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ISFJs are brilliant and more diverse in character than intuitives and than this stereotype you aren't really giving them Justice humanity will be in a big problem if ISFJs are like this Real ISFJs are like zendaya , winona Ryder, drew Barrymore, talib nazim , alan Rickman ، lex Friedman, lian McGlicheist & robert de niro are shining examples who obviously being mistyped as INFJs , INTJs , INFPs It's sad that all these peope aren't typed as ISFJs and typed instead as intuitive because of the we always mistake by attaching success , intelligent, open mindedness , loving to adventure or invent with intuition ( Ne or Ni ) being in the top of someone's stack You know that people like Christopher nolan is an ISTJ but instead he is typed as INTJ because simply in the typing community people think that Si doms can't comprehend or understand complex abstract thing but they can't be more wrong . I'd say even people like elon musk is a sensor . Someone isn't intuitive isn't lack on open mindedness, creativity , understanding of abstract . And someone isn't sensor doesn't mean their completely clumsy can't cook , don't know how to fix a broken table , can't learn how to fight or play a sport , doesn't wanna focus even for a moment to be present and remembers others birthdays & his hometown streets We are all humans after all we are created with mind that have the capability to do both things . Cognitive function are a separate centers in the brain & isn't an excuse because if someone is deficient as described in the video he isn't healthy or not mature enough ISFJs are know to be proper & deep thinker . But one thing of being Si dom is that you have close & keen observation of you path in life so they along with INTJs have a high grasp of who they are & that's unlike INFJ who need alot of time to recognize who they are and this is key difference between ISFJs & INFJs

As an INFP, I just want to apologize for the ghosting thing. Speaking only for myself, I just get so overwhelmed by the stuff constantly going on in my own head on a daily basis thanks to high Fi and Ne but poor Si that what ends up happening is I need me-time to just let my feelings and ideas run their course until they fade so I have a sense of calm again before I try doing much more. Realistically, this doesn’t work too well because life’s responsibilities aren’t just going to stop and let you take a breather, and the stress that their neglect induces can also send INFPs into tunnel-visioned Te mode, which can make us incorrectly prioritize stuff in a panic-induced rush to get something - anything - done and over with. The incorrect prioritization just has to do with poor Te practice, which we all have a responsibility to work on rather than neglect. There’s also a more embarrassing reason why we don’t send texts when it’s someone we really care about, which is because we either spend a long time obsessing over making sure the words we use carry the exact meaning we intend to convey (INFPs think the people they love deserve the most authenticity they can give) and the Ne can make us go on several tangents about all the thoughts and feelings the situation triggers (we rarely have the time to sufficiently self-reflect so our brain sort of sneakily makes us do it in these moments when we should be doing something else). _Then_ we panic because we realize that our message is too long and it’s selfish of us to indulge in this way when we’re really we’re trying to make the OTHER person feel good, and then we spend all our time trying to condense our 3-paragraph essays into a short text that gets our point across (it’s moments like this where I wish I had better Ni). It’s actually kind of hilarious/scary when you notice it; I’ve had several instances where family and friends just happened to be on WhatsApp while I was drafting a message to them and could see I’ve spent an insane amount of time typing the message, worry, then end up texting me first to ask if everything’s okay. I realize this can come across as “cute”, but it’s really harmful to the people we like and can make us feel pathetic and horrid for letting things transpire that way. So sorry again for this. If we’re healthy, I can assure you we are aware of the problem and are trying to come up with solutions for it rather than telling people about the problem and expecting them to just “understand” or do the work for us. It’s complicated, but only because we live in our own heads so much.

omg it's Aloy

INTJs usually hate fake and drama.

We challenge each other. We both share Fe and Ti in our second and third slots. Only reversed. So I feel emotionally challenged. They speak my language on feelings. Even if I don't value it the same way. I'm only guessing it's similar for the INFJs, but wont speak for them. My mom is an INFJ, and I've met quit a few INFJs. I wanna say that they've influenced me to the point where people foolishly believe I'm not an ENTP. I'v been called an INFJ or an INTJ at times. But I'm as random, logical, pedantic, apathetic, confrontational as it gets. I'm just out here trying to be....ugh...nicer. More aware of others.

It's impressive how a person's eyes reflect their inner world. Your eyes are cleary INFJ eyes. Profound, analytic, a bit dreamy...

To me, INFP are beautiful chaos

What if the advice being given is what other people have said who were successful in those things, and they're just reiterating it in their own words? I've never been to Paris, but I'm 100% confident the Eiffel Tower is located there. I only know because I've heard and seen it from others' stories, books, and pictures. I get what you are saying, but I do think it's possible to have solid advice despite not living satisfactory results. Perhaps the results are not so obvious, but secret and personal. I do agree we should all be careful with who we trust and the advice we choose to adhere to, though.

