am so excited to use it, and to see those seeds bear fruits! Thank you for this video, your work is amazing.
This is such a good video! For the marriage one, can you use the scene where you’re being proposed to or should you use a scene after proposal like the breakfast with wedding ring one you described? Thank you!
From what I understand, it’s preferable to use a scene after (so, more like the breakfast one she described) because this implies it has already happened, and is more likely to produce the feeling of it being normal and natural (rather than a scenario like a proposal which might carry more feelings of surprise, unexpectedness, etc., and therefore some disbelief to it).
Wow. Is it possible to change my scene? Mine was like 10, 15 minutes long LOL. I think of my SP 24/7. Thanks for the info on being obsessed. Great video. Just came across your channel. Love it.
Hi Missy, I had a question for you. Should manifestation be a one at a time type thing. I'm not trying for a SP. but I am interested in a lot of other things. Or can one imagine a whole life change in many different areas? Many different things? And if imagining many different things is alright, could you comment on how that would look to carry that out? TY!
The mirror universe/law of attraction is based on the belief that only one sentient being exists within his own bubble reality. If this is a universal mental truth then it isn't contingent upon my belief for it to work. Paradox so in other words whether or not I believe the law of attraction would work, it would STILL work regardless. If you share your reality with other sentient beings with a consciousness there is more than one consciousness. Do you think I can manifest a consciousness? lol Say for example there could be one person manifesting rain and another manifesting sunny weather, the resistant thought isn't coming from yourself but from another being. If the person wanting to manifest rainy weather was more dominant or had the more powerful mind then it would supersede or trump the other person manifesting sunny weather. Thus it would be rainy weather. In that sense it's not solipsism. Therefore the outer manifestation of what you are experiencing is the sum total as a collective whole from all individuals or a reflection of their own perceptions/beliefs/thought manifestation including your own. Collective consciousness. Would I be right in the above statements?
I've been meditating off and on for over 20 years along with breathwork and I've always had a fairly vivid imagination. So I can imagine scenes vividly with my SP to a point that all the emotions and feeling it real and from the end and all that are there. It's really quite a wonderful feeling. But like you described, once I'm out of meditation, going about my day, the old story creeps back and I fall into ruminating and being pulled back into depression again. The roller coaster has been going on for 3 months now since I discovered manifestation, 2 months after she broke up with me. So it's been 5 months NC and not a single sign of anything that looks like "movement" 🙃. I guess I'm a typical SP case in that I've binged watched hundreds of videos, I know all the jargon now, I've made hundreds of my own affirmations and scripted, visualized, and done inner conversations, etc. etc. I do breathwork (pranayams I learned from the Art of Living org as well as Wim Hoff) and have tried EFT tapping and guided meditations for nervous system regulation and trauma healing...and nothing. Just nothing. I still spiral regularly and feel a mountain of rejection and self loathing and all that. I don't know if it's my neurodivergence or just that my trauma is so deeply ingrained, but it's like nothing wants to stick. The "old man" simply refuses to die. He'll find the most unexpected, sneakiest ways to try to reinstate his dominance over my reality. It's like playing whack-a-mole. You finally start to get a hold on one recurring thought pattern and he's like, "OK, but did you think about _this_ ? What about _this_ ?" It's exhausting.
雙沖雙剋 MIRROR Principle Self Concept. It has to work out somehow....think about it. You manifest your own 'deathstar' (darkstar) but you can't die. (Don't use google translate for the Chinese characters above it doesn't come out right lol).
The abandonment issues must be the culprit with me....I find myself in a survival mode a good part of the time....there is a conditioning that I have been through whereas the women in my life were very dependent on men....(husbands, family members)....
Hi Missy my sp is a coworker. We became friends at work back in March. She mentioned that she had a boyfriend and in May I found out that she’s engaged. Kept persisting because circumstances don’t matter. Recently a friend of hers at work started talking about me liking her to other coworkers about are large age gap and that she’s engaged. My sp had not reached out to me on Facebook fora while, however last week she came to look for me to borrow my charger. That went pretty good. Just wondering how I can manifest her with all these negative circumstances.
