Finally the man tells his mother the truth that it is he who is jobless,and all the tension between them goes away as the exhaust fan is shown moving(just like hot air goes away through an exhaust fan).
I think the message goes like this. The story started with the problem of the exhaust fan. Accordingly, the main problem of the couple was not the joblessness, but the lies that they made to their parents. As soon as he spoke the truth, the burden vanished, that became symbolic in the re-functioning of the exhaust fan.
This is my story, and we have not told our parents yet. I have not got a permanent job for last four years. My wife earns and and I manage household work. We dont have a maid or cook. Our parents visit us and stay for one or two months. Those are very tough days because we lie to our parents looking right into their eyes. My wife thinks parents are so conservative, especially hers, that they will not be able to digest the truth. I dont know our ending yet. But I will surely post on this video once we untangle everything. Thanks for the video, I will cry the whole night without my wife realizing.
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Ends means, Husband is handling the home stuffs but even the exhaust fan is repaired by her Wife. Lady is perfect in house hold and office work as well.
you must know the feeling, no doubt women have more humor than men, you will learn in ahead in your life. Still some doubt, try to learn your mother from you child day till date.
I see the females gloating about this. Not every female is that perfect as it is shown here and at the same time not every male is as bad. But as a female you don’t understand the mental torture males going through for not having a job. Again just an FYI my wife is hardworking and spends every minute of her time at work. She is good in some things and I am good in other things. On this story he is not able to fix the electricity due to the pressure he is going through in his mind.
The end justifies who truly deserves nariyal ke laddu more than the son for whom the mother gets them so lovingly. Good movie on breaking gender stereotypes.
Good to see this, justified the jobless frustrated husband, and is always the positive wife. and the mother is well narrated. hats off the script and directors.
Naariyal ke ladoo is a metaphor used to indicate importance of feminine energy in maintaining harmony in relationship and for gaining success in career, job, improving flow of money in and maintaining good health. Sadhguruji has beautifully explained in following lines: It is very essential that we celebrate the feminine. This is not about woman, this is about the feminine energy. If you want to use an analogy, if you call the root the masculine, the flower and the fruit is feminine. The very purpose of the root is to bring the flower and the fruit. If that does not happen, the root will go waste. Survival by itself does not take care of everything. After that, the finer things in life have to happen to you. If the feminine does not become alive in you, whether you are a man or a woman, the finer things in life will never happen to you. All your life, you will only think survival - endlessly survival. You will only make survival increasingly difficult. This is the very nature of the masculine. The masculine is always about conquering something. The feminine is not about conquest. The feminine is about flowering, relaxing, and living, not about getting. This shift has to happen.
@@स्नेहल-ज2घ This is not done. I don't know if you have anything personally against Mr. Pradip Phadtare but making such brash comment against a whole community is wrong. Such acts bring the NRC and CAA.
The ending is not abrupt. The function of an exhaust fan is to clear the air and prevent suffocation. Since the guy told his mother the truth, the exhaust fan also worked at the same time thus, signifying that the suffocation due to their lie is not a burden for them anymore.
You must understand that this mom's sole achievement in life may have been giving birth to her raja beta. Now he is jobless and a househusband, no better than a girl (orthodox thinking) and the bahu is earning. So the mother's whole achievement at giving birth to son in the hope that he will be a kamau beta is gone. Typical mothers of sons get enormous pride and power from the salary of the sons. Woh bhi gaya. No wonder she confesses a lie would be better.
The husband's frustration is natural, for as shown even his Mom can't understand his predicament... but he is at least trying to step up into his new role. His wife is amazing. She keeps up pretenses in front of her MIL, plus she speeds up her office day and gets electrician (n adrak :))... A nice slice of life story. N as far as the Mom's attitude, this is the reason why our country isn't progressing. Women n esp moms of sons are the ones who oppose the changed roles.
but... tell me one thing is it really needed... him to be a house husbans & live on his wife money.... just to break stereo type thing... he can try for job... do You really want a house husband... I dont think its a good idea... for every men.... what if he comes into a situation where he has to given a medical support to his parents & if his wife refuse to help... so it is not a good idea to be dependant... and it apply on both men and women... and fun fact is no women want a jobless bridegroom....
The message is that as they kept thinking that the fan was faulty but actually the wire was faulty. Same was the case in their lives, they were thinking that the problem is man's joblesness but actually the problem was that they hide the truth from their parents.