Please make more videos like this

Thank you so much for upload this video. Infj's are the best too! You all have something indescripteble that make us feel attracted 😊

ok now tell us which one is better? enfp or entp for u😂

Advice for ENTP out there : watch this video 1.5 speed

What problem do you have with your hair, fiddling around with it all the time? Please come to the point faster. Had to increase the playback speed to 1.5. INFJ, Sigma

As an INFP, I don't tend to initiate small talk conversations or meet up for the sake of it. With people I know well, I assume they are busy, and that if they really need me, they'd visit me in person or contact me by email, which they do. When I do spend time with them I am fully present and try to make them feel emotionally safe so that they can talk about anything without feeling judged. The underlying assumption I have, and I suspect a lot of INFPs have, is that if you don't contact me then all is well with you, and you are just doing your own thing, but when you visit me, you will have my undivided attention because I care about your emotional truth. Of course, when I'm going to places where I don't know people, I can put on an act and be a bit more outgoing so I don't come off as aloof, but with people I know well, I want to go deep and talk about what troubles them and the goals they are struggling to reach, so small talk is very limited. I love to stumble around in the psychological wasteland with people, but I also recognise there are often just a few times in life when people need someone to sit in the darkness with them and tell them they are doing well. The rest of the time people can get by with more surface-level conversations about TV shows, etc. I'm there for you when the dark night of the soul is long and you just need someone to listen to you and validate your emotional truth, but I'm not the guy to sit around the office cooler and shoot the breeze with because things will get very deep quickly.

Fascinating, the issues of an infj and istp are very similar. So glad you started this channel. You have the very intense gaze of an istp VERY present.

INFP A here. Probably an ennegram 4w5 as well (from what I've heard)... I think INF's in general can keep secrets because we are loyal and empathetic...

Hello Anne,Find your videos very useful.Keep them coming whenever you are free.Blessings 💞

The majority of people are heavily invested in avoiding the truth. They circle the wagons, living on little superficial islands of blind faith that only skim the surface of reality and maintain the appearance of validity thanks to the groupthink of the hivemind. Small talk provides the hot air that keeps that all afloat. The INFJ is gifted with the ability of transcending the social milieu and enlarging their perspective as a way to fathom the truth. That scares most people to death and they sense it before the INFJ says a word. So they ridicule and avoid those people as if their life depends on it. Just a few words of truth could cause their fragile islands of reality to crumble into the abyss. The INFJ is innocent in their persuit of the truth so they assume the rejection is due to their poor social skills. But which side is actually more dysfunctional... the neurotypical or the neurodiverse? Now... When are you going to pick up that guitar and play us a song? Have you considered making a music video?

fuck yea annie the pannie fuck nihilism. i fucking hate nihilism. it fucks with my fi parent so hard it makes me feel so bad ;( and when I wake up in the morning I think dam nihilism really killing my vibe rn and it def not pawg you know and it messes with my si inferior - i really get stuck in that loop you know annie pannie? you know what I'm talking about? does this make sense to you? fist bump plz. #egohackingforlife #fucknihilism #everythinghaspurpose #DPAB

12:34 accurate. I always ask my sis what her opinion is on my outfits cuz she knows best.

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50 shades of grey.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣 The characters in the movie do seem like an INFJ and an ENTP now looking back on it! You just threw the INFJS are angels stereotype RIGHT OUT THE WINDOW! It's always the quiet girls...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I find your comment about the male INFPs and sexual tension interesting, and it makes sense to me (as an INFP). Personally, I've always craved deep connection with people and with life, but for a lot of my life I approached that in an immature way. Maybe this is related to an insecure attachment style form childhood in my case, but I've always felt the most comfortable connecting with someone when there is an underlying (or outright) sexual or romantic interest. And so as I've gotten older, I realized that I've been limiting my deep desire for connection by linking it too strongly with sexual/romantic interest. I've been getting so much better at being able to hold space for people, and open up with people without some expectation or hope/desire for a specific outcome, and that has actually allowed me to see and connect with people much more deeply. I wish I had learned this at a younger age lol. On the issue about taking time to reply, I'm guilty of this. Part of it for me is that I also want to give proper attention to the interaction, and so even texting/messaging taps into my social battery so to speak. I can only spend so much energy on social interactions regardless of whether it's in person or via text. Social anxiety only exacerbates this.