Oh Missy! I wish I could understand this.....I am a loner....I meditate all day long....I've followed Neville, Alan Watts, and others.....but there's something I am not getting....I've been viewing you...
When I construct a scene it is a complete scenario because I get bored if I only imagine a 10s scene (my mind normally doesn’t wander, only to an view where I don‘t see him through my eyes but I also haven’t tried to only see through my eyes and not an outside perspective). Is that an problem?
One thing I want to know is a mental diet/inner conversation that matches my desire to be in a fun amazing loving relationship with my sp? I need examples. I see coaches say stuff like she this she that. But Neville says only one to change is self. Make it about you not them! How do I make it about myself to get my sp?
What Neville meant by “no one to change but self” is that the only way to change a situation is to stop focusing on external circumstances and instead go within imagination and feel yourself in your desired state, as the person you desire to be. You can’t change a situation through argument or outside force. All changes come from within. Now, that DOESN’T mean you have to ignore your SP or exclude her from your imaginal acts. Quite the opposite, actually. The point of mental diet/inner conversation (or any technique for that matter) is to identify yourself in imagination as the person you desire to be in your external reality. Change the inside, and you’ll change the outside. That’s how we manifest. So In this case, you actually DO want to include her in your imaginal scene because the ideal circumstance is a relationship with your SP. That said, ask yourself what kind of conversations would you be having with your person that would imply you have a fun, amazing, loving relationship? How does it make you feel? What would be your focus? What thoughts would be going through your mind? Use those answers to construct your mental diet/inner conversations. One suggestion would be a conversation between you and your SP while toasting your one year wedding anniversary. Or, create a mental dialogue between you and a close friend/family member where you’re telling them about how wonderful the relationship is with your SP. Hear the excitement in your friends voice as they tell you how happy they are for you, etc. Now if you are struggling with self-esteem and your concept of self, practice some self-love exercises. Meditate on your strengths, and show yourself the love and admiration you feel for your SP. Write a list of five to ten things you like about you. These can be anything from looks to aspects of your character, but note the things you like about yourself and marinate in that self-love. Set aside 10-15 min a day to bask in that love. As within, so without. Play around and find what works best for you, just don’t forget you are infinite and can manifest literally anything you want 😉
I have been going into the silence and imagining the feeling. When I do my body feels almost nervousness but in a good way and I almost feel teary eyed? I'm not looking for signs i know signs r what u make of them. Does the body experience i have mean anything?
@@jlstruyde yes. I've felt that too. What it means is that your subconscious mind is beginning to really 'connect' with your desired image of yourself as the one you want to be. Remember, your desire comes from your superconscious mind, which is connected to awareness - you are often 'given' a desire because it comes through the superconscious.
@Caitlyn why would I message someone from a RUclips comment and has nothing to do with the content that the comment is replying from... you and everyone else that do this really need to stop... thank you...
i definitely pushed out my ex. He left because he felt like he didn't make me happy. He said he loves me and misses me and that he still wants to be friends and will contact me in a month. I keep wondering if it's still possible to get him back and I feel like that is my underlying negative belief that is keeping me from being able to manifest. Do you have any tips?
Jillian Sainsbury obsessive thoughts can be about anything. They can be about your person, about you, or about other factors in your life. I made a video that goes more in depth about obsessive thoughts and how to break them, if you’re interested you can find it here: ruclips.net/video/yNE9ebQiMB0/видео.html Hope that helps!
. lol sorry, I meant in the case of SP, for example, would obsessive thoughts be the negative thoughts about him, or all thoughts about him in general? Thanks! :)
Jillian Sainsbury haha gotcha! Obsessive thoughts can be anything that acknowledge you lack or don’t have your desire. So they don’t have to be negative per se, but they usually don’t make you feel great and they imply that you do not have whatever it is that you are trying to manifest. ie. “I wish we could go back to when things were great between us” “I miss him/her” “Why hasn’t he/she texted me back?” “Things are always so hot and cold with them” Etc. Hope that makes sense 💜
Inclusion….imagine everyone you want and know and including you. Imagine someone telling you they love your company and will never leave you for example
In short, no. If you're going to the end AFTER you & SP are together that's not messing with the bridge. As long as you're not messing with the "how" it's going to happen and you're going to the end that's what counts 💜
What if we've broken up several times due to issues outside of him and I and he blocked my phone nimber after a horrible argument we had. I know we love each other so much but I have such anxiety that it is over for good this time We don't see each other so I don't understand how he could know things have changed drastically in the past 4 months with me. Any advice is much appreciated
You might want to watch a video missy has on Revision - were you would plan a scene where your argument never even happened, or you 'veered off from it.'
