Story 2: That isn't blackmail. He didn't say "do something or I will tell your partner." He said, "I have this information and no matter what you do, I will tell your partner. Do with that what you will."
I really don't agree with this"don't look in your partner's phone" when they're cheating. Just gives you clarity about your own life, it's totally justified.
If I'm not cheating, i want my S.O. to see that. The way to see that is looking through my phone. If you're in a relationship i don't see why he phone is off limits. If I'm letting you inside my body, then you can go through my phone. And it should be vice verse. If someone going through you're phone is something bad to you then maybe you're not ready for the commitment of a relationship @Rezzyeloizee
@@Rezzyeloizee i don't understand this logic. So I can let you inside my body to do the most intimate things but we can't go through each other's phone?? If I got nothing to hide from my partner and I want then to trust me, they're always welcome to go through my phone. To me if you don't want me to go through your phone (after beginning a serious relationship) that's a red flag and we don't need to be together. Those people maybe should stay single so their phone can be off limits to everyone. Idk... maybe that's just me though
I find the phone privacy mentality ridiculous. You're in my bed, in my body, but a phone is where you draw the line?! I'll never understand the logic of being able to share your bodies but not your phones. My husband and I have never been private about our phones. I can even answer calls and messages for him while he's busy, and vice versa. We know each other's passwords. That's true trust in a serious relationship.
From someone who grew up with parents who should've divorced year ago, it's worse to stay Together for the kid. Eventually one or both parents will just start resenting the kid and not just the other spouse after all the is the reason they have to stay together. Trust me is a million times worse to stay for the kid. "The kid deserves for you to try" that's one of the most ignorant comments I've heard in one of these videos 😊
38:36 - "in a Godly way". That's the thing. That's why they're on OPs case. They feel people who go child-free are a problem, selfish, and ungodly and it's your holy duty to procreate, even if you aren't in the position emotionally, financially, or mentally to be a parent. If the ex didn't want kids, they would have probably labeled her a crazy cat lady who "doesn't realize how unfulfilled" her life is. But since ex had a kid, they turn their ire to OP. Depending on their religion, they may not even recognize him as officially divorced in the eyes of their beliefs, more entertaining the idea of his divorce at surface level but not truly embracing it as legitimate. If his ex hadn't tried to get him back, they probably would have continued faking support for OP. I know in the Catholic church, there is a whole process for getting divorced and having your new relationship validated. My mother and her husband are Catholic, and they took a sabbatical from their church bc the church didn't want to recognize their marriage, saying they were both still married in the eyes of the church to their exes. Even though by then her and my dad had been divorced for over 20 years, my dad remarried, and my stepdad and his ex had been divorced over a decade. They had to submit marraige certificates, dissolution of marriage paperwork, go in deep about why the marraiges failed, and it was just super invasive.
Geezus, "well, we were already caught anyways...MEH🤷♀️ OMFG...that is crazy, the fact that they just kept going after they were caught, doing ut at his son's bday. Don't get me started about that ex-wife!! I cannot believe she would have such disrespect for a CHILD, at their own bday party 🤯🤯 WTF, and if course, the mom could give 2 eff's. Disgusting
Story 3: if the sister is SOOOOO concerned that the kid has a masculine figure in its life then why doesn't her husband be that since they already have kids
Wait am I having a moment? I thought OP and his husband adopted the son together… not that OP adopted his husband and his ex wife’s son… that doesn’t make much sense.
3:02, mic drop, perfect! 🤌🏿 40:50 idk about blocking people who don't agree with you. That's how you create an echo chamber. If the ex told the fiancé it was his kid, who knows what she's telling others. In my head cannon, I'll say that before blocking people, he's making sure people have the full story.
Being jealous of a child is a HUGE red flag. Immediately gone , Immediately disinterested in ALL departments.
First story: What an absolute waste of a human being. Disgusting.
Story 2: That isn't blackmail. He didn't say "do something or I will tell your partner." He said, "I have this information and no matter what you do, I will tell your partner. Do with that what you will."
I really don't agree with this"don't look in your partner's phone" when they're cheating. Just gives you clarity about your own life, it's totally justified.