Hi Anne thank you for your thoughts on the INFP personality type. I can share my experience as an INFP male but not all INFP's, male or female, will share the same sentiment as me. Kind of obvious but just felt that it needed to be stated. Whenever someone described me I would described cute but aside from from our appearance what would be considered cute? I'm a male INFP so i never saw myself as a cute person nor have a I tried to act in a way that was cute to appeal to others yet I get described as cute nonetheless. Maybe it's our childlike wonder (in the form of positive ideas that could be) that we have every now and then but other than that I don't really see it so I was hoping you (or anyone else) could elaborate on that. I think Fi is always wanting to do the right thing and wanting to understand things on a deeper level so that might be why an INFJ is able to relate to an INFP where Fe wants to do the right thing for everyone and also wanting to deeper their understanding. Personally, as in Fi user the drive to do the right thing has always been in me and it's part of who I am so I was wondering about how Fe plays out for the INFJ. Going through life I noticed there are some people that do the right thing and others that don't so I'm curious how Fe could bring others together under the same roof if that's how Fe even functions. I think even i put INFJ's on a pedestal because we see you as more mature, more wise, and more "together" than an INFP where we see ourselves kind of childlike and all over the place where being childlike isn't really seen as being a respectable trait especially when you're an adult. I think INFP's generally don't see their strengths because their traits aren't extroverted that can be seen in the physical reality. Even I still have a hard time identifying what good qualities I have if there are any. I suppose another way of putting it is that the things INFP's bring to the table isn't valued necessarily in society (massive tangent I know but it's something I wanted to address, personally). I think when an INFP see's an INFJ they can see the order they have in their life and interpret that the INFJ has things going for them when an INFP usually doesn't have anything substantial going for them from their perspective (inferior Te at work but that at the end of the day it's just an excuse but still a struggle for INFP's until they can grow their Te through doing more in the physical reality). Furthermore, i think INFJ's have Ni so they have a future goal in mind which orients them towards a specific goal whereas INFP's have Ne where their thoughts are all over the place so there doesn't seem to be a future goal that an INFP can see and use as a directing post (made up word) to direct their life in a particular direction. INFP's are wanderers until maturation (i think). With the lack of contacting others I'm completely guilty of this. INFP's are generally in their own space doing their own thing and for me specifically if i don't respond immediately it's usually because I'm dealing with some emotional turmoil in that moment. I think what's good to know about INFP's is that that emotional state they're in can take front-and-center stage so that clouds their entire being in that moment. Or they just want to be alone. It usually almost always has to do with how the INFP is doing and rarely has to do with the other person. For ghosting people I think it can be quite apparent when the other person has wronged them in some way. I think INFP's usually don't know how to confront others if there is an issue in the relationship because they don't know how to resolve it in a respectful way towards others but more importantly respect for themselves. INFP's tend to have low self-worth (maybe it's just me) so the idea of doing something for me and treating myself fairly is something that I recently found out about and am working on. The other reason for ghosting is simply not wanting to have to go through the emotional battlefield that is dealing with relationship conflict but that is also under the pretense that they don't know how to properly and respectfully resolve conflicts. Thank you all for reaching out to us. It means a lot to the INFP and I'm sorry we aren't able to reciprocate that in a timely fashion. Know that it doesn't have anything to do with you and everything that has to do with what we're dealing with in that moment.

I am an INFP and take a long time to answer messages due to obsessing about wanting to word it exactly the right way, so that it gets the message out authentically and without being misinterpreted or causing hurt feelings. I have also had messages go unread for three weeks because of being so introverted that I don't get many messages and forget to look at some of my accounts.

Yes apparently because of Fi critic or polar is the other term.

Bedankt voor het delen van je ervaring. In Frankrijk is thuisonderwijs nu erg ingewikkeld en in de meeste gevallen verboden.

Would be nice to know how many enfps you are relating to, how mature they are and how mature you yourself feel

Who's behind the camera threatening you? >_< It's good advice and good advice always bears repeating.

I saw the anxiety spike as you started to talk about social anxiety. As someone who struggles with anxiety and gets panic attacks AND is super camera shy... well I feel for you. Anxiety is rough sometimes but you finished the video anyway. Exposure therapy in a way

I just kind of stumbled onto this while watching some infp related comfort vids to wind down for bed and I thought it was both very sweet and also accurate as to my experiences for the most part. One thing I will say from the other side, I have had a few friendships with female infjs that were very close for a while and then fell apart probably directly as a result of romantic tensions. However, I did get to experience closeness with a female infj without the risk of that once and it was great. She was my boss (and I feel that proper ethics and keeping work and personal life separate are important) in a non profit project building compost sites for community gardens and we made such a good work team between her ability to plan and my ability to brainstorm, along with some social skill aspects where we compensated for each others weaknesses. I ran into her a week ago after it having been over a year since our project was complete and we parted ways and I did not express it in the moment but it made my entire week when she invited me to come visit her at the library (which she is working at doing a social work role because our city is in a bit of a homelessness crisis atm). Anyway you seem like a real sweetheart, keep making videos, I see why the infp guys like you lol.