I didnt speak to or or hear from an SP for 8 months. Not one word, no text, nothing. Then all of a sudden out of the blue, he reached out to one of our mutual friends and told her he missed me, and to ask me if it was ok to call me. Basically, you have to let go to the outcome.
there is no "what if" certain things. hell they can have a restraining order against you and you can manifest them back. as missy has said in like every single one of her videos. circumstances don't matter.
Definitely not trying to manifest the one that treated me likke garbage and dumbed me off on the curb. Drove off in car i bought. He was not good for me. But i thought he was tf. He woke me up to get me ready for sp. My man is my wish fullfillment. 3rd party is cheating and leaving anyday 😂❤
Wathever who is theperson who trying to manifest ME I refuse ! I know why that video is on my feed and I know some guys work on it but it’s against my free Will, may this stop now.
Missy, I’ve been in this manifestation journey for 4 freaking months. Obviously started with an SP but it has progressed into so much more. Girl, I have watched it all. I mean ALL. You are hands down the best RUclipsr I have come across that actually explains things, is relatable and breaks everything down. Honestly, please don’t stop. Even though you may not have a million subs, you are seriously the most spot on in my experience. Truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!
Oh my goodness you are too kind! Thank you!! I’m thrilled to hear my videos have been so helpful for you! 🙏🏻💖
100% you are amazing! I appreciate you so much thank you from the bottom of my heart! 💓
Yes! Missy is the best ❤
Guys, this is real. I actually put this to the test like about a month ago? So what happened was I imagined a scene where I was with my SP and we were looking out to a view and I put my head on his shoulder. Long story short, about a week ago I realised that same scene played out however in a different way, instead of me putting my head on his shoulder, he did it to me. Unfortunately, I wasn’t specific with what I wanted so now I’m having to revise and create another scene. So be very specific and trust! It works! ❤️✨
Girl, the bit about obsessive thoughts signaling an underlying negative belief and changing your self identity hit me like a ton of bricks!!! I’ve heard this before but today it really resonated!!! Wow!! I’m tingling 😃😃😃
Shit you’re tingling ??? GURL …. IM JIGGLING….. & GIGGLING……..
Missy, I can't thank you ENOUGH for this video, specifically the part about obsessing. I have been actively manifesting my sp for MONTHS but haven't been able to shake off the obsessive thinking. You are the only person I have watched on RUclips who talks about this subject & it makes COMPLETE sense to me now. I have enormous fears of abandonment due to childhood and adulthood abuse that I have always been aware of but never knew how to get rid of it. You have inspired me to tackle this issue (and others). THANK YOU SO MUCH. Please don't ever stop doing what you're doing. Such a gem to this community! ox
Aww you are so welcome!!! This makes me so happy to hear that my videos have been helpful for you 💖 blessings to you on your journey!!
So did u and sp got together?
I do as well have the same abandonment issues. If I may ask, how did you tackle these issues? I know all about working on self concept in theory, but how does one conquer and deprogram years of cemented painful and negative assumptions embedded deep in our psyche? Affirmations? Revisions? I’ve done them all, but I still find myself not being able to fully embody the version of myself who is whole and without negative assumptions.
Not to worry MR. We, your loyal subscribers, will never abandon you, All joking aside, I'm sorry that you've experienced those things, but glad to know that you have it all cleared now. This was an awesome lesson, super detailed and well thought out. I can tell that you put a good bit of time and effort into it and I want you to know that I appreciated you. Thanks!
You're the sweetest, thank you for the thoughtful and kindhearted response! I appreciate it so much 😊 Blessings to you! 💖
I love your voice. It exudes intelligence and groundedness, rather than flakiness and delusion, like a lot of the manifestation people online. Thank you!
