I make friends letting people talk about themselves and asking questions. But if I am completely honest, I dont feel I connect truly with any of my friends, only for some moments of course. But not truly. One thing that repeats a lot is that I demonstrate a lot of interest about the inner world of people and understanding them. But I always feel like people dont want to truly understand me or my inner world. Like they are not interested (and thats okay of course).
On the other hand I feel myself that there are plenty of people that just can't offer the depth of connection we long for, because it's unfamiliar to them. But the right people exist I know and they want to find similar people just like us. So there is always hope
I make friends letting people talk about themselves and asking questions.
But if I am completely honest, I dont feel I connect truly with any of my friends, only for some moments of course. But not truly.
One thing that repeats a lot is that I demonstrate a lot of interest about the inner world of people and understanding them. But I always feel like people dont want to truly understand me or my inner world. Like they are not interested (and thats okay of course).
I think the solution to that may lie somewhere along the lines of being authentic.
On the other hand I feel myself that there are plenty of people that just can't offer the depth of connection we long for, because it's unfamiliar to them. But the right people exist I know and they want to find similar people just like us. So there is always hope
I suck at making friends.