Keep Talking: Reasoning with Unreasonable People

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

Комментарии • 26

  • @kjbrocky
    @kjbrocky 7 лет назад +16

    Excellent, thank you. I've been married to someone like this for over 30 years and I have severe ptsd, anxiety and depression because of it. I always forgive and think he will realize how harmful he can be. The raging and verbal abuse just keeps coming out of left field. I'm too loving and merciful and see the good in him. How do I leave? I'm scared. I've invested so much and do love him, but I can't take anymore insanity.

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    • @Sky_Star-hq6bx
      @Sky_Star-hq6bx 2 года назад +2

      Please, go to Dr. Ramani Durversula youtube. She is a fantastic resource for dealing with these people

    • @cindylfosterbeckmanclark1623
      @cindylfosterbeckmanclark1623 2 года назад +2

      I know that feeling so well and don't have any one to talk to about it

  • @carolwhelihan1514
    @carolwhelihan1514 3 года назад +7

    My ex husband felt he didn't have to follow rules. At least the ones where he had a good chance of not being caught. fake handicapped sign, excessive speeding (speeds up to 90 -95 miles an hour with his young children in the car; pathological lying, cheating, breaking into my home; stalking, bullying people physically weaker than him and many more. In marriage therapy, however, he was charming and acted in a perfect manner. Charmed the female therapist that I was the "overly sensitive one" and couldn't take a joke regarding his verbal abuse. I thought I was the crazy one by the time we separated.

  • @MyrtleMumian
    @MyrtleMumian 4 года назад +3

    Beautiful! So beautiful! Thank you so much for the amazing work that you do to advocate for mental health❤️❤️❤️

  • @smartfone231
    @smartfone231 2 года назад +1

    Fantastic. This has changed my life. Thank you

  • @ryban1001
    @ryban1001 3 года назад +1

    This discussion is filled with a-ha moments on so many levels. Thank you!

  • @buddha108bliss
    @buddha108bliss 2 года назад +1

    What an excellent presentation.

  • @BJ-fj6jw
    @BJ-fj6jw 2 года назад

    21:20 Dr. Shannon gives the 5 universal strategies in dealing with unreasonable people. Highly recommended you not skip this part!

  • @BrandonHortman
    @BrandonHortman 3 года назад +2

    Thank you

    • @v.dargain1678
      @v.dargain1678 3 года назад

      Dr. Shannon touched on a few subjects that I would like to discuss more extensively with my own psychotherapist . Thanks

  • @SandroSensei
    @SandroSensei 3 года назад +1

    Wauw, this was eye-opening.

  • @peterharris6604
    @peterharris6604 Год назад

    Thanks.

  • @djw8591
    @djw8591 3 года назад +1

    Quite powerful!!

  • @marymorrow-bax9253
    @marymorrow-bax9253 6 лет назад +2

    I appreciate finding this session. I was so impressed that I plan to attend the upcoming program with Dr. Shannon here in the Washington DC area on October 25.

  • @v.dargain1678
    @v.dargain1678 3 года назад +1

    Touchè toxic people ! There is help managing your kind .
    Good to know .

  • @x7video
    @x7video 4 года назад

    Who is the woman?

  • @flawedplan
    @flawedplan 5 лет назад +3

    WOW. Standing ovation.

  • @Exploratorium360
    @Exploratorium360 2 года назад

    It tooks me 8 years to figure out that you can't change a mental ill person my ex... i mean i wasn't try to change her i was trying help her but you can't ! They ver unpredictable, dangerous & aggressive people
    Period.
    It's tough and you pay a price for nothing !

  • @Exploratorium360
    @Exploratorium360 2 года назад

    I just subscribed

  • @ShimmerBodyCream
    @ShimmerBodyCream 2 года назад +2

    This sounds too accusatory and discounting of people with trauma.

  • @KezDaniel2010
    @KezDaniel2010 6 лет назад +5

    sadly generalised and the empathy seems acted out and not genuine, towards bpd patients... exactly why people with bpd dont easily go to therapy. ofcourse therapy is intended to be a safe place in order to deal with issues honestly, but already one is judged in this very "safe" place... what an unhelpful cycle the therapist helps to set up...

    • @erwinlinke8997
      @erwinlinke8997 4 года назад +2

      Hm, I don't see it this way.
      How would you compose a program of ~30 minutes to cover this topic?
      Some bullet points would be enough, I don't expect a fully fleshed out script ^^

    • @v.dargain1678
      @v.dargain1678 3 года назад +2

      @@erwinlinke8997 I don't quite see it that way either . The problem has to be identified before it can be managed .