A women knows a women well....when boy's mom says "mein 2-3 din ke liye hi toh aayi thi jhoot hi bol deta" prooves that wife was right from the very begining!!!!!
They just reversed roles of husband wife. Here husband creates drama, wife is acceting happy n does everything on her own. Husband barely does anything. Even kitchen work she is doing. Pavam. Real life.
That's how sons are.. They claim. They love their mothers but some things like repairing an exhaust fan so that the mother doesn't get suffocated in the house for those three days won't strike.. But they want their mom to be comfortable and be respected.. When they are totally oblivious to basic needs of their mothers
In time, the mother will come to terms with it. I think it's good that the son himself told his mother the truth. If she'd come to know the truth from someone else(including the wife), it'd have been very hurtful for the mother. And after all, it's not like the son is not trying to land a job. If he has any qualifications at all, sooner or later he'll be able to find a job that he's good at.
All those who have not understood end is that Guys are so spoiled , can not see their partners happy. Even then, she is so good to his mother and trying to make her happy by telling lie.
Though job holder Wife pretends to be a home maker before mother in law and get electrician to fix exhaust fan whereas husband is jobless and couldnot do household things properly and always forgot to fix exhaust fan
No, generally household problems related to electricity or plumbing is considered a man's job to fix. But here the woman takes care of it as well as also makes money ( which is also considered a man's job) while the man here does all the stuff which is generally considers is a woman's job like cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. It's all about breaking gender roles. I really liked the concept but there was no clarity in the story neither did it reach to any conclusion or maybe I just didn't get it.
Well, all acted good. It could be good if a story could be bit extended where Mom finally accept the role reversal realizing the 'need of time'. Indian society is Patriarchal and specially when males are taught that females should only do household stuffs, it's natural to not accept changes otherwise.
'Exhaust Fan abtak teek nahi hua hai'.... husband seems humbly (you understand the frustration) reply shaam Tak teek karudoonga.. immediately changes the topic. yes I too was jobless after corona. I understand the situation of this character. However, nothing is permanent even joblessness. Things do change. Cooperative and collaborative better half would make a biggg difference in life at times of trying situations.
Women can manage everything nicely..it is in their jene...men can try their best with honesty..but cannot reach to that level...but we should appreciate their struggle ...😊
The Fan was ok it was just needed new wire which means relationship just needed a someone elder in their house who can encourage them to make their life better and naryal k lado is a symbol of happiness
Finally the man tells his mother the truth that it is he who is jobless,and all the tension between them goes away as the exhaust fan is shown moving(just like hot air goes away through an exhaust fan).
Very thoughtful analysis
Wowwwwww 😀
I think the message goes like this. The story started with the problem of the exhaust fan. Accordingly, the main problem of the couple was not the joblessness, but the lies that they made to their parents. As soon as he spoke the truth, the burden vanished, that became symbolic in the re-functioning of the exhaust fan.
I think this is the perfect explanation of the movie. 👍🏻
Good explanation...Life goes on this way..
Very good explanation
Very well explained I wasn't understanding it but you made clear
@@harishtakkar311 oldindianmovie
I was here for recipe of nariyal k ladoo but ended up watching this short film😂❤️
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Haha..funny
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LOL now that was funny
This is my story, and we have not told our parents yet. I have not got a permanent job for last four years. My wife earns and and I manage household work. We dont have a maid or cook. Our parents visit us and stay for one or two months. Those are very tough days because we lie to our parents looking right into their eyes. My wife thinks parents are so conservative, especially hers, that they will not be able to digest the truth. I dont know our ending yet. But I will surely post on this video once we untangle everything. Thanks for the video, I will cry the whole night without my wife realizing.
try online work at home jobs....
when ur parents come home u can always go to a cafe and still work
That's not sad and you shouldn't be sad but positive and keep trying you will surely get job soon... Best of luck 😊
You two are examples of a great partnership/companionship/relationship called marriage. All the best! 🙂
Edit : As Cyma said, stay positive!!
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Ends means, Husband is handling the home stuffs but even the exhaust fan is repaired by her Wife. Lady is perfect in house hold and office work as well.
Anshul Shhh reality hurts. Let's face it. Women are multi tasker. Guys have been enjoying gender defined privileges.
you must know the feeling, no doubt women have more humor than men, you will learn in ahead in your life. Still some doubt, try to learn your mother from you child day till date.