You are a true coach speaking from true experience and the ability to share your vulnerability. More coaches need to talk about your inner work. Anybody can manifest an SP if they truly want to, but what does it matter if once you receive it you're a shitshow underneath it all. I loved how you spoke of making sure not to manipulate the situation either. You spoke very direct and clear on what not to do. I could tell in your tone and slight giggle that you've done all the wrong things in your past and acknowleged it but have learned. This is true guidance because it's very easy to not only mess up your manifestations but also mess with your mental health. Thank you for your story and message today.
Absolute quality content without the fluffy bs. Thank you so much 🧡
You are so welcome ☺️💜
Wow!! I've watched this twice now and feel so much better, what an amazing lady
I’m so glad! Thank you! ♥️🌺
Thanks Missy. The way you teach us is so unique from the other coaches on youtube. I am learning a lot and thank you once again 🙏
This is brilliant one if the best videos that encompasses every possibility you may go through when manifesting an SP.
your voice is good for explaining this concept , thank u, not too fast , not too slow and calming effect, :))
Omgggggg I have watched a lot of manifesting videos but I haven't seen something that makes me feel soooo good.Thanks to you Missy love uu🥰🥰still waiting for my SP and I know that he is showing up❤️❤️🥰🥰🙏🙏
I love this, thank you so much for the kind words! I’m thrilled to help, keep persisting in the end and know it’s done. Blessings to you and SP! 💗🎉
Thank you so much Missy!! He's HERE!! Now I just have to let it play out and relax!! 😁❤️😘😇💯
This is in my opinion the best video on the subject. You explain it so easily and clearly. Thank you 😊
I can't find words to thank you enough Missy ♥️ you re the best coach I ve ever stumbled upon. I love all of your videos
You are too kind! Thank you so much! 🙏🏻💗🌺
I can't stop watching this video! Missy, given that this was a year ago, would you consider making a part 2 updated version, with any additional thoughts? Either way, tysm.
This is my first encounter of your video and I find it very interesting because I think I always mess things up in the middle by doing so much work and by imaging some scene with my SP almost everyday, it is crazy.
I’m glad I found you. I have been manifesting for awhile but you explain so well. I have listened to lots just as I’m going through my day and it helps keep positive and on the path. Love the mediation ones too. I constantly feel I am wearing a wedding ring so your piece about that gave me a boost. I often rub the ring and think of the end.
Thank you for your calmness and positivity x
@Bella Elma stop spamming
You're gifted as a teacher...keep it up! Isn't that wonderful?!
That sound of the rain 😍😍 love the video btw
Thank you! ☺️💜
This is by far the best video on the topic. You explain this so clearly and at a pace where we can digest the information easily. This video has given me so much faith and optimism in my God given power. I am so excited to use it, and to see those seeds bear fruits!
Thank you for this video, your work is amazing.
This video is gold! Thank you!
You’re so welcome! Glad you found it helpful ☺️💛
I love your long videos!! Your voice is soothing and I learn so much. Thanks!!
This is the best video about sp i sow. It's the 10 rh time I'm watching it
Girl . I watched the other video and said out loud everyone I incounter today will say what I'm thinking. Starting with you. Abandonment issues 😂😂❤❤❤
This is the best video I’ve ever seen about manifestation! Thank you so much!
Had to Comment ..You're the Best 💗💯
Thank you so much for your wonderful videos. ❤❤❤
I love how you explain everything in detail
You are the best!🎉❤
@@rozyg5221 aww thank you! I’m always happy to help 😊🩵
An awesome A TO Z INFO VIDEO OF MANIFESTATION ALONG WITH THE PITFALLS , thank you so much missy ❤🙏
What an amazing and shifting video ! 🙏
Thank you for being honest and you give the real details of manifesting that other gurus are hiding and lying about
Amazing video! Thank you Missy!
Love this video. You have explained it so simply.
Thank you for the kind words, lovely! I’m glad you enjoyed it ☺️❤️
A very helpful video.. You explain everything clearly! Thank you so much 🙏💕
I hope you know your channel is so helpful ❤❤❤
Missy. I'm new to your You Tube chanel. First of all what you say is absolutely true I totally believe it. Men you the best
Missy =🥰. Thank you , thank you ,thank you I really felt that actually
This was such a great video! 💗 thank you 🙏🏻
You are so welcome! I’m glad it resonated with you & you found it helpful 💖
Once again great video! Thank you
Oh wow I thought this today can you over ride limiting beliefs by doing an imaginal act and here you are clarifying it so cool thanks 😎😎
Absolutely! You are very welcome!