If they aren't cheating tho it can be a big break of trust and insecurity
If I'm not cheating, i want my S.O. to see that. The way to see that is looking through my phone. If you're in a relationship i don't see why he phone is off limits. If I'm letting you inside my body, then you can go through my phone. And it should be vice verse. If someone going through you're phone is something bad to you then maybe you're not ready for the commitment of a relationship @Rezzyeloizee
@@Rezzyeloizee i don't understand this logic. So I can let you inside my body to do the most intimate things but we can't go through each other's phone?? If I got nothing to hide from my partner and I want then to trust me, they're always welcome to go through my phone. To me if you don't want me to go through your phone (after beginning a serious relationship) that's a red flag and we don't need to be together. Those people maybe should stay single so their phone can be off limits to everyone. Idk... maybe that's just me though
100%. If you have justifiable suspension, it's fair game. What they are really saying is, "How dare you expose my lies". Screw them.
I find the phone privacy mentality ridiculous. You're in my bed, in my body, but a phone is where you draw the line?! I'll never understand the logic of being able to share your bodies but not your phones.
My husband and I have never been private about our phones. I can even answer calls and messages for him while he's busy, and vice versa. We know each other's passwords. That's true trust in a serious relationship.
From someone who grew up with parents who should've divorced year ago, it's worse to stay Together for the kid. Eventually one or both parents will just start resenting the kid and not just the other spouse after all the is the reason they have to stay together. Trust me is a million times worse to stay for the kid. "The kid deserves for you to try" that's one of the most ignorant comments I've heard in one of these videos 😊
I absolutely adore Dakota. So silly
38:36 - "in a Godly way". That's the thing. That's why they're on OPs case. They feel people who go child-free are a problem, selfish, and ungodly and it's your holy duty to procreate, even if you aren't in the position emotionally, financially, or mentally to be a parent. If the ex didn't want kids, they would have probably labeled her a crazy cat lady who "doesn't realize how unfulfilled" her life is. But since ex had a kid, they turn their ire to OP. Depending on their religion, they may not even recognize him as officially divorced in the eyes of their beliefs, more entertaining the idea of his divorce at surface level but not truly embracing it as legitimate. If his ex hadn't tried to get him back, they probably would have continued faking support for OP.
I know in the Catholic church, there is a whole process for getting divorced and having your new relationship validated. My mother and her husband are Catholic, and they took a sabbatical from their church bc the church didn't want to recognize their marriage, saying they were both still married in the eyes of the church to their exes. Even though by then her and my dad had been divorced for over 20 years, my dad remarried, and my stepdad and his ex had been divorced over a decade. They had to submit marraige certificates, dissolution of marriage paperwork, go in deep about why the marraiges failed, and it was just super invasive.
We need unhinged content with the worm queen and Dakota lol
Dakota and his hat game is BACK!
23:43 I sleep with my phone face down and with half of it under my pillow to hold it in place. Why? Pokémon Sleep, of course!
Adults jealous of kids is pretty common.
Harry Potter trivia! Yes!
Geezus, "well, we were already caught anyways...MEH🤷♀️
OMFG...that is crazy, the fact that they just kept going after they were caught, doing ut at his son's bday. Don't get me started about that ex-wife!! I cannot believe she would have such disrespect for a CHILD, at their own bday party 🤯🤯 WTF, and if course, the mom could give 2 eff's. Disgusting
This is the best duo
Last story, really sounds like ex is claiming her baby is OPs...why else is his family calling the child his? Unless they're totally bonkers🤷♀️
I love Dakota and Sophia. ❤️
Story 3: if the sister is SOOOOO concerned that the kid has a masculine figure in its life then why doesn't her husband be that since they already have kids
Story 2: Sometimes the trash takes itself out. And Dakota is my spirit animal. We both have state names.
Dakota sounds sooo familiar and i can NOT place it, its driving me crazy.
I think he sometimes sounds like Olaf from frozen 😅.
Riley was so QUIET this episode!!!
Wait am I having a moment? I thought OP and his husband adopted the son together… not that OP adopted his husband and his ex wife’s son… that doesn’t make much sense.
Love a parks and rec reference
Ey! The hot guy is back
It sounds like the husband has PPD and needs therapy. Men can also suffer from it. It's not as common, but statistics show it's not super rare.
You two actually look related, like cousins lol
why she dressed like Steve from Blues Clues
Who dat?
7,000,000,000th!!!
Just wait till they hit that number just because of you, slay 🎉
3rd 😂
2nd🎉
First!
3:02, mic drop, perfect! 🤌🏿
40:50 idk about blocking people who don't agree with you. That's how you create an echo chamber. If the ex told the fiancé it was his kid, who knows what she's telling others. In my head cannon, I'll say that before blocking people, he's making sure people have the full story.
cool stories but 90% of cases are women cheating on their partners, not men
Lmfao this is so ignorant it's not even funny
Cheating is gender neutral, any ah can do it.
Men cheat twice as often as woman do stop lying
Huh?