You stunner!!!! Even I, being a woman, couldn't think of this conclusion!!! HaHaHaHa......
* by his wife
I see the females gloating about this. Not every female is that perfect as it is shown here and at the same time not every male is as bad. But as a female you don’t understand the mental torture males going through for not having a job. Again just an FYI my wife is hardworking and spends every minute of her time at work. She is good in some things and I am good in other things. On this story he is not able to fix the electricity due to the pressure he is going through in his mind.
The end justifies who truly deserves nariyal ke laddu more than the son for whom the mother gets them so lovingly. Good movie on breaking gender stereotypes.
Good to see this, justified the jobless frustrated husband, and is always the positive wife. and the mother is well narrated. hats off the script and directors.
Seemaji is a very versatile actress. Thoroughly enjoyed this short story.
I love seema pahwa..One of the finest actor in Indian Cinema..Just loved her...
Yes, Specially her role in Dum Laga ke haisha as Sandhya's ( Bhumi) mother..
yup and in bareilly ki barfi she is tooo adorable
Naariyal ke ladoo is a metaphor used to indicate importance of feminine energy in maintaining harmony in relationship and for gaining success in career, job, improving flow of money in and maintaining good health. Sadhguruji has beautifully explained in following lines: It is very essential that we celebrate the feminine. This is not about woman, this is about the feminine energy. If you want to use an analogy, if you call the root the masculine, the flower and the fruit is feminine. The very purpose of the root is to bring the flower and the fruit. If that does not happen, the root will go waste. Survival by itself does not take care of everything. After that, the finer things in life have to happen to you.
If the feminine does not become alive in you, whether you are a man or a woman, the finer things in life will never happen to you. All your life, you will only think survival - endlessly survival. You will only make survival increasingly difficult. This is the very nature of the masculine. The masculine is always about conquering something. The feminine is not about conquest. The feminine is about flowering, relaxing, and living, not about getting. This shift has to happen.
That's a beautiful explanation!!
Sayari Bhattacharya Thank you
Sheelkumar Pal k.n
Amazing thought
Pal u r Christian u people should not follow Sadhguru
The Mom acted so well .. absolutely natural
this belongs to me and my husband as well. but we don't have to tell lie. everyone is proud of me and I m also proud of my husband.
Saya, please pray for me and my fiance that we could get married soon... You are lucky... May God bless you
Women all are selfish
Pradip Phadtare yeah bro
@@स्नेहल-ज2घ This is not done. I don't know if you have anything personally against Mr. Pradip Phadtare but making such brash comment against a whole community is wrong. Such acts bring the NRC and CAA.
Excellent.. end of the day it’s the happiness of the family that’s more important than any ego.. love ❤️
Iska Naam "nariyal k Ladoo" ni ..."exhaust fan" hona chiye tha ... 😂😂😂
sonu verma 🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🤭😅😂😂
Han... Sahi kaha... 😂
Correct 💯
Mujhe bhi yehi laga
The ending is not abrupt.
The function of an exhaust fan is to clear the air and prevent suffocation.
Since the guy told his mother the truth,
the exhaust fan also worked at the same time thus, signifying that the suffocation due to their lie is not a burden for them anymore.
Wow
Seema Pahwa ( mother ) is a all time nice actor..
Nariyal ki laddu is my favorite but 😭😭😭miss you father 😭😭
5:30
I was using an earphone and when he abruptly threw away the glass......Darr hi gaya tha mai to
me too.. I was also shocked in the same scene
Same here😝😝
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Thanks mujhhe heart attack bachane k lie🥺😂😂
This is how you treat your mom who comes so far to see you
All the problems lies in society's "jhoot hi bol deta" thinking
Why? Why he needs to lie? Why can't u accept them the way they are?
You must understand that this mom's sole achievement in life may have been giving birth to her raja beta. Now he is jobless and a househusband, no better than a girl (orthodox thinking) and the bahu is earning. So the mother's whole achievement at giving birth to son in the hope that he will be a kamau beta is gone. Typical mothers of sons get enormous pride and power from the salary of the sons. Woh bhi gaya. No wonder she confesses a lie would be better.
@@sulaganabiswas correct
Mother's acting is so natural ❤️
I like when everything on screen is shown with real problems and incidents daily faced by comman people.