@@ManifestwithMissyRenee so awesome thanks 😊
Great video, thank you for the advice x
You are so welcome! ☺️
This is such a good video! For the marriage one, can you use the scene where you’re being proposed to or should you use a scene after proposal like the breakfast with wedding ring one you described? Thank you!
From what I understand, it’s preferable to use a scene after (so, more like the breakfast one she described) because this implies it has already happened, and is more likely to produce the feeling of it being normal and natural (rather than a scenario like a proposal which might carry more feelings of surprise, unexpectedness, etc., and therefore some disbelief to it).
Found you on RUclips recommendation and your it girl . Love your videos ! 🎉❤
Thank you so much! 🤗
I love this video, thank you so much
Love this. What would be a good visualisation to rid an abandonment wound and a not good enough wound? 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wow. Is it possible to change my scene? Mine was like 10, 15 minutes long LOL. I think of my SP 24/7. Thanks for the info on being obsessed. Great video. Just came across your channel. Love it.
Excellent vid. Thanks.
Love you missy!
Hi Missy, I had a question for you. Should manifestation be a one at a time type thing. I'm not trying for a SP. but I am interested in a lot of other things. Or can one imagine a whole life change in many different areas? Many different things? And if imagining many different things is alright, could you comment on how that would look to carry that out? TY!
Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge.
How did you fo all your revisions???
You are amazing .
Missy u r da best ❤
☺️💖🙏🏻
I wish you can make a video to
Let us know what does a specific person feel when you manifest him or her
Love you Missy! ❤
The mirror universe/law of attraction is based on the belief that only one sentient being exists within his own bubble reality.
If this is a universal mental truth then it isn't contingent upon my belief for it to work.
Paradox so in other words whether or not I believe the law of attraction would work, it would STILL work regardless.
If you share your reality with other sentient beings with a consciousness there is more than one consciousness.
Do you think I can manifest a consciousness? lol
Say for example there could be one person manifesting rain and another manifesting sunny weather, the resistant thought isn't coming from yourself but from another being.
If the person wanting to manifest rainy weather was more dominant or had the more powerful mind then it would supersede or trump the other person manifesting sunny weather.
Thus it would be rainy weather.
In that sense it's not solipsism.
Therefore the outer manifestation of what you are experiencing is the sum total as a collective whole from all individuals or a reflection of their own perceptions/beliefs/thought manifestation including your own. Collective consciousness.
Would I be right in the above statements?
I've been meditating off and on for over 20 years along with breathwork and I've always had a fairly vivid imagination. So I can imagine scenes vividly with my SP to a point that all the emotions and feeling it real and from the end and all that are there. It's really quite a wonderful feeling. But like you described, once I'm out of meditation, going about my day, the old story creeps back and I fall into ruminating and being pulled back into depression again. The roller coaster has been going on for 3 months now since I discovered manifestation, 2 months after she broke up with me. So it's been 5 months NC and not a single sign of anything that looks like "movement" 🙃. I guess I'm a typical SP case in that I've binged watched hundreds of videos, I know all the jargon now, I've made hundreds of my own affirmations and scripted, visualized, and done inner conversations, etc. etc. I do breathwork (pranayams I learned from the Art of Living org as well as Wim Hoff) and have tried EFT tapping and guided meditations for nervous system regulation and trauma healing...and nothing. Just nothing. I still spiral regularly and feel a mountain of rejection and self loathing and all that. I don't know if it's my neurodivergence or just that my trauma is so deeply ingrained, but it's like nothing wants to stick. The "old man" simply refuses to die. He'll find the most unexpected, sneakiest ways to try to reinstate his dominance over my reality. It's like playing whack-a-mole. You finally start to get a hold on one recurring thought pattern and he's like, "OK, but did you think about _this_ ? What about _this_ ?"
It's exhausting.
Amazing!!