I am an Infj male, I really wonder how can you trust entp person ? you said they have masks how can be sure really what they are thinking ? Maybe they use mask on relationship who knows.

As another INFJ I found it amusing that I also have posted the same exact quote on my social media and I'm selective about what I put too.

This was a great perspective!! Thank you for sharing! I am pretty sure I'm INFP! It takes me longer to reply to texts and messages because I too need to find the right moment where I can reply with my full attention. I like having extra time to think about the reply. I can't stand "half assing" anything and need to give it my all in everything I do.. that includes replies, lol! I'll reply in the same day, just not immediately! As for initiation, I'm horrible at that and I really appreciate it when others do it! Especially when I don't really know them very well or don't feel reassured that I'm not annoying them. I try to reach out randomly but it doesn't come naturally for me. I have a friend that's.. maybe INTP? Or IS.. she never initiates things so I happily reach out from time to time. More so when I know she is going through things.

Insightful information on these Jungian and MBTI types! I stumbled upon your channel through the RUclips algorithm today. My MBTI channel does the same. Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟

I’m an INFP and I loved this video 🫶 (and I hope this is proof that more mature infps do initiate contact haha!)the pedestal thing is true…but at least in my experience, not in the way you think haha. I never think infjs have everything figured out in the earthly realm but rather as you perfectly pointed out that you “live our values” and to us that’s very rare. Like Aglaya, INFP, said in The Idiot (Dostoevsky) to prince Myshkin (INFJ) “there’s no one here who’s worth of your intelligence or your heart! You’re more honest than all of them!…” it’s quite true. What I love the most about infjs is that they are both able to understand us and understand the world simultaneously and it’s incredibly rare for us to be able to truly communicate with the world. Fi makes it hard for us to say what we want and to make the impact we visualize but infjs are like day-to-day translators imo. It’s like they speak both languages. About the ‘not initiating contact’ thing, it’s pretty true but it’s usually totally unrelated to what Fe users think happens. Most of the time the reason we don’t answer quickly it’s because we are organizing our Fi feelings and our Ne goes haywire trying to figure out what is likely to happen afterwards. (That’s one of the reasons we use lots of emojis because maybe people can get the wrong impression from mere words??) but believe me unless we know you incredibly well most of the time we won’t even think about the Fe implications of a thing. ❤️

hi, thanks for making your videos. sorry for not comenting on the content of this video concretly. but i appreciate your expression about the isfj. im curious if you looked into enneagram and found which type you are. i would have an idea but im not sure enough to say it.

16:03 but don't you think that's sweeping it under the rug? Plus . Don't you think the ISFJ needs to be challenged with honest truth? Like you mentioned about homeschooling incident with your ISFJ dad?

13:25 does a similar Fi/Fe arrangement make you the same?

1st video.On Time. Needed. Helped. Gut says you speak truth. If not I got similar biases / ISFJ experiences.

Lol watching INFJ’s and INTJs act catty towards each other is a top tier source of entertainment for me.

Valid. I feel very similar with INTJ’s

7:10 tru lol. Yeah we just gotta spit those ideas out to see which ones are worth it. Good vid.

I have always been curious about INFJ's and have only known one briefly. It is one of the few types that can even understand what I am saying. Most people look at me like I am an Alien, speaking a mysterious language. I think INTJ and INFJ kind of share that Alien aura, not sure there are similarities other than that though.

No we don't fake it it's just hard to be declined and not free really really hard

I think you are 😋

Too much rumbling! Just go to the point

Thank you Anne for sharing. Whilst I feel the MBTI doesn’t have a great test / retest validity （I can almost anticipate the type score based on the questions after a number of attempts), I’ve done the test and come out as INTJ, but more often (and under more formal conditions; E.g., psychologist running the test) I come out scoring as a fairly strong INFJ. The extreme N was even concerning to one practitioner who was concerned about how I may fit in socially, though I figure these archetypes might have some parallel in ASD at the more extreme end, but that’s a guess. Your video is very insightful while at the same time conveyed a healthy dose of respectful honesty - well done for that. 🙂