Agar main comments nhi padhta to, story mere sir k ooper se nikal jaati 😌
The message is delivered without showing what's the obvious. Excellent performances by Akhil, Cherry and Seema. Congrats & thanks, Vivek Soni
The husband's frustration is natural, for as shown even his Mom can't understand his predicament... but he is at least trying to step up into his new role. His wife is amazing. She keeps up pretenses in front of her MIL, plus she speeds up her office day and gets electrician (n adrak :))... A nice slice of life story. N as far as the Mom's attitude, this is the reason why our country isn't progressing. Women n esp moms of sons are the ones who oppose the changed roles.
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but seeing her daughter in law lie for her son and never make him feel small was something she was proud of
but... tell me one thing is it really needed... him to be a house husbans & live on his wife money....
just to break stereo type thing...
he can try for job...
do You really want a house husband...
I dont think its a good idea... for every men.... what if he comes into a situation where he has to given a medical support to his parents & if his wife refuse to help... so it is not a good idea to be dependant... and it apply on both men and women...
and fun fact is no women want a jobless bridegroom....
She kept the respect of her husband in front of his mom
Mumy ji is the heroine of India’s first serial Hum Log, her acting is always so natural 😍
The message is that as they kept thinking that the fan was faulty but actually the wire was faulty. Same was the case in their lives, they were thinking that the problem is man's joblesness but actually the problem was that they hide the truth from their parents.
A women knows a women well....when boy's mom says "mein 2-3 din ke liye hi toh aayi thi jhoot hi bol deta" prooves that wife was right from the very begining!!!!!
Exactly
Mgr esa vo kya glt krr raha tha jo jhoot bolna pre?? Mtlb ye story keh rhi he ki norrow thinking ko mtt bdlo mgr chup reh jao.. Jai ho..
Moly Gold >> you made me understand the idea of the story
We shouldn't lie, even if it is not pleasant, tell the truth. Goor Relationships are built on truth.👍🏽
Superb storyline @Vivek sir…hats off to you.👏👏👏…still remember your direction for drama during our college days.❤️❤️❤️
They just reversed roles of husband wife. Here husband creates drama, wife is acceting happy n does everything on her own. Husband barely does anything. Even kitchen work she is doing. Pavam. Real life.
That's how sons are.. They claim. They love their mothers but some things like repairing an exhaust fan so that the mother doesn't get suffocated in the house for those three days won't strike.. But they want their mom to be comfortable and be respected.. When they are totally oblivious to basic needs of their mothers
The Perfect title would be... Hum or Humara Exhaust Fan
Maa to maa hoti hai.
This movie presents many concepts of life but the concept of mother touches my heart.
Hats off to the acting of Mother in law ✨
Seema Pahwa...Amazing actor!
😂😂😂 superb movie..Exhaust fan bigad gaya hai, hall mein dhua ho raha hai...Nariyel ke ladoo..😅
Guy ki acting bohut natural hai...great job
In time, the mother will come to terms with it.
I think it's good that the son himself told his mother the truth. If she'd come to know the truth from someone else(including the wife), it'd have been very hurtful for the mother. And after all, it's not like the son is not trying to land a job. If he has any qualifications at all, sooner or later he'll be able to find a job that he's good at.
Love to watch seema pahwa again and again
All those who have not understood end is that Guys are so spoiled , can not see their partners happy. Even then, she is so good to his mother and trying to make her happy by telling lie.
i bet your dad was the same
Sach bolne wala vykti..khush rahta hai...n nirbhik bhi...
Lady is perfect for everything she is oll rounder😊❤
The boy is brave here, atleast he accepted...but later the awkward situation he slips into...is funny..!!
Never tell a lie...whatever the situation is.
That fighting....jug mere ghar s aaya hai....katori mere ghar se aayi h...chammach mere ghar se aayi h😂😂😂😂
Badki of Humlog . Good to see her
Maa ka dil bahut bada hota hai wo apne bachho se bahut payar karti hai , hum bachhe hi kahan samjh pate hai or nahi unko payar de pate hai.
that fight was too realistic btw
Chamach stand mere Ghar se aaya hai 😍😍😍😍😍
13:56 best situation and dialogue
Mom is the Badki character we used to watch in 80’s... from Hum Log or Buniyaad ???
Good acting. Good direction. The director is capable of making a full length film. He has a grip on things.
Real nature of a Husband if he is not satisfy with his work or if he is unemployed...
Very nice film👌👌👌👍😘
Suberb 👌
Such amazing shorts easily beat several mainstream Bollywood movies.