LMAO... them hand movements got me real giddy after two mins... Left after three mins with an eyestrain.
Abandonment issue here...my mom drank herself to death when I was 12.
I'm so sorry. The same story here.
@@KamilaMajchrzak
I'm sorry for you too. I know all too well how that carries on through your life. It still affects me to this day.
THANK YOU!!!
based on our concept of self
Hi, Missy, can we change our affirmations in the process? 😚
Absolutely! 🩵
雙沖雙剋 MIRROR Principle Self Concept.
It has to work out somehow....think about it.
You manifest your own 'deathstar' (darkstar) but you can't die.
(Don't use google translate for the Chinese characters above it doesn't come out right lol).
Thanks for this.
My pleasure!
Do you believe manifesting is done by sheer fiat without any physical world effort?
The abandonment issues must be the culprit with me....I find myself in a survival mode a good part of the time....there is a conditioning that I have been through whereas the women in my life were very dependent on men....(husbands, family members)....
Hi Missy my sp is a coworker. We became friends at work back in March. She mentioned that she had a boyfriend and in May I found out that she’s engaged. Kept persisting because circumstances don’t matter. Recently a friend of hers at work started talking about me liking her to other coworkers about are large age gap and that she’s engaged. My sp had not reached out to me on Facebook fora while, however last week she came to look for me to borrow my charger. That went pretty good. Just wondering how I can manifest her with all these negative circumstances.
Oh Missy! I wish I could understand this.....I am a loner....I meditate all day long....I've followed Neville, Alan Watts, and others.....but there's something I am not getting....I've been viewing you...
Im currently in no contact with my husband...unable to manifest
"...You rip that fucker out"
Once the vision is impressed and we feel it real should we persist in the thought the next night/morning?
It always gets worse before it gets better right?
I realized I have difficulties visualizing from the first person. It s way easier when I imagine watching a film. Any tips?
When I construct a scene it is a complete scenario because I get bored if I only imagine a 10s scene (my mind normally doesn’t wander, only to an view where I don‘t see him through my eyes but I also haven’t tried to only see through my eyes and not an outside perspective). Is that an problem?
What about if you dont know the person, but the kind of person you want?
What if you work with them?
It's really difficult to not check 3d
One thing I want to know is a mental diet/inner conversation that matches my desire to be in a fun amazing loving relationship with my sp? I need examples. I see coaches say stuff like she this she that. But Neville says only one to change is self. Make it about you not them! How do I make it about myself to get my sp?
What Neville meant by “no one to change but self” is that the only way to change a situation is to stop focusing on external circumstances and instead go within imagination and feel yourself in your desired state, as the person you desire to be. You can’t change a situation through argument or outside force. All changes come from within.
Now, that DOESN’T mean you have to ignore your SP or exclude her from your imaginal acts. Quite the opposite, actually. The point of mental diet/inner conversation (or any technique for that matter) is to identify yourself in imagination as the person you desire to be in your external reality. Change the inside, and you’ll change the outside. That’s how we manifest.
So In this case, you actually DO want to include her in your imaginal scene because the ideal circumstance is a relationship with your SP.
That said, ask yourself what kind of conversations would you be having with your person that would imply you have a fun, amazing, loving relationship? How does it make you feel? What would be your focus? What thoughts would be going through your mind? Use those answers to construct your mental diet/inner conversations.
One suggestion would be a conversation between you and your SP while toasting your one year wedding anniversary. Or, create a mental dialogue between you and a close friend/family member where you’re telling them about how wonderful the relationship is with your SP. Hear the excitement in your friends voice as they tell you how happy they are for you, etc.
Now if you are struggling with self-esteem and your concept of self, practice some self-love exercises. Meditate on your strengths, and show yourself the love and admiration you feel for your SP. Write a list of five to ten things you like about you. These can be anything from looks to aspects of your character, but note the things you like about yourself and marinate in that self-love. Set aside 10-15 min a day to bask in that love. As within, so without.
Play around and find what works best for you, just don’t forget you are infinite and can manifest literally anything you want 😉
I have been going into the silence and imagining the feeling. When I do my body feels almost nervousness but in a good way and I almost feel teary eyed? I'm not looking for signs i know signs r what u make of them. Does the body experience i have mean anything?