Something new.. Thanks for making such a good web film...And the couple fighting was so cute...
Though job holder Wife pretends to be a home maker before mother in law and get electrician to fix exhaust fan whereas husband is jobless and couldnot do household things properly and always forgot to fix exhaust fan
sandhya reddy unbalanced opinion
No, generally household problems related to electricity or plumbing is considered a man's job to fix. But here the woman takes care of it as well as also makes money ( which is also considered a man's job) while the man here does all the stuff which is generally considers is a woman's job like cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. It's all about breaking gender roles. I really liked the concept but there was no clarity in the story neither did it reach to any conclusion or maybe I just didn't get it.
@@cuteangel6338 x
Sandhya Reddy you are an ediot
Seema Pahwa, i love her acting🥰
superb.great story telling. great message.
So beautiful and natural ❤
Well, all acted good.
It could be good if a story could be bit extended where Mom finally accept the role reversal realizing the 'need of time'.
Indian society is Patriarchal and specially when males are taught that females should only do household stuffs, it's natural to not accept changes otherwise.
For role reversal..That kind of upbringing is required. Suddenly we can't accept the change in roles
Esa kyu nhi ho sakta?... is soch ko ab badlna hi hoga💪
The fight tho. So real
I don't think ki aise aap bhi ladai karti hongi.😅
GIRL' S CAN BE BARE THEIR DAD'S POVERTY. IT'S NOT A OPTION. BUT THEY CAN'T BARE THEIR HUSBAND . IT'S HER CHOICE.😮
A mans whole identity is his job!! It must be incredibly frustrating to not have one.
Nice , very good
Love all of the short films.....just wish there were English subtitles
Both partner are equal importance in the journey of life.
Simple but impressive 😊
All the actors have done a great job 👌👍👌👍
Only "She " have power to leave their home and make someone else house home,,,,
We should respect Women
'Exhaust Fan abtak teek nahi hua hai'.... husband seems humbly (you understand the frustration) reply shaam Tak teek karudoonga.. immediately changes the topic. yes I too was jobless after corona. I understand the situation of this character. However, nothing is permanent even joblessness. Things do change. Cooperative and collaborative better half would make a biggg difference in life at times of trying situations.
Achi Hai Very Nice Film
Mummy is looking so sweet😍
She is indeed a natural actress.
Ladies r perfect to handle any situation
Extremely good acting by seema pahwa..real
film name should be 'exhaust fan'
Rjendra Kumar
Perfect idea. Exhausted fan😂😂
Rjendra Kumar
Hahahahha arreee kya bhai
Rjendra Kumar same thought 😂😂😂😂😂
Rjendra Kumar es
@@deeptishrivastava1810 sorry?
Seema ma'am ... ❤️❤️❤️ What an actress
Nice .... short film...respect for such womens
Watched this for Seema Pahwa. Lovely.
Mommy.. Great actress 💖💖💖
Perfect direction
Women can manage everything nicely..it is in their jene...men can try their best with honesty..but cannot reach to that level...but we should appreciate their struggle ...😊
What do mean man can't be perfect???
Hypocrites.....
Really a good concept breaking the stereotype and not having the ending makes it more realistic as it is left for us to perceive differently👌👏👏
One of my all times favourite short movie
I am at 8:17 but I know story comments padh kr hi samajh aayegi😂😂😁
Good film 👌👍 .
Seema ma'am superb
Nice performance some film don't tell story or ending some film say about situations of life... So this film is all about them...
The Fan was ok it was just needed new wire which means relationship just needed a someone elder in their house who can encourage them to make their life better and naryal k lado is a symbol of happiness
Ek number short hai ye..
In life this type of circumstance comes!
It is transient
The acting by all three actors is so natural.
The couple fighting was so cute
loved it. great story, great direction and brilliant acting!!!
Super👌👌👌
Ladka bada cute h💋💋😘❤️❤️😍😍😍
Aunty did superb acting 👌
अच्छा है ना ! एक जन काम करे, एक घर संभाले। उसमे नाराजगी किस बात की ? नो gender bias at ऑल !👌
Love this .. Can you make more of this ? All the actors acted so will as of I m watching them in real 😍
True That
I felt the same, especially that MOM, she acted so Well....like a real life Mummy Ji...
Great Performances. didn't get the ending but overall experience superb.Seema bhargav and both new actors great!
why to keep such husband in life when she is successful ? I don't think it's practically possible.