@@jlstruyde yes. I've felt that too. What it means is that your subconscious mind is beginning to really 'connect' with your desired image of yourself as the one you want to be. Remember, your desire comes from your superconscious mind, which is connected to awareness - you are often 'given' a desire because it comes through the superconscious.
@Caitlyn why would I message someone from a RUclips comment and has nothing to do with the content that the comment is replying from... you and everyone else that do this really need to stop... thank you...
Hmmm Lamore lmao. That was good. LoL
You are appreciated. Know this.
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How to change our old assumptions?
Your so good k do this stuff so good
i definitely pushed out my ex. He left because he felt like he didn't make me happy. He said he loves me and misses me and that he still wants to be friends and will contact me in a month. I keep wondering if it's still possible to get him back and I feel like that is my underlying negative belief that is keeping me from being able to manifest. Do you have any tips?
everything is possible… you just have to change your self concept.
How to "do the inner work"?
Are obsessive thoughts just the bad thoughts about the person, or all thoughts?
Jillian Sainsbury obsessive thoughts can be about anything. They can be about your person, about you, or about other factors in your life.
I made a video that goes more in depth about obsessive thoughts and how to break them, if you’re interested you can find it here:
ruclips.net/video/yNE9ebQiMB0/видео.html
Hope that helps!
. lol sorry, I meant in the case of SP, for example, would obsessive thoughts be the negative thoughts about him, or all thoughts about him in general? Thanks! :)
Jillian Sainsbury haha gotcha! Obsessive thoughts can be anything that acknowledge you lack or don’t have your desire. So they don’t have to be negative per se, but they usually don’t make you feel great and they imply that you do not have whatever it is that you are trying to manifest.
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“I wish we could go back to when things were great between us”
“I miss him/her”
“Why hasn’t he/she texted me back?”
“Things are always so hot and cold with them”
Etc.
Hope that makes sense 💜
What’s the opposite of abandonment? How do we visualize that?
Inclusion….imagine everyone you want and know and including you. Imagine someone telling you they love your company and will never leave you for example
Awesome
I’m wanting to unlock me
Would imagining different scenes (with same end - like the two of you together in different scenarios) be messing with the bridge of incidents?
In short, no. If you're going to the end AFTER you & SP are together that's not messing with the bridge. As long as you're not messing with the "how" it's going to happen and you're going to the end that's what counts 💜
What if we've broken up several times due to issues outside of him and I and he blocked my phone nimber after a horrible argument we had. I know we love each other so much but I have such anxiety that it is over for good this time We don't see each other so I don't understand how he could know things have changed drastically in the past 4 months with me. Any advice is much appreciated
You might want to watch a video missy has on Revision - were you would plan a scene where your argument never even happened, or you 'veered off from it.'
I didnt speak to or or hear from an SP for 8 months. Not one word, no text, nothing. Then all of a sudden out of the blue, he reached out to one of our mutual friends and told her he missed me, and to ask me if it was ok to call me. Basically, you have to let go to the outcome.
there is no "what if" certain things. hell they can have a restraining order against you and you can manifest them back. as missy has said in like every single one of her videos. circumstances don't matter.
What are you trying to do today
You're good DOING this
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Definitely not trying to manifest the one that treated me likke garbage and dumbed me off on the curb. Drove off in car i bought. He was not good for me. But i thought he was tf. He woke me up to get me ready for sp. My man is my wish fullfillment. 3rd party is cheating and leaving anyday 😂❤
Wathever who is theperson who trying to manifest ME I refuse ! I know why that video is on my feed and I know some guys work on it but it’s against my free Will, may this stop now.
Ps : nothing against you Missy
Believe it or not but this is you manifesting those guys wanting you! Everyone is you pushed out.
wow this is crazy
How are they a reflection of me if they are an avoidant & have trauma/past??
My assumptions have been based on fear/rejection i do agree to that.
Oh now I know I need to stop thinking about him all day because every time I keep thinking of him i imagine bad things
Is it ok if I think positively about my sp? While weighting?
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You say free will isn't real, so who's will is doing the manifesting? Who's will chose to watch this video if